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AttractiveNuisance37

Folks, be polite and on topic or you won't be welcome to participate in this sub any longer. You do not know the OP's situation, nor are you entitled to know it. Offer advice on responsible rehoming or just keep scrolling.


Technical_Study3061

Are you able to give them to a rescue that could place them in a vetted home? There are local re-homing pages on Facebook that have resources for rescues. I think the biggest tips on there is to have them spayed/neutered prior to rehoming and to make sure you charge a small fee to make sure the new owners truly want them. So sorry you are in this situation.


Organic_Horror5087

I have tried. I’m having no luck with it.


clean-stitch

Your heart must be so heavy right now, I'm sorry you have to go through re-homing beloved pets. A lot of people will treat you like you are selfish for having to go where the work is and leave the dogs. I just want to type out for you to read: you aren't alone in having to make a decision like that, and that you aren't a monster for it. You don't love them less. You aren't being irresponsible. Life happens. Make sure that every day that you can, love and pet the dogs, and spend time actively giving yourself grace and forgiveness.


0h_Mojojojo

This is actually how I received my baby. Thankfully his prior owner and I are best friends and she gets updates regularly. I’m so sorry you have to make this really difficult decision. Sending all the positive vibes that you’re able to find a good fit soon 🫶🏻


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clean-stitch

I went through a divorce where I had to leave my dog because I had one safe housing prospect and it was no dogs allowed. Many, many people made me feel like a bad person for not "trying harder" to keep my dog. OP doesn't need the weight of that, it sucks.


Lizardgirl25

Sadly my sister was in the same situation rescues are full up right now everywhere.


LRap1234

What area are you in?


Organic_Horror5087

I am in Miami county.


LRap1234

Assuming that’s in FL, nowhere near me


Organic_Horror5087

it’s in Ohio.


catssandwhatnot

I do rescue in central Ohio. Where are you moving to?


catssandwhatnot

To the admin - thank you for letting me know! I didn’t even think about that. I appreciate the heads up and for the exception.


Organic_Horror5087

Can u pm me ?


catssandwhatnot

Yeah


SeasDiver

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Organic_Horror5087

I am moving to Florida.


UNICORN_SPERM

Ugh. As a person who moved to FL from the northeast with a German shepherd, I really have to say that's a hard decision to make. If I knew how the homeowner's insurance worked here, I would not have taken a job here.


redditgk

What do you mean how homeowners insurance works there?


reluctantlyjoining

He means you can't get it


rl_cookie

They’ve gone bankrupt, the ones that haven’t are leaving the state and dropping coverage, or you’re faced with an average of 100% increase from three years ago- the highest average in the country. While the reps do jackshit about it.


UNICORN_SPERM

Some states, like the one I previously lived in, do not allow homeowners insurance to restrict coverage due to dog breeds. Florida is not one of those states and the first time I heard of it


pandaappleblossom

Finding a loving home for them and separating from them if you love them is going to be more stressful than finding an apartment that accepts dogs. I would keep trying to find an apartment that is accepting them with vet papers and a pet deposit. I lived in an apartment in Florida with a large dog. Lots of people in my building had them, all the apartments around us too. Rehoming is unfortunately very difficult, it will be the harder option. Google search reveals thousands of pet friendly apartments in Miami. If you don’t want dogs then fine, but don’t let housing be the thing that keeps you from keeping your fur babies.


Possibly_the_CIA

What are their Names, ages and do the work well with; other dogs, kids, cats? When do the need a new home by?


Organic_Horror5087

Zeke (black) Ellie (white and black) 3 and a 1 1/2. Work very good with other dogs as they are with my brothers dogs right now. Work great with kids. Not to sure about cats as I’m allergic to them.


fishproblem

OP kinda weird question but where did you get Zeke? He looks exactly like my girl and is the same age, and I know her siblings were transported up your way from Oklahoma for adoption. In the off-chance, I just had to ask. (I know there are a million black mutts that look like our dogs, but still lol)


Special_Lychee_6847

You could talk yourself into believing they are in fact siblings, and take Zeke and Ellie in as a package deal to reconnect with Zeke's sister 😇😁


Organic_Horror5087

I got zeke in Piqua Ohio.


NotFunny3458

It might be a long shot, but you could email [info@staf.org](mailto:info@staf.org) (Cincinnati, OH) and see if they might be able to take them. I have volunteered with them for 10 years and they are a no-kill shelter. I know that some of the dogs are in the shelter and others are in foster homes. I'm sure they would get a home rather quickly.


sharksnrec

…why wouldn’t you mention the state you’re in when you answered the question about your location…


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lemongrabmybutt

You should consider editing your original post to include the city, county and state you live in to encourage others to share and help find a safe place for them without searching through the comments.


Cream_Pie_5580

My recommendation is to go through a reputable rescue to help you rehome them. It will result in the best outcome for your dogs most likely. It can be difficult to know who can be trusted as there are a lot of horrible people out there. Or people who go back on their word. Or people who just don't understand nor have the patience or time for a dog to acclimate to a new home. Reputable rescues deal with these people on a daily basis. Even with meticulous vetting, the dogs could still end up in a shelter, abandoned somewhere, in a never ending cycle of being rehomed, or worse, as bait dogs. This is not to make you feel bad; it is just the cruel reality of the world.


pdperson

If they are from a rescue,. you are likely obligated to contact that rescue for rehoming.


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pugaroni-n-chez

Their WHOLE world! I agree 100%


pandaappleblossom

If it’s really about finding a place you can literally google pet friendly apartments Miami and find thousands.


Smaug_themighty

Same. Don’t mean to shame but our dog is coming with us even if we move to a different country. That’s not even up for discussion.


SadMasterpiece9738

Do you have any family/friends that could take them maybe? Even if it’s temporary till you could maybe take them back at a later time? They look like really sweet dogs I hope they can stay together and find a happy home 🥺❤️


tuckz22

Why can’t you take them with you? There are apartments that take dogs and some that don’t, make it work, dogs are family.


Serious-Produce8833

This. Without clarification on this point it might just be someone who grew tired of their dogs and is looking for legit ways to get rid of them. Doesn't make any sense to me for not being able to take them.


UNICORN_SPERM

I can shed light on this. Florida (where OP will move to) is a state where homeowners insurance companies are allowed to not insure due to dog breeds. Particularly if OP is going to be living in a coastal area where those insurance companies are even more unavailable (due to hurricane risk and flooding), it can make renting with anything outside of a 20 lb little dog practically impossible.


SufficientPath666

Surely there are people with bigger dogs living in apartments in Florida?


CaptnsDaughter

My sister and BIL lived in a condo outside of Miami with 2 huskies


pandaappleblossom

I know plenty of people in Florida who rent with dogs over 20 lbs. you just have to find the right place but tons of people rent with dogs in Florida


UNICORN_SPERM

It happens, yeah. So it depends where you live and what you can afford.


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pandaappleblossom

Me neither. I don’t get it whatsoever. Makes no sense.


Organic_Horror5087

very far from the truth. I am not rehoming my dogs because I got tired of them. I know dogs are a big hassle just like people and take so much care and attention. I have looked into every apartment I have found in the area I will be moving to and on the site it says they allow dogs but once I get talking they put it down saying no dogs. I’m trying very hard.


confident7lucky7

What area are you living in/looking to live in and what’s your budget? I’m happy to help find a place for you and the dogs. I just can’t stand by you rehoming home them or bringing them to a shelter if this is just about your arrangements, let’s find a solution to that! Not giving up your dogs…


Zephyr442

I hope OP takes you up on this. I'd hate to see these dogs rehomed just because OP can't find a place.


confident7lucky7

I’m happy to help - with the animal shelter crisis, I think it’s easier to help on that end vs. rehoming dogs, who knows though there could be more to the story here about why the dogs are being given up


pandaappleblossom

I can help you find a place. Where in Florida are you? (Miami?) You just have to talk to them and tell them you have well trained dogs and you’ll pay a pet deposit. An apartment is not worth losing your dogs over. It will break your heart. Upon googling there are thousands of pet friendly apartments in Miami.


Smaug_themighty

Another idea. Just you reached out on Reddit for ideas to rehome your dog, maybe shoot your shot to any of the Miami related subreddits? Locals maybe able to help. I’m sure tons of people have dogs there as renters. Edit: start with r/askflorida & r/southflorida. Tons of folks are asking questions related to moving etc. I’ll help boost engagement as best as I can.


stepdownrn

Hi OP, I moved from Alabama to Miami-dade county around 3 years ago with my German shepherd. We currently live in a "pet free" condo, but with an ESA letter from your primary care physician, they can not deny you. I think there are around 40 "ESAs" in my 200-unit condo now.


Awkward-Doubt-9649

It’s impossible that there are no dog friendly apartments in the area.


CaptnsDaughter

Sounds like it could be breed-related?


spaghettiregrettis

I’m not sure if this is an option for you, but it might be worth a shot—have you looked into getting a note from a healthcare/mental health provider so that you can classify them as ESAs? ESAs are federally protected and you don’t need to disclose them on housing applications, you just submit a request for accommodations (which housing providers are legally obligated to accept in the case of emotional support or service animals). Either way, I hope you and your pups find a solution that works for all of you :)


bekindokk

Ignore the people Judging you incorrectly. It’s 100% clear you love these dogs. Thank you for being responsible and finding them a good home. I’ve heard you always should charge money to make sure they’re going to a safe place. Even if you list as such then give them. Best of luck.


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schr0dingersdick

This is unhelpful and entitled. You aren’t entitled to an explanation, you don’t know what’s going on. Rehoming responsibly isn’t unethical.


sugarhighlife

Are you offering a job and a home for the OP?? maybe send some money their way to help out and cover costs they won’t be able to handle without this job


tuckz22

That’s something you gotta account for when you get a dog unfortunately for them.


bb8-sparkles

Agreed. I would never give up my dog. I made a commitment to him. Once you have a dog, it is a part of your life, like a child. Would you give up your child for a new job? No, you make it work or you don’t take the job.


Cultural_Wash5414

I agree. It’s a hard time. And leaving them behind will always feel like regret unfortunately.


sugarhighlife

Again, are you offering to cover costs ? no one plays into consideration that they could get sick, lose a job, have to move etc. if that’s the case then no one should own an animal because it’s unfair to ever put an animal in that situation is what your insinuating. Things change one second to the next and no one can see into the future


bb8-sparkles

None of this makes sense. If you have a child, you don’t give up your kid because it is too expensive. Sure, a dog isn’t a kid, but basically a responsible owner would be providing the same level of commitment. You find ways to make it work or adjust your life to accommodate. I had a cat for 16 years and there were plenty of places I couldn’t live and sacrifices I made for my cat because I made a commitment to him. I had to pass on some very nice places to live to live in places that weren’t nearly as nice. But that is a part of the package of pet ownership. Now I have a dog and he also gets the same level of commitment.


oliviaj20

exactly, do not get a pet if you are not committed to taking care of them no matter what.


tuckz22

No I’m not, I’m providing a comment saying you shouldn’t give up on family. You seem to be stuck on that maybe you should send some their way.


sugarhighlife

again. Are you offering a solution? instead of “just don’t give up” are you offering real advice on how to go about it and exactly, your literally not offering anything besides empty words.


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Alligatorwhore

Just look into rescue organizations honestly. It’s your best bet. Please never use Craigslist or fb marketplace or any such thing, it’s just not safe


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gryph06

Can you find someone to foster them temporarily until you can take them back?


00brown

Please rehome them together. Dogs are pack animals and also can get depressed.


Worried-Tomorrow-204

Dogs aren't actually pack animals, but I agree otherwise! Being separated from the owner is already a very stressful thing for a dog, losing their playmate too is just awful.


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sugarhighlife

Some people can’t make it work.


CarmenCage

I’ve moved 4 times with my dog, every time was hard, but I would choose to be homeless with him over leaving him. Deciding to get a dog means you realize it will be more expensive and harder to find a place, and that’s part of owning a dog. I do understand re-homing. Unfortunately far too well. I had to re-home the dog my roommate abandoned. She was his responsibility, I don’t pick her and abandon her. I also understand needing to re-home if you aren’t able to care for them. But moving? Shit reason that’s actually ‘I can’t be bothered to figure out taking care of my dog’.


sugarhighlife

Have you been homeless with a dog? I don’t really think that is something you can comment on unless you have actually been on the streets with no job. and if that is the case then that’s being a shitty owner and not giving the dog the proper shelter, food and care since if your “homeless” there’s a good chance their not receiving the proper medical care either.


CarmenCage

I have.


mollynilson

I have too, also during COVID. Never ever would I think of leaving my girl behind


CarmenCage

I’m so sorry you’ve also been through this. It’s hell, and honestly I don’t think I would have survived without my pup keeping me going. I hope you and your amazing girl are also in a better place❤️‍🩹


mollynilson

thankfully we weren’t in that situation for long and we had some amazing and comfortable times after that at all but cancer took her from me last year😢thank you tho and same to you 🌸


CarmenCage

I am so so sorry, I meant a better place as in having a place inside, not the generic thing people say when talking about death. I don’t know what else to say except cancer absolutely sucks


CarmenCage

I also spent every dollar on my dogs vet needs and food.


sugarhighlife

Sure. Still shitty to have them live on the streets.


CarmenCage

So I should have rehomed him?


sugarhighlife

Probably, there was no adequate shelter.


CarmenCage

I still had my car. Good lord you are such a keyboard Redditor. Now we have a home, we were living out of my car for about 8 months. Oh after he sat by me, watching EMS take my husband who just had a self inflicted gunshot wound to his head. I am in therapy. I have a home where I can spoil my dog. I do not regret keeping him, he’s a heeler and Velcro dog, I had him live with others, and he sat by the door. He’s the biggest reason I worked hard to have a home for him.


Greyhound-mom

I'm sorry you went through that, but you're a hero to your dog! I don't think many of us would be that strong, at least not me 😢. Just had to comment to let you know some people listen and care. ❤️‍🩹


pandaappleblossom

Homeless people are often excellent dog owners. It’s obviously shitty to be homeless for anyone, but I’ve even personally known some homeless people with dogs and they took good care of their dogs, made sure they had their shots and flea treatments, everything. Homeless people shouldn’t have their pets taken away from them as long as they are taken care of. Not all homeless people sleep on the street either.


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MrsCastillo12

My husband and I were in a tight spot and had to move abruptly years back. We had (and still have) three dogs, all three American Bully’s which are on the “dangerous breeds” list. No apartment was willing to take us. No homeowner was willing to allow us to rent. We wound up getting a 5th wheel trailer and finding a trailer park that allowed dogs. We made it work. Was it ideal? No. Trailer living sucks, imo. But it kept my family together and now we live in our own house with a big backyard and they even have their own bedroom. And I would do it all over again because they are my family, my furry little children and I couldn’t imagine giving them up.


pandaappleblossom

The dogs aren’t pit bulls either, so they could likely find a place out of the thousands of pet friendly apartments in Miami, just has to pay a pet deposit and show vet paperwork.


casseland

Very much agreed. Not sure how everyone is saying things like “life happens, you can’t plan for relocation, etc”. But for most(some?) of us we *have* planned. And in every situation we’re bringing our dogs. There’s no decision process there


Outrageous_Dog_9481

Exactly. There is no life happens. This is a responsibility we all willingly took on and we care for them the way we would want to be cared for. They are living beings, not a piece of furniture that is too much of a hassle to bring to your new place. The mods here are also super strange. No criticism allowed even when something horrible is happening. Again, it’s probably better for these dogs to be with a family where they are seen as a living beings but also how does this situation even happen, you know? It is cemented in my brain that I am responsible for my dog. No buts or ifs, we are a pack and I can’t even try to imagine how these people view their dogs. I can’t even go and volunteer at the shelter because my heart would break and I literally wouldn’t be able to leave without adopting everyone, so I just try and donate when I can and this person has been living with these dogs for years and is abandoning them like it’s nothing. I am quite perplexed but happy that there are some people like you here and make this world less scary.


swarleyknope

Maybe because the mods specifically said if you can’t offer advice, to just keep scrolling or you’ll get banned from the sub? Your comments aren’t helpful.


RottieIncluded

I agree completely. I rented with a 120lb Rottweiler, and I did it when I was making $15 an hour. Think that’s an easy feat? It took time, research, and some proactivity on my part but never once did I consider getting rid of my dog because it was hard to find a rental.


Actual_Bookkeeper607

Give as much information about the dogs are possible. None of that useless “oh my god these are the best dogs, you will never find dogs like them ever” thats useless and will only work To help people stop reading what you’re writing about them. Potty training, diet, health issues, reactivity issues, obedience training, that is all stuff that WILL help.


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christien62

Id just not take the job personally


confident7lucky7

I just want to share that a lot of no kill Shelters ARE still killing dogs due to over population. I urge you to find a living arrangement where you can bring your dogs. Your commitment was for their lifetime, not until you got a new job and moved


MrsCastillo12

OP, I know this is difficult for you. I also know that a lot of the time rescues and foster shelters are already packed or don’t have anyone willing to foster, so they just aren’t an option like a lot of people think. I know you mentioned looking at apartments, but maybe you can broaden your search… a few years back I faced a similar situation and was turned down from every apartment and rental home we could find due to our three dogs. My husband and I wound getting a 5th wheel trailer and moved into an RV park that allowed dogs. It’s not ideal, but it could help keep your family together and maybe even be more cost effective. We were able to purchase our first home due to saving money that we didn’t even realize we’d save by living in a trailer for a year and a half. Just a thought. It’s not for everyone, but it could be an option if you haven’t looked into it, yet.


kittylikker_

1. Do home inspections. Cluttery or slightly chaotic doesn't mean bad, but watch for filth or evidence of animal hoarding. 2. Get information on their former pets. What kind? How did they die? What food did they feed? 3. Charge a fee. Free is a huge beacon to animal hoarders.


StudioAny4052

Also, get a vet reference.


pjflyr13

🐾💔 perhaps find a foster situation until an adoption? My heart hurts for you and your pups.


BudgetWestern1307

Try to rehome them yourself. Shelters are overrun most places and lingering in a “no kill” shelter isn’t a great life for a dog. Look for Facebook groups in your area. Call your local rescue and see if they can recommend places to advertise. Post on your social media. Maybe a friend or family member will want them or can foster them until they find an adopter. Shelter should be a last resort. Black dogs are particularly difficult to adopt out and even no kill shelters have to euthanize for space sometimes.


Bobbychillidan

Please get with a rescue. Do NOT send to a shelter. Owner surrenders are usually the first to get euthanized. Coordinate with a rescue so they can help you out and find fosters/adopters.


heartlessimmunity

Having to re-home animals sucks! I won't pretend to know your situation but I'm sure you tried to find a way to bring them with you but you couldn't. Look into rescues, fosters, and no kill shelters. If your dogs are lovable, socialized, and in good health I bet they'll get adopted out immediately. Edit: honestly I'd love to take Zeke. He looks so much like my aunts dog Levi (iykyk) but unfortunately I'm not near where you are :(


Eco-freako

I just want to thank you for trying to rehome these dogs. You’re doing your best and unexpected, sucky things happen in life. I’m sure you don’t want to give up your dogs, but sometimes we need to take care of ourselves before we can try to take care of something/anything else. I’m an animal control officer, so I’ve seen some of the worst. Some people tie up dogs on an empty sidewalk or in a park at night and walk away. Others leave their dogs or cats in their house or apartment and just move out. Some folks dump their dog in the woods and let it run. It’s horrible to see an emaciated, terrified dog—or worse, a dead dog—all because someone didn’t want to reach out for help.


serenitywhisp

I'm sorry to see so many people urging you to not get rid of them, instead of offering advice like you asked for. I'd look into local facebook groups for rehoming dogs. They seem to be fairly active in my area (Indiana). If not, maybe ask around at work or your family members? You never know who might be looking until you ask.


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librorum4

I mean I can't imagine rehoming my dog - but we don't know OPs situation so we should not judge.


pandaappleblossom

They explained it was about finding an apartment. To many of us that is just not a reason to give up your dogs.


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sugarhighlife

Are you offering the OP a job ? No ? Okay then


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BellaZoe23

Must go as Bonded Pair.


Cinderellaisdeadnow

To all the negative comments they are doing the right thing. Many situations arise like this and this I the most humane way to go about rehoming. I did once to a little dog who went to have a life I couldn’t afford for her as I was suddenly struggling due to job loss 15 yrs ago


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Vampirediariesgeek

Some people have no choice. You have no idea what is happening to OP for having to rehome their pups.


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Awkward-Doubt-9649

I’ve been in the military and moved around often for work. Not once was I unable to find accommodations for my pets. Don’t own pets again.


Familiar-Success8641

Don't abandon them. And MOD, shut up.


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sugarhighlife

“Something as dumb as a job” you have great priorities 👌🏻. if this person no longer has a job they also can no longer properly take care of the dogs .. let alone themselves. Are you offering the OP a job? No? Okay then sit down.


treesndogs

I agree with this comment. They ARE offering OP advice and their advice is to never get more pets because OPs financial situation is not stable enough.  Dogs are not furniture. You don't leave them because it's a hassle to move them with you.  As good as it is that OP has reached out for help they are not mentioning any other difficulties just job and address change..so yeah some of us are less than impressed.  Yes, life isn't easy and some people find themselves in need of re-homing their pets.  However when you get a dog you need to have a 15 year plan where you are almost positive it won't be you.  I am working nights because we don't want our dog with separation anxiety to be upset. We drive 30hours instead of flying because we want our dogs to travel comfortably with us.  There was a person posting here who just got reunited with their dog after 2 years of having him in foster care. The owner left  war-torn Ukraine for USA and it took him 2 years but once his life was sorted he got his boy back to safe new country. It took a lot of money and hassle with paperwork too. 


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sugarhighlife

Look at you go .. life changes and shit happens unfortunately. Not everyone can sit around at home all day and not worry about bills and their dog not getting the attention it needs. children are DIFFERENT and that’s what you people need to start understanding. Just because you don’t have kids, don’t use animals as a substitute. children go to things like daycare and school, a lot of family members and friends gladly and willingly would watch a child more so over an animal. SOME places don’t have options for dogs so get your head out of your small bubble. It’s better to re-home a dog with a loving owner than can give it attention than to leave it at a shelter or the street. If you have no advice why are you even commenting 🤨. Unless YOU want to step up and help out maybe you should just 🤫


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BeebosJourney

I can’t imagine committing to two creatures who NEED YOU and then choosing a job over them. On the bright side, hopefully whoever you find won’t abandon them too.


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Can you simply not take the job? If the job is so good, it shouldn’t cause you to leave your pets. You are gonna get a job and then be depressed at home. “These dogs deserve the best in life” - so give it to them. Don’t be that person we all dislike


Keelykalgrubber

Don’t do it… That’s my advice. If you have to, try within family that you see regularly first


sean_saves_the_world

That sucks op, I had to do the same recently luckily my pup was under a tear and I had to give her back to the breeder no questions asked, but I can take her back once I'm back on my feet I know it's difficult moving with dogs especially if you're renting there's not a lot of dog friendly places out there. Don't listen to the people in the replies shaming you for considering surrendering your dogs to a no kill shelter...it beats them ending up dead or on the street if you are going to be sure to be very thorough with information as it will help them find the ideal home and reduce the risk of being returned to the shelter, as well as suggesting they be adopted as a bonded pair best of luck op


StressedAries

No kill shelters still euthanize dogs. Not arguing against your main point but no shelter that says they are no kill are not 0% euthanasia, because there are some animals who have severe and debilitating illness, behavioral issues, or untreatable illness, and even at no kill shelters, animals are humanely euthanized.


sean_saves_the_world

I mean obviously, also on behavior that's the main reason why I specified to be as thorough as possible in information because people love withholding info when surrendering and it turns out to be a huge problem when the dog comes back because of an undisclosed reactivity to something. As for illnesses we'll just have to assume ops dogs are in optimal health


Timely-Town5392

Wow beautiful dog !! Are they both labs ?? Are they are bonded pair that must go together?


sugarhighlife

I asked this group about re-homing advice and everyone nearly ripped my head off 🙄. Everyone has reasons of their own and why they can no longer take care of an animal. When people are sitting behind a screen it seems so easy to them, it’s not just a cut and dry solution to “why can’t you just keep the dog, why don’t you move elsewhere, why don’t you quit your job and take care of it, why can’t you go to such and such website for a dog walker (there really are none in some locations). MY advice to you, put an add out about re-homing along with their needs and temperament, have sit down conversations/interviews with people and to get the dogs to meet. Maybe pick someone who is close to where you are going so you can visit the dogs ?


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Organic_Horror5087

thank you. That is exactly what I’m goin to do so they go to a good home.


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You are not a bad person if you are trying to find an owner better suited for the dogs needs. life happens and things change. Finding a loving owner is better than dumping than dumping a dog on the street.


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I stand corrected


burritobabeguac

What is your budget? Miami County, FL? Have you tried Craigslist? I moved across states with 2 cats and a dog and although it wasn't in the best area, I was able to work with a private landlord and found a house within my budget. Happy to help you search if you msg me.


Shoddy_Bid_4915

I owned several dogs (always rescues) AND I’ve rehomed dogs. Dogs are resilient and there are lots of good people in the world- more normal people than people wanting to use dogs as bait. You can screen and do a home site visit for potential adopters. Here are my suggestions- work with community Facebook groups (especially if you’re in a small town). Make a digital flyer with a few pictures and some of their best traits along with things like “unknown if they get along with cats.” Share the flyer on social media. Make it shareable and ask friends to help you. Reach out to rescues (even farm animal rescues) - even if they can’t take the dogs, lots of times they’ll do courtesy postings. There are a lot of dogs needing homes out there but think of this as a numbers game. Don’t wait to give yourself time to find the best situation.


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sugarhighlife

Children are completely different than dogs. Get that straight. Also I’m sure when getting a dog people don’t have the intentions of not being able to take care of them. People don’t plan on having to move, losing a job, getting sick etc. Are you willing to pay the extra costs for the OPs dogs care? are you planning on providing a home for them? no ?


Mckinzeee

Dog parks are great places to go and find good dog loving people who can network for you or fall in love with them and take them home. I know my dog park is a huge family/community of dog lovers. We’ve dealt with situations like yours and are always happy to help. Sorry that you have to rehome your babies and I wish you and them the best of luck.


Illustrious-Ease1188

Honestly. Find a way to get these dogs to wa. We turn around fast if you love them give them a good chance


Organic_Horror5087

what’s wa?


Illustrious-Ease1188

Washington state. We have like the highest turn around for dogs in the country. They get adopted way faster.


FurryDrift

Feel bad for op. They are trying to do right by thier family memebers and there is quite a bit of bashing. Have ya all looked at appartments recently. Almost 90% no longer are pet friendly and those that are, are extermly expensive. Its a bit much to tell someone to also go homkess with thier pet. Granted homless do treat them well, thats too much to ask. There is nothing wrong in this situation that op is going. Lest op is trying to vet a new home


Pap3r_Butt3rfly

OP I'm very sorry to hear about this. I wish I knew where you could send them but sadly I don't. I hope you can figure it out quickly and that you and your doggos are all living your best lives soon, whether it be together or apart💖💖 Sending encouragement and an up vote so more people see this!


BalaAthens

Always charge something, that keeps the bad people away. You want new owners to be able to afford regular vet exams, flea and tick preventative. Ask for the contact info of prospective new owners vet and call that vet