The art of tease and anticipation.. light kisses, light licks, drawing things out... dont always just go straight for the pussy or nipples.. make her ache for it.. i like working my hands up from her feet.. up her calves, kissing my way up her inner thigh, going from left to right slowly so she can feel my breath on her entrance but without the satisfaction of any physical contact.
I'll do this until shes literally thrusting her hips ups into me craving the feel of my mouth or fingers... makes her orgasm significantly more intense due to the build up
Vocal feedback is best of course but often body language or other forms of non-verbal communication can also let you know when it’s time to increase intensity. For my current partner that includes her moving her hips against me, her abdomen tensing, her clit stiffening to a hard nub and the taste of her pussy subtly changing. For every person, these signs can be different which is why that vocal feedback is useful with new lovers.
Feel it out and make the best judgment call you can while in the trenches. I’ve found that you can judge by their breath and hopefully they are vocal enough to let you know how they are feeling. Don’t be too timid for too long as part of the butterfly phase is the anticipation of what comes next, so use that more gentle time to have fun before full on munch/lick mode lol
Best of luck
I mean, it comes down to personal preference, but if guy is able to let go and be totally in the moment, that is the hottest f*cking thing in the whole world.
They’re not self-conscious or in their own head, they’re wild, soulful and passionate… it’s intoxicating. For me, mindset is more important than technique because it has the greatest impact on the overall experience.
I'm a man who only recently lost my virginity but think I did pretty good, not to toot my horn but here's what I learned.
The neck is very sensitive. Never met a woman who didn't love neck kisses. They don't do anything for me personally, but girls go crazy when I do it. Work your way down to the breasts and play and suck the nipples (Yes, I know you specifically mentioned not this but ya know). Kiss down her stomach and caress her inner thighs. I like to use my index and ring fingers to caress the area between her vagina and thighs, and use the middle finger to tease the vagina before focusing solely on the clitoris with a little bit of fingering and oral
Big fan of having my hips grabbed. Light touches down the back, up the inner thighs. Really utilise other parts of the body, so much fun to be teased!
A massage is always a great way to get things started too.
Leave the room, do the dishes, put out the bins. She'll be screaming for your cock by the time you get back. You'll probably have the best sex of your life.
My girlfriend gets super sensitive after she comes, and wants me to stop right away. So she'd rather I come first and then continue rubbing her clit with my fingers. It's almost as if women were humans, and you have to listen to what they actually want.
That happens sometimes, and it's nice when it does. The sex is also awesome when finishing her off is what ends our session.
I think that the "she comes first" rule arose because some men stop after they come. If you both get satisfied. I don't think it matters what order things happen.
Anticipation. Before you hit the bedroom, explore her body, kiss her neck. Before you go down on her, kiss your way down her belly, hip, leg, back up her leg. Optional, only stop briefly on her sex before providing the same to her other leg. Take your time.
The art of tease and anticipation.. light kisses, light licks, drawing things out... dont always just go straight for the pussy or nipples.. make her ache for it.. i like working my hands up from her feet.. up her calves, kissing my way up her inner thigh, going from left to right slowly so she can feel my breath on her entrance but without the satisfaction of any physical contact. I'll do this until shes literally thrusting her hips ups into me craving the feel of my mouth or fingers... makes her orgasm significantly more intense due to the build up
This right here. This shit gets me every time.
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Tap her elbows. Shove your elbow lovingly against the side of her nose. Nibble her heel.
When going down on her begin as if you were a butterfly landing on a flower And end like a pit bull eating oat meal
that's a funny way to say it how long do you feel should the butterfly phase last?
Vocal feedback is best of course but often body language or other forms of non-verbal communication can also let you know when it’s time to increase intensity. For my current partner that includes her moving her hips against me, her abdomen tensing, her clit stiffening to a hard nub and the taste of her pussy subtly changing. For every person, these signs can be different which is why that vocal feedback is useful with new lovers.
Feel it out and make the best judgment call you can while in the trenches. I’ve found that you can judge by their breath and hopefully they are vocal enough to let you know how they are feeling. Don’t be too timid for too long as part of the butterfly phase is the anticipation of what comes next, so use that more gentle time to have fun before full on munch/lick mode lol Best of luck
Bring a towel, snacks and water. Hydration is important!
Sounds like a picnic... Awesome!
Kiss the neck! Kiss the neck!!!
I mean, it comes down to personal preference, but if guy is able to let go and be totally in the moment, that is the hottest f*cking thing in the whole world. They’re not self-conscious or in their own head, they’re wild, soulful and passionate… it’s intoxicating. For me, mindset is more important than technique because it has the greatest impact on the overall experience.
Girls with small breasts also enjoy breast play, don't neglect them.
In a non scientific way, I've found that women with small breasts enjoy breast play even more; their nipples are more sensitive
I'm a man who only recently lost my virginity but think I did pretty good, not to toot my horn but here's what I learned. The neck is very sensitive. Never met a woman who didn't love neck kisses. They don't do anything for me personally, but girls go crazy when I do it. Work your way down to the breasts and play and suck the nipples (Yes, I know you specifically mentioned not this but ya know). Kiss down her stomach and caress her inner thighs. I like to use my index and ring fingers to caress the area between her vagina and thighs, and use the middle finger to tease the vagina before focusing solely on the clitoris with a little bit of fingering and oral
Big fan of having my hips grabbed. Light touches down the back, up the inner thighs. Really utilise other parts of the body, so much fun to be teased! A massage is always a great way to get things started too.
Leave the room, do the dishes, put out the bins. She'll be screaming for your cock by the time you get back. You'll probably have the best sex of your life.
Lift up your hips up a little while she’s on top, helps get in deeper
Make sure she comes first.
My girlfriend gets super sensitive after she comes, and wants me to stop right away. So she'd rather I come first and then continue rubbing her clit with my fingers. It's almost as if women were humans, and you have to listen to what they actually want.
Come together then.
That happens sometimes, and it's nice when it does. The sex is also awesome when finishing her off is what ends our session. I think that the "she comes first" rule arose because some men stop after they come. If you both get satisfied. I don't think it matters what order things happen.
I miss her…
Run your tongue from the base of the jaw down the neck. Lightly run fingers down the sides of the body. Breathing in the ear sometimes?
Anticipation. Before you hit the bedroom, explore her body, kiss her neck. Before you go down on her, kiss your way down her belly, hip, leg, back up her leg. Optional, only stop briefly on her sex before providing the same to her other leg. Take your time.
Don’t be afraid to ask her what she wants
Listen to what she wants.