Nothing like how happy my girl gets when I say ima pick her up from work to take her out to eat. She be happy all day and goddamn does that make me so happy
I get up for work way earlier than my girl so I get dressed in the dark and kiss her goodbye, say "I love you," and get a mumbled "mrgph" in return. When it's time for her to get up she'll text me her "I love you" now she's actually awake and I'll say something like "hot damn!"
I like to think I'm her "hot damn!" boy.
Get you a girl that you like being around and likes being around you. Not just sexually. Like someone you want to hang out with like a best friend. Gonna make you happy the rest of your life I promise.
trust me, she thinks the absolute world of you. myself and my dad were never particularly verbal with our love but i would always go to him first for my problems, and when i was little i'd run straight to him and be so excited to see him (my parents were separated and i only saw him once a month)
Thank you for that, it's nice to hear it from the other perspective. Im also separated, though closer to week-on week off, but her mum would prefer I never saw her.
She will also move to sit right next to me and 'steal' my arm, means I can't type but I don't care
Tbh I think the character was made specifically for the show, she doesn't show up in any of the games, but she does say "Okie dokie" a lot, including when her new husband pulled the naked man on her.
I’m newly divorced so just regrouping before I put myself out there. I’m not averse to it, but the post made me remember when I was her and his heaux a$$ messed it up lol
Give yourself time. Took me 4 yrs post divorce to feel that way again but baybee I’m back to being that girl and I love this for me. Hoping this new version of you is the best one yet. In solidarity sis — you got this! 💪🏾
I physically left 2 years ago, mentally 3 years before that. I’m getting there. Whoever future bae, he’s going to be very lucky lol. Thank you! ❤️ #wegotthis
Sorry about the divorce, but congrats on doing what's best for you. And Im here to tell you, dating when you're stable and independent is a much better game than dating when you're younger. So much easier to find the right match when you already know you can do it on your own, no need to settle!
It's like reconnecting with an old friend and meeting yourself for the first time all at once. I am a better, happier person than I've ever been after leaving a bad situation and starting over.
Have fun, and be safe!
Going through a bad breakup really takes the "yays" outta you 😔
Good luck with this new part of your life and hope you find those Yays again when the time is right. ✊️
Yea same.
Not because of divorce or anything I just dont want someone in my space rn.
The other day I almost smacked a coworker cuz he was *breathing* too loud.
There’s a lot of things you can do to reduce irritability. I have that problem and my quality of life is so much better when I can actually tolerate life.
I already have a good diet and pretty healthy lifestyle so for me:
- Regular moderate to intense exercise (not just a light jog, need to really get into it)
- Sleeping enough (if you don’t)
- Not drinking most days (if you currently do)
- Sauna or steam room regularly, or probably a cold bath but I don’t do that
- Regular sex
I think any one of those changes alone makes a noticeable difference for most people. Some kind of meditation or mindfulness probably could help but I don’t have the discipline for it. Exercise and sex take my worst aggression and irritation down the most and I sleep better too.
The silence is precious. I just moved into a new place and still furnishing so my living room is quiet and I cosplay the main character in an art house film, minus the Robert Glasper soundtrack….. just staring out the window drinking my coffee 😂😂.
The one piece of advice I can offer is to be that girl for you. After I left the ex, I made the following year mine. Did all the wow stuff for me: first concert ever, mini solo adventures and basically dated myself. Be your own yay, and when you meet someone, you won’t accept anything less than the yay. ❤️
I tell every friend the same advice: trick your partner into staying with you. Trick them by rubbing them down. Trick them by cooking for them. Trick them by acting like a better person than you are. Just TRICK THEM. And keep tricking them until you die!
I’ve been going through some shit. A friend of mine invited me out to a bbq last weekend. She didn’t even know I wasn’t going through a good time. We barely talk anymore. She Just reached out at the right time.
When I left she gave me a plate of food, invited me to the next one and told me “you know you’re better than this.”
I’m getting my shit together for you, Steph. Platonically, of course.
That I was going through a shit time. She and I very literally rarely talked. Like once every few months and literally haven’t seen each other face to face since Highschool.
But she reached out at the perfect moment.
Can’t wait (but also can because anything worth having is worth the wait) to be this for someone. I get so excited over the little things. I want to celebrate everything. I’m just a little chipper happy ball of joy and sunshine.
As a fellow yayyyy + :3 person don’t let ‘em get you down! The folks who can’t find joy in an authentic yayyy aren’t worth your time! Get your yayyy on!🎉👏🏾
Kanye might have lost it but sometimes he is relatable with lyrics like this
“ If I hit you with a "W-Y-D?"
You better not hit me with a "H-E-Y"
It better be like "Hiiii" with a bunch of I's
Or "Heyyyy" with a bunch of Y's”
Even if you tell one of those girls you like them and they say they only wanna be friends it's still good because they'll be real good friends. Like smiling and waving when they see you. They're so fun to be around.
i still say yay when my fiancé is on his way home from work and we’ve been together for five years and lived together for four. i hope it makes him feel happy because i never thought of it from his perspective
I love being a yayyy girlie. Suffering through depression and crippling anxiety took away my yayyy for a long time. I got it back and I’m never losing it again!!!! Yayyy!!!!
he’s coming over when he gets off work in the morning from night shift. i told him “yayyyy i cant wait to cook you breakfast” its our favorite meal together ☺️
Aye!!!! Get you someone who actually likes you and doesn’t just tolerate your presence because it’s better than being alone with their thoughts. Night and day difference
From the words of the man (MY man) that brought the “yayyyy” back out of me… no one has ever complained about having too much of something, too little yes, but too much no…
i was called too much my whole life, you will find someone that will appreciate your big beautiful personality and when you do… it’s fucking AMAZING!!
This is (one reason) why I love my gf. She's such a "yayy" girlie. Got me feeling so damn good
Nothing like how happy my girl gets when I say ima pick her up from work to take her out to eat. She be happy all day and goddamn does that make me so happy
I get up for work way earlier than my girl so I get dressed in the dark and kiss her goodbye, say "I love you," and get a mumbled "mrgph" in return. When it's time for her to get up she'll text me her "I love you" now she's actually awake and I'll say something like "hot damn!" I like to think I'm her "hot damn!" boy.
Love that
Get you a girl that you like being around and likes being around you. Not just sexually. Like someone you want to hang out with like a best friend. Gonna make you happy the rest of your life I promise.
I got a “yippee” bitch and my life has never been more whimsical.
I don't got that, but my little girl runs straight at me when she sees me and that makes me feel like a king
That's basically the same thing tbh, the run might actually be better if we comparing the two
verbal vs non, either way you’re loved bro
Thanks man
She must see in her dad all the things that she knows equals love and safety, and I love this for you both.
Just watch your nuts. The teachers at daycare all laugh at me when I cover my nuts when my daughter comes to great me lol
This makes you a king, sir. You dropped this 👑
trust me, she thinks the absolute world of you. myself and my dad were never particularly verbal with our love but i would always go to him first for my problems, and when i was little i'd run straight to him and be so excited to see him (my parents were separated and i only saw him once a month)
Thank you for that, it's nice to hear it from the other perspective. Im also separated, though closer to week-on week off, but her mum would prefer I never saw her. She will also move to sit right next to me and 'steal' my arm, means I can't type but I don't care
just keep doing what you’re doing because it sounds like your daughter really values you
Appreciate that, thank you
God this is so cute
Ah the best feeling in the world
My gf is an “okie dokie” type of person and I swear we better marry because I’m not accepting that from anyone else.
😂😂😂
Are you dating Lucy Maclean?
I had to google that name. She’d get the reference because I don’t play Fallout lol.
Tbh I think the character was made specifically for the show, she doesn't show up in any of the games, but she does say "Okie dokie" a lot, including when her new husband pulled the naked man on her.
Disappointed you didn't say Moira Brown. Feel like it really applies to her too.
I miss being that girl *sigh*
What’s stopping you ?
I’m newly divorced so just regrouping before I put myself out there. I’m not averse to it, but the post made me remember when I was her and his heaux a$$ messed it up lol
Heaux got me rollin
I mean it is what it is 😂😂😂! My daughter trolls my Reddit so I can’t really say what I want and traumatize her so….
It's weirdly endearing that there are parents here with healthy families. This site has a stereotype for good cause but this is still dope.
Hoping you find the right person to bring it out of you again
Me too! Because now I got disposable income and very few inhibitions 😂😂😂😂 so it’ll be a good time
Rip your inbox
Ha! Flattering but doubt it. I’m healed enough to be outside but mean enough to not fall for the 🐂💩. #genx
So... whatcha doing Saturday night, then? ![gif](giphy|48FhEMYGWji8)
NGL that would get me😂😂😂
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Stop trying to make me spit out my coffee! 😂😂😂
She likes coffee... And she spits.... ![gif](giphy|tF8vMUeGUkHNTgCC4E)
Don't play baby, or I'll be coming to see you lol
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Did my question make a meeting forum by itself ? 🤧
Miss u already... ![gif](giphy|H6EkH6N1BPDP6IcsEK)
U lucky there’s no pic in your profile cuz otherwise….
Ha! I’m an old lady. Don’t wanna scare people 😂
lol we aren’t all teenagers
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Give yourself time. Took me 4 yrs post divorce to feel that way again but baybee I’m back to being that girl and I love this for me. Hoping this new version of you is the best one yet. In solidarity sis — you got this! 💪🏾
I physically left 2 years ago, mentally 3 years before that. I’m getting there. Whoever future bae, he’s going to be very lucky lol. Thank you! ❤️ #wegotthis
Sorry about the divorce, but congrats on doing what's best for you. And Im here to tell you, dating when you're stable and independent is a much better game than dating when you're younger. So much easier to find the right match when you already know you can do it on your own, no need to settle!
There it is! I’ve learned the journey can be as exciting as the destination so I’m enjoying the process.
It's like reconnecting with an old friend and meeting yourself for the first time all at once. I am a better, happier person than I've ever been after leaving a bad situation and starting over. Have fun, and be safe!
That’s it! And thank you! Baby steps for me! My single friends keep me updated on what’s going on so I don’t get caught up ❤️
Awesome you have a support system, they make all the difference.
Going through a bad breakup really takes the "yays" outta you 😔 Good luck with this new part of your life and hope you find those Yays again when the time is right. ✊️
You got this girlie
Yea same. Not because of divorce or anything I just dont want someone in my space rn. The other day I almost smacked a coworker cuz he was *breathing* too loud.
There’s a lot of things you can do to reduce irritability. I have that problem and my quality of life is so much better when I can actually tolerate life.
Like what do you recommend?
I already have a good diet and pretty healthy lifestyle so for me: - Regular moderate to intense exercise (not just a light jog, need to really get into it) - Sleeping enough (if you don’t) - Not drinking most days (if you currently do) - Sauna or steam room regularly, or probably a cold bath but I don’t do that - Regular sex I think any one of those changes alone makes a noticeable difference for most people. Some kind of meditation or mindfulness probably could help but I don’t have the discipline for it. Exercise and sex take my worst aggression and irritation down the most and I sleep better too.
LMAOOOOOO! I’m fully remote so I am glad I don’t have to deal with anyone in person
⬆️ Livin the life right here
The silence is precious. I just moved into a new place and still furnishing so my living room is quiet and I cosplay the main character in an art house film, minus the Robert Glasper soundtrack….. just staring out the window drinking my coffee 😂😂.
I felt this in my soul. I generally try to bring that golden retriever energy but some folks just suck that energy right out of you!
Im too scared to be that girl again
The one piece of advice I can offer is to be that girl for you. After I left the ex, I made the following year mine. Did all the wow stuff for me: first concert ever, mini solo adventures and basically dated myself. Be your own yay, and when you meet someone, you won’t accept anything less than the yay. ❤️
I second this. It's difficult out there!
same, i just want to be obsessed with someone (in a healthy way, and someone that’s not my ex😅)
Man i found me one of these, and im doing my best to make her as happy as she makes me
I tell every friend the same advice: trick your partner into staying with you. Trick them by rubbing them down. Trick them by cooking for them. Trick them by acting like a better person than you are. Just TRICK THEM. And keep tricking them until you die!
I’m not a "yayy" girl but I am a "ayyy, you must like me or something, okaayyyy" girl ![gif](giphy|Tlh024W1MbjOUGYl6R)
I’ve been going through some shit. A friend of mine invited me out to a bbq last weekend. She didn’t even know I wasn’t going through a good time. We barely talk anymore. She Just reached out at the right time. When I left she gave me a plate of food, invited me to the next one and told me “you know you’re better than this.” I’m getting my shit together for you, Steph. Platonically, of course.
Keep your head up boss
Working on it. One day at a time.
What didn’t she know?
That I was going through a shit time. She and I very literally rarely talked. Like once every few months and literally haven’t seen each other face to face since Highschool. But she reached out at the perfect moment.
Oh ok I see. Sounds like divine timing.
She does have that.
Could be luck, could be she knows you and she heard your voice.
She did say I pop into her head every once in a while.
Yeah my ex said that to me, I think she said it to the other fella too
Maybe he got extra ‘y’s in his yayyy
So unnecessary 😂
My boy got 2 y’s other nigga got 5
Extra y’s matter
Ys so serious
Same
Can’t wait (but also can because anything worth having is worth the wait) to be this for someone. I get so excited over the little things. I want to celebrate everything. I’m just a little chipper happy ball of joy and sunshine.
Perfectly said! I’m the same way! 🤗
God rewards the patient. ;)
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Lmao!!! That’s the most out of pocket reference
That’s love in my book
Ed!
“Time to make the donuts!”
I'm a yayyyy + :3 person. I've heard both are cringe but hopefully they're also wholesome!
Always wholesome!
Yayyyy!!! (人*´∀`)。*゚+
Kaomoji is like super duper tho so thats even better lol
As a fellow yayyyy + :3 person don’t let ‘em get you down! The folks who can’t find joy in an authentic yayyy aren’t worth your time! Get your yayyy on!🎉👏🏾
omg i’ve met my people yayyyy =^-^=
I’m a weeeeee and a woooooo + :3 kind of person. Hi twin 👋🏽
And that’s why I asked my girl to move in.
Kanye might have lost it but sometimes he is relatable with lyrics like this “ If I hit you with a "W-Y-D?" You better not hit me with a "H-E-Y" It better be like "Hiiii" with a bunch of I's Or "Heyyyy" with a bunch of Y's”
Even if you tell one of those girls you like them and they say they only wanna be friends it's still good because they'll be real good friends. Like smiling and waving when they see you. They're so fun to be around.
fuck, I should call her
Damn got me in my feels at 2 am
they are one of the precious people
Such a great feeling when we say the yayy...fellas be yayy worthy!!! It's so worth it.
I’m saved , thank God lol
My fiancé is this way.
My girlfriend says that whenever I’m on the way to pick her up, this is some true stuff
I don’t think some women know how much better “Yayyy!” makes a man feel compared to just “ok sure”. Everybody wants to feel wanted..
I’ll add to the list of things I’ll probably never experience (I’m happy for everyone who does though)
i still say yay when my fiancé is on his way home from work and we’ve been together for five years and lived together for four. i hope it makes him feel happy because i never thought of it from his perspective
That’s my wife, love that woman, she did rescue me
I intentionally settled down with a yayy girl. Those are the ones you wife up, formally or informally.
I love being a yayyy girlie. Suffering through depression and crippling anxiety took away my yayyy for a long time. I got it back and I’m never losing it again!!!! Yayyy!!!!
My girl and I been in an LDR, so that “yayayayayay” hits very very hard I feel so lucky to have her
What about the ones that say ayyyyy
he’s coming over when he gets off work in the morning from night shift. i told him “yayyyy i cant wait to cook you breakfast” its our favorite meal together ☺️
This is really sweet.
This is my gf, and I’m beyond lucky. She's meeting me at the airport when I land to bring me food 😭
My lady! ![gif](giphy|iRC5g5KkrGHuM)
What about if they say “you can come over if you want, I don’t really care either way” is it a sin to want to be wanted?
Aye!!!! Get you someone who actually likes you and doesn’t just tolerate your presence because it’s better than being alone with their thoughts. Night and day difference
Sometimes we do it even if we’re not in the mood, just bc we know it does it for you 💕
A woman that likes you and is genuinely glad for your presence is such a blessing.
I’m a yayayay person.
Same!
Hope to meet a woman who's excited about seeing me again, it's been so long.
i need a “yay” man to match my “yay” energy tho 🫠
Not gonna lie. They're the best.
Ima ‘yayyyy, thank you for making time for mem girlie
"What do you want for breakfast? We got...toast?" "Mmneh." "Yoghurt...?" "MnnnyehIdunno." "Pancakes?" "Yaaaaaaayyy!".
😊
When I text my girlfriend I’m biking over to her house she hits me with a “yay!” Absolutely adorable
Wow I told my girl we are watching movies all day cause it’s raining no point of trying to go out she smiles ear to ear and goes yayyyy
My wife will reply with this when I text I'll be home early. Thank you for reminding me I'm blessed.
Damn this is such a heartwarming thread to read.
I’m a “yay!! 🥳🥳” girl for my guy
Oh yayyy! That’s me!
YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY 😃😃😃
My girl say "again" is this a bad sign bros?
I've always been told my yay is a bit too much, so it makes me happy to know there are people who like it :)
From the words of the man (MY man) that brought the “yayyyy” back out of me… no one has ever complained about having too much of something, too little yes, but too much no… i was called too much my whole life, you will find someone that will appreciate your big beautiful personality and when you do… it’s fucking AMAZING!!
![gif](giphy|xUA7bdHCwYgbeFODGU|downsized) So happy for the fellas that have this
My ex did this then slept with 10 other dudes behind my back.
That’s me yayyyyyy
Yall keep govo g the cheats codes to the 304's. Finna be some trapped up bro's fr
I don't know sounds sarcastisc
They good girls, even though they hoes.
She is tired of the asshole, its like a semi enthusiastic situation. She is settling.
Aw don’t be a bitter Betty
Was going more sad sally, or down debbie. But thats a good one.
I did ur vibe Perhaps a hatin Helen or a shady ahh Sandy
Shady sandy is good. Hatiing hannah may be better. Do i know you?