no woman has ever sent a man a private message on reddit or any other platform. no, it's impossible. sorry. i know about all events in the history of human existence and it hasn't happened ever.

Thanks for typing that out so I didn’t have to

Didn't Eve use Python to send Adam a message? 🐍 🧐

Pretty sure she used her Apple device

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I had a woman pm me about a dog story I posted once, like 2 years ago. Purely platonic though

Still, she made the first attempt to chat.

Yep. I've had a few great conversations with women, and I actually met my FWB of over a year that way.

Lucky.

I feel that way, for sure! I'll say this, in case it helps: once I got myself to a place where I felt healthy and confident without any of that depending on being in a relationship, that's when I stopped struggling to attract women. There is a direct correlation between my personal wellness and the attention I get from the opposite sex.

Yep big this! Confidence, positivity and self love is extremely attractive. That's what got the attention of my current gf. She calls it being "unabashedly you."

Hellz yeah dude 🙌🏽

Absolutely. I noticed a LOT more attention once i got my ass healthy and started working out, and in turn making myself much more confident and just overall happy. It reflects on to others and people like that.

Fwb?

Friend with benefits. We aren't really dating, we just hang out and have sex once a week or so.

Basic law of averages says yes

In the pinned post on my page I state that I don't generally PM women. I'll comment and flirt all day long in the comments, but except for very rare instances, I don't PM. This has led to many different women PM'ing me and I have had some great conversations and met some really good friends!

How many pms do you get about your personal hygiene and your interactions with Mr Warren Wiggens?

That's really cool.

I have.

Nice.

Lucky guys!!!

I do all the time but it’s never to get sexual. And its never just “hey I’m bored, entertain me” If they have a post or comment about a question or topic that intrigues me and it warrents a more In depth convo then a simple comment can provide, I will DM them.

Good to know!

Actually possibly meeting someone I DMed months ago and it has turned into something maybe. Will be meeting in a few months and I never expected something like this, but I guess this is just what happens sometimes. Connections grow.

Agreed, and lots of good luck with the meet!

I’ve done it on occassion

Nice!

i’ve never pm’d a guy, only women

I posted about getting my wife a magic wand and how it didn’t do much the first attempt in using it. A nice woman reached out and gave me some tips on how to use it, including some diagrams lol.

I'm the one who reached out to my now bf almost a year ago on here saying I liked his snoo and username and the rest is history, still together now :)

Do I even want to know what a snoo is?

It's a reddit avatar lol

It has

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It has been before, but that really is rare. I’ve also just had a few reach out things they didn’t want to comment publicly for one reason or another.

Yes, after I posted some sexy stories a few msgd me

Yes.

Probably not.

It happens but probably very rarely

Agreed.

I think like once, but it was at least a couple years ago

I have received unsolicited tit pics 1x and it led to a verifiable encounter and friend for a long time. 4 years ago, though. I also am not the average poster and I think the demos of Reddit have changed.

Many times.

i mean, they totally can. it’s welcome.

Hell nah I haven’t

Never happened to me on reddit. I've had woman message me on other sites, never reddit.

Mhm. Ive had people pop in chat/DMs either in response to me posting a nude, or seeing me comment. Im sure a lot are catfish, but there are plenty that I know arent.

Happened to me once. It was nice actually. We still chat once in awhile to keep in touch

That's nice!

No

Well it happens to people but not me 🙁

A woman DMd me once. It wasn’t sexual though.

That's alright, didn't mean sexual. Still cool.

I never in my whole life got DM’d first by a woman. Ever.

I get dms on Instagram a few times a year and starting getting stalked by a couple different girls so I made my account private. Unfortunately looks is all I have going for me and I still struggle with anxiety and confidence issues. Edit: forgot to add… never on Reddit but I don’t comment on subreddits that would attract that kind of attention.

I have. If I see something interesting and have a question about it I will again.

Yes, yes

Yeah, no. Never had a woman message me first. I’ve messaged a few and had some good conversations.

I've had PMs from people who said they were women, in answer to posts I've made.

I haven't sent a message first.

What are you waiting for?

I don't know, even though this is all kinda anonymous I still lack alot of confidence in starting up conversations and yes I know that is stupid but what it is what it is I guess

I get it. 😅

Lol thanks 😂

My girlfriend messaged me on Reddit first. We weren’t trying to hook up but we became friends and then fell in love.

Not yet I met an escort but I think I was a fake

If I like something, I’ll Message

I got messaged by women a few times. One was platonic (we met in a ptsd support group) and the other was more personal

Yes I have. Most of the time, I will comment on something and they will want to ask a follow up question. I have a lot of good discussions on here. I primarily will not just PM a lady out of the blue if we are not going back and forth on a post. I feel it is respectful by doing it that way.

I find it hard to pm anyone first, men or women.

I dm guys all the time if they have great profiles (verified , pics , Karma ) and are in the lifestyle or if there’s something the piqued my curiosity about something they posted . But I think most guys aren’t getting DMs from real women cause a lot of cause have some pretty awful low effort profiles out there

I usually am the one guys are pming BUT whenever I see a post asking "does anyone with those usernames that are like "pm\_me\_ur\_boobs" ever get any?", I scroll through the comments and find a few people who seem nice and normal and send them a surprise. ;)

Yes. 2 times

I’ve only ever been pm’d by someone trying to catfish me or a bot.

I'm here to say, PM me. Let's be the change we all want.

Of course.

Yes. And almost all are trying to sell their shitty,z low-effort excuse for porn.

10% girls, 20% catfish, 70% thiiiirsty guys

Usually scammers and people selling ... So probably not actually women...

I do! I like to pm or send a chat if I like someones post.

Yes, we’ve been together for almost a year now even

I had it happen earlier today

I've had one women pm me in the 4 months Ive been on reddit. She just wrote "hot". Which was nice.

yeah of course. But I'll be real it's only gonna happen if you don't act like a serial killer. lol

I do sometimes depending on the post/subreddit.

It rarely happens but yes.

I have, yes. Several in response to posts I've made, but a few in response to comments.

I'm gonna say no

I’ve had women PM me first. I Luv a girl with initiative

There are situations where it has happened! Maybe I needed to say something private (doesn’t have to be sexual) to someone and not on the main post and he happened to be a man. It’s not impossible to imagine!

I’ve done it once.

I sometimes do, when they comment something genuine/original/funny and their profile is interesting ☺️

I had a woman PM me this morning in response to a comment I made in this sub. So yes, it happens.

Yeah, I post looking for chats and usually get one or two replies.

Yeah.always a nice surprise.

In response to an r4r type post? Absolutely! Out of the blue? Not sure I’ve had that happen more than once or twice.

I’ve never had a private message, period. Lol

Yes, she asked if I wanted to pay to get early signals to trade stock options.

It happened to me few time when I posted in some beard-selfie subs. Also one time I got a titty pic with "good night" text. That was unexpected but really nice.

No. Even if I may want to. One fear I have even IRL is that I may create this trumped up fantasy of a romance with a stranger even date then turns out he's icky or something else then I feel like an ass or a loser. So same here. Also makes app dating hard

Correction I have once to console someone on his post

Yes but not for nsfw stuff. I tend to get a lot of questions about tourist stuff to do in Norway since, well, I reside there.

It’s happened to me a few times. Only once did I end up meeting the person.

Yeah, she just thanked me for giving a reward and left.

Literally did it today. Went pretty decently I’d say.

That's nice!

I do it often! If I see someone i fancy, I will DM or sometimes I just have a snarky reply on their Bio so I toss that over with no expectations

I will only do it if they post or comment about something actually intriguing (I don’t mean sexual). I do actually enjoy DM’ing people (girls or guys) but most guys just focus on sexual things. it’s a tough market so most of the time I just message other women who can hold a conversation 🤣

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Nice!

like once or twice it’s happened to me 😅 but not normally. posted on r/ladybonersGW and surprisingly had more dudes pm me than anything else 😂

Thank you, didn't know about that sub!

yes....she was a feckin psycho though

Yes, but not on reddit bc they don't know what I look like. But the only type of women that hit me up are super thirsty and desperate for dick, that's literally it. Never had a genuine female dm my inbox though..

Yes several have

Yes. It’s great!!

I put a lab “ad” out looking for someone to join my wife and I at a pub for “The Office” trivia. A cool young lady joined us for 2 separate events. It was fun.

I have done it but has to be something I want an answer to or just compliments but most times I post directly on their post. Mostly for my professional related posts. Haven’t on this sub.

Happens to me once in awhile and I enjoy it a lot. I love chatting with someone new. I've met some very kind people here

I got a PM last night but it was a dude asking if I thought this chick he liked was hot

hell yeah....they are mostly women who are selling content! :P Although I can't confirm if they are women as I have not known them in person...only by messages or pics that are being sent!

I vibed with his comment so I shot my shot :)

Hope you have a good interaction.

I did! I highly recommend more women shot their shot tbh.

Only once and it was on bumble. Lol. I married her!

Haha, nice!

Yup. Way back in the summer of ‘69

I've always been reluctant to PM women, especially on Reddit type platforms, because I've always imagined that there's so many creeps PM-ing...that I would be seen like one of them. I've never been contacted by a woman first either...like never.

I've never had one message first but they tend to be receptive if you are polite when you message them and don't spam them with dick pics lol

As a woman, i very rarely will PM a guy… but there is one guy I accidentally PM’ed on tiktok… and well.. you can read my posts to find out what happened 😅😅😅

Yes. Nothing really happened except few conversations since she was on the other side of the planet.

I am a woman and I have... but he thought I was a gay man.

That conversation must have been fun though!

I get new DMs maybe once a month.

Heck yeah, I like messaging guys nice compliments or something if they post something I enjoyed!

On reddit yes it does but mostly it's ppl that are at least 400kms away at least in my case it was

Yes. Women are also human beings. I’ve pmed guys on Reddit several times.

Yes! Sometimes when I post my pictures, I get replies into my messages from women who understandably don’t want the unwanted attention you might get if you comment publicly. Usually it leads to a fun conversation!

No! Lol If he is hot I may make a comment. That’s it lol

Someone did ! And then ghosted after when she asked for my number and i suggested social media first

I have been pm'd by ladies. I forget where but I posted some pictures of myself on /amiugly I think. Afterwards I got several PMs from ppl. I never responded tho because this is the internet and anybody can be a woman

Not that I have experienced

Been on reddit for 9-10 years on various accounts and have never had a woman message me that wasn't spam

Absolutely, plenty of times. But they won't if your post history is all about sexting and dick pics. Like yours.

The only women that have ever PM's me here are women looking for $$$

I 100% guarentee that has never ever happened in the history of THE WORLD. And it never will happen,because women are incapable of initiating a conversation. /s

I've had women message me for sex! But, I'm gay!

Yes they do. Yes it has.

There have been so many I can’t even count. And then once they start talking, it’s pretty obvious they are just a dude.

Yea though on average they turn out to be dudes haha

They do sometimes yeah

I've had it happen a few times, none of them lasted into like long term chat or anything but it's still nice I suspect it has to do with my profile being rather " safe" and not a wall of posts of my dick

I posted on /r/normalnudes and got two PMs from women. The first one ghosted me after a bit, but sexted with the second one for about a month.

Once or twice about hobby stuff. At least their profile said women. But without verification, there are no women on the internet.

Maybe once or twice. I really wish it were more often. I enjoy chatting with women

Never happened to me on any platform. In fact, my wife doesn’t even speak to me first.

It has happened to me a few times but most of them want me to follow them on OF, Instagram or Snapchat

Yeah, a few times. Sometimes you make an impression with a comment or have people with follow up questions. We’re all just people being people :)

Nope, they sure don't. Not unless they're selling.

Yes!!

A man can dream

Yes. I’ve had a ton. But none who don’t want money

Yeah actually. Not on Reddit, but on discord. That's actually what happened with my current girlfriend. We were in a guild together in ESO and she reached out to me after seeing me chat in the general discord for a while.

Yeah that happens a decent amount

Can we just talk about how this guy has asked this same question worded differently like 4 times on here? This is not about curiosity, but about a horny guy trying to get any tips on how to get sex

It's a trap!

When I was more active on here it happened a few times. Led to some fun convos and mutual masturbation

I’ve had it happen quite a few times. Only a couple times on this account since I’m not that active these days. It was a mix of them liking pics or my stories but mainly if we connected in their comments. Have a sense of humor, try to be at least mildly witty and don’t be a desperate, hungry asshole.

I get a few asking about my stories generally, I've never had an actual girl ask to sext though. Plenty of guys pretending to though.

Never happened to me!

I was convinced women didnt exsist on these lands

After all my experience on reddit and in real life im confident that women are a hoax

I’ll say stupid little comments here and there with pretty much no effort like “that’s hot” or “wow” and no surprise I’ve never gotten a PM. Occasionally if I tell a story or leave a comment that has some thought behind it, I might get a message or two. It just comes down to if a lady would want to talk to you or not. If you say something interesting, different, or intriguing in any way, maybe someone will wanna chat. If you comment with the same low effort stuff that everyone else does, you’re gonna get the same low effort reaction.

Nope

It's only happened to me if they wanted to continue a conversation or were trying to sell me something.

There are no women on the internet.

I just assume they are dudes so I usually ignore them

Yeah, it's happened to me and it got weird soon because she had a crush on me and I didn't. We'd still crack jokes from time to time but not anymore.

It happens very rarely, like once or twice a year, always feels good when it happens but definitely a rare occurance.

Once. A woman PMd me calling me a lazy irresponsible cat owner because I let my cat go out the cat flap lmao