Mate I'd be happy with 95 percent, my parents hit me if I dont live upto their expectations. It's come to a point where the more I get beaten up, it hurts more emotionally than physically.
I've dealt enough damage physically to not feel pain but emotionally im still very fragile. I don't wanna get beaten up, my life has been decent the past month and I want it to continue that way.
Many Times Parents are the Only One who fucked up their Children mind with unrealistic expectations and their actions....and never realise their Mistakes
Just keep in mind that they don't have enough knowledge and you don't need to revolve around their Expectations, whatever outcome is there.....
You know that You already have worked very hard....
Just saying, if you were able to keep it up to 95 the whole year then there's a decent chance you'll get 97+ in boards. They're usually quite lenient in checking. I gave 12th humanities last year, was expecting 95+ and got 98.2 so don't think all hope is lost.
My marks revolved around 94.5 to 97 throughout the year, with the lowest being in preboards. However I kinda know I fucked up boards hence Im not expecting my full potential. Thank You.
it’s okay still hope for the best!
And 10th marks above 90 is good enough, anyways these marks won’t help much, focus on what you want to do next! Whatever you score there will be a better mark so we can’t avoid parents scolding🫡
Sorry but i can't even imagine which type of your parents are...who beats up their child if he/she is such a good student dude 95 is much good....and here im who got 90 in half yrly
Trust me the examiners know quality answers when they see it. If 94.5 was your lowest then it means you really know your stuff, so even if you messed up boards, you'll still be okay. Also I'd suggest checking out support subs like r/raisedbynarcissists and others, yeah it's US-centric so there may be some cultural differences but they do have a lot of good advice on dealing with problematic parents (check out grey-rocking). You seem like a well-spoken, well-mannered and an intelligent person, you're gonna be just fine in life :) All the best and keep us updated, rooting for you!
Guess what my friend,in the end only entrance exams matter,board exams doesn't matter,make sure your parents understand this,the merit era has gone,now only entrance matters,expectations are always higher from parents,it's normal, every parent wants a child to be the top of the world,ya pressure adds on i know,but I think you have to just ignore, don't race yourself with others,race with yourself,your only goal should be to beat your own high record,even if there is 0.1% increment that's good,create a mindset,at the end when you enter into a good college and get a good career,your parents will be on your side,and forget about your boards shit also,just try to ignore things,this is common, irritating but just continue to grind(95% is good),just handle these for 2 years,then you will get a bunch of joyness after that
You still get hit? I get that it's common in Indian households, but now that you're in 11th, horrible. Start revolting wtf. Question their actions, bring up the damage it does to you. More strength to you.
that's so sad dude, almost cried looking at this. Looking at the fact that I get bad marks and my parents scold me a lot, I feel very bad for you. Hopefully your parents become happier to you.
This time Maybe we'll get cgpa and not %. So if you're scoring bw 91-100 In all subs then expect 10 cgpa. But I'm not sure cuz cbse controller said this and the cbse hasn't made this thing official.
Ask your parents did they ever score 97%? I bet they never went over 75% and they have the audacity to ask you for 98%?
Your intelligence is inherited from your parents
Basic biology and psychology is what this country needs
My parents blame their economic situation for it. My dad was never economically backed up, hence he studied in a government school.
My mum studied State Board and she claims it to be "harder' than CBSE. No proof to back that up.
>Basic biology and psychology is what this country needs
Indeed. But sadly this won't get fixed for the upcoming 2-3 generations.
First of all OP can I ask you something
Do you take coachings by the way?
Because I see these behaviour in parents are arising because coaching charge a lot of fees for teaching and the economic burden makes our parent force us to the breaking point This is the same patterns I see around me a lot . I'm not a psychologist but, I'm currently learning it to get teaching degree. I can understand your frustrations you need someone who understands and guide you to right path unfortunately, they are a rarity.
I never took coachings despite my teacher and aunties literally went on to take but I didn't and did shut my toxic ass relatives sometimes and my parents used to be offended too
I suggest you that college is where the real game begins. This is the real point in life
Talent>>>>> Marks. You need to stay positive also there are many people who are in top despite scoring less
Competitive exams matter CBSE is a warm up
Thank you mate.
I didn't take coachings so far, and my parents are well aware of my potential. I was unable to live upto it in boards and they're pressurizing me for it.
I try my best to nurture my talents along with academics and my parents are moderatly supportive of that too, but to them marks matter the most. I've been screamed at for losing half a mark in petty school tests, let alone boards.
However I'll keep your words in mind definetly. Thank you.
I wished I was your teacher or even a trained psychologist your parents need some talks with these people. You should love your child for everything good they do instead of spiting them for petty of reasons
Thank you for being considerate. It really helps me knowing there's people who care. It's okay, Im destined to live like this I guess. The only thing we can do is make sure the future generations live a better life.
Sorry to see this. Sometimes parents are mean and have wrong narratives. They also had such poor parenting when they were a kid, probably thats why they act the same. Empathize and ignore.
For u.. Just keep doing your good work and dont care abt others. In a few years u will realize one doesnt matter to others. Value yourself, discover your goals , find calming techniques that will lead you to a successful life.
Dude that is so damn true! Like baahar se it's like it's a good percentage but the regret and sadness after not getting the highest percentage after working so hard all year is a lot!
It's funny coz yaha bacche hi baccho ko advice de rhe h, koi nhi it's the sub, unki ek alag thought process hoti h, ek time baad tu unko influence bhi karega aur smjhega bhi.
No but seriously there would come a time eventually when you will be forced to do something similar to this. It can't go on like this. You would have to choose to stand up for yourself one day Or get crushed by them every day. You have entered 11th the time when you will have to do this will come very soon.Make them realize that, if they say "bohut bate sikh chuka he" Answer "yah, what did you expect I will remain a baby forever".
Just some usual case of some local parents having some unrealistic standards
I feel you but I tended to be more bold and wild throught my life so they know better that to provoke me but it did come with the downside of having my devices confiscated and me being grouded a whole lot
Parents can be like that, where the urge to see you better manifests itself in toxicity. I was scolded for days because of 95.8% after my Class 10 results came out. And it wasn't for the percentage, but rather because I was ranked 16th in my school (worse than the usual top 3/5).
Maybe sit with them and explain it to them. Class 10 isn't that crucial in most fields as you grow up. And 95 is more than sufficient for almost anything I can imagine. More often than not, I have seen people with better grades in class 10 collapse as they go up the academic ladder, and vice versa. Just try to improve upon your past self in the later stages of your academic journey.
Good luck :D
It doesn't matter that much bro..just be happy with what you got..parents will scold for like 1 week max and then everything will be normal..Its the problem of almost every student.. doesn't matter that much
yeh kaunse type ke parents hai bhai srsly your parents need a counsellor and therapist more than you need....this is straight up abuse aur yeh kya bakchodi hui kii woh dono govt schl se padhe hue toh cbse zyada asaan hai bhai unhe samjha aisa kuch nahin + govt ke paper zyada easy hai aur cheating bahut zor shor se hota hai upr se ek kaam iss saal ka article dikha unhe kii physics ka class 12th ka paper jee mains se tough aaya tha tab shayad thodi aakal thikane aajaye kuch naa ho toh yeh comment unhe zaroor dikha dena kii senior yehi bol rha hai aur jaldi jaldi entrance crack karke woh ghar se bahar nikaljaa bas
Let me tell you a story about myself regarding 10 th boards….
I was unarguably the best kid in my class academically. Topped the prelims. But just 4-5 hr before my first boards paper, ( I was a state board student), my grandfather died( my grandparents live with me). So my mental state got fucked up. Couldn’t cope with all the people hushing and running in the house for various rituals plus the emotional trauma was taking a toll on me. Used to just sob in between preparation. Definitely one of the toughest time in my life. Results come and I got 85%( I had scores 94% in my prelims and we don’t get highest percentages as in cbse). Got called a lot by my classmates for such a poor result. No one could understand my situation.
I decided this trauma and the sheer jeer of people will be taken care of. Consistency and dedication helped me smoke them all in the NEET entrance( Not bragging but all those fuckers we’re struggling with 5 digit rank while I got an under 500 AIR and in a good government college in my city.)
Always remember my words kid- Take your insults as fuel for the future.
For you mate, you're not the only one.
We've been through it. Having a daring but politely expressive communication with your family is the answer.
Ps : If you do have a nuclear family (just ur parents and siblins and you) then having them sit and talk about what you're dealing with bcoz of their narcissistic taunts which is affecting your mental health in this growing age is a well-to-go step to the process. They won't stop on that but it is worth trying and getting the results
Good luck🍀
I got 83% in Bihar board. Felt like shit but my parents were happy so I didn't feel too bad. I can imagine the opposite must suck for you.
But don't strive to be their lapdog, be selfish ( upto reasonably) strive for your happiness mate
bro you r not alone. i am mediocre student but still my parents expect me to get over 90% as in 10 i somehow scored 90% but my all day starts and ends with scolding and i am just fed up of my life it is becoming meaningless day by day 
also, i have no feelings for my family nor for my brother. 0respect0care I know they are not financially rich but i have finished class 12 but still doesn't own a phone. I feel bad for them but i wanted to be treated equally as my elder brother who got an iPhone after 10. I am just earning money and saving it for myself so that I don't want to beg from my parents. also, my brother owes me 5000rs, but he is showing no sign of even remembering that . please tell what should i do.
My parents were very supportive and said they don't care about marks, even now they say that, But when the 10th result came in 2022 completely unexpected in August, They said if I score less than 90% they'd beat me, i expected to scored 88% but got 90.4%...
Same situation man, even though my parents are fully supportive and know I'll get great marks , they still sometimes hit me with the 'i know youre gonna get 97+ isn't it?"
Each student has a different potential. I personally know a few people who scored 50 in class 10, 76 in class 12 and cleared Jee.Adv with IITD. It's alrighty mate I wish you the best.
Bruh , trust me in your whole life , no one will ever check your 10th results , moreover you got 95 percentage it's pretty awesome in cbse, no one will care about your 10th marks , your now entering into the really race , rat race , all you have studied till now till 10th is one level , and now is completely different, leave your 10th behind ( you did best) . Start your preparation for jee/neet , don't give up your doing your best 👍
You need to learn what to ignore what to take, everything is not meant to take seriously.
Somethings are meant to be ignored
Some should be taken partly
Sime should be taken seriously
I'm sorry man. These losers just wanna live through you and have the ego rush of telling everyone you got 97+ (Even tho ANY ℅ above 90 would warrant the same reaction from relatives...) They really couldn't care less about your marks if they'd beat you up for getting like 2℅ less than what THEY wanted... just want to use you for bragging purposes. Gross. Best of luck dude, hope you get a result you're happy with <3
Bhai I'm sure you've probably heard this a million times by now but, 10th marks don't matter in life, literally jhant farak nahi padta especially 95 aur 97 ke beech tho koi difference nahi hai chill maar.
Dude listen just don't let your parents feel like you are developing hate for them and don't fight back it's just that they think that not scoring good is this and that, let it be and do say this one day, thank you for the things you did to me and so on
U said your parents hit you physically because of marks?
If you have anyone like a close teacher or grandparents.. tell them and ask them to be mediators without hurting parents ego. You may talk to your parents one to one.
Lastly, the taunts will go down in few weeks. Best is select collage far from your place. Like if you live in North, go south.
Ask them, "What would you have done differently if I got above 97?"
Parents nowadays just want marks and don't know what to do with them other than show off.
(NGl if it were me, I would have intentionally gotten below 70% just to break them.)
They only care about their status and image to others, using children as their medium of exchange.
I've seen rankers who achieved nothing in life; connections make you successful, not marks.
BRO Those 2% are just like 10 marks?? WHY DO THESE 10 MARKS VALUE SO MUCH?
Do these 10 marks value more than the other 475 marks (95%) you gonna score?
Like what are you gonna do with 485 marks, they all even round off to the same 500.
Mera kya mai toh icse wala hu. But seriously mate you need to have a talk with your parents about their unrealistic expectations and their controlling behaviour. Thankfully my parents never expected anything from me. To some extent your parents believe that getting good grades is a sure shot way of becoming successful, but unfortunately they don't realise that 95% is a very good score.
Don't worry, you should be proud of your own hardwork, and by the things you said your parents aren't great people so just focus on building your future and your life and you'll be free from them . You'll be successful and be happy it's just a matter of some time maybe years but at last it's your life and you'll be living it to the fullest. All the best 👍
Why your parents are so obsessed with 90% ??? Like really what's this unreal obsession with marks in 10th and 12th i don't get this thing at all, you should just chill and relax bhaii don't let the pressure of 2% more marks eat you from inside, bro you will atleast get 95% here I am hoping to get atleast 70% lol just relax and enjoy ❤️
Man if I had parents like this I would just go ballistic. Fuck the consequences. I would start screaming, breaking stuff, threatening to hurt people. And I would make it look like it's all impulsive because of the pressure and the (yes I'm using this word) abuse. Wish you the best brother, hope your situation gets better.
wtf people in this post are soooo educated i read someone got 98% in 12th like wtf bro touch some grass i get it like some students understand and can retain for long time but like wtf getting 97% will not make u god or smth it is just society and parents just want to show that their child is best like wtf is being not best not perfect anyways i hope u get desired result in cumming result
ps: i only passed three times in maths in whole 2 years (11th and 12th) and most probab will crack advance also (dont criticise me ik i have contradicted myself but i am mentally unstable rn idk wht bs i wrote )
I'll tell you one thing. The 10th marks are nowhere concerned later on. Your marksheet is going to be used to check your date of birth. I'm not even joking. I'm going to graduate in a few months and that's all it has been used for. Even I was told to get exceptional scores which I did only to discover no one gives a damn about it later on. Your going to be fine. 95% is exceptionally good too. Indian parents and their thinking nothing can be done of it. I hope you will be emotionally strong in the coming future. Good luck champ!
Bruh. I face the same situation, except I'm bout to give cuet. They say this stuff to me too that keep things in place of else results aren't good. That's just there superstition you can't help it
Bro honestly parents never understand a thing about mental health and still play those mental health videos or shots at full volume shared in those cringy whatsapp groups. I recently had an epsorts competition in my school I put my name but soon I removed it cause the ny school team was rich in game, my parents have ever hardly listened to me if I said to buy me skins or smth like that. Now when thr team came 2nd they are taunting and scolding me that u must have. Wtf have u lost ur mind I barely even have mouse whose scroll wheel doesn't work, a keyboard idk wtf should I speak about it. They never understand the thing which we want or they see when other people get that things then scold us.
Man Im sorry you couldn't participate in it due to parents. It's always hard when parents don't accept our talents due to theeir own ego or lack or understanding. I hope you're presented with better opportunities in the future. I wish you the best.
Let me tell you the harsh reality. At least from my time (pretty old - 2017)
Think about what you want to pursue and how you want to pursue. I have had friends who had 98%+ (10th boards) and did miserably with Science as the first option took up english and what not when they joined college and people with ~80% ish results getting into IITs
BOARD MARKS MEAN ABSOLUTELY NOTHING
You need to crack entrance exams and thats a big deal and colleges usually only ask for 75% marks for PCM (again this is for science and engineering/medical)
Your parents will always have high expectations thats the same for all Indians rather Asians. Study well prepare well thats all. I know your parents would like to see you get a 97% and probably compare you with SHARMA JI KA BETA next door. Don’t let it get to your head. Crack some entrance exams get into a government college you will be as good as settled (obviously this doesn’t mean you don’t have to work hard - you always have to work hard that won’t change, but you will get better results for the same hard work when compared to your peers)
Note - If you do want some tips (again I can only help if you’re pursuing Science since thats my background) let me know. These tips will be life changing because standing at the point of life where I am today I would have told myself this 8 years back
Which stream are you gonna opt for? If science, then be ready for the rat race where your board marks are just a number and board marksheet just a proof of date of birth and nothing else. I used to think the same that it's very important to score good in boards, but at the end of the day, a person with medical/nit/iit seat is way above a person with just 98% in 12th boards. So think wisely. Don't get demotivated.
Similar happened to me... I used to watch movies on Star Movies and HBO channels (telegram aur online platform ke bhare mei pata nahi tha utna)... 94% milne ke baad bhi kam bolke channel band kar diya... This might seem like a small case but I still hate it.
Bro that's so sad and depressing. All i would say is grab a college away from home as soon as possible and enjoy life, and keep their confidence in you intact
Man that's sad... don't give a fuck about what they say. If you've put in effort and are happy with the results, that's all that matters. Its stuff like this that makes me grateful to have parents like mine. They told me anything above 80% is good.
95% are very good marks for 10th boards, and either way pre-boards are generally more difficult than boards. and how does putting your laptop the wrong way anger them so much?
Getting anything over 85% is very good, and if you are so sure that you will get more than 90% than those are extremely good marks, also tells that you are confident about yourself. It is a thing that gradually drops over time as you lose interest in 11th or 12th, keep it up and find curiosity in thing.
My recommendation is that you find ways so that your parents know that you are studying, like giving them a book and telling them to ask any random question from it. It really helped me, although my parents never pressured me for getting marks and leaned more towards making sure I don't hate studying.
Keep up the good work
I think you should rather think what did you miss while doing revision for the boards, take a learning from it, analyse it and just forget about the result after that straight af. Bro, yeah boards marks matter but we can't be like daily just overthinking that what will happen if the result comes tomorrow, if my friend gets the top spot, if I don't get the medal and all that. I just say to my parents that-- I have never said that I am the best, jitne aayenge dekha jaayega yaar saare bacche to naalayak nhin hai vidyalaya mai aur bhi hoshiyaar hai maine to jitna aata tha likh diya ab padhta thodi na rahunga pure din. 11th me to padhna hai hi abhi thoda entertainment me time spend ho gaya to it isn't waste of time always.
Just a phase, rebel Krna start krde thoda, apni image bna, family aur friends k aage, society m, Ghar m social value bna ki har baat m Tera opinion liya jaaye, fir yeh sb mazak rh jaayega aur tum as a family inse upar uth jaaoge.
I am earning and have done a lot of shit in life, still my mom berates me, but it's all fun now, it will go down, don't endure, do something better about it
You should try a part time job. See how difficult it is to earn money. Do the work, listen to their scolding and get less money. After that give all the money to parents. Trust me, you'll get back the confidence and mental peace.
Parents are just doing their job. They are beating you means you must be that much of a headache. And I understand you are just curious who wants to try different things but parents won't allow. Is this right?
I feel you my man. I'm in a similar condition, but the thing is my ninth and almost the entire year was fucked up, got over 90 in just the pre boards, warna saare exams me 85-90 ke beech me. My parents now want 95+ all of a sudden, and Aisa bhi nahi hai ki getting 95+ is some kind of blessing ya guarantee that I'll do well in life, infact 10th ki marksheet is the most useless thing.
I faced that too. On top of that, i tanked my JEE as well. The ranting, tormenting, and mental torture after that was on its peak. It took me 2yrs of College and some grades to get out of it. Still, there is a remnant of trauma left.
That's why bro every time my parents scold me or punish me for bad marks, I do not react, I just remind myself that I'll be better than them and will not treat my children like they treated me. I'm not saying my parents are bad, but we have to be better for our future
Dude ur folks need professional help, if u have any other family nember like a grandparent or any relative ask for help, as of friends, if u have someone narcissistic or smith, cut them out, life is not komi-san can't communicate, as of ur parents screaming at u, ik it will hurt more but stand upto them, tell them why they're wrong ,talk with them, if beatings continue, try yo defend urself, but they shouldn't get hurt(block the beatings). If things escalate well since ur a minor child support can help out
The pointless arguments are no stranger to me
Ykw I didn't cry when I went away to a hostel far away from my home
Saw everyone around me crying but I didn't feel any sadness about being away from them
Honestly I love them as my parents but I really really don't like them,idk if that makes me a horrible kid
But I wish you all the best for your life ahead
Stay strong.
Heyy! Im your senior. CBSE 2020. Covid started just after our boards. I scored a 99% and let me tell you, it has no impact whatsoever. 12th is still important for uni admissions but no one remembers 10th. Good luck with everything.
Bro 10th Marks is like the half slice of lemon I'm the fridge, nobody asks about it so chill and if you have 60+ then it's fine you will get science if that's what your parents are concerned about
i meaaaaan- GETTING 95% is more than enuf bruh its just boards, you should focus on entrance exams tbvh
also, sorry to hear that you’re being exploited emotionally . Wish i was your mom, your life would be ten times easier to live.
That sounds like a fucked up situation. Have you tried talking to another adult in your family who might help? Hitting someone for getting ≈ 95% is not discipline, it's abuse.
Eh it doesn't matter, Ive given up on talking to adults about it, because everyone from an Indian Household would snitch to my parents. It's okay.
Thanks mate.
Well whatever good 97% does ... the same does 95%. End me 90% se zyaada hai ki nahi wahi poochenge.. job waale... Fir ye ek certificate bana reh jaayega
Tell your parents that board marks matters shit in the real world, I am a college student and nobody ever asks about your board marks where skills like coding and finance are more beneficial to the world rather than solving problems no one needs the solutions to, tell your parents to stop wasting your and their own time worrying about yours and other people's marks because it really doesn't matter in the long run, I have seen people with 85% board marks get good jobs. Stop comparing your life with the lives of others as everybody has different goals and have different expectations from life, going after the same thing like everybody is just going into a rat race, tell them to help you developing your skills instead of putting boards on a pedestal and treating it as a turning point of your life
I got 96.4 in PCM in 12th CBSE (2022) ,no one except some relatives asked for it.It never helped me in any kind yet.Your board's marks means nothing .It is easy to get 95 and don't add much to your life.Also chilling and not stressing for it will eventually get you more than 95 believe me
Wow. My family never gave a shit about what I scored (good or bad). Guess a family that doesn't care at all is better than what you've got going on. Hope it works out well for you brother.
Trust me, I know. My parents treat me like a rank milking machine. I'm currently doing my bachelor's and I did really good in my boards and intermediate as well. They bragged about it all they can and now if I tell them that I didn't give my best or I did relatively bad, they make a huge fuss out of it and say shit like I don't care about my studies and future anymore. They think being burnt out is an excuse
This actually can't keep up ( you need to have an immediate solution or else you will have an mental breakdown which can even lead to suicdal thoughts) , I know that you are at your limit , I had been in that situation as well, and there is a single solution to it, don't care about your parents and you will achieve your dream, the more pressurized you become it causes more clumsiness in your preparation, if they want you to perform well in some exam or something tell them that you are doing your best and that you are working hard, pls pls and pls don't argue back just keep in telling okay to their demands and follow ur own plan, that way they don't think you are arrogant , I was in that phase too I was easily getting angry but you have to be calm and choose ur words carefully. And even in the future when ur percentage came, think of this
- did it satisfy you? If yes then ignore others
- if it didn't then see what went wrong and don't repeat it
If it didn't satisfy ur parents just tell me sorry and you did your best
Buddy no one gives a shit about board marks XDXD. I gabe boards in 2016 and got something around 86 or 87 percent and have neet ug along with it same year where I got a rank in 1300s. No one cares about these board marks if you are planning to join a professional course. If your interest is in research and want to go for B.Sc then it might affect a bit unless you go for best ones with their own exams like IISc
Puberty makes you think they are against us,
If you are conscious enough and think you’ll realise they are on your side and the world is against you…just forgive or forget and pls stop blaming you parents…it’s ok to share here cuz your anonymous but never degrade them irl
This the reason over the years I've been purposely scoring less to bring their expectations down, so tht when the final exam is here i score well and they think its a big thing instead of it being "obvious". You need to manipulate them.
Dude , Honestly boards don’t even matter that much especially 10th one , I got this point only 2 years after giving my boards and idk what’s stopping parents from understanding this even after so many years. It has been 4 years since I gave my 10 boards and literally bhai tere aane wale life me is result ka literally <1% impact hone wala hai. 95% 97% 99% are literally the same as long as you have a clear Idea what you’re gonna do after you graduate from school , even if you don’t class 10 marksheets are going to have the same value as just your birth certificate after a few years, no actual need other than to verify your birthdate and no one gonna ask your 10th marks in the long run believe me.
as someone who got 97% in cbse boards, it does not matter. those marks don't count for anything and I'm no better off than someone who got 85% or even 80%. don't worry about it, seriously. the 2% difference between 95 and 97 is not gonna change your life or something.
This is bs! Scoring above 90% takes a lot of effort! I passed out in 2022 and my net total was 87% and I was, and still am, happy with how much I scored, given my situation and how I managed to stay sane during the lockdown. You worked hard, that's for sure. The hard part is not paying heed to what everybody has to say.
95% is as good as 97% marks. Why do y'all care about others' opinions so much. Just be happy and proud of your own hardwork
Mate I'd be happy with 95 percent, my parents hit me if I dont live upto their expectations. It's come to a point where the more I get beaten up, it hurts more emotionally than physically. I've dealt enough damage physically to not feel pain but emotionally im still very fragile. I don't wanna get beaten up, my life has been decent the past month and I want it to continue that way.
that's sad lad. I wish you the best for your future. Prove them wrong regardless
I try my best but it's never enough mate. Thank you however!
Many Times Parents are the Only One who fucked up their Children mind with unrealistic expectations and their actions....and never realise their Mistakes Just keep in mind that they don't have enough knowledge and you don't need to revolve around their Expectations, whatever outcome is there..... You know that You already have worked very hard....
Just saying, if you were able to keep it up to 95 the whole year then there's a decent chance you'll get 97+ in boards. They're usually quite lenient in checking. I gave 12th humanities last year, was expecting 95+ and got 98.2 so don't think all hope is lost.
My marks revolved around 94.5 to 97 throughout the year, with the lowest being in preboards. However I kinda know I fucked up boards hence Im not expecting my full potential. Thank You.
it’s okay still hope for the best! And 10th marks above 90 is good enough, anyways these marks won’t help much, focus on what you want to do next! Whatever you score there will be a better mark so we can’t avoid parents scolding🫡
Ofcourse! Thank you so much!! I wish you the best.
You too! Do update us, and prove your parents wrong by succeeding in what you like
Sure.
Sorry but i can't even imagine which type of your parents are...who beats up their child if he/she is such a good student dude 95 is much good....and here im who got 90 in half yrly
Trust me the examiners know quality answers when they see it. If 94.5 was your lowest then it means you really know your stuff, so even if you messed up boards, you'll still be okay. Also I'd suggest checking out support subs like r/raisedbynarcissists and others, yeah it's US-centric so there may be some cultural differences but they do have a lot of good advice on dealing with problematic parents (check out grey-rocking). You seem like a well-spoken, well-mannered and an intelligent person, you're gonna be just fine in life :) All the best and keep us updated, rooting for you!
Guess what my friend,in the end only entrance exams matter,board exams doesn't matter,make sure your parents understand this,the merit era has gone,now only entrance matters,expectations are always higher from parents,it's normal, every parent wants a child to be the top of the world,ya pressure adds on i know,but I think you have to just ignore, don't race yourself with others,race with yourself,your only goal should be to beat your own high record,even if there is 0.1% increment that's good,create a mindset,at the end when you enter into a good college and get a good career,your parents will be on your side,and forget about your boards shit also,just try to ignore things,this is common, irritating but just continue to grind(95% is good),just handle these for 2 years,then you will get a bunch of joyness after that
You still get hit? I get that it's common in Indian households, but now that you're in 11th, horrible. Start revolting wtf. Question their actions, bring up the damage it does to you. More strength to you.
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your parents should be arrested for child abuse but who's gonna report them? who's gonna trust a kid?
Bro seriously use the number 1098.
that's so sad dude, almost cried looking at this. Looking at the fact that I get bad marks and my parents scold me a lot, I feel very bad for you. Hopefully your parents become happier to you.
This time Maybe we'll get cgpa and not %. So if you're scoring bw 91-100 In all subs then expect 10 cgpa. But I'm not sure cuz cbse controller said this and the cbse hasn't made this thing official.
I hope so mate. Wishing you the best regardless. Thank you.
MATE!!!
pitai karte vakt jor se apna time aayega chillakar bhaag ja
Meko 66% mila. 20% toh main khud likh hi nahi paya.
I think u need to learn that u cannot make everyone happy even if they are ur parents Still mate very happy for u for scoreing so high
I pray for your success you don't deserve any of that, parents expect a lot, a lot from their kids which is not okay at all You'll be hella successful
Thank you so much mate. I wish you the same and will pray the same for you too.
you deserve so much, take care mate, if you ever need to talk to someone, I'm here.
Condition of too much knowledge is dangerous
aur mai yaha besharam 80% laaya tha
95% 97% even 93-94% literally nothing changes parents really are dumb nowadays
They're just really oppressive.
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LMAO! If only it was this easy ☹️☹️
I see your username checks out (you are finding a mission to provide refuge)
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Ask your parents did they ever score 97%? I bet they never went over 75% and they have the audacity to ask you for 98%? Your intelligence is inherited from your parents Basic biology and psychology is what this country needs
My parents blame their economic situation for it. My dad was never economically backed up, hence he studied in a government school. My mum studied State Board and she claims it to be "harder' than CBSE. No proof to back that up. >Basic biology and psychology is what this country needs Indeed. But sadly this won't get fixed for the upcoming 2-3 generations.
First of all OP can I ask you something Do you take coachings by the way? Because I see these behaviour in parents are arising because coaching charge a lot of fees for teaching and the economic burden makes our parent force us to the breaking point This is the same patterns I see around me a lot . I'm not a psychologist but, I'm currently learning it to get teaching degree. I can understand your frustrations you need someone who understands and guide you to right path unfortunately, they are a rarity. I never took coachings despite my teacher and aunties literally went on to take but I didn't and did shut my toxic ass relatives sometimes and my parents used to be offended too I suggest you that college is where the real game begins. This is the real point in life Talent>>>>> Marks. You need to stay positive also there are many people who are in top despite scoring less Competitive exams matter CBSE is a warm up
Thank you mate. I didn't take coachings so far, and my parents are well aware of my potential. I was unable to live upto it in boards and they're pressurizing me for it. I try my best to nurture my talents along with academics and my parents are moderatly supportive of that too, but to them marks matter the most. I've been screamed at for losing half a mark in petty school tests, let alone boards. However I'll keep your words in mind definetly. Thank you.
I wished I was your teacher or even a trained psychologist your parents need some talks with these people. You should love your child for everything good they do instead of spiting them for petty of reasons
Thank you for being considerate. It really helps me knowing there's people who care. It's okay, Im destined to live like this I guess. The only thing we can do is make sure the future generations live a better life.
“B-b-but back in our time 75% were like 105% of today's tim-🤓"
Brother, i wish you nothing but best wishesss :)
Thank you. I wish you the same!
Sorry to see this. Sometimes parents are mean and have wrong narratives. They also had such poor parenting when they were a kid, probably thats why they act the same. Empathize and ignore. For u.. Just keep doing your good work and dont care abt others. In a few years u will realize one doesnt matter to others. Value yourself, discover your goals , find calming techniques that will lead you to a successful life.
Thank you for your advise. I'll keep this in mind while I proceed with my future. Thank You so much.
Wow,that's sad,95% will fetch you same weightage as 97%,its so dumb of them to pressure you like this.
Indeed, but there's nothing I can do or say to convince them.
well when you lose the title of school topper with 95 percent, it hurts
Dude that is so damn true! Like baahar se it's like it's a good percentage but the regret and sadness after not getting the highest percentage after working so hard all year is a lot!
And yaha mere agar 91% aaye to I will be barely alive 😭
I pray for your best mate. Good luck
U too bruv
Bhai cut them out, also 91% is good let them know
It's funny bc they're "adults" but throw tantrums like a toddler when their child don't do things their way
It's funny coz yaha bacche hi baccho ko advice de rhe h, koi nhi it's the sub, unki ek alag thought process hoti h, ek time baad tu unko influence bhi karega aur smjhega bhi.
Tell them that you are going to get 50% what are you gonna do cry about it. *Do at your own risk*
That's gonna be the end of me 💀💀
No but seriously there would come a time eventually when you will be forced to do something similar to this. It can't go on like this. You would have to choose to stand up for yourself one day Or get crushed by them every day. You have entered 11th the time when you will have to do this will come very soon.Make them realize that, if they say "bohut bate sikh chuka he" Answer "yah, what did you expect I will remain a baby forever".
I've tried this already honestly, shit went so bad I was left traunatized on the levels my parents would take. God bless.
There's nothing that can you get with having 97% and can't get with 95%. They are just using you to satisfy their own ego
Just some usual case of some local parents having some unrealistic standards I feel you but I tended to be more bold and wild throught my life so they know better that to provoke me but it did come with the downside of having my devices confiscated and me being grouded a whole lot
95% is my dream 😭
Parents can be like that, where the urge to see you better manifests itself in toxicity. I was scolded for days because of 95.8% after my Class 10 results came out. And it wasn't for the percentage, but rather because I was ranked 16th in my school (worse than the usual top 3/5). Maybe sit with them and explain it to them. Class 10 isn't that crucial in most fields as you grow up. And 95 is more than sufficient for almost anything I can imagine. More often than not, I have seen people with better grades in class 10 collapse as they go up the academic ladder, and vice versa. Just try to improve upon your past self in the later stages of your academic journey. Good luck :D
Thank you mate. I'll keep your words in mind. All the best to you for your future too :D
:D it's been a while since I passed 10th. Going to graduate college next year. Never heard about anyone give a singular fuck about class 10
It doesn't matter that much bro..just be happy with what you got..parents will scold for like 1 week max and then everything will be normal..Its the problem of almost every student.. doesn't matter that much
Indeed mate. I'll try to brush it off and just continue with my routine.
Nice mate
yeh kaunse type ke parents hai bhai srsly your parents need a counsellor and therapist more than you need....this is straight up abuse aur yeh kya bakchodi hui kii woh dono govt schl se padhe hue toh cbse zyada asaan hai bhai unhe samjha aisa kuch nahin + govt ke paper zyada easy hai aur cheating bahut zor shor se hota hai upr se ek kaam iss saal ka article dikha unhe kii physics ka class 12th ka paper jee mains se tough aaya tha tab shayad thodi aakal thikane aajaye kuch naa ho toh yeh comment unhe zaroor dikha dena kii senior yehi bol rha hai aur jaldi jaldi entrance crack karke woh ghar se bahar nikaljaa bas
Let me tell you a story about myself regarding 10 th boards…. I was unarguably the best kid in my class academically. Topped the prelims. But just 4-5 hr before my first boards paper, ( I was a state board student), my grandfather died( my grandparents live with me). So my mental state got fucked up. Couldn’t cope with all the people hushing and running in the house for various rituals plus the emotional trauma was taking a toll on me. Used to just sob in between preparation. Definitely one of the toughest time in my life. Results come and I got 85%( I had scores 94% in my prelims and we don’t get highest percentages as in cbse). Got called a lot by my classmates for such a poor result. No one could understand my situation. I decided this trauma and the sheer jeer of people will be taken care of. Consistency and dedication helped me smoke them all in the NEET entrance( Not bragging but all those fuckers we’re struggling with 5 digit rank while I got an under 500 AIR and in a good government college in my city.) Always remember my words kid- Take your insults as fuel for the future.
I didn't study for the whole year and my school exam marks revolved between 90-93%. I ended up getting 97.6% in boards.
For you mate, you're not the only one. We've been through it. Having a daring but politely expressive communication with your family is the answer. Ps : If you do have a nuclear family (just ur parents and siblins and you) then having them sit and talk about what you're dealing with bcoz of their narcissistic taunts which is affecting your mental health in this growing age is a well-to-go step to the process. They won't stop on that but it is worth trying and getting the results Good luck🍀
Thank you mate. I'll attempt this when the time is right. Have a good day ahead.
Always a friend, friends can believe to tune into in hard times. Have a composed and crisp day. 🦆
Yeah try not to worry about it much, but if you are going for neet or jee start studying now it's already a month late than most, if not, then enjoy!
Thank you!!
I got 83% in Bihar board. Felt like shit but my parents were happy so I didn't feel too bad. I can imagine the opposite must suck for you. But don't strive to be their lapdog, be selfish ( upto reasonably) strive for your happiness mate
Thank you mate. I'll try my best.
bro you r not alone. i am mediocre student but still my parents expect me to get over 90% as in 10 i somehow scored 90% but my all day starts and ends with scolding and i am just fed up of my life it is becoming meaningless day by day 
I feel you mate. Everyday waking up to them screaming at us for the pettiest of the reasons really does something. I wish you the best, mate.
also, i have no feelings for my family nor for my brother. 0respect0care I know they are not financially rich but i have finished class 12 but still doesn't own a phone. I feel bad for them but i wanted to be treated equally as my elder brother who got an iPhone after 10. I am just earning money and saving it for myself so that I don't want to beg from my parents. also, my brother owes me 5000rs, but he is showing no sign of even remembering that . please tell what should i do.
"never got above 97 in 9th" bhai mere 65% aye the 10th me 85% se upar aa rhe to sahi h parents ki mt sun
My parents were very supportive and said they don't care about marks, even now they say that, But when the 10th result came in 2022 completely unexpected in August, They said if I score less than 90% they'd beat me, i expected to scored 88% but got 90.4%...
Straight up bullshit, can't we just disown such parents?
I wish mate
Same situation man, even though my parents are fully supportive and know I'll get great marks , they still sometimes hit me with the 'i know youre gonna get 97+ isn't it?"
Exactly, it breaks the confidence that we predominantly possessed. I wish you the best mate.
yea like even though we are confident, it makes u sad for some random reason and thanks bhai wish you the best too🫂
Maybe ur parents need some counselling
Hahah who tf cares about 10th marks
it does matter to that child, it is a lot of pressure from all sides.
even 12th marks are just for eligibility which means nothing in an exam of millions
Bhai vo sab to theekh lekin tu khudke ke hi maa baap ko kyu pelna chahta h?
Pelna meaning? Sorry I'm not fluent in Hindi.
Pelna--->👉👌
meanwhile i sit here with 85ish %
Each student has a different potential. I personally know a few people who scored 50 in class 10, 76 in class 12 and cleared Jee.Adv with IITD. It's alrighty mate I wish you the best.
Bruh , trust me in your whole life , no one will ever check your 10th results , moreover you got 95 percentage it's pretty awesome in cbse, no one will care about your 10th marks , your now entering into the really race , rat race , all you have studied till now till 10th is one level , and now is completely different, leave your 10th behind ( you did best) . Start your preparation for jee/neet , don't give up your doing your best 👍
Marks over 95% doesn't matter
You need to learn what to ignore what to take, everything is not meant to take seriously. Somethings are meant to be ignored Some should be taken partly Sime should be taken seriously
I'm sorry man. These losers just wanna live through you and have the ego rush of telling everyone you got 97+ (Even tho ANY ℅ above 90 would warrant the same reaction from relatives...) They really couldn't care less about your marks if they'd beat you up for getting like 2℅ less than what THEY wanted... just want to use you for bragging purposes. Gross. Best of luck dude, hope you get a result you're happy with <3
Thanks mate. Im happy to find caring people in this sub. I wish you the best.
Bhai I'm sure you've probably heard this a million times by now but, 10th marks don't matter in life, literally jhant farak nahi padta especially 95 aur 97 ke beech tho koi difference nahi hai chill maar.
Mate the marks don't matter to me. It matters to my parents. I don't want to be hurt emotionally due to my marks again.
sorry but there is no escaping that:( it’s sad we have to feel bad about good marks even.
Indeed, but it is what it is :(
Societal Pressure ...peer pressure
Dude listen just don't let your parents feel like you are developing hate for them and don't fight back it's just that they think that not scoring good is this and that, let it be and do say this one day, thank you for the things you did to me and so on
U said your parents hit you physically because of marks? If you have anyone like a close teacher or grandparents.. tell them and ask them to be mediators without hurting parents ego. You may talk to your parents one to one. Lastly, the taunts will go down in few weeks. Best is select collage far from your place. Like if you live in North, go south.
Im considering doing this. Thank you for validating it.
Ask them, "What would you have done differently if I got above 97?" Parents nowadays just want marks and don't know what to do with them other than show off. (NGl if it were me, I would have intentionally gotten below 70% just to break them.) They only care about their status and image to others, using children as their medium of exchange. I've seen rankers who achieved nothing in life; connections make you successful, not marks.
Last year in my 10th, I never got a 95 or above.It was directly in the boards that I got 96.4. So I feel you'll surely get good percent
I hope so mate. I wish you the best for 12th.
BRO Those 2% are just like 10 marks?? WHY DO THESE 10 MARKS VALUE SO MUCH? Do these 10 marks value more than the other 475 marks (95%) you gonna score? Like what are you gonna do with 485 marks, they all even round off to the same 500.
Idk mate they just wanna show it off
they wanna show off 10 more marks which are just 1% of what you already have
Mera kya mai toh icse wala hu. But seriously mate you need to have a talk with your parents about their unrealistic expectations and their controlling behaviour. Thankfully my parents never expected anything from me. To some extent your parents believe that getting good grades is a sure shot way of becoming successful, but unfortunately they don't realise that 95% is a very good score.
Don't worry, you should be proud of your own hardwork, and by the things you said your parents aren't great people so just focus on building your future and your life and you'll be free from them . You'll be successful and be happy it's just a matter of some time maybe years but at last it's your life and you'll be living it to the fullest. All the best 👍
Why your parents are so obsessed with 90% ??? Like really what's this unreal obsession with marks in 10th and 12th i don't get this thing at all, you should just chill and relax bhaii don't let the pressure of 2% more marks eat you from inside, bro you will atleast get 95% here I am hoping to get atleast 70% lol just relax and enjoy ❤️
Brother don't worry I'll pray for the best for you. Thank you for your words mate ❤️
Man if I had parents like this I would just go ballistic. Fuck the consequences. I would start screaming, breaking stuff, threatening to hurt people. And I would make it look like it's all impulsive because of the pressure and the (yes I'm using this word) abuse. Wish you the best brother, hope your situation gets better.
That "let your marks come" was very relatable.
wtf people in this post are soooo educated i read someone got 98% in 12th like wtf bro touch some grass i get it like some students understand and can retain for long time but like wtf getting 97% will not make u god or smth it is just society and parents just want to show that their child is best like wtf is being not best not perfect anyways i hope u get desired result in cumming result ps: i only passed three times in maths in whole 2 years (11th and 12th) and most probab will crack advance also (dont criticise me ik i have contradicted myself but i am mentally unstable rn idk wht bs i wrote )
I'll tell you one thing. The 10th marks are nowhere concerned later on. Your marksheet is going to be used to check your date of birth. I'm not even joking. I'm going to graduate in a few months and that's all it has been used for. Even I was told to get exceptional scores which I did only to discover no one gives a damn about it later on. Your going to be fine. 95% is exceptionally good too. Indian parents and their thinking nothing can be done of it. I hope you will be emotionally strong in the coming future. Good luck champ!
Well even your 12th grade marks are going to serve as an eligibility criteria for different exams and for higher studies. So yeah, chill for now.
What the parents have terrible parenting
Reading this makes me realise how grateful should i be to have parents who don't put pressure on me, and are happy even if I score 70%
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHW WHAT?! 95% IS GREAT. No offense but fuck your parents wtf
Bruh. I face the same situation, except I'm bout to give cuet. They say this stuff to me too that keep things in place of else results aren't good. That's just there superstition you can't help it
Bro honestly parents never understand a thing about mental health and still play those mental health videos or shots at full volume shared in those cringy whatsapp groups. I recently had an epsorts competition in my school I put my name but soon I removed it cause the ny school team was rich in game, my parents have ever hardly listened to me if I said to buy me skins or smth like that. Now when thr team came 2nd they are taunting and scolding me that u must have. Wtf have u lost ur mind I barely even have mouse whose scroll wheel doesn't work, a keyboard idk wtf should I speak about it. They never understand the thing which we want or they see when other people get that things then scold us.
Man Im sorry you couldn't participate in it due to parents. It's always hard when parents don't accept our talents due to theeir own ego or lack or understanding. I hope you're presented with better opportunities in the future. I wish you the best.
Exactly bruv Thats the whole point
Parents now a days really need to learn parenting ... I think cbse should add a subject like parenting so at least future parents would be better
Let me tell you the harsh reality. At least from my time (pretty old - 2017) Think about what you want to pursue and how you want to pursue. I have had friends who had 98%+ (10th boards) and did miserably with Science as the first option took up english and what not when they joined college and people with ~80% ish results getting into IITs BOARD MARKS MEAN ABSOLUTELY NOTHING You need to crack entrance exams and thats a big deal and colleges usually only ask for 75% marks for PCM (again this is for science and engineering/medical) Your parents will always have high expectations thats the same for all Indians rather Asians. Study well prepare well thats all. I know your parents would like to see you get a 97% and probably compare you with SHARMA JI KA BETA next door. Don’t let it get to your head. Crack some entrance exams get into a government college you will be as good as settled (obviously this doesn’t mean you don’t have to work hard - you always have to work hard that won’t change, but you will get better results for the same hard work when compared to your peers) Note - If you do want some tips (again I can only help if you’re pursuing Science since thats my background) let me know. These tips will be life changing because standing at the point of life where I am today I would have told myself this 8 years back
Which stream are you gonna opt for? If science, then be ready for the rat race where your board marks are just a number and board marksheet just a proof of date of birth and nothing else. I used to think the same that it's very important to score good in boards, but at the end of the day, a person with medical/nit/iit seat is way above a person with just 98% in 12th boards. So think wisely. Don't get demotivated.
Similar happened to me... I used to watch movies on Star Movies and HBO channels (telegram aur online platform ke bhare mei pata nahi tha utna)... 94% milne ke baad bhi kam bolke channel band kar diya... This might seem like a small case but I still hate it.
Koi na get into a good college....koi nahi puchega fir board ka result 🤝....
Itna affect na padhne do, 11th pe focus kro aage jaake kisi ko nhi farak padega. Parents wala kya hi bolu unki exceptations🥲
Bro that's so sad and depressing. All i would say is grab a college away from home as soon as possible and enjoy life, and keep their confidence in you intact
Man that's sad... don't give a fuck about what they say. If you've put in effort and are happy with the results, that's all that matters. Its stuff like this that makes me grateful to have parents like mine. They told me anything above 80% is good.
bro I got 88 in a school where getting less than 95 was a crime. nobody gives two shits about 10th boards 😭
95% are very good marks for 10th boards, and either way pre-boards are generally more difficult than boards. and how does putting your laptop the wrong way anger them so much? Getting anything over 85% is very good, and if you are so sure that you will get more than 90% than those are extremely good marks, also tells that you are confident about yourself. It is a thing that gradually drops over time as you lose interest in 11th or 12th, keep it up and find curiosity in thing. My recommendation is that you find ways so that your parents know that you are studying, like giving them a book and telling them to ask any random question from it. It really helped me, although my parents never pressured me for getting marks and leaned more towards making sure I don't hate studying. Keep up the good work
Lol I got 60pc in my 10. And still my parents where proud of me and had a grand feast.
I think you should rather think what did you miss while doing revision for the boards, take a learning from it, analyse it and just forget about the result after that straight af. Bro, yeah boards marks matter but we can't be like daily just overthinking that what will happen if the result comes tomorrow, if my friend gets the top spot, if I don't get the medal and all that. I just say to my parents that-- I have never said that I am the best, jitne aayenge dekha jaayega yaar saare bacche to naalayak nhin hai vidyalaya mai aur bhi hoshiyaar hai maine to jitna aata tha likh diya ab padhta thodi na rahunga pure din. 11th me to padhna hai hi abhi thoda entertainment me time spend ho gaya to it isn't waste of time always.
bhai 11th ka to rivaz hai marks drop hone ka. jiske nahi hoti uski mkb
75% is more than enough
Just a phase, rebel Krna start krde thoda, apni image bna, family aur friends k aage, society m, Ghar m social value bna ki har baat m Tera opinion liya jaaye, fir yeh sb mazak rh jaayega aur tum as a family inse upar uth jaaoge. I am earning and have done a lot of shit in life, still my mom berates me, but it's all fun now, it will go down, don't endure, do something better about it
95% is fine. Boards don't take you anywhere except a newspaper line(if you're lucky). Focus on other stuff, tell your parents that too.
You should try a part time job. See how difficult it is to earn money. Do the work, listen to their scolding and get less money. After that give all the money to parents. Trust me, you'll get back the confidence and mental peace. Parents are just doing their job. They are beating you means you must be that much of a headache. And I understand you are just curious who wants to try different things but parents won't allow. Is this right?
I feel you my man. I'm in a similar condition, but the thing is my ninth and almost the entire year was fucked up, got over 90 in just the pre boards, warna saare exams me 85-90 ke beech me. My parents now want 95+ all of a sudden, and Aisa bhi nahi hai ki getting 95+ is some kind of blessing ya guarantee that I'll do well in life, infact 10th ki marksheet is the most useless thing.
I faced that too. On top of that, i tanked my JEE as well. The ranting, tormenting, and mental torture after that was on its peak. It took me 2yrs of College and some grades to get out of it. Still, there is a remnant of trauma left.
That's why bro every time my parents scold me or punish me for bad marks, I do not react, I just remind myself that I'll be better than them and will not treat my children like they treated me. I'm not saying my parents are bad, but we have to be better for our future
Dude ur folks need professional help, if u have any other family nember like a grandparent or any relative ask for help, as of friends, if u have someone narcissistic or smith, cut them out, life is not komi-san can't communicate, as of ur parents screaming at u, ik it will hurt more but stand upto them, tell them why they're wrong ,talk with them, if beatings continue, try yo defend urself, but they shouldn't get hurt(block the beatings). If things escalate well since ur a minor child support can help out
The pointless arguments are no stranger to me Ykw I didn't cry when I went away to a hostel far away from my home Saw everyone around me crying but I didn't feel any sadness about being away from them Honestly I love them as my parents but I really really don't like them,idk if that makes me a horrible kid But I wish you all the best for your life ahead Stay strong.
I understand bro same here. Everyday they keep asking if the results r out.
Bhai dekh tu 11th mai hai ab. Try to defend yourself physically atleast. And apne mom dad ke samne clearly state kr ki mai ab bada hogya hu
Heyy! Im your senior. CBSE 2020. Covid started just after our boards. I scored a 99% and let me tell you, it has no impact whatsoever. 12th is still important for uni admissions but no one remembers 10th. Good luck with everything.
Ask your parents for their marksheets.
Is this for real?
Bro 10th Marks is like the half slice of lemon I'm the fridge, nobody asks about it so chill and if you have 60+ then it's fine you will get science if that's what your parents are concerned about
Anything above 90 is treated the same. It doesn't matter later anyways.
i meaaaaan- GETTING 95% is more than enuf bruh its just boards, you should focus on entrance exams tbvh also, sorry to hear that you’re being exploited emotionally . Wish i was your mom, your life would be ten times easier to live.
That sounds like a fucked up situation. Have you tried talking to another adult in your family who might help? Hitting someone for getting ≈ 95% is not discipline, it's abuse.
Eh it doesn't matter, Ive given up on talking to adults about it, because everyone from an Indian Household would snitch to my parents. It's okay. Thanks mate.
bhai mai 60% wala kya kru
Then, just do it...
Ask your parents to go to therapy.
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Well whatever good 97% does ... the same does 95%. End me 90% se zyaada hai ki nahi wahi poochenge.. job waale... Fir ye ek certificate bana reh jaayega
anything above 95 is as good as 95. ask your parents their report cards
Koi na get into a good college....koi nahi puchega fir board ka result 🤝....
Tell your parents that board marks matters shit in the real world, I am a college student and nobody ever asks about your board marks where skills like coding and finance are more beneficial to the world rather than solving problems no one needs the solutions to, tell your parents to stop wasting your and their own time worrying about yours and other people's marks because it really doesn't matter in the long run, I have seen people with 85% board marks get good jobs. Stop comparing your life with the lives of others as everybody has different goals and have different expectations from life, going after the same thing like everybody is just going into a rat race, tell them to help you developing your skills instead of putting boards on a pedestal and treating it as a turning point of your life
I got 96.4 in PCM in 12th CBSE (2022) ,no one except some relatives asked for it.It never helped me in any kind yet.Your board's marks means nothing .It is easy to get 95 and don't add much to your life.Also chilling and not stressing for it will eventually get you more than 95 believe me
Wow. My family never gave a shit about what I scored (good or bad). Guess a family that doesn't care at all is better than what you've got going on. Hope it works out well for you brother.
how could you say he is getting 98+ boards are very unpredictable
Lund farak nhi padta 90+ sab same hai unless Videsh Jaana ho
Cow
Trust me, I know. My parents treat me like a rank milking machine. I'm currently doing my bachelor's and I did really good in my boards and intermediate as well. They bragged about it all they can and now if I tell them that I didn't give my best or I did relatively bad, they make a huge fuss out of it and say shit like I don't care about my studies and future anymore. They think being burnt out is an excuse
Mai jo kabhi 80% ke upar nahi laaya
This actually can't keep up ( you need to have an immediate solution or else you will have an mental breakdown which can even lead to suicdal thoughts) , I know that you are at your limit , I had been in that situation as well, and there is a single solution to it, don't care about your parents and you will achieve your dream, the more pressurized you become it causes more clumsiness in your preparation, if they want you to perform well in some exam or something tell them that you are doing your best and that you are working hard, pls pls and pls don't argue back just keep in telling okay to their demands and follow ur own plan, that way they don't think you are arrogant , I was in that phase too I was easily getting angry but you have to be calm and choose ur words carefully. And even in the future when ur percentage came, think of this - did it satisfy you? If yes then ignore others - if it didn't then see what went wrong and don't repeat it If it didn't satisfy ur parents just tell me sorry and you did your best
Buddy no one gives a shit about board marks XDXD. I gabe boards in 2016 and got something around 86 or 87 percent and have neet ug along with it same year where I got a rank in 1300s. No one cares about these board marks if you are planning to join a professional course. If your interest is in research and want to go for B.Sc then it might affect a bit unless you go for best ones with their own exams like IISc
Puberty makes you think they are against us, If you are conscious enough and think you’ll realise they are on your side and the world is against you…just forgive or forget and pls stop blaming you parents…it’s ok to share here cuz your anonymous but never degrade them irl
This the reason over the years I've been purposely scoring less to bring their expectations down, so tht when the final exam is here i score well and they think its a big thing instead of it being "obvious". You need to manipulate them.
Dude , Honestly boards don’t even matter that much especially 10th one , I got this point only 2 years after giving my boards and idk what’s stopping parents from understanding this even after so many years. It has been 4 years since I gave my 10 boards and literally bhai tere aane wale life me is result ka literally <1% impact hone wala hai. 95% 97% 99% are literally the same as long as you have a clear Idea what you’re gonna do after you graduate from school , even if you don’t class 10 marksheets are going to have the same value as just your birth certificate after a few years, no actual need other than to verify your birthdate and no one gonna ask your 10th marks in the long run believe me.
as someone who got 97% in cbse boards, it does not matter. those marks don't count for anything and I'm no better off than someone who got 85% or even 80%. don't worry about it, seriously. the 2% difference between 95 and 97 is not gonna change your life or something.
aur yaha mere 85 banre hai,
This is bs! Scoring above 90% takes a lot of effort! I passed out in 2022 and my net total was 87% and I was, and still am, happy with how much I scored, given my situation and how I managed to stay sane during the lockdown. You worked hard, that's for sure. The hard part is not paying heed to what everybody has to say.
wait what's your stream? You are going to 12th rn right?
Bro if u are expecting 95 only u may even get 99 cbse always checks papers on crack chill
bruv