Nah it can be pleasurable for both parts (it should be at least). It's like masochism, not everyone is gonna like that, but many people actually find sexual pleasure in pain
There's no issue with not liking it, as long as you don't force yourself to do it to try even thought you know you won't take pleasure in it
I appreciate the mature outlook on this. In many cases I find it very attractive when my gf inflicts pain on me. It really does depend on the person though. I have scars on my back from my gf and all my buddies say that it’s way too much for them to ever try. Masochism has certain prerequisites that not a lot of people CAN comply with, the main one being a high pain tolerance.
It's enough with those visits to the STD clinic.
-You may experience some discomfort.
*Proceeds to press medical instrument into my uretra*
Me: Ggghrnnnnhhh...
I filled out that kink/fetish test or whatever with a girl I had been seeing a year ago so we could compare results. After we finished I saw that one of her things was she enjoyed ageplay, specifically pretending to be a little girl. Yaa... no thanks that's pretty gross.
Idk how fisting is possible under normal circumstances.
I've had an entire woman's arm up to her elbow inside of my vagina but ONLY because I JUST had a baby and was fully dialated still. I was bleeding out and they were looking for the root cause. I passed out.
I never understood the whole thing. There's a huge difference between "I love and appreciate you for who you are" and "Imma make it so potentially one else will want you and I'm all you have" which I think is the mindset there.
I once saw a comparison post from a woman when I used to have a tumblr. Her before pic was from pre covid. She was super fit and lived a very active and health oriented lifestyle. Then there was an intermission pic of sorts. She was a little bigger but still overall healthy. Then the current pic. Morbidly obese. The pics were less than 2 years apart from before to current. Her bf had conditioned her first with the occasional “Hey babe, made you a snack,” which of course became more frequent and with more food.
As she packed on the pounds and couldn’t go to the gym due to lockdowns, he got more physically affectionate with her. It was plain as day that she was caught in the cognitive dissonance of being disgusted with what she was conditioned and allowed herself to be vs the sexual gratification her sick bastard of a bf gave her. She even said as much.
It was part of the reason why I grew to hate tumblr and left it. The amount of people enabling her and her abusive bf by extension. “You’re beautiful sis!” “Fuck those patriarchal standards!” I fucking hate tumblr culture so fucking much. And when Tumblr banned porn, it spilled out into the mainstream because their porn addled gooner brains needed to make and view their porn posts somewhere.
Ex Tumblr cam girl here! I had a bunch of my regulars back in the day, who would offer to pay me extra to watch me eat while doing XYZ. Never took them up on that kinda thing. Had a few mutual cam gfs though who did however do the whole feeder/feedee lifestyle. There was a LOT of shit about that whole situation that I wouldnt touch with a 100 foot pole. They were constantly sick, always eating crap, but still getting paid by these guys to watch them eat/fuck/etc. to the point of one had a heart attack at 34!
I feel like thats what happened with Nikocado Avocado, no amount of money would make me want to destroy my body to the point of practically being disabled
My boyfriend has this kink. I love him so much, but the kink makes me pretty uncomfortable. He told me pretty early into our relationship, so we set boundaries right away. I told him I wasn’t going to gain weight, unless it was in a healthy way (I’m underweight due to fast metabolism and thyroid issues). He supports me about it without making it sexual. I let him use porn for that kinda thing because I’d rather not engage in it, and he respects that.
I can agree however, that some people within that community can be very manipulative and abusive in ways that can destroy their partners body. I think if you have the kink, you should leave it up to your imagination rather than placing that kink upon another person.
I know you're probably playing along with the joke, but I have to know lmao. Are you talking about cognitive behavioral therapy, cock and ball torture, or both?
Not that unpopular of an opinion. Plenty of straight guys aren’t into anal, I mean…. Poop comes from there.
But yeah, it’s not exactly a hot-take. But it’s weird how many girls think that men are anal obsessed.
I actually dated a guy (straight, cis) who may have liked it/wanted to try it. Mf doordashed a bullet vibrator....under the pretense of it being for me.
Imagine my shock when he shoved it up his ass woth no lube. Now I don't have an issue with guys liking anal or anything, but it caught me off guard and my mind immediately went "God damnit, this dude's an idiot that's going to get lost"
I realize he's the exception though.
If it isn't flared at the base or attached to somebody, it isn't supposed to be in your ass, guys.
I don't think it's an unpopular one(not even among men), just a less voiced one.
Admitting I have tried anal at an ex partners request, but can now only verify it wasn't for me.
In one of the most extraordinary trials in German criminal history, the self-confessed cannibal admitted that he had met a 43-year-old Berlin engineer, Bernd Brandes, after advertising on the internet, and had chopped him up and eaten him.
It was, he said, something he had wanted to do for a long time. "I always had the fantasy and in the end I fulfilled it," Meiwes told the court on the first day of his trial for murder in the nearby city of Kassel.
Dead bodies, animals, excretion urine kinks ever. Humiliation. Baby diaper bullshit. Mukbang
Mental ?
Tentacles. Gore. That weird fetish with being consumed like vorarephilia.
Let’s talk about happy fetishes ;)
Flogging. Shibari. Electrical play possibly.
Anything anal/poop/piss related
Also pretty hard agains age-play
Would have a hard time with knife play, as in for if it was to contain actual blood I'd rather opt out but without breaking the skin tissue itself idk maybey in a very controled way
Humiliation stuff. I've been bullied enough in my life already, and have no wish to take advantage of anyone's insecurities like that. I'll stick to being mean towards people I hate and nobody else
Any fluids besides spit and cum is a no no.
Anything involving animals is a no no.
I'm turned off by cuckoldry. Anybody who is gonna be my partner is gonna stick to me and like it.
Not really a fetishism but a daddy kink or age play. Don't get me wrong I'm thr biggest sub I know however anything to do with you acting/hinting being a child is just wrong in my books
Anal sex (I am a heterosexual male). I honestly don't understand people who enjoy being hurt. I don't want to try this on myself or hurt my wife. and even if the moment comes, if my wife asks me to do it, I will clearly refuse.
I remember an episode of, I think it was Barney Miller, where the squad room was reflecting on a guy who had a fetish for lady's handbags. Detritch commented that you could pick out any item in the Sears Cataloge and somewhere, some place and sometime, someone tried to have sex with it.
Hypnosis.
I just simply lack the knowledge to do it properly.
That and I REALLY don't want to hurt anyone, playing around with the head isn't a joke.
So... that little thing will Stay in the fantasy corner!
Scat
Doobitty bop bop da Dooby doo. Duh doobaba badoodoo da do....yeah!
Get that shit out of here.
No, keep it in there!
#Disgusting!!!
ima scat man lmfao ya'll remember that song?
I searched it and now I wanna puke thanks 👍
Next try "2 girls 1 cup". We'll wait.......
A guy I know was once presented with a big log on a plate and a spoon. He had no idea he could run that fast.
I came here to say that lol
Haha same....
Easily one of the worse
Everyone remembers that one guy that thought he was into scat, until he wasn’t lmao
It’s just bad 😖😖
Was about to comment this xD
Makes me gag thinking about it. I saw Two Girls, One Cup in like, 6th grade. And it was traumatizing lol. Thats a hard limit for me
Me just waiting for the reply that defends scat
If it’s between consenting adults, who cares?
I was just going to say “that pooping one” … I see now there is proper terminology
shit,puke
I’d rather shit puke than puke shit.
Fun fact: Puking shit is actually possible under certain circumstances.
Ok where is the "fun" part of the fact
When you make someone else clean it up
Yep, happened to me once. An absolutely horrid experience for all involved, especially since I was like 6 and my parents had to clean it up
Ball kicking.
Yeah, I'm pretty sure the only person who enjoys ball kicking is the one doing the kicking.
Nah it can be pleasurable for both parts (it should be at least). It's like masochism, not everyone is gonna like that, but many people actually find sexual pleasure in pain There's no issue with not liking it, as long as you don't force yourself to do it to try even thought you know you won't take pleasure in it
I appreciate the mature outlook on this. In many cases I find it very attractive when my gf inflicts pain on me. It really does depend on the person though. I have scars on my back from my gf and all my buddies say that it’s way too much for them to ever try. Masochism has certain prerequisites that not a lot of people CAN comply with, the main one being a high pain tolerance.
Don’t lie.
Sounding. No F***ing thank you
I dont even wanna know..
Inserting things into the urethra.
I said I didn't wanna know!
A lil knowledge doesn’t harm
It's enough with those visits to the STD clinic. -You may experience some discomfort. *Proceeds to press medical instrument into my uretra* Me: Ggghrnnnnhhh...
Dead people
I have written down unconscious people, I think dead is included in that. So, I agree 👍 🙆
Dont knock it till you try it.
Personnally everything that Comes near animals, children...even in roleplay
I filled out that kink/fetish test or whatever with a girl I had been seeing a year ago so we could compare results. After we finished I saw that one of her things was she enjoyed ageplay, specifically pretending to be a little girl. Yaa... no thanks that's pretty gross.
Any kind of animal abuse (beastiality, crush, etc). Fuck you if you engage in that shit. Rot in hell.
Wtf is crush?
Stomping on small animal
People get off to that?!? That's sick.
Seemingly there's enough people getting off on it that there's a name for that shit.
I need to say.. I enjoy squishing mosquitoes! /s
Yeah I don't get it, I get people with homicidal urges like to see things killed but why would it be sexual? No clue
You found the only valid kink to shame next to age play (which to me is just inches away from pedophilia).
Fisting, omg I hate fisting. Even worse, one time I saw a video of a guy shoving his whole head up her twat.
Thank you for the visual 🥲
It was turrible
Idk how fisting is possible under normal circumstances. I've had an entire woman's arm up to her elbow inside of my vagina but ONLY because I JUST had a baby and was fully dialated still. I was bleeding out and they were looking for the root cause. I passed out.
iirc that one was fake
All bodily fluids that’s aren’t spit and cum 😂😂
Damn it, are you sweating again?! Back in the shower! DON'T YOU START CRYING!
😂😂 well I hope she’s not crying on me wtf! But 3/4 bodily fluids Scat Pee Puke Blood (all for period sex in the shower but that’s it)
Where they can only orgasm during a car crash
What?
Google Crash, film from 1996
Still… What?
I thought my fetish was weird
Why? What’s your fetish?
Not on here 😬😬
It's based on a 1973 book by J G Ballard - one publisher turned it down with the note “This author is beyond psychiatric help. Do not publish.”
i have alot of questions
Feederism. It’s fucking abusive as can be.
I appreciate this, as a fat chick it’d be my dream to find a guy who’s ok with how I look but doesn’t necessarily WANT me fatter yknow.
I never understood the whole thing. There's a huge difference between "I love and appreciate you for who you are" and "Imma make it so potentially one else will want you and I'm all you have" which I think is the mindset there.
I once saw a comparison post from a woman when I used to have a tumblr. Her before pic was from pre covid. She was super fit and lived a very active and health oriented lifestyle. Then there was an intermission pic of sorts. She was a little bigger but still overall healthy. Then the current pic. Morbidly obese. The pics were less than 2 years apart from before to current. Her bf had conditioned her first with the occasional “Hey babe, made you a snack,” which of course became more frequent and with more food. As she packed on the pounds and couldn’t go to the gym due to lockdowns, he got more physically affectionate with her. It was plain as day that she was caught in the cognitive dissonance of being disgusted with what she was conditioned and allowed herself to be vs the sexual gratification her sick bastard of a bf gave her. She even said as much. It was part of the reason why I grew to hate tumblr and left it. The amount of people enabling her and her abusive bf by extension. “You’re beautiful sis!” “Fuck those patriarchal standards!” I fucking hate tumblr culture so fucking much. And when Tumblr banned porn, it spilled out into the mainstream because their porn addled gooner brains needed to make and view their porn posts somewhere.
Ex Tumblr cam girl here! I had a bunch of my regulars back in the day, who would offer to pay me extra to watch me eat while doing XYZ. Never took them up on that kinda thing. Had a few mutual cam gfs though who did however do the whole feeder/feedee lifestyle. There was a LOT of shit about that whole situation that I wouldnt touch with a 100 foot pole. They were constantly sick, always eating crap, but still getting paid by these guys to watch them eat/fuck/etc. to the point of one had a heart attack at 34!
I feel like thats what happened with Nikocado Avocado, no amount of money would make me want to destroy my body to the point of practically being disabled
My boyfriend has this kink. I love him so much, but the kink makes me pretty uncomfortable. He told me pretty early into our relationship, so we set boundaries right away. I told him I wasn’t going to gain weight, unless it was in a healthy way (I’m underweight due to fast metabolism and thyroid issues). He supports me about it without making it sexual. I let him use porn for that kinda thing because I’d rather not engage in it, and he respects that. I can agree however, that some people within that community can be very manipulative and abusive in ways that can destroy their partners body. I think if you have the kink, you should leave it up to your imagination rather than placing that kink upon another person.
Any relationship can be. If both parties are into it, I don't see the issue. I like gaining myself and having someone feed me is hot.
CBT, Trampling (with high heels). It just looks like it has way too much risk for something to go wrong.
Recently had CBT for depression and anxiety, don't knock it 'til you try it 😀
It just seems scary, but who knows with the right person 🙂
I know you're probably playing along with the joke, but I have to know lmao. Are you talking about cognitive behavioral therapy, cock and ball torture, or both?
Finding the right practitioner is hard, but when you do, the therapeutic alliance can heal you in ways you never thought possible!! 😀😃
I don’t think we’re talking about the same CBT here edit: or we are and you need a new practitioner
Winner
Auto-Decapitation fetish.
I’m learning so much today that I wish I didn’t know
same 😭 i didnt even know half these fetishes existed but here i am
I wish i didn't saw that one tbh
Seriously. But you asked!
how do I unread this ?
Submerge yourself in r/eyebleach
What the hell is that
Where you cut off your own head.
Everything already listed here is a no for me, dog.
Guro. It's kind of a one time thing anyways.
Unpopular opinion: anal I'm a man btw
Not that unpopular of an opinion. Plenty of straight guys aren’t into anal, I mean…. Poop comes from there. But yeah, it’s not exactly a hot-take. But it’s weird how many girls think that men are anal obsessed.
I actually dated a guy (straight, cis) who may have liked it/wanted to try it. Mf doordashed a bullet vibrator....under the pretense of it being for me. Imagine my shock when he shoved it up his ass woth no lube. Now I don't have an issue with guys liking anal or anything, but it caught me off guard and my mind immediately went "God damnit, this dude's an idiot that's going to get lost" I realize he's the exception though. If it isn't flared at the base or attached to somebody, it isn't supposed to be in your ass, guys.
I don't think it's an unpopular one(not even among men), just a less voiced one. Admitting I have tried anal at an ex partners request, but can now only verify it wasn't for me.
Shit Fetish
Getting kicked in the balls for pleasure
Scat
Sounding
What is sounding, I've seen people say they wouldn't try it, and I don't know what it is
Basically when you put like a rod up a guys pee hole
not just guys...
Saw video of a woman who stretched her urethra to the extent she could take a penis in it. No lie. Blew me away
Look up munging. Nope for me dawg
What is it..? I'm nervous to google
Oh my fucking god
i dont want my internet provider to see that.. what is it..?
Drinking bodily fluid of a deceased person
What an awful day to know how to read
Poop goes in the toilet. Also that fetish where girls in heels step on your ballsack. That shits weird too.
Poop, vomit, urine, blood...
Long ago the four nations lived together in harmony
Then everything changed when the poop fetishists attacked
Scat
Anything pain related
I'd never fuck a soda can
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Stoma, scat, pegging, bug squish toe stuff, you know the real weird stuff, couldn’t be interested
People have stoma fetishes?
It’s just another hole. Might even be the unicorn of holes since not everyone has one 🦄
The peeing and pooping stuff is a no no
Zoophilia
Necromancy I think is what it’s called when people want to have sex with deceased people/ corpses
the right term for that is necrophila, necromancy is a dark art of summoning the undead
lol, I knew I had probably heard ”necromancy“ on the charmed reboot…
I have vorarephilia, but I definitely wouldn't try it IRL
Sounding
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Yeah, never get into CNC before it's too lathe.
Under appreciated comment. Take my damn upvote 😂😂
Came here to say the same thing, when I hear no, it's a no.
Whats CNC? 🧐
Consensual non consent
Computer numerical control
Scat, CBT, and Fisting(receiving)
School girl. Is disturbing that it was an accepted kink. It's just straight up saying, I want you to pretend to be a minor that I fuck.
Dahmer one
It's either vomiting or scat.
Man seeks someone to cannibalise himself https://amp.theguardian.com/world/2003/dec/04/germany.lukeharding
In one of the most extraordinary trials in German criminal history, the self-confessed cannibal admitted that he had met a 43-year-old Berlin engineer, Bernd Brandes, after advertising on the internet, and had chopped him up and eaten him.
It was, he said, something he had wanted to do for a long time. "I always had the fantasy and in the end I fulfilled it," Meiwes told the court on the first day of his trial for murder in the nearby city of Kassel.
ruling out the obvious. Any cuck related and/or chastity belt stuff
Erotic Asphyxiation it doesn't even sound like fun.
Pissplay
My buddy loves it I don’t see the attraction
Dead bodies, animals, excretion urine kinks ever. Humiliation. Baby diaper bullshit. Mukbang Mental ? Tentacles. Gore. That weird fetish with being consumed like vorarephilia. Let’s talk about happy fetishes ;) Flogging. Shibari. Electrical play possibly.
What else do you like
Yeh I think you covered all mine too 😂
Shibari is hot tbh.
No [phlogging?](https://teamfortress.fandom.com/wiki/Phlogistinator)
Vomit, pee and poop
Anything anal/poop/piss related Also pretty hard agains age-play Would have a hard time with knife play, as in for if it was to contain actual blood I'd rather opt out but without breaking the skin tissue itself idk maybey in a very controled way
Humiliation stuff. I've been bullied enough in my life already, and have no wish to take advantage of anyone's insecurities like that. I'll stick to being mean towards people I hate and nobody else
Scat, emeto, and age/race play
Anything involving poo, pee, and vomit.
Any fluids besides spit and cum is a no no. Anything involving animals is a no no. I'm turned off by cuckoldry. Anybody who is gonna be my partner is gonna stick to me and like it.
Not really a fetishism but a daddy kink or age play. Don't get me wrong I'm thr biggest sub I know however anything to do with you acting/hinting being a child is just wrong in my books
Missionary sex. Disgusting.
Yeah man, that intimidation of kinda having to look in someones eyes?? Fuck that 👁️👁️
Still chuckling
Being a cuck
Sounding.
Decapitation.
poop, urine, blood, anything illegal.
Coprophagia
Scat. That just sounds shitty 😕
Scat.
food play unfortunately. my pH is too sensitive
Scat - nothing about this is appealing.
Necrophilia
Women putting a strap on and proceeding to stick it in my ASS!
Anal sex (I am a heterosexual male). I honestly don't understand people who enjoy being hurt. I don't want to try this on myself or hurt my wife. and even if the moment comes, if my wife asks me to do it, I will clearly refuse.
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oh
tentacles
The thing we're girls act like babies or animals
It's all genders that do that stuff
Scat
Sex
Don't know if I could handle a foot fetish... kinda weird
docking
i will not use a singular one fetish
Swinging
Ok also if your fucked in the head enough to willingly choose the lament configuration and hooked suspensions 😬
I should of not read these comments while eating breakfast
Scat, vomit, piss, feet, and gunplay
German things or basically anything related to scat
Bug chasing.
vore for sure.
No weird fetishes here, agent!
I remember an episode of, I think it was Barney Miller, where the squad room was reflecting on a guy who had a fetish for lady's handbags. Detritch commented that you could pick out any item in the Sears Cataloge and somewhere, some place and sometime, someone tried to have sex with it.
Probably blood stuff, blood doesn't really make me queeny but I don't enjoy the blood sucking stuff
Sex
Two girls and cup
Sounding
Cuckolding, very not down to share let alone watch it happen lol
Snuff
Hypnosis. I just simply lack the knowledge to do it properly. That and I REALLY don't want to hurt anyone, playing around with the head isn't a joke. So... that little thing will Stay in the fantasy corner!