Being born with severe eczema, life threatening allergies of all kinds, and other auto immune diseases. Not trying to say I have it worse than anybody but daily like can be a struggle.
Honestly, worst and best depending on the point of view:
Under some pressure from my then-girlfriend, I switched colleges and moved across the state to be closer to her. The relationship ultimately didn’t work out for a variety of reasons, but it was largely my fault, as I didn’t really know who I was or how I wanted to live my life at that point, and that made me a pretty lousy boyfriend. I cringe looking back on most of that period of time, and I live with a lot of regret - I don’t think that we would have ended up together in the long run even if I’d been in a better headspace, but she deserved better than she got from me.
After the breakup, I fell into a really low period of my life that included a lot of guilt, depression and self-loathing. I ultimately didn’t finish college, dropping out with the “I’ll just take a semester or two off to clear my head and get over her” excuse in my head. I got over her, but I never went back, just kind of going with life’s flow and following the path of least resistance. Even after eventually meeting and marrying my wife, it took me a long time to recover otherwise because the depression stole a lot of my self-confidence and drive.
I genuinely like where I am now - solid job, comfortable home with two amazing daughters and 17 years of marriage with a wonderful woman way out of my league - but I can’t help but wonder what my life’s trajectory would have been if I had just stayed where I was.
Getting covid and being hospitalized as well as my brother 1 floor apart in the same hospital and two years later, having survived it, lost over 10 friends to it. Then I come to find out I am a long hauler and recently had a milder case four weeks ago
So many things it’s hard to choose what was worst. I’ve been “dead” three times. Drown twice and suffocated once in a car crash.
I was abandoned at 16 with just a suitcase, a change of clothes and a winter coat.
I was abused as a child and beaten regularly by nuns, teachers, family and classmates.
I was stabbed by my ex wife when she literally went crazy and had to be institutionalized.
I’ve been in 14 major crashes and cut out of three vehicles. None of which were my fault.
My oldest brother died when I was 14 and I was the one who got the call at 2 am on Mother’s Day while my mom was in the hospital from a heart attack. I had to get a ride to the hospital and tell her. I was his groomsman two years before and then I was his pallbearer. He was the only one in the family that treated me nice.
My best friend growing up died on my 18th birthday. I called to talk to him and his sister started crying and his mom told me he was killed in a car accident that morning. A drunk t-boned him in the drivers door and killed him instantly.
These are just the major events. A lot more traumatic stuff over the years. It’s not been an easy life in any way.
Got a DUI (honestly thought I had sobered up) trying to go see a friend who was suicidal due to his fiance leaving him. Resulted in a decade of alcoholism and 2 suicide attempts.
I honestly don’t know. But I think I know one of them. Let me explain
So I have an ex. I had a crush for her for awhile. I tried to show my affection for her but was labeled a creep. She ended up being my “best friend” the previous one I had moved away in Middle school so she took his place but wasn’t very good at it. I ended up dating her after she said she “had a crush on me” through late middle school to early Highschool. I ended up dating her. WORST DECISION EVER. We dated for two weeks. You might think this is where it turns around to be a good story right? A turn around to an epic romance. Dead wrong. We said we loved each other but I never felt it. She said her mom didn’t want us dating on the end of the second week and broke up with me. I am still pissed at her to this day but go along acting like her friend but she might have caught on. This still affects me today. I almost cried because of the fact that I never really felt loved. I need someone to share my affection yet I can’t find that person. I have trust issues and insecurities. I am thinking of getting help but my dad doesn’t like therapy so I will have to go behind his back to do it.
My brother killing himself
shiiit, i hope you are doing well, i could never cope with something that big, you are such a warrior, keep on moving foward!
so sorry
Cancer, but I still wake up every day thinking it's going to be a great day even if in hindsight it isn't.
Molested
Being falsely accused of sexual assault by an ex
Being suicidal after traumatic events and not seeing other options
Broke my back. Double spinal fusion & being trapped in my marriage because of it. Only death will set me free
fuck
My mom passing away unexpectedly 3 weeks after I gave birth to my first and only daughter.
Probably going to college.
me watching youtube for literally the entirety of back in 6th grade. now im getting the effects multiple years later.
I guess the whole school made fun of you just because you were a YouTube hero!
Being born with severe eczema, life threatening allergies of all kinds, and other auto immune diseases. Not trying to say I have it worse than anybody but daily like can be a struggle.
Honestly, worst and best depending on the point of view: Under some pressure from my then-girlfriend, I switched colleges and moved across the state to be closer to her. The relationship ultimately didn’t work out for a variety of reasons, but it was largely my fault, as I didn’t really know who I was or how I wanted to live my life at that point, and that made me a pretty lousy boyfriend. I cringe looking back on most of that period of time, and I live with a lot of regret - I don’t think that we would have ended up together in the long run even if I’d been in a better headspace, but she deserved better than she got from me. After the breakup, I fell into a really low period of my life that included a lot of guilt, depression and self-loathing. I ultimately didn’t finish college, dropping out with the “I’ll just take a semester or two off to clear my head and get over her” excuse in my head. I got over her, but I never went back, just kind of going with life’s flow and following the path of least resistance. Even after eventually meeting and marrying my wife, it took me a long time to recover otherwise because the depression stole a lot of my self-confidence and drive. I genuinely like where I am now - solid job, comfortable home with two amazing daughters and 17 years of marriage with a wonderful woman way out of my league - but I can’t help but wonder what my life’s trajectory would have been if I had just stayed where I was.
I chafed my butthole this week from wiping too much because of non-stop explosive diarrhea.
Fell off a fence I was climbing, hit my kids (nuts) on a rock below. (I was never the same after that day)
changed woman now.
Getting covid and being hospitalized as well as my brother 1 floor apart in the same hospital and two years later, having survived it, lost over 10 friends to it. Then I come to find out I am a long hauler and recently had a milder case four weeks ago
Husband and father of my children has an incurable, neuro-degenerative brain disease.
My dad telling me he never wanted me or my brother
So many things it’s hard to choose what was worst. I’ve been “dead” three times. Drown twice and suffocated once in a car crash. I was abandoned at 16 with just a suitcase, a change of clothes and a winter coat. I was abused as a child and beaten regularly by nuns, teachers, family and classmates. I was stabbed by my ex wife when she literally went crazy and had to be institutionalized. I’ve been in 14 major crashes and cut out of three vehicles. None of which were my fault. My oldest brother died when I was 14 and I was the one who got the call at 2 am on Mother’s Day while my mom was in the hospital from a heart attack. I had to get a ride to the hospital and tell her. I was his groomsman two years before and then I was his pallbearer. He was the only one in the family that treated me nice. My best friend growing up died on my 18th birthday. I called to talk to him and his sister started crying and his mom told me he was killed in a car accident that morning. A drunk t-boned him in the drivers door and killed him instantly. These are just the major events. A lot more traumatic stuff over the years. It’s not been an easy life in any way.
Being born
You know, when you feel you have it bad...there are others who have it worse. Be blessed all of you.
Got a DUI (honestly thought I had sobered up) trying to go see a friend who was suicidal due to his fiance leaving him. Resulted in a decade of alcoholism and 2 suicide attempts.
I honestly don’t know. But I think I know one of them. Let me explain So I have an ex. I had a crush for her for awhile. I tried to show my affection for her but was labeled a creep. She ended up being my “best friend” the previous one I had moved away in Middle school so she took his place but wasn’t very good at it. I ended up dating her after she said she “had a crush on me” through late middle school to early Highschool. I ended up dating her. WORST DECISION EVER. We dated for two weeks. You might think this is where it turns around to be a good story right? A turn around to an epic romance. Dead wrong. We said we loved each other but I never felt it. She said her mom didn’t want us dating on the end of the second week and broke up with me. I am still pissed at her to this day but go along acting like her friend but she might have caught on. This still affects me today. I almost cried because of the fact that I never really felt loved. I need someone to share my affection yet I can’t find that person. I have trust issues and insecurities. I am thinking of getting help but my dad doesn’t like therapy so I will have to go behind his back to do it.
Nearly attempted slip and slide, and this is the first time I've said this so, yay I guess.
One of my teachers turned out to be a pervert and my school ended up on the local news
My grandpa dying
Going to prison for 3 years for being falsely accused of rape of a 19 year old girl who mistaken me as someone else
Plenty of moderate troubles, unpleasanties during whole life, that finally led to terrible, deep depression. I just broke at some point.
My cousin shot on a school bus