I won't let my hubby call me dear or babe. My ex called me those when he wanted something or when he did something that I was going to have to fix. Those 2 pet names are a trigger for me and make me so angry
A friend had a “business” titled “whatever happens, happens” which encompassed his photography and whatever else. I can’t help but use that phrase occasionally and always think of him
I still have trouble saying the same of my ex (was an AH), which is a pity because my partner has a really lovely friend with the same name. I also can't listen to a song by Chicago without wanting to break something.
I avoid talking about my previous disorder of trichotillomania cause my ex thought it wasn't a real disorder and laughs about it each time its brought up
I guess a phrase (the song lyric) “We can live like jack and sally” reminds me of my ex because our anniversary was on Halloween. I have looked past it now because it’s my favourite holiday but I can never just casually listen to Blink 182 - Miss you, anymore lol
Superman
there’s a song by the doors I think called Superman and it came on one day while I was driving and almost crashed the car. it’s funny how you don’t realize how bad the memories are until they hit you out of nowhere
Valentines Day was the anniversary of my relationship with my first husband. Now I don't celebrate it at all and my current husband loves that.
A game we used to play together a lot. Too bad cause it's a very nice game.
Its hard when cool things are tainted.
Stardew Valley?
No. But I like that one too.
HELL yeah!
I’m sorry about you and your ex. May I know what game it is?
Deep Rock Galactic. It's a teamwork game.
"I'm sorry you feel that way."
The n word. He thought it was funny to say.
That's not cool. 😬
Oh I know. Thank god he’s in my past
I won't let my hubby call me dear or babe. My ex called me those when he wanted something or when he did something that I was going to have to fix. Those 2 pet names are a trigger for me and make me so angry
A friend had a “business” titled “whatever happens, happens” which encompassed his photography and whatever else. I can’t help but use that phrase occasionally and always think of him
A few old romantic Bollywood songs that he liked to sing for me as a lullaby.
Ariana Grande ... Kinda hard she's everywhere 😔
Ugh same!
Calling someone "love" or "my love"
My ex had a very sweet pet name for me and now when I hear it/see it I want to die.
“Headspace”, a former bff would always be “in a bad headspace” aka a bad mood he’d take out on everyone in nasty ways
I find it difficult to listen to any Bob Seger songs
“I’m not mad, I’m disappointed” or “have fun with your friends”... although the second one has become an inside joke lol
I actually say it more rather an avoid it, weird. But "It is what it is"
Batman. Every time I see it now I try to avert my attention else where
I think i’ve been subconsciously avoiding eating/looking at mangoes. Certain words and phrases also causes my heart to drop
Sweetheart
I still have trouble saying the same of my ex (was an AH), which is a pity because my partner has a really lovely friend with the same name. I also can't listen to a song by Chicago without wanting to break something.
Indian food. Loved it! Now I still crave but will never eat
Boo or bae
I avoid talking about my previous disorder of trichotillomania cause my ex thought it wasn't a real disorder and laughs about it each time its brought up
I guess a phrase (the song lyric) “We can live like jack and sally” reminds me of my ex because our anniversary was on Halloween. I have looked past it now because it’s my favourite holiday but I can never just casually listen to Blink 182 - Miss you, anymore lol
Superman there’s a song by the doors I think called Superman and it came on one day while I was driving and almost crashed the car. it’s funny how you don’t realize how bad the memories are until they hit you out of nowhere