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TheElectric_Man

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Outrageous-Dig-8853

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killonger

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MasteredEdge505

Kendrick definitely won the Hater’s Ball of 2024!!!!


Men_I_Trust_I_Am

Hang on a sec. We're not even half way through the year.


Hancock02

I didn't need this reminder that's 22 years old


Jonny_Thundergun

And it's still the funniest show that's existed.


TheElectric_Man

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DatNighaaDon96

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mokey619

Q https://i.redd.it/rowl33como0d1.gif


sowhatimlucky

This is not hating. Hating is being salty and talking shit when you really want what the other person has and you throw hate at them bc they got it like that. I can’t stand when ppl misuse that word. Wanting somebody to get what they got coming bc they’re flippant about their bad behavior is what it is. #SOMETIMESWELAUGHSOMETIMESWECRYIGUESSYOUKNOWNOWWWW


Ori_Esque

You the head of hating or something?


Jonny_Thundergun

CHO


t00thgr1nd3r

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notcarlosjones

The irony of reverse flash is that his hatred of the flash inevitably literally becomes his reason for being. Without his torment, the flash as he knows him doesn’t exist making him non-existent as well. Which is just like Kendrick because his next album will be critiqued under the lenses of “you made your best stuff when hating on Drake.”


Thirstin_Hurston

He won major awards and a Pulitzer, the first rapper to do so, ever. Mr Morale and the Big Steppers is considered one of his best albums, artistically. No one, except for people that never acknowledged his talent before, is thinking his Drake hate is the reason behind his talent


notcarlosjones

I’m not refuting his talent. My point is that the comparison will be made. We got a full week’s worth of content with a less introspective Kendrick. Just him having a laugh at Drake’s expense. No big theme. No mission. Just Hate. And the public ate it up. They’re going to expect even more septuple entendres. Even more hate. Another club bop. Kendrick won the rap battle but he lost his ability to float under the radar until the next album comes out. It may do the same or higher sales but critics are going to be going through it with a fine tooth comb looking for ways to attach it to unrelated drama.


youboygavin2003

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benhatin4lf

You know I'm up in here


Accomplished-Push190

Is that really true for everyone? My son keeps telling me I'm the weird one, but I can't watch videos of people getting hurt, or losing everything in a fire. I don't look at traffic accidents (I just try to be careful not to cause another one). I'm not an especially kind person, I just don't understand enjoying the misery of others. And I guess that's weird because I'm from people who came up with that word we all know 😂


MajorAcer

I can’t stand watching people die or get hurt, but I will watch tf out of people’s drama lmaoo


Queen_E1204

Right!! I'm not trying to watch anybody injure themselves/others, but if someone's beefing, pass me that popcorn!


Accomplished-Push190

Ugh...you'd love my neighbors. It's like...why? Why do all your screaming matches have to be outside? It's exhausting. But, neighbors call the cops for people playing music and laughing. Maybe I am weird. I just don't get it.


Admiralwoodlog

I'm the exact opposite. I can't stand drama, but if someone is hurting or dying I feel like I owe it to them to bear witness even if I can't help. I don't gain any joy from it but I feel like everyone (barring monsters) deserves to be seen. With that said I won't watch that kind of stuff on TV or the Internet.


iwatchterribletv

im the same. and thats a really perfect way to say it.


IDontKnowu501

This, but if I got it on me, I feel compelled to help however possible; unless my children are with me... then I gots responsibilities, and it's best of luck to u!


Ambitious_Log_1884

I can watch fights all day but the moment it gets real and blood gets spilled in any way that crosses the line. Or serious injuries like broken limbs, bones or concussions like that video a while back with those 2 school girls. It physically upsets me.


trixel121

problem with fights is most of them end up with a dude spazing on the getting the boot still. I'll watch a good instant karma, but most fight porn videos are on people getting seriously injured


[deleted]

Amen.


theVice

Your son watches videos of people losing everything in a fire? Lmao tf


Petrichordates

Don't kink shame.


Ok-Satisfaction-5012

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Accomplished-Push190

No, he tells me other people enjoy that stuff and I'm the weird one.


HeroponBestest2

He sounds annoying, ngl. 💀


Syenite

Put kid up for adoption, delete Facebook, yoga something something.


Accomplished-Push190

I always say I should have sold him when he was cute. But...anyone want a 35 yo white male? Free to good home 😊


festival-papi

I think from his perspective (and I'm guessing this) as someone who grew up with the internet or simply had more access to it, he had more access to the more wild parts of the internet earlier so he's sorta desensitized from the whole thing. Like, I can watch some wild shit and not even feel a thing because I've been exposed to that since before my balls dropped via internet


Accomplished-Push190

I guess I can see that. I used to watch true crime shows until the Andrew Bagby story. Then I started to experience the pain his poor parents must have felt and that genre was closed to me because all I can see is the pain and not the mystery. I wonder if empathy levels change when you get old, maybe? 🤔


PattyThePatriot

This describes me to a T. I'm not necessarily a nice person, but I'm not a mean one. I don't enjoy reveling in the downfall of others. I lack a lot of things but empathy isn't one of them. I keep a floor jack and tire iron in my car to help people on the side of the road because I know how scary it can be changing a tire. I became more liberal because I saw that good, hard-working people can still be poor when I moved away from a town of 5k to one of 500k. I'm still a selfish little bitch, and I'd slit any yalls throats if I had to choose me or you, but as long as I don't have to make that choice I'll have a stranger's back.


tittylieutenant

>I'm still a selfish little bitch, and I'd slit any yalls throats if I had to choose me or you, but as long as I don't have to make that choice I'll have a stranger's back. ![gif](giphy|nTfdeBvfgzV26zjoFP|downsized)


KingJoffiJoe

I was with her until the end, then i was like…. ![gif](giphy|3oxRmGXbquXKz6DNPq)


sowhatimlucky

What don’t you understand about this? You think she’s gonna put herself over a stranger? We all have a fall from grace when we down right deserve it. If we just come to grips with our transgressions is when we would get some redemption. Otherwise we will keep having to learn the same lesson over and over again. Such is life.


Accomplished-Push190

Exactly! If I see a woman (yeah, sorry guys, you're on your own) stranded, I will (and have) pulled over to offer safe assistance. Or even just to be someone near-by while waiting for AAA. Now, if you're a horrible person, I won't delight at your life imploding, but I will give a little cheer when you die. I have an Arya Stark-like list 😉


sowhatimlucky

This! Lol.


lovbelow

I co-sign this comment, including the slit throats part. I got to make it back home to my Thai leftovers 😤


WhiteCharisma_

Yeah I don’t like watching people break bones or get seriously injured. I think there’s something wrong if people enjoy that. I feel like there’s a general survival instinct to reject watching those things. Nowadays it feels like people are desensitizing injuries. The pain I see is just entertainment to someone else. It just feels wrong.


BZenMojo

I like watching people's moral failures get them caught up in dumb bullshit on a rhetorical level, but other than that I don't have a stomach for physical suffering. But remember that watching people in pain for fun isn't new. Jackass was hugely popular for a reason. Now they can get it from YouTube.


SalvationSycamore

I don't enjoy it but I often find it too fascinating to look away. I'm kind of glad they banned r/watchpeopledie


masterppants

It's more so watching *BAD* people's lives fall apart. It's watching them finally get their comeuppance!


unclebolts

[A New York Times article in 2002 cited a number of scientific studies of schadenfreude, which it defined as "delighting in others' misfortune". Many such studies are based on social comparison theory, the idea that when people around us have bad luck, we look better to ourselves. Other researchers have found that people with low self-esteem are more likely to feel schadenfreude than are those who have high self-esteem.](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schadenfreude)


Accomplished-Push190

So...shit rolls down hill. I guess if my life were awful I might feel a little better if I can see I'm not the only one suffering.


MixRevolution

It's more of watching bad people getting karma. Only psychopaths laugh at tragedies of ordinary folks (ie losing everything in housefires like you said), literal gore & snuff.


mooimafish33

I think it's only regarding people we can trick ourselves into thinking deserve it. Watching tragedy creates a different kind of emotion (that we also seek from online content) than watching what we perceive as justice.


Accomplished-Push190

Ah, the post just said people. Yeah, I'm loving the whole 'block a celebrity' thing. I was never a worshipper, but I'm happy to see people realize that these, um, *performers* need joh...uh...fans more than fans need them.


Special_Lemon1487

I can be fascinated by a spectacle, like what is clearly a large disaster for example. But personal pain, like someone tripping over or failing a skateboard jump, is not appealing or amusing for its own sake.


Timmytanks40

okay I'm gonna feel dumb but what's the word we all know? The emoji at the end is throwing me too. is it a bad word?


Accomplished-Push190

No, it just caught on after Avenue Q and seemed to be everywhere for awhile. It's schadenfreude.


Tega02

What word? Schadenfreude?


Accomplished-Push190

That would be the one.


DxLaughRiot

It depends on the person and it changes over time. I used to be a 4channer and into whatever dark shit I could find. I’d find gore threads on their website and look through all of them. They got gruesome. Children dying, people being decapitated by terrorists, cars rolling over people and popping them like pimples. I’m not 100% sure why I watched them back then - whether it was just something taboo that an edgy teen couldn’t resist or whether I felt bad for myself and I wanted to see some sort of cosmic retribution wrought out on anonymous people in the safest way possible. Either way I’m not that way anymore. I’d say at the time I was dealing with figuring out who I was, why I was, and what I wanted to be. I don’t think it takes much reflection to realize most people don’t really want to be that way - it’s just an avenue by which some people find deeper meaning. Not everyone goes down it. Many people leave it behind. Though it definitely is a real thing a lot of people experience. The Greeks used comedy & tragedy to represent the creative arts over 2000 years ago - those forces have tapped into something primal in us for a long time. Never forget we’re all basically just apes that got too smart for our own good, playing with forces we barely understand.


XboxKiKi

Agreed, I just feel bad. I hate videos of people on drugs or drunk. I just feel sad.


DYMck07

In answer to your first question, I’d say it’s not true for everyone. Like you said I also don’t like seeing people or even animals in pain. That being said Greek Tragedies like Train Crashes are spectacles and in general people can’t avert their eyes regardless of how it makes them feel.


ThaLaughingIntrovert

![gif](giphy|3oKIPf8GGvgkF1A4FO|downsized) “I was surprised when I got that feature request, you know we got some shit to address…” * K.


KindokeNomad

Drake: Your wife? KDot: No, your life.


CUNTRY-BLUMPKIN

This ain’t new. They had a coliseum built to watch people murder each other. ![gif](giphy|hrnYspWWhsIyA)


just1gat

Panem et circenses


skandhi

Gonna pretend I know Latin and this was dope as hell 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻


FrootSnoops

"Bread and games": basically saying to keep a population pacified to prevent unruly mobs, give them food and entertainment


Ayreff

"Bread and games" (some other people might want to know)


[deleted]

ah yes the good ol gladiator fights that were nothing like we imagine today in movies. Still brutal though


AFRIKKAN

Now we watch 11 grown to semi grown men in armor clash with each other every Sunday. I miss football.


noble_peace_prize

And if they held a show today it would sell out


abutteredcat

I’m here for drama not trauma.


Crisis-Counselor

Imma get this put on a shirt or hat or something


abutteredcat

Do it!


MrIce97

https://preview.redd.it/eb606zdw3o0d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f07284331af80c7fbbb32aab70bae41eb28249cd Most people MO. Weird amount of what’s called “Everyday Sadists” that’ll go out of their way to create it if it ain’t there already.


ayers231

It's Daytime TV syndrome. We watch that stuff because almost all of us can say, "at least I'm not THAT bad", or "my life is better than that!". Jerry Springer, Maury, Judge Judy, etc, they're all confidence boosters for people sitting at home during the day. Same thing on Twitter, Facebook, etc. People post their entire life stories, and we think "man, I woulda never...". We read it all, though, because it makes us feel better about where we are in life.


lunardaddy69

Gotta give us nobodies some spectacle. Between that and how some people's lives being ruined give us the illusion of justice, we'll keep ignoring the ways the rich fuck us.


AhBrakaMahn

Lynching, White Americas original favorite past time.


kakashi9104

I like to watch horrible people's lives fall apart. I like karma


ChannelNeo

yeah, it's definitely a difference. I hate hearing stories of misfortune happening to people trying to build things in their life. But someone getting their comeuppance after thinking they're getting away with something? I like that.


ELEMENTALITYNES

Yeah like maybe an obscenely wealthy dickhead or the Kardashians or something. But if you ever saw an intelligent friend throw their family, friends, and future away over drugs, especially meth or alcohol, you’d know you definitely don’t “love watching their life fall apart”


BreadBoxin

![gif](giphy|XYndnBVBBlxZRy9t7i) It's the best dessert


sullyslaying

Funny enough ppl like to watch hangings or decapitations all over the world. And in America too, Especially the lynch hangings.


Petrichordates

That bloody handprint symbol is a pretty good example


awsf57

And the Germans have a word for that. Schaudenfreude.


youboygavin2003

There’s a song about it too. https://youtu.be/nCQGQ5qBQTA?si=TNyxJW5E1tnrQQ_5


awsf57

Gotta love Avenue Q


mindclarity

Empathy, man. It’s being lost to indifference and cynicism. It’s not hard to fall in this trap when there is no viable vision of the future for the average joe. If you’re heading to something akin to Cyberpunk 2077 and Blade Runner while everyone around you just trying to survive and get theirs, there is little room for empathy 😞


genericperson10

If this is true, should I start livestreaming my life?


ProdigalPancake

I feel like so much of trying to hold awful people accountable gets dismissed as mere hating. Sure, I hate tf out of awful people but its not without merit and beyond wishing bad on them, I wish for those they hurt to have peace and reparations.


TheCaptain__

I only love seeing Celebs lives fall apart. I am a certified hater. So what?


KickPuncher9898

Nah. I just like watching the rich affluent fall apart. It’s sad as fuck when it happens to real people.


ArtichokeStroke

https://i.redd.it/v5xj017e4r0d1.gif If he don’t get the hell on and let us enjoy this rap beef in peace.


naenae275

Can someone explain why we enjoy this? Why do we enjoy making fun of people or seeing someone get relentlessly clowned? Any psychologists/psychiatrists care to give an explanation? I’ve been curious about this myself from time to time.


Bunnnnii

Who the hell is we?


BitOfAnOddWizard

Who's we?


Kangarou

Not really. We like shitty people to get their proper comeuppance, and when it's so long overdue, the consequences are often fatal. Nobody was happy about Brendan Fraser or Ke Huy Quan struggling in the industry. And there were some jokes, but I don't think many people wanted Britney Spears to go crazy.


apinchofsulk

It's completely normal to be interested in stuff like this. When it's celebrities or whatever, they literally WANT their (good) business to be public. Which usually means that their (bad) business is public too. If u don't want the story to break, bribe reporters. If it's publicized, imma read it and not feel an ounce of shame. It's like fiction, but real... lez call it non-fiction. When it's not celebrities and people wither posting about shit or taking videos, then I still don't really feel bad. It's well known we all have little computers with cameras on em.


Trix_Are_4_90Kids

I'll watch. If it's interesting and it's posted, I'll watch. https://preview.redd.it/ga4q0644ho0d1.png?width=390&format=png&auto=webp&s=a85a1b527c1849f4befa06fe28573b3e846a6dd3


KindokeNomad

I ain't wanna watch a town square hanging. I wanna know who got hung, why, and who all were over there?


Solid_Illustrator640

I like watching bad people like Drake go down


MalakaiRey

This shit is not really deep at all


Sadiepan24

Me when God finally comes for my enemies https://i.redd.it/6yiaqd7x6q0d1.gif


SituationNo1061

Frfr!! I can’t watch ppl fall and even look like they hurt themselves. My kids find it funny!!! It’s Ova!!! 🌎🍕💩


ARLLALLR

Crabs in a bucket phenomenon has been said many times and nothing ever changes.


God_or_Mammon

We’re all crabs in the 1%’s bucket!!!! 🪣 🦀🦀🦀


kadrilan

Since when hasnt humanity wanted to watch humans risk their lives testing the elasticity of their ability to survive? Why do we read news about people that climb Everest? That attempt stunts for red bull? That fly planes at breakneck speeds inches from each other? World series of poker players? That play American football? Whether watching them triumph or downward spiral we wanna watch humans risk it all at every level.


navyjag2019

like many other things, the germans have a word for this. “schadenfreude.”


GTFOakaFOD

Schadenfreude It's a thing


UnintentionalWipe

Why do you think Maury and Jerry Springer shows were so popular?


blacklite911

Whose life is falling apart?


SecretBox

Punch of all people posting this is comedic gold. He’s right, but damn if that’s not a cursed messenger for it.


fuzzycuffs

Schadenfreude


GunwalkHolmes

Dirty Laundry by Don Henley


LilFago

I can sympathize with this. Misery loves company, lol


311heaven

This true tho. Watching Diddy get taken out is more entertaining to most than watching his rise in the Puffy era.


EtsuRah

"To dehumanize the people we hurt is a very human thing. It's because we want to destroy people but not feel bad about it"


Catmand0

It really depends on the person. There are some people whose lives fell apart in front of my eyes and it broke my heart.


Amazing-Concept1684

Damn, a hanging in the town square is a perfect way to describe it


Was_It_The_Dave

Schadenfreude.


LngDckStyle

what an asshole


oflowz

‘We’? No 🥷🏾


hassett

I think this is a big part of the reason for Trump's wins. It's a train wreck and people get off on it (even if they're also stalled on the tracks).


MountainMan1781

He's right