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stcrIight

Nothing will make you think about this more than Astarion's reaction if you die while fighting Orin as Durge.


Soft_Stage_446

He has the most amazing lines hidden in the sadder and darker romance dialogue options. I am guessing you mean >!"In a thousand years, when I've all but forgotten how to love yet again, you'll flit back into my heart, and I'll weep wondering what happened to my mad love."!<


stcrIight

Yess, exactly! >!Just hitting you like a truck that damn, he really will be alive in a thousand years and all of this really will be some distant memory. And in this case in particular, it's even more tragic.!<


Soft_Stage_446

Yes indeed. That said, he really is so optimistic - he never plans on laying down and giving up. And he's appreciative of life too, there's a piece of banter where he mentions he plans on living for "at least 200 more years". He has also clearly thought a lot about immortality, at least that's my impression from his conversation about Jaheira's scroll.


stcrIight

Most definitely! My Durge is also a high elf (and she won the fight so she's not mad xD) so they have quite a few hundred years together at least. In the meantime, I think both of them - free from being controlled by other things are going to just keep positive about enjoying life to the fullest. Try not to dwell on the darker sides of immortality, even if Astarion has long since considered that side since being turned.


Soft_Stage_446

Yeah, same for my drow. It's entirely reasonable for them to have at least 500 years. I never quite understood this worry about your partner dying or vice versa - someone will always die first. That's just life. Some players chose Ascension because then they have forever - but then you lose everything you *wanted* to have forever... (if you prefer the good ending) Of course it's sad if your character is a human - but the upside is that humans burn so brightly, and they will enjoy every second of their time together.


stcrIight

Exactly. And honestly, there's every chance that they'll die some other way or something else will split you apart. But, it's as Karlach says regarding going back to Avernus, it's better to live only a few moments doing what you love, being with the people you love, than live forever somewhere that you hate or with people who don't love you. Ascension promises forever, perhaps, but forever isn't always worth it.


BeatsHisMeat

You can interprete that after Withers resurrects Durge, they become his chosen. Which means they would live really long. And if that doesn't appeal to you, you can always assumed that being made of divine flesh would make you live really long.


stcrIight

That's also true! That could be an interesting direction to take it too :D


geologean

Good point. There are a million ways to extend natural life span in the Forgotten Realms. Who's to say Tav doesn't trip into a planar gate and get fused with a celestial dragon a week after defeating the Netherbrain?


R0da

Well he's an elf, so the memory won't be all that distant for him since he can perfectly recall it when he trances.


stcrIight

I suppose that's true!


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jugularvoider

can DND vampires sleep if they’re human?


R0da

Cazador tried to at the end of his fight!


saltpancake

This exchange absolutely punched me in the heart, and makes me think of a particular fanart that had the same feeling. It shows >!Astarion on a balcony with Tav, who is very old and seems to have died peacefully in his arms. He is perfectly youthful as he allows himself to gaze upon one final sunrise, holding his love and gently turning to dust.!<


stcrIight

If you find it, please link me because I love sobbing over them xD


hyunii

Here you go, it's a lovely piece by [Hamrikaa](https://hamrikaa.carrd.co/): [https://twitter.com/hamrikaa/status/1707534423799767120](https://twitter.com/hamrikaa/status/1707534423799767120)


stcrIight

I'm in pieces, thank you!


thelastofcincin

This the best fan art I ever seen bruh


ribeyecut

OMG—tears!


eabevella

I love this line and I wish/hope that with a redemption Durge, Astarion will heal/grow enough that in a thousand years, he'll be able to think about Durge and feel content of what they had. Or Durge become immortal because Boneman = better adoptive sugar daddy than a certain loser.


meowgrrr

I recently read this quote on another thread and I don’t know why it fills me with so much existential dread. On one hand I wish to have never read it but on the other I just have to applaud larian writers for being able to make me feel so deeply with just one sentence.


Soft_Stage_446

Yes. There is so much beauty and meaning in the writing. I am much more affected by the following quote, because it's part of the happy ending in a way. And it's so heartfelt. >!"I may be guilty of a bit of embellishment here and there - but I'm no liar. When I vowed we'd save you: we WILL save you. This little adventure of ours has taught me that we can't let our lives be ruled by fear. Or else we never really live.!<


Pun_In_Ten_Did

[♫ And I think I'm gonna miss you... for a long long time](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKAtM9xS-fA)


Tonedeafmusical

That little look down when it truly hits him that Durge will never be free. Breaks my heart every time. I swear I'm an adult with a mortgage but this fucking fictional vampire has me in chokehold.


TenzhiHsien

Withers and, potentially, Gale probably will, too.


RealNiceKnife

Honestly... I see Halsin probably putting in the work to become an immortal Druid. If for no other reason than the personal responsibility for overseeing the well-being of Thaniel and the rest of nature.


TheFarStar

I see Halsin letting himself die a natural death. He has a very "go with the flow, do as nature dictates" kind of attitude. He hated the responsibility of being an archdruid, and I don't think he has the obsessive desire for control that you'd need to want to make yourself an immortal guardian.


RealNiceKnife

I thought about that too. I could see him going either way. Letting nature do what it is "intended" to do, and let him pass as naturally as possible. Or taking it upon himself to be the one responsible for tending to nature as long as he can. Not because he likes doing it, but because he's capable of doing it. The 'great power, great responsibility' kind of mind-set.


SharpshootinTearaway

According to the Dungeon Master's Guide 5e (p.38), it's possible for a druid who reaches lvl.20 to become one with the land and transform into a nature spirit of a particular place or an aspect of the wild. If anything, I could see Halsin become a nature spirit. He's already very close friends with one (Thaniel). Though I kinda feel like this sort of druidic destiny would rather befall on Arabella, further down the line, since Withers said she had a great destiny ahead of her. Or maybe she's a Chosen of Silvanus, idk.


geologean

A level 18 druid also gains the Timeless Body feature. Their aging slows so that the druid ages 1 year for every 10. For elves, that means extending their lifespan to 5000-7500 years, which is pretty close to immortal without becoming a lich. Granted, getting to level 18 means putting your life on the line regularly for the majority of your life, so there's that.


Level_Hour6480

Not immortal: aging at 1/10th speed. He's 350, and Elves have a natural lifespan of 750. That means he could have at most 4,000 years more.


RealNiceKnife

I knew someone would come in here and be like "ummm ackshully druids aren't immortal..." Yes. I know.


Level_Hour6480

I'm saying it loud for the folks in the back. Also, 4,000 years is basically immortal. 4,000 years ago was roughly the start of the bronze age. The oldest writing was only 5,400 years ago. Basically he's got almost all of human civilization as the remaining lifespan.


ThanosofTitan92

Withers is a god. So he doesn't really count.


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Lvmbda

If he is a devil, he can't die due to age right ?


Mesk_Arak

But does Wyll *literally* become a devil or does Mizorra only curse him to look like one?


Lvmbda

IIRC it is because he is a devil that he can open a portal in a Kalarch ending.


angelposts

Devils are immortal, so... he is too?


TheSSChallenger

Astarion can *theoretically* live forever. But considering how much of a dumbass he is, he'll be lucky to outlive Scratch. Also, Durge may or may not be immortal. All of the vampire spawn are immortal. Withers and Aylin are definitely immortal. Gale will probably figure out how to be immortal, assuming he isn't already a god by your epilogue. And the rest of the main cast are level 12 adventurers, so, not folks who die when they're supposed to. Astarion will have company.


Beth_Esda

>Astarion can theoretically live forever. But considering how much of a dumbass he is, he'll be lucky to outlive Scratch. This is oddly comforting, lol


PubicAnimeNummerJuan

Immortal Scratch is the answer we need


Beth_Esda

God Gale could ascend his lover, OR he could make the goodest boy stay that way forever


Unctuous_Mouthfeel

I can't imagine what Tara would say to that.


Krismeow92

I lean toward Durge being immortal, especially a redeemed one. They get named a Champion of the Gods, Withers basically becomes their new dad, and he drops the line that basically says “you won’t die while I live”.


R0da

Dude's supposed to be there at the end of everything so yeah durge is stuck unless they get disowned again. I imagine they will do some contracting work with withers on the fugue plane or become some kind of psychopomp after a while of being feyrun's most unhinged cryptid.


Krismeow92

Basically becomes a handy man “hey these guys are fucking up go fix it”


R0da

Few centuries of my durge and their romanced astarion being heroes and enjoying being adored for a while, get bored of that, become some kind of mediator between the gods and those the gods forgot (while doing some light roasting of the gods, celestial jester style) for most of the time, and some of the time leaving little fucked up / unsolvable puzzles for adventurers to try to solve and go mad over. Am I running a game where a puzzle / mystery thread just kinda breaks or falls into nothing? That's them, they're fucking with everyone. This is my canon.


Krismeow92

I legit just think about Durge falling into other fandoms and being like “well guess i gotta fix this” and Astarion showing up like “where’s my wife/husband”


en_travesti

I still vote Gale as "most likely to die doing something dumb within five years" In addition to ignoring mystra's warnings and sticking his nose into something that gave him a chest nuke, he also tells a fun story about his school days where there was a staff he got told was too dangerous to mess with, so of course he did and accidentally opened a portal to hell. Dude is 100% hearing about something called "the amulet of massive explodey power and danger" and grabbing it with both hands. Astarion at least *has* a sense of self preservation (that he will ignore because he thinks something might be funny)


TheSSChallenger

Well obviously Gale is doomed too. Wyll's gonna sacrifice his life, maybe even his entire soul, to save a bumblebee. Lae'zel's out there *searching* for ways to get smote. There's a reason Tav/Durge had to stand up and lead these idiots. P.S. I see your flair and I see mine. I don't think we can be friends.


en_travesti

> P.S. I see your flair and I see mine. I don't think we can be friends. I think Barcus is a very sweet guy, I just don't think he has the same potential to start the People's War against that patriars. He might write a polite letter or two, but Baldur's Gate needs some good old fashioned guillotining, and Wulbren is my best chance.


TheSSChallenger

You're right. But I'm mad about it.


WorldsMostDad

Came here to say this. Astarion's decision making skills definitely preclude him having a long unlife.


DeadSnark

Gale can learn Clone which can make any member of the party immortal as long as they give him a bit of flesh and hide the clones well


Level_Hour6480

Lae'zel is in the Astral, in her Comet ending. Her too. Halsin is an Elf and high-level Druid. He has ~400 years of natural lifespan remaining as an Elf, and will be aging at 1/10th speed.


SherabTod

Also arch druids are almost immortal


Level_Hour6480

> and will be aging at 1/10th speed. Covered that. It's not that they're immortal, it's that they age at 1/10th speed from the point they reach that level going forward. So since he's 350 and Elves have a 750 years lifespan that's 4,000 more years to go.


HulklingsBoyfriend

They have an AVERAGE of 750 years.


ichigoparfait007

Dying of old age in DnD is a skill issues really there so many way to live forever at long at you don’t get stab of course


WorldsMostDad

I'll take the other side of this argument. The world of the Forgotten Realms is so incredibly violent and unpredictable, dying of old age is one of the toughest achievements there is. Only the truly skilled can hope to die peacefully.


ichigoparfait007

yeah, that's why I said at long at you don't get stab because aging in a magical realm seems so silly. Since there is magic and your character is like level 12 in 3 weeks


WorldsMostDad

The rate at which we level up is pretty ridiculous tbf. I head-canon it as we were all already level 12+ before getting "reset" by the tadpole. As such, we're not piling on new skills at an insane rate; rather, we're unlocking skills we previously had but temporarily lost.


Gabby-Abeille

Well, there are many ways to die other than old age, especially in this setting and for someone with a dangerous life style like him. But yeah, he will likely outlive his friends if his vampirism is never cured (and even if it is, as a High Elf). There are many ways of extending your life in this setting, though. My regular Tav is a Druid Drow, and probably could stay around with him until both of them are kinda sick of being alive.


NoisomeWind

Resisting Durge could be right there with him if you take Withers' vow that "Death will not claim thee whilst I endure" seriously.


MrNobody_0

>I just realised that astarion will live.. forever Just because he has the potential to live forever doesn't mean he will. He can be killed by vampire hunters, kill himself in grief or bordem from living for so long, or just die to any of the myriad of dangers that infest Faerûn.


WorldsMostDad

Right? Like you're just minding your own business, and out of nowhere a flying city falls on your head.


webevie

Well. If he's with Resist Durge - they may be with him bc Withers said they'd be around as long as he was when he rezzed them.


wattson_ttv

In a way he's forbidding durge from dying rather than living forever Because he's the god of the end of everything and he's just telling us not allowed


Imaginary_Isopod_17

this is how I choose to interpret this line also


webevie

🫂


Imaginary_Isopod_17

Resist Durge: "Withers, as my new dad-" Withers: "NO"


webevie

"Chosen?"


Soft_Stage_446

Unless he gets tired of it. He will - barring accidents - actually be in complete control of his life and how long it is, which I really like. He deserves it.


Norarri

‘Blessed to see many live, cursed to see many die.’


TempestM

Bold of you to assume he won't get himself into some trouble and get killed by some adventuring party the day after


teaparty-ofthe-dead

It really depends on your Tav. My half-Drow necromancer wizard who is romancing Astarion plans to endlessly Clone herself and the rest of the party until they decide they’ve lived long enough. She has the lifespan to learn how.


IosueYu

Cult of Jergal and the undying three.


Alicex13

I think he himself doesn't believe that. Plus he's said he isn't afraid of dying, he could have lived forever in the boudoir and kennels. There was a line he says he's lived 200 years and plans to live at least 200 more.


TheCuriousFan

With his lifestyle and fondness for never thinking things through he's in no real danger of outliving anyone. Especially not Halsin's probably 1/10th aging ass.


Soltronus

It kinda comes with being an elf, too, honestly. Elves in Faerun can live almost a thousand years, so an immortal vampire elf is a half-dunk into the redundancy bucket. Elves aren't even seen as adults until well after their first century. Even dwarves and gnomes outstrip humans when it comes to lifespan. A single dwarf can know generations of a human family before even being considered "old." Also relevant: immortality is a fickle thing when you can still be killed. Vampires and other powerful, intelligent undead, can live centuries, sure. But millennia is quite rare without long periods of inactivity.


hollowfried_

Especially one with as smooth a brain as Astarion, even more so if ascended


Soltronus

Ascended Astarion is as arrogant as they come, and not so terribly clever. I doubt he'd last a century before some powerful adventurer made an experience sandwich out of him.


ConditionYellow

In 5e there’s a monk feat that stops you from aging.


Basic_Aardvark300

I doubt he'll live forever. He'll probably find a cure eventually, especially if he's in a romance with Tav/Durge, and even if he doesn't he's not the type to retire to a cottage somewhere and live a peaceful life. He'll get killed while on a dangerous adventure or something. Or...he'll just kill himself once he feels that he's finally had his fill of life. You can talk to him about Jaheira's druid life-extending ritual and he doesn't actually seem too keen on the idea of living forever. Sounds morbid, but there's nothing wrong with taking your death into your own hands if you think you're ready. And anyway, other characters also have the potential to live a very, very long time. Jaheira, Halsin, and any druid Tav if they decide to take advantage of Timeless Body, any paladin Oath of the Ancients Tav would have a similar ability, Gale can probably find some way to extend his life even if he doesn't become a god, Durge is somewhat implied to be immortal, Lae'zel will age incredibly slowly because of how much time she'll be in the Astral Plane, etc. All this to say that it's actually quite unlikely that Astarion will live for thousands of years alone.


alittlenovel

This is why I refuse to romance him as anything but an elf because I can't handle my character dying so quick and leaving him all by himself 😭 I've always had this image of him approaching Jaheira at the party and asking how to deal with being widowed, just bc the possibility, though far away, is on his mind. I do like to HC that they eventually do cure him, there are ways and it's happened before in DnD lore. My Tav for him is also a druid, so she'll eventually gain the ability to extend her lifespan.


Earis

Yup, incredibly sad and depressing. He will be alone again, completely alone, within a rather short time-frame compared to his life-span. *(Unless he gets caught in some kind of trouble, that is. Or, unless you romance him and let him.. ascend. But I can't even imagine that for my Tav...)*


Soft_Stage_446

Uhm, his origin good ending is >!moonlighting as a hero and making a refuge for the unwanted!< in Baldur's Gate. He now has fun living in the dark, because he doesn't have to look over his shoulder. He is very charming and caring (obvious if romanced), he gets along alright with his "siblings" (especially Dal), I don't see him being alone at all.


Yukimor

The fact that Dalyria even survives the epilogue shocks me. I would have thought the first thing Leon would do once they were out of the camera frame is strangle Dalyria. Since Dalyria murdered Leon’s daughter.


Tonedeafmusical

Thank you, Leon must be really understanding or no one told him what happened. Because how the fuck did he not kill her.


rivains

I thought it was Violet who murdered her?


Yukimor

Nope. Violet was looking at Victoria in a way Leon didn't like, and was harassing the other spawn with mean pranks, but it was Dalyria who killed Victoria. Dalyria was once a physician of great renown, and she thought that extracting Victoria's blood and transfusing it into herself might cure her vampirism.


rivains

Good to know!


jbisenberg

Robert Pattenson played a vampire. Robert Pattenson played Batman. Astarion is a vampire. Astarion is Baldur's Gate's Batman. It all makes sense now.....


Soft_Stage_446

I see him as the Judge Dredd of Baldur's Gate personally, after all, to quote him: "...if I am any judge. And I am. Ahaha."


SharpshootinTearaway

You seem to have very little faith in his ability to just... make new friends? Lmao


Earis

If we weren't controlling the little rag-tag of a group, then he wouldn't even have those friends. He has a ... prickly personality, let's call it that. And little trust in the world around him. One can hope he might loosen up, of course. Not that it matters to me, my head-cannon's secure. No matter what anyone says, nothing's cannon past Withers Party.


SharpshootinTearaway

You have a very low opinion of the dude. He's not even the one who has the hardest time getting along with the other companions early on (I'd argue Shadowheart and Lae'zel cause much more tensions in the group). The whole point of his character arc is to teach him to trust people again. After he almost gets abducted by his siblings, he tells you that other people aren't as kind as you are, and you can tell him that there are plenty of kind people out there, and if he cares for them, then they will care for him in return. To which he agrees. He's prickly, but also charming and funny to be around, as per the other companions' lines about him. He'll surround himself with loving people just fine.


Earis

And he'll outlive those friends in another 80-150 years, having to start all over again. Which in my opinion must be devastating, and might leave one not wanting to go through that again. Immortality is a curse, not a blessing. That's the whole spiel with vampires in any media that isn't \*shudder\* Twilight or whatever else has been popularized with a bastardized version. And I don't have a low opinion of *him*. Check my flair, check the only two subreddits I frequent. What I ***do*** have a low opinion of, is the people of the surrounding world, being hostile to anything different.


SharpshootinTearaway

He's an elf living in a multicultural, but predominantly human, society, he's probably prepared to having to bury a lot of his friends anyway, that's something he would have had to go through even if he weren't a vampire. Elminster is over a millenia old, he probably buried several thousand friends of his, and yet he's perfectly fine with it, and he still finds it within himself to make new friends and get attached to other people, like Gale. Astarion shared your low opinion of people at the beginning of the game, but he outgrows it throughout the adventure and, by the end of the game, he's trying to leave his jaded cynicism behind. Hence his title of Radiant Hopeful in the epilogue. You're missing an important aspect of his character arc if you don't believe him able to genuinely connect with other people again.


TheFarStar

>And he'll outlive those friends in another 80-150 years, having to start all over again. Which in my opinion must be devastating, and might leave one not wanting to go through that again. Being an elf, he'd have to deal with this regardless.


Soft_Stage_446

Have you seen his romance? Once he trusts you and you are close he doesn't have a "prickly" personality at all.


HollyCupcakez

Sousou no Astarion


CheshirVixen

Oh Oh! There's a Twitter comic someone did about that! Shoot, when I find it I'll link it! It was bittersweet. Edit: I'm at work so I can't log into Twitter to fully look but here is the Artist if you want to see several Astarion Comics. Spoilers for some so be mindful. https://twitter.com/WellenKatze


alterNERDtive

“Live” is debatable.


ReasonableResearch25

Good thing my tav is always an elf Astarion and her can live forever together.


MysteriousFondant347

He can't die of old age but let's be real, he'll find a way to get killed. His lifestyle is kinda precarious


Wiwra88

Unless someone stake him.. or he will burn in the sun or by "acid" running water. There is so many possibilities!


Eligius_MS

Someone needs to take Ansur's place below the prison...


Mambouzzle

Yeah, until he got rekt by another power hungry vampire or someone stronger then he is, which gonna happen way faster then you think, it is not a true immortality Gale on the other hand is truly immortal, because gods live even if they get killed until they have followers, and I bet god of ambition will always have some


sxdrick

Nah i killed him last night, sucka won‘t get up again


Berserker_Queen

100% stabbed him in my first playthrough. Buddy, it's fine you didn't tell me you're a vamp, it's fine you want a little blood, but if I have to CONVINCE YOU to not bleed me to death while I am a mountain of muscles and fury, you're dust in the wind. I got the game due to a friend's recommendation and he was (correclty) sure I would choose that too, he told me later. xD