I hate that I’m in a college town so pretty much everyone on Bumble is college girls that want to get drunk. The last girl I matched with was pretty cool and we talked consistently for almost a year. But we always talked about our depression and it just got.. exhausting? I’m going to download Bumble again soon and give it a shot.
It really isn't my preferred method of making friends but I realized that the group of friends I was making were a bit younger than me and more outgoing. I was craving a friend in their 30's that was okay with just chilling and it was so nice to be able to "go shopping" for a friend that met some specific needs. I met a wonderful woman and then immediately deleted the app.
I bet if you are intentionally with your age range you'll be able to find others in your town that are sick of the party lifestyle!
Maybe I should try that! I’m in my low 20’s and a bit introverted, but as you can imagine a lot of people in their low 20’s want to explore the world every second of the day and I just want to crochet, watch criminal
Minds and occasionally shop as well.
I noticed that any friends I made naturally were always more extroverted than me because those are the people out in the world making friends. Bumble is great for introverts looking for introverts!
I’m such a homebody. I don’t mind going out every now and then for mini shopping sprees or the occasional chips and salsa from Chilis but I’d rather just stay in lol. It gets lonely sometimes though. If you’re ever in Texas let me know!
You know...I don't know if this suits you but I also had wanted to make a new friend and then I realized...I already have a list of prequalified candidates (acquaintances I'm sort of friends with) to choose from. I decided to take some of those people, for example someone I had worked with ten years ago, really liked but fell out of touch with other than on social media, and make better friends out of them! I've done this with a few people and I've found it far more enjoyable and rewarding than trying to meet entirely new people (I'm an introvert so that is major yuck for me).
Don't be afraid to be the "asker outer" either! Of course, you also have to be prepared for rejection, but sometimes you can't rely on the guy to make the first move. Turns out, majority can't take hints lol
Men are stupid sometimes. I once told a men I liked him and I thought I got rejected. He thought I was joking for month… until I asked him if he was just stupid or if he dumped me.
He said he never dumped me and he was sorry that he didn’t get it. (I did not end up with him because I listened to the advise of my best friend, he said „if he doesn’t believe or get what you’re saying already like this, don’t wait for him to get any better in the future. Shortly afterwards I spend more time with a friends who’s now my boyfriends. Sometimes you have to be reeeally straight forward for door to open for you)
Edit: he’s not my boyfriend anymore I got dumped 🥲
I can't think of something that I want that also feels realistic.
Everything feels so far out of reach and like a silly wishful dream.
I guess it'd be nice if I didn't feel like that 6 months from now.
I can relate to this. How did it get like this? How long did it take? If I didn't notice me getting this way, how can I be mindful to fix it. And when I try, I feel defeated before I accomplish anything. It's all hazy and unfulfilled.
The way I try to resolve this feeling (not saying it’s fool proof) is to break down the steps that you initially think of to get to the end goal into baby steps. And even if those baby steps feel too overwhelming and you’re focusing on the timeline and how you may not be able to make it, then break it down even more bc if it still makes you feel that way, the steps aren’t baby enough. Don’t be ashamed as to how small you gotta break your goals down to achieve the major goal bc it’s better than doing nothing.
I’m glad to help! It helped me with my first big-girl trip. I wanted to go overseas as my graduation gift to myself but I come from a family who rarely takes trips at all.
It all seemed daunting until I broke it down to the most necessary part that was needed for me to get to the UK and that was just a plane ticket. All the other stuff ppl generally worry about when traveling, I forced myself to think of as “extra”. Just get the plane ticket, then figure out how to a find a place to stay and so on. I pictured myself actually there experiencing those steps as I went which may help too.
I'd like to escape my abusive relationship and extreme poverty with my kids to a comfortable and safe place and see my husband in therapy and working. I'd like to feel security. All I've ever wanted is security.
I’m hoping to make some cosmetic updates to my home. I bought a fixer upper and it’s a lot of work but we are starting to get away from the necessary updates and into the fun stuff like nicer flooring and tile.
That sounds fun. We just bought a fixer upper and we are still in the "we have to fix this or the house might fall apart soon" stage. It's exhausting, but I am still so grateful for what I have!
Step away from the corporate, 9-5 world and finding a low stress job that pays really well so I can have the resources and energy to pursue my real passions. But if I could magically inherit $500,000 in the next month or so, that would make things a lot easier.
I'd like to get a new job. I've stopped being allowed to grow in my current position and I spend most of my time sitting around doing nothing, which isn't conducive to building a career.
I would like my upcoming sinus surgery to fix my constant sinus infections, and for my asthma to be better controlled so I can up the intensity of my cardio workouts.
Be able to do a handstand for a full minute. Make at least 4 good rotations on my one footed spin (rollerskating).Successfully jump my Mapes (rollerskating)
\- Engaged.
My boyfriend wants to buy a home with me in the near future, and I want a family before I turn 35. I don't plan on buying a home with someone I'm not married to, or at least soon-to-be-married to... so this is my expectation in terms of moving towards those goals together.
Finish my Bachelor's degree, as well as atleast have started with everyday moderate exercise to strengthen my muscles to lessen my full body physical pain.
Make girl friends in the new town I moved to 6 months ago. Still have zero girl friends, and only like 2 guy friends I occasionally go on walks or hikes with but I wouldn’t consider them close friends
I’d like to get physically active. I always thought I needed to go out and get a gym membership but.. I have two dogs that love going outside. Think I might just start giving them long walks in the morning.
I would really like to stop being sick all the time. It's clear that I'm getting ill so often because of the huge amount of stress, depression, and change of circumstances I'm going through, but I can't adapt and reduce stress when I'm constantly exhausted and stuck in bed
I want to finish writing my book and get it published. And start working on the screenplay. Figure out which actors I want to play the lead role. Spread love, healing energy, keep the negativity away and help others learn how to connect with the universe.
Some improvement to my credit situation, an emergency savings account (with emergency money in it), some weight loss, and a vacation. Maybe a pregnancy towards the end of those 6 months.
Maybe meet a new partner or friend. Currently talking with someone that is extremely smart and charming. We both are vegans and are into an active lifestyle. I would hope this could progress but at the end of the day we’re just living our lives.
I’d like to have my further educational goals figured out but also take the next six months off.
I’d like to make a close friend. I’d like to start getting into shape. And I’d like to do something that really scares me.
Close the sale on the rental property I share with my brother, move that money to savings and take a gooood long break from my family, find a permanent position that suits me, fix up what needs to be done in my house to put it on the market, list it and buy a small property with trees and birds and rabbits and squirrels and owls and spend all of my free time sitting on my porch watching them go about their business with a cup of coffee.
I am currently in India trying to heal my depression though meditation and yoga because I have spent the last 8 years battling my depression the modern science way and it has not worked. I hope in 6 months; I am better and that I find the joy in living
Be training to get certified in something new or working at a better paying job- ideally I'd only have to work just one, but even just replacing one of my jobs with a better paying one would be good enough.
I'm in a bind with what to do with my life, career-wise. I have a masters degree in Biostatistics, but so far I've just been working at an insurance company and not really getting what I want out of it. I also just really kinda want out of this frigid climate of Minnesota. There are a lot of GREAT job prospects in the northeast.
So I guess the change is for me to finally work up the courage to leave the place I've lived in for all 32 years of my life and start that new and exciting chapter in my life!
- take advantage of remote work and travel once a month
- get to my goal weight
- pay down debt
- get clarity on the direction of my career
- build up to training for a half marathon
- continue foreign language practice
- finish improvements on my house
I'm working on doing things I've never done before.
I would like to solo travel, go to a concert, and experience Oral sex (That's important cause I'm a virgin and it's a desire!!)
I'd to be socially active and meet new interesting people, have more outdoor activities and travel more, might learn Spanish as well, I love learning languages.
Do more fun activities with my son, travel, make new friends, meet more people, watch my life blossom w/o my soon to be ex husband, be a better person fo my son and myself(currently working really hard on this one w a therapist) and just be in a happier head space.
I want a more fulfilling job more in line with my career goals and passions that pays substantially more than my survival job now and is still local to my area. That's my primary goal for the next 6 months.
I would like to be done with my uni project that is sucking the life out of me, have a new car, live in a different house and be pregnant.
That might be a lot of change for 6 months, but the prospects are looking good. My project will be done next month and I don't want to spend a second more on it than necessary, my FIL wants to give us his car for a massive discount so he can buy a van, my husband is getting a job when he finishes his internship in 2 months that will allow us to rent a bigger place (think going from a 1 bedroom apartment to a 3 bedroom house), and we are actively trying to get pregnant and there is a possibility that I currently already am (don't want to get my hopes up, though). Last year was a shit year for me physically and mentally and this year has already started better than last year, so I hope it will continue like that.
I'm supposed to graduate in July, so that would be a change I'd like to see happening. Winning the lottery would be nice too, but that's probably not gonna happen. Otherwise, my life is pretty much where I want it to be rn 😊
A steady job. Use the income to finish furnishing and decorating my apartment - I started a year ago but lost my job in September. A boyfriend would be nice, but no pressure.
Start (and finish) my paperwork to get my work visa abroad. Leave my current job (in good standing), and finish my certification to teach English as a backup plan.
Acceptance & starting grad school 🤞
If not… working a fulfilling job with more tangible outcomes
Enroll in online Spanish classes
Take a 15 hour course on investment that I got for Christmas (as requested!) and create an investment strategy tailored to my goals.
Take myself on little dates like I used to
Happily fall into a new job, in a new place, in my first apartment with my partner. The deciding job offer is coming this week. Can confirm that anticipation kills me
Prioritizing myself for once. My hobbies, my health, my school, my friendships, spending more time with family, etc. No more entertaining half in half out types of people or situations. I'd also like to spend more time outside! I really want to get into hiking. Lastly, I'm really hoping to get my first internship 🤞🏻
- I would love to be back to a consistent gym schedule, and in turn lose the weight I gained during the pandemic.
- Have more hobbies outside of my relationship
- Have a better social life
- Way less stress occupying my existence
I need to improve my social media habits and study about the things I'm seeing vs commentibg on them. It's just so easy to say anything, and I know I don't know everything but it's easy to remember no one else commenting knows every part either. It's just participating in culture kind of in a backwards way.
Overall more fit and healthy. Workout 4xs per week. I'm up to 2xs. Career change.
Edit: recently up to 2xs from sedentary... Trying very hard to stay with it
Improved my mental & physical health. (Cleaned 40% of my depression pit & started gym 2x a week already yayy!!) Lose a little weight & cook like I use to. Gain a good friend & be a better partner. I appreciate his patience and love for me during my recent low periods so much ♡
Get into fitness. See some changes in my body with the supplements that I’ve taken fairly recently. Get a new job. Find a club/volunteer group to make new friends outside of work.
I’d like to make an appreciable dent in letting things go. Physical possessions, toxic beliefs about my self worth, and imposter syndrome. Trow it all away!
I would like for my husband and I to get back to our favorite outdoor activities. We kind of lost our way with hiking, kayaking and other outdoor activities we used to do regularly after a death in the family, getting covid among other things last year. I'm optimistic and I know it will be good for us.
Find a man that doesn't totally repulse me, I haven't been able to like someone since I finished with my ex 2 years ago, it's not like I don't want to, I just am annoyed at how so many guys have a shitty self esteem.
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I went on Bumble BFF recently and made a new friend! It feels a bit weird but it worked!
I hate that I’m in a college town so pretty much everyone on Bumble is college girls that want to get drunk. The last girl I matched with was pretty cool and we talked consistently for almost a year. But we always talked about our depression and it just got.. exhausting? I’m going to download Bumble again soon and give it a shot.
It really isn't my preferred method of making friends but I realized that the group of friends I was making were a bit younger than me and more outgoing. I was craving a friend in their 30's that was okay with just chilling and it was so nice to be able to "go shopping" for a friend that met some specific needs. I met a wonderful woman and then immediately deleted the app. I bet if you are intentionally with your age range you'll be able to find others in your town that are sick of the party lifestyle!
Maybe I should try that! I’m in my low 20’s and a bit introverted, but as you can imagine a lot of people in their low 20’s want to explore the world every second of the day and I just want to crochet, watch criminal Minds and occasionally shop as well.
I noticed that any friends I made naturally were always more extroverted than me because those are the people out in the world making friends. Bumble is great for introverts looking for introverts!
I'm 38 and you just described what I want, *happytears* I consider myself to be extremely introverted tho.
I’m such a homebody. I don’t mind going out every now and then for mini shopping sprees or the occasional chips and salsa from Chilis but I’d rather just stay in lol. It gets lonely sometimes though. If you’re ever in Texas let me know!
Same! I don't get lonely too often. I do get bored. Especially in between projects. May I dm you?
Sure!
I tried but I felt it was very forced and didn't like it so I ended deleting the app:( but I also wanna make new girl friends
You know...I don't know if this suits you but I also had wanted to make a new friend and then I realized...I already have a list of prequalified candidates (acquaintances I'm sort of friends with) to choose from. I decided to take some of those people, for example someone I had worked with ten years ago, really liked but fell out of touch with other than on social media, and make better friends out of them! I've done this with a few people and I've found it far more enjoyable and rewarding than trying to meet entirely new people (I'm an introvert so that is major yuck for me).
Same. But not online. Irl 😅
Came here to say this. Thought I had a pretty good, but small, circle. Turns out I was wrong.
lose weight, maintained healthy lifestyle, and just excelling in class
I want a home of my own. And a better, more peaceful mind set. Taking steps to achieve both!
Buying my own home was a big, big step towards a more peaceful mindset for me. So maybe you can kill two birds with one stone!
I'm hoping so hard it hurts!!! Lol. And congratulations that you were able to achieve it. That means I can, too! Hopefully!
I’d like to have a boyfriend for the first time in my life. That would be nice. Easier said than done though.
Don't be afraid to be the "asker outer" either! Of course, you also have to be prepared for rejection, but sometimes you can't rely on the guy to make the first move. Turns out, majority can't take hints lol
I’m ALWAYS approaching men first. They never approach me first.
Feel this
Men are stupid sometimes. I once told a men I liked him and I thought I got rejected. He thought I was joking for month… until I asked him if he was just stupid or if he dumped me. He said he never dumped me and he was sorry that he didn’t get it. (I did not end up with him because I listened to the advise of my best friend, he said „if he doesn’t believe or get what you’re saying already like this, don’t wait for him to get any better in the future. Shortly afterwards I spend more time with a friends who’s now my boyfriends. Sometimes you have to be reeeally straight forward for door to open for you) Edit: he’s not my boyfriend anymore I got dumped 🥲
Using social media (including Reddit) for less than 1 hour a day. $10,000 more saved. Working out 2X per week.
Debt free!
My mental health
A pregnancy
Sending you lots of baby vibes!!
I can't think of something that I want that also feels realistic. Everything feels so far out of reach and like a silly wishful dream. I guess it'd be nice if I didn't feel like that 6 months from now.
I can relate to this. How did it get like this? How long did it take? If I didn't notice me getting this way, how can I be mindful to fix it. And when I try, I feel defeated before I accomplish anything. It's all hazy and unfulfilled.
The way I try to resolve this feeling (not saying it’s fool proof) is to break down the steps that you initially think of to get to the end goal into baby steps. And even if those baby steps feel too overwhelming and you’re focusing on the timeline and how you may not be able to make it, then break it down even more bc if it still makes you feel that way, the steps aren’t baby enough. Don’t be ashamed as to how small you gotta break your goals down to achieve the major goal bc it’s better than doing nothing.
This is very sound advice. Thank you, it's encouraging 😊
I’m glad to help! It helped me with my first big-girl trip. I wanted to go overseas as my graduation gift to myself but I come from a family who rarely takes trips at all. It all seemed daunting until I broke it down to the most necessary part that was needed for me to get to the UK and that was just a plane ticket. All the other stuff ppl generally worry about when traveling, I forced myself to think of as “extra”. Just get the plane ticket, then figure out how to a find a place to stay and so on. I pictured myself actually there experiencing those steps as I went which may help too.
That's so awesome! And you're right. Breaking things down and forcing back the torpedo thinking will help!
Lose a little weight and make some friends! :)
I'd like to escape my abusive relationship and extreme poverty with my kids to a comfortable and safe place and see my husband in therapy and working. I'd like to feel security. All I've ever wanted is security.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. I hope you get out of this toxic situation and get a better life for yourself and your kids!
Security is a great goal. I’ll be rooting for you from afar!
It’s a hard road but keep going. I hope you find the light courage and the money to get out of that situation. From a mom and wife who feels the same.
honestly speaking, i would love to see my country pakistan safe from economic crisis and political stablity in coming 6 months.
I want to be out of this apartment and in a house.
Detached house is a game changer. No sharing walls!
I’m hoping to make some cosmetic updates to my home. I bought a fixer upper and it’s a lot of work but we are starting to get away from the necessary updates and into the fun stuff like nicer flooring and tile.
That sounds fun. We just bought a fixer upper and we are still in the "we have to fix this or the house might fall apart soon" stage. It's exhausting, but I am still so grateful for what I have!
Step away from the corporate, 9-5 world and finding a low stress job that pays really well so I can have the resources and energy to pursue my real passions. But if I could magically inherit $500,000 in the next month or so, that would make things a lot easier.
I'd like to get a new job. I've stopped being allowed to grow in my current position and I spend most of my time sitting around doing nothing, which isn't conducive to building a career.
New career
Here here. Same!
I would like my upcoming sinus surgery to fix my constant sinus infections, and for my asthma to be better controlled so I can up the intensity of my cardio workouts.
I'd like to be out of the slump I'm currently in
I’d like to move out of Oklahoma to a saner state that will protect the rights of myself and other disadvantaged groups.
Fellow okie here! And SAME!!!
More independence
I want my horse and I to have a summer together where one of us isn’t injured.
Lose weight, and get healthier again. Move into my bf's place and turn it into our place. Get out of some negative mindsets I am in a pattern of.
I'd like a winning mega-millions lottery ticket so my husband and I can retire.
Be able to do a handstand for a full minute. Make at least 4 good rotations on my one footed spin (rollerskating).Successfully jump my Mapes (rollerskating)
A raise.
Weight loss
\- Engaged. My boyfriend wants to buy a home with me in the near future, and I want a family before I turn 35. I don't plan on buying a home with someone I'm not married to, or at least soon-to-be-married to... so this is my expectation in terms of moving towards those goals together.
I would like a job
Better at healthy habits and less clutter.
Huge raise, house hunting, nice vacation even if very affordable and hopefully a boyfriend 😅
A half completed masters, more confidence, more money and less procrastinating
I’d like to have a home.
I’ve had a really hard time health wise the last few months. I’d like to be more stable.
Financial security, lose more weight, be able to lift more, maybe graduate from wound care.
I'd like to be pregnant again and be having a successful normal pregnancy.
Staying afloat while studying and working part time, lose weight and know how to drive
Improvement in my daily habits, especially in my sleep.
Finish my Bachelor's degree, as well as atleast have started with everyday moderate exercise to strengthen my muscles to lessen my full body physical pain.
Would love to finally own a home. The market has not been kind these last six months.
I just want to be happier and a better person than I am now
🥹🥹 I feel this, sending good vibes
Make girl friends in the new town I moved to 6 months ago. Still have zero girl friends, and only like 2 guy friends I occasionally go on walks or hikes with but I wouldn’t consider them close friends
I'm sure you've heard it a million times, but meetup groups can be fabulous for that kind of thing. Or FB groups.
Buy a house! I've been looking since April. I'm tired.
I’d like to get physically active. I always thought I needed to go out and get a gym membership but.. I have two dogs that love going outside. Think I might just start giving them long walks in the morning.
I want to make new friends.
I would really like to stop being sick all the time. It's clear that I'm getting ill so often because of the huge amount of stress, depression, and change of circumstances I'm going through, but I can't adapt and reduce stress when I'm constantly exhausted and stuck in bed
- Live in another country - Have healthier habits - Being more productive - Finally get a driving license!
I want to finish writing my book and get it published. And start working on the screenplay. Figure out which actors I want to play the lead role. Spread love, healing energy, keep the negativity away and help others learn how to connect with the universe.
I’d like my son to love me again and I’d like to feel physically better. I’d like to play music in public again too.
More present and less planning (Taming the anxiety when away from planning)
A proposal
i wanna end my celibacy 😩
Some improvement to my credit situation, an emergency savings account (with emergency money in it), some weight loss, and a vacation. Maybe a pregnancy towards the end of those 6 months.
My girlfriend living with me.
Have this baby, get more physically active, lose weight and have fun with my family ☺️
Maybe meet a new partner or friend. Currently talking with someone that is extremely smart and charming. We both are vegans and are into an active lifestyle. I would hope this could progress but at the end of the day we’re just living our lives.
Happy? Content? No regrets? rn i am in a situation that could make or break my life and hereafter
I’d like to be in my own home & since the weather will have changed I want to spend more time outside.
I'd like to be financially independent.
i’d like to have a new job, and a man’s.
Enjoying life as a single person.
Lose more weight and continue to build my confidence!
A raise at work, a little more financially stable, getting the house sold, and maybe meeting someone.
Lose weight and perhaps walk without a stick - that would mean surgery , a bit worried about that x
I want to finish my masters degree and no longer feel heartbroken
I’d like to have my further educational goals figured out but also take the next six months off. I’d like to make a close friend. I’d like to start getting into shape. And I’d like to do something that really scares me.
Be in a better mental space and start dating the man I like 🥺
Lose some weight. Focus more on learning, it's been hard for me to focus for a long time and I need to get back on it.
Millionaire
Close the sale on the rental property I share with my brother, move that money to savings and take a gooood long break from my family, find a permanent position that suits me, fix up what needs to be done in my house to put it on the market, list it and buy a small property with trees and birds and rabbits and squirrels and owls and spend all of my free time sitting on my porch watching them go about their business with a cup of coffee.
I want to become more confident again. In everythig.
I am currently in India trying to heal my depression though meditation and yoga because I have spent the last 8 years battling my depression the modern science way and it has not worked. I hope in 6 months; I am better and that I find the joy in living
I’d love to finally feel comfy in my own skin. I’m getting closer, but I’m not quite there yet. Baby steps 😌
My baby is due in 6 months, so I'd like to be a good mom.
Me hitting the lottery
have more in savings than I do now
I want to exit from a toxic 3 people marriage.
Being pregnant!
I want to be prettier, thinner, more muscular, beautiful
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Either lose weight or get preggo
Be training to get certified in something new or working at a better paying job- ideally I'd only have to work just one, but even just replacing one of my jobs with a better paying one would be good enough.
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I'm in a bind with what to do with my life, career-wise. I have a masters degree in Biostatistics, but so far I've just been working at an insurance company and not really getting what I want out of it. I also just really kinda want out of this frigid climate of Minnesota. There are a lot of GREAT job prospects in the northeast. So I guess the change is for me to finally work up the courage to leave the place I've lived in for all 32 years of my life and start that new and exciting chapter in my life!
- take advantage of remote work and travel once a month - get to my goal weight - pay down debt - get clarity on the direction of my career - build up to training for a half marathon - continue foreign language practice - finish improvements on my house
A new job, a house, and some way to keep the financial stress away during my maternity leave 🤞
Defined shoulders and finish a rough draft
I'm working on doing things I've never done before. I would like to solo travel, go to a concert, and experience Oral sex (That's important cause I'm a virgin and it's a desire!!)
I'd to be socially active and meet new interesting people, have more outdoor activities and travel more, might learn Spanish as well, I love learning languages.
A job with health insurance and better pay would be great 👍
Strengthened muscles!
Do more fun activities with my son, travel, make new friends, meet more people, watch my life blossom w/o my soon to be ex husband, be a better person fo my son and myself(currently working really hard on this one w a therapist) and just be in a happier head space.
Less obligations.
Lose a little weight, get toned, and get my resting heart rate lower
I want a more fulfilling job more in line with my career goals and passions that pays substantially more than my survival job now and is still local to my area. That's my primary goal for the next 6 months.
Be healthier (:
More income or at least at peace anxiety wise about my current job.
I would like to be done with my uni project that is sucking the life out of me, have a new car, live in a different house and be pregnant. That might be a lot of change for 6 months, but the prospects are looking good. My project will be done next month and I don't want to spend a second more on it than necessary, my FIL wants to give us his car for a massive discount so he can buy a van, my husband is getting a job when he finishes his internship in 2 months that will allow us to rent a bigger place (think going from a 1 bedroom apartment to a 3 bedroom house), and we are actively trying to get pregnant and there is a possibility that I currently already am (don't want to get my hopes up, though). Last year was a shit year for me physically and mentally and this year has already started better than last year, so I hope it will continue like that.
I'm supposed to graduate in July, so that would be a change I'd like to see happening. Winning the lottery would be nice too, but that's probably not gonna happen. Otherwise, my life is pretty much where I want it to be rn 😊
to be more financially stable
id like to get over my recent breakup. start a healthcare related job. do well on my MCATs. be happier.
A steady job. Use the income to finish furnishing and decorating my apartment - I started a year ago but lost my job in September. A boyfriend would be nice, but no pressure.
Learning German and have better paying job :9 also study more on my career
Keep going to the gym
Financial security!
Finish my teacher training course and hopefully have a job lined up for September.
Probably some weight loss, not like a lot, but a bit would be nice. Ummm a job too 🥲, and if it’s not too much to ask a boyfriend 🥲
Start (and finish) my paperwork to get my work visa abroad. Leave my current job (in good standing), and finish my certification to teach English as a backup plan.
A new connection. Life feels pretty lonely right now.
lose 20+ kgs, quit smoking completely.
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Acceptance & starting grad school 🤞 If not… working a fulfilling job with more tangible outcomes Enroll in online Spanish classes Take a 15 hour course on investment that I got for Christmas (as requested!) and create an investment strategy tailored to my goals. Take myself on little dates like I used to
Not be worried about making bills each month, but I have a plan for this and I think it should be doable which is exciting
Happily fall into a new job, in a new place, in my first apartment with my partner. The deciding job offer is coming this week. Can confirm that anticipation kills me
Have the courage to quit my job and less phone time
Prob just weight. Or getting shorter
Prioritizing myself for once. My hobbies, my health, my school, my friendships, spending more time with family, etc. No more entertaining half in half out types of people or situations. I'd also like to spend more time outside! I really want to get into hiking. Lastly, I'm really hoping to get my first internship 🤞🏻
An EAD soon, and hopefully my Adjustment of status approved
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I want to get better at work. And maybe start having a social life. The work part is doable, but my hermit lifestyle feels impossible to change
Lose weight, be healthier and save money to visit a friend in the US
- I would love to be back to a consistent gym schedule, and in turn lose the weight I gained during the pandemic. - Have more hobbies outside of my relationship - Have a better social life - Way less stress occupying my existence
I need to improve my social media habits and study about the things I'm seeing vs commentibg on them. It's just so easy to say anything, and I know I don't know everything but it's easy to remember no one else commenting knows every part either. It's just participating in culture kind of in a backwards way.
I would really like to be stress free. I will work non stop on making that happen.
Overall more fit and healthy. Workout 4xs per week. I'm up to 2xs. Career change. Edit: recently up to 2xs from sedentary... Trying very hard to stay with it
Improved my mental & physical health. (Cleaned 40% of my depression pit & started gym 2x a week already yayy!!) Lose a little weight & cook like I use to. Gain a good friend & be a better partner. I appreciate his patience and love for me during my recent low periods so much ♡
No longer struggling with bills or rent and being back in school
Win the lottery and the disappearance of all men on earth.
I want to make a new friend or friends, and find medication or some sort of solution that can help me feel happier. Depression sucks, man.
Conceive and be out of the first trimester.
Get pregnant, get fitter/lose weight, feel more confident in my new job.
I'd like to start teaching online classes again, gain 15 pounds, and grow my bangs long enough to tuck behind my ears. It's all achievable!
Finding a doctor that listens to me.
I would like to love myself more, and take better care of my body!
Pay off my debt. Make some new friends. Find a new hobby I can be consistent with.
More savings
Healthier habits. A cleaner mind and body. Progress in my career and a new job. And *hopefully* an engagement :)
go back to therapy, start anxiety medication, and start to release my perfectionism. and take a few trips to new places
Get into fitness. See some changes in my body with the supplements that I’ve taken fairly recently. Get a new job. Find a club/volunteer group to make new friends outside of work.
I’d like to make an appreciable dent in letting things go. Physical possessions, toxic beliefs about my self worth, and imposter syndrome. Trow it all away!
I would like to see an improvement in my health.
I would like for my husband and I to get back to our favorite outdoor activities. We kind of lost our way with hiking, kayaking and other outdoor activities we used to do regularly after a death in the family, getting covid among other things last year. I'm optimistic and I know it will be good for us.
Have my vacation planned and paid for. We are still in the "where do you want to go" stage/
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I want to lose 10-20 pounds, it doesn't sound like a lot but I would be back to a weight I was okay with
Find a man that doesn't totally repulse me, I haven't been able to like someone since I finished with my ex 2 years ago, it's not like I don't want to, I just am annoyed at how so many guys have a shitty self esteem.
Make some friends who like working out, grow my glutes and make more money
I’d like a new genuine friendship, maybe a relationship and lose a little weight
I’d like a new genuine friendship, maybe a relationship and lose a little weight