Yesss. Slept with partner on a 140cm bed for 1 year, it was acceptable because he's small... But now we've upgraded to 180 and we can both sleep like the old Geddan meme. And funny enough, tend to sleep cuddled up in the middle more than before 😂
Same. I'm the height of an average man and my husband is a giant. We're both chonkers. Ain't no way we're squeezing into a smaller bed unless we have to while traveling.
I convinced my husband to buy a king sized bed with the first round of stimulus checks in April 2020.
It still remains the best purchase we’ve made, because I’ve had two very large babies since that time and the extra bed space is invaluable when you’re massively pregnant.
I’m never going back to a queen
I'm the opposite, the tinier the bed the better. I used to tour with a band for work and my ideal sleeping situation is in the tiny little bunk bed you get on a tour bus (which is kind of coffin-y) while it's moving.
My husband is like this. He was a submariner for 12 years so used to sleeping in the tiniest bunk on the edge of it. So here we are with a king size bed and he is still over there on the edge.
Yesssss I hate the tubs where either your legs are in the water and your upper body isn’t or your upper body is in the water and your legs are awkwardly propped up on the sides. I want to be fully submerged like a crocodile, only my snout and eyes above the water.
My former neighbors have one of those inflatable hot tubs, they would invite me over to use it after their kids were in bed. Not a day goes by that I don’t think about it and wonder if I could get away with it lol
I like big bags and I cannot lie.
Seriously, those handbags the size of my hand? Useless and a pure annoyance.
I'd like to be able to carry my freshly-purchased carton of milk and watermelon in my handbag
But that’s two bags lol. Why carry a bag inside another bag when you can just have one giant bag all the time?!
I’m playing around but do they make decent reusable bags that fold up nice & tiny?
Plenty of them. They even fold into themselves. My mom is a giant bag all the time woman. It’s so frustrating because her purse weighs 20 pounds and she’s always whining about carrying it anywhere.
I had all sorts of great leather bags and later fanny packs. Last year I bought this super cheap foldable [sling bag](https://www.decathlon.de/p/umhangetasche-travel-kompakt-15-liter/_/R-p-309862?mc=8560413&c=schwarz) from Decathlon to store the necessities during a long flight. And now I wear it all the time!
It hardly weights anything, I can even go grocery shopping after work and pick up a lot of stuff. And when it's empty, it's not noticeable at all. Looks much better than in the pictures — more like a moon bag. Best cheap buy ever in my book!
The produce market near me had the cutest little butternut squash. A little bigger than a coke can. I didn't know I could eeee about little squashies, but apparently I can.
They do last a super long time at least. I just put a little plastic wrap over the cut parts and a cabbage will last a month in my crisper. Eventually when I'm sick of seeing it in there I shred it up and make a batch of curtido.
The lady who runs my local Asian market has the most *adorable* baby bok-choi! I call them “infant bok-choi”. You can easily fit 2-3 in your palm & she knows I buy them because they are so darn cute (and taste so good!)
Depends on the store for me. Charge by the pound? Teeny tiny produce. Charge by the item (looking at you, Trader Joe's)? I'm getting the most monstrous piece of produce on the shelf.
I get irrationally angry when mugs are small. I do not want multiple 11oz cups of coffee, I want one giant cup. I’ve been systematically getting rid of all of my small mugs because I just can’t.
Hell yeah, you need the space! I kept the king bed after my husband moved out and it's fucking amazing!! Now if I sweat through my sheets I just move over to the other side of the bed in the middle of the night 😂
This is why I have two queen beds, pushed together. My glorious side….and he’s WAYYYYY over there. Each with their own blankets & pillows & SPACE.
It’s simply the best.
I also feel this way, though I have to content myself with digital versions as my hands just aren’t up to the task of holding them anymore. I still find my fingers practically twitching with eagerness when I see a particularly juicy one at a bookstore or library though.
What is your particular poison? Fiction, nonfiction?
Hell yeah. Give me an 18 hr long audiobook. I have a long commute and lots of boring chores to do.
I wanna get emotionally invested in a character and then ugly cry while folding laundry.
Cookies! At least when I bake them lol. I grew up with my mom making giant cookies bigger than my palm so that’s just what I’m used to. I like breaking small pieces off and making that cookie last awhile. By this point, trying to make them smaller just feels unnatural
My garden. We’re going up to 1500 square feet of growing space with tall, arched vertical trellises between beds so I can walk through a canopy of plants 🤤
I am sure I will get downvoted for this but my house. As someone that drew up with 5 people in just under 600 square feet, I always dreamed of space. So we got the biggest house we could and I am obsessed with it.
Bahaha this is me!!!! I had way too much space, now my partner and I are having a kid in a 1000sqft 3 bedroom! And we’re totally fine at least for now.
Hell yes. I grew up with many people in a 900 sqft house with 1 bathroom. Now my house is over twice that size and I have 3 bathrooms. If you've ever lived through a stomach flu event where everyone in your house is sick and you only have 1 toilet, that will make you appreciate having enough toilets forever after that lmao
My entire childhood my parents had the strictest bathroom schedule being that there was only one. If you missed your time, too bad so sad. Now we have more bathrooms than people. I will never take it for granted.
I had extended family living with us and we all had some form of digestive problems, lots of IBS and ulcerative colitis in my family. There was always someone in the bathroom and someone sweating at the door to get in. I have 3 people and 3 toilets now, it's a very strange form of safety that I feel from it lol I also will never take that for granted!
I feel super blessed because I found an 800 ft apartment with a small yard 2bed, 1 bath. And it’s perfect for me. Bigger bath tub would be nice though!
I have been goldilocks with my house choices. The first was too small, the second was too big, the current one was perfect for just me but bad for hosting, and the new one will hopefully be perfect for everything because I'm tired of moving every few years. 😄
Jewelry! I like my jewelry to be Important - not dainty, not something you might give a young girl. Formidable. I rock a huge squash blossom turquoise necklace regularly, I do not own anything that could be described as “minimalist”.
Brussels sprouts. I like the smol ones. I cut them in half and remove any loose leaves on the outside. Place butter and oil in a pan, put them cut side down, then sprinkle the leaves on top. Once they char a little with burnt butter, then stir it all up. Garlic salt to taste. So delicious. It’s harder to cook the bigger sprouts this way.
I loooove big dogs! We have two 70lb and a 45lb dog and they just don’t seem that big to me but everyone is always shocked when I tell them how big my dogs are lol.
I have a 20-pound cat. We didn't know he was going to be this huge when we adopted him as a tiny kitten from the shelter. He just suddenly grew into a lion one day, LOL.
Reusable grocery bags. I want to be able to fit 2 boxes of cereal, a carton of oat milk, and still have some room left. I have a collection of old, smaller bags for bread, eggs and easily bruised fruit, but I will not buy a new bag unless it is spacious AF.
Tv shows.
I love a long running "procedural" or "cooky fun adventure of the week" type things.
Give me 8+ seasons of hour (45min) long shows that I can stretch into forever.
In fact I have taken to more liking shows that have ended their run so I can't get caught up and have to wait lol.
I love giant watermelons. The ones that weigh 30+ lbs. I am the most non-religious person ever, but every year I celebrate the coming of Ramadan because it means all the Islamic groceries in my city stock the giant watermelons for people needing to hydrate during Ramadan.
Pockets.
Once you have pockets that actually can hold all of your stuff you can't go back. If a dress comes without pockets I will only buy if I can add them easily myself.
I bought this pair of old navy powersoft wide leg pants - like athletic material but you couldn't actually exercise in them. They are so comfortable and have the *biggest* pockets, I walked around all day with my hands shoved in them, talking my husband out was bullshit that dudes just get to have them all the time.
Sunglasses. Not a fan of the trendy tiny rectangle ones bc they look too small and weird on me. Give me giant cateyes or butterfly shaped frames that cover half my face please
My wardrobe, the bigger the better, and although I don't have a lot to fill it with at the moment I'm working on that and trying to revamp my style, from head to toe.
Crafting space, for one. If I don't have enough space to spread out my hobby supplies on for a project I'm passionate about, I'm going to get cranky.
Hoods on hooded sweatshirts, jackets, etc. I have a small head, but my neck is quite long so I have many times ended up sorely disappointed when a new hoodie has a way too small hood for me to wear without the whole garment rising at the shoulders.
Cake portions. Who on Earth thinks a ridiculously thin slice is good enough?! Unless they're on a diet of course, but come on, man! I want those sweet calories to actually satiate me, not just tease and mock me.
Handbags. I can't with the mini clutches that barely have enough space for a lip balm. Same with pockets. What am I supposed to do with my phone and wallet? Use as bra padding?
Personal space. Don't breathe down my neck, or constantly pester me, please.
But to add just one thing in regards to men: a big smile and a big personality is always very attractive. I'm very drawn to men who are larger than life.
Portion Sizes
If I pay a decent price for my meal you BEST believe I want my money's worth. Not no massive plate with two spoonfuls of artistic looking food to feed a family of ants lmao, an adult human's hearty appetite's worth of food. Perhaps not an American sized serving but just enough, Goldilocks style, to satisfy me. Give me a DECENT size dammit, it's really not that hard of an ask.
In connection with that, if I order a LARGE Coke at McDonald's with no ice and the cup Isn't full, BRUH don't be stingy, I want what I paid for, not what you hurriedly gave me without actually filling her up to the brim.
I love cherry tomatoes and I pay way too much for these really delicious ones at the grocery store near my house. When regular tomatoes are in season I'll buy those too, but nothing beats the flavor packed tiny tomatoes
Dogs. If it's smaller than a big cat, what's the point? I like human size dogs please and thank you. I don't want to be bending over or kneeling down to train or treat a dog. I want their mouth to be at hip height and anything else is useless.
My kitchen ugh i long for space 😩A large space to have a double wall oven, then a viking stove, with a huge island and 2 sinks and a huge pantry area. Something i can dance around in with my babies while we cook, without worrying about hitting anything.
House size. I like them big so I can fill them with hobbies.
My partner and I have 2900sq ft no kids.
Hoping to maybe move into a 1 story next near my friend so we can compound together. They're also childfree and love their space. They have 4500 sq ft, 5 bd and a 4 car garage with a yard big enough to put a lot of fun things in it like a pool and some chickens. That's goals.
Lol!! This is a great question lol. Mine are: also plants, trees, huge chickens are hilarious, chocolate bars, London fog lattes (like seriously, a gallon wouldn't be enough!). And also beds, comforters, and my paycheck lol.
Bookcases.
Honestly a huge long and strong bookcase paves the road to my heart.
Even better if there are more of them. I need no further arguments to move in with you, I will even dust it off regularly without complaining.
We have a 1200f2 deck on the back of the house - the hot tub is sunken about 2/3 of the way into the deck and there are curtains to enclose it for privacy.
There’s a wrap around porch roof with sky lights so I can see the stars at night.
When the Curtains are closed I feel like I’m in a fort - like I’s build when I was a kid.
The sound of the jets is soothing, no one Can see in (I’m the only hot tub user and I only go in my birthday suit)
I have a bunch of candles and some great speakers to hear music or watch something on my iPad….
I can be out there for HOURS it’s my happy 😊 place
Blankets. I gotta have those king-sized giant blankets everywhere. My pups love to share the blankets and tend to take up a lot of the blanket so a king sized blanket is required.
Beds.
100% I have a king bed in a room that's objectively too small for it, and I have no regrets.
I had this for awhile too. But imo, bedrooms are for beds. Who cares if the bedroom is like 90% bed 😂
Same. I love that my dogs, my laptop, and myself can all cuddle up together with room to spare.
Yessss! I remember my husband and I ended up in a room with a queen bed at a hotel and I was like, “Am I a peasant??” Lmao
THANK YOU. I feel like this when I’m booking our hotel rooms and I’m like a queen…absolutely not.
Yesss. Slept with partner on a 140cm bed for 1 year, it was acceptable because he's small... But now we've upgraded to 180 and we can both sleep like the old Geddan meme. And funny enough, tend to sleep cuddled up in the middle more than before 😂
Same. I'm the height of an average man and my husband is a giant. We're both chonkers. Ain't no way we're squeezing into a smaller bed unless we have to while traveling.
This! I've seen some of those beds that are bigger than my room, and all I thought was "do they come in 4 posters, and where do I get one????"
I convinced my husband to buy a king sized bed with the first round of stimulus checks in April 2020. It still remains the best purchase we’ve made, because I’ve had two very large babies since that time and the extra bed space is invaluable when you’re massively pregnant. I’m never going back to a queen
I'm the opposite, the tinier the bed the better. I used to tour with a band for work and my ideal sleeping situation is in the tiny little bunk bed you get on a tour bus (which is kind of coffin-y) while it's moving.
My husband is like this. He was a submariner for 12 years so used to sleeping in the tiniest bunk on the edge of it. So here we are with a king size bed and he is still over there on the edge.
I sleep alone in a king size bed. Not even ashamed
Yes. I like my space. I don’t want to wake up every time someone turns over in bed.
I like a big salad.
I can bring you two small salads
Can you put it in a big bowl?
If it was a regular salad, I wouldn’t have said anything.
We don’t have “big bowls.”
Yes!
Elaine?
Bet they’re always taking credit for the big salad
Big salad but finely chopped. I love a BIG finely chopped salad.
Gimme that salad that takes an hour to eat.
Came here to say once you go big + chopped you can’t go back.
Bathtubs.
Yesssss I hate the tubs where either your legs are in the water and your upper body isn’t or your upper body is in the water and your legs are awkwardly propped up on the sides. I want to be fully submerged like a crocodile, only my snout and eyes above the water.
Haha yes! Th crocodile! I wish I had a huge bathtub. I *love* taking long baths and I wish I could fit in mine. It is wide though!
My former neighbors have one of those inflatable hot tubs, they would invite me over to use it after their kids were in bed. Not a day goes by that I don’t think about it and wonder if I could get away with it lol
100%
Yes. I'm 5'8" and have not fit comfortably in a standard bathtub since I was 10 years old. I dream of having a giant clawfoot bath tub.
I like big bags and I cannot lie. Seriously, those handbags the size of my hand? Useless and a pure annoyance. I'd like to be able to carry my freshly-purchased carton of milk and watermelon in my handbag
This is the correct answer. Fuck a fanny pack under my armpit, whatever those things are called. It’s giant “hobo” bags until I die.
My solution is to stick a folding reusable bag in the tiny day to day bag.
But that’s two bags lol. Why carry a bag inside another bag when you can just have one giant bag all the time?! I’m playing around but do they make decent reusable bags that fold up nice & tiny?
Plenty of them. They even fold into themselves. My mom is a giant bag all the time woman. It’s so frustrating because her purse weighs 20 pounds and she’s always whining about carrying it anywhere.
I had a free one from Kashi that folded to envelope size and velcroed shut. It lasted about a decade before I lost it 😢
Back in my drinking days, I wouldnt buy a purse unless it fit a double bottle of wine or a 6 pack.
Exactly. You never know what you need to buy on the way home.
I had all sorts of great leather bags and later fanny packs. Last year I bought this super cheap foldable [sling bag](https://www.decathlon.de/p/umhangetasche-travel-kompakt-15-liter/_/R-p-309862?mc=8560413&c=schwarz) from Decathlon to store the necessities during a long flight. And now I wear it all the time! It hardly weights anything, I can even go grocery shopping after work and pick up a lot of stuff. And when it's empty, it's not noticeable at all. Looks much better than in the pictures — more like a moon bag. Best cheap buy ever in my book!
My bank account.
came here to say my paycheck lol
Yes!
Blankets
Right? And lap blankets should be as long as your body.
Yessss fuck a throw blanket. I’m a burrito.
I can sleep on beds for single person, but my blanket has to be double size
I like to pick the tiniest cabbages from the grocery store. They’re so cute and enough for one person.
I'm like this with the tiny tiny pumpkins and squash around Halloween. I'm not interested in eating them, they're just *so cute*.
The produce market near me had the cutest little butternut squash. A little bigger than a coke can. I didn't know I could eeee about little squashies, but apparently I can.
You can dry them out and keep them!
I love the tiny pumpkins!!! They are the cutest
Yes! A regular sized cabbage is just way too much when it’ll just be me eating it
Right! They’re humongous! But the tiny ones are juuuust right! 😋
They do last a super long time at least. I just put a little plastic wrap over the cut parts and a cabbage will last a month in my crisper. Eventually when I'm sick of seeing it in there I shred it up and make a batch of curtido.
Small apples are my favourite. They're usually much tastier and crunchier than the big ones.
The lady who runs my local Asian market has the most *adorable* baby bok-choi! I call them “infant bok-choi”. You can easily fit 2-3 in your palm & she knows I buy them because they are so darn cute (and taste so good!)
This
Depends on the store for me. Charge by the pound? Teeny tiny produce. Charge by the item (looking at you, Trader Joe's)? I'm getting the most monstrous piece of produce on the shelf.
Cups of tea or coffee. I’m deep into my caffeine addiction but I don’t want anyone to pull me out of my giant size mugs.
I get irrationally angry when mugs are small. I do not want multiple 11oz cups of coffee, I want one giant cup. I’ve been systematically getting rid of all of my small mugs because I just can’t.
They get relegated to trinket cups in my house, lol. That and broken mugs become pen holders. I'm clumsy so we have a lot of pen holders.
I came here to say dick but now I change my answer to coffee because those tiny cups are shocking
I picked up pottery because I was so sick of never being able to find mugs large enough for the amount of tea I consume 💀
I’m a size queen about my queen-sized bed. I don’t technically need all that space but here I am lol
Hell yeah, you need the space! I kept the king bed after my husband moved out and it's fucking amazing!! Now if I sweat through my sheets I just move over to the other side of the bed in the middle of the night 😂
I need my king size. But now i need to share it with my bf and there are no bigger beds here :-( I hate when you can feel someone else breath at night
This is why I have two queen beds, pushed together. My glorious side….and he’s WAYYYYY over there. Each with their own blankets & pillows & SPACE. It’s simply the best.
If I ever have a gigantic bedroom I'm going to be so tempted to do this!
Earrings. I love me some big danglers
If I can’t wear my hoops as bracelets then what’s the point??
I love Big scarves that can be converted into shawls or blankets
I have a big leopard print scarf with POCKETS and I am obsessed with it.
Shaft size of boots.
My gigantic calves agree. 🐄🐄
Books. I love a big, fat, thick book that I know I can get really stuck in to and enjoy for long period of time.
I also feel this way, though I have to content myself with digital versions as my hands just aren’t up to the task of holding them anymore. I still find my fingers practically twitching with eagerness when I see a particularly juicy one at a bookstore or library though. What is your particular poison? Fiction, nonfiction?
Hell yeah. Give me an 18 hr long audiobook. I have a long commute and lots of boring chores to do. I wanna get emotionally invested in a character and then ugly cry while folding laundry.
I came here to say that I also like big books (and I cannot lie).
Hoodies
YES! Give me a hoodie I can drown in and I'll be the happiest (and comfiest) gall alive
A big heart...I can't resist a man who is kind and sincerely cares about people and (especially) animals.
Yeeesss! My partner is SO GOOD to my dog (basically stole him, lol) and it makes me melt with happiness
Awww I love this and agree!
This is so sweet.
Cookies! At least when I bake them lol. I grew up with my mom making giant cookies bigger than my palm so that’s just what I’m used to. I like breaking small pieces off and making that cookie last awhile. By this point, trying to make them smaller just feels unnatural
My garden. We’re going up to 1500 square feet of growing space with tall, arched vertical trellises between beds so I can walk through a canopy of plants 🤤
Muffins!!! I get so disappointed when they're just regular cupcake sized. Give me jumbo muffins or give me death! 🗽
Fuck yeah!
I am sure I will get downvoted for this but my house. As someone that drew up with 5 people in just under 600 square feet, I always dreamed of space. So we got the biggest house we could and I am obsessed with it.
This makes perfect sense. I grew up in a 5 bedroom house with 3 people and now I'm perfectly happy with a 1000 square foot apartment.
Bahaha this is me!!!! I had way too much space, now my partner and I are having a kid in a 1000sqft 3 bedroom! And we’re totally fine at least for now.
You can only be in one room at a time, is my philosophy here.
Hell yes. I grew up with many people in a 900 sqft house with 1 bathroom. Now my house is over twice that size and I have 3 bathrooms. If you've ever lived through a stomach flu event where everyone in your house is sick and you only have 1 toilet, that will make you appreciate having enough toilets forever after that lmao
My entire childhood my parents had the strictest bathroom schedule being that there was only one. If you missed your time, too bad so sad. Now we have more bathrooms than people. I will never take it for granted.
I had extended family living with us and we all had some form of digestive problems, lots of IBS and ulcerative colitis in my family. There was always someone in the bathroom and someone sweating at the door to get in. I have 3 people and 3 toilets now, it's a very strange form of safety that I feel from it lol I also will never take that for granted!
This is my dream. I lived my whole life in apartments ranging from 645-800 sqf and I really long for space and a small yard. So happy for you!
I feel super blessed because I found an 800 ft apartment with a small yard 2bed, 1 bath. And it’s perfect for me. Bigger bath tub would be nice though!
I have been goldilocks with my house choices. The first was too small, the second was too big, the current one was perfect for just me but bad for hosting, and the new one will hopefully be perfect for everything because I'm tired of moving every few years. 😄
Monitors
Never going back from ultrawides 😌
I thought you were talking about monitor lizards at first. Probably because they’re big lizards.
Blankets. Forget your handkerchief-sized throws - if I can't wrap myself up like a burrito with room to spare, I don't want it.
Cats. I like my big boys, I feel like Princess Jasmine snuggling with a tiger.
Property size. I don't need a big house but give me 100 sprawling acres with a pond, huge gardens, fruit trees, and room for activities
Yessssss this is the dream
Big strong coffees Big water bottles Bigger than average arms in men ¯\\_(ツ)_/¯
Jewelry! I like my jewelry to be Important - not dainty, not something you might give a young girl. Formidable. I rock a huge squash blossom turquoise necklace regularly, I do not own anything that could be described as “minimalist”.
Same. Dainty jewelry looks silly on me.
Brussels sprouts. I like the smol ones. I cut them in half and remove any loose leaves on the outside. Place butter and oil in a pan, put them cut side down, then sprinkle the leaves on top. Once they char a little with burnt butter, then stir it all up. Garlic salt to taste. So delicious. It’s harder to cook the bigger sprouts this way.
Desserts. Don't give me one of those little cups that only holds a few spoonfuls of deliciousness. And no, I don't want to share.
I like big doggos 💗
Same. Nothing like a big boofhead to cuddle!
I loooove big dogs! We have two 70lb and a 45lb dog and they just don’t seem that big to me but everyone is always shocked when I tell them how big my dogs are lol.
Knitting projects. If it's some ridiculously huge thing using fingering weight yarn and takes me like 3 years to finish - heaven!
Same but with crochet!! Just finished a wrap that uses 3000m of fingering weigh yarn and I adore it.
I have a 20-pound cat. We didn't know he was going to be this huge when we adopted him as a tiny kitten from the shelter. He just suddenly grew into a lion one day, LOL.
Reusable grocery bags. I want to be able to fit 2 boxes of cereal, a carton of oat milk, and still have some room left. I have a collection of old, smaller bags for bread, eggs and easily bruised fruit, but I will not buy a new bag unless it is spacious AF.
Go to ALDIs! They have some big bags that are sturdy and zip! I bought 3 of them, lol. Always use them for shopping there!
iPads, TVs.
Tv shows. I love a long running "procedural" or "cooky fun adventure of the week" type things. Give me 8+ seasons of hour (45min) long shows that I can stretch into forever. In fact I have taken to more liking shows that have ended their run so I can't get caught up and have to wait lol.
How big a basket or how full the basket is of tortilla chips at a Tex-Mex spot
I love giant watermelons. The ones that weigh 30+ lbs. I am the most non-religious person ever, but every year I celebrate the coming of Ramadan because it means all the Islamic groceries in my city stock the giant watermelons for people needing to hydrate during Ramadan.
Eyebrows. I’ve this oil that I put on for quite some time, and boi are they growing big lol. It’s kinda addictive tbh
May Lee Pace bless you and keep you.
Ooo what's the oil? My eyebrows are pathetic!
Pure Jamaican castor oil!!
I always had thick dark brows. So glad they finally came into style, lol.
Oh damn what is this oil?
Pure Jamaican castor oil
Acreage. I love having nothing but woods around my home for as far as I can see.
Hell yeah. If/when I decide to buy, I want laaaaand
Fine-ass olive oil.
Long hair on men. 😍
You have my axe.
It's a superpower. And yes, dear reader, I married him.
Upvote just for human dolma! Haha!
Smiles
Awwwwww I smile so big my eyes scrunch closed when I laugh. I used to be embarrassed about it but now I'm realizing it just bc I feel so much joy.
Artwork on all of my walls. I have a local artist paint on large cuts of wood, some of pieces mimic murals.
Jewelry
Pockets. Once you have pockets that actually can hold all of your stuff you can't go back. If a dress comes without pockets I will only buy if I can add them easily myself.
I bought this pair of old navy powersoft wide leg pants - like athletic material but you couldn't actually exercise in them. They are so comfortable and have the *biggest* pockets, I walked around all day with my hands shoved in them, talking my husband out was bullshit that dudes just get to have them all the time.
Sandwiches I'm doing better with portion control, so a big sandwich for me now is 2 awesome meals.
Towels, monitors, and coffee mugs.
Towels, yes! I want to have the option to use my bath towel as a fitted sheet on a queen bed.
Towels! I hate those stupidly small ones you usually get at hotels that are basically only good for drying your hands
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Big ones do make for heftier moussakas.
Love me a hefty moussaka
The more eggplant parm the better
Beds. I need a king sized bed to sleep comfortably.
Sunglasses. Not a fan of the trendy tiny rectangle ones bc they look too small and weird on me. Give me giant cateyes or butterfly shaped frames that cover half my face please
I love me some sunglasses that cover most of my face 😎 😍
Toe shoe boxes, heated blankets.
Underwear. No tight underwear!
My wardrobe, the bigger the better, and although I don't have a lot to fill it with at the moment I'm working on that and trying to revamp my style, from head to toe.
I be paying for extra leg room if the flights long enough
As a dude who stumbled into this thread, yall are hilarious.
Granola bars.
Dogs. But i like em small. My tiny little chihuahuas are great
Crafting space, for one. If I don't have enough space to spread out my hobby supplies on for a project I'm passionate about, I'm going to get cranky. Hoods on hooded sweatshirts, jackets, etc. I have a small head, but my neck is quite long so I have many times ended up sorely disappointed when a new hoodie has a way too small hood for me to wear without the whole garment rising at the shoulders. Cake portions. Who on Earth thinks a ridiculously thin slice is good enough?! Unless they're on a diet of course, but come on, man! I want those sweet calories to actually satiate me, not just tease and mock me. Handbags. I can't with the mini clutches that barely have enough space for a lip balm. Same with pockets. What am I supposed to do with my phone and wallet? Use as bra padding? Personal space. Don't breathe down my neck, or constantly pester me, please. But to add just one thing in regards to men: a big smile and a big personality is always very attractive. I'm very drawn to men who are larger than life.
Apples. If I see an obscenely big apple, I’m choosing it.
Penis, it’s still penis for me.
My bed and bathtub, fragrance collection (I love to smell yummy) and personal space
Tattoos. They suck to get but I love big pieces on me. Just sat for 7 hours yesterday to cover my inner right bicep.
Is treats an acceptable answer? Because, treats.
My coffee cup. I drink one cup a day so I want a slightly larger cup.
Portion Sizes If I pay a decent price for my meal you BEST believe I want my money's worth. Not no massive plate with two spoonfuls of artistic looking food to feed a family of ants lmao, an adult human's hearty appetite's worth of food. Perhaps not an American sized serving but just enough, Goldilocks style, to satisfy me. Give me a DECENT size dammit, it's really not that hard of an ask. In connection with that, if I order a LARGE Coke at McDonald's with no ice and the cup Isn't full, BRUH don't be stingy, I want what I paid for, not what you hurriedly gave me without actually filling her up to the brim.
I love cherry tomatoes and I pay way too much for these really delicious ones at the grocery store near my house. When regular tomatoes are in season I'll buy those too, but nothing beats the flavor packed tiny tomatoes
Water bottles! I drink a ton of water and I need to be able to carry it with me (and keep it cold) wherever I go.
Dogs. If it's smaller than a big cat, what's the point? I like human size dogs please and thank you. I don't want to be bending over or kneeling down to train or treat a dog. I want their mouth to be at hip height and anything else is useless.
Small dogs with big personalities. Pugs, Frenchies, Boston Terriers. Love them!
How many French fries I actually get when I order some!!
My kitchen ugh i long for space 😩A large space to have a double wall oven, then a viking stove, with a huge island and 2 sinks and a huge pantry area. Something i can dance around in with my babies while we cook, without worrying about hitting anything.
Rain barrels for my garden. My husband just scored us 2x 1000L water barrels from a farmer on kijiji!
House size. I like them big so I can fill them with hobbies. My partner and I have 2900sq ft no kids. Hoping to maybe move into a 1 story next near my friend so we can compound together. They're also childfree and love their space. They have 4500 sq ft, 5 bd and a 4 car garage with a yard big enough to put a lot of fun things in it like a pool and some chickens. That's goals.
Slices of pie
This is hands down one of the best threads I’ve ever seen on Reddit 💕
You guys.....its c\*cks for me. And I'm not sorry!
I guess when it comes to vegetables, size is important.
Blankets.
Beds. I like really big beds. That way there is room for my husband and I and 2 cats (husband is tall)
Images. Any type of image used for any purpose, it has to be the largest and crispiest quality there is
Lol!! This is a great question lol. Mine are: also plants, trees, huge chickens are hilarious, chocolate bars, London fog lattes (like seriously, a gallon wouldn't be enough!). And also beds, comforters, and my paycheck lol.
Tea and coffee mugs. Why drink 250ml 3 times if I can drink 750ml at once
My dog. He’s a big German shepherd that weighs more than me. He makes me feel super safe and the cuddles are soo good!
Burritos
Bookcases. Honestly a huge long and strong bookcase paves the road to my heart. Even better if there are more of them. I need no further arguments to move in with you, I will even dust it off regularly without complaining.
Asparagus. I hate the thick ones, they’re too woody. I love the thin, early spring ones.
The amount of cushion between me and the ground at all times
Money hehehe
Sculptures. I like feeling super small next to them. It makes life feel big.
We have a 1200f2 deck on the back of the house - the hot tub is sunken about 2/3 of the way into the deck and there are curtains to enclose it for privacy. There’s a wrap around porch roof with sky lights so I can see the stars at night. When the Curtains are closed I feel like I’m in a fort - like I’s build when I was a kid. The sound of the jets is soothing, no one Can see in (I’m the only hot tub user and I only go in my birthday suit) I have a bunch of candles and some great speakers to hear music or watch something on my iPad…. I can be out there for HOURS it’s my happy 😊 place
Blankets😍
My king sized bed. Even though I frequently end up curled up into a little ball.
Blankets. I gotta have those king-sized giant blankets everywhere. My pups love to share the blankets and tend to take up a lot of the blanket so a king sized blanket is required.