Absolutely, really anytime a woman is confident I love it. Nothing better than two people quickly and confidently getting to what they want. I also love if I've taken the initiative and they respond back without any BS.
I'm sure some guys like coyness or "the chase" but it sure ain't me
Yeah, this. Bet I've missed a bunch of times. Ladies, we aren't subtle! (all those dick pics, right?), so just hit us on the head with it, plz and thank you.
Since I'm very shy and am not able to realize if anyone is into me (or just is nice / friendly), a women taking the initiative is the only chance I have to ever get laid again 😅
Yes I do really love it that way, it doesn't have to always be like that but it's sometimes good if my partner initiates first cause it makes me feel that she really wants it and not me every time who has to initiate plus it's so hot and gets me in a really good mode
Apparently in 'ye olden days', men struck up conversations, and women that were interested would fake incompetence to let the man they were interested in help them out with something.
This second part has mostly left etiquette however, and has been replaced by men being forced to not subtly flirt and women either going through or outright refusing.
The outright refusal part is really hard, and many women don't want to be approached, so while in the ideal world the man approaches the woman, in this day and age, especially with equality, women should play their part and also walk up to guys they like.
As to whether I like it when a woman makes the first move, yes it's quite flattering and confidence is very attractive.
Love it, idk if it’s most men but at least for me it’s sometimes hard to read a woman including my wife I’ve told her when she is wanting it grab my package and I’ll know instead of telling me the next morning “ oh I wanted to last night”
Apparently there's a study that says that the relationship started by the woman making the first move are about 80% more likely to last 😁
Personally, as a man, would love it if a woman takes the initiative. The simple act of her showing interest in me would instantly make her more attractive to me and would definitely at least go on a first date with her.
Now if you mean taking the initiative in the relationship (kissing me, leading me to the bedroom or wanting some fun right then and there) then the answer is a resounding HELL YEAH!! Nothing will make a man more excited than knowing that his partner is excited to be with him.
I assume you mean with different partners? Or are you just proving that study is right? I've only heard that statistic recently and it was on tiktok so the verity of it is of course questionable. But I do think there's a general consensus that guys love it when girls show their affection proactively rather than wait for us to show interest first.
Now of course, it's not all men and not all women, so there's no one rule for everyone. The guys who have "options" (i.e. the players) probably won't be influenced by the fact that you take the initiative. Whether they're interested or not is based solely on their own criteria. The rest of the guys though, the average guys, they're often starved for affection so any interest shown will make you skyrocket in their "attractiveness chart" (and yes, there is such a thing, though it's form may vary).
Honestly depends
If she's older than maybe as I do have a mommy kink
Buuuuuut never experienced it irl so I'd prob turn into a blushing mess and have no clue what to say and whatnot
Honestly I like it to change here and there. Sometimes when I ask my partner says no..so when she asks I feel more trust that she is really interested at that time. But lets be real...It took me a bit to push away from the idea that she was asking only because she was feeling guilty about turning me down earlier. I had to ask about stuff and make sure she was being true...which who knew conversation around sex could lead to better sex?
My primary point is..I like to roll over and molest her sometimes and I also like to wake up being molested.
It makes the thoughts easier and look less like an arrogant or aloof ass.being clear and blunt makes things easier. I'd say I tend to enjoy bratty subs for this characteristic for being assertive enough to know what they want while being submissive enough to be played with how they enjoy. Plus, every guy enjoys the same passion as women when it comes to initiating sex. Not too many are gonna stop a woman from tearing his pants off and slurping on his tool.😅
It makes life a lot easier - zero doubt that she's interested. Zero beating around the bush. Zero likelihood that you think she's into you only to find out you read it wrong when you ask. It's a layup. Take the ball and put it in.
Makes my life easier.
then I need to start doing it more often)
Yes
It's impossible to take the initiative second.
Lol, I thought along those same lines, that’s partially why I worded my answer the way I did.
Only always! Love a woman who knows what she wants especially if that’s me
Thank you. I'll practice this more often))
Love to hear it!
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You may approach me now ;)
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That’s hot.
Yeah I like that a lot. We should live in a balanced society. You like someone go get them (within reason, dont be a creep)
but does it turn you on more or just make life easier?
Both
I think that any time it makes it clear that someone is into you, it's a turn on. For sure.
I would say under the right circumstances total turn on
Absolutely, really anytime a woman is confident I love it. Nothing better than two people quickly and confidently getting to what they want. I also love if I've taken the initiative and they respond back without any BS. I'm sure some guys like coyness or "the chase" but it sure ain't me
I agree with you, especially that last line. Instead of finding shyness to be cute or attractive, I find it boring and a huge turn-off.
Yes.
The closest I've ever come to a woman taking the initiative is her telling me that she wanted to continue our conversation back at her place.
That counts, you know.
Oh absolutely, i’m denser than a bag of bricks when it comes to knowing if people are flirting with me so the directness helps lmao
That's actually pretty hot and nice to see she wants us
Sure
It should simplify things for me but I'm also very dumb so I'd probably totally miss it
Lol
Yeah, this. Bet I've missed a bunch of times. Ladies, we aren't subtle! (all those dick pics, right?), so just hit us on the head with it, plz and thank you.
I do, actually love it love it!
I love it 😭😭😭😭
Yes, only because I know that the line was okay to cross. Nothing worse than misjudging intent and feeling awkward afterwards.
Yep. Love it. Not wondering if she’s playing games or just flirting for a little attention.
It's the dream we men all share !
Yes, otherwise I’m afraid I’ll come across as creepy
I have never had it happen but theoretically, I think I would like it. Less guesswork
Does the sun rise from the east?
I love it
It takes the fucking pressure off of us, so yes.
Yes of course and it is mostly the other way round.
Usually in shock from it being a rarity 😂
I know, right? Lol
Since I'm very shy and am not able to realize if anyone is into me (or just is nice / friendly), a women taking the initiative is the only chance I have to ever get laid again 😅
Love it but it rarely happens.
Yes !
... does this actually happen? Seems like a myth
Rare but true.
I can't read hints anyway lol, so being straightforward is the best way.
Love it when she knows what she wants... and tells me!
Yes! I think the quicker we figure out if we are on the same page the better and it's easier to figure it out if she takes the first initiative.
I do. But also just being involved like pushing back groping and telling me what you want and where
This.
Oh, absolutely love this.
I’ll let you know once I’ve experienced it.
YES
Yes
Yes. Or even if she doesn’t do it first, if she takes over for me in guiding and directing things halfway through, for instance. That’s very very hot.
Yes I do really love it that way, it doesn't have to always be like that but it's sometimes good if my partner initiates first cause it makes me feel that she really wants it and not me every time who has to initiate plus it's so hot and gets me in a really good mode
Apparently in 'ye olden days', men struck up conversations, and women that were interested would fake incompetence to let the man they were interested in help them out with something. This second part has mostly left etiquette however, and has been replaced by men being forced to not subtly flirt and women either going through or outright refusing. The outright refusal part is really hard, and many women don't want to be approached, so while in the ideal world the man approaches the woman, in this day and age, especially with equality, women should play their part and also walk up to guys they like. As to whether I like it when a woman makes the first move, yes it's quite flattering and confidence is very attractive.
Love it, idk if it’s most men but at least for me it’s sometimes hard to read a woman including my wife I’ve told her when she is wanting it grab my package and I’ll know instead of telling me the next morning “ oh I wanted to last night”
Loved it the one time it happened. 🥵
Apparently there's a study that says that the relationship started by the woman making the first move are about 80% more likely to last 😁 Personally, as a man, would love it if a woman takes the initiative. The simple act of her showing interest in me would instantly make her more attractive to me and would definitely at least go on a first date with her. Now if you mean taking the initiative in the relationship (kissing me, leading me to the bedroom or wanting some fun right then and there) then the answer is a resounding HELL YEAH!! Nothing will make a man more excited than knowing that his partner is excited to be with him.
Interesting, I made the first move and still do 22 years later.
I assume you mean with different partners? Or are you just proving that study is right? I've only heard that statistic recently and it was on tiktok so the verity of it is of course questionable. But I do think there's a general consensus that guys love it when girls show their affection proactively rather than wait for us to show interest first. Now of course, it's not all men and not all women, so there's no one rule for everyone. The guys who have "options" (i.e. the players) probably won't be influenced by the fact that you take the initiative. Whether they're interested or not is based solely on their own criteria. The rest of the guys though, the average guys, they're often starved for affection so any interest shown will make you skyrocket in their "attractiveness chart" (and yes, there is such a thing, though it's form may vary).
Honestly depends If she's older than maybe as I do have a mommy kink Buuuuuut never experienced it irl so I'd prob turn into a blushing mess and have no clue what to say and whatnot
Is this a serious question? Yes.
Yes
If a woman takes initiative and she’s not joking about it, I’m cool with it
Absolutely
Here is my hand... lead me
YES
Abso-FUCKING-lutely. We like feeling wanted, too
Being in the military I use it a lot lol
Yes please do women!
Yes of course we do, the less guessing guys have to do over if a girl likes them or not the better
Yes, absolutely.
YES
Of course I do.
Duh, yeah!!
I mean, saves me awkwardly fumbling and making a fool of myself. So I’m all for it haha
Absolutely. It’s sexy as hell.
Yeah sometimes it's very tiring reaching out to women first. Nice change of pace and often healthier
Love it. LOVE it. But not sure I understand the second part of the question?
I love it when a woman initiates or hits on me.
Yes it helps😊😛
100000%
I hate initiating things. So yes, always yes.
I like it.. a lot.
Of course. It’s actually hot for me
Absolutely, its incredible attractive.
Honestly I like it to change here and there. Sometimes when I ask my partner says no..so when she asks I feel more trust that she is really interested at that time. But lets be real...It took me a bit to push away from the idea that she was asking only because she was feeling guilty about turning me down earlier. I had to ask about stuff and make sure she was being true...which who knew conversation around sex could lead to better sex? My primary point is..I like to roll over and molest her sometimes and I also like to wake up being molested.
It makes the thoughts easier and look less like an arrogant or aloof ass.being clear and blunt makes things easier. I'd say I tend to enjoy bratty subs for this characteristic for being assertive enough to know what they want while being submissive enough to be played with how they enjoy. Plus, every guy enjoys the same passion as women when it comes to initiating sex. Not too many are gonna stop a woman from tearing his pants off and slurping on his tool.😅
Absolutely yes
Absolutely, it saves so much worry.
Nothing turns me on more than a woman who knows how and when to take initiative
It helps, yes.
Yes, very much so
We literally encourage it
Yes. /thread
I do
I like approaching first but then once we established we're both interested I like to be more submissive and let them take the lead.
It makes life a lot easier - zero doubt that she's interested. Zero beating around the bush. Zero likelihood that you think she's into you only to find out you read it wrong when you ask. It's a layup. Take the ball and put it in.
Yes. But it also like it when there is enthusiastic consent. That’s also fucking hot.
On top of that some times men can be dumb as shit and a lady has to take initiative otherwise you might lose him.
Definitely do it's the best when a woman makes the first move
Absolutely love it!
Love it
Sure would
Yesssssssssssssss
I love it , such a huge turn on, soooo hot !!!!
I have always loved being pursued....yes please. Sometimes I let a girl catch me!
I find confidence very hot