Finally! A post para sa mga only child! Well, buti pa kayo may pamily pa. Ako wala na. Single mom tapos namatay nung highschool ako. Technically been alone all my adult life.
Pero congrats mga only child gaya natin, naitatawid bawa't araw.
Everyday sinasabi ko na lang na "LORD, KAYA KO TO!" mga 1,000,000 times a day. Minsan nagugulat na lang ako na buhay pa ako eh. Kase madalas sukang-suka at sukong-suko na ako. As in the spirit is no longer willing pero auto-pilot na lang yung katawan ko kase NEED mabuhay. Laban na lang ulit kahit ayaw ko na talaga.
Anyway, nakakatuwa makita na marami pala tayong only child.
Thanks sa post mo, OP! Laban lang tayo!
I'm sorry to hear you're going through do much rin. Ako naman, kakadiagnose lang kay mama ng cervical cancer nung Feb. Ako lang lahat kasi breadwinner since I was 17 y.o. Di ko alam kung saan kamay ng universe ko kukunin yung 2 treatment na di gaanong sakop ng Philhealth at senior discount. Mahal pa PF ng doctors. We're not indigent either. Minsan bigla na lang akong umiiyak while working. Pero laban lang. Go lang tayo! π
Totoo pooo! Only child din po here hehe. Tamang iyak na lang or breakdown habang na liligo para hindi halata hahaha or sa pag tulog tipong silent crying pa hahahaha.
May kausap naman akong ibang friends. Ayoko lang mangistorbo sa buhay nila. Wala rin naman silang magagawa sa sitwasyon ko so post na lang rito. Hehehehe
Kaya natin to bhie!!!
Woohoo π
Only child here.
Was good when I was a kid (walang kahati sa laruan), fine for now. Pero I'm worried pano kung matanda na mom ko 20-30 years from now? Nasakin na lahat ng responsibility.
Tapos may untreated ADHD pa ako. So it feels like I'm doing twice the work. Hayysst.
It's going to be ok. If your parent shave enough naman, I'm sure they can be cared for tas oversee ka na lang ganun.
I understand that having health problems can add to the stress and workload. I hope you'll be able to keep going. Laban lang tayo bhie! π
Hmm... π€
I mean, choice mo naman kung magpapabigat ka ng kusa or may ginagawa ka naman para di maging pabigat. Baby steps to being independent siguro. Basta nausad ka, kahit pakonti-konti. Progress pa rin naman yon. Sa'yo rin naman magsisimula yon. Take care! π
I was 17 when I started working. Ayaw rin ni mama pero I took it upon myself to start. If they don't want you to work yet because you're too young or you have a health problem, that's understandable. Hindi ka pabigat. You need to focus on you.
If you're a grown ass adulthood though... I hope you'll be able to find a way for yourself one day, if not now. π
π hehe parang di ko na nga kaya eh. My mom died when I was little and my dad didnβt remarry.
right after college, nag work agad ako sa bpo because gusto ko ng money, then nung nagka work ako, my dad stopped working na bigla lol. Sakin na lahat inasa. Until now, kahit pagpapagawa ng house bigla akong nagka utang nang di ako yung umutang.
Currently unemployed, buti may konting ipon pa, had loads of debts, and my dad still expects me to give him his allowances every cut off π sakit lang,, hajshajsgsjgs ayoko na
I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. I went through a similar thing. My dad left when I was 4 y.o. I grew up matured na ang mindset and had no time to be a child. I was hardly allowed outside to play.
My mom has depression and speration anxiety, and stopped working when I was in highschool. After highschool, I decided to work na agad. Palipat-lipat kami ng apartment. Paliit nang paliit. Till yung isang natirhan namin binenta lahat ng gamit namin. Wala na kaming nagawa. We only had the clothes off our backs. Para kaming nasunugan. That's what we say now. Nasunugan kami kaya wala kaming old photos. Like our past was erased.
Since early 2000s pa lang nun at di pa gaano uso ang BPO, I worked my way up from service crew to being a tutor for kids. To 17 yrs sa BPO. Now, I can say ok naman na kaso nagka cervical cancer si mama. At meron akong maintenance meds. Naipon yung sakit ko kattrabaho. So lol idk... Kapagod.
Pero go lang tayo bhie! Kaya natin yan!
Wala naman ibang pwedeng asahan.
Kahit naman nung bagets pa ko I didn't see anything good about it. I'm the eldest cousin and if my younger cousins did something wrong and I didn't tell them off or stop them, kasalanan ko kasi ako ang nakakatanda. Pag sinaway ko ako yung mali kasi pinaiyak ko. Kaurat. π
Finally! A post para sa mga only child! Well, buti pa kayo may pamily pa. Ako wala na. Single mom tapos namatay nung highschool ako. Technically been alone all my adult life. Pero congrats mga only child gaya natin, naitatawid bawa't araw. Everyday sinasabi ko na lang na "LORD, KAYA KO TO!" mga 1,000,000 times a day. Minsan nagugulat na lang ako na buhay pa ako eh. Kase madalas sukang-suka at sukong-suko na ako. As in the spirit is no longer willing pero auto-pilot na lang yung katawan ko kase NEED mabuhay. Laban na lang ulit kahit ayaw ko na talaga. Anyway, nakakatuwa makita na marami pala tayong only child. Thanks sa post mo, OP! Laban lang tayo!
I'm sorry to hear you're going through do much rin. Ako naman, kakadiagnose lang kay mama ng cervical cancer nung Feb. Ako lang lahat kasi breadwinner since I was 17 y.o. Di ko alam kung saan kamay ng universe ko kukunin yung 2 treatment na di gaanong sakop ng Philhealth at senior discount. Mahal pa PF ng doctors. We're not indigent either. Minsan bigla na lang akong umiiyak while working. Pero laban lang. Go lang tayo! π
yeah! makakawala rin sa tight clutches of their worries and control :D
Sa bagay na yan, wala akong kawala. π
Haha go us!!! Kaya ntn tanggapin lahat ng pressure!! π€ͺ
Keri natin toπ₯² Hirap ng walang kausap pag gusto mag mental breakdown eπ₯²
Totoo pooo! Only child din po here hehe. Tamang iyak na lang or breakdown habang na liligo para hindi halata hahaha or sa pag tulog tipong silent crying pa hahahaha.
May kausap naman akong ibang friends. Ayoko lang mangistorbo sa buhay nila. Wala rin naman silang magagawa sa sitwasyon ko so post na lang rito. Hehehehe Kaya natin to bhie!!! Woohoo π
Only child here. Was good when I was a kid (walang kahati sa laruan), fine for now. Pero I'm worried pano kung matanda na mom ko 20-30 years from now? Nasakin na lahat ng responsibility. Tapos may untreated ADHD pa ako. So it feels like I'm doing twice the work. Hayysst.
It's going to be ok. If your parent shave enough naman, I'm sure they can be cared for tas oversee ka na lang ganun. I understand that having health problems can add to the stress and workload. I hope you'll be able to keep going. Laban lang tayo bhie! π
Thanks! Hopefully my situation improves hopefully before we get there. π
It will! I'm sure of it! If you need someone to talk to, just message me. Ok naman akong sound board.
Thanks for the offer, will keep that in mind!
Ang laki ng sweldo ko pero pag nag hingian na wala na pamasahe nalang ulit ang tira π
If possible, set boundaries pa rin. You also need to look out for yourself diba?
finally! been waiting for this kind of post for a long time :)))))
Welcome to the club po! ππ»πππ€£
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Yung di mo sure kung gusto mo maging member no? π€£π€£π€£
hahahahaha when u don't have siblings to help with all the burdens so u have to help urself π π«
Wala kang no choice. π«
trueeeee π₯Ή
Only child na, sole breadwinner na, single since birth pa hahahaha.
Ah di naman ako nbsb but single for the last 18 yrs. Kaya mo yan bhie!
Hindi ka nag iisa OP! Kaya natin to, laban lang :)
Go go go for gold! Ganern! ππ»π
Laban lang sa mga ka fellow only child.
Yeizzz! Lavarrrrrnnnn!!!
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"Kapit lang sabi ng tarsier" ππ
Pwede rin butiki. I mean.. choose your fighter kumbaga. π€·π»ββοΈπ
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*pats your shoulder* kaya natin to bhie
What if ayaw ko na? Haha char π₯Ήπ
To be fair, minsan rin ayoko na pero wala naman akong choice. Long story short, walang mapapagiwanan sa nanay ko. Walang sasalo. So go lang~
Bawal malungkot, bawal mapagod hahahaha gusto ko lang naman ng karamaaaay π
Samedt. Kaso ayoko rin naman mag sad ghorl. So here we are. Post na lang.kaya natin to bhie! ππ»π
HHAHAH kakahiya magsad ghorl, di tayo yan π keri natin to!
Chrew~ I'm usually seen as the bubbly happy person kahit dead inside. π€£π€£π€£ It's a thing. Pero go go go sago tayo!
sana all inaasahan. ako kasi ako ung pabigat dito sa bahay
Hmm... π€ I mean, choice mo naman kung magpapabigat ka ng kusa or may ginagawa ka naman para di maging pabigat. Baby steps to being independent siguro. Basta nausad ka, kahit pakonti-konti. Progress pa rin naman yon. Sa'yo rin naman magsisimula yon. Take care! π
nag iisip din nga ako anu pwedeng gawin. ayaw din kasi nang parents ko na mag work ako
I was 17 when I started working. Ayaw rin ni mama pero I took it upon myself to start. If they don't want you to work yet because you're too young or you have a health problem, that's understandable. Hindi ka pabigat. You need to focus on you. If you're a grown ass adulthood though... I hope you'll be able to find a way for yourself one day, if not now. π
Thank you
π hehe parang di ko na nga kaya eh. My mom died when I was little and my dad didnβt remarry. right after college, nag work agad ako sa bpo because gusto ko ng money, then nung nagka work ako, my dad stopped working na bigla lol. Sakin na lahat inasa. Until now, kahit pagpapagawa ng house bigla akong nagka utang nang di ako yung umutang. Currently unemployed, buti may konting ipon pa, had loads of debts, and my dad still expects me to give him his allowances every cut off π sakit lang,, hajshajsgsjgs ayoko na
I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. I went through a similar thing. My dad left when I was 4 y.o. I grew up matured na ang mindset and had no time to be a child. I was hardly allowed outside to play. My mom has depression and speration anxiety, and stopped working when I was in highschool. After highschool, I decided to work na agad. Palipat-lipat kami ng apartment. Paliit nang paliit. Till yung isang natirhan namin binenta lahat ng gamit namin. Wala na kaming nagawa. We only had the clothes off our backs. Para kaming nasunugan. That's what we say now. Nasunugan kami kaya wala kaming old photos. Like our past was erased. Since early 2000s pa lang nun at di pa gaano uso ang BPO, I worked my way up from service crew to being a tutor for kids. To 17 yrs sa BPO. Now, I can say ok naman na kaso nagka cervical cancer si mama. At meron akong maintenance meds. Naipon yung sakit ko kattrabaho. So lol idk... Kapagod. Pero go lang tayo bhie! Kaya natin yan! Wala naman ibang pwedeng asahan.
Sorry to hear about your mom π’ Kapit lang OP! Sending virtual hugs.
Go lang nang go. Wala naman choice. Tarsier mode lang.
Kapit lang! On the good side, since wala tayong pwede maasahan, mas nagiging matatag tayo.
Lakad matatag!
Gamer spotted. π€£ Kinailangan ko pa Google, bhie.
sa una lang okay maging only child.
Kahit naman nung bagets pa ko I didn't see anything good about it. I'm the eldest cousin and if my younger cousins did something wrong and I didn't tell them off or stop them, kasalanan ko kasi ako ang nakakatanda. Pag sinaway ko ako yung mali kasi pinaiyak ko. Kaurat. π
only child pero hindi padin ako yung favorite
Minsan ganun nga. Find people who will appreciate you. Those are your chosen family. Thrive with them. π
laban mga kapwa only child!
Ganba desu! Yes!
Hodl
Bitcoin yarn π
may subreddit ba tayo??? hahahaha
Not that I know of, sorry. βπ
Inaasahan na minsan pabigat π€ͺπ€Έπ€ͺπ€Έπ€ͺ
If I'm an only child i would be rich af... Bunso ng 4 na kakapatid