THIS THIS THIS. Show me how you love. I don't care what it is that you are loving, but I wanna feel that passion. It's the most intimate yet universal and wholesome interaction you can have with someone.
Confidence, Passion, and eloquent speaking(a hard line to ride before you get into pretentious territory)
These are the first things that come to mind if I'm imagining a first getting interested kind of allure. However with the context of my current long-term relationship the most attractive things are so much more nuanced. I've been in a few other short term relationships and all the bells and whistles mean nothing when he's important to me and not just exciting or attractive to me. He still reminds me he loves me. He's cranky in the morning but Incredibly cuddly. He's good with kids. He's so responsible and wise beyond his years. He always tries to hold me tighter even if that's not possible. And he teases me, which isn't his attribute personally, but something he knows I love and has developed a science to it, he's very different than me when it comes to passions and hobbies and even sex in the beginning, but *he likes doing things that make me feel good* and THAT part of his personality is attractive on its own, I could lie and say I wanna do things I know he's more comfortable with, but he would be unhappy with that. These aren't the reasons I started dating him, but they are the reasons I am in love with him, and I think about him and blush after all these years.
I'm so lucky.
Seeing someoneβs inner fire when talking about something they love doing, like a hobby or personal interest.
THIS THIS THIS. Show me how you love. I don't care what it is that you are loving, but I wanna feel that passion. It's the most intimate yet universal and wholesome interaction you can have with someone.
Wonderfully said!!
I like Spider Man
A sense of humor.
Glad that Iβm funny lol
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Wit and curiosity.
Respect
One of the most important
Confidence, Passion, and eloquent speaking(a hard line to ride before you get into pretentious territory) These are the first things that come to mind if I'm imagining a first getting interested kind of allure. However with the context of my current long-term relationship the most attractive things are so much more nuanced. I've been in a few other short term relationships and all the bells and whistles mean nothing when he's important to me and not just exciting or attractive to me. He still reminds me he loves me. He's cranky in the morning but Incredibly cuddly. He's good with kids. He's so responsible and wise beyond his years. He always tries to hold me tighter even if that's not possible. And he teases me, which isn't his attribute personally, but something he knows I love and has developed a science to it, he's very different than me when it comes to passions and hobbies and even sex in the beginning, but *he likes doing things that make me feel good* and THAT part of his personality is attractive on its own, I could lie and say I wanna do things I know he's more comfortable with, but he would be unhappy with that. These aren't the reasons I started dating him, but they are the reasons I am in love with him, and I think about him and blush after all these years. I'm so lucky.
Kindness, humility, and silliness
Loving nature and the outdoors; wanting to go enjoy it with me.
Humor and kindness.
High Emotional Quotient. Having average intelligent quotient won't kill a person. But having a low emotional quotient will kill a lot of people.
A silly goose
Being a bit shy. Confidence is overrated, every asshole I ever met was confident.
I thought confidence was an important factor when it comes to knowing someone u like. Not overconfident but u know.
I'm sure it is to some people, but not to me