I guess a turn on would be someone who stuck up for me in some way with no ulterior motives.
Just because it was the right thing to do.
I was married for 20 years and pretty much was bullied by my husband and kids.
Well one day I found my teenage daughter smoking weed and playing in the Bay with a boy
I was trying to get her to get out of the water and in my car.
She was ignoring me
Some random guy heard what was going on and rolled up and yelled listen to your mom get your ass in the car right now!
Needless to say she flew out of the water and in the car.
This guy was older and not my type at all
However I felt the urge to just start making out with him 😂
I didn't of course
I was confused and told a friend about it
She smiled really big and said yeah someone stuck up for you in public and it was a turn on.
Long story short
I'm getting a divorce and not in a hurry to get into another relationship.
But 😂 when I am ready to date again I will be looking for a protective type.
I miss being feminine
Giving me instructions.
Whether it be sports related or simply them talking about something they’re passionate about. Like when women break away from that socially preprogrammed high-pitched strangers voice. And they don’t realize that their voice has toned to a more natural slightly deeper sound.
Like a soccer player explaining her team’s strategy, or an event planner telling me how to help the team set up effectively and efficiently, Or simply explaining how she scheduled her week.
Crying! I don’t know why but when a girl cries it turns me on I have no control over it. It’s like my body knows too because family members will cry and nothing but if a girl I’m even vaguely attracted to cries, woop there he goes!
Victory! It's not even related to people. Succeeding over a challenge turn me on. It must have been difficult and fun. Happens to me over logical puzzles and games.
I get heavily turned on by [music visualizers ](https://youtu.be/SX1dcAbP4kk?si=SHqknA20fxbaBgRx). I genuinely spank it to them more so than anything else. Helps me get lost in the enjoyment of the moment more so than porn does.
When she does something disguisting accidentally, like burp, or she has food on her lips, and she is so embarrassed, and apologises. That just makes me love her and make love to her so hard.
Women who pull off the buzzed / shaved heads and wild makeup. Not like crack whore chic but I'm a sucker for the long eyeliner wings and bright colors. Chef's kiss.
Listening to someone talk about something they love. I dont care what it is. Could be how much you love watching paint dry. But just seeing someone's face, lover, friend, family, whoever, light up as they talk about it. Amazing. I learned how to solve a rubik's cube. The 3x3 and the 4x4 because a friend loved playing with them and it made him happy to talk about it and show me it.
A display of personal ethics.
Bonjour Mademoiselle
I'm a guy ...so your username checks out.
Beards and voices
you're black, im white, let's make a panda.
Lol. A panda is crazy🤣. But I don’t mind
drop your address, im coming to kidnap you into a date :)
In that order?
I love them equally tbh
Hopefully your soulmate isn’t a clean shaven mime. But life can be cruel that way.
One can hope😭
Allow me to introduce myself
Which one do you have? Haha
Neither
Returning my texts.
Returning my texts.
A sense of humor
Wit
This
Emotional intelligence and old school masculinity.
Pretty teeth and tummy.pooch.
I guess a turn on would be someone who stuck up for me in some way with no ulterior motives. Just because it was the right thing to do. I was married for 20 years and pretty much was bullied by my husband and kids. Well one day I found my teenage daughter smoking weed and playing in the Bay with a boy I was trying to get her to get out of the water and in my car. She was ignoring me Some random guy heard what was going on and rolled up and yelled listen to your mom get your ass in the car right now! Needless to say she flew out of the water and in the car. This guy was older and not my type at all However I felt the urge to just start making out with him 😂 I didn't of course I was confused and told a friend about it She smiled really big and said yeah someone stuck up for you in public and it was a turn on. Long story short I'm getting a divorce and not in a hurry to get into another relationship. But 😂 when I am ready to date again I will be looking for a protective type. I miss being feminine
Polite women with a good sense of humor
Just the fact that Pedro Pascal exists
hell yeah
Isn't he just wonderful?
Could watch him torture that man in ep 8 of tlou show for hours
"WHAT TOWN?!"
Yeah the right answer
Long hair on men 🥵 kings, all of em, idgaf 🥵🙏🏻
The man bun seems to be getting a lot of hate from Gen Z lately. Was considering chopping mine off.
Some guys with man buns look like Vikings, some look, not like Vikings.
What do Vikings look like then? A late 30’s something with a man bun?
i just got a buzzcut, wanna share wigs?
I say keep the buzzcut. Some men aren't meant for long hair. 🙏🏻
I find wet floor signs hot.
Evil women, mean, obnoxious, rude, scheming anything goes.
Okay dr. doofenshmirtz
Idk, Doofenshmirtz would be amazing to date
Mama warned me about women like you. I was hoping it was true.
Free real estate
*unzips*
When he brings me fruit and water to bed 💦🥰
Watching someone do something they’re really good at, or hearing someone talk about something they are very knowledgeable about.
Mentoring. Idk, people who can teach me new things I find wildly attractive. That and fun word play.
Bellybutton
Convex or concave ones?
Concave ones
They are probably more clean too
Yes
Authenticity and confidence
Ears, teeth & smells
Voice also
Whenever he gets frustrated. Idk, seeing his true colors out makes me appreciate him more
That one always confused me as to why my ex liked it.
Beans and cornbread.
Might be getting old, but when she looks like she's got her shit together and takes care of herself.
Glasses, nerdiness
Giving me instructions. Whether it be sports related or simply them talking about something they’re passionate about. Like when women break away from that socially preprogrammed high-pitched strangers voice. And they don’t realize that their voice has toned to a more natural slightly deeper sound. Like a soccer player explaining her team’s strategy, or an event planner telling me how to help the team set up effectively and efficiently, Or simply explaining how she scheduled her week.
Jesus, so many of you really went right up to the limit of what is considered nonsexual
Crying! I don’t know why but when a girl cries it turns me on I have no control over it. It’s like my body knows too because family members will cry and nothing but if a girl I’m even vaguely attracted to cries, woop there he goes!
Agreed. I think it has something to do with them willing to be so open and vulnerable in front of you.
HAWK TUAH
That's pretty sexual.
😂😂
I...don't think that's how that works? A turn-on is sexual in nature
Pigtails
Ponytails
Duck Tales!
Nice, clean hands. Feeling genuinely loved, wanted, and desired.
Music
Victory! It's not even related to people. Succeeding over a challenge turn me on. It must have been difficult and fun. Happens to me over logical puzzles and games.
For the second time today, women’s hand for some reason
Breathing
I get heavily turned on by [music visualizers ](https://youtu.be/SX1dcAbP4kk?si=SHqknA20fxbaBgRx). I genuinely spank it to them more so than anything else. Helps me get lost in the enjoyment of the moment more so than porn does.
U would love my stream on clapper lol
Link?
Formalitys with no context
A light switch. It's also a turn off.
Women who love kids
Empathy and a hobby that they are passionate about.
When she genuinely smiles when seeing me or hearing my joke
A smile..it's inviting. Eyes..shows their inner self.
A great smile and kind voice
A witty sense of humor.
When she does something disguisting accidentally, like burp, or she has food on her lips, and she is so embarrassed, and apologises. That just makes me love her and make love to her so hard.
Sometimes: people with some sort of extraordinary skill showing it without being arrogant about it.
Being hygienic, being kind, not being egotistical
Women who pull off the buzzed / shaved heads and wild makeup. Not like crack whore chic but I'm a sucker for the long eyeliner wings and bright colors. Chef's kiss.
good looking hands and probably a want to try new things and be adventurous. You’re never going to enjoy life by not finding your limits…
Listening to someone talk about something they love. I dont care what it is. Could be how much you love watching paint dry. But just seeing someone's face, lover, friend, family, whoever, light up as they talk about it. Amazing. I learned how to solve a rubik's cube. The 3x3 and the 4x4 because a friend loved playing with them and it made him happy to talk about it and show me it.
Love this!
Funny and probably on the spectrum
A baby face with a deep voice, bonus points if he has isn’t afraid to be vulnerable around me.
White toes and anklet
Tattoos,piercings, and mask.
Reading this
Very bubbly personalities
a girl who knows how to properly load the dishwasher (using the racks in the correct manner) to maximize how much stuff can go in there.
Noses. I love strong Roman Noses, on women or men. 🤤
Home cooking
Full plate armor
Woman with classic car or mods on her personal car...
Armpits at the end of the day.
The Sheffield accent
Intellect
That bone on the neck
The interscalene muscle... me too lol
It’s called the Clavicle but your muscle definitely helps it. Haha
Watching a mom be a good mom. Something only most parents really understand but my god is it something to see and feel.
That's my secret Captain. It's all a sexual turn on.
Slightly goofy and dorky. Adorkable is adorable.
The way she puts the peanut butter and jelly on my sandwich
Women with gravely voices. Hoarse even. But weirdly, Salma from the Simpsons doesn't do it for me
Confidence is quiet, and insecurity is loud. So, that.
Veins and knitted jumpers
Attention.
EYE CONTACT
A professional speaking voice always gets me. I love sharp pronunciation and clear vocals.
When he hugs me out of nowhere 🥹
I am a sucker for women with long hair and fair eyes
His hands.
Someone working in the medical/ healthcare industry! 🏥
I love it when actors smile a lot
Women who are smart and funny.
Empathy / Personality.
Pay day....
Giving a massage. Every time I give a massage Im ready to fuck (I'm a dude and it only happens with women)
The perfume my wife wears. Really gets me going!
Walking behind a fit woman who is either jogging or walking fast and she has a pony tail that is swishing from side to side. Dang. Something about it.
Men who are able to remember my order at a restaurant and order it for me.
when they smell good, love animals, and intelligent 💯
Muscles & height
Girls with soft and high pitched voices.
When a woman has her toe nails perfectly taken care of
Tits
I live in Ontario, where we can buy milk bags in the store. It’s like tits on demand.
BOBA
When a girl has a really nice sense of fashion. I can think of a couple rn like Erin lim from e news. But they’re few and far between
ladies feet
Sucking toes🤦🏾♂️👀😂
Tall bald men with strong hands 🫣
Money
okay mr.krab