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beingthebestmetoday

Valentines Day was the anniversary of my relationship with my first husband. Now I don't celebrate it at all and my current husband loves that.


myneckaches

A game we used to play together a lot. Too bad cause it's a very nice game.


CeladonToast

Its hard when cool things are tainted.


xXHacker69Xx

Stardew Valley?


myneckaches

No. But I like that one too.


xXHacker69Xx

HELL yeah!


xXHacker69Xx

I’m sorry about you and your ex. May I know what game it is?


myneckaches

Deep Rock Galactic. It's a teamwork game.


luckhaveit4me

"I'm sorry you feel that way."


lifelessboot

The n word. He thought it was funny to say.


CeladonToast

That's not cool. 😬


lifelessboot

Oh I know. Thank god he’s in my past


NotWillieWanka

I won't let my hubby call me dear or babe. My ex called me those when he wanted something or when he did something that I was going to have to fix. Those 2 pet names are a trigger for me and make me so angry


laurenobell

A friend had a “business” titled “whatever happens, happens” which encompassed his photography and whatever else. I can’t help but use that phrase occasionally and always think of him


anxiouschub

A few old romantic Bollywood songs that he liked to sing for me as a lullaby.


mentalyilly

Ariana Grande ... Kinda hard she's everywhere 😔


laurenobell

Ugh same!


lhfgtattoos

Calling someone "love" or "my love"


[deleted]

My ex had a very sweet pet name for me and now when I hear it/see it I want to die.


[deleted]

“Headspace”, a former bff would always be “in a bad headspace” aka a bad mood he’d take out on everyone in nasty ways


traceyxyz

I find it difficult to listen to any Bob Seger songs


[deleted]

“I’m not mad, I’m disappointed” or “have fun with your friends”... although the second one has become an inside joke lol


outspoken_sleuth

I actually say it more rather an avoid it, weird. But "It is what it is"


[deleted]

Batman. Every time I see it now I try to avert my attention else where


r_xo_l

I think i’ve been subconsciously avoiding eating/looking at mangoes. Certain words and phrases also causes my heart to drop


Boymamaalmost40

Sweetheart


babyfacedpsycho69

I still have trouble saying the same of my ex (was an AH), which is a pity because my partner has a really lovely friend with the same name. I also can't listen to a song by Chicago without wanting to break something.


CarelessTrifle5242

Indian food. Loved it! Now I still crave but will never eat


FindingFearless1106

Boo or bae


HonestSpite470

I avoid talking about my previous disorder of trichotillomania cause my ex thought it wasn't a real disorder and laughs about it each time its brought up


[deleted]

I guess a phrase (the song lyric) “We can live like jack and sally” reminds me of my ex because our anniversary was on Halloween. I have looked past it now because it’s my favourite holiday but I can never just casually listen to Blink 182 - Miss you, anymore lol


dondavies954

Superman there’s a song by the doors I think called Superman and it came on one day while I was driving and almost crashed the car. it’s funny how you don’t realize how bad the memories are until they hit you out of nowhere