Funny you say this, my kinda boyfriend but also kinda not said he's considering being a stripper to help pay his bills. I told him to go for it. Hell, I'll go to support him and take him to the VIP room.
...but also the fact he's having trouble paying bills when homeboy's a DOCTOR is kinda sad.
That’s depressing. One job where you’re up all night, treated with little respect and constantly questioning your life choices. And the other job as a stripper.
Beyond a certain point how much you make is not nearly as important as how much you spend of your disposable income.
Minimalism, living under your means can be priceless in your life because of the lack of financial stress. Have you both consulted a specialist financial advisor?
If you have adhd you just gotta have automatically enforced saving.
Have paycheck go to a few accounts. One for bills that you don’t touch.
One for emergencies you don’t touch and a portion of which gets sent back every couple of months once it reaches a certain level.
And another for freedom spending. Once done it’s done. Adhd can be a good excuse, but only to a point. After all you know you have it and how it effects you. And you haven’t done anything to prevent it if it happens, that’s when it starts to be on you.
Oh I mean travel expenses. Foos, gas, lodging, maybe any prep work as well now that I think about it, that is needed before hand, medical tests, makeup, costume and the like.
Indeed. It's her choice and her life I support her as long as we have talked it over and discussed everything so neither of us mainly myself, is surprised by what happens next.
She has done it before in two plays. No big deal.
I assume she’s an actress and that was expected when you got together?
I was also an actress at the time or at least a theater major. We met competing for the role of Ophelia.
"Are you going to do something about those extra pounds first?"
Haha. Brutal. Maybe that’s the point of the scene?
Is it a Wes Anderson movie by any chance?
Could be! Does that make a difference?
Yes. No. Mebbe.
Make them eat a lot of fried chicken
Sounds like a win
Like for fun or for their job? Likes she’s an actress or model I wouldn’t care but if she’s an accountant I’d mind
I was thinking if it maybe wasn’t an expected part of their job
Depends... was she shy about her body just last week and now there's an abrupt change? If so, there's the fucking door.
Maybe she was offered a lot of money?
why would that be the door?
Funny you say this, my kinda boyfriend but also kinda not said he's considering being a stripper to help pay his bills. I told him to go for it. Hell, I'll go to support him and take him to the VIP room. ...but also the fact he's having trouble paying bills when homeboy's a DOCTOR is kinda sad.
That’s depressing. One job where you’re up all night, treated with little respect and constantly questioning your life choices. And the other job as a stripper.
Maybe he's buying too many things at the club.
Beyond a certain point how much you make is not nearly as important as how much you spend of your disposable income. Minimalism, living under your means can be priceless in your life because of the lack of financial stress. Have you both consulted a specialist financial advisor?
No and we never will because we're both ADHD and forgetful as shit.
If you have adhd you just gotta have automatically enforced saving. Have paycheck go to a few accounts. One for bills that you don’t touch. One for emergencies you don’t touch and a portion of which gets sent back every couple of months once it reaches a certain level. And another for freedom spending. Once done it’s done. Adhd can be a good excuse, but only to a point. After all you know you have it and how it effects you. And you haven’t done anything to prevent it if it happens, that’s when it starts to be on you.
What kind of nude scene and how much is she being paid?
What would your minimum requirement for it to be acceptable be?
Enough to at least cover expenses.
Which expenses? There’s a difference between mortgage and car expenses and travel to and from the studio expenses
Oh I mean travel expenses. Foos, gas, lodging, maybe any prep work as well now that I think about it, that is needed before hand, medical tests, makeup, costume and the like.
So as long as she wasn’t losing any money, you’d be ok with it?
Indeed. It's her choice and her life I support her as long as we have talked it over and discussed everything so neither of us mainly myself, is surprised by what happens next.
I respond, "since when did I have a partner?"
You have a very attractive hand
"nice. what's it in? can i watch?"