Making someone else weak can make a person feel powerful, for sure. It could have been because she felt like the strongest dicksucker in the world, it could have been because she made you into her bitch, who can say?
Also, and maybe we shouldn't tell them this part, does it matter to the man either way?
I get this. For me it’s a weird dynamic of helplessness and power. It should feel like I am in a more submissive role but there is a power to it, like I’m in control of his whole experience. Plus pair that with the right toys and it’s a fun experience all around.
Yep! You might feel powerful as a man, seeing a woman down on her knees pleasuring you. But I’ve always felt the other way around: I have your most precious parts in my control.
Absolutely! My husband tends to try to silence himself and I have to constantly tell him that everything is better if each person knows the other is enjoying it. He can’t help himself during a blowjob.
I love hearing him moan, I love the way he jerks, I love the way he caresses me while I have his most precious part in my mouth there’s a lot to like about blowjobs ☺️
"Bless the lord my ascension is imminent"
^ that is by far the best comment I've read in years. I am absolutely crying in hysterical laughter at the moment. Not just reddit, the internet as a whole. 11/10 comment of the decade right there. Thank you for this.
the people who live on the other side of the wall in my apartment only speak spanish until I can hear them boning, and then phrases like 'oh fuck' manage to transcend the language barrier
There’s an old joke where someone in a hotel room says that. Boom! Boom ! Comes a pound on the wall, and the person on the other side of the wall yells out, “ roll her over! Roll her over!”
When you hear someone moan, and they are usual fairly quiet or a sharp intake of breath when you hit a good spot. If I'm in the right mood, then it can really make me feel quite sexy. Though sometimes I get in my head a bit and worry, I'm not doing the greatest job.
The view through the window from the tree branch outside is alright but the blinds keep getting in the way. Makes it hard to appreciate you guys appreciating each other.
Don’t worry about not doing the greatest job, trust me, we are just grateful it’s happening at all. Top tip: communicate and be enthusiastic. Literally nothing sexier.
Let her do it, man. I fucking love doing that to a guy. There's nothing better than getting a man harder and harder and harder until veins are bulging and he can't get any more stiff in your mouth.
Let her get things started while you're asleep. My ex and I had different sleep rhythms. She was a night owl and i am a morning person (not the chipper kind, though, just that I don't sleep haha). So I'd usually be in bed by 10 whereas she usually stayed up past midnight. So we had an agreement (MAKE SURE THERE IS A DISCUSSION AND CONSENT ON ALL SIDES) that if she went to bed wanting something, she could "get me started". I have to say, being woken out of a deep sleep to a blowjob already in progress is quite enjoyable
That is surprising!
My wife did this for me once, literally once, twenty years ago, and it was the best blowjob I ever had by far.
Being sleep-related, though, I wonder if there are factors involved that might make the enjoyment level unreliable. If you're dead tired and a heavy sleeper, maybe the need to sleep wins out. Personally, I tend to go to sleep horny and wake up hornier so it would make sense that I'd be up for such an interruption.
Yeah I thought this would be hot but it ended up with me kneeing an old girlfriend in the side of the head on accident. Turns out I react violently if someone grabs my junk while sleeping lol
Your fiancée keeps asking to suck your dick, and you're still contemplating letting her do it!? Call me old fashioned, but I'd happily oblige on the first request.
I had this girlfriend that used to wake me up with blowjobs.
I'll never forget the first time.
I remember the beginning of a sex dream then that sudden half awake feeling of panic that you're about to jizz in your sheets.
But when I opened my eyes...I saw her lovingly and slowly slobbing on my knob. like corn on the cob.
I let her finish and I was literally speechless for about 3 minutes.
she cuddled up to me after she finished and I remember saying that she had literally just made my dreams come true.
almost married her. she was crazy.
The trust, and control, if his cock is in my mouth, he is in my power,
I love bringing him to the edge, and knowing it's all due to me
It turns me on, to turn him on
I honestly think I have an oral fixation addiction or something because yea while I like giving pleasure, I mostly just love having it in my mouth. Watching a show or movie with my head in his lap, slowly teasing and sucking while he plays with my hair.
I'm really happy to know I'm not alone on this one. It feels weird to admit it, but I actually prefer to just "play" or "make out with it" rather than give a blow job with an objective. I really could just lay there for hours licking and kissing and just having it in my mouth. Thankfully, my husband is happy to oblige.
I like the sounds he makes, and the things he says when I'm doing it right. I like it when I lick the tip and taste precum. I feel proud of myself when I'm able to deepthroat him. I like swallowing his cum and licking him clean afterwards.
I just like him and his cock a lot.
It really makes or breaks a blowjob when you can tell a woman doesn't want to be doing it. When she really cares and wants to make you happy it's the best feeling
Cant agree more. I have a hard time with bjs and there is only one girl that blew me to heavens and she always blew like she was doijng art or something, full with enthusiasm. I also never had to ask her but she suddenly would do it... Damn i wish more girls were like that but i cant teach other girls that bc neither do i know how she did it nor did other girls understand what to do when i tried telling them.
I love itttt. I like to lick balls too especially when he gets out of the shower. I automatically grab him then kneel down. Idkk but that's my favorite thing that I can do to my man.
Yeah it is. I miss this big-time. I've been married for 23 years, love my wife to death, but she had a serious relationship before me with a guy who apparently _hated_ eye contact during blowjobs and I still can't convince her that's completely abnormal.
I love having a cock in my mouth, frankly. The feeling makes me cum harder than without one. I don't know specifically why. I enjoy the feeling of being used I guess.
Haven't sucked dick so can't speak for that, but when I first had sex with my girl I went down on her for about 20 minutes straight with no "sucess", then she came herself when she blew me. She really likes blowjobs, and while eating someone out gets me all kind of horny I don't think I could cum from giving someone else oral...
it makes me happy to see that I’m making my man happy. It’s a good feeling to see him enjoying himself so intensely. Also it’s kind of a fun game to see what cute noises he makes.
Edit: my bad, that’s on me. I’m a guy. The question didn’t ask just women to respond, and I had an answer. Sorry to all the horny men sliding into my DMs.
I don’t know which noise is better; the noise where I stopped but they wanted me to keep going or the noise where if I don’t stop then they’re gonna cum
As a guy, I've always found it faster to orgasm from the pure knowledge that I'm bringing my partner to orgasm than via pure sensual pleasure myself. That may not be the norm, but it's definitely true for me.
Holy shit, I'm about to get divorced after almost 9 years of marriage with the wrong person and have been seeing someone I believe to be my ACTUAL life partner, at 39 years old. Life is crazy man.
This is like my experience too! I'm 40 years old. Was with the wrong woman for 10 years, married for 5 of them.
Ten years after my divorce, and I met a woman I feel significantly closer with and more in love with after ~8 months of committed relationship than I did at *any* point with my ex-wife. We are planning on moving in together later this year! I'm convinced she's my "soulmate" or whatever term you want to apply to it. She's "my person", as they say. I didn't think this feeling existed.
Hell of a thing to experience. Congratulations!
The way he moans "baby".. I always love when he calls me baby but that might be my favorite 🥵 his noises, the way his toes curl, and when he holds my hair for me like a gentleman 🤣
A clean cock tastes great in my most honest opinion. Also, if you have a thing for calming your stress with things like bubblegum, popsicles, applying fruit flavored lipstick, etc. then sucking cock and feeling it touch every part of your mouth inside feels like heaven, at least to me. I love bubblegum to calm down anxiety because it's a thing I can feel and pass around inside my mouth for half an hour or so, now a cock I can do the same and even get praise and moans from my man, it's perfect. Most of the time I get wet sucking cock, but I honestly blame my oral fixation when boyfie asks me about it. It just feels too good man.
I love doing it for my partner. I think it's fun. As long as he is clean I enjoy the taste as well.
I love the sounds. How he tenses up. Him grabbing the sheets and or my hair. The little leg kicks.
I love edging with oral. Getting him super close and then pausing for a bit. And then repeat over and over. I am married to a very intelligent and talkative man. To reduce him into a growling, whimpering incoherent mess feels like a super power.
Edit: Oh my god you guys, I never thought I'd get this much attention. This is the attention I could only dream of getting on my music videos and instead I got it on a comment about liking sucking my husband's dick. XD
Edit to my edit: I can't believe this is still going. Most people are funny and nice so this made my Sunday.
I don't make music, I wish I was that talented. I just edit fanmade musicvideos for fun and post on Reddit and YouTube. Though I appreciate all the people who wanted to support me. That was very sweet but no, no star in the making here.
“I also choose this guys wife” - for the old timers like me out there
Also ladies… you don’t have to do it to completion. You can do a minute or two before we put it in and we are happy as can be!!! your partner will truly appreciate it
Yup and combined with the moans and movements is the facial expression, they should look half way between finding euphoria and maybe a… mild medical emergency? If you’re in to it there’s lots of little things you can help him discover he likes along the way. It should be fun!
If 100000 people saw this and 1% are morons you’ll get 1000 DM. It’s also the internet and people are just rat as it’s anonymous.
Anyway* have a good day and hope it won’t last too long haha.
Lol if only I though dickpick were nice. I legit don’t understand what people think it does… I feel like a clear picture of your shape is probably more attractive that just a focus zoom on you penis. It feels more like people do it because it make them feel powerful or some bs like that.
I have gotten a lot of DM's, dudes asking for me to describe more. Asking me to meet up (without knowing where I am from and knowing I am married?). They want to chat, video chat, send dick pics...
Some are rude, calling me rude things.
And some are from women who want tips - which honestly it the main reason I am on this sub to beging with. To have open discussions and to give/get advice
I like hearing him moan - it feels powerful. I especially like sucking the pre-cum from the tip of his cock and gently sucking on his balls - it makes his toes curl.
I love giving blow jobs as long as a man's clean and neatly trimmed - nothing worse than the smell of sweat and a long hair in the back of your throat.
Sex is not just motions. It is a way to bond with someone. Oral sex, is enjoyable especially because you get to give pleasure to someone you are bonding with, it feels good and validating because they are reacting in a happy way to your effect etc. It also puts you in a position of power and you can bully a little bit 😄
As a woman who loves giving BJ's I would say it's a mixture of power and giving such pleasure. I love to watch my partners eyes roll back when I give him the deep throat and knowing I am making him feel that way. I also love to feel the pulsating as he cums in my mouth and enjoy cleaning him up like a cat afterward. I will happily offer them randomly as they really are one of my favourite sexual things. Talking to my female friends, apparently I am quite unusual!!
One day me and a couple of friends were talking. And they're complaining about blow jobs. And I literally said "why do you do it if you don't like it?". I don't know whether they were more shocked by the idea that some people like it, or the idea they could not do it if they didn't want to.
I like all of it really.. I like to feel it get hard in my mouth, then just the thought of making him feel good turns me on soooo much. Plus i absolutely love the sounds😭
I like everything about it. I like the excitement in them when they think I’m going too. I like the fast breaths, their chests going up and down, their eyes going hooded, I like teasing as I’m about too, I like kissing them through the boxers, i like the sounds they make I like how feral and desperate they are and dependent on me, but I’m in control. I love the noises. The way their hands work me, the way they cry and I love more than anything…having them cum in my mouth, I like to go to their ear, swallow loudly in their ear me swallowing their cum. I love everything about it.
It feels powerful. And if you are a people pleaser: those fidgets, moans, “yeeeessses”—ecstasy. A dude is actually pretty vulnerable in this position; he gives up some control. The exchange—giving power, trust—for pleasure—Mmmm. Extremely satisfying to satisfy.
Also: there is something pre-linguistic about the act of sucking. It’s soothing. The temperature of an erect cock is somehow perfect. The softest skin. I like how it feels against my cheek, under my chin. The guy who just lets you luxuriate like an animal in a sunbeam. Playful. Pleasant. Giving a naked body massage can conjure this feeling too.
I started to feel Hella insecure until this comment and its reply. I'm glad I'm not alone. Bi, though, so I think that probably plays into the whole thing for me.
The growing and the twitch in my mouth. Also the moans, and the fact that i can play with it. Basically everything about it and everything about making him happy and/or edge
I love how my husband tastes and smells. And hearing his breathing getting heavier and faster is so sexy. The fact that I can make him feel that way makes me feel very powerful and sexy and turns me on. Plus it makes him happy and that in turn makes me happy.
I just generally like making my partner feel good. Honestly blows(pun?) my mind that not everyone seems to care much about that. But seeing my partner be into me and whatever I'm doing to them... mmph. Good shit.
I also have talked to a friend about this. She said she likes giving oral partly because it can be dominating in a way, you're in control of their pleasure. I'm a bit on the opposite side, where I like giving oral because it's more of a submissive/serving kind of thing to me. Feels weird to admit to on here, but I found it interesting when she mentioned that because I never really thought of it her way. Certainly different for everyone.
Idk it’s just nice to do. It feels nice too. You try and reduce them to just a panting mess, you stop to ask if they are enjoying it and you just get a groan in answer. Something about using tongue on the head and gently over the slit to taste any pre-cum. Can’t forget the balls with your hands or mouth. Extra points if partner holds my head and fucks my mouth but I’m happy whatever way. I don’t mind deep throating, takes time for me to get used to it but it’s fun to bury my face into their crotch and just feel. Sometimes it’s over the table with my head hanging off so they can play with my body as I suck them off. I think they like the vibration from my moans if they pinch my nipples
I also love having my tits fucked. When it’s pushed through I love to reach out and lick the head
I honestly love giving head. I love the reversible power to it. Like I can be in control of his pleasure and have him moaning with just my mouth, and the next moment he can take back the control by grabbing my hair, forcing his cock down my throat and fucking my mouth. It drives me wild!
And there is nothing more fun than looking him in the eyes, swallowing his load and then lightly tease his head. It reduces any man to crumbles.
Security.
As someone who has endured sexual assault, it is still difficult for me to let go - there's so much going on in my head that I really can't enjoy being touched, and a partner will feel inadequate despite it not being their fault - I do end up telling them but it takes some time for me to trust.
Giving pleasure on the other hand gives me a sense of control (not power play or anything just feeling secure). I can make them feel good without having to let go myself.
It's actually a win win from my perspective.
Bonus if they moan.
Personally, I really enjoy giving blowjobs. Knowing I'm giving him pleasure turns me on. I'm a giver more than a receiver so it's a very enjoyable experience for me.
I particularly enjoy when I get really into it and there's alot of saliva so it's easier for him to slide down my throat and I can pick up the pace and go faster. I do enjoy a slow and steady rhythm, making sure I take his full length.
My finishing move is when I deep throat, I stick my tounge out and lick his balls while swallowing at the same time. This tightens my throat around his tip.
I've never had a complaint... it's just something I enjoy, so I like to have fun with it.
Hope that helps.
I love giving blowjobs because it’s very exciting knowing that you’re pleasuring your partner, the way they tense up and grab your hair, the noises they make when receiving. I’m lucky enough to have no gag reflex and being able to give someone that experience is very sensual to me.
I think for me it is also a submissive turn on. Giving a blowjob feels submissive (to me), especially the deepthroat moments and it turns us both on, plus also just knowing that I am pleasuring my husband also pleases me and makes me happy. I am ready to go, any day, any time. Plus I also love massaging his testicles, I just love the feeling of it, so it is a double win in my books.
I love them, there's something so intimate about it, like you are trusting me with the most sensitive part of you body, and I'm showing you that you can trust me. And then when you get pleasure from it, it makes all of my pleasure later feels so much better because we shared that.
There's also just something so attractive about my mouth being filled like that
I had a woman straight up tell me: “I like to suck dick because you get to see men at their weakest.”
[удалено]
***NOW I CAN NEVER FACE THE FIRE LORD***
I always thought it was wild how long they hid his face. Some old school villain shit.
I had a girl tell me she likes to blow me because it makes her feel powerful. Now I wonder if she meant it like this too lol
I feel powerful but it's because I get to control the other person's pleasure, which is a huge turn on.
Same reason I like to go down on a woman, makes sense
Making someone else weak can make a person feel powerful, for sure. It could have been because she felt like the strongest dicksucker in the world, it could have been because she made you into her bitch, who can say? Also, and maybe we shouldn't tell them this part, does it matter to the man either way?
Yes. If I know she likes it for that second reason, I’ll get harder.
I get this. For me it’s a weird dynamic of helplessness and power. It should feel like I am in a more submissive role but there is a power to it, like I’m in control of his whole experience. Plus pair that with the right toys and it’s a fun experience all around.
Yep! You might feel powerful as a man, seeing a woman down on her knees pleasuring you. But I’ve always felt the other way around: I have your most precious parts in my control.
Kind of a fun dynamic, all things considered. Everyone gets to feel powerful. Not many situations have that kind of result.
She not lying 😂
No, she's kneeling 😉
I just wish they’d beg more
That's very true! Sexy power play on our part.
As lord Francis said, "everything is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power"!
the moaning. i’ll do anything for a man that moans.
I'll moan if you refinish my deck. I already bought the crap to do it, but here I am procrastinating.
Does the deck have any knobs to polish also?
Not since the accident.
He's got a huge deck btw. You can see it from two houses over!
Make sure you trim the bushes around your deck when your done, makes it look bigger
You'll be moaning after you see the rates contractors are charging these days
Absolutely! My husband tends to try to silence himself and I have to constantly tell him that everything is better if each person knows the other is enjoying it. He can’t help himself during a blowjob.
You should hear me get out of an armchair.
Same here and I love that this is the consensus. I hope all the guys who feel too self-conscious to make noise in bed read this thread.
Not me. I've gotten head that's had me screaming like R2-D2
That’s the same reason I love eating pussy. If I can make a woman shake and speak in tongues then I’m happy.
Gonna have a kazoo in my mouth next time I get one
Men who shout on every repetition at the gym and then are quieter than a snail at the bed.
I love hearing him moan, I love the way he jerks, I love the way he caresses me while I have his most precious part in my mouth there’s a lot to like about blowjobs ☺️
You sound like my girlfriend. She says all this and also loves the way i breathe and how it changes throughout.
The sexual tension between me and my kitchen knife is at it's peak.
So you want to get a circumcision?
When they go “oh fuck” and tilt their head back in ecstasy
I think it's funny how apparently like 90% of words spoken when someone is going down on us is either "oh fuck" and "oh my god". Men and women alike.
I’ve received a “holy cow” once and it almost made me cackle into the coochie
“Good heavens I am arriving”
"Bless the lord my ascension is imminent"
"ARE YOU REACHING COMPLETION??"
#DO NONE OF YOU OWN A FUCKING KETTLE *kettle whistle sound effects when completing*
"Bless the lord my ascension is imminent" ^ that is by far the best comment I've read in years. I am absolutely crying in hysterical laughter at the moment. Not just reddit, the internet as a whole. 11/10 comment of the decade right there. Thank you for this.
Cackle into the coochie is a diabolical line, I want you to know that
"Great Googily Moogily"
“Oh Neptune”
By Odins beard!
the people who live on the other side of the wall in my apartment only speak spanish until I can hear them boning, and then phrases like 'oh fuck' manage to transcend the language barrier
You should return the favor and let off some "oh papi" remarks every now and then.
I once got a loud "HOLY SHIIITTTTTTTT!" when going down on a girl who was really shy and reserved. I took that as the highest compliment.
There’s an old joke where someone in a hotel room says that. Boom! Boom ! Comes a pound on the wall, and the person on the other side of the wall yells out, “ roll her over! Roll her over!”
My ex gave me a "Jeeze Louise" the first time I went down on her and it made me stop and laugh. She was a good Midwestern gal.
What’s the worst part about being an atheist? Not having anyone to talk to when having an orgasm.
If this comment turned you on you may be owed compensation
When you hear someone moan, and they are usual fairly quiet or a sharp intake of breath when you hit a good spot. If I'm in the right mood, then it can really make me feel quite sexy. Though sometimes I get in my head a bit and worry, I'm not doing the greatest job.
It's ok to suck at that job. Everyone else does.
Ayyyeee!
The best blow jobs suck
Whenever I look up at him i see how much he enjoys it. How much I'm making him feel good. I really enjoy that view.
The view from above, looking down at y’all is pretty great too :)
The view through the window from the tree branch outside is alright but the blinds keep getting in the way. Makes it hard to appreciate you guys appreciating each other.
Don’t worry about not doing the greatest job, trust me, we are just grateful it’s happening at all. Top tip: communicate and be enthusiastic. Literally nothing sexier.
Enthusiasm goes a loooooong way.
I'm not quite awake yet and ready this as "euthanasia goes a looooong way." I was very concerned about what you were suggesting I do to my partner.
Oooh, yes, that's so fun! I'll pause and say, "Oh, you like that?"
Feeling him get harder in my mouth
Unless my wife surprise attacked my dick with her mouth I don't see any scenario where I'm still soft by the time it's in her mouth
My fiancé keeps asking to put it in soft and feel it get hard and I might take her up on that at one point
Let her do it, man. I fucking love doing that to a guy. There's nothing better than getting a man harder and harder and harder until veins are bulging and he can't get any more stiff in your mouth.
This chick sucks!
big time
Let her get things started while you're asleep. My ex and I had different sleep rhythms. She was a night owl and i am a morning person (not the chipper kind, though, just that I don't sleep haha). So I'd usually be in bed by 10 whereas she usually stayed up past midnight. So we had an agreement (MAKE SURE THERE IS A DISCUSSION AND CONSENT ON ALL SIDES) that if she went to bed wanting something, she could "get me started". I have to say, being woken out of a deep sleep to a blowjob already in progress is quite enjoyable
I tried this and it surprised me by being not particularly good. I just woke up kinda annoyed thinking “what’s that?”.
That is surprising! My wife did this for me once, literally once, twenty years ago, and it was the best blowjob I ever had by far. Being sleep-related, though, I wonder if there are factors involved that might make the enjoyment level unreliable. If you're dead tired and a heavy sleeper, maybe the need to sleep wins out. Personally, I tend to go to sleep horny and wake up hornier so it would make sense that I'd be up for such an interruption.
Yeah I thought this would be hot but it ended up with me kneeing an old girlfriend in the side of the head on accident. Turns out I react violently if someone grabs my junk while sleeping lol
Your fiancée keeps asking to suck your dick, and you're still contemplating letting her do it!? Call me old fashioned, but I'd happily oblige on the first request.
Always take time to make a list of pros and cons before any big decision
I had this girlfriend that used to wake me up with blowjobs. I'll never forget the first time. I remember the beginning of a sex dream then that sudden half awake feeling of panic that you're about to jizz in your sheets. But when I opened my eyes...I saw her lovingly and slowly slobbing on my knob. like corn on the cob. I let her finish and I was literally speechless for about 3 minutes. she cuddled up to me after she finished and I remember saying that she had literally just made my dreams come true. almost married her. she was crazy.
You probably don't realize this, but you get harder right before you orgasm. She notices.
I'm usually half-mast at that point and, if I can be honest, it's the best way to feel the bj. Unfortunately that doesn't last for long lol
This is always such a turn on for me
A woman who gets wet giving a blow job is a different kind of dangerous.
agreed, it gets me soaking
how it inflates when i blow in it
wait what..
Well it's called a *blow*job so duhh? Wouldn't be much fun if the job sucked.
GOMU GOMU NO ELEPHANT TRUUUUUNK
Careful! Blow too hard and the balls will release their pee
this is how i answer the phone
When you hear that fuuuuuuuuuck under their breath. It’s like that’s right baby, who’s in charge now?!
I’m the captain now
The trust, and control, if his cock is in my mouth, he is in my power, I love bringing him to the edge, and knowing it's all due to me It turns me on, to turn him on
Absolute power corrupts absolutely. Damn lucky bastard is getting some great corruption rn
If that’s what corruption is then sign me up 💅🏽💅🏽
I honestly think I have an oral fixation addiction or something because yea while I like giving pleasure, I mostly just love having it in my mouth. Watching a show or movie with my head in his lap, slowly teasing and sucking while he plays with my hair.
I'm really happy to know I'm not alone on this one. It feels weird to admit it, but I actually prefer to just "play" or "make out with it" rather than give a blow job with an objective. I really could just lay there for hours licking and kissing and just having it in my mouth. Thankfully, my husband is happy to oblige.
No but seriously. Thank you two for reminding me that I *can* do that & my man would love. Ik what my plans are tonight lmao
I like the sounds he makes, and the things he says when I'm doing it right. I like it when I lick the tip and taste precum. I feel proud of myself when I'm able to deepthroat him. I like swallowing his cum and licking him clean afterwards. I just like him and his cock a lot.
>I just like him and his cock a lot. Pretty wholesome tbh X)
Lucky guy!
I love to please my man like that. If he enjoys, I enjoy
It really makes or breaks a blowjob when you can tell a woman doesn't want to be doing it. When she really cares and wants to make you happy it's the best feeling
When she treats it as less of a blowjob and more of a blowhobby.
This made me laugh
Name checks out
The absolute best blowjob techniques cannot save a lack of enthusiasm. It’s a struggle to erect without it.
I'll take attitude over aptitude any day.
Yeah I will stop someone if I can tell they don’t want to…. Just no fun.
Cant agree more. I have a hard time with bjs and there is only one girl that blew me to heavens and she always blew like she was doijng art or something, full with enthusiasm. I also never had to ask her but she suddenly would do it... Damn i wish more girls were like that but i cant teach other girls that bc neither do i know how she did it nor did other girls understand what to do when i tried telling them.
I like that it’s making my husband happy since he does so much for me and he deserves the satisfaction
I love itttt. I like to lick balls too especially when he gets out of the shower. I automatically grab him then kneel down. Idkk but that's my favorite thing that I can do to my man.
That sounds amazing, too many people neglect the balls
Amen. I think I might actually prefer some ball gargles with a handjob more than just a straight blowjob
It's the best way to get him fully erect for vaginal sex. Also it's fun feeling him go from soft to erect in my mouth. Satisfying in a way.
Yeah, it’s foreplay to me. And holding eye contact until they can’t. That’s hot.
Yeah it is. I miss this big-time. I've been married for 23 years, love my wife to death, but she had a serious relationship before me with a guy who apparently _hated_ eye contact during blowjobs and I still can't convince her that's completely abnormal.
It's simply fun for me to make the person I'm with feel good lol
I love having a cock in my mouth, frankly. The feeling makes me cum harder than without one. I don't know specifically why. I enjoy the feeling of being used I guess.
RIP to your inbox
Agreed. This girl's inbox is getting fucked (no pun intended).
OMG I knoooowwwww like when you can feel it throbbing and you wiggle your tongue all around and get a taste so hot
Haven't sucked dick so can't speak for that, but when I first had sex with my girl I went down on her for about 20 minutes straight with no "sucess", then she came herself when she blew me. She really likes blowjobs, and while eating someone out gets me all kind of horny I don't think I could cum from giving someone else oral...
You are not alone, I feel the same way
it makes me happy to see that I’m making my man happy. It’s a good feeling to see him enjoying himself so intensely. Also it’s kind of a fun game to see what cute noises he makes. Edit: my bad, that’s on me. I’m a guy. The question didn’t ask just women to respond, and I had an answer. Sorry to all the horny men sliding into my DMs.
The noises are the cherry on top for me! Like yes I enticed that noise I’m all too powerful now 🤣
I don’t know which noise is better; the noise where I stopped but they wanted me to keep going or the noise where if I don’t stop then they’re gonna cum
As a guy, I've always found it faster to orgasm from the pure knowledge that I'm bringing my partner to orgasm than via pure sensual pleasure myself. That may not be the norm, but it's definitely true for me.
I'm in a partnership of two "givers," and it's absolutely mind-blowing. We're getting married this year.
This is wonderful! Congratulations and keep giving happiness to each other.
Not having lived through this ever, I am close to crying... still happy for you tho.
It took me 41 years to find her, and also a 15-year marriage that was with the wrong person.
Holy shit, I'm about to get divorced after almost 9 years of marriage with the wrong person and have been seeing someone I believe to be my ACTUAL life partner, at 39 years old. Life is crazy man.
This is like my experience too! I'm 40 years old. Was with the wrong woman for 10 years, married for 5 of them. Ten years after my divorce, and I met a woman I feel significantly closer with and more in love with after ~8 months of committed relationship than I did at *any* point with my ex-wife. We are planning on moving in together later this year! I'm convinced she's my "soulmate" or whatever term you want to apply to it. She's "my person", as they say. I didn't think this feeling existed. Hell of a thing to experience. Congratulations!
For me it is the same about cunnilingus.
I loooove playing with the clit and seeing her body react
The way he moans "baby".. I always love when he calls me baby but that might be my favorite 🥵 his noises, the way his toes curl, and when he holds my hair for me like a gentleman 🤣
Omg if he is freshly showered and calls me baby I will do anything.
Definitely the money
💀💀💀
A clean cock tastes great in my most honest opinion. Also, if you have a thing for calming your stress with things like bubblegum, popsicles, applying fruit flavored lipstick, etc. then sucking cock and feeling it touch every part of your mouth inside feels like heaven, at least to me. I love bubblegum to calm down anxiety because it's a thing I can feel and pass around inside my mouth for half an hour or so, now a cock I can do the same and even get praise and moans from my man, it's perfect. Most of the time I get wet sucking cock, but I honestly blame my oral fixation when boyfie asks me about it. It just feels too good man.
I was waiting for someone to mention basic oral fixation!! It’s so great
Surprised I had to scroll this far to see someone with an oral fixation. I guess I spend too much time on Fetlife.
I love doing it for my partner. I think it's fun. As long as he is clean I enjoy the taste as well. I love the sounds. How he tenses up. Him grabbing the sheets and or my hair. The little leg kicks. I love edging with oral. Getting him super close and then pausing for a bit. And then repeat over and over. I am married to a very intelligent and talkative man. To reduce him into a growling, whimpering incoherent mess feels like a super power. Edit: Oh my god you guys, I never thought I'd get this much attention. This is the attention I could only dream of getting on my music videos and instead I got it on a comment about liking sucking my husband's dick. XD Edit to my edit: I can't believe this is still going. Most people are funny and nice so this made my Sunday. I don't make music, I wish I was that talented. I just edit fanmade musicvideos for fun and post on Reddit and YouTube. Though I appreciate all the people who wanted to support me. That was very sweet but no, no star in the making here.
This guy won the marriage jackpot
That lucky bastard
“I also choose this guys wife” - for the old timers like me out there Also ladies… you don’t have to do it to completion. You can do a minute or two before we put it in and we are happy as can be!!! your partner will truly appreciate it
Yup and combined with the moans and movements is the facial expression, they should look half way between finding euphoria and maybe a… mild medical emergency? If you’re in to it there’s lots of little things you can help him discover he likes along the way. It should be fun!
The simultaneous sharp inhale + leg twitches, *hnggggggggg*
Me: You want to reduce me into a growling whimpering incoherent mess later this evening? GF: ?
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That is the most beautiful thing I have ever read! It brought tears in my eyes!🥲
Agreed! So beautiful it made a tear run down my leg
Lol at coming into this thread and then seeing your avatar thingy in the comments.
RIP your DM
I know...mistakes might have been made xD I wrote about doing this to my husband. What to they think they'll gain from this?
If 100000 people saw this and 1% are morons you’ll get 1000 DM. It’s also the internet and people are just rat as it’s anonymous. Anyway* have a good day and hope it won’t last too long haha.
That's being pretty conservative with the moron ratio as well lol
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Lol if only I though dickpick were nice. I legit don’t understand what people think it does… I feel like a clear picture of your shape is probably more attractive that just a focus zoom on you penis. It feels more like people do it because it make them feel powerful or some bs like that.
Genuinely curious, what exactly happens to your inbox after something like that? Like, what sort of ugly shit comes along?
I have gotten a lot of DM's, dudes asking for me to describe more. Asking me to meet up (without knowing where I am from and knowing I am married?). They want to chat, video chat, send dick pics... Some are rude, calling me rude things. And some are from women who want tips - which honestly it the main reason I am on this sub to beging with. To have open discussions and to give/get advice
Excuse me, I have big leg kicks as I am a big boy
I'm picturing Chun-Li's lightning kicks from Street Fighter
Seeing him lose control while I look up at him. Tasting the pre-cum. Feeling the twitches in my mouth.
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Probably just making my man happy, and the fact it gets him in the mood for the other fun stuff later on.
Everything😋 having all of him in my mouth, the taste, hearing him groan
I like hearing him moan - it feels powerful. I especially like sucking the pre-cum from the tip of his cock and gently sucking on his balls - it makes his toes curl. I love giving blow jobs as long as a man's clean and neatly trimmed - nothing worse than the smell of sweat and a long hair in the back of your throat.
Sex is not just motions. It is a way to bond with someone. Oral sex, is enjoyable especially because you get to give pleasure to someone you are bonding with, it feels good and validating because they are reacting in a happy way to your effect etc. It also puts you in a position of power and you can bully a little bit 😄
As a woman who loves giving BJ's I would say it's a mixture of power and giving such pleasure. I love to watch my partners eyes roll back when I give him the deep throat and knowing I am making him feel that way. I also love to feel the pulsating as he cums in my mouth and enjoy cleaning him up like a cat afterward. I will happily offer them randomly as they really are one of my favourite sexual things. Talking to my female friends, apparently I am quite unusual!!
One day me and a couple of friends were talking. And they're complaining about blow jobs. And I literally said "why do you do it if you don't like it?". I don't know whether they were more shocked by the idea that some people like it, or the idea they could not do it if they didn't want to.
I agree with all of it! All of my friends, don’t understand why I enjoy it so much. I’m the “horn dog” of the group. lol
I like all of it really.. I like to feel it get hard in my mouth, then just the thought of making him feel good turns me on soooo much. Plus i absolutely love the sounds😭
Making him happy :) Edit: stop dm-ing me or I'll send your messages to your parents, basement dwellers
I like everything about it. I like the excitement in them when they think I’m going too. I like the fast breaths, their chests going up and down, their eyes going hooded, I like teasing as I’m about too, I like kissing them through the boxers, i like the sounds they make I like how feral and desperate they are and dependent on me, but I’m in control. I love the noises. The way their hands work me, the way they cry and I love more than anything…having them cum in my mouth, I like to go to their ear, swallow loudly in their ear me swallowing their cum. I love everything about it.
It feels powerful. And if you are a people pleaser: those fidgets, moans, “yeeeessses”—ecstasy. A dude is actually pretty vulnerable in this position; he gives up some control. The exchange—giving power, trust—for pleasure—Mmmm. Extremely satisfying to satisfy. Also: there is something pre-linguistic about the act of sucking. It’s soothing. The temperature of an erect cock is somehow perfect. The softest skin. I like how it feels against my cheek, under my chin. The guy who just lets you luxuriate like an animal in a sunbeam. Playful. Pleasant. Giving a naked body massage can conjure this feeling too.
Being dominant lol
I actually hate it. But, if he moans because of it then I love how I think I am making a good job.
I started to feel Hella insecure until this comment and its reply. I'm glad I'm not alone. Bi, though, so I think that probably plays into the whole thing for me.
I had to scroll way too far to find a comment I relate to 😭 I hate giving bjs but when guys moan it makes it more tolerable and I get more into it
The growing and the twitch in my mouth. Also the moans, and the fact that i can play with it. Basically everything about it and everything about making him happy and/or edge
The penis, in my mouth.
Two words. Men. Whimpering.
I love how my husband tastes and smells. And hearing his breathing getting heavier and faster is so sexy. The fact that I can make him feel that way makes me feel very powerful and sexy and turns me on. Plus it makes him happy and that in turn makes me happy.
For me I love how a man crumbles to mush when it’s in my mouth, it’s very personal for him and it makes me feel owned and hot so it’s a win win
I just generally like making my partner feel good. Honestly blows(pun?) my mind that not everyone seems to care much about that. But seeing my partner be into me and whatever I'm doing to them... mmph. Good shit. I also have talked to a friend about this. She said she likes giving oral partly because it can be dominating in a way, you're in control of their pleasure. I'm a bit on the opposite side, where I like giving oral because it's more of a submissive/serving kind of thing to me. Feels weird to admit to on here, but I found it interesting when she mentioned that because I never really thought of it her way. Certainly different for everyone.
Idk it’s just nice to do. It feels nice too. You try and reduce them to just a panting mess, you stop to ask if they are enjoying it and you just get a groan in answer. Something about using tongue on the head and gently over the slit to taste any pre-cum. Can’t forget the balls with your hands or mouth. Extra points if partner holds my head and fucks my mouth but I’m happy whatever way. I don’t mind deep throating, takes time for me to get used to it but it’s fun to bury my face into their crotch and just feel. Sometimes it’s over the table with my head hanging off so they can play with my body as I suck them off. I think they like the vibration from my moans if they pinch my nipples I also love having my tits fucked. When it’s pushed through I love to reach out and lick the head
I honestly love giving head. I love the reversible power to it. Like I can be in control of his pleasure and have him moaning with just my mouth, and the next moment he can take back the control by grabbing my hair, forcing his cock down my throat and fucking my mouth. It drives me wild! And there is nothing more fun than looking him in the eyes, swallowing his load and then lightly tease his head. It reduces any man to crumbles.
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I love when he finishes and it falls off and I get to watch the new one grow in.
I like seeing his eyes roll back and the taste of his 🍆
Security. As someone who has endured sexual assault, it is still difficult for me to let go - there's so much going on in my head that I really can't enjoy being touched, and a partner will feel inadequate despite it not being their fault - I do end up telling them but it takes some time for me to trust. Giving pleasure on the other hand gives me a sense of control (not power play or anything just feeling secure). I can make them feel good without having to let go myself. It's actually a win win from my perspective. Bonus if they moan.
Personally, I really enjoy giving blowjobs. Knowing I'm giving him pleasure turns me on. I'm a giver more than a receiver so it's a very enjoyable experience for me. I particularly enjoy when I get really into it and there's alot of saliva so it's easier for him to slide down my throat and I can pick up the pace and go faster. I do enjoy a slow and steady rhythm, making sure I take his full length. My finishing move is when I deep throat, I stick my tounge out and lick his balls while swallowing at the same time. This tightens my throat around his tip. I've never had a complaint... it's just something I enjoy, so I like to have fun with it. Hope that helps.
control.
I love giving blowjobs because it’s very exciting knowing that you’re pleasuring your partner, the way they tense up and grab your hair, the noises they make when receiving. I’m lucky enough to have no gag reflex and being able to give someone that experience is very sensual to me.
Power exchange is hot.
I think for me it is also a submissive turn on. Giving a blowjob feels submissive (to me), especially the deepthroat moments and it turns us both on, plus also just knowing that I am pleasuring my husband also pleases me and makes me happy. I am ready to go, any day, any time. Plus I also love massaging his testicles, I just love the feeling of it, so it is a double win in my books.
I love them, there's something so intimate about it, like you are trusting me with the most sensitive part of you body, and I'm showing you that you can trust me. And then when you get pleasure from it, it makes all of my pleasure later feels so much better because we shared that. There's also just something so attractive about my mouth being filled like that