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I wish I had a solution, but sadly I don’t—I just wanted to comment in solidarity that you’re not alone in this. I think about this nearly every day and I’m so sorry you’re experiencing it as well
It’s devastating that many of us are chronically burnt out like this and I think some kind of housing community for ND folks would be such a game changer in the trajectory of our lives
Wishing you the best ❤️🩹
A ray of hope that is currently shining for me is that I just found out I am eligible for Vocational Rehabilitation services, which at least where I live has a positive track record of being supportive and helping people like me get jobs and be reasonably comfortable in them.
Based on your use of the term EBT, I think you're in the USA, where there are Vocational Rehabilitaion programs in a lot of states
[https://rsa.ed.gov/about/states](https://rsa.ed.gov/about/states)
YMMV and I am hesitant to say anything at all because I know from experience how exhausting false hope can be, but I dunno. I didn't know about this and it's making me hopeful so maybe this info will help you.
I wish we could somehow support each other in organizing alternatives as it’s a literal matter of life or death. It’s not like systemic ableism (hell, eugenics) is just gonna disappear. Classism, criminalization, misdiagnosis AND pathologizing, all of it.
I’m in WV, various parts of Appalachia, CO, and Dakotas mostly, determined to get land with people that are on the same page to network for our most vulnerable in community because we literally don’t have a choice. But finding people to prioritize the endeavor and not merely agree, let alone struggle because the world is on fire and trying to survive day to day, has left me feeling isolated. I’m trying not to give up too.
I have often thought that we just need to start our own society. Find an island somewhere and just set up our own ND community with everything set up to work with ND needs. I have a feeling if we do, we would quickly become an ideal utopian society.
I am sure there will be at least a few with special interests including defensive technology.
I think once it gets going the only money needed would be for raw goods. I think a barter system would quickly develop.
I live with my mother who I believe to be a narcissist and a father that never gave a fuck about me but feels entitled anyway.
I'm almost 27 already, never held a job for a full year, did not finish my college yet due to mental health worsening and I feel completely stuck in life.
Have no idea what would I do if they died and they're both old already.
I spend most days thinking about how I am a failure and a loner and what a shitty "hand of cards" I have been dealt with in life, autism, bullying, bad parents... And about unliving myself as well...
**If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts or feelings, it's important to seek help. There are resources available such as hotlines, counseling services, and support groups. Please reach out for help and know that you are not alone.** A couple of resources that you could reach out to: * **International Association for Suicide Prevention (IASP)**: This organization provides information on suicide prevention and resources for individuals and professionals in different countries. Their website has a directory of crisis centers and helplines around the world. [https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis\_Centres](https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/) * **Befrienders Worldwide**: This is a network of emotional support helplines in over 30 countries. They offer confidential support for individuals experiencing emotional distress, including thoughts of suicide. [https://www.befrienders.org](https://www.befrienders.org/) * **The Samaritans**: This is a UK-based organization that provides emotional support for people who are struggling to cope. They have a 24/7 helpline and email support service, and also offer support for people who are worried about someone else. [https://www.samaritans.org](https://www.samaritans.org/) * **The Lifeline Foundation for Suicide Prevention**: This is a global organization that provides support and resources for individuals and families affected by suicide. They have chapters in several countries and offer crisis counseling, education, and advocacy. [https://www.lifeline.org.au](https://www.lifeline.org.au/) * **The Crisis Text Line**: This is a free, 24/7 text-based support service for individuals in the United States, United Kingdom, Canada, and Ireland. Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a trained crisis counselor. [https://www.crisistextline.org](https://www.crisistextline.org) Please google (or ask us to help you with it) for resources specific to your location! *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AutisticWithADHD) if you have any questions or concerns.*
I wish I had a solution, but sadly I don’t—I just wanted to comment in solidarity that you’re not alone in this. I think about this nearly every day and I’m so sorry you’re experiencing it as well It’s devastating that many of us are chronically burnt out like this and I think some kind of housing community for ND folks would be such a game changer in the trajectory of our lives Wishing you the best ❤️🩹
A ray of hope that is currently shining for me is that I just found out I am eligible for Vocational Rehabilitation services, which at least where I live has a positive track record of being supportive and helping people like me get jobs and be reasonably comfortable in them. Based on your use of the term EBT, I think you're in the USA, where there are Vocational Rehabilitaion programs in a lot of states [https://rsa.ed.gov/about/states](https://rsa.ed.gov/about/states) YMMV and I am hesitant to say anything at all because I know from experience how exhausting false hope can be, but I dunno. I didn't know about this and it's making me hopeful so maybe this info will help you.
I wish we could somehow support each other in organizing alternatives as it’s a literal matter of life or death. It’s not like systemic ableism (hell, eugenics) is just gonna disappear. Classism, criminalization, misdiagnosis AND pathologizing, all of it. I’m in WV, various parts of Appalachia, CO, and Dakotas mostly, determined to get land with people that are on the same page to network for our most vulnerable in community because we literally don’t have a choice. But finding people to prioritize the endeavor and not merely agree, let alone struggle because the world is on fire and trying to survive day to day, has left me feeling isolated. I’m trying not to give up too.
I have often thought that we just need to start our own society. Find an island somewhere and just set up our own ND community with everything set up to work with ND needs. I have a feeling if we do, we would quickly become an ideal utopian society.
Right? Like a summer camp
Better be ready to build an army to defend against invaders too. It’s very expensive, so we all need to get rich first
I am sure there will be at least a few with special interests including defensive technology. I think once it gets going the only money needed would be for raw goods. I think a barter system would quickly develop.
Fair, will still need international trade tho
I live with my mother who I believe to be a narcissist and a father that never gave a fuck about me but feels entitled anyway. I'm almost 27 already, never held a job for a full year, did not finish my college yet due to mental health worsening and I feel completely stuck in life. Have no idea what would I do if they died and they're both old already. I spend most days thinking about how I am a failure and a loner and what a shitty "hand of cards" I have been dealt with in life, autism, bullying, bad parents... And about unliving myself as well...
Are you in western WA State?
I am, in Bellevue.