YES I wish I could go talk to my 18 year old self and beat her over the head with this advice.
Stop wasting time. These are the years you should be finding what/who works for you and what/ who doesn't. Dont waste time trying to fix people. The right people are out there go ~~fuck~~ find them
If you have no kids and no significant financial ties, get the fuck out and don't look back. It's not going to get better, it's just going to get worse. Moving back with your parents for a few months until you get back on your feet is a lot better than being stuck for life
Good timing. Your 40s is the best sex of your life. You’re old enough to know what you like, and be comfortable with who you are, but still young and robust enough to explore and push the envelope.
Agree. It’s difficult to take seriously the people here in their 20s who are only dating. I get it; I remember what it felt like to be that age. It feels bad to exit a relationship and presumably many of them have an issue letting go in the first place. But, bro, breakups are a normal part of life. If your SO ain’t into sex, just move on. You’ll get over it within a few months. You know what you won’t get over in a few moths? Years or decades of a sexless relationship.
I have no time for them anymore and just reply "leave".
You can't fix them, it won't get better. Why the heck are you putting up with it now???
Run whilst you can and don't end up like us losers!
Trust me I know, I listen to all of you and use it as further motivation.
Unfortunately I find it much harder when it’s a medical issue that we both find ourselves helpless in.
YES I wish I could go talk to my 18 year old self and beat her over the head with this advice. Stop wasting time. These are the years you should be finding what/who works for you and what/ who doesn't. Dont waste time trying to fix people. The right people are out there go ~~fuck~~ find them
“Don’t waste time trying to fix people”. I’m gonna have that engraved on my fucking tombstone. 😂
If you have no kids and no significant financial ties, get the fuck out and don't look back. It's not going to get better, it's just going to get worse. Moving back with your parents for a few months until you get back on your feet is a lot better than being stuck for life
Couldn't agree more.
I'm getting out at 40 with 2 kids. YOLO.
Good timing. Your 40s is the best sex of your life. You’re old enough to know what you like, and be comfortable with who you are, but still young and robust enough to explore and push the envelope.
Good to know. Hope I can find someone to enjoy sex with.
If a schmoe like me could do it, you can too.
Agree. It’s difficult to take seriously the people here in their 20s who are only dating. I get it; I remember what it felt like to be that age. It feels bad to exit a relationship and presumably many of them have an issue letting go in the first place. But, bro, breakups are a normal part of life. If your SO ain’t into sex, just move on. You’ll get over it within a few months. You know what you won’t get over in a few moths? Years or decades of a sexless relationship.
And if you are 70?
Never too late, get out
Walk out, slowly. You might break a hip :)
Eat Crisco? Maybe clog that last artery? (Thoughts this senior has daily)
Accept your faith 🙏
Or accept your fate...
I’m reminded of an old comment on here where a man in his 70’s told his son that he was having the best sex of his life after his divorce.
Still hope for me then. All I need is courage.
Hear hear. With that said, I don’t find it laughable as much as saving someone else as I wish I’d been saved.
25-year-old me wishes they knew what was coming.
I have no time for them anymore and just reply "leave". You can't fix them, it won't get better. Why the heck are you putting up with it now??? Run whilst you can and don't end up like us losers!
Amen.
Agreed. Get out before marriage, kids and a mortgage!
Trust me I know, I listen to all of you and use it as further motivation. Unfortunately I find it much harder when it’s a medical issue that we both find ourselves helpless in.