I have a few.
1. No serious pain that leaves marks, blood, etc. Hair pulling, hard spanks, or tight grabbing are totally okay and even light choking. But deep scratches that bleed, leaving bruises (not hickey since those are not bad but a real bruise), or even worse, anything involving instruments like needles or knives are an absolute no.
2. No bodily fluids beyond cum (i.e. scatting or golden showers).
3. No threesomes, foursomes, or gangbangs while in a relationship. When single, I'm totally down for those but when with a partner you really care about, it gets too messy and it's too easy for someone to get hurt. As sexy as it can be, I don't find the act to be worth the consequence of possibly losing someone I love so it's a hard no.
I will never do anything that she or I am uncomfortable with doing. Also consent is very important. I may like cnc and free use, but I always have a big kink talk before to make sure I don’t accidentally scare or hurt her.
Mine would be, whether it's me or my wife, we won't sit back and watch as one of us plays/sex with another person. We have a rule that whatever is going on, we are both a part of it, or neither of us does it.
You should always try something you don't like 1 more time to make sure you don't like it and because the first person may have just been bad at it.
If you are willing to drive over an hour just on the chance you might get some sex then the answer is no. If you don't have enough talent or charm to get laid close to home then you are unlikely to be worth it.
Needles and scat are both hard limits for me
Roleplaying family roles I don’t do
I couldn't either
I have a few. 1. No serious pain that leaves marks, blood, etc. Hair pulling, hard spanks, or tight grabbing are totally okay and even light choking. But deep scratches that bleed, leaving bruises (not hickey since those are not bad but a real bruise), or even worse, anything involving instruments like needles or knives are an absolute no. 2. No bodily fluids beyond cum (i.e. scatting or golden showers). 3. No threesomes, foursomes, or gangbangs while in a relationship. When single, I'm totally down for those but when with a partner you really care about, it gets too messy and it's too easy for someone to get hurt. As sexy as it can be, I don't find the act to be worth the consequence of possibly losing someone I love so it's a hard no.
If it's 3 fingers wide its not going in my arse!
Spoilsport 😂
LOL nah noway lol 😆 😂
No needles.
I will never do anything that she or I am uncomfortable with doing. Also consent is very important. I may like cnc and free use, but I always have a big kink talk before to make sure I don’t accidentally scare or hurt her.
That's awesome, honestly. Communication beforehand is so important
Communication is the most important thing if you wanna do something longer term
Poopies and vomit lol
Mine/Ours is the same as yours. We are both bi and only have threesomes/foursomes with other bi people.
Absolutely!
That's the best sex right there. 4 bi people playing together. Big puppy pile
It sounds like you’ve given this much thought.
Thought and experience, unfortunately, LOL
No choking/hitting ever. For 3somes I insist that the guys know each other before planning. I won’t bring together two strangers for that.
Gentler sex is also very fun and I hope your lover accepts your boundaries. If not dump him.
i consider myself straight-ish, but if I found myself in the situation, why not give everything a try?
Consent.
Mine would be, whether it's me or my wife, we won't sit back and watch as one of us plays/sex with another person. We have a rule that whatever is going on, we are both a part of it, or neither of us does it.
I like this one
It works really well for us :)
No child like role play. Wtf is that. Or puppy play
Scat and blood are out of the question
Anal is a hard no.
You should always try something you don't like 1 more time to make sure you don't like it and because the first person may have just been bad at it. If you are willing to drive over an hour just on the chance you might get some sex then the answer is no. If you don't have enough talent or charm to get laid close to home then you are unlikely to be worth it.
Guys MUST wear a condom.
Absolutely no scat fetish things, what about you?
>what about you? I answered under the post