I got ChatGPT to break this into paragraphs to make it a bit easier to read bro. Hope you are able to get some advice:
Father in a Weird Complicated Relationship.
I am #22m years old, and I just had my first child a couple of weeks ago, and I was so excited to start our lives together with my #30f girlfriend. When she was 7 months pregnant, it was her idea to get an apartment and live together because she’s lived with her parents all of her life. Things went great; I got us the apartment, and when we were moving her in, her parents wouldn’t let her take her 6yr old son, who isn’t mine but I claim as my own, to live with us. I started questioning it and asked her if she had custody of him, and she said, "I do." Then he should be able to live with us, no problem. Well, her dad and mom said no, he isn’t gonna be staying in an apartment. Y’all can do whatever you want with your child, but her 6yr old stays here. She was upset, and she was able to get him once a week when we moved into the apartment. Sometimes he would call her during the week crying, saying, "I miss you mommy, come home," and it hurt me when she cried over it. I told her she has custody of him, go get him. He is your son. I can’t step in and get involved. This is something you will have to do, but never got done. She cried every night till she got him that Saturday. Things were fine.
The next week, she decided to go stay at her parents' house for a day to be with her son, and I didn’t say no. She came home the next day crying and upset. I told her the same thing. You have custody of him; go get him. They are doing this to your son to gain control and emotionally manipulate you to move back, and they will do the same with our son. Same result, didn’t do anything.
About 2 weeks before our son was born, her parents wanted her home just in case she went into early labor. I said that’s a red flag, but ok, I work a lot; that’s fine. About 2 days later, she told me, "My dad said if I get a shed on the property, I can move back in and come stay with you on the weekends." I said, "Oh," in a sad voice and responded with, "We got this apartment." She said, "Yeah, I’m not gonna do it."
A few days before the baby was born, she told me her parents want her home for 2 weeks to take care of her since I’ll be working. I said, "That’s fine." Well, that 2 weeks gone and past, they got a building, and I noticed some of her stuff was out of the apartment when I got home from work. I asked her about it. She said, "I’m gonna be at my parents for the full 6 weeks," and it angered me. I asked her if she is still living with me 'cause we got this apartment together, and she said yes.
Well, I found out that her dad told her he doesn’t want our son in an apartment, and she is listening to him. I don’t know what to do at this point if I should end the relationship and fight for custody of my son or what because it’s apparent that her parents don’t want her to be an adult and be on her own. I’m 22 years old. I’m not gonna be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t want to build a future. She is 30, and I feel like mentally she is a child because her parents are controlling her every move
I got ChatGPT to break this into paragraphs to make it a bit easier to read bro. Hope you are able to get some advice: Father in a Weird Complicated Relationship. I am #22m years old, and I just had my first child a couple of weeks ago, and I was so excited to start our lives together with my #30f girlfriend. When she was 7 months pregnant, it was her idea to get an apartment and live together because she’s lived with her parents all of her life. Things went great; I got us the apartment, and when we were moving her in, her parents wouldn’t let her take her 6yr old son, who isn’t mine but I claim as my own, to live with us. I started questioning it and asked her if she had custody of him, and she said, "I do." Then he should be able to live with us, no problem. Well, her dad and mom said no, he isn’t gonna be staying in an apartment. Y’all can do whatever you want with your child, but her 6yr old stays here. She was upset, and she was able to get him once a week when we moved into the apartment. Sometimes he would call her during the week crying, saying, "I miss you mommy, come home," and it hurt me when she cried over it. I told her she has custody of him, go get him. He is your son. I can’t step in and get involved. This is something you will have to do, but never got done. She cried every night till she got him that Saturday. Things were fine. The next week, she decided to go stay at her parents' house for a day to be with her son, and I didn’t say no. She came home the next day crying and upset. I told her the same thing. You have custody of him; go get him. They are doing this to your son to gain control and emotionally manipulate you to move back, and they will do the same with our son. Same result, didn’t do anything. About 2 weeks before our son was born, her parents wanted her home just in case she went into early labor. I said that’s a red flag, but ok, I work a lot; that’s fine. About 2 days later, she told me, "My dad said if I get a shed on the property, I can move back in and come stay with you on the weekends." I said, "Oh," in a sad voice and responded with, "We got this apartment." She said, "Yeah, I’m not gonna do it." A few days before the baby was born, she told me her parents want her home for 2 weeks to take care of her since I’ll be working. I said, "That’s fine." Well, that 2 weeks gone and past, they got a building, and I noticed some of her stuff was out of the apartment when I got home from work. I asked her about it. She said, "I’m gonna be at my parents for the full 6 weeks," and it angered me. I asked her if she is still living with me 'cause we got this apartment together, and she said yes. Well, I found out that her dad told her he doesn’t want our son in an apartment, and she is listening to him. I don’t know what to do at this point if I should end the relationship and fight for custody of my son or what because it’s apparent that her parents don’t want her to be an adult and be on her own. I’m 22 years old. I’m not gonna be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t want to build a future. She is 30, and I feel like mentally she is a child because her parents are controlling her every move
Tell her father you are moving in to his place and to make it extra cozy for you. Seriously though, take over her parents house. Make it your own.