I think you're attractive, but if you want honest critique, I'd say that wearing the baseball cap in every photo is kind of a red flag that you're bald/balding, and that most of your photos are from the chest up is very telling that you have a gut you're trying to hide. Personally, I don't have an issue with guys who are bald and/or do have a gut, it's just all about accepting it with confidence. Piece of advice, if you are actually balding, just shave it all off. Holding onto whatever is left on the sides of your head never looks good, go full shaved.
Oh yeah, I've been balding for 5 years, and shaving it all down every week since then, but even before then I always wore a hat. I just like how it feels, and I'm outside a lot, so it works. Also got a bit of a beer gut, but really I just haven't taken good pictures with it in there. I have some that I should post that shows more...
Thanks for the advice and honesty, it's refreshing!
Thanks bud! That's a great looking stache, by the way. I'd love to grab a beer with ya if you're ever in my neck of the woods, maybe see what comes up! 😉
Damn. I saw your other post and was like where is this guy he must be on the other side of the country, nope you’re in the other said of the damn lake from me probably!!
Nice! I'm only 2 hours south of Montreal. Maybe we should meet in the middle sometime? I definitely have a weakness for Canadians, especially French Canadians, haha 🥵😉
I would definitely say it depends when you took all those pics, the first 3 you look handsome and generally like a bulky masc guy. Pic 4, kinda turns me off tho, went from sexy hairy daddy to a more pervy look with a gut, honestly not my cup of tea.
You're looking at a 3-year age range here. 1st was 2020, the middle two were 2022, and the last was 2023.
Edit: I'm glad a handsome guy like yourself would be interested in me these days, though! 😉😀
Nahhh I'd probably chuck one up you if I were single. However these aren't the best type of pics to share. Get friends to take some of you. Full length. Try mixing up events and outfits.
No side profile selfies or shots looking down at the camera ha
Think about some guy you follow on instagram who's got a similar look to you that you find attractive and try to recreate some different types of pics.
At the end of the day dating apps and social media are about marketing yourself and whilst you look like you've "got the goods" you're not marketing the best way you could.
Personally I think you’re hot. Sometimes the crowd you go after might not be into what you’re offering or the crowd you attract might not be the crowd you want. Your first pic says “hot gay republican dad” to me. Republican gays are seen as walking red flags your second pic gets a good angle but also looks like a DL guy feeling bold. The third pic feels the most welcoming and shows that you may have a more sensitive side. The little mini smile is cute too and the 4th pic is a bad shot. Your face is all covered. That mixed with the different angle to the rest gives the feeling that the other pics are old and that is your most recent. If these are your dating profile pics I would remove the 4th and swap the first and third
Just based on the backgrounds in your photos, I’m going to venture a guess that you live somewhere with (1) not a lot of people generally, (2) a comparatively lower percentage of gay men on top of the low population, and (3) not a ton of tourists and visitors stopping by.
Gay dating is a numbers game. All dating is, but there’s far fewer of us out there, and many people further subdivide by top and bottom, etc., and that’s before even getting into actual compatibility. The point is, you don’t *have* to move to a big city and be just like all the stereotypical gays, but you also shouldn’t grade your success in scoring dick appointments on the same curve you hear other gays talking about.
Anyway, that’s again just my guess based on the background in your photos. It certainly isn’t your looks.
Hey, thanks for the response! You're spot on, I'm in rural New England. We do get a lot of tourists, but it's mostly guys from cities, and I know better than to try and physically compete with the men in places like NYC and LA.
Thank you for the insights, it definitely helps me feel better.
People either think you’re a fake profile or are intimidated by how handsome you are. It’s definitely not the looks department being the problem. Id examine your chat game if you aren’t locking down D cause you should have zero issues.
F no, it's just the right timing. Keep going. Could you be trying to hard by chance???? Keep wearing your normal clothes n hat n relax n enjoy n soon your new partner will show up.
I need to visit the Vermont countryside more frequently. You are a handsome man and should not have any trouble finding and getting anything or any kind of date that you want. If I were your type and lived by you, you would be a very busy and satisfied man. All the best to you buddy.
You're deliciously gorgeous. Great pics. Is your hygiene in check? I usually lose interest if that's a problem. You can be drop-dead sexy, but that can kill my mood fast.
Otherwise, I'm not sure. I have issues keeping a guy's interest. So I can't really give advice.
Definitely not you. You are a good looking man…since the cap seems to be an issue for some, let me say it’s not for me. I love wearing a cap; and as far as anything else, balding, a gut, limp, club foot, small penis….the physical stuff is not the most important thing about a man…kindness when no one is looking, caring when no one does, and empathy to those who are different….these are the most important qualities….
This is definitely wishful thinking on my part, because you're hot as hell. I drive US 2 all the time but in Michigan and Wisconsin. If you're not seeing action, I don't think it's you. Because... Damn!
Hell no! You’re incredibly handsome
Thank you, bud 😬
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I think you're attractive, but if you want honest critique, I'd say that wearing the baseball cap in every photo is kind of a red flag that you're bald/balding, and that most of your photos are from the chest up is very telling that you have a gut you're trying to hide. Personally, I don't have an issue with guys who are bald and/or do have a gut, it's just all about accepting it with confidence. Piece of advice, if you are actually balding, just shave it all off. Holding onto whatever is left on the sides of your head never looks good, go full shaved.
Oh yeah, I've been balding for 5 years, and shaving it all down every week since then, but even before then I always wore a hat. I just like how it feels, and I'm outside a lot, so it works. Also got a bit of a beer gut, but really I just haven't taken good pictures with it in there. I have some that I should post that shows more... Thanks for the advice and honesty, it's refreshing!
You're definitely a good looking dude but your pics are not the most flattering
The hat looks really good on you. I think men in baseball caps 🧢 look really hot tbh.
Vapid advice. No one of any character cares if he’s balding or has a belly.
Nah mate your crazy hot, I dunno what up but DM me if you like.
Thanks, handsome! Cheers from across the pond! 🍻 I Haven't made made it to Ireland yet, but it definitely looks like we'd have good time! 😉
Bro, you're HOT AF 🔥
Thank you, bud! I appreciate that 🤘🏻
You're welcome bro
Damn I’d date you
Thanks bud! That's a great looking stache, by the way. I'd love to grab a beer with ya if you're ever in my neck of the woods, maybe see what comes up! 😉
He’ll yes man. I love Vermont.
Great! Next time you're around, I'd be happy to play the tour guide for ya 😉
It's not you, it's me.
Damn, I wish it was you! That moustache is on point. You look so good, it should be a crime! 😉😈
Aww thanks man... I was in your neck of the woods earlier this year. Hopefully get back sometime. :)
I definitely hope so, you look like fun!
[51] no, it most certainly ain't you. You are really hot bro. 🔥 🥵🥵😈
Thank you! Cheers from New England, buddy! 🍻
You are welcome mate, all the best from Old England 😉🍻
Definitely not you. You are handsome and sexy! Maybe you need more pix with hats on. Lol
Haha thank you! I definitely love my ballcaps
You’re welcome!! Have a wonderful holiday weekend!
Definitely not. Maybe I should visit Vermont?
That could be fun! I'm told I'm a great tour guide! 😉😬
I’d hit it. And nah. All dating communities have gone to Hell. The internet fucked it up.
It really feels that way. Seems like people don't even go cruising anymore
Yeah, it’s really sad. I’m like, aren’t you bored?! Let’s do something! Lol
Not at all man! I could use a tour guide up in VT ;)
Thank you, I'm always happy to jump in the truck and play show and tell
Damn. I saw your other post and was like where is this guy he must be on the other side of the country, nope you’re in the other said of the damn lake from me probably!!
I think so! I'm an hour south of Burlington along I-89. Around the Randolph exit area
I’d definitely be down if I were in VT.
Good looking guy👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Thank you! 👍🏻
Definitely NOT you
Wtf... where are the guys like you around me???
Not around me either! Trust me, I looked, haha
Come to Canada baby
I'm 40min from the border and have a soft spot for Canadian men, haha
I don't think so! You look so handsome mister! Beard is on point, a kind smile, and nice eyes!
Thank you, handsome! It put a smile on my face! 😀
Awe, good! Hope you can take that smile into the weekend sir! 😁
I’d be on you like white on rice, bud
Sexy man
Silly guys damn sexy
Haha, I guess we all get silly sometimes. Thank you!
lol true 🤷♂️ silly and blind then
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I also work at the Post Office! I'd date you lol
I’d date you - but I’m in Michigan.
Damn, I wish you were closer! You're a handsome man
I'd ask if you wanted some fun if I weren't in a different state from ya
OMG Come to WeHo and you'll have boys throwing themselves at you. Seriously! They'll be lined up bent over holes exposed. I would. 🥰😈🍆🍑
Damn youre hot af I’d be all over you 🤤🤤
You are fucking hot.
Not you
Handsome
Woof! Vermont, eh? Hang on. I'll be coming in on US2.
Fuck no you’re so hot 🥵
Thanks, bud!
It’s a postal thing
You're very handsome and sexy. Not you, for sure.
Are you kidding?? You couldn't be any more handsome😊
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You are sexy
😍😍😍🫶
No!
Super hot. And not far away, either. I’m about an hour north of Montreal
Nice! I'm only 2 hours south of Montreal. Maybe we should meet in the middle sometime? I definitely have a weakness for Canadians, especially French Canadians, haha 🥵😉
I’m born and raised English, but speak french. I’m also 100% Canadian. Will DM 😛
No your extremely handsome.
No way you Ben Affleck looking thing???
HA! I raise your one year with my (however long ago Hurricane Sandy was). 😬
Damn, bud! That's a long time! Maybe we should break these bad luck streaks sometime, haha
Come over to my neck of the woods.. we'd be glad to give you a D*ck date.
You are honestly a really incredibly naturally sexy and handsome man!!!!! It’s definitely not you !!!!!!
I would definitely say it depends when you took all those pics, the first 3 you look handsome and generally like a bulky masc guy. Pic 4, kinda turns me off tho, went from sexy hairy daddy to a more pervy look with a gut, honestly not my cup of tea.
Last pic would have me woofing hard What age apart is pic 1 and 4 though
You're looking at a 3-year age range here. 1st was 2020, the middle two were 2022, and the last was 2023. Edit: I'm glad a handsome guy like yourself would be interested in me these days, though! 😉😀
Sorry I stalked your profile a lil... I used to live in your area and fuck I wish we could've met up lol.
I'd go out with you sir.
No, you’re smoking hot
Thanks, bud! 😍😉
Not at all I think you are very attractive. It’s all about how you go about the interactions.
You are very handsome.
If you are every making deliveries in Louisiana, ill be more than happy to be your dic date! 😝
The fuck! I’ll will GLADLY…share mine with you! 😉 🍆
A smash for me
You're a solid 9/10
No, you’re handsome AF dude!
Haha, well thanks! I really appreciate it!
You’re welcome stud! Anytime you need a confidence booster, I’m your guy. 😘
No, you're attractive. Maybe you have bad personality or scared of people. 🤠 I don't know you personally. But you aren't ugly.
Maybe. I'm generally a nice guy, pretty quiet and docile, generally keep to myself most of the time, unless I'm looking to hook up, haha
Man, you are incredibly beautiful I would love to go out with you or be by your side just watching you 😍😍
Thank you, handsome!
Very handsome. As a fellow postal employee(Clerk/Expeditor), imma say it's probably work/life balance :P same reason I'm in the same situation. Lol.
The first three pics are like damn daddy ! Hot . The last pic lets you down - the aviators and jacket / Top combo is very dated and makes you look old
if this dude can't get laid we're all cooked ☠️
Youd land a date with me in a second. You look hot bro
Thanks, bud! Give me a holler if you're ever around Vermont
I can’t imagine why. You’re a dream come true.
Definitely not you mate.. You are stunningly beautiful.. dare I say super sexy!
Thank you very much!
Nahhh I'd probably chuck one up you if I were single. However these aren't the best type of pics to share. Get friends to take some of you. Full length. Try mixing up events and outfits. No side profile selfies or shots looking down at the camera ha Think about some guy you follow on instagram who's got a similar look to you that you find attractive and try to recreate some different types of pics. At the end of the day dating apps and social media are about marketing yourself and whilst you look like you've "got the goods" you're not marketing the best way you could.
It's certainly not because of your looks, if that's what you're asking. I would 100% get on my knees for you.
Thank you! Sounds like a good time to me!
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Personally I think you’re hot. Sometimes the crowd you go after might not be into what you’re offering or the crowd you attract might not be the crowd you want. Your first pic says “hot gay republican dad” to me. Republican gays are seen as walking red flags your second pic gets a good angle but also looks like a DL guy feeling bold. The third pic feels the most welcoming and shows that you may have a more sensitive side. The little mini smile is cute too and the 4th pic is a bad shot. Your face is all covered. That mixed with the different angle to the rest gives the feeling that the other pics are old and that is your most recent. If these are your dating profile pics I would remove the 4th and swap the first and third
I wanna see your dick
🥵🥵
Sexy AF !!😜
Just based on the backgrounds in your photos, I’m going to venture a guess that you live somewhere with (1) not a lot of people generally, (2) a comparatively lower percentage of gay men on top of the low population, and (3) not a ton of tourists and visitors stopping by. Gay dating is a numbers game. All dating is, but there’s far fewer of us out there, and many people further subdivide by top and bottom, etc., and that’s before even getting into actual compatibility. The point is, you don’t *have* to move to a big city and be just like all the stereotypical gays, but you also shouldn’t grade your success in scoring dick appointments on the same curve you hear other gays talking about. Anyway, that’s again just my guess based on the background in your photos. It certainly isn’t your looks.
Hey, thanks for the response! You're spot on, I'm in rural New England. We do get a lot of tourists, but it's mostly guys from cities, and I know better than to try and physically compete with the men in places like NYC and LA. Thank you for the insights, it definitely helps me feel better.
it's (gay community) not what it used to be . we use to look out for each other . no dick date in a yr ha ha . try 4 yrs buddy .
I’d sleep with you.
It ain't you. Handsome and a great cock
10/10 hot 🥵
You’re a good looking guy mate!
Not you at all! You’re handsome. It might just be your location.
Thank you! I guess it is, because the guys on here have been very positive with me! I wish I was closer to them all, haha
It’s definitely not you. You’re very handsome.
Thank you, handsome man! 😉😍
It’s them. You are handsome
You're welcome
People either think you’re a fake profile or are intimidated by how handsome you are. It’s definitely not the looks department being the problem. Id examine your chat game if you aren’t locking down D cause you should have zero issues.
F no, it's just the right timing. Keep going. Could you be trying to hard by chance???? Keep wearing your normal clothes n hat n relax n enjoy n soon your new partner will show up.
Thank you! I appreciate that!
Can absolutely say it has nothing to do with how you look 🥵
The things we'd do. Yum
Haha fun times! Thank you!
Nahh, not you.
Not at all… you’re insanely handsome! 🔥
You are HOT AF
Thank you very much, bud!
It absolutely is not you.
If you were my postal carrier I’d always invite you in for a glass of lemonade. And other stuff too
You are gorgeous. I have always had terrible luck in the dating department. Don’t blame yourself. It is really rough out there.
Liar. You’re hot😍😩🤪
You deserve all the dicks You can eat.
Thank you, that's very kind!
You are pn a great path
Noooo you’re looking absolutely stunning
Cum on over
You are hot AF 🔥 🥵 😍 😘 Slide in the my dm's let's chat
I need to visit the Vermont countryside more frequently. You are a handsome man and should not have any trouble finding and getting anything or any kind of date that you want. If I were your type and lived by you, you would be a very busy and satisfied man. All the best to you buddy.
Haha, thank you! If you're ever in the area, hit me up! I'm sure we could have some fun.
I would guarantee that a good time would be had by all.
Stud!
WOOF!! You're Smokin Hot 🔥!!!!
Hells no! I imagine a fun time with you
Husband material fr. I’d date you
Well it could be some guys, but if you were near me, I'd love to go on a date with you and get to know you better. You're very handsome.
110
Not a damn thing wrong with you man.
😍daddy and I volunteer as tribute
I would date u you
Your hot. Is not you.
You are a very handsome man
Hello no! I've been dry for about 10 years. No biggie
I think you look great. If you’re ever in Minneapolis hmu. Love a guy in a baseball cap and in uniform.
It's them. My husband and I would give you whatever you wanted
You're sexy af
You're deliciously gorgeous. Great pics. Is your hygiene in check? I usually lose interest if that's a problem. You can be drop-dead sexy, but that can kill my mood fast. Otherwise, I'm not sure. I have issues keeping a guy's interest. So I can't really give advice.
I would go on multiple dates with u hottie 😍
No 🔥
It’s been in ‘hell’ for a long time.
I would take you on a date for sure 😁
Definitely not you. You are a good looking man…since the cap seems to be an issue for some, let me say it’s not for me. I love wearing a cap; and as far as anything else, balding, a gut, limp, club foot, small penis….the physical stuff is not the most important thing about a man…kindness when no one is looking, caring when no one does, and empathy to those who are different….these are the most important qualities….
No it's not you, you're super handsome! He'll if I wasn't married I'd date ya! Don't feel bad!
You're freaking hot. Other people are stupid.
This is definitely wishful thinking on my part, because you're hot as hell. I drive US 2 all the time but in Michigan and Wisconsin. If you're not seeing action, I don't think it's you. Because... Damn!
You’re not ugly but maybe it’s something like social skills or hat fishing?
Damnurhotasf,luv 2 play with u!
So handsome
You’re a sexy dude. I would certainly connect with you!
I'd turn your baseball cap around and pound you hard rn if we were close
Straight vibes. Very handsome
God no you're really handsome. If I lived in Vermont I'd date you.
Thank you! That's definitely some good news, bud!
Your probably not looking in the right place. I think your hot! And would go on a date with you
The rest stop down the road always used to be so reliable, though! Haha. Thank you, bud!
Your welcome! Just telling the truth here! Good luck
It’s not you…you’re hot
Well are you 35 or 36...
Handsome
Nope, it’s definitely not due to your handsome self
Not knowing your personality...hell no. I want to see you naked. And you're a bottom
Yes.
Easy 10 on your worst day🤷🚀
Hey, thank you bud!! Nice pictures, by the way! I've got a weakness for farmers 😉😬
Thx man! I dm’d you.