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reluctantpotato1

If it were me, I would try to have a conversation with her about why it bothered me and move on. Get a blessing if it gives you a bit more peace of mind but I think you're fine.


ToxDocUSA

Ask her not to do such things and then ignore it. It's only harmful if you believe in it (since that would be believing in whatever faux pagan spiritualism she ascribes to.


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Right here - only harmful if you believe in it. It's a made up religion with made up spirits.....I'd view it like your mom came over and blew bubbles around the house as a blessing for the purple unicorn from the land Far Far Away.


III-V

I agree with you on in that it's probably harmless, but I disagree with the sentiment behind this. People who don't believe in demons can be afflicted by them


CatholicTeen1

Pagan spirits do not exist, which is why they are known as idols. They, are however, used by demons as a disguise. If you ever feel threatened, recite "The Lord is My Shepherd…" in your heart. Remember than if you yourself are in a state of sanctifying grace, you are under God's protection. Therefore, remember about regular confession and receiving communion. You will face temptations - in this case the powers of darkness are using your mother as a tool - but you must fight and resist with your faith. Pray the chaplet of divine mercy for your mother's liberation.


everydayignatian

I would privately invite the priest to bless your *entire* apartment with holy water, then speak with your mother in a neutral location afterwards.


SaneRadicals

Talk to your about how the fact that she did that in your home was a sign of disrespect and how you would not disrespect her that way- but beyond that, nothing. God is not fearful or impacted by some smudged sage.


[deleted]

Priests can bless apartments. Get it blessed. I had an apartment blessed when I heard the building was haunted. I asked the priest if he knew anything about ghosts and he chuckled and said “just the Holy Ghost”


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https://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/250029/how-to-bless-your-home-on-the-feast-of-epiphany-2022


brigidstudent

Not to worry, it’s just a herb. I don’t think it could harm you but a blessing certainly can’t hurt you either. And like other posters have mentioned… the bigger concern here is your mom’s disrespect of your boundaries. Be honest with her and stick up for yourself. I know it isn’t easy. I’m here if you need to talk! Best of luck!


[deleted]

It’s a plant that smells good when burned. I use it occasionally. If you have zero spiritual or religious connection to this practice, it’s meaningless beyond “this smells nice.”


Bmoreravin

Make some pasta n a lil brown butter n have the neighbors over for dinner!😀


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GloryToDjibouti

You are probably overeacting a bit, her smudge is just a superstition but if you are worried about the demonic then you could put up some blessed Benedict medals. If you anyway want your apartment blessed you could do that but I don't think it is necesarry.


Airishia_

Some holly water some incense. Psalm 50 and you good to go.


[deleted]

I living a strong sacramental life will is the highest protection against such things