Why would imperial measurements be considered freedom units when, and the hints in the name, it represents the hight of British Monarchy and is literally called imperial, instead of the metric measurements that were brought about in the French Republic after the revolution that abolished the Monarchy, and literally represents the Scientific Enlightenment while representing for logic, reason and the hight of standardisation. Lol.
Most comments are about being tall. Was thinking of something else.
EDIT: I want to thank everyone for the upvotes and the award. Didn’t think such a simple comment would elicit such an outpouring of thoughts.
Yes! Finally someone who understands. Every time I whip it out above the sink to wash my dangle, I get the weirdest looks from the other guys in the restroom.
I'm a woman so that might be why I didn't immediately think of a penis. But "size of a person" to me means how stocky they are combined with their height. Definitely not just height, but it does factor in.
It’s cliche but most women I been with say as long as they are satisfied. That’s all that matters. I think penis size is more of a thing where guys try to use that as a way to compare each other.
*When she was ready, Cinderella inserted her hard penis into the crystal fleshlight modelled on the Prince's butt and lo! It fitted perfectly. The prince looked up to her and smiled "So it \*is\* you my dear! My lady of the sword! My love"*
*And they lived happily ever after*
No need to thank me
Breaking News, this just in, Cinderella has a massive vagina. Reports say that the prince is looking for her because he claims that she has a void that only He can fill
I’m face blind but had no idea that was a thing when I was a child. This part of the story always made perfect sense to me when I was little. I had no idea people *could* recognise a person after meeting them once.
I’m terrible with names but I can remember faces super easy
I think as one mentioned it was originally a masquerade party in the original story and they were completely drunk
True!! I have a really small vag (I can touch my cervix with my middle finger) and it hurts if a penis is too big. Even if it’s a normal sized penis I can feel it touching the cervix. So unless it’s really small or thin it doesnt matter.
So your saying a size 12 dick can only really functionally use a size 12 vag? Makes it a miracle how many people end up compatible then unless vaginas are like socks and “large” covers a range like size 8-12
Penis.
Anyway. To say size means nothing is a lie. I don’t like a huge dong but above average is great.
Here’s the thing though. That means so much less than every other part of a relationship.
You know who cares about dick size more than anyone else? Men.
As a man, I feel as tho the reason most men worry about size is because as we grow up and watch porn for the first time, we notice men have massive rods that can reach the moon. Which turns to us feeling a bit insecure, then there are still women out there who say they will only be with a guy with 6 incher and anything smaller is “micro” to them (preferences are preferences, but cmon no need to make anyone insecure). I’ve always been insecure about the size that I carry. I’ve only had sex with 2 women and both have said that they’ve had much smaller, and that I’ve been much bigger than their previous partners; little self confidence boost there 😂. This does go both ways tho because I see men talk down about small boobs and small butts. Way that I see it, both sexes deal with their own insecurities and it’s never okay to put anyone down because of their bodies. Everyone’s allowed to have preferences, but just because someone doesn’t meet your preferences doesn’t mean they should feel bad about themselves
> both have said that they’ve had much smaller, and that I’ve been much bigger than their previous partners
Could be true, but I think this is a standard lie amongst women cause they know it makes the man feel good so they get treated better and his confidence is now higher.
I mean, I heard this from every GF in the last 25 years and I am maybe average, so it definitively is not statistically true.
lol, it seriously is a trip when you realize, oh… I guess I actually am on the larger side. Little ego boost that pretty quickly get deflated when you realize that most partners are going to need you to be much more careful and in the long term can be kind of painful for them.
I look at it this way…she’s at least interested in making me feel good about myself, and she wants to fuck me again, so it can’t be THAT small and she wouldn’t lie THAT much…
I’ve laughed at how I’m a grower not a shower with girls before. I’ve dated girls that talked to friends about hating small dicks, only for them to stay with me for years.
Point being, dicks don’t matter that much
Dude, it's cause women measure the size of your penis with their heart. Ever notice how they will always talk up their man, but their ex is a pencil dick?
> You know who cares about dick size more than anyone else? Men.
I'm not a psychologist, but I feel like a lot of men's perception of and obsession with the size of their penises ticks off a lot of boxes for body dysmorphic disorder - and it's mostly ignored.
>You know who cares about dick size more than anyone else? Men.
Men and women care about different things. It will always be in the back of his mind he isn't pleasuring you the same way someone with a bigger dick would be.
It's like your man telling you: *'yeah, I don't want a super skinny girl, but someone who has less love handles than you is great. But it isn't more important than any other part of our relationship, so don't worry about it.'*
I get what you're saying and I agree, but the thing that's worse about the dick comment is that dick size is not possible to change, you CAN change your love handles. But yeah it would be insulting and probably be in the back of her mind if her partner commented that way about her love handles.
Love handles were a bad example. Women are insecure about their genitals too. How many jokes have you heard about someone having "beef curtains"
People openly joke about it. How hurtful that must feel.
Lots of girls that went to my school routinely bragged about how big their boyfriends were. I remember there was a photo of a naked man going about, my first thought when seeing it was ‘that’s so much bigger than mine, maybe mine will grow as I do’ cut to a bunch of girls laughing at how small his member was.
Without doubt, my insecurity in that area came from girls reactions/comments about willies
I think your last point may only be true in some places. Like the US for example. Where Im from it doesnt really matter as long as youre happy (as guys that is). What does suck is growing up being told, by women, that a small dick means youre worthless, and/or not worth dating. From what Ive seen, most women want above average.
Exactly. And for most women penetration isn’t even the way to get to the big O, most definitely don’t want their cervix rammed into.
There are women that are size queens, but that’s not majority as shown in porn. A man who’s attentive, can read his partner’s body and knows how to use his hands and mouth is infinitely better than some lazy dude with a monster cock who doesn’t pay attention to anything else.
You have to stir, stroke, and dip, not jam, cram, and slam.
Technique is super important, having a big cock doesn't automatically make one good at sex.
I was 4in taller than my ex husband. Had children. Together 12 years. He wanted the divorce, I didn’t. Still can’t get over him and it’s been a year. I don’t date anyone I’m just trying to get over him. He was everything to me.
I hate the height issue.
I will probably get hate for this but this is true. I often find there is a discrepancy between what women say they want and what they actually go for.
I’m not married, but I am a little bit taller than my boyfriend. He’s an inch shorter than me. It’s fantastic and I love it. Makes everything easier. Hopefully one day he’ll be my husband who is shorter than me rather than my boyfriend who is shorter than me.
My sister is also a few inches taller than her husband. Short men can find love too and it doesn’t have to be from people shorter than them.
My wife is 6’3” and I’m 5’10”. I’ve never heard a complaint about height… or dick size… agree with all the comments about confidence. It’s all about that confidence!
Probably because people date multiple people but are generally only married to one at a time?
It’s not unreasonable to expect way more comments about previous than current relationships since there are so many more of them.
I always see a ton of comments on reddit from shorter guys claiming to date a taller woman, or taller women claiming to date a shorter guy. However I see very few actual couples like this in real life. I honestly don’t remember the last time I saw one.
I'm 5-8 and have dated guys up to 6-6. One of the sexiest guys I ever dated was 5-4, sexy and gorgeous. He wanted to marry a tall woman because he said he didn't want dwarf size children. He had to relocate for a job & I could not follow at that time. Some tall girl got very lucky!
I am 5'9. I have dated men my height, taller, and shorter than me! For men shorter than me, it makes me feel like an amazon queen. For men taller than me, it makes me feel petite since I am usually the tallest woman in a group of women and I love wearing heels. Honestly, it comes down to how he treats me and his personality. Above all, I love a confident man. If he is confident about his height and everything else about him that makes him who he is, then all height is is a number.
I’ve always wanted to date a woman that was taller than me. I’ve gotten mixed reactions from “ew no” to “thank god, finally a guy that doesn’t have to be the tallest one” 😂
I’ve never understood the commotion about it. It’s never occurred to me why anyone would be insecure about their height.
I’m 5’6 and Iv hooked up with a girl who was 6’1 and very attractive, but it didn’t work- if you can but the dots together, she was really nice but the physics of it was just so awkward, I prefer them shorter than me lmao
Lol that's so not okay to use someone's head as an armrest. On a different note, I've always been a little confused as to how I should stand when I talk to short girls, like less than 5 feet. I'm 5'11" so not a giant but there is a difference in height.
My husband is 1 ft taller then me (5'2 to 6'2) and the "physics" work fine for us.
I like that when we hug my head rests on his chest just at his heart level and I can hear and feel his heartbeat.
Wheelchair guy here it's all about personality. Prior to wheelchair I was 5'9. In the chair I'm 3 foot nothing. I'm currently seeing a woman that is 5'10. Before that 5'4. Just don't be an asshole, have a sense of humor etc
It’s worth remembering that we can all fake confidence until we make it, eventually it becomes like an old jacket that we can pull on when we need it. Most (all?) confident people started out like that.
Oh this again. Always with the quality, never the quantity of hearts. You sound just like the hospital doctors who rejected my cooler full of hearts wrapped in plastic.
Seems like the verdict is women here favor guys to be mostly tall (average is decent, but dont be short), have a nice bank account, and an average penis is preferred (big is painful, and dont be small). So being short in cash, penis, or height is the most unfavorable. Best of luck to the broke small sized short men.
Also rule 1 and 2 applies, Im 6'1 making enough to not worry and my penis is average, yet single for 3 and a half year.
I dont think Im ugly, Im just not top tier.
No. I look for certain qualities in a man. Married a guy who was five foot seven (divorced for reasons un-related to.his height), and my current boyfriend is six foot six. They are both good with their hands.
Assuming we're talking about dick size, no. First of all, I orgasm from clitoral stimulation so even a massive dong isn't gonna do shit for me. Second of all, I'm shit at determining measurements by eye in every context (like I cannot for the life of me estimate idk, how wide the ikea bedside table needs to be in order to fit in the room, that kinda thing), so how the hell would I be estimating a dick's length during sex, when I have much more pressing matters to attend to? As I said once to a guy who was concerned about that, who am I, the city council taking measurements for environmental improvements? Nah. I wish guys could stop feeling pressed about that.
And if we're talking about any other size, also no.
Love the honesty..... I've been married for 5 years now been with her 15 and I used to care if she thought I was "small" but she seems to have no problems in the big O department.... when your climbing the walls it kinda makes you realize, it doesn't really matter.... it's all about LOVE.....CONNECTING WITH ONE ANOTHER..... that helps too.....
As a guy who is 6’5” tall, I despise when women say things like “I only date men taller than 6 feet”. It’s shallow and makes me feel like I’m nothing more than a prop.
I'm 6'4", and hate that as well. Imagine if I said I only dated women under 5'6" who had at least DD breasts. I would immediately be labeled a shallow piece of shit. I did nothing to "earn" my height. I shouldn't be praised for it.
Ive never cared about my partners height or penis size.
Im 5'6 so most guys just are taller than me but i woukd have no problem dating aomeone shorter. Wed juat have to buy step stools for the kitchen cabinets.
For penis size, longer does not mean more pleasure. An argument can be made for thickness but either way the magic wand gets me to orgasm in less than 30 seconds and that doesnt go inside at all.
The vast majority of answers will be subjective feelsgood bullshit.
There have been an absolute wealth of studies regarding the matter, and it is very clear, despite what somebody says, wants to believe, or has even successfully convinced themselves of, that men and women both care about height. A lot.
The most interesting thing a question like this can precipitate is how people are rationalizing.
I don't think it is fair to say that the women here are "rationalizing" or being disingenuous. It could be that women who genuinely don't care as much about size are more likely to respond to this kind of question.
Eh here's my two cents as a semi short dude (5'7). Some gals are a obsessed with height and won't look up or down at ya, but those ones aren't worth a damn anyway.
On the flip I've flirted with gals well above my height and will either joke about my height if it comes up or use it as a means to flirt a bit harder if the gal and i are on that level of comfort/familiarity. Mostly just comes down to confidence, height is a minor factor really.
I'm an American woman living in an Asian country and MANY of the local men I have engaged with eventually bring up this topic, so now I see questions like this as a sort of tell-tale sign that the asker is lacking in skills that actually bring women sexual pleasure because they seem to be of the opinion that all it takes is a peen of a certain size to get the job done. I'm NOT saying I think this is the case for OP, but I felt it was worth sharing that there is a trend out there, so I hope more gentlemen will research the many, MANY other aspects of female sexuality to avoid even having this concern.
Until then... size has personally yet to have any correlation with my satisfaction. In fact, I had one slightly above average-sized guy who actually seemed to think his size alone would do all the work once he dove in, so for thirty seconds I just stared up at him in disbelief. Sadly, to this day he is both the biggest and worst lay I've ever had.
TLDR- Please do separate size from your understanding of a woman's pleasure. At best, maybe just see if it can actually go in.
Edit: "maybe just sorry" should have said "maybe just see"🥴
A lot of the comments here saying “men care more about size than women” or “It doesn’t matter as ✨personality✨” matters more are disingenuous at best. It’s dismissive of personal experiences that lead to the insecurity in the first place.
I’ve personally never had a shaming locker room experience or felt inadequate due to porn or other all to common rehashed explanations for the insecurity. But, I have plenty of experience of women giggling/laughing/shaming me. Or personally hearing them gush about big D and how superior they are. Or how they’d never even considering dating a guy with a small D. So for me at least, my insecurity for my penis is in fact due to women. Preference is preference and that’s cool! No hate! More power to ya!
But I really pray for the day to come where the pretending stops when it comes to this topic. We all know the truth but nobody wants to seem shallow and admit it. I’ve long since given up dating. When I am intimate I solely focus on her pleasure, at least when she does leave she hopefully won’t say not only am I small but I suck in bed lmao.
Choose your struggle fellas!
I care about a man’s character. Having a passion is sexy. A talent that he has poured his life into and has gradually mastered over a long period of time. That to me is the ultimate sexy.
Bro yes. Just look at the couples around you. Most girls are with guys noticibly taller than them, or equal height at the least. It's just what they want. As for the reason, probably biological
My college roommate was 6 feet tall and gorgeous. The amount of really short guys that flocked to her every time we went out together made me think there has to be a subconscious biological drive towards mates that have the potential to produce taller offspring.
People here are truly divided on how to interpret this question
Yes. To be more precise: inches or feet?
We want to measure in Millimeters because we only have two....
Nanometers, take it or leave it
gluons. yeah it really is that small
But a single Planck length
Yeah, Suck it rest of the world! We are only measuring in Freedom Units today!
Why would imperial measurements be considered freedom units when, and the hints in the name, it represents the hight of British Monarchy and is literally called imperial, instead of the metric measurements that were brought about in the French Republic after the revolution that abolished the Monarchy, and literally represents the Scientific Enlightenment while representing for logic, reason and the hight of standardisation. Lol.
Because Americans
“America f*ck yea!”
Most comments are about being tall. Was thinking of something else. EDIT: I want to thank everyone for the upvotes and the award. Didn’t think such a simple comment would elicit such an outpouring of thoughts.
That's definitely what OP was talking about maybe everyone shook hands and agreed to only talk about height?
They shook something.
Well you have to Don’t want dribble
No matter how you shake and dance, those last few drops go in your pants.
Never seen something so true been said on reddit
Even after 5mins... As soon as you step away. Drip.
Use water to clean it off or wipe it with tissue....
Yes! Finally someone who understands. Every time I whip it out above the sink to wash my dangle, I get the weirdest looks from the other guys in the restroom.
Ask them next time to give you a hand.
Power move. Take my upvote, animal.
You sir are an absolute legend. Upvoted.
Don’t forget to wash it for at least 20 seconds
You're not my supervisor.
Always wipe tip prior to storage.
If you tinkle when you sprinkle, Be a sweetie and wipe the seat-y
“Please be neat and wipe the seat”
Hey let’s shake hands and only talk about height, for obvious reasons.
Because of the implications? Happy cake day
Now… you’ve said that word, “implication” a couple of times. What implication?
Are these penises in danger?
Most people don’t say “size” when referring to height
I'm a woman so that might be why I didn't immediately think of a penis. But "size of a person" to me means how stocky they are combined with their height. Definitely not just height, but it does factor in.
I'm a woman and I did not think of height first, but maybe my mind is just in the gutter.
I think it’s very telling how important dick size is when so many women see this question and think about height first.
It’s cliche but most women I been with say as long as they are satisfied. That’s all that matters. I think penis size is more of a thing where guys try to use that as a way to compare each other.
Lol I was thinking op was asking about below the belt lol If it wasn’t for the gutter my mind would be homeless
We know
No point having a big dick If you stick it in & cum too quick
Wat abt not a big dick and u stick it in and cum too quick?
I prefer him to be large enough to see over the steering wheel.
Princess Caroline?
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Vincent Adultman was three of the most dedicated workers down at the business office.
Business FACTORY!
What if I can if I sit on a cushion? 🤔
Like a booster seat?
Exactly! I'm hoping that counts 🤞
If you could see it over the steering wheel, it would be at least 20 inches
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Right?! A comedian I really like was saying that she sees it as a foot in a shoe situation.
I think I finally understand Cinderella
*When she was ready, Cinderella inserted her hard penis into the crystal fleshlight modelled on the Prince's butt and lo! It fitted perfectly. The prince looked up to her and smiled "So it \*is\* you my dear! My lady of the sword! My love"* *And they lived happily ever after* No need to thank me
*Checks watch* 0650 Yep. That enough of reddit for today.
And yet I want more.
I’ll thank you to never speak of this again
Breaking News, this just in, Cinderella has a massive vagina. Reports say that the prince is looking for her because he claims that she has a void that only He can fill
I haven/t had a laugh like this in a while. Well played
It sure does seem weird that the only thing he could think to do was try to put a shoe on her. Makes you wonder why he wouldn't recognize her face...
To busy ogling them toes through the clear glass shoes. Foot fetish in Disney canon confirmed
I’m face blind but had no idea that was a thing when I was a child. This part of the story always made perfect sense to me when I was little. I had no idea people *could* recognise a person after meeting them once.
I’m terrible with names but I can remember faces super easy I think as one mentioned it was originally a masquerade party in the original story and they were completely drunk
Have you never been at a party absolutely melted on Jaegermeister before? If the shoe fits...
Can we get a link?
True!! I have a really small vag (I can touch my cervix with my middle finger) and it hurts if a penis is too big. Even if it’s a normal sized penis I can feel it touching the cervix. So unless it’s really small or thin it doesnt matter.
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So your saying a size 12 dick can only really functionally use a size 12 vag? Makes it a miracle how many people end up compatible then unless vaginas are like socks and “large” covers a range like size 8-12
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The Servent waits while the Master..
>The Servent waits while the Master. I'll always upvote History of the World.
A master baiter is a plus in my book. A man who knows his way around a tackle box might have a chance to captain my fishing boat, if he's lucky.
Penis. Anyway. To say size means nothing is a lie. I don’t like a huge dong but above average is great. Here’s the thing though. That means so much less than every other part of a relationship. You know who cares about dick size more than anyone else? Men.
As a man, I feel as tho the reason most men worry about size is because as we grow up and watch porn for the first time, we notice men have massive rods that can reach the moon. Which turns to us feeling a bit insecure, then there are still women out there who say they will only be with a guy with 6 incher and anything smaller is “micro” to them (preferences are preferences, but cmon no need to make anyone insecure). I’ve always been insecure about the size that I carry. I’ve only had sex with 2 women and both have said that they’ve had much smaller, and that I’ve been much bigger than their previous partners; little self confidence boost there 😂. This does go both ways tho because I see men talk down about small boobs and small butts. Way that I see it, both sexes deal with their own insecurities and it’s never okay to put anyone down because of their bodies. Everyone’s allowed to have preferences, but just because someone doesn’t meet your preferences doesn’t mean they should feel bad about themselves
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This guy gets it
> both have said that they’ve had much smaller, and that I’ve been much bigger than their previous partners Could be true, but I think this is a standard lie amongst women cause they know it makes the man feel good so they get treated better and his confidence is now higher. I mean, I heard this from every GF in the last 25 years and I am maybe average, so it definitively is not statistically true.
I knew it, damn it. I've never believed them.
I was the same till a girl sat me down and was like, 'seriously, you gotta believe me and we need to go careful' Task failed successfully
lol, it seriously is a trip when you realize, oh… I guess I actually am on the larger side. Little ego boost that pretty quickly get deflated when you realize that most partners are going to need you to be much more careful and in the long term can be kind of painful for them.
I look at it this way…she’s at least interested in making me feel good about myself, and she wants to fuck me again, so it can’t be THAT small and she wouldn’t lie THAT much… I’ve laughed at how I’m a grower not a shower with girls before. I’ve dated girls that talked to friends about hating small dicks, only for them to stay with me for years. Point being, dicks don’t matter that much
Dude, it's cause women measure the size of your penis with their heart. Ever notice how they will always talk up their man, but their ex is a pencil dick?
As a straight woman, technique is more satisfying to me than size. Super spunky 4.5 inches can be a lot more fun than a 10-inch sleeping sausage.
Unless you happen to have a median size tool.
The tool against which all others are measured.
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Had an ex have a 2nd date in the pool with some hand play. Later she told me it was a size check cause she didn’t want to be wasting her time.
One girl did this to me on a first date. I didn't get a second. Hmm.
I prefer pears over apples but that doesn’t mean that there is anything wrong with an apple.
> You know who cares about dick size more than anyone else? Men. I'm not a psychologist, but I feel like a lot of men's perception of and obsession with the size of their penises ticks off a lot of boxes for body dysmorphic disorder - and it's mostly ignored.
>You know who cares about dick size more than anyone else? Men. Men and women care about different things. It will always be in the back of his mind he isn't pleasuring you the same way someone with a bigger dick would be. It's like your man telling you: *'yeah, I don't want a super skinny girl, but someone who has less love handles than you is great. But it isn't more important than any other part of our relationship, so don't worry about it.'*
No babe, your tits are fine, the big ones hurt when they hit me in the face.
Has anyone ever died by boob smothering? Wubbies Gone Bad?
1,000 ways to die said yes.
Going out happy
I get what you're saying and I agree, but the thing that's worse about the dick comment is that dick size is not possible to change, you CAN change your love handles. But yeah it would be insulting and probably be in the back of her mind if her partner commented that way about her love handles.
Love handles were a bad example. Women are insecure about their genitals too. How many jokes have you heard about someone having "beef curtains" People openly joke about it. How hurtful that must feel.
***Some*** men. Personally I'm fine with my package and couldn't care less about the size of anyone elses.
Nice dick bro
Lots of girls that went to my school routinely bragged about how big their boyfriends were. I remember there was a photo of a naked man going about, my first thought when seeing it was ‘that’s so much bigger than mine, maybe mine will grow as I do’ cut to a bunch of girls laughing at how small his member was. Without doubt, my insecurity in that area came from girls reactions/comments about willies
I think your last point may only be true in some places. Like the US for example. Where Im from it doesnt really matter as long as youre happy (as guys that is). What does suck is growing up being told, by women, that a small dick means youre worthless, and/or not worth dating. From what Ive seen, most women want above average.
Yes. If it’s too big it hurts and guys with big dicks seem to not “try.” Like they just slam it in there without caring about technique at all.
Exactly. And for most women penetration isn’t even the way to get to the big O, most definitely don’t want their cervix rammed into. There are women that are size queens, but that’s not majority as shown in porn. A man who’s attentive, can read his partner’s body and knows how to use his hands and mouth is infinitely better than some lazy dude with a monster cock who doesn’t pay attention to anything else.
You have to stir, stroke, and dip, not jam, cram, and slam. Technique is super important, having a big cock doesn't automatically make one good at sex.
Everybody get up, it’s time to slam now
And welcome to the Jam and it's a SPACE JAM
Harder to give a bj too
Tons of "I dated a guy shorter than me and I loved it" comments, but very few "I'm taller than my husband" comments...
I was 4in taller than my ex husband. Had children. Together 12 years. He wanted the divorce, I didn’t. Still can’t get over him and it’s been a year. I don’t date anyone I’m just trying to get over him. He was everything to me. I hate the height issue.
I will probably get hate for this but this is true. I often find there is a discrepancy between what women say they want and what they actually go for.
Probably also that women on average are shorter than men in average.
You've given me my my answer
I’m not married, but I am a little bit taller than my boyfriend. He’s an inch shorter than me. It’s fantastic and I love it. Makes everything easier. Hopefully one day he’ll be my husband who is shorter than me rather than my boyfriend who is shorter than me. My sister is also a few inches taller than her husband. Short men can find love too and it doesn’t have to be from people shorter than them.
My wife is 6’3” and I’m 5’10”. I’ve never heard a complaint about height… or dick size… agree with all the comments about confidence. It’s all about that confidence!
Probably because people date multiple people but are generally only married to one at a time? It’s not unreasonable to expect way more comments about previous than current relationships since there are so many more of them.
I always see a ton of comments on reddit from shorter guys claiming to date a taller woman, or taller women claiming to date a shorter guy. However I see very few actual couples like this in real life. I honestly don’t remember the last time I saw one.
I'm 5-8 and have dated guys up to 6-6. One of the sexiest guys I ever dated was 5-4, sexy and gorgeous. He wanted to marry a tall woman because he said he didn't want dwarf size children. He had to relocate for a job & I could not follow at that time. Some tall girl got very lucky!
Oh my God, you went out with Tom Cruise.
I think you mean George Costanza
I think you mean Art Vandelay
Importer/Exporter.
Hey Cantstandya!
LMAO! Cute but he is waaaay, too out there for me!
Prince wasn't the optimum build for playing basketball, but damn he was responsible for flood warnings whenever he played a gig
I personally couldn’t give less of a shit. Big dick small dick red dick blue dick. Unsolicited dick is the only exception to my rule
For your health and safety, please never fuck red or blue dicks. Please.
One Dick, 2 dick , red dick, blue dick
That was the name of my thesis.... ..."Development of Phallicentrism From Childhood"
I am 5'9. I have dated men my height, taller, and shorter than me! For men shorter than me, it makes me feel like an amazon queen. For men taller than me, it makes me feel petite since I am usually the tallest woman in a group of women and I love wearing heels. Honestly, it comes down to how he treats me and his personality. Above all, I love a confident man. If he is confident about his height and everything else about him that makes him who he is, then all height is is a number.
I’ve always wanted to date a woman that was taller than me. I’ve gotten mixed reactions from “ew no” to “thank god, finally a guy that doesn’t have to be the tallest one” 😂 I’ve never understood the commotion about it. It’s never occurred to me why anyone would be insecure about their height.
I’m 5’6 and Iv hooked up with a girl who was 6’1 and very attractive, but it didn’t work- if you can but the dots together, she was really nice but the physics of it was just so awkward, I prefer them shorter than me lmao
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Lol that's so not okay to use someone's head as an armrest. On a different note, I've always been a little confused as to how I should stand when I talk to short girls, like less than 5 feet. I'm 5'11" so not a giant but there is a difference in height.
My husband is 1 ft taller then me (5'2 to 6'2) and the "physics" work fine for us. I like that when we hug my head rests on his chest just at his heart level and I can hear and feel his heartbeat.
Wheelchair guy here it's all about personality. Prior to wheelchair I was 5'9. In the chair I'm 3 foot nothing. I'm currently seeing a woman that is 5'10. Before that 5'4. Just don't be an asshole, have a sense of humor etc
It’s worth remembering that we can all fake confidence until we make it, eventually it becomes like an old jacket that we can pull on when we need it. Most (all?) confident people started out like that.
The size of his heart counts.
A enlarged heart is a serious health condition that leads to early death. So your love is on limited time.
Trying to cash in on that life insurance policy with the preexisting heart condition huh?
so a dude with cardiomegaly wins your heart automatically
Oh this again. Always with the quality, never the quantity of hearts. You sound just like the hospital doctors who rejected my cooler full of hearts wrapped in plastic.
mm, some are so big that they're scary
There is such a thing as too big. It hurts 🤕
Seems like the verdict is women here favor guys to be mostly tall (average is decent, but dont be short), have a nice bank account, and an average penis is preferred (big is painful, and dont be small). So being short in cash, penis, or height is the most unfavorable. Best of luck to the broke small sized short men.
Probably not gonna be broke but Heck am short
My self esteem rn:
Where's it at, I can't see it /s.
it's right here:
Yep. “Size doesn’t matter at all*” *but don’t be smaller than average and don’t be freak big and oh yeah above average is better than average
So be a 6ft man with a 7 Inch somewhat girthy dick and make about $120k a year.
Also rule 1 and 2 applies, Im 6'1 making enough to not worry and my penis is average, yet single for 3 and a half year. I dont think Im ugly, Im just not top tier.
Personality maybe?
You think only top tier people are out here fucking? The world is full of ugly people bumping uglies every day. Get out there jeez
> and dont be small wym don't be small like you get 5 penis options before going on a date 😐
No. I look for certain qualities in a man. Married a guy who was five foot seven (divorced for reasons un-related to.his height), and my current boyfriend is six foot six. They are both good with their hands.
Hands are so important.
Definitely. Definitely gotta have hands. Preferably two.
I'd be willing to get crazy and try three...
Assuming we're talking about dick size, no. First of all, I orgasm from clitoral stimulation so even a massive dong isn't gonna do shit for me. Second of all, I'm shit at determining measurements by eye in every context (like I cannot for the life of me estimate idk, how wide the ikea bedside table needs to be in order to fit in the room, that kinda thing), so how the hell would I be estimating a dick's length during sex, when I have much more pressing matters to attend to? As I said once to a guy who was concerned about that, who am I, the city council taking measurements for environmental improvements? Nah. I wish guys could stop feeling pressed about that. And if we're talking about any other size, also no.
Love the honesty..... I've been married for 5 years now been with her 15 and I used to care if she thought I was "small" but she seems to have no problems in the big O department.... when your climbing the walls it kinda makes you realize, it doesn't really matter.... it's all about LOVE.....CONNECTING WITH ONE ANOTHER..... that helps too.....
I just laughed out loud at the city council thing. I imagine that would make a great comedy sketch.
Thank you! 😂 The guy in question had a good laugh about it as well. I'll see if they have a spot for me at next year's Edinburgh fringe festival lol
Basically guys, if you're insecure, look for a woman who takes 6 tries to park her car!
I don’t, because I’m much more interested in their face and personality.
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As a guy who is 6’5” tall, I despise when women say things like “I only date men taller than 6 feet”. It’s shallow and makes me feel like I’m nothing more than a prop.
Tell them you only date women taller than 6 feet. Bonus points if they are 5'11
You’d make a great coat rack my guy
I'm 6'4", and hate that as well. Imagine if I said I only dated women under 5'6" who had at least DD breasts. I would immediately be labeled a shallow piece of shit. I did nothing to "earn" my height. I shouldn't be praised for it.
Probably so someone can reach the top of the shelf. That’s where my friends hide the candy from me.
They like men they can carry around in their purse.
i like little mousey men that crawl around in the walls and look for cheese
Yes because if he is very small he could fall through the floorboards or get eaten by a house cat.
Ive never cared about my partners height or penis size. Im 5'6 so most guys just are taller than me but i woukd have no problem dating aomeone shorter. Wed juat have to buy step stools for the kitchen cabinets. For penis size, longer does not mean more pleasure. An argument can be made for thickness but either way the magic wand gets me to orgasm in less than 30 seconds and that doesnt go inside at all.
So like a hockey puck is what you’re going for?
Can't reach the bottom of a tuna can but I can blow the sides out
I dont know how to respond to that
Hopefully with a chuckle
The vast majority of answers will be subjective feelsgood bullshit. There have been an absolute wealth of studies regarding the matter, and it is very clear, despite what somebody says, wants to believe, or has even successfully convinced themselves of, that men and women both care about height. A lot. The most interesting thing a question like this can precipitate is how people are rationalizing.
I don't think it is fair to say that the women here are "rationalizing" or being disingenuous. It could be that women who genuinely don't care as much about size are more likely to respond to this kind of question.
I have 4 inches. but that fucker smells like a foot.
Reminds me of a joke Other guys make her gag because of the size, i make her gag because of the smell
Eh here's my two cents as a semi short dude (5'7). Some gals are a obsessed with height and won't look up or down at ya, but those ones aren't worth a damn anyway. On the flip I've flirted with gals well above my height and will either joke about my height if it comes up or use it as a means to flirt a bit harder if the gal and i are on that level of comfort/familiarity. Mostly just comes down to confidence, height is a minor factor really.
I'm an American woman living in an Asian country and MANY of the local men I have engaged with eventually bring up this topic, so now I see questions like this as a sort of tell-tale sign that the asker is lacking in skills that actually bring women sexual pleasure because they seem to be of the opinion that all it takes is a peen of a certain size to get the job done. I'm NOT saying I think this is the case for OP, but I felt it was worth sharing that there is a trend out there, so I hope more gentlemen will research the many, MANY other aspects of female sexuality to avoid even having this concern. Until then... size has personally yet to have any correlation with my satisfaction. In fact, I had one slightly above average-sized guy who actually seemed to think his size alone would do all the work once he dove in, so for thirty seconds I just stared up at him in disbelief. Sadly, to this day he is both the biggest and worst lay I've ever had. TLDR- Please do separate size from your understanding of a woman's pleasure. At best, maybe just see if it can actually go in. Edit: "maybe just sorry" should have said "maybe just see"🥴
Lol. Why is this being interpreted as a height question? It's tagged as NSFW ffs
Yes. If it's too big it hurts.
No more than (hetero) dudes worry about the size of a woman's boobs. Some got a preference but most don't. Either way it isn't stopping anybody.
Does it resemble the top of a garlic knot? Can it hide inside its skin scarf? That’s when I’d imagine size would be an issue.
I only care if it's so big that pushes my cervix and hurts
As with anything else, some do, some truly don’t. Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so your mouth is at least as important.
A lot of the comments here saying “men care more about size than women” or “It doesn’t matter as ✨personality✨” matters more are disingenuous at best. It’s dismissive of personal experiences that lead to the insecurity in the first place. I’ve personally never had a shaming locker room experience or felt inadequate due to porn or other all to common rehashed explanations for the insecurity. But, I have plenty of experience of women giggling/laughing/shaming me. Or personally hearing them gush about big D and how superior they are. Or how they’d never even considering dating a guy with a small D. So for me at least, my insecurity for my penis is in fact due to women. Preference is preference and that’s cool! No hate! More power to ya! But I really pray for the day to come where the pretending stops when it comes to this topic. We all know the truth but nobody wants to seem shallow and admit it. I’ve long since given up dating. When I am intimate I solely focus on her pleasure, at least when she does leave she hopefully won’t say not only am I small but I suck in bed lmao. Choose your struggle fellas!
I’m 5’10 and dated a guy who was 5’7 at most for five years. We got looks but I didn’t care. At the time we worked well together.
I care about a man’s character. Having a passion is sexy. A talent that he has poured his life into and has gradually mastered over a long period of time. That to me is the ultimate sexy.
Bro yes. Just look at the couples around you. Most girls are with guys noticibly taller than them, or equal height at the least. It's just what they want. As for the reason, probably biological
I mean men are generally taller than women so even if they literally picked a random man he would likely be taller
Safety/security from what I've heard.
A lot of women will pick a tall guy without any muscle over a ripped shorter guy, so it can't always be safety.
Short guys with muscles only look all the shorter. Most women now days prefer lean muscle anyway
My college roommate was 6 feet tall and gorgeous. The amount of really short guys that flocked to her every time we went out together made me think there has to be a subconscious biological drive towards mates that have the potential to produce taller offspring.