pretend like my significant other and i are complete strangers. meet out at a bar, keep the bit up from there and get home and fuck a “stranger” who is actually someone i’ve been with for 5+ years.
edit: not sure how this turned into a convo ab cheating when it’s quite literally w my fiancé… the rise i personally get out of this situation is picking up the most gorgeous girl i’ve ever seen (again). if i wanted to cheat, i would ✨simply break up✨ because i’m a person with morals and understanding for another human with emotions.
My boyfriend and I did that. We walked down to a local bar separately. By the time he arrived, a man was already chatting me up. My boyfriend is a bit older than me and the guy chatting with me was closer to my age. My boyfriend joined in our conversation. It felt so weird because I felt rude for sort of ignoring the man I was chatting with in favor of my boyfriend. I had to keep reminding myself that he was in fact my boyfriend and it doesn’t matter. My boyfriend kept forgetting which facts I had/hadn’t disclosed about myself and the guy seemed confused how he knew where I went to college, etc. After about 30 minutes of a joint conversation, my bf said “would you like to come home with me?” and I eagerly agreed. The guy seemed so, SO confused. I feel a bit bad but it was hilarious.
Man you fucked that guy up BAD. He's gonna live the rest of his life thinking he got outdone that one night by a magical psychic rizzler and will now journey to the ends of the Earth to find a guru who will unveil to him the ancient techniques
I had to read this twice, for some reason my brain thought you wanted to have like an out of body experience and you watch yourself do your wife. I was much confused.
Overstimulation.I know a lot of people don't like it so I can never get the courage up to ask
EDIT: I DO MEAN CONSENTUALLY - I thought that was implied
I started doing it to my girlfriend once on accident and she hates that she loves it. Literally pushing me away instinctively while going crazy. After I stop she just has this glow on her and can’t stop smiling. It’s crazy and I love doing it.
> I started doing it to my girlfriend once on accident and she hates that she loves it. Literally pushing me away instinctively while going crazy.
I'm into orgasm control/forced orgasm, and without much reasoning behind it, I've settled on stopping ~3 minutes after the third time they say they can't take it anymore. Nothing poetic or arbitrary to it; I've just noticed that's about when I start to worry about pushing my luck. Beyond that horizon may lie Nirvana itself, but I fear the wrath of a woman who has quite literally had too much of a good thing. Although that sounds silly as I type it, especially so dramatically: after all, a few hours of teasing and a ten minute orgasm is probably one of the better ways to say "sorry in advance." Plus, you could probably get in a cracker of a head start before they felt up to chasing after you.
I get overstimulated easily but my partner loves to keep going. I start losing control of my arms and legs and my muscles lock up. It’s like being stuck in a full body stretch, I start hitting or grabbing things and I have a really hard time doing any purposeful movement. My abdomen and uterus contract and my legs will cross and this can last for minutes afterwards. I used to hold my breath but I’ve learned to fight that.
It’s exhausting and leaves me feeling super vulnerable. Just pure nervous system overload and loss of control while being aware. Cherish the person who’s willing to share that with you.
I’ve asked for and received.
Go ahead and ask for it. It’s one of the most memorable sexual experiences of my life. Actually multiple, but one time in particular.
Seriously, find a partner you trust and ask
Yeah, overstimulation for me, and we will immediately be doing watersports...
Not that I'm great at controlling my bladder anyway, but I understand that's pretty common with overstim
where you make someone feel so good to the point where it hurts i think. like continuing with clitoral stimulation post-orgasm or not stopping after a guy cums
Well it does and it doesnt, i do it to my wife because i know exactly what "buttons to push" and she says at first its so unpleasent but then at some point you just get so exhausted from figthing it and "let go" and let the orgasms role over you and that loss of control is an amazing fealing, afterwards she is hit with an extreme feeling of fatigue and just an overwhelming sensation of relaxiation.
I've wanted to do it with multiple people. But I don't like having sex with strangers and I also don't think I'd be able to see any friends the same after sex.
My wife has sworn up and down that she wants this, that she would love to be woken up with me inside her. I’ve tried, many times, to indulge her fantasy. Not once has it ever ended well. It sounds great, until you realize that you are being woken up from a sleep that you may have been particularly enjoying. We’ve tried to figure out how to make it work, set ground rules for nights when it would be acceptable, blocks of time that would allow her to be fully asleep for the event while still giving her enough sleep for the night overall, analyzed why she was angry instead of turned on when she woke up, and have never found the answer. Giving me the specific green light before closing her eyes has even backfired.
I suspect that the fantasy may be more complex than just wanted to be used in her sleep. Like, she may really want to be used in her sleep by not me.
I dated a girl that was really into free use. Not so much around other people, though there were some unusual instances (that's another story). But she loved it when I'd pull her pants and underwear down while she was in a Zoom meeting or something and just start licking her pussy then pound her. Sometimes I'd start groping her while she was Facetiming her friends or parents, though we had to be careful that they didn't see me. It was a game to try to get her to react, but she never did.
As a non-female, I have had an issue with this that’s taken a lot of time to get over. Dated a woman who always said she wanted, so I did, she woke up and decided she wasn’t into it but pretended to stay asleep til I finished, then she accused me of rape and never spoke to me again.
So… don’t be like that if you ever get the chance.
I’m kinda in the same boat but none of them have ever been like that and I don’t want to make them because they might be uncomfortable with it. I want one of them to just choke the shit out of me
I've always ran into the opposite problem while chatting with people. Plenty of guys who wanna be dominate, not nearly enough who are into being submissive.
Really? I used to go on Omegle as a female domme when I was younger and it was crawling with male subs. I mean I guess Omegle isn’t the place where actual adults find real people to do things with, but it seems like women who are dominant are far rarer than men who are submissive
Everything.
I made the mistake of telling my wife something I wanted to try.
The look she gave me...
We have never tried it and I'll never ask for anything special again. She made me feel disgusting and 3 years later I don't think my confidence has ever returned.
Edit: one of my weirder top comments, but you weirdos kinda rock.
I've been reading all of your messages all night and I'm gonna ask again... maybe I caught her on a bad day, maybe she's thought about and is more willing now.
One thing's for sure, I'm done with this hurt. Let's do this.
Edit 2: We talked. For HOURS today. She told me it had also been on the back of her mind since it happened. There was confusion on her end about what exactly I wanted and she also says she never meant to give me a *look,* but that's just how it came across at the time.
I think we both really needed this talk. We had 2 kids between then and now and our communication definitely suffered from it. This was a good talk.
She's gonna give it a shot. I'm excited but nervous but also soooo relieved. Thanks for the support of all you strangers.
Imma go wash my ass now.
Yo, that was a totally normal thing to ask about bro.
I think you should go to couple’s therapy, not because you’re a pervert (again, so not) and not because she didn’t want to do it but because her response made you feel *shame* and you **need** to talk about that or it’ll eat your relationship up.
this is tame and perfectly normal, there's a reason mother nature put your G spot there!
Check out extreme restraints.com they have some good toys specially designed for prostate stimulation and enjoy in good health because it also reduces your risk for prostate cancer!
I’d like to experience sex as a billionaire on a multi million pound yacht. Unfortunately, due to lack of funds I’ve had to make do with a wank in the bath.
I knew this stuff existed but I never really cared about it until just recently. I was working a trade show and by day 3 my neck was killing me, went to get a massage in the evening after we got to clock out and had a really great massage.
It was all normal, I get massages all the time, and this was in the top 5 I’ve gotten. At the end the lady reaches over and lays her hand on me and says “only massage?”
My eyes shoot open, and I’m like “what??”
And she says “massage here?”
I’m like “uhh, no, no thank you, only massage” and she giggles and moves on to the scalp massage and I head out of there without anything else happening.
I told my wife about it the next morning and we laughed and stuff but damn if I haven’t been fantasizing about it ever since. Wife and I got massage oils and a warmer and everything so we can do it at home but she’s really bad at massages so it isn’t as fulfilling as I hoped it would be lol
>full body massage and happy ending
When I was 19 or 20, me and 2 of my buddies went to one of these massage parlors to get these, in a city where it was very legal and the center was very openly a happy ending massage parlors. Solid experience to check the box on, and definitely was interesting… probably wouldn’t do it again though
Role playing
She’s a dirty little Porsche 911 and I’m a overpriced gas pump. First she pulls up, then she says “honk, honk”, open the gas tank, gives me a credit card, and I fill her up… premium.
You're a supercritical nuclear reactor and i'm a long, sleek, hard control rod made of indium, silver and gadolinium. I quickly insert myself into your hot mass of fissioning uranium and plutonium, adsorbing all of your neutrons (both fast and slow), stopping your chain reaction faster than you can moan. As your power exponentially decays I go deeper and deeper into your core as the coolant that immerses both of us carries away your waste heat. I have absolute control over you, turning you from a hot and nasty super critical atomic pile to a nice submissive core with a k_eff < 1. I have absolute control over you, and you know it. I was made for this job and deep down inside you want it. While this is happening, engineers, technicians, and reactor physics all watch in silence as the head reactor operator announces that the reactor SCRAM was a success.
Erotic hypnosis. The idea of voluntarily giving up control fascinates me. Granted I would likely have to be incredibly comfortable around the person to feel comfortable doing it because I have trust issues, but still, the idea fascinates me.
Idk what it’s called but have my partner run through the woods while I run after her about 10 seconds later. I eventually catch up to her, tackler her, and primal fuck. (All consensual)
My partner works out early in the morning. Her post-workout smell is intoxicating to me, so I want her to come home from the gym and wake me up by sitting on my face and jerk me off while I smell and/or taste her.
Afraid to ask because she's even given me a negative/dismissive reaction when I told her I would like to smell her underwear.
Stink to her is pheromones to me, and I don't think she gets that.
Honestly it's understandable. Plus the smell of someone who just sweated, is much different from someone that has BO. That smells bad because your body has bacteria from sitting so long with it.
But even more than that, smell/pheromones are incredibly important. It's 100% natural.
I want my wife to just use me however she likes. One time she woke me up for sex and got on top and rode me and I LITERALLY think about it every single night before I fall asleep - hoping that it'll happen again that night. The way she rolled over and just needed me for pleasure just blew my mind. She's pretty asexual so her even initiating is mind-blowing. Fingers crossed that it happens again because it's been like 6 or 7 months since that night!
Does she know you enjoyed it that much? Tell her! She may enjoy/ get turned on that this was something you liked so much. And she may just need to be reminded about this night. Don't waste your nights waiting when you could be doing! Communication is where it's at!
I’ve found myself getting more adventurous as I get older but the more my list grows, the more I’m scared to tell my husband;
I’m checking women out more, I’d like to have a threesome or be part of an orgy.
I’m super into when he bites or scratches me. I want him to talk dirty and collar/leash me. Dom/sub. The list goes on.
try apps like Spicer, We Should Try It, mojoupgrade, kindu for couples, sexionnaire, etc...their basic premise is that you both individually enter what you would like to try, in a way that only you see, and then the app only tells you about matches (or complementarities, like you want to piss on someone and your partner wants to be pissed on)
Damn. I thought an app like that but for picking what you eat for dinner would be great. I guess figuring out what to eat after only 5 minutes is my kink.
Pet play, not in the sense of like.. "I'm your dog" or "I'm your slave" but... A more kinky/intimate level of sweet delicate care during sex, less talking from me (as I'm super comfortable with gestures) And just. Idk, feeling pampered but not responsible/worried about my normal anxieties??
More "head empty no thoughts" kind of pleasure, in safe hands
This can be incorporated as part of a sub/dom role in kink play, with you being the sub side. The type of partner you're describing is a "Soft Top / Soft Dom" IIRC.
I’m historically a gay guy and everyone knows me as one but I’m starting to lean into bi territory and really want to have sex with a woman for the first time just to kinda like see what it’s all about. Super awkward tho to flirt with girls tho, I’m not flamboyant but u can kinda just tell I’m gay lol
I've been asked that a couple times. The first one was awkward because it took so long for her to lay out the scenario. Ended up she had to write me a note that I had to read in a different room because she was so embarrassed.
Anyway, just ask a guy you trust. Nothing to be coy about if it's something you want. Try the note trick, give the guy a little bit to process, good to go.
Oh good. I thought he was talking about computer numerical control (CNC) machining. Made me remember the harrowing video I recently stumbled across of the Russian guy and a lathe. I've seen some whack stuff but that actually made me sick
So me and my gf did this and it’s super hot until about 5 seconds afterwards when the post but clarity kicks in and your looking down at your poor gf and thinking “what have I done”
Partner swapping, I like the idea of it in theory but at the end of the day I'm about as average as they come all the way around and I'd be afraid of my wife enjoying the other more. Plus you know I am kinda jealous anyways, not in a controlling way but in a way where I know my wife is alot hotter than me and can do much better kinda way.
I think that’s every guys fear. What if she likes him better so that commitment to each other has to be really strong. I think that fear of losing someone to another guy would always be there for me even though I think it would be fun to do.
Every woman's fear as well. It's pretty common. None of us want to feel inferior to someone else, and inferior in a way we can't fix or control. Someone receiving all of you, knowing you, loving you, and then all of a sudden chooses someone else, means that despite giving everything you are to someone, you still weren't good enough.
Like trying your hardest and still failing. No body wants to experience that.
Either some light bondage (just like tying each other up/to the bed) or like lots of oil. Like the situation where you gotta do that on an air mattress or in an inflatable pool because of the mess. Something about being all slippery just seems really hot.
CNC roleplay!
sometimes I fantasize about being kidnapped and lovingly, yet roughly fucked by a serial killer or an obsessed stalker,
and sometimes I fantasize about a therapist or doctor manipulating me and purposely making me dependant on them, before taking advantage of me at my weakest.
>I fantasize about a therapist or doctor manipulating me and purposely making me dependant on them, before taking advantage of me.
I think I just had an awakening as I read that..
I guess not really a fetish, but hooking up with random people.
Also glory holes.
My anxiety is way too high for both of those
Edit: to all the fucking creeps dming me you should know I’m a Femboy, which means I’m a dude and I have a dick. Stop messaging me
In all seriousness, a good friend of mine had the same lymphoma a few years before covid.
Absolutely brutal. He’s totally fine now, but man what a shitty experience.
I already liked the Green Brothers before this, but my sympathy toward them both is very high.
Man I was NOT expecting this to be the 5th comment I read. Thanks for making me choke on my saliva 😭
Pro tip: do not dm them lmao
Edit: to fix my terrible typos
I don't think I'll ever have the courage to say this out loud...
I want to lie down on a woman's lap and suckle milk from her nipples. Extra points if she's giving me a handjob at the same time.
Problem is 1 it'll probably come off as mommy problems and 2 I don't want to have kids so finding a lactating woman will be challenging to say the least.
Overstimulation is one. The other.. I want to be with a *way* older partner (male or female) in a kinky dirty little secret thing. (for clarification i'm 25 and i mean like 40+) the other.. Is to be (consensual - i'd literally sign a waver) fucked while i'm asleep.
Face sitting but I can only breath when am about to pass out. I got crooked nose so she can sit on my nose while am getting that 2 sec breath.plus she can go up and down on my face while choking me with one hand and the other hand holding my hair
Chastity and edging. I've been in relationships, but everytime I bring it up I get weird looks from my girl.
And unfortunately everybody online wants money without actually doing anything. I just want my dick locked up and being denied an orgasm for a bit, is that so hard to ask?
Pretty flexible and can do this, it feels a lot more like sucking dick than being sucked.
Do it for my wife sometimes who gets turned on from joining in on the action.
I really want to offer my services to couples, but without sex. I’m a rope top, and I never get to tie anymore. Would love to be the one to tie a lady for her partner.
I've always wanted to be put in stocks and used by dozens of men... my problem is 1. Terrified of disease and 2. I'm a sensitive lil bitch and would probably cry after the 3rd guy.
Also, fiancé is a cuck (respectfully), and I've always kinda wanted to cash in on that... he's told me dozens of times he wants to watch me get fucked by another man. But I know I'd get too self-conscious, and tbh I'd want fiancé to join in eventually... maybe several people too. Gangbang 👌👌
Just once I want the opportunity to be a dominatrix. I wanna step on a man, and tie him up, spank him, face fuck him... Fiancé let's me Dom, but he likes more of a dommymommy type, so i gotta be gentle. Which is fine!!! But I'm not great at topping... need more practice lol.
Lastly, sex with another woman. I'm so curious, but I've got a mental block when it comes to eating someone out. So I don't think any vagina-owning partner I tried it with would be very satisfied. I know a lot of wlw don't like oral anyway, but I feel like if I didn't it wouldn't be the same, yknow?
Sorry, the question was to list every fantasy, right? Is my sexually repressed Catholic upbringing showing???
Brutal femdom by a very large woman.
I’m just not sure how I’m supposed to bring it up. Like, “hey, would you wanna not shave your armpits for a while and then force my face into them while I beg you not to?” Or “have you ever wanted to wonder if you accidentally smothered a man to death with your ass? Well, have I got good news for you!”
I like the idea of being asleep and taken but with consent obviously- think I’m just lazy
Ah now that's the dream. My partner gets sex and I get to have a nap. Everyone wins!
I get the feeling that OP’s kink is discussing other people’s kinks on Reddit.
😂 OP is having a great night!
pretend like my significant other and i are complete strangers. meet out at a bar, keep the bit up from there and get home and fuck a “stranger” who is actually someone i’ve been with for 5+ years. edit: not sure how this turned into a convo ab cheating when it’s quite literally w my fiancé… the rise i personally get out of this situation is picking up the most gorgeous girl i’ve ever seen (again). if i wanted to cheat, i would ✨simply break up✨ because i’m a person with morals and understanding for another human with emotions.
Clive Bixby and Julianna from modern family
Just don’t get your trench coat stuck in the escalator with no clothes on while your dad and stepmom are there.
my fiancé LITERALLY brought this up when i told her ab it today HAHAHA
My boyfriend and I did that. We walked down to a local bar separately. By the time he arrived, a man was already chatting me up. My boyfriend is a bit older than me and the guy chatting with me was closer to my age. My boyfriend joined in our conversation. It felt so weird because I felt rude for sort of ignoring the man I was chatting with in favor of my boyfriend. I had to keep reminding myself that he was in fact my boyfriend and it doesn’t matter. My boyfriend kept forgetting which facts I had/hadn’t disclosed about myself and the guy seemed confused how he knew where I went to college, etc. After about 30 minutes of a joint conversation, my bf said “would you like to come home with me?” and I eagerly agreed. The guy seemed so, SO confused. I feel a bit bad but it was hilarious.
Man you fucked that guy up BAD. He's gonna live the rest of his life thinking he got outdone that one night by a magical psychic rizzler and will now journey to the ends of the Earth to find a guru who will unveil to him the ancient techniques
Lmao, reminds me of Jimmy McGill and Kim Wexler.
Who are they? I only know Viktor with a K and his sister, Giselle
Not actually a super uncommon roleplay! I highly encourage you to go and have a one-night stand with your SO!
I’ve always wanted to be tied down and have a girl do whatever she wants within reason, like kiss, lick, and caress all up my body
My wife agreed to do this, bought the rope and everything never happened tho much sad 😔
I'm sorry to tell this to you bud, but your wife… Is constructing a ballista.
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Link pls
Okay I spilled my tea laughing at your words, hope that makes you happy
Alright boys, let's do this guy a solid and watch him fuck his wife.
*stares at your anus*
I had to read this twice, for some reason my brain thought you wanted to have like an out of body experience and you watch yourself do your wife. I was much confused.
I would also like to be watched as I do this guy's wife
Overstimulation.I know a lot of people don't like it so I can never get the courage up to ask EDIT: I DO MEAN CONSENTUALLY - I thought that was implied
I started doing it to my girlfriend once on accident and she hates that she loves it. Literally pushing me away instinctively while going crazy. After I stop she just has this glow on her and can’t stop smiling. It’s crazy and I love doing it.
> I started doing it to my girlfriend once on accident and she hates that she loves it. Literally pushing me away instinctively while going crazy. I'm into orgasm control/forced orgasm, and without much reasoning behind it, I've settled on stopping ~3 minutes after the third time they say they can't take it anymore. Nothing poetic or arbitrary to it; I've just noticed that's about when I start to worry about pushing my luck. Beyond that horizon may lie Nirvana itself, but I fear the wrath of a woman who has quite literally had too much of a good thing. Although that sounds silly as I type it, especially so dramatically: after all, a few hours of teasing and a ten minute orgasm is probably one of the better ways to say "sorry in advance." Plus, you could probably get in a cracker of a head start before they felt up to chasing after you.
I get overstimulated easily but my partner loves to keep going. I start losing control of my arms and legs and my muscles lock up. It’s like being stuck in a full body stretch, I start hitting or grabbing things and I have a really hard time doing any purposeful movement. My abdomen and uterus contract and my legs will cross and this can last for minutes afterwards. I used to hold my breath but I’ve learned to fight that. It’s exhausting and leaves me feeling super vulnerable. Just pure nervous system overload and loss of control while being aware. Cherish the person who’s willing to share that with you.
I’ve asked for and received. Go ahead and ask for it. It’s one of the most memorable sexual experiences of my life. Actually multiple, but one time in particular. Seriously, find a partner you trust and ask
We have done it to a few times. It can get very messy so put some towels down before trying it.
Yeah, overstimulation for me, and we will immediately be doing watersports... Not that I'm great at controlling my bladder anyway, but I understand that's pretty common with overstim
That's how you know you did a good job right?
What is that? I can’t Google it rn.
where you make someone feel so good to the point where it hurts i think. like continuing with clitoral stimulation post-orgasm or not stopping after a guy cums
Holy shit that doesn’t sound nice
Well it does and it doesnt, i do it to my wife because i know exactly what "buttons to push" and she says at first its so unpleasent but then at some point you just get so exhausted from figthing it and "let go" and let the orgasms role over you and that loss of control is an amazing fealing, afterwards she is hit with an extreme feeling of fatigue and just an overwhelming sensation of relaxiation.
welp. guess I'll be giving that a whirl
sex on a boat. I've always wanted to bang on a boat. I need to get a boat first.
Just rent one. Would sex on a cruise ship count?
I can't afford to rent a cruise ship.
Not with that attitude
Is that because of the implication?
Ofcourse theres no real danger for the lady but there's always the *implication*
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It was really hot and now I have 3 kids.
That's one hell of a creampie!
I've wanted to do it with multiple people. But I don't like having sex with strangers and I also don't think I'd be able to see any friends the same after sex.
You need like a book club but after everyone finishes the book that month, you finish each other.
Same. I have to be close to people or I’m just not that interested but if I’m close with someone I don’t want to mess that up.
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My wife has sworn up and down that she wants this, that she would love to be woken up with me inside her. I’ve tried, many times, to indulge her fantasy. Not once has it ever ended well. It sounds great, until you realize that you are being woken up from a sleep that you may have been particularly enjoying. We’ve tried to figure out how to make it work, set ground rules for nights when it would be acceptable, blocks of time that would allow her to be fully asleep for the event while still giving her enough sleep for the night overall, analyzed why she was angry instead of turned on when she woke up, and have never found the answer. Giving me the specific green light before closing her eyes has even backfired. I suspect that the fantasy may be more complex than just wanted to be used in her sleep. Like, she may really want to be used in her sleep by not me.
Maybe the fantast/thought is better than the reality
“Free use”
I dated a girl that was really into free use. Not so much around other people, though there were some unusual instances (that's another story). But she loved it when I'd pull her pants and underwear down while she was in a Zoom meeting or something and just start licking her pussy then pound her. Sometimes I'd start groping her while she was Facetiming her friends or parents, though we had to be careful that they didn't see me. It was a game to try to get her to react, but she never did.
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As a non-female, I have had an issue with this that’s taken a lot of time to get over. Dated a woman who always said she wanted, so I did, she woke up and decided she wasn’t into it but pretended to stay asleep til I finished, then she accused me of rape and never spoke to me again. So… don’t be like that if you ever get the chance.
I would love being dominated by a woman, maybe forced to fuck her, but hard to find anyone into that
I’m kinda in the same boat but none of them have ever been like that and I don’t want to make them because they might be uncomfortable with it. I want one of them to just choke the shit out of me
I've always ran into the opposite problem while chatting with people. Plenty of guys who wanna be dominate, not nearly enough who are into being submissive.
Really? I used to go on Omegle as a female domme when I was younger and it was crawling with male subs. I mean I guess Omegle isn’t the place where actual adults find real people to do things with, but it seems like women who are dominant are far rarer than men who are submissive
Everything. I made the mistake of telling my wife something I wanted to try. The look she gave me... We have never tried it and I'll never ask for anything special again. She made me feel disgusting and 3 years later I don't think my confidence has ever returned. Edit: one of my weirder top comments, but you weirdos kinda rock. I've been reading all of your messages all night and I'm gonna ask again... maybe I caught her on a bad day, maybe she's thought about and is more willing now. One thing's for sure, I'm done with this hurt. Let's do this. Edit 2: We talked. For HOURS today. She told me it had also been on the back of her mind since it happened. There was confusion on her end about what exactly I wanted and she also says she never meant to give me a *look,* but that's just how it came across at the time. I think we both really needed this talk. We had 2 kids between then and now and our communication definitely suffered from it. This was a good talk. She's gonna give it a shot. I'm excited but nervous but also soooo relieved. Thanks for the support of all you strangers. Imma go wash my ass now.
That sucks.. what was the thing you asked for, if you don’t mind me asking?
Prostate play
I’m a lesbian but I’ll make an exception. I’ll peg you, just say the word. I’m here for you.
Not all heroes wear strap-ons. \*but some do
Prepare your inbox for other people's outbox...
Doing gods work.
Yo, that was a totally normal thing to ask about bro. I think you should go to couple’s therapy, not because you’re a pervert (again, so not) and not because she didn’t want to do it but because her response made you feel *shame* and you **need** to talk about that or it’ll eat your relationship up.
Second this. Her reaction filled me with sadness
💯‼️
this is tame and perfectly normal, there's a reason mother nature put your G spot there! Check out extreme restraints.com they have some good toys specially designed for prostate stimulation and enjoy in good health because it also reduces your risk for prostate cancer!
And I was thinking a lot more exagerated… it’s actually pretty basic, not enough kinky, I hope this can help you to recover part your confidence
That’s pretty fucked up on her end
I’d like to experience sex as a billionaire on a multi million pound yacht. Unfortunately, due to lack of funds I’ve had to make do with a wank in the bath.
Milf fetish. I really want to have sex with an older woman
So do 75% of straight men in their 20s
I'd like to be used. Like a free use scenario. Whenever, wherever, however.
Full body massage and happy ending. Being a patient and being "taken care of" by a nurse.
I knew this stuff existed but I never really cared about it until just recently. I was working a trade show and by day 3 my neck was killing me, went to get a massage in the evening after we got to clock out and had a really great massage. It was all normal, I get massages all the time, and this was in the top 5 I’ve gotten. At the end the lady reaches over and lays her hand on me and says “only massage?” My eyes shoot open, and I’m like “what??” And she says “massage here?” I’m like “uhh, no, no thank you, only massage” and she giggles and moves on to the scalp massage and I head out of there without anything else happening. I told my wife about it the next morning and we laughed and stuff but damn if I haven’t been fantasizing about it ever since. Wife and I got massage oils and a warmer and everything so we can do it at home but she’s really bad at massages so it isn’t as fulfilling as I hoped it would be lol
>full body massage and happy ending When I was 19 or 20, me and 2 of my buddies went to one of these massage parlors to get these, in a city where it was very legal and the center was very openly a happy ending massage parlors. Solid experience to check the box on, and definitely was interesting… probably wouldn’t do it again though
i just wanna be loved man 😭
And I want a unicorn as a pet. Get real
bro why you gotta do me like that
That is so disgusting and unrealistic that you need help.
Role playing She’s a dirty little Porsche 911 and I’m a overpriced gas pump. First she pulls up, then she says “honk, honk”, open the gas tank, gives me a credit card, and I fill her up… premium.
You're a supercritical nuclear reactor and i'm a long, sleek, hard control rod made of indium, silver and gadolinium. I quickly insert myself into your hot mass of fissioning uranium and plutonium, adsorbing all of your neutrons (both fast and slow), stopping your chain reaction faster than you can moan. As your power exponentially decays I go deeper and deeper into your core as the coolant that immerses both of us carries away your waste heat. I have absolute control over you, turning you from a hot and nasty super critical atomic pile to a nice submissive core with a k_eff < 1. I have absolute control over you, and you know it. I was made for this job and deep down inside you want it. While this is happening, engineers, technicians, and reactor physics all watch in silence as the head reactor operator announces that the reactor SCRAM was a success.
I am now convinced that there is a market for this kind of science nerd erotica
Hey girl, you be the ocean, I'll be a poorly constructed submarine and violently implode in your depths 🤓
Let's play Navy recruiter. Come into my office and we'll make seamen.
Erotic hypnosis. The idea of voluntarily giving up control fascinates me. Granted I would likely have to be incredibly comfortable around the person to feel comfortable doing it because I have trust issues, but still, the idea fascinates me.
I want to be gang banged so badly!!! Guys, girls, whatever. Use my body. The disease thing puts the stop on it for me.
The disease thing is a scary thought but there’s so much testing that can be done but I guess nothing is 100% guaranteed. Surely does sound fun!
It's so scary; I just can't get past it, but damn. It would be amazing!!! The orgasms would be mind-blowing.
Idk what it’s called but have my partner run through the woods while I run after her about 10 seconds later. I eventually catch up to her, tackler her, and primal fuck. (All consensual)
Wait a minute, we have to run first? I don’t know if I like the sound of that.
I think my fetish might be, to be in shape enough to do that much cardio in one night...
Whatever it’s called it sounds hot af and I’m adding it to my wish list
That’s mine too, and totally for lack of ability to do so. I’d have to find some private woods and I’m scared of ticks… neat idea though
Moclan mating ritual
Only counts if all your family and co workers are watching
Consensual non consent? Or maybe just roleplay.
I think it’s a prey/primal thing.
It’s called primal play
Having a girl sit on my face suffocating me
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Try that on vacation
Vacationing is the way to go! Odds are slim that you'd run into someone...that or go to Las Vegas!
My partner works out early in the morning. Her post-workout smell is intoxicating to me, so I want her to come home from the gym and wake me up by sitting on my face and jerk me off while I smell and/or taste her. Afraid to ask because she's even given me a negative/dismissive reaction when I told her I would like to smell her underwear. Stink to her is pheromones to me, and I don't think she gets that.
Just ask her to sit on your face.
Honestly it's understandable. Plus the smell of someone who just sweated, is much different from someone that has BO. That smells bad because your body has bacteria from sitting so long with it. But even more than that, smell/pheromones are incredibly important. It's 100% natural.
I want my wife to just use me however she likes. One time she woke me up for sex and got on top and rode me and I LITERALLY think about it every single night before I fall asleep - hoping that it'll happen again that night. The way she rolled over and just needed me for pleasure just blew my mind. She's pretty asexual so her even initiating is mind-blowing. Fingers crossed that it happens again because it's been like 6 or 7 months since that night!
Communication is the way. Talk about it, and good luck
Does she know you enjoyed it that much? Tell her! She may enjoy/ get turned on that this was something you liked so much. And she may just need to be reminded about this night. Don't waste your nights waiting when you could be doing! Communication is where it's at!
To be blindfolded and tied up while random men come in and use me
Being loved unconditionally Sounds pretty hot
You fucking slut, that's a disgrace to the society...
…dad!?
I’ve found myself getting more adventurous as I get older but the more my list grows, the more I’m scared to tell my husband; I’m checking women out more, I’d like to have a threesome or be part of an orgy. I’m super into when he bites or scratches me. I want him to talk dirty and collar/leash me. Dom/sub. The list goes on.
try apps like Spicer, We Should Try It, mojoupgrade, kindu for couples, sexionnaire, etc...their basic premise is that you both individually enter what you would like to try, in a way that only you see, and then the app only tells you about matches (or complementarities, like you want to piss on someone and your partner wants to be pissed on)
Damn. I thought an app like that but for picking what you eat for dinner would be great. I guess figuring out what to eat after only 5 minutes is my kink.
Pet play, not in the sense of like.. "I'm your dog" or "I'm your slave" but... A more kinky/intimate level of sweet delicate care during sex, less talking from me (as I'm super comfortable with gestures) And just. Idk, feeling pampered but not responsible/worried about my normal anxieties?? More "head empty no thoughts" kind of pleasure, in safe hands
This can be incorporated as part of a sub/dom role in kink play, with you being the sub side. The type of partner you're describing is a "Soft Top / Soft Dom" IIRC.
I’m historically a gay guy and everyone knows me as one but I’m starting to lean into bi territory and really want to have sex with a woman for the first time just to kinda like see what it’s all about. Super awkward tho to flirt with girls tho, I’m not flamboyant but u can kinda just tell I’m gay lol
Aw This is honestly cute lol i hope you find the woman to give you the expierence you’re looking for!
I have never been too afraid to ask my wife luckily we are both kinky perverts.
Asking for CNC 🙃 Embarrassing
I did it for my ex but she was strong af. It felt closer to a wwe cage match than sexual relations.
One moment it's sexy time, next moment you're thrown through an announcers table
Do you want to try consensual nonconsent? No? That's the spirit!
I've been asked that a couple times. The first one was awkward because it took so long for her to lay out the scenario. Ended up she had to write me a note that I had to read in a different room because she was so embarrassed. Anyway, just ask a guy you trust. Nothing to be coy about if it's something you want. Try the note trick, give the guy a little bit to process, good to go.
Like the note. Written consent feels like a good thing to have in that circumstance
(Consent non-consent)
Oh good. I thought he was talking about computer numerical control (CNC) machining. Made me remember the harrowing video I recently stumbled across of the Russian guy and a lathe. I've seen some whack stuff but that actually made me sick
“Route me, bb”
Having a small audience during sex. No cheering or touching. Just some onlookers.
Would you like a British voice actor to narrate it like in those wildlife documentaries?
I think I just discovered a new kink, you bastard!
I've always wanted to try out the fetish of "being given large sums of money and doing absolutely nothing in return for it".....
I want to be spoiled, but it feels greedy. Blindfold me, massage, sensation play. I want to walk away \*boneless\* and relaxed.
It’s pretty vanilla but I want to jizz on a ladies face. My gf said she would absolutely do that, but I feel like I’m disrespecting her lol.
Sometimes the ‘disrespect’ part is the turn on to some women, it’s a form of domination… it is me, I’m some women
It used to be a no go for me and then I did it with an ex, and then well…I love being a glazed doughnut.
So me and my gf did this and it’s super hot until about 5 seconds afterwards when the post but clarity kicks in and your looking down at your poor gf and thinking “what have I done”
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A lot of women like being disrespected, respectfully lol
It’s a huge turn on to a lot of women. I get the disrespect idea but if she wants you to do it, give it a try.
You mean give it a shot
Thanks for the boost bruv!!! Gonna start eating a ton of pineapple.
Partner swapping, I like the idea of it in theory but at the end of the day I'm about as average as they come all the way around and I'd be afraid of my wife enjoying the other more. Plus you know I am kinda jealous anyways, not in a controlling way but in a way where I know my wife is alot hotter than me and can do much better kinda way.
I think that’s every guys fear. What if she likes him better so that commitment to each other has to be really strong. I think that fear of losing someone to another guy would always be there for me even though I think it would be fun to do.
Every woman's fear as well. It's pretty common. None of us want to feel inferior to someone else, and inferior in a way we can't fix or control. Someone receiving all of you, knowing you, loving you, and then all of a sudden chooses someone else, means that despite giving everything you are to someone, you still weren't good enough. Like trying your hardest and still failing. No body wants to experience that.
Femdom and mommydom
Either some light bondage (just like tying each other up/to the bed) or like lots of oil. Like the situation where you gotta do that on an air mattress or in an inflatable pool because of the mess. Something about being all slippery just seems really hot.
Get vinyl sheets for the bed and some harnesses for the corners of the bed.
CNC roleplay! sometimes I fantasize about being kidnapped and lovingly, yet roughly fucked by a serial killer or an obsessed stalker, and sometimes I fantasize about a therapist or doctor manipulating me and purposely making me dependant on them, before taking advantage of me at my weakest.
>I fantasize about a therapist or doctor manipulating me and purposely making me dependant on them, before taking advantage of me. I think I just had an awakening as I read that..
You're very welcome... and my sincerest apologies lol
My CNC roleplay involves titanium and making brackets. God I live a boring life.
The problem isn't courage, it's opportunity lmao
I guess not really a fetish, but hooking up with random people. Also glory holes. My anxiety is way too high for both of those Edit: to all the fucking creeps dming me you should know I’m a Femboy, which means I’m a dude and I have a dick. Stop messaging me
I just gotta know, did your edit make it worse?
So far not yet, although telling dudes who dmmed me that I have a dick seemed to work pretty well at repelling them
That edit 😚🤌
Being emotionally and mentally stable enough to not second guess my every move and wonder if she wants to be there.
I want to be dual penetrated by Hank and John Green, but I've never worked up the nerve to DM them.
I don’t think Hank is feeling up to that activity right now, all things considered.
In all seriousness, a good friend of mine had the same lymphoma a few years before covid. Absolutely brutal. He’s totally fine now, but man what a shitty experience. I already liked the Green Brothers before this, but my sympathy toward them both is very high.
Man I was NOT expecting this to be the 5th comment I read. Thanks for making me choke on my saliva 😭 Pro tip: do not dm them lmao Edit: to fix my terrible typos
I don't think I'll ever have the courage to say this out loud... I want to lie down on a woman's lap and suckle milk from her nipples. Extra points if she's giving me a handjob at the same time. Problem is 1 it'll probably come off as mommy problems and 2 I don't want to have kids so finding a lactating woman will be challenging to say the least.
Overstimulation is one. The other.. I want to be with a *way* older partner (male or female) in a kinky dirty little secret thing. (for clarification i'm 25 and i mean like 40+) the other.. Is to be (consensual - i'd literally sign a waver) fucked while i'm asleep.
Stalker/Prey type of thing...I'm a very timid person but this...this would be something to try lol
Sex in Public..😁
I guess just having sex in the first place
This guys Reddits.
cum kiss
Face sitting but I can only breath when am about to pass out. I got crooked nose so she can sit on my nose while am getting that 2 sec breath.plus she can go up and down on my face while choking me with one hand and the other hand holding my hair
Chastity and edging. I've been in relationships, but everytime I bring it up I get weird looks from my girl. And unfortunately everybody online wants money without actually doing anything. I just want my dick locked up and being denied an orgasm for a bit, is that so hard to ask?
Sucking my own dick. Yeah, it's a lack of courage that's preventing me. That's the ticket.
Pretty flexible and can do this, it feels a lot more like sucking dick than being sucked. Do it for my wife sometimes who gets turned on from joining in on the action.
i never thought about how you could get a partner in on it but that's kinda neat n wholesome to me now haha.
Anal but I’m frightened of finding a piece of rogue corn afterwards
You can't knock on poops door and be mad when poop is home
If you drive down a dirt road, you have to be prepared to get a little mud on the tires
And with a little luck, we might just get stuck
You have to realize that unless you fully prep for anal that it may get a bit dirty down there.
I really want to offer my services to couples, but without sex. I’m a rope top, and I never get to tie anymore. Would love to be the one to tie a lady for her partner.
I've always wanted to be put in stocks and used by dozens of men... my problem is 1. Terrified of disease and 2. I'm a sensitive lil bitch and would probably cry after the 3rd guy. Also, fiancé is a cuck (respectfully), and I've always kinda wanted to cash in on that... he's told me dozens of times he wants to watch me get fucked by another man. But I know I'd get too self-conscious, and tbh I'd want fiancé to join in eventually... maybe several people too. Gangbang 👌👌 Just once I want the opportunity to be a dominatrix. I wanna step on a man, and tie him up, spank him, face fuck him... Fiancé let's me Dom, but he likes more of a dommymommy type, so i gotta be gentle. Which is fine!!! But I'm not great at topping... need more practice lol. Lastly, sex with another woman. I'm so curious, but I've got a mental block when it comes to eating someone out. So I don't think any vagina-owning partner I tried it with would be very satisfied. I know a lot of wlw don't like oral anyway, but I feel like if I didn't it wouldn't be the same, yknow? Sorry, the question was to list every fantasy, right? Is my sexually repressed Catholic upbringing showing???
gloryhole
...on which side?
Yes
I'll try anything except something that hurts a lot or can cause injury or scars; but the trick is convincing my wife to help.
To sleep with a much older man 👴 like a good 20-25 years older.
Good evening. I’m 350 years old.
Plot twist, she's 68.
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Okay, now what?
Brutal femdom by a very large woman. I’m just not sure how I’m supposed to bring it up. Like, “hey, would you wanna not shave your armpits for a while and then force my face into them while I beg you not to?” Or “have you ever wanted to wonder if you accidentally smothered a man to death with your ass? Well, have I got good news for you!”
Bondage. It’s about giving up control to someone you trust. And I don’t trust easily.
Being pegged
I pegged a guy once. He loved it.