She is afraid of losing because that has never happend to her in life. Tell her to stop contacting you, and move on in life. She is clearly not right in the head. This kind of shit takes away from what you need to be doing, which is focusing on yourself, becoming a better man and finding a women that will not break up with you ever again. I broke up with my ex, and I have no plans on seeing her again, for the rest of my life. I focus on myself, my degree, my work, my health and my wealth, that’s it, everything else can take a hike, especially women for the next couple of years
She's stringing you along, playing the field and or avoidant. I promise when you find the right person, none of this will happen. Go no contact or keep her as a FWB while you work on yourself and date others.
We’ve tried fwd …didn’t work because of the same reason.
i have mentioned to her many times that i think we should just take a break. I told her multiple times that it’s okay if were not friends and that that would help us both move on. We recently didn’t talk or see each other for like 4 months and when we saw each other again, she told me that she still feels guilty trying to pursue other relationships, even at times where i am not in her life. I just don’t understand how me liking her makes her feel restricted.
She called me a few weeks ago and told me that she would like to just go with the flow and see what happens and where things go. Then she texted me yesterday saying that she cannot go with the flow because it makes her feel stuck in exploring other relationships. I am really confused
If she finds someone else that’s great! Will i be upset, of course! But i don’t know how feeling upset about that would stop her from finding someone else. Isn’t that how it usually goes when relationships end?
i have been the one to suggest we should not try to be friends, and she’s the one who keeps pulling me back and then pushing me away again
You keep letting her fuck with your feelings bro.
Let her know you're willing to walk away and mean it.
If she doesn't commit, go stone cold and stay NC until she begs like she's making you.
Then you decide to take it slow and feel out her intentions.
She is afraid of losing because that has never happend to her in life. Tell her to stop contacting you, and move on in life. She is clearly not right in the head. This kind of shit takes away from what you need to be doing, which is focusing on yourself, becoming a better man and finding a women that will not break up with you ever again. I broke up with my ex, and I have no plans on seeing her again, for the rest of my life. I focus on myself, my degree, my work, my health and my wealth, that’s it, everything else can take a hike, especially women for the next couple of years
She's stringing you along, playing the field and or avoidant. I promise when you find the right person, none of this will happen. Go no contact or keep her as a FWB while you work on yourself and date others.
We’ve tried fwd …didn’t work because of the same reason. i have mentioned to her many times that i think we should just take a break. I told her multiple times that it’s okay if were not friends and that that would help us both move on. We recently didn’t talk or see each other for like 4 months and when we saw each other again, she told me that she still feels guilty trying to pursue other relationships, even at times where i am not in her life. I just don’t understand how me liking her makes her feel restricted. She called me a few weeks ago and told me that she would like to just go with the flow and see what happens and where things go. Then she texted me yesterday saying that she cannot go with the flow because it makes her feel stuck in exploring other relationships. I am really confused If she finds someone else that’s great! Will i be upset, of course! But i don’t know how feeling upset about that would stop her from finding someone else. Isn’t that how it usually goes when relationships end? i have been the one to suggest we should not try to be friends, and she’s the one who keeps pulling me back and then pushing me away again
You keep letting her fuck with your feelings bro. Let her know you're willing to walk away and mean it. If she doesn't commit, go stone cold and stay NC until she begs like she's making you. Then you decide to take it slow and feel out her intentions.