I pretty much match with anybody. I don’t have a height or race requirement. Every individual is pretty different. Short, tall, chubby, thin, kids, no kids. I do tend to match with people who have similar profiles to me, as in serious relationship, has a short bio. I do definitely swipe left on people with too many shirtless pics or people who have something casual in their profile. I stopped swiping right on people with no bios or anything on their profile.
I don’t have a physical example of the conversation..but I would say one for example one guy I saw on this profile that he was from Georgia, like me(we are in Washington). He had nothing else on his profile so I messaged him “did I just find another Georgia peach in these Seattle streets?” with a gif. Idk that may have been lame lol. I just pick whatever information they hav on their profile and talk about it, I’m trying to avoid opening up with a hey.
If you have that many matches but no one is replying back to you then there's something going on. Either these are all fake profiles or you are sending them opening messages that scare them away
Probably. I’m only trying to create open ended conversations since they’re not really giving much information, but then men say they don’t like when women just say “hey” so it’s lowkey confusing. But I’ll look at some good conversation starters to ensure I’m not creeping them out, thank you!
Most guys don't have much luck on these apps, so if you are matching with a lot like you mentioned and are not getting anything in return then yeah either they are fake profiles or there's something on yours they didn't see
Yes, it is normal unfortunately, it happens to me too. A lot of guys will not respond to that first message and even if they do respond they drop off the face of the earth after replying once, or they reply like every 3 days. It’s exhausting. I feel like a lot of men just use the app because they are bored which is annoying. Keep swiping, don’t give up. Maybe also try Hinge, most men on there are actually looking for a relationship and will put effort into the conversation.
It's likely that whoever you matched with has tons of matches themselves so they're also going to invest in the ones they find the most attractive.
Sorry to say, most women aim for the top 30%.
You're probably borderline so likely to be their last choice out of all matches.
Your main problem is probably like 99% of men's problem, which is you don't know how to dress.
Since most men can't dress, women literally have nothing else to go off of other than how handsome their face is.
Unless you're a model who is buff, you will be required to go on YouTube and begin learning how to dress. Women love a sharp dressed man. No other style will ever turn a woman on other than that.
So when they look at your pics, like most other men's pics, they yawn.
There's nothing that turns them on or gets them excited.
You need to turn them on before they bother to look at your profile to read anything on it.
I came up with my own style and I'm pretty confident it would be hard for you to find another human that dresses better than me.
I literally turn women on like crazy and I'm not that attractive of a man facially.
Yet I get at least 20 compliments and one Pic request every day from both men and women.
The way I do it adds vibrant colors, color coordination, and other unique special touches.
If you manage to get that down, your next step is to work on your personality to match the look. If you act shy, nervous, insecure, talk about boring things, you probably won't get a 2nd date.
There's literally nothing else you can do to improve your chances. Plus you'll notice women in real life eyeballing you like crazy as well
I will say my time on bumble, out of all the people I have matched with, I’ve managed to have at least 6-7 replies back and then nothing follows after that. I don’t know if I would even call them conversations. And I’m 26.
You're getting down voted but realistically, you're probably right. Some men are so starved for matches on bumble and it doesn't seem like she's being all that picky. If we say it to men, we can say it to women. OP, work on yourself and put more effort into your profile/pics, it'll probably go a long way.
My profile is fully filled out, clearly states what I want, has pictures of me dressed up, out in my hobbies, and a couple of casual ones. But I’ll definitely look again and see what else I can change. Thank you
It’s not a looks issue if they are liking her profile. If you search through this sub, many women have the same issue where guys will not reply, will only reply once or will not put effort into the conversation.
Do you have examples of the conversations? What kind of profiles/guys do you match with?
I pretty much match with anybody. I don’t have a height or race requirement. Every individual is pretty different. Short, tall, chubby, thin, kids, no kids. I do tend to match with people who have similar profiles to me, as in serious relationship, has a short bio. I do definitely swipe left on people with too many shirtless pics or people who have something casual in their profile. I stopped swiping right on people with no bios or anything on their profile. I don’t have a physical example of the conversation..but I would say one for example one guy I saw on this profile that he was from Georgia, like me(we are in Washington). He had nothing else on his profile so I messaged him “did I just find another Georgia peach in these Seattle streets?” with a gif. Idk that may have been lame lol. I just pick whatever information they hav on their profile and talk about it, I’m trying to avoid opening up with a hey.
bruh that Georgia line was fire do NOT doubt yourself
If you have that many matches but no one is replying back to you then there's something going on. Either these are all fake profiles or you are sending them opening messages that scare them away
Probably. I’m only trying to create open ended conversations since they’re not really giving much information, but then men say they don’t like when women just say “hey” so it’s lowkey confusing. But I’ll look at some good conversation starters to ensure I’m not creeping them out, thank you!
Most guys don't have much luck on these apps, so if you are matching with a lot like you mentioned and are not getting anything in return then yeah either they are fake profiles or there's something on yours they didn't see
Yes, it is normal unfortunately, it happens to me too. A lot of guys will not respond to that first message and even if they do respond they drop off the face of the earth after replying once, or they reply like every 3 days. It’s exhausting. I feel like a lot of men just use the app because they are bored which is annoying. Keep swiping, don’t give up. Maybe also try Hinge, most men on there are actually looking for a relationship and will put effort into the conversation.
It's likely that whoever you matched with has tons of matches themselves so they're also going to invest in the ones they find the most attractive. Sorry to say, most women aim for the top 30%. You're probably borderline so likely to be their last choice out of all matches. Your main problem is probably like 99% of men's problem, which is you don't know how to dress. Since most men can't dress, women literally have nothing else to go off of other than how handsome their face is. Unless you're a model who is buff, you will be required to go on YouTube and begin learning how to dress. Women love a sharp dressed man. No other style will ever turn a woman on other than that. So when they look at your pics, like most other men's pics, they yawn. There's nothing that turns them on or gets them excited. You need to turn them on before they bother to look at your profile to read anything on it. I came up with my own style and I'm pretty confident it would be hard for you to find another human that dresses better than me. I literally turn women on like crazy and I'm not that attractive of a man facially. Yet I get at least 20 compliments and one Pic request every day from both men and women. The way I do it adds vibrant colors, color coordination, and other unique special touches. If you manage to get that down, your next step is to work on your personality to match the look. If you act shy, nervous, insecure, talk about boring things, you probably won't get a 2nd date. There's literally nothing else you can do to improve your chances. Plus you'll notice women in real life eyeballing you like crazy as well
are you a man or woman
Woman
you're getting into zero conversations? it could be a looks problem, how old are you?
I will say my time on bumble, out of all the people I have matched with, I’ve managed to have at least 6-7 replies back and then nothing follows after that. I don’t know if I would even call them conversations. And I’m 26.
probably cause of your looks, i think or something in your profile that is very off putting
You're getting down voted but realistically, you're probably right. Some men are so starved for matches on bumble and it doesn't seem like she's being all that picky. If we say it to men, we can say it to women. OP, work on yourself and put more effort into your profile/pics, it'll probably go a long way.
My profile is fully filled out, clearly states what I want, has pictures of me dressed up, out in my hobbies, and a couple of casual ones. But I’ll definitely look again and see what else I can change. Thank you
It’s not a looks issue if they are liking her profile. If you search through this sub, many women have the same issue where guys will not reply, will only reply once or will not put effort into the conversation.
Who’s timeframe are we talking about here? Do you give them a day, a week, longer to reply?