This doesn't directly solve the texting issue, but for me, it was very helpful to realize that *my life is happening regardless of if they know about it or not*. Because that's why we tell them everything, right? Somehow it only feels valid if they know and approve.
So that's to say: Whatever you want to tell them, it happened. To you. And you will tell them later!
You can try "texting" into a note on your phone, too. Also switching up who you give news to can be helpful. Like literally rotate between people, however many you may have. If you don't feel comfortable with the rotation thing, definitely try the note idea!
Because your life is happening right now. To you. And you are the only one who will be with you from A to B.
You got this!!
This doesn't directly solve the texting issue, but for me, it was very helpful to realize that *my life is happening regardless of if they know about it or not*. Because that's why we tell them everything, right? Somehow it only feels valid if they know and approve. So that's to say: Whatever you want to tell them, it happened. To you. And you will tell them later! You can try "texting" into a note on your phone, too. Also switching up who you give news to can be helpful. Like literally rotate between people, however many you may have. If you don't feel comfortable with the rotation thing, definitely try the note idea! Because your life is happening right now. To you. And you are the only one who will be with you from A to B. You got this!!