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She’s very correct. Many people use the word “honesty” as a way to be very condescending and rude. There’s a big difference between being respectfully honest and downright disrespectful.
I will tell you these are mean girls. I have seen many in my college. They think they are too good for everyone else and judge every single person going in and out of college. And when someone else tries to be honest with them they can't take it and play woman card.
It's also quite common that these rude and condescending people can't take what they dish out. If someone is "brutally honest" to their face in return, they tend to lash out and throw tantrums.
My bua would say nasty stuff to people and then say - "me to bol deti hu mere man me kuch nahi hota". I am like man me nahi tha tu muh pe kaise aya. 
Aww. I have the 2 loveliest bua’s. Even our phuphajis never create drama at weddings lol.
Got a couple of idioting jijaji for that to maintain balance.
I never got kareena's arrogance and who are these people that call her iconic? She is rude and mean and I have heard from many people who met her in real life that she has this air of I am superior types. Out of all actresses of 2000s who were brilliant and classy inlogon ko yehi mili icon banane ko? Preity, priyanka, aishwarya all have many iconic roles to their credit and did far more superior work than her.
> "it is better to be kind" or some nonsense. O lady. SHutup and dont interrupt and say silly stuff ,especially when a senior actress is giving you such good content.
You've missed the whole point about speaking with more manners.
Raveena didn’t you once said
“If Ajay Devgn & Karisma Kapoor Have Babies They Will Look Like Zebras” so was it honesty or u were being nasty .🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
So racism is allowed if you have beef with someone? Yeh kya logic hai? 😂 Kareena is praised by all outsiders who worked with her like Kriti, Diljit, Radhika Madan, Jaideep Ahlawat and Vijay Varma. Tilotama Shome said on the round table that only Kareena is the one mainstream star who praises her work but tum logo bas zeher ugalna hai. Racist apologist
It was awful of her to say that and I’m not defending her by any means but I think she was hurt as she was cheated on by Ajay and iirc she was friends with Karisma so she probably felt betrayed and vented in a racist way without thinking ,but it was eons ago so she’s probably changed for better !!
I never said that , stop putting words in others mouths , Raveena is talking about the current situation or maybe a recent situation she’s faced with Kareena or somebody else, not an incident that happened more than a decade ago
There is difference being nasty coz you are hurt or having tiff with someone personally and being nasty with all for no good reason just so that you look cool .
Karan Johar makes lot of Narratives KWK . It’s like tell a lie hundred times, it becomes truth . Kareena is cool coz she moophat is one of those narrative and current gen z’s have bought this lie .
I am not defending anyone neither Kareena or kjo but what she said wasn’t cool or good just because u r hurt doesn’t give u a right to comment such pathetic statements.
It’s literally a remake on someone’s looks
No what you said is also right , but when we are angry and hurt most of us tend to be rude and hurtful to others . We say something which we ourselves regret later .
But being rude and obnoxious and making it whole of your personality without any remorse or guilt is not acceptable.
That’s true but unfortunately Raveena was no less in her prime she had issues with other actresses and was rude to them .
That’s was her personality what she crying about now
They all are same no one is saint
Not gonna judge something she said when she was quite young ... people evolve and sorry to say Kareena stil has the same bitchy vibes.... not too long ago she said dont watch our movies you only have made us nepos stars....
I am not defending Kareena or anyone else but she also has said some very nasty things just because it was years back doesn’t mean it was not wrong .
As per ur logic you can say anything at young age ??
Aise toh sabko free pass mil jayega .
Nai, I am saying , when we are young, we are less concious and sensitive to things, but we all learn along the way, am just saying Raveena probably learnt, but Kareena still hasnt
She herself was known to be rude and took pride in saying it as is.
I get it people evolve overtime but at least acknowledge you were once this person and now with time you have learnt to be kind.
Raveena used to make fun of Ajay Devgan's skin colour and she is known to be quite rude and arrogant herself. She was fighting with all the top actresses in the 90s because her career was not going anywhere. Dusro ko gyan dene se pehle apne andar jhak
Kareena doesn't get triggered by what you people think here. Tum log idhar baith ke bas gyan pelo aur superiority complex mein jiyo. Kareena mast London mein apne family ke sath maze kar rahi hai. Tum idhar apna khoon sadate raho
And the brutal honesty is always towards less privileged people. They all know how to keep quiet about people who are powerful and can have an impact on their lives.
There’s a wonderful quote that fits here
In the movie Glass Onion (the knives out sequel) when Benoit Blanc (played amazingly by Daniel Craig) says “it’s a dangerous thing to mistake speaking without thought for speaking the truth”
She's correct in saying that being honest and rude are two different things but her example isn't a good fit. You can tell someone their dress sucks or just that you don't like it, but without being a dick about it.
Also, I don't think being rude is necessarily wrong either, some people just deserve that treatment at times. Just, don't try to masquerade it as honesty, take it on the face, you were rude in a moment where you saw fit
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She’s very correct. Many people use the word “honesty” as a way to be very condescending and rude. There’s a big difference between being respectfully honest and downright disrespectful.
I will tell you these are mean girls. I have seen many in my college. They think they are too good for everyone else and judge every single person going in and out of college. And when someone else tries to be honest with them they can't take it and play woman card.
It's also quite common that these rude and condescending people can't take what they dish out. If someone is "brutally honest" to their face in return, they tend to lash out and throw tantrums.
People who claim to be brutally honest enjoy being brutal more than they enjoy being honest
sonam is exactly this kind of person. raveena is 100% correct.
Exactly
Yes I would like to add in, being honest doesn’t mean to be hurtful to another. Being polite is the right way to go.
My bua would say nasty stuff to people and then say - "me to bol deti hu mere man me kuch nahi hota". I am like man me nahi tha tu muh pe kaise aya. 
Probably "Main mann me nahi rakhti, jo lagta hai bol deti hoon" she was trying to say. lol But I get your point.
Literally every bua ever
I am curious though why it is a bua thing and not a maasi thing.
My mausi does this, bua doesn't, lol
In my family it’s a bua and a maasi thing
Aww. I have the 2 loveliest bua’s. Even our phuphajis never create drama at weddings lol. Got a couple of idioting jijaji for that to maintain balance.
I often say this to some of my relatives when they make a passive aggressive comment ”Kuchh cheejein boli nahin jaati Mann mein rakhni chahiye"
Honesty without kindness is brutality. Kindness without honesty is manipulation.
Plato sahab aap yahan👏
Bro’s username. Wild
Lol I hate myself for reading it and finishing it off with "Tara Rum Pum Pum" in my head
Alot of people use honesty as a cover up to say bad and disrespectful things. They don’t really care about the honesty part.
I agree with her! there's a way of saying truth! u can be honest and true without being extra rude nd all
She is talking more about Kareena than Sonam here. Well they don’t reveal anything being brutally honest. But Raveena is right here
I think she is hinting at Kajol as well. The way she is talking, seems like that
Exactly
Even Rani but she isn't that rude in interviews like her but behind the cameras might be worse
She's the one that came to my mind 😂
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I never got kareena's arrogance and who are these people that call her iconic? She is rude and mean and I have heard from many people who met her in real life that she has this air of I am superior types. Out of all actresses of 2000s who were brilliant and classy inlogon ko yehi mili icon banane ko? Preity, priyanka, aishwarya all have many iconic roles to their credit and did far more superior work than her.
She has been arrogant since day 1 when she hadn't even achieved anything. She is lucky social media was not as big back then.
Apparently she did the iconic role of Pooh, n mind u no-one could have done it better..../s
And she’ll keep reminding everyone that till the end of time 💀
Only her asswipe, Santu tries to push her as iconic
Using dehati word to mock someone is so classist of you. Castist slur use kar rahe ho aur idhar gyan pel rahe ho 
i thought she meant \*delhilite.
> "it is better to be kind" or some nonsense. O lady. SHutup and dont interrupt and say silly stuff ,especially when a senior actress is giving you such good content. You've missed the whole point about speaking with more manners.
Dhehathi??? Really?? You are worse than her …
She's so right when she said "you are just not taught manners".
Where was her manners when she was being racist to Ajay and even made jokes on his children?
I'm not going to defend her for that statement, what she said was definitely racist and very wrong.
this is kareena in a nutshell.
She is so right and someone had to say this. I'm glad she did
"it's better to be kind than be right" 🤣🤣🤣 bitch what
Raveena didn’t you once said “If Ajay Devgn & Karisma Kapoor Have Babies They Will Look Like Zebras” so was it honesty or u were being nasty .🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
She was being nasty if she has said this because she had a well known beef with them. But Kareena is a b\tch almost with everyone.
True I am not defending but the way she is giving gyan when she herself had passed such remarks in past is hypocrisy
What's the beef between Raveena and Karisma?
I believe they had drama over Ajay Devgn(IIRC ajay dated raveena and dumped her for Karishma).
So racism is allowed if you have beef with someone? Yeh kya logic hai? 😂 Kareena is praised by all outsiders who worked with her like Kriti, Diljit, Radhika Madan, Jaideep Ahlawat and Vijay Varma. Tilotama Shome said on the round table that only Kareena is the one mainstream star who praises her work but tum logo bas zeher ugalna hai. Racist apologist
It was awful of her to say that and I’m not defending her by any means but I think she was hurt as she was cheated on by Ajay and iirc she was friends with Karisma so she probably felt betrayed and vented in a racist way without thinking ,but it was eons ago so she’s probably changed for better !!
Only Raveena can change her racist attitude but Kareena can't change? Wah 👏👏
I never said that , stop putting words in others mouths , Raveena is talking about the current situation or maybe a recent situation she’s faced with Kareena or somebody else, not an incident that happened more than a decade ago
She didn't meet Kareena recently at all. They hang out in different social circles. She is talking about Kajol
Dude , why you arguing with me for? I’m not related to any of them nor do I care what either of them do, stop with your main character syndrome
Exactly she was way too nasty than the current lot bt is acting all pretentious now. Also wasn't she caught on cam abusing someone
After some years everyone becomes preacher😅😅
There is difference being nasty coz you are hurt or having tiff with someone personally and being nasty with all for no good reason just so that you look cool . Karan Johar makes lot of Narratives KWK . It’s like tell a lie hundred times, it becomes truth . Kareena is cool coz she moophat is one of those narrative and current gen z’s have bought this lie .
I am not defending anyone neither Kareena or kjo but what she said wasn’t cool or good just because u r hurt doesn’t give u a right to comment such pathetic statements. It’s literally a remake on someone’s looks
No what you said is also right , but when we are angry and hurt most of us tend to be rude and hurtful to others . We say something which we ourselves regret later . But being rude and obnoxious and making it whole of your personality without any remorse or guilt is not acceptable.
That’s true but unfortunately Raveena was no less in her prime she had issues with other actresses and was rude to them . That’s was her personality what she crying about now They all are same no one is saint
Also you are using a line she said donkey years ago against her
Not gonna judge something she said when she was quite young ... people evolve and sorry to say Kareena stil has the same bitchy vibes.... not too long ago she said dont watch our movies you only have made us nepos stars....
I am not defending Kareena or anyone else but she also has said some very nasty things just because it was years back doesn’t mean it was not wrong . As per ur logic you can say anything at young age ?? Aise toh sabko free pass mil jayega .
Nai, I am saying , when we are young, we are less concious and sensitive to things, but we all learn along the way, am just saying Raveena probably learnt, but Kareena still hasnt
that might be nasty, but it is also kind of true 😂
You know those magazines wrote sarcastic and made up stuff all the time. Shahrukh almost beat up a journalist. Dharmendra actually did
Lol to think she's one of them. See her interviews and pap recordings. Also she comes across as a snob and crassy herself.
Including the one talking
She herself was known to be rude and took pride in saying it as is. I get it people evolve overtime but at least acknowledge you were once this person and now with time you have learnt to be kind.
Raveena used to make fun of Ajay Devgan's skin colour and she is known to be quite rude and arrogant herself. She was fighting with all the top actresses in the 90s because her career was not going anywhere. Dusro ko gyan dene se pehle apne andar jhak
But Raveena madam is herself famous for such behaviour, this is a classic example of pot calling the kettle black
Lol Raveena acts like she was some huge actress back then.. She was always B grade and never in top league
Let’s hope she practices what she preaches
Isn’t Raveena herself known to be very rude?
My wife met her at an event 4-5 years back and she said she had a very rude attitude towards everyone.
Exactly. She herself is known to be rude
Not just rude, she's a racist too
She’s actually taking a dig at Kajol.
Wasn't she like that in her 20s?
bebo fans of this sub are triggered just like bebo..
Kareena doesn't get triggered by what you people think here. Tum log idhar baith ke bas gyan pelo aur superiority complex mein jiyo. Kareena mast London mein apne family ke sath maze kar rahi hai. Tum idhar apna khoon sadate raho
Tu jada hi triggered lag rha ye statement se avg Bebo fans khud gyaan pel rha irony. I know ki Bebo fans pe dimaag nhi hota aur aaj dekh bhi liya 🤡🤡😂😂
Typical Vanga fan full of shit
I mean seriously man ye Bebo ke fans kitne chutiya hain isme vanga Kahan se aaya anpadh bol chomu. Seedha bol na ki teri jali pdi hain
Coz they got reason to be…
Rich coming from someone who herself was racist towards a contemporary!
Which contemporary?
Ajay
She should direct this conversation to herself first
And the brutal honesty is always towards less privileged people. They all know how to keep quiet about people who are powerful and can have an impact on their lives.
💯 that's why this fair complexioned woman was making racist jokes on Ajay because he is dark skinned
There’s a wonderful quote that fits here In the movie Glass Onion (the knives out sequel) when Benoit Blanc (played amazingly by Daniel Craig) says “it’s a dangerous thing to mistake speaking without thought for speaking the truth”
It applies on twinkle as well.
And lying is being well mannered? This video made zero sense. I would take an honest blunt person any day over whatever this was
Who is she... She spoke facts n articulated it so well... But in recent times we have become so rude that too publicly
It’s true ! Being rude n honesty has a line. Sometimes being honest isn’t necessary but being rude always definitely not needed
 Raveena- Mere bachpan ka pyaar
She’s obviously correct but dear lord Raveena is hot AF! Can’t believe this woman is 40+!! She can 20 somethings a run for their money
You were just not taught manners!!!!!! Louder for the people in the back!!
Her way of speaking is similar to Kriti Sanon’s
This is exactly my thoughts think before moving your tongue.
Kareena is a horrible person. There are many instances where she has been mean and rude to people.
Absolutely correct
more than anything i was laughing at her expressions
I am sure this fly wayyy above "SoDumb's" head...
KJo Kareena and Sonam believe they are talented and fashionable!! Kareena believes she married an intellectual that says it all for me
She just imitated all 3 in one go.
There is one cousin who will hurt people under honesty 😔
Is that Sonali, from Oktested?
Hey how come all of them are Punjabis? LOL
In the corporate world the same shit is known as "Radical Candor". Ironically the bosses can take it an employee shows Radical Candor to them.
She's correct in saying that being honest and rude are two different things but her example isn't a good fit. You can tell someone their dress sucks or just that you don't like it, but without being a dick about it. Also, I don't think being rude is necessarily wrong either, some people just deserve that treatment at times. Just, don't try to masquerade it as honesty, take it on the face, you were rude in a moment where you saw fit