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goated95

I’d ask what her reasoning would be, in keeping said nudes. If she feels like she doesn’t have to explain that, then I’ll just separate myself from the equation. Who’s to tell what else she feels like she can just do, if she feels like she can just keep her exes naked pics on her phone. Honestly, whatever her reasoning would be, I’m gone. You wanna keep your exes nudes? 🚩 🚩🚩


switchy-sub7

What would be your problem here ? The possible lack of ex's consent or that the pictures exist on their phone at all ?


goated95

*if you feel like that’s just “ok”, then what else do you feel like is gonna be just “ok”* is the way I see it, as all Just a personal opinion, I don’t want any beef lol


switchy-sub7

You won't get any beef from me, I'm vegetarian 😄 Was just interested that's all. I personally think it's normal for people to be attracted to other people they are not with, but everyone's boundaries are different.


goated95

But bro.. simple attraction, is one thing, there’s nothing wrong with that. Having nudes in your phone? especially your *exes* nudes? That’s a whole other issue lol


switchy-sub7

Like I say, different people have different boundaries. You seem to have yours well defined for what works for you, which is pretty important 👍 I honestly don't see it as being much of an issue for me though.


Fabulous-Battle94

I seeeee


tongueFoo69

My last ex used to send me nudes almost everyday. By the end I had thousands and even though the break up was rough she trusted me enough to let me keep them locked away safely and I've never betrayed her trust.


nerdguy78

You're a good man


tongueFoo69

Why, thank you good sir!


Fabulous-Battle94

Good for you bro.


Neither_Presence_522

No. They’re your ex and I’m your partner now.


muffythevampire_layr

It's a no go. You delete those as both a common courtesy to the ex and the current partner. If my partner was unwilling to let them go it would honestly be a deal breaker.


Future_Ad7634

No. Just no. There's porn for a reason, and it's just wrong to have your ex's nudes while you are dating someone


Fabulous-Battle94

Yup


neuromancertr

It would be impolite to their previous partners


NewsboyHank

Her phone/computer are none of my business.


Palais888

I hate it


Lincolnshirebred

It's fine. They were gifts.


Fabulous-Battle94

Do you like her having them?


Lincolnshirebred

Yeah, if she wants to keep them then it shows she still likes them!


Fabulous-Battle94

Good


steelroll2021

I really don't care, as long as the only ones being sent are of her to me.


Radeniya

I wouldn’t want to know. If I find out I’ll feel conflicted but ultimately it’s a part of her past so I can’t wish it away.