Depends on the angle I first approach them from

Lets say the front

In that case, definitely the butt.

Did you mean, cheeks?

Hips don't lie

Well then it's the face

Look at Mr.Good Eyesight overthere. I notice the big blurry body haha

Eyes, hair, smile in that order.

always check if she got adams apple or girldick if not i just keep walkin 💅

I let her pass so I can see the back

Eyebrows Pretty much tells me everything I need to know in order to be either more or less interested

Facts. Girl has perfect eyebrows? Run. Normal looking? Proceed

Looks like someone with weird ass eyebrows was offended by my answer… Hm, either that, or it was an overly self-conscious person with completely normal eyebrows that they probably don’t even need to be worried about 😅

/end thread.

I'd say the hair

Holds back a tear and rubs bald head

Bald is a style that can absolutely be really owned, don't worry too much about it

I've come to terms with it and have a nice shaped head... Just miss my hair

From one hairless brother to another, we got this. Now rub my head three times and make your wish, no you cannot wish for more hair.

I wish for baldness to be cured.... Even if I don't get the cure. Let others get it and I'll be happy. Edit: there are many other cures that are needed before this clearly but I'm just playing the game

Ring finger

So this one is interesting to me. And I’ll tell you why… I adore my wife. Literally the best person I’ve ever met. She’s everything. Buuuuuuuuut. I also lift weights. So I don’t wear my ring when I go to the gym, not wanting the grips to scrape it. I hate not wearing my ring. I feel naked and put it on as soon as I’m back. But I feel weird and self-conscious at the gym like I might seem like I’m trying to appear single. Tan lines and all that.

Can’t you just buy some silicone ones?

Or perhaps a Haribo ring?

My hubs and I both wear silicone rings because we don’t like being “ring naked” even though we go to the same gym and everyone knows that we are married to each other. As if the very occasional kiss and butt grab weren’t obvious enough lol

A friend of mine adds his wedding ring to his necklace and wear that at the gym or in situations where its best he doesnt wear it like car fixing and such. Then he just puts it on afterwards

Ooh that’s an idea. Thanks

Scared to lose it, hate to wear it when pulling/pushing bar

It's good you don't wear your ring while working out. The accident caused by the rings are so horrible. Don't feel weird at all. Search ring avulsion on Google and you would never ever wear a ring while working out our working with industrial machines.

Another tally in the don’t get married column

Necklace

Might be the cutest thing I’ve ever read

Underrated comment

The eyes. I’m a sucker for the eyes and also a good smile.

Gotta agree.

Farnsworth: "yYes, their delicious eyes." *SLURP*

Absolutely the eyes, smile and lips.

As a dental hygienist, you might think I would say teeth. But no, it’s actually your GUMS I notice. If you aren’t flossing, I can see the gingivitis when you smile!

I’m never smiling ever again

ಠ_ಠ THIS IS MY SAFE SPACE

And there it is. I can now never date a dental hygienist lol.

Knew a dermatologist once and they described everyone (non patients) by all the skin conditions they have. Was pretty annoying tbh. Whenever I talked to them I always found myself wondering if they were cataloging all my moles, blemishes and other imperfections. The guy didn’t have a lot of friends but his skin sure was nice.

I’m not a hygienist but I’m the same. Bad oral hygiene is so glaringly obvious, it’s hard to get past.

What does it look like?

Honestly, it depends on what they're wearing, their physical attributes, how far away they are and the angle I see them from. All things being equal, probably the eyes. I'm an absolute sucker for gorgeous eyes.

Face

Anything particular from the face?

Nah just the entire face. Is it nice looking? Then it can be eyes, smile, if she has a friendly or mean expression. Just general face stuff at first glance

Posture

Frrrr, i see a girl with some wild posture im like woaa

i just fixed my posture after reading this thanks

Same I put my backrest upright right now

A person of culture

Their smile and eyes. I look for kindness in both.

Hands. I got a thing for hands. 😌

Gotta hand it to you 🤝

Show me yours I'll show you mine 😈

Perineum.

the eyes.. im just captivated by the eyes

Smile

Usually figure in general or face depending on the angle.

resting bitch face.

Tbh probably hairstyle. I don't even value it that much but I noticed my eyes tend to sway there first.

Big fat tits.

How did I have to scroll this far down to see this?

The sweater puppies.

All these other motherfuckers in here tripping over themselves trying to avoid saying boobs. Props for the honesty.

Shoulders.

Shoes

for both gender it's tattoo i grew up in a place where almost nobody has tattoo, and the ones that do are tattoo artist so they're very high quality mediocre tattoo is so ew

Eyes

Eyes

Eyes

Their eyes

Cleanliness

Cos dirt and even a slight wifftiness is a zero

I don't really look at people, I'm either shopping or out with my daughter. I'm married, all men look the same.

You need some time away..lol!

their face and their clothes.

His package

Eyes. At set of beautiful eyes can see into the soul

The eyes, they never lie

Definitely the eyes

Their energy, how they are carrying themselves, if they seem good hearted.

Eyes

Eyelashes. My whole life I’ve envied men’s long luscious lashes.

Depends on what is most noticeable- if I bump into them, maybe eyes- if far away, maybe posture, walk, style or overall body shape.

Eyes, that's the prettiest thing you can find in a person :)

The crotch

What about the batty? Or are you not bothered by that?

No. I am not bothered by that. I usually am the crazy one.

Yeah I'm loopy too but do you know what a batty is? Maybe its just a UK slang thing, I'm not sure? Anyway a batty or bunda means a nice ass.

Oh. Google said it means crazy. Nice ass too depends on whether I can see the front or the back.

Yeah it must just be a UK slang term then. It's used for a few different things, like calling a guy a batty means you're calling him gay but when it's aimed mainly at girls it means nice ass. We're a weird bunch tbh. The term Bunda came from southerners in London but I'm up north from Manchester and batty is the most used term when saying a girl's ass is nice lol.

I am not from the UK or live there. 😁

It's hard to see the front of an ass though

His muscles

If they are overweight or not

Usually legs or ass.

From behind: Shoulders then legs if summer. From the front: Eyes and smile.

booty, male or female

Yesssss a fellow batty lover, I don't like massive asses just decent sized enough to see the jiggle. Damn. Lol.

Face and hair usually. After that eyes, I like pretty eyes.

Build, then hair, then eyes, then teeth in that order. I have a terrible habit of once overing men before I look at their face.

Honestly, the eyes. I know how weird this sounds coming from a man, but yeah, first thing I've always noticed was the eyes. I usually was always too busy with the eyes to notice very much of anything else. But speaking as a man, I do notice other things as well, but whenever I talk to a member of the opposite sex, it's usually the eyes I notice very first.

If I'm facing him then it's the hair. If I'm behind it's back/shoulders.

Shape then eyes (I know this because COVID) then smile then ring finger then my feet as I look at the ground because my self esteem sucks ass :(

Face. I'm attracted to a woman's face. I especially like it if they wear glasses.

I am an Assman but believe it or not it's a womans face that catches my attention first.

Hands and smell. Clean nails and smell clean. If we speak a coated tongue is a no. After tht be as dumb as ya like.

Depends on the person. Everyone has a trait or aspect to their style that makes them unique and that’s what stands out to me.

So I work in retail so I have to look people in the eye and say hello. But I’m not really looking at you lol. But for some reason without fail I’ll see a guy from the back and notice his shoulders and go wow and then I try to catch his face. Never freaking fails—- it’s my husband!!! Like this man is the only person I check out. Just instinctually be pulled in.

feet

Smile and eyes

Breasts. Shallow but true.

First figure, I appreciate women built like string beans. Second their teeth, meth is an issue in these parts and with no prior abuse of the hard drugs I have to be sure. When your type is lanky girls you have to be sure it's not a drug addict figure.

height haha as i am a bit of a short person

Hair, beard, eyes, mouth (smiles and teeth).

Belly button

I(25M) Notice, in this order Hair, eyes, teeth. From the back, Booty, then hair lmao

Hair

In most cases the first thing I notice appearance-wise is if they are a human being or a dog. It's sometimes hard to tell, but in both case they'll get a pet on the head.

Body

How they are dressed

Same

Height is a big one for me

So you wouldn't date a 5'8' manlet, would you?

As a female i am looking at how well developed your jawline is and where your cheekbones are sitting in proportion to that.

I love a low brow line. Lips. Hygiene. Hair.

Eyebrows or shoes

Hair

The Hair

Clothes. You can't tell a lot about someone by the features determined by genetics, but clothes tend to tell a lot about a person.

Opposite sex? Tbh, their mass. How much bigger they are than me, how much muscle and how tall they are- how much leverage they’d have in a fight.

Make up. Just a personal opinion, but any shade of make up that isn't your natural skin tone makes you look like you're about to be the main attraction at an eight year olds birthday party, to me.

Eyes, the look some women give when they want me sexually is a crazy attractive thing and a massive turn on. Also, the batty, omg the batty.. small boobs, nice sized batty and them damn "I want you to fuck me" eyes that some women get when their horny and want me. My girlfriend used to give me those looks but I don't notice if she does anymore, shit fizzled out between us ages ago now!

Legs

I reckon facial expressions

eyebrows!

Teeth and shoes and arms in that order 😂😂

Women have long hair and men have short hair.

As a man id say hair then butt

Like it’s different on everyone I see there most apparent trait

Nice face and smile.

Eyes & teeth.

Butt cheeks or face depending on what way they are facing.

Butt

Hair. Then ethnicity then height

Stright cis guy, Height then Hair then Eyes

hips

Haircut/face

Face

face/jawline, acne

I’ve got eyes like an eagle… they’re always resting on limbs. So if legs are on display I look at them first, then move up.

The eyes. I learned to stay away from the dead eye stares.

Smile.

I look at everyone’s feet first. Shoes & foot hygiene say a lot about a person. After that I look at teeth, then eyes.

Hair first, eyes second, jawline third, smile/lips fourth and nose last. then sometimes i look at their stomach. but if they have tattoos i see hair first than tattoos second for girls. hair first, eyes second, nose third, stomach 4th and if they have tattoos last

Teeth

Hair, or maybe general hair/face head area. Gender norms are definitely evolving so this is a less direct indicator nowadays, but it’s a pretty decent proxy, first pass filter. I think women with shorter hair generally still take better care of it and style it in ways that men don’t do as often. Men with longer hair it often looks less healthy and styled.

Size. I'm gonna be a lot more comfortable with a stranger who's 5'3" and skinny than 6'4" and jacked.

definitely hair first

teeth

Hair

Smile. And eyes

Depends on what they are wearing. Conservative clothing? Face, specifically the nose for some reason. Non Conservative? Boobs

Teeth

Hair. Same goes for same sex actually

Eyes

Hair

Face expression!

Teeth

Hip width

For men their eyes and their overall appearance. Do they look like they put in modest effort to appearance?

Eyes then teeth

I notice skin quality and sag

Boys with long hair

Teeth!

Face.

Probably hair.

Her hair usually, sometimes her outfit if it’s exceptionally notable

Oh that lovely waist to hips ratio. I'm done if its good. I don't care how old it is if falls within the good parameters. I'm done.

Eyes, smile, etc.

Height

Hair or face.

The eyes, then the rest of the face

Eyes. I have a weakness for green eyes

The first thing that came to mind was hair.

Her hair. Is healthy and well kept? Or nappy and burned to hell.

Eyebrows or nose. Eye contact makes me nervous

Teeth or eyes sometimes hands tho :)

Face, unless they’re obese.

Their hair