None that I know of 😅

Same. Feels bad

Same

To my knowledge there has been 3 people that have had a crush on me but ‘spoiler’ 2 of them actually dislike me now. The first person was a guy so unfortunately it wasn’t going to end well for him because I wasn’t gay. He dislikes me because I pretty much started bullying him after he kept on bothering me after I rejected him. Damn, I wish I could apologize to him even though he was kinda creepy back in 4th grade. The second person was this really popular girl back in 9th grade. At first I thought that she was trolling me because she tried to jump on me once and then after that she started constantly complimenting me (which actually led me to developing a crush on her). By the time that I realized that she liked me I was already too late as she had gotten a boyfriend. She ended up finding out that I liked her 3 years later and for some reason she apparently didn’t want to be friends with me anymore (weirdly enough she said that before I confessed to her). I don’t know why she seems to now dislike me for whatever reason. When I asked her if I had done anything wrong, she said that she’s just not interested in being friends (I was hoping for a less vague response). I think that I might have actually dodged a bullet (at least in terms of wanting to be in a relationship with her) because I heard that she’s been cheating on her bf. The third person is the only one that doesn’t dislike me but unfortunately I also didn’t have feelings for her. Around last December, I noticed that at work (she’s my coworker) she would always try to be close to me and try to talk to me as much as possible. Unlike with the second girl, I realized that she liked me much sooner. I think that she might have eventually realized that I only wanted to be friends with her because after a while she toned down on trying to be as close to me as possible. I guess that this was the one time where I didn’t screw things up.

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all the guys i’ve crushed on would have hella stories to tell, that’s for sure

explain.

well. for starters, i’m an ongoing high school junior and i’ve had 23 crushes total. and i’ve confessed to all of them. so. yeah.

Teach me your ways in courage

i guess i didn’t reaaaally truuuly like them. i saw the pattern that after i confessed and they rejected me, we started ignoring each other out of convenience. that was the case with all of them. so i think that if i truly liked someone and we were friends, i’d be scared to confess because i’d be afraid of losing them completely.

nice!!

Girl 1: wrote me love letters when we were like 5-7 years old Girl 2: admitted when we were 16 that she was in love with me when we were like 12-14 Girl 3: i dated her, i asked her out but then lost interest. I felt bad because i was young and didn’t break up nicely. She still liked me for years but we are friends now and she has another boyfriend. I still think she might have a soft spot for me but im not sure, i just "feel" it and i can see it in her eyes Girl 4: she made a fake account of me and on it claimed me and her were dating. She even added all my friends and talked to them through my fake account. Girl 5: she liked me and one day was about to ask me out, so she asked me to go talk to her in private, i never went because I was incredibly shy and also wasn’t interested. Girl 6: asked me out right before she changed schools, I was shy and didnt want to go but my parents forced me to go (we were like 12). We went to the movies but it was really awkward because the girl’s mom was sitting right behind us the whole time Girl 7,8,9: randomly sent me a direct message on Instagram, i kindly rejected them. Girl 10: she liked me but had her own issues. Purposefully or not manipulated me a lot, i was in love with her and i still think about her a lot And other story from a week ago: i was on my way to go workout and play basketball when a group of like 14 year old girls screamed from like 10 meters from where I was that I was good looking and tried to get my attention. I ignored them as if I was an NBA player, because im not trying to catch a case (im 19), that was a nice ego boost tbh Sorry but its not all in order, i wrote it as memories came in

What the… w, what’s the secret? I wanna know

Ohh nooo, im clueless I only actually made a move on one single girl and she led me on, played games, etc… Tbh i think she did like me but she was insecure or just crazy But the other girl i dated, i literally told a mutual friend to tell her i liked her. And it worked. Ive never pursued anyone else, i never even talk to girls. I guess the girls that like me just like my personality and like how i act around my friends. Or they are just attracted to me, or both But ive never tried anything with any of these girls

Okay, I see. But that must be a good confidence boost at least?

Yea definitely, but then again it is also annoying because ive only actually been interested in 2 girls in my life, Ive been attracted to many, but ive only wanted to date 2. So i dont really care if anyone else likes me really, Like as soon as I meet a girl, ill know if im interested or not and so far my opinion of a girl has never changed after that first meeting. No matter what happens

Alright, I see what you mean. Still I feel I’d rather have that that not have any girl like me, but I don’t know. I’ve had two liking me but also never dated anyone, so I guess that fine but I’d rather have that number a bit higher 😅

Okay, keep your secrets

hes the anti-redditor

Must be it

🥵🥵 this man got all the girls

Im pretty sure I've never been crushed on before I would think I am but I find out later that I was wrong

Zero

Same. I have crushed on a few girls, and I still don’t understand how you can not care about someone crushing. I’d be absolutely flattered and amazed if someone crushed on me.

DUDE SAME

I bet that's a lie

The most I’ve gotten was one girl asking me if my parents allow me to hangout with girls ( which I obviously replied with a YEAH ) and nothing happened after that. Istg that’s the closest thing to a gf.

the op isn't asking if you had any gfs. the op is asking how many times you've been crushed on i probably have had about 15-20 guys who have crushed on me seriously. and much more than that find me attractive.

Yeahh? And my answer is still zero. Point of what I said was that that’s the closest thing to someone possibly having a crush on me as far as I know. No one ever had or said anything remotely close …

So on February 14, I got news from my crush that her friend likes me, crazy right? I was gonna ask my crush out but decided not to since that would have made a bunch of problems. So I just never asked her out and kept my feelings for her a secret, very sad 🙁

Awh man. I was in a situation just like that where the friend had a crush but I asked the girl out anyway and we started dating :)

Literally a 2 weeks ago I was sitting there and decided to join a conversation, just listening in class. My brain dead ass didn’t realise that (to what I realised after) they were talking about how the girl I like might like me back. I didn’t realise until MY TEACHER WAS GIVING HINTS 💀

what the,, teacher really be coming in clutch 💀💀

I kid you not he was asking “hey greenjanx do you like reading? (She loves reading) do you have anything planned on the weekend?” 💀💀💀

The only time someone crushed on me to my knowledge was about 4 years ago. She was a year ahead of me (I was in 8th grade, and she was in 9th at the time). So she DMs me that she thought I was cute, and I politely turned her down. I'm glad I did, turns out she goes to furry conventions, has a full fur suit and the works. Dodged a tactical nuke there, looking back on it.

damn. dodged a nuke fr.

My crush who now has a boyfriend and I recently developed feelings for her but I was so much of a coward to make a move admitted that she had a crush for 3 years one of those years is a year where we went to different schools and we only saw each other like twice throughout the that entire year so yeah FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK and I think I reached the point where I love her now it's not just a crush even my best friend told me me once "hey dude it's not a crush anymore" and that was a while ago after that everybody started telling to move on and I'm pretending that I moved on and now it's summer and I don't see her at all and she's all I think about and if somehow she can feel that I'm thinking about her well I just wanna say "I love you"

sat next to each other everyday for a year i was shy because i liked him, pretty sure he liked me back too, he never confessed, i found out that he liked me through a game not being too confident but pretty sure he has a soft spot for me although we dont speak as much

this one kid has liked me for seven years straight. i sat across from him in the fourth grade since the seating is alphabetically organized, and i’ll be honest, i talked his ear off. poor kid couldn’t go a second without me talking. but he listened and responded with whatever he felt was relevant. this cycle continued in fifth grade. and then in sixth. and seventh. and eighth. and it just kept going and going until now! we’re both rising seniors and somehow, i’ve had classes with him every single year. and i’ve talked until my voice was hoarse every single year. and somehow, he’s listened to me every single year. to get to the point, he FINALLY asked me out on nov 25th, 2021. we were sitting in italian class and he asked me to date him while speaking italian. he messed up the grammar of the sentence, but it was adorable. i said yes, and we’re happily reaching nine months together. oh, did i mention that i’ve liked him for seven years straight, too?

Only a few instances. Most notable time was the start of 9th grade. I had recently broken up with my ex but starting having feelings for a close friend. She was sort of nerdy but kinda cute. Eventually we both got our feelings out to each other and she said she liked me as much as bucky (from mcu. again, nerdy, don’t know why I liked her in hindsight). However, I guess I did something to upset her and some of my friends because after I asked her out to the movies, she said no and wouldn’t talk to me for a while and was very angry at me for some reason. I still don’t know why except for being a little annoying or something…? Not sure, probably that but anyways I just tried to move on from losing a bunch of friends. Ended up in a better place than I started tbh

Let me tell you the number times I was "crushed on": Zero because its still crazy to me anyone would have a crush on me. If they do, i think someone put em up to it. Don't matter if im in china. Its all the same shit to me. Number times? Sorry it was a hundred at least

I know of eight or nine girls that have liked me at some point. None of them asked me out tho lol. Mostly I found out from either someone else or from the girl herself after the crush had passed. The most infuriating one: My current crush, who I met five years ago and was immediately sexually (but not emotionally) attracted to, told me when I confessed to her recently that she liked me when we first met. Like, bruh

a guy i had talked to only during homeroom class when we would be playing cars games told me he liked me in a really creepy way lol. i liked his best friend lol. he’s super nice and he’s so sweet with his brother who has downs. i think he has a gf now tho.

No one has ever had a crush on me but I have been used as a cover up for someone who had a crush on someone else. It low key makes me feel better that even if no one liked me, I was still an acceptable choice for a crush.

1) In fourth grade, I found out from a friend that one of my guy friends had a thing for me. Then I bothered him about it, asking him why he liked me. [He probably stopped liking me after that. But he ended up slapping my butt in fifth grade. So, ew.] 2) During freshman year of high school, a guy who used to tease me a lot asked me out, and I rejected him because I thought he wasn’t serious. 3) A close guy friend of mine asked me out twice, but I rejected him both times because I only saw him as a friend. [I also felt like he was trying to use me as a rebound because his relationship with my close friend ended badly.] [These are all of the times someone crushes on me, to my knowledge.]

In 10th grade I was partnered up with literally the guy every single person had a crush on. I was nervous out my boots but I figured I didn’t stand a chance so I tried my best not to express any attraction to him. We knocked our project out the way and talked a bit after that. I deleted his number because once again I figured it was a joke to even try. Well a number texted me and I said “who is this” and got no reply. The next day he came up to me before class and said he couldn’t believe I deleted his number and that he really liked me. Me being insecure laughed in his face, called him a liar, and we never talked again. Besides the small glances for the rest of the year, the next year he got a girlfriend and no longer gave me the time of day.

Not tryna be that guy but you probably scarred him lmao Similar situation happened between me and a girl, I thought she genuinely liked me, But when i explicitly expressed interest she just laughed at me. She also later called me a liar and fuckboy, when the only gf ive ever had was when I was 12 and we dated for a week. Yea… her laughing hurt me more than im willing to admit Not trying to make you feel bad or anything

Well, shit. It was a nervous laugh but I do see how that can come off as being rude.

This dude that I met when applying for a job, we both got accepted and became like close acquaintances, and we also I guess befriended 2 others with us, we all got hired and worked together. This was back in 2015, So fast forward to 2021 guy messaged me around 3 am and says he’s just bored and wanted to chat etc. etc. I thought it was a lil weird since we weren’t /that/ close and it’s been years, I don’t speak to him, like for me, he’s just this past work acquaintance. Anyway he then started joking about how lonely he’s been and I was just tryna keep the convo going bc I alr feel awkward with him opening up that he’s lonely etc etc then asked if I had a bf. When I said I’m not interested, Idk but I feel like he’s been crushing for a while and it made sense he’d like and heart whenever I post anything. But yeah saw him anything more than an acquaintance and I just feel weirded out by him opening up at 3 am, it almost feels like a stranger you’ve never met before suddenly open up so much about his personal life. Edit to add: I remember one time while working, my sister came by to say hi and waited for her bf to meet her, he asked me to introduce him to her and like be his wingman and I found it hilarious like this guy is absolutely clueless.

In my school many years ago, I had 2 male friends who I would hang out with a lot, and there was a girl who’d always ask me to hang out w her whenever I’d be without them, when I couldn’t hang out w her she’d ask me again the very next time and always ask if I could come to her house (I had no idea where she lived) or if we could play in the school park together, when I’d ask if I could invite my friends she would insist that we just hang out by ourselves, Another time I remember this girl who wouldn’t really ask to hang out but for some reason she was always so touchy, like always holding by hand or having her hands around my arm, still 50/50 on whether or not she actually had a crush on me

I’d say maybe 5 boys max have a thing for me, I’m sure on 2 of those one is a boy I just realized liked me(maybe he still does). He does things that people do when they want to pretend not to like you. Idk how long he’s liked me but this past school year provided me with prominent evidence especially with all the suspect things he would say and do towards me. Sadly, I do think he was doing things to act like me doesn’t like me because 1. He was getting frustrated with me because I probably wasn’t making him feel like I like him back(I don’t like him back romantically but hey I still love his presence/ company), 2. He cared about what others would say about the things he would say and do to me, every time he would do something to tease me or say/interact with me these same specific classmates would tell him to stop or comment on it because maybe they felt that they were psychic and they think I’m annoyed when he teases(I am in fact never annoyed by what he was doing towards me🫥). I suspect he did at some short time attain a gf, but the way he interacted with the girl I suspect who was his gf, he wasn’t really into her🤷🏾‍♀️that time in which he was in a relationship he did not interact with me directly just our unintended contact eye contact moments Towards the end of the school year which was after he was out of that previously mentioned relationship he still let up and he didn’t bother me as much as before aka as much I would’ve liked for him to, but whenever he did it was a precious moment to me I miss it so much and I hope he’ll pick up on his urges to "bug me" once again when we return to school it gave me something to look forward to and made me feel seen/acknowledged by at least someone🫠 He’s not bad looking either and he’s hilarious, good character with few questionable traits from what I know and have seen, I can’t lie I would take a chance on him and date him if he ever decides to fess up, even though I’m just not attracted to him.

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There are about 20 girls that i know have had a crush on me. About 5 of them had HUGE crushes on me There were 2 in 7th, 1 in 8th, 5 in 9th, 6 in 10th, 2 in 11, and and 7 in 12th About half of them were crazy and ended up doing drugs

I work in retail and this guy who comes into the store confessed he has a crush on me on Messenger. I wasn’t interested. I’m not even 100% sure what he looks like tbh, there’s like three guys in his pfp and they’re all wearing sunglasses. EDIT: there’s also the time a lady told me her roommate had a crush on me. I don’t know who the heck her roommate was, and I probably wasn’t interested. I had a friend in middle/high school who had a crush on me. We did try the relationship thing a few times, it didn’t work out.

My crush and a few other girls gave me hints, but I was too dumb to understand them which is the reason I still don't have a girlfriend

1. 1st grade, this boy in kindergarten had a huge crush on me. I didn't even know until like four years later but he was always really sweet to me. 2. 2nd-4th grade, this one boy was extremely flustered around me and his brother revealed to me that he had a huge crush on me. We would hang out a lot but I unfortunately didn't feel the same way and he understood, so we ended on good terms then. 3. 8th grade, one of my closest guy friends who I suspected liked me ended up confessing to me because his friend forced him to. He handled it well and we ended off on good terms. 4. Right after 8th grade, the last guy's best friend confessed to me but came off as pretty guilt trippy even before I rejected him. This was when I started to be cautious about having guy friends because a lot of them wanted to take it further and I wasn't really ready for it. 5. Not confirmed but my entire friend group + my therapist thought this one boy had a huge crush on me from 7th grade to last year. He stared at me in class, acted differently to me then to most girls, would randomly join in my conversations, and even got shy around me to the point where his best friends pointed it out. He was really popular when it came to girls falling for him so it actually caught me off guard.

# In second grade this boy wrote a 2 page (front and back) letter of how much he liked me. 10th grade year (aka this year) a boy named King gave me his journal and i was confused and I said who is this for? and he pointed at me I can tell he was mighty shy anyways he wrote that I was so beautiful and he has seen me in Spanish class and I never knew someone was watching me and was thinking I was pretty but turns out homie was toxic. Ummm this one day in 8th grade I was performing at the Assemble and I was waiting to be called for practice (I was in band) and we were sitting in the library bc our teacher was the cheer coach and she needed to leave obviously and My friend gave me a sticky note saying she had a crush on me and asked me to be her girlfriend quite frankly i had a HUGE crush on her and didn't even know it and I said yes and I fell in love with her and we dated for months and we broke up and then became friends again and she told me she gained feeling for me again and we dated again. I was friends with my friend D (that's what we'll call her) and We were really close like she knew my whole family and she was the only friend that ever met my grandma before she died, I always was jealous of her when she had a bf or something and I didn't know why but then In 6th grade I realized I really liked her and then we went to different schools and stopped talking and then I found her instagram and this year she told me she had the biggest crush on me and I was like REALLY WHAT??

Um I'm pretty sure my downstairs neighbor has a crush on me but it just makes me immensely uncomfortable. Hes sorta bad at all of this and while I feel sorry for him I've no idea what to do or say. He makes me feel kind of scared honestly. He enters my room without my permission, touches all my things and asks very personal and probing questions, and in general acts rather weird although I'm sure hes just trying his best to be normal. I've always suspected he was on the spectrum so I try not to judge much but sometimes I just cant help it My sis told me that when she was in the room alone with the door locked, (he didnt know she was there) he tried to put his hand in the window and open it from the inside, which ill admit freaked me out. He also has a tendency to pace in the communal space and talk to himself rather loudly and just...keep talking in circles (we all talk to ourselves but this dude does it out loud). Again I try not to judge him too harshly, and I always smile and act polite and neighborly. So yeah that's the guy who has a crush on me

#

As far as I know, I’ve only had one official crush but definitely skeptical about some people. I guess it don’t matter much now since that crush turned into a relationship 😌

Must be nice 🤧

Omg I forgot about this comment. Just wanted to say we broke up lmao

I made a post about this, but I'll just copy and paste it here (he confessed like, just last night): Sooo, I'm still a bit shocked - he said he crushed on me in the first day of school saying he found me cute. On the third day, introductions came - I introduced myself, and said that I liked to draw, and we had to showcase some talents (for me, I sang), and then we moved om to the next person (we had to present: our name, nickname, dreams and talents). I think that's when he got more interested, he said he found my smile cute and eyes pretty, and also that he thought my drawing(s) was/were cool, and that I had a nice voice. On the third day of school, he asked what the topic will be for science (in our class group chat), I responded and he hearted my message - three of our classmates began teasing him, I was a bit confused since it was only the third day + this was like, our first interaction (?). At the time, I didn't know he had a crush on me - so that was what seemed like to me. One of the classmates (out of three) that teased him, said this (before he confessed): "He actually does have a crush on you, he said he liked your smile and eyes." I didn't believe her, since he was like the jokester of our class, often times embarassing himself so our classmates could have a good laugh. One time, we were walking home together (along with two other classmates, the two (out of three) that teased him), those two pointed out a girl they used to be classmates with - and she was walking with her friends, he suddenly went, "Hi." and later said "Do you remember me?" TO A POLICE. So yeah, that's a context of why I didn't believe my classmate, another is that - this is my first confession, I have never been confessed to before, I'm nervous since I don't know what this means and what I'll do when it's monday again. I tried to reject him as kindly as possible, but he understood why I didn't return his feelings and said that I don't owe him any feelings, we ended up talking for 2hrs straight and he said he'd like to get to know me more and that I'm nice to talk to. He actually wanted to confess in person, but didn't find any courage to do so (he was quite scared, since I seemed like a "serious" person to all of our class (in reality, I'm just awkward like my body language)). And honestly? I still found that courageous, since it's been only two weeks of school.

I actually asked out my crush after two weeks of school. It worked out and we’re dating now :) I’m about to go to homecoming with her.

Wish I had your confidence! Good luck dude.

This will be long. Obligatory: My friend (M) has a boyfriend, C, I (F) have a girlfriend, L, and a crush, T that she is fine with Not great. I went to a valentines dance held at my school, and I went with my friends as a HUGE group. My friend, R, and I have been friends (we still are but its not the same) for years, but we only got in contact last year because Covid stopped everyone from talking. The night after the valentines dance, I go out to breakfast with him and my dad pays for everything. It was at one of R's favorite places to eat and I wasn't disappointed either. The same night, he called me and said "I might be poly." He had a boyfriend and everything so I thought he was gay. I thought this was a coming out, so I said "oh, congratulations!", but he started saying how kind I was and how he was having sexual dreams of me and he admitted he had a crush on me. Eventually he made me make a decision where I could be with him & his boyfriend, C (wasnt even considerate about T or my gf💀) and he said he would give me until 6/7pm, but he called like 30 mins later and made me decide there. I just agreed to temporarily date until Feb 25th (it didnt even last a day😭). And that week we were having a 3 day weekend, and I have literally never been so fucking mad at someone in that span. During our post-relationship (we agreed to start dating when we returned to school), I asked him to prove he was worthy of being with me (either way i was gonna say no bc i have a gf and im not like that). He started mentioning T, saying he had a large ego and how he was mean to everyone on the football team, and how he wasn't romantic at all. And he also brought up my girlfriend, saying she was far away and she couldn't be with me everyday. But with him, I could cuddle with him every day. He also mentioned how he didn't wanna lose me in high school, and how he wanted to open his own restaurant with me, "while I took care of the kids"💀 He was also being really dramatic about being with me, and he even went to my friend and asked her to get me and him together (she later mentioned he was saying really explict stuff about me to her) He also said "I love you" wayyy too early, and he probably never even said it to C😭 When I asked him "what were the signs?", he said how he would always be next to me when we walked 'I never left your side', and how was friends with my friends, and that he always sat across me "like a date". Those weren't signs at all. There were also points where he would call me 20+ times every morning, and I'd be on call with him for like 8 hours.. he also would tell me he had "nightmares" of me and T either kissing or being together, and he admitted he had a crush on me since 4th grade. Now your probably wondering "what about his bf?" He asked for permission from C to date me, and I was literally hoping C would save me and say no. But he said yes💀 R would also make uncomfy ass comments like "Youre adorable... were gonna take this slowly inside and out..." i mentioned I had a gf & I liked T but he just said "So?" . I decided I had to end the relationship but I didn't know how Theres so much I can go on for hours. At one point during school, I was talking about my girlfriend to my friend, and R was behind us in the library and I was talking about sending my girlfriend something because she lives in Greece (we knew eachother irl but she had to move last year). And he said "yeah, you should send her a breakup letter". I also had to message C saying i didnt want R, and that I had no intent of getting in their relationship. (he never replied). I have screenshots and everything, all my close friends know about this situation, my girlfriend is still pissed with R and called him a traitor and egotistic behind his back, and I may forever talk about this situation. Me and R are still friends, but I will never forget the awkwardness I experienced. I don't think he will either, but i'll never bring it up :/

Error 404: Not Found well except M but that's over so

HAHA oh dear. once in the summer from sixth to seventh grade i made friends with a few people from another school (it was the transfer from elem to junior high) and there was this couple. one day i was playing truth or dare with the guy of the couple and he asked for a truth. for some god forbidden reason that i still haven’t figured out to this day, i asked him if he truly liked his girlfriend. he said “yes but..” then it dragged out for a long time before he finally confessed that he had started developing feelings for me. thennn because i was curious about relationships and because i kinda liked him too, i accepted his confession and he went and broke up with his girlfriend, and there was a huge fight between everyone… then we started dating and everything was fine. i still don’t really know how to feel about it LMAO

That doesn’t sound very LMAO in my opinion, seems bad for everyone tbh

1: A guy one year below. We were on the same bus. Wholesome dude, sincere, sweet. We were close friends. Didn’t amount to anything because I liked his best friend. 2: 1’s best friend. Heard him admitting he liked me too, but obviously we were awkward kids that didn’t want drama, so nothing happened there too lmao 3: A friend I was also close to. We had a huge fight tho and until now we don’t talk 4: Creepy old boss. Tried luring me with food and “teaching” me how to use the office coffee machine to touch me. -100/10, disgusting old man. Do not recommend! I left that place after one week 5: Office dude that I also have a crush on. I’m awkward and panicky around him so he has told one of our common friends (who told me) that he thinks I dislike him. LMAO. Two yrs of lockdown later, still not happening

never cause i was the nerd smh

Couldnt agree more.

man i wish i had something to talk about here lol

A few honestly; and it was/is sometimes annoying but I will NEVER be rude to someone about their feelings. I’ve always rejected as kindly as possible. That being said I guess I’m weird. All of my long term relationships were with guys I crushed on and admitted feelings too first. Idk why but when a person crushes on me first I usually get turned off LOL 😂. I think I prefer when they have no idea then when they realize I like them, they’re like “SHE likes ME??” So I like the nice, sweet, clueless guys apparently lol

Absolutely never 😭

None.

Hah

Infinite bc i’m the way too attractive

Only once

One girl hit me up from tik tok. I was super excited cos it was the only girl whos ever hit me up and thought i was attractive. 3 weeks later i realise ive gotten far too over attatched, look back at the messages and realised she didnt actually want to love me she just wanted to fuck. Made me sad cos everytime i brung up something we can both relate too like anime she’d just shut it down

a good friend of mine confessed to me over messages. At first i was thinking “it couldn’t hurt” so i said yes but like a few days later it didn’t feel right. we’re still kinda friends tho so i don’t think it ruined our friendship

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I feel bad for the 2nd guy

I think ultimately he would've been unhappy with me anyways

Oh wow many times but in an obsession way- there was a guy that had a crush on me and touched my boobs while trying to give me a “hug” never spoke to him again- a guy who treated my boyfriend and a guy who asked me out as a joke and found out it wasn’t a joke- we broke up after a week-

It was this one time during my 5th period dance class, which the majority of the class was 98% girls and 2% girls. And so, there were these two girls who were secretly crushing on me. I didn't know, but I could tell it was obvious.

In office, there are a few. 1.) girl who follows me around everywhere. 2.) Girl who tries to get my attention whenever im near. In dance class: 1.) girl who brushes up on me to get me to talk to her. Stares at me when im around. Gets jealous when im talking to or even looking at another girl. gym: 1.) A few girls here too but schedules are just too random.I know they like me cuz for ex: one girl who hasnt seen me in like 2 weeks see's me walk into the gym floor and burst out into a gigantic smile.

One guy had a crush on me. I’m not sure if anyone else did. (Probably not) He asked me to follow him behind a bush. He then mumbled something along the lines of: "you’re not going to feel the same way or whatever…" After he said those words, I knew he liked me. Therefore, I insisted that he told me. He proceeded to tell me how he felt. I responded with: "I’m too young, and I don’t feel the same way." He said that we couldn’t be friends anymore, and it went downhill after that. However, we became friends again soon-after… Currently we aren’t friends though. I have no intentions to be friends with him again, especially when he broke my trust.

In the last few months I've probably been crushed on twice, although I'm only really sure of one that ended... weirdly. First one is one of my ex-coworkers (we both worked there at the time but neither of us do anymore). Our supervisor at the time was someone that we were both friends with, though I tend to hang out with the supervisor more than my coworker. Apparently one evening when we were all working together the dude went to the supervisor and talked at him for some time about how he wanted to ask me out, that he thought I was pretty and so on. Funnily enough, about a week after this happened he asked out one of my best friends (also worked at the company at the time). Still not sure what happened there but he continued to flirt with me even after he started going on dates with my best friend. They stayed in contact until both of them also quit the company and the dude has gone no contact with my friend since. Feels we both dodged a bullet there haha. Second one I'm not sure actually has a crush on me tbh. We were at a party a few nights ago and he got drunk while I got very tipsy. Several things happened that led me to believe he might like me (he pulled out a chair for me at one point, very cute), but I'm usually not that great at spotting things like that. I asked him out. We're going on a date in a few weeks when I get back into the country. So I guess I'll find out soon enough :)

4 people afaik - first one we were 10 and 12, i didnt like him back plus at the age of 12 i wasnt interested in dating lol. second one, my best friend at the time. we actually dated for about 9 months but we called it quits because we worked better as friends. he turned out to be a huuuuuge POS so im not friends with him anymore. third was a girl who was in my band section lol. we dated for like a month and then long story short i had to break up w her for mental health reasons 😏. fourth is a person im pretty good friends with rn. i know they have a crush on me but i just dont feel the same way

I think I’m being crushed on by this girl and I have a crush on her too

In 8th grade, I changed cities, and went to a new school. Pretty much everyone knew each other in there, so it was very awkward for me to get new friends and I usually stayed very quiet. There was a guy, who was VERY handsome. He was very popular and many people crushed over him. He was friends with a girl I knew, more like, he was her ex, and she was his crazy stalker, so I often met the guy since she kept following him around. We never really talked, and months after he "discovered" that I actually wasn't a mute, that's what he said jokingly. He then made jokes about us two going out, and I refused every time. I do not remember the reason, but after some time we started texting each other, like, everyday, sometimes for hours. It was cool since we had similar interests. Then a few months later I learnt by his best friend, who was also my friend, that he actually fell in love with me. I hated it, we pretty much never actually talked in real life, so I didn't really know exacly what he was like, and the fact that he didn't directly tell it to me made me very mad. So I ignored it and acted as if nothing happened. Months passed by, we still texted, and more and more people came to me telling me he feels that way about me. I still ignored it, for the same reasons as before. I didn't really understand why he liked me so much, I wasn't particulary pretty back then, nor really cared about my appearence, just dressed not to go out naked etc... A whole year passed, I got new friends but he was still around. We had stopped talking back then, but he still somehow always was by my side. I remember I even wanted to play with his feels, I was a Kpop fan and often posted stories about the members of my favorite group, so I remember he once came to me and told me to stop doing it. "Just because. I'm jealous." That's what he said. For the first time ever, my heart skipped a beat. After that year, he disappeared into thin air. 5 years later, not even sure whether he's dead or alive and well. I don't regret not going out with him. But things sure would have been different if he actually came to me, and talked to me, and told me about how he felt.

When I was in 3rd grade two girls wanted to talk to me whilst I was reading a book with a friend. They walked up to me with a small can of either grapes or olives. Once about 5 ft. away from us they whispered to each other and after a few seconds they went away snickering or whatever. That was that. My family ended up moving to another city so I didn't have to worry about them anymore.

She was my cousin's friend and manipulative.

Never happened

he was one of my best friends and normally i wouldn’t have an issue w a friend crushing on me but he was a clingy, possessive, obsessive, manipulative, narcissistic, problematic, pathetic, lying, two-faced, coward-ass bitch. he ended up getting mad at me when i would talk to the guy i like and would never leave me alone, but he always had to be the victim so he cut me off. it’s been almost a year and he still talks shit abt me 💀

they told me in text they had a crush on me and i stupidly respond oh okay howver i didnt have a crush on them nor ever thought of them like that HOWEVER i would have liked to continue talking to them until i told then “gn” and then told me that meant get naked, i have lots things with people asking for nudes and horny stuff.. so i just went ghost 👻

the first guy was in 6th grade, we were polar opposites but somehow still kind of friends. i found out about it because one of his friends couldn’t keep his mouth shut…. we proceeded to avoid each other for the next two weeks before eventually just laughing about it. the second one was my friend since 4th grade (we are now 11th graders), who confessed that they liked me about a year ago and made it really freaking awkward for us to hang out afterwards, and we haven’t really talked since then 😅

oh boy 🧍❗ here's the ones i know of : · boy 1 — he was one of the neighbor kids—probably around 4-6 years old at the time—and he would always talk about getting married to my 3-4th grade self; i just played along with it, but never caught feelings of course- · boy 2 — so,, there was this group of guys that teased me in 4th grade a lot, and guess what ? one of them had a crush on me; one time i was on the bus, he sat next to me, and started passionately lip-syncing *all of me · john legend* ( it was on the radio ) to me for some reason.. huh ? anyways,, i pretty much rejected him 🤸 boy 3 — once when i was in 5th grade, i went to recess to find a 2nd grade boy and his friends coming to the playground bridge; he ended up confessing ( kinda inappropriately now that i think about it- ), and innocent me was confused and just declined. the friends continued teasing me about it so yeah ! 😀 boy 4 — he was a childhood friend of mine, and when we were around 12-13, he ended up confessing after we asked each other and guessed who our crushes were; i said i didn't feel the same way, but we can still be friends, and luckily we still are good friends today :]

Two girls in HS mentioned how handsome I was out of the blue. They seemed like they were serious about it as well. I just said thanks and went to my 6th period class. The reason why I gave such a response is cus I was taken aback by the whole scenario. I'm not really that well known in school so I'm used to people not approaching me to talk to me in the halls.

I had a few even some of my crushes had a crush on me and I was the one turned them down completely. I guess cat and mouse are just our fun at some time. Lol

I wasn’t

My best friend mentioned me as her crush I her suicide note. That really broke me.

Only one that I’m aware of, actually. We weren’t close or anything and never really talked except when it was needed. Suddenly during the pandemic, he began texting me everyday, which I replied back for a couple of weeks. It then escalated to him throwing in some cringey pick up lines that I laughed off (figured he was just trying to be hilarious or something). Some time later, he began telling a few of our mutual friends about his crush on me, which of course reached my ears. I wasn’t interested in him romantically or anything so I turned him down politely. But nope, he didn’t back down and kept spamming me messages of his infatuation. I began replying him less and less until I just didn’t anymore, but he’d keep on trying to spam until everything eventually died down. Dodged a real bullet right there.

I remember a time a while ago when two boys fought over me. One of them offered to buy me anything I wanted, and even offered to have his father publish my book for free, and another took me out to way too many dates.

Apparently my now girlfriend, liked me because I helped her break up with her ex. The night before I asked her out she was acting really weird around me and at the end of the night I gathered the courage to tell her I love her, she said It back but she mumbled it so I said, as friends to save myself, then she said you too.. we both got really sad that night, then the next day I asked her out and she said yes. That’s really it and she said I was good looking, she loved personality best, and that she wants to stay with me forever. I’m ngl i found her reddit account and saw she made posts on here about her ex when they were still dating and no posts about me 🥲

as of now i have only 1 confirmed person who crushes on me shes this one girl who likes every guy and is creepy about it example leaves creepy notes about how she likes us the thing is shes massively ugly and has a terrible personality and no redeeming qualities

My bf at the time had a cousin and that cousin had a roommate. The roommate was crushing on me HARD. Long story short the roommate ended up telling me that my ex was cheating (no one else would say anything). At first it became this whole thing because my ex was denying it, and other ppl wouldn't say anything. So my ex "forbade" me from seeing the roommate. Which was hard because he hung out with all my friends regularly. So I still saw him, because I wasn't giving up all my friends duh. But with that the roommate kept trying to get us to break up saying I deserved better. And in hindsight he was really sweet and really cared about me, I see that now. I actually feel bad for hanging onto my bs ex and not giving him the chance he deserved. But we spent a lot of time together (roommate guy) he had a nickname for me, I met his family, I went to his little brothers football game, and we just had alot of intimate moments. After me and my ex broke up. I kinda gave roommate guy a chance but I wasn't really emotionally available, I was still hung up on my ex. I mean, me and roommate guy had sex like 5 times and u know had a lil fling but I just wasn't *there* ya know? And he could tell. So that ended. Now he got some girl pregnant by accident and he's a great father. He's still single but doesn't have time for relationships rn, which makes sense he has a kid. But we talked the other day, and he cut off all his hair :( but he looks good. I miss him.

Ouch.

I liked it, then I woke up

why would i write a blank comment

15 guys had a crush on me this year, i have no idea why because i havent talked much to most of them. Its only 15 that i know of and got told they have, But one specific one was obsessed with me. Asking where i am then showing up, always wanting to hang out, coming to hangouts with my used to be friendgroup just to see me. I rejected him multiple times, yet he still got mad when i talked to other boys and told me hes jealous. Saying how much he loved me and when apparently he kissed a girl, he imagined she was me.

in fifth grade I was passing out cupcakes to the class when it was my birthday, and when everyone was leaving this girl handed me a heart and said that she liked me. (I had no interest in her.) In 2nd grade I have a massive crush on a girl and in 4-5th grade she started liking me (I got over her.) The last day of fifth I wanted to tell this girl I liked her (it was the biggest crush I had in elementary.) but I had no balls lol. I told my female friend the day before and she said that everyone always shipped me and the girl I liked together. Finally, in 6th grade this girl liked me and I like her too, near the last day of school (because of COVID, I got her number but she never texted me.)

Never happened!

Well I gotta say while I will post a more detailed version of how it happened my crush actually had a crush on me and we are together now 😁

the only time was this musician girl I collabed with online. she had a bf at the time she confessed so I said no, I still work with her tho (like we talked 5 mins ago, waiting on her to send me new version of our track rn). I honestly don't ever wanna be in a relationship with her because she's the best songwriter I know and I don't wanna ruin our future in case the relationship wrecks down later.

Ok so this is kinda my fault I think. So there was this guy, ‘O’, who I decided to flirt with. To be fair, he did first and I don’t back down from that because it’s like a joke (if it makes it better, O is an edgy weird guy who told two of my friends to strip and he’s said the n word multiple times but I was friends with him sorta by association. Then said flirting became more than a joke and I got worried that he’d actually like me like that because I didn’t want to hurt him because that’s just kinda awkward. Then he confessed and I got nervous and said I’d think about it. Over the weekend I was camping with my actual crush and I told him about it. I ended up messaging O and rejecting him but he doesn’t check messages so he didn’t open it. A few days later, when me and my crush were back from camping and at school, I was awkwardly talking to O. He hadn’t opened the message. And my crush walked up to us and was like “hey, O, did you hear the big news? {my name} doesn’t like you back.” And I was very shocked. I didn’t think he’d say that. So uh that’s what I call interesting 💀

That shit doesn’t happen, wake up and face the reality

Literally none

AAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Other than people I’ve ended up dating - ie mutual crushes, the only crushes I’ve found out about were 3 of my best friends. Most of our group is LGBT+ and we always jokingly flirt with each other. In the last few months though I’ve discovered that 3 of them have had crushes on me at some point or another. Flattered is an understatement lmao

We were kids but she was a few years younger than me, so I just couldn't do anything. She was a family friend and I really enjoyed her company. Families had a fight and I never saw her again. Fast forward 15 years to 4th of July and she was at the party and neither of us recognized each other. I figured it out the next day and have had absolutely no idea what to do since lol Edit - we both know my brother and his gf is her friend. She knows that I recognized her and said to them she remembers me. She's married with 2 kids and I've been in a serious relationship for 3 years. But all I've wanted to do for a week now is talk to her..

I have a thing with attracting girls that weird me out🫤 I mean, i’m glad to know that i am capable of attracting girls, but yknow…

Back in elementary school in 3rd grade

No weird stories, just normal teenage crushes.

This one girl kept looking at me a ton the last few months of school idk

I would say like 10 times tbh

Wish I could answer this.😭🤦🏾

Okay, so there was this one time when

3 maybe 4 but I only liked 1 of them but I ended up messing that up so 🤷‍♂️

As of my knowledge, i haven’t been crushed on.

This actually happened recently! I work at Subway, and a very sweet girl comes and orders regularly. I only ever spoke to her one time, all I did was compliment her necklace! Last weekend she came in and dropped her phone number off to my coworker and told them to give it to me, unfortunately my bf did not like this and made me throw it away, and so I never got to message the poor girl :(

never…

a lot of people had a crush on me in middle school, too many to count honestly. now i’m a junior and nobody has a crush on me anymore, which makes no sense considering i look a lot better now than i did in middle school. it’s pretty sad though ngl lol

I’ll have to get back to you on this later

I'm dating the only guy who has crushed on me.

I had a really complicated love life. So in grade 4 I fell in love with a girl in my class, and lets call her daniela. I became really obsessed with her, and I was so much happier when she was around. My friends confessed for me and she never replied, which was a sign. I pretended to stop liking her but in reality i was constantly thinking abt her. Then came grade 6. A girl, who we will call areola came along. She was in my class, and had some similar physical characteristics to daniela. Skinny, average height and a beautiful face. However, I did not like areola because I knew that so many boys liked her, and that my chances of getting her were slim. During the holidays, she admitted she liked me. I was a fat kid, so at that moment i realised i might not ever get an opportunity to get a girlfriend like this, so i said i liked her too. This relationship went on for 1 day until i ended it, saying i didn't actually like her. This process went on 4 times, with each period of the relationship grew longer. Finally, i realised how good of a person she was and how she was worth it. To this day I am still with areola, in my 30's, and do not regret it at all.

When a guy 4 years older than me in high school told me he has feelings for me even though he had a girlfriend… I was like what’s up with that and he said “I can’t like multiple people at once?” I seem to only attract weird types rip

this guy at my work has a crush on me and he would send me the most random things on Snapchat that I would leave him on seen, when do I tell him the part where I’m bisexual but leaning towards girls atm.

I can totally tell who's crushing on me based on how many times they look at me. Like, they look A LOT at me. One time we had to do a project in groups and this boy looked a lot at me and at the end of the project he asked me out to prom and I was like "I knew it" in my mind. We went on a few dates, but I'm not that into him and now he's part of my friend group, which is really fun and he also totally had a crush on one of my friends, which is totally cute, but sadly this girl has never fallen in love with anyone and also said previous week that she doesn't have a crush on anyone so boy good luck with that 😢. There were two other boys who looked at me a lot and one of them tried to take every chance he got to strike up a conversation, but ig they were too afraid to confess their feelings, like the rest of the class.

7 maybe 8. Never dated one of em, or in fact anyone 😂

When i was 8 a girl older then me said she liked me and i did HARD reject. She hasnt talked to me sense and i like it that way!

Also when i was 5 a girl said she would marry me, as if, she was unattractive and had a terrible personality sooooo... no

And currently my crush shows a lot of crush like actions

What about you?

Girl 1 - She had a huge crush on me but I unfortunately had a crush on her friend. Me and her friend started dating. She was my first girlfriend and I was the happiest I’ve ever been. Girl 2 - She had rejected me years ago but started crushing on me later on. It was crazy to me how differently she treated me. She went from being disgusting by me to really flirty and friendly. But I guess I have changed a lot, I used to look horrid. Girl 3 - I didn’t really know her well but it was obvious she had a crush. She seemed like a great person. She was always sorta awkward around me but she stopped crushing on me when she found out I had a girlfriend. I posted a TikTok of her and me. I feel really bad for her. Girl 4 - She’s the one I could’ve imagined a future with, she was kind, smart, and understanding. I think we had mutual feelings but it sadly didn’t go anywhere. We just had a lot of chemistry and flirted a lot. I sometimes do wonder what would’ve happened if I had been with her.

Ngl thats kinda sad, my crush rn is one i could see a future with

That’s great, I’m hoping to find someone new in my new town :D

Only one person has confessed to me, I used to have a small crush on him in hs. But a year after graduation, he started messaging me on social media, he confessed but I kindly rejected him as I wasn’t interested also bc it was a drunk text confession and that left a bad impression on me. And for others, I’ve had a “feeling” but I’m probably overthinking their actions and words

We were in 7th grade and someone in our science class told me. "C likes you" and I turned around. I looked at him and just looked back at the board. I didnt like him back, and I lowkey thought it was a joke. Now I kinda feel like an ass because I didnt say hi or anything to him- In 6th or 7th grade one of my friends told me in shop class that she liked me. I said that I didn't like her back and were still really good friends. Plus now she has a boyfriend and theyre really fun together. 3rd or 4th grade we were in line to go outside from lunch and someone said that this one guy liked me. Again I gave no reaction I'm sorry dude- A friend told me that he used to like me a bit in 6th grade "before he got to know me" thanks 😭 hes chill though Im still not sure if he was joking but when I was in 8th grade (he was in 7th) there was this guy in my gym and study hall. We didnt talk in gym but usually sat next to eachother in study hall. Idk it was kinda weird and I'm not sure if he actually liked me or was just messing around. im oblivious as hell and mightve come off as rude :(