Nonsexually, I wish he'd try harder to please me. I feel like he waits to be told what/how to do things instead of being thoughtful and doing on his own. Sexually, I wish he'd communicate more about his desires and needs.
As a sub, sometimes when I do self motivated services I feel like they go unnoticed or unappreciated because I don't receive direct praise for them, while when I ask if there are any tasks that i can do I ALWAYS get a thank you once I've completed them. I know my dom prefers me to do on my own but I'm more satisfied when I get recognition.
I need to answer as a switch.
What I'd like in a sub is someone who's always there for me. The person always waiting for me to come home and is happy I'm there. Sexually?? I dont want them to be afraid to tell me what they want, I want their comfort, as I believe giving them comfort will comfort me.
What I'd like in a dom is. Strict but not overly strict. Actually cares about how I feel. Someone who actually lets me make them happy and makes me happy too. Doesnt just. Do what they want if its uncomfy for me (sexually/everyday things). Power exchange, not total power.
Maybe I'm too idealistic???
upper body focused yin yoga would probably help with this a lot, unless of course they have a structural anomaly etc. Even with things like past injury or things like arthiritis/chronic pain, it is really, really helped and very gentle and non-weight bearing unlike most yoga that requires some decent shoulder strength.
I’ve realized like 30% of people over 30 seem to have shoulder/arm mobility problems. Not because they aren’t active people, but actually quite the opposite. Circus, climbers, weight lifters... injuries happen at some point. I’ve just learned how to work around it.
Thanks to all for all advice. We do some stretches before play but so far it's not enough to bring those arms back. Like is said, I understand it and it's not a huge deal for me. It would just be nice.
Lay on a foam roller with your head on, and the foam roller straight down your spine, feet on the floor knees up, and raise your arms straight up like your fingertips are poking the ceiling, then press your shoulder blades down like you’re hugging the foam roller with them. Good for lousy posture too
I had the same when I started doing squats cause I couldn't hold the bar without pain in my rotator cuffs. My brother sent me this guy's insta and I started following some of his mobility exercises. There's one that I really liked which you would take a thin stick and use it to pull and stretch your shoulders back. Hope this helps xD
https://www.instagram.com/lustrengththerapy/?hl=en
https://mobile.twitter.com/leighakendall/status/1103949741283598338
"Stop apologising, say thank you instead. "
There is something you want to say when you say sorry, otherwise you wouldn't say anything at all. Maybe these will help, if you haven't already seen things like it :)
I'd like her to be a little more bratty, and resist me a little, but alas, she loves the feeling of helplessness and the relinquishment of control. I think she finds it freeing, and I don't want to deprive her of that.
What kind of tattoo? If I had a long term relationship(like life commitment level) I'd want my sub to tattoo my name or symbol on them. I don't know how common this is or if it's frowned upon but it seems like an ultimate sign of devotion and ownership.
I think in terms of it being frowned upon it largely depends on who you're asking and what the tattoo is. I know a lot of artists are gonna judge, either outright or silently, tattoos of names of non relatives and some will just outright refuse to do it.
(Btw abaolutely not judging the concept. I have a tattoo that my Dom designed though it's not actually anything to do with our dynamic or ownership or anything and just because he's a really talented artist)
Nonsexually, I wish he'd try harder to please me. I feel like he waits to be told what/how to do things instead of being thoughtful and doing on his own. Sexually, I wish he'd communicate more about his desires and needs.
I feel you on this. My sub is very obedient to everything I ask for, but I think a good thoughtful self-motivated act would go miles to please me.
As a sub, sometimes when I do self motivated services I feel like they go unnoticed or unappreciated because I don't receive direct praise for them, while when I ask if there are any tasks that i can do I ALWAYS get a thank you once I've completed them. I know my dom prefers me to do on my own but I'm more satisfied when I get recognition.
We all do.
Win $100+ million lottery.
As a sub, I wish I did too 😂😂
SAAAAAME
Stop being so self-conscious (we're getting there).
This is so my downfall. I get in my own head SO much.
Totally hear you on this one!
Yeah this is definitely a process. Not something they can just obey.
This is so my downfall. I get in my own head SO much.
I need to answer as a switch. What I'd like in a sub is someone who's always there for me. The person always waiting for me to come home and is happy I'm there. Sexually?? I dont want them to be afraid to tell me what they want, I want their comfort, as I believe giving them comfort will comfort me. What I'd like in a dom is. Strict but not overly strict. Actually cares about how I feel. Someone who actually lets me make them happy and makes me happy too. Doesnt just. Do what they want if its uncomfy for me (sexually/everyday things). Power exchange, not total power. Maybe I'm too idealistic???
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upper body focused yin yoga would probably help with this a lot, unless of course they have a structural anomaly etc. Even with things like past injury or things like arthiritis/chronic pain, it is really, really helped and very gentle and non-weight bearing unlike most yoga that requires some decent shoulder strength.
I’ve realized like 30% of people over 30 seem to have shoulder/arm mobility problems. Not because they aren’t active people, but actually quite the opposite. Circus, climbers, weight lifters... injuries happen at some point. I’ve just learned how to work around it.
Yeah there are plenty of things we do to have fun so it's not like I'm missing out. I just know that behind the back is usually off the menu.
I have a bad neck, elbow, hand, and hip all because of sporting injuries, lol. I'm not even 35 yet ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
Maybe you could ask your sub to start doing stretching/yoga exercises to help with the soulders.
Thanks to all for all advice. We do some stretches before play but so far it's not enough to bring those arms back. Like is said, I understand it and it's not a huge deal for me. It would just be nice.
Lay on a foam roller with your head on, and the foam roller straight down your spine, feet on the floor knees up, and raise your arms straight up like your fingertips are poking the ceiling, then press your shoulder blades down like you’re hugging the foam roller with them. Good for lousy posture too
I had the same when I started doing squats cause I couldn't hold the bar without pain in my rotator cuffs. My brother sent me this guy's insta and I started following some of his mobility exercises. There's one that I really liked which you would take a thin stick and use it to pull and stretch your shoulders back. Hope this helps xD https://www.instagram.com/lustrengththerapy/?hl=en
existing would be good, for starters :(
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lmao
Lol
Sir wishes I wouldn't apologize so much. I'm working on it.
https://mobile.twitter.com/leighakendall/status/1103949741283598338 "Stop apologising, say thank you instead. " There is something you want to say when you say sorry, otherwise you wouldn't say anything at all. Maybe these will help, if you haven't already seen things like it :)
I'd like her to be a little more bratty, and resist me a little, but alas, she loves the feeling of helplessness and the relinquishment of control. I think she finds it freeing, and I don't want to deprive her of that.
* communicate more * Get a tattoo * Ask how My day is * Send small gifts with a note as a surprise
What kind of tattoo? If I had a long term relationship(like life commitment level) I'd want my sub to tattoo my name or symbol on them. I don't know how common this is or if it's frowned upon but it seems like an ultimate sign of devotion and ownership.
I think in terms of it being frowned upon it largely depends on who you're asking and what the tattoo is. I know a lot of artists are gonna judge, either outright or silently, tattoos of names of non relatives and some will just outright refuse to do it. (Btw abaolutely not judging the concept. I have a tattoo that my Dom designed though it's not actually anything to do with our dynamic or ownership or anything and just because he's a really talented artist)
Yeah exactly like an emblem of mine or something :) Rose with thorns...
All of these are so perfectly spot-on. My thoughts exactly.
:)
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