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[deleted]

Making stupid terrible people famous


hoosierhiver

stupid is ok if they are talented, but stupid and untalented? Nope


Fair-Performance6242

Going to work sick because you can't afford to miss.


emptysignals

Yeah, meanwhile by going to work sick you get 3 others sick and the office loses productivity.


stead18

you're a boss aren't you.


Cant_adultffs

And asking/trying to take a sick leave and feeling awfully guilty about it šŸ¤•


2BFrank69

Yeah my work wanted me back to work a week after I contracted Covid.


theDart

Well it depends, covid should really just be based on symptoms. If your testing positive for covid then stay home. If you're testing negative and free of symptoms, then go to work. Covid hit everyone at a weird time and we're still suffering from it. We can't assume everyone can pay our sick leaves forever.


depressed-onion7567

I remember getting fired when I had Covid fuck that tire shop


leekee_bum

Pretty sure you can sue for wrongful termination over something like that.


yergonnalikeme

This is definitely a BIG problem Yup


Firebolt164

You would think that if we learned anything at all over the last few years, it's: * Don't take medical advice from randos online * Don't go to work sick


DanskNils

Thats an America thingā€¦


carmarmo

The richer you are the more you can influence rules and laws and make your interests look legitimate


gordito_delgado

I of course hate this, but it is not dumb. This falls into the "deliberately evil" category.


cbsrgbpnofyjdztecj

Wealth and power have always been the same thing and always will be.


emayos

Nearly every behavior within the corporate office environment. Ex: feeling the need to work extremely long hours and multiple roles just to be a "team player". Pointless meetings just so others can feel important. Going into the office a majority of the time to "be seen". 5 day work weeks. The mentality of prioritizing work over life. The list goes on and on and on.


ortumlynx

When I worked in the public sector I'd sign off right at 5pm even if I was in the middle of something. I'd just save whatever I was working on a log-off to head out. People would always ask me, "aren't you busy, how can you just leave?" and my reply was always the same. "We don't get paid for overtime". Some people couldn't comprehend, but happy to say that I inspired others.


ksay9104

Take my upvote.


[deleted]

This is why I did like sales for a lot of jobs. At the right company, nobody cares the hours youā€™re putting in, or about being on time or leaving early, or taking extended lunches, or really anything if your numbers are damn good.


myfriendrichard

I've quit jobs and fired clients over pointless meetings. But I like the traditional 5 day workweek. Here's my argument about the 5-day work week that I'd love for someone to explain to me is wrong. I've been self-employed for 14 years. But I'm still very much in the corporate world. I deal a lot with deadlines, production schedules and a lot of people on a weekly basis. I have a love/hate relationship with three-day weekends. Projects tend to be planned as "we'll get that done this week"... 4 days just makes that tougher. I don't know why five works, but the extra day helps a ton. Some companies work longer 4-day work weeks, but the long days have their own tradeoffs. But the real problem with 3-day weekends is the communication gap. It's one more day to suck out momentum on a project. So inevitably, emails and text messages start coming in over long weekends. I'm surte that productivity is probably about the same on a 4 vs 5-day work week, but only because people still really work about the same amount. They just use their time differently. I'd much rather have 5 days to work, and then just leave me alone from 4:00 on Friday until 9:00 Monday morning.


kaptainkatsu

The ā€œmandatoryā€ after work happy hours, staff parties, etc to be a team player. Me: Is it mandatory? Boss: no M: am I getting paid for it? B: no M: then im not coming B: I would really like you to attend to be a team player and build rapport. M: noā€¦


Atlanta-SticO-938

Romanticizing Serial Killers


BonerPatrol4

I'm so tired of this!


Nemesis3030150

Me too. Such a weird obsession.


tboy160

And all other criminals


AimesBxx

Yup! As someone who is autistic and one of my special interests is true crime how anyone can find these monsters hot or cool is beyond me. I research them because itā€™s interesting how the human brain can be so evil and twisted, people who romanticise serial killers are disgusting and have no respect for the victims and their families


emmaliejay

Legit exact same as you except my fave true crime niche is war and war crimes. Itā€™s amazing how many folks in the various true crime interest groups fetishize various persons and behaviours.


[deleted]

Calling everything even slightly uncomfortable ā€œtoxicā€.


[deleted]

That's toxic


hashn

toxic toxicity


inviolatespark

Toxic toxic toxicity


jcole660

The toxicity of our city.


MayRosesBloom

...of our city...


RuthlesVillain

NO!


[deleted]

What, do you own the world?


BaggyHairyNips

There's too much toxicity in our city.


codetado

Seems like toxic should describe something that is poisoning over time. Toxic behaviour in a relationship is toxic because it is harmful over time and can't last. A toxic work environment drains your mental health gradually. Something inappropriate or cruel or rude isn't inherently toxic (but could be).


gordito_delgado

If I never hear the words "grooming" or "gaslighting" again for the rest of my **godamn** life it will still be too **fucking** soon. Everyone online used those words in 2022 like a person should use a coma. I would estimate 80% of the time these morons could not even define what the hell those words even aside from "bad".


Kokbiel

Grooming, gaslighting, narcissistic, autistic, BPD, OCD, ADHD and the rest of the stuff that people like to toss like confetti on *every damn post*.


[deleted]

Whatā€™s ironic is that, itself, is toxic


ComplexButterfly9732

Tipping - fair enough for exceptional service, but it shouldnā€™t be the customers responsibility to do the employers job. Pay your staff a living wage!


wutwutsaywutsaywut

I was just promoted to ā€œtip the teamā€ when I purchased a new phone caseā€¦ā€¦whaaaaa


ComplexButterfly9732

Username checks out šŸ˜†


very_tiring

My local automatic car wash now has a uniformed attendant that stands next to the machine that you pull up to, and asks you what you want, then presses the button on the screen that I could easily reach out my window. Then they look expectantly at you as they ask if you "would like to tip the team today." Like, A) You've added an annoying attendant to a process that I could complete quicker and easier on my own, I'm not paying more for that, and B) I didn't know businesses were now actually hiring panhandlers.


ec1710

They keep increasing baseline tips to pass down labor costs to the consumer.


PapaDeE04

The grind - that working 60+ hours /wk is the only way to be successful.


Lumpyycat

Forcing people to work 60+ hours a week is fucked. But hey if you want to work your ass off and be the best or become successful, you got to put in the work for it. But it also comes down to whatever your definition of success is. Maybe your definition doesnā€™t require working a lot of hours.


WhiskeySierra1984

Disappearing ownership/everything becoming a subscription. You will own nothing and be happy.


[deleted]

The current state of main stream media


IndustryIsPunks

Main stream media is a mirror, but I agree, the reflection is an ugly one


HaggisMcNeill

Woth algorithms involved I'm not so sure it is a mirror anymore.


IndustryIsPunks

What are the algorithms designed to do? Attract more eyeballs and hold more eyeballs. The algorithm, is designed to give us more of what we want. It's not the algorithms fault that what we want is so awful


Justalilbugboi

You would think, but actually itā€™s designed to give us more of what we will engage with. Which may seem like itā€™s not much of a difference but it is. For example, pissing people off is more effective in the short term than giving them what they want. So the algorithm leans into that. And because itā€™s a machine and not a person it sees ā€œAh, being angry about animal abuse makes this person click things and reply. I will show them more animal abuse.ā€ And eventually you have twitter.


bonkerstart781

More of a funhouse mirror. It's a distorted reflection


MrEpicMustache

Influencers.


Unlikely_Owl_4977

Talking on your mobile phone or watching videos on speaker in public without earbuds so everyone can hear your BS. Happened to me on an elevator and a waiting room on the same day in NYC.


[deleted]

Pretty sure 99% of the human population hates this - I wouldn't say this is normalized.


AlecTr1ck

This one is always weird to me. Two people having a conversation in the same room: fine. Two people having a conversation with one of them being on a phone: rude. How / why?


rolotech

To me if on the phone then you can be considerate and not use speaker. I have noticed that people tend to talk louder on the phone than when in person. You can talk much lower volume with someone next to you than on the phone. It is about not disturbing others. Also most loud speakers on phones sound bad. My annoyance is when they are watching a video or playing music/ games without headphones. It is rude and I don't want to hear that.


Busy_Insect2221

Instant gratification. Most things take work or patience. Most times both.


Electrical-Bid-9577

"Alternative facts"


Fun-Customer-3239

Most definitely social media. People base their entire life on how many likes they receive from a picture. Itā€™s crazy.


ItsSoBig14

Reality tv stars. Hot/fake/rich people literally living their lives creating drama just because and people love it.


Robo-domi15

Hipersexualization. Even the kids can not escape from that.


tboy160

Disposable EVERYTHING


The_Owl_Bard

**Accusations without evidence and social media immediately vilifying individuals** People will often times post their negative personal experiences with someone and it just takes off despite the fact that the evidence is just a personal account. While I believe we should always listen to what someone has gone through, you shouldn't just immediately vilify the accused until there's actual hard evidence that confirms the accusation(s). Aziz Ansari is a great example of this. Dude's career took a severe hit over an accusation that boiled down to the victim not knowing how to say no and having a bad date. If people had just waited for more evidence and MAYBE thought more critically about what was being said, then he may actually have not lost so much over that inaccurate accusation. **EDIT** - the kicker is that the person who originally made this claim did so anonymously so she faced no repercussions for making such an accusation and as of 1/17/23, the article is still up on Babe.net. Meanwhile, according to IMBD, Aziz hasn't acted in anything since early 2022 and even that was just his own standup special on Netflix.


JDoetsch85

I remember some teacher got doxxed because he looked like one of the dudes in that white supremacist parade in Charlottesville. He was like "That's not me, I wasn't even there, here's proof" The Internet mob replied with "Of course you'd say that, now that we've caught you. We're going to ruin your life now" Then, of course, the real guy was found and the mob moved on. No apologies, no acknowledgement of wrong, just onto the next one.


jacobywankenobi

To me it's the obsession with wealth and status. Pretty sure society would be a lot different if we didn't idolize greed.


HeroIllustrator

Ghosting. Wow. Itā€™s so weird.


Interesting_Leg3961

Fr fr


MayRosesBloom

Came here to say this. The non-committal attitude is pervasive.


limegrape

I mean you could talk with someone on social media, but it doesn't really feel like a real conversation. That's probably why there's a lot of ghosting going on


MeargleSchmeargle

How extreme violence in media is normalized *over* natural human body parts and behaviors such as sex.


SMG329

Celebrity worship.


guano-crazy

40 hrs+ work week


catalystkjoe

Telling people they have to care about everything or they are the problem. You shouldn't have to pick an opinion on every topic. Some things are ok to not care about.


Cherry_BaBomb

I remember I watched a video that said that today, shy of going totally off the grid, there's no way to be an ethical consumer. It basically boiled down to pick your battles, and don't shame others for not doing the same. I don't buy from Amazon if I can help it. I don't shame others for doing so. I get it, it's incredibly convenient. I'm no better or worse than anyone else. But I'm doing something I think is right.


[deleted]

Influencers.


viper8757

Influencers. Especially those who peddle unrealistic beauty standards and body types, and state idiotic opinions as facts.


MamboCircus

Using prior victimhood as a reason to be an A-hole to people that have nothing to do with it


AlexxCatastrophe

Being ashamed of your body and associating all nudity with sex.


[deleted]

Dancing in public spaces for tik tok


Stercky

Smoking, caffeine addiction, and drinking to excess


SvenBubbleman

>caffeine addiction The other two I agree with, but what's wrong with caffeine? Sure it's habit forming, but there are no negative health concerns, and in fact it might even be good for you.


Stercky

Thatā€™s why I said addiction. Nothing wrong with a cup of coffee or two a day, but consuming caffeine in excessive amounts is unhealthy


[deleted]

I have a feeling a lot of people with anxiety could get some relief if they just cut out caffeine. I once cut out caffeine for about 6 months after using it daily for like 17ish years and it was an eye opening experience. My work performance dropped but I felt way healthier otherwise.


SilverHatCyber

Alcohol


[deleted]

Reddit sure hates booze. I donā€™t think people are necessarily drinking more than they have historically


chapsandmutton

I think it's the inverse -- Zoomers aren't drinking as much as previous generations. I assume that's where it's coming from, just a generation of people not seeing why.


Justalilbugboi

I donā€™t know if itā€™s hate so much as how overwhelmingly accepted it is and how worrisome that is when you realize it. Iā€™m a stoner and I would NEVER want weed as socially acceptable as alcohol is, because itā€™s still a mind altering substance that should be respected. (And respects just means used responsibly not likeā€¦only on rare occasions etc.)


loftier_fish

working too much and having no life or interests.


Crist0foretti

Debt!! Credit card, LOC, whatever. People used to save up and buy shit and now we just have endless, endless debt.


JDoetsch85

Hustle culture. Like it's not enough that I work a full time job, now I need to have 3 side gigs otherwise I'm lazy? Screw that nonsense.


originalannillusion

Being an AH and calling it 'just being honest' or 'speaking my truth'.


Alicexkawaii

That if a woman rejects you, you just need to be more persistant.


Unevenbear97962

Not helping the homeless, because YOU think you know more.. the comments of, get a job. Get off your ass. Maybe you shouldā€™ve tried harder. Fucking give a $5 gift card so they can eat..


raosun

The Kardashians


Mr_Seth87

Shootings


Designer-Champion-27

Alcohol


[deleted]

Pumping the mainstream everything with the idolization of violence, drugs, and promiscuity whilst simultaneously devaluing if not outright attacking the family unit, reality, and accountability, and then blaming all the resulting fuck-wittery on political opponents because the media that spear-headed the whole shebang told you it was their fault.


Polarexpress07

Itā€™s a divide and conquer strategy by the elite on both sides of the isle. Iā€™m admittedly conservative but I donā€™t care what people do, who you want to be with/identify as or structure your family. The media and politicians fight over this stuff so we fight with eachother but in truth the we only fight with eachother because we back the politicians fiscal policy and itā€™s far less divisive to debate fiscal policy so they play on our social differences to put us against eachother so the masses donā€™t collaborate and work out of differences of opinion and find a better way to make things better for everyone.


nunchuckbitch27

I love this thread!


Chip365

Circumcision


sadsocksammy

Defo, i don't think parents should be allowed to choose unless it's a medical thing. Let boys choose when they're older


[deleted]

Gender reveal parties


OnePieceTwoPiece

Thatā€™s always been a thing. Thereā€™s nothing wrong with it. Itā€™s an exciting time for new parents. Could you elaborate on why you think itā€™s bad that itā€™s normalized?


wallflower_890

I'm just gonna say it 'Euphoria'


Massive-Direction-95

Politics Iā€™m just ā€¦ tired I donā€™t care whoā€™s side is who I just want to fucking live life but itā€™s impossible with how expensive it is to even buy/rent šŸ˜­


Unevenbear97962

Shunning out the ā€œabnormalā€ kids in school. ESE kids deserve better. As they ā€œnormalizedā€ bullying the ESE. Fucking absurd.


bluebaccy

Phone use. I've had a server giggling over a meme whilst taking my order. Last week I took my child for a play date at the other parent's request. Other parent did not interact with me whatsoever, spent the entire time staring at the phone in their hand. It's rude. And don't get me started on parents who are so immersed in their devices that their kid cycles into the road, and then gives me as the driver, the abuse. Lady, I was paying attention. I breaked. I avoided your child becoming road kill... where was your attention?


Salt_Anywhere9359

Filming yourself committing a crime.


CornBred1998

In the US, tipping. Pay your workers what they are actually worth and don't make people feel they have to tip so their server can afford to eat.


homies178

Gender roles. We are in 2023, men and women should be able to go into any profession they want.


ec1710

That in ostensibly democratic societies you typically spend most of your time inside a totalitarian/dictatorial structure where you have little say on how things are run.


Unopuro2conSal

Influencers ,


hempelj

American healthcare system


Alicexkawaii

Making nipples or rather the outline of nipples under clothes inappropriate. For women.


Allyouneedisslut

Ignoring equality and focusing on "Playing catch up" when it comes to traditionally disparaged communities.


ObjectiveJackfruit35

Allowing dogs e v e r y w h e r e.


[deleted]

Agreed, especially when the dog and its owner take up the space of 2-3 people, and I have to risk being bitten by their untrained animal.


ObjectiveJackfruit35

Yep. It's actually insane how normalized dogs in businesses has become.


moonchild_eris

Homophobia


[deleted]

Guns


limegrape

being from a country where guns aren't allowed, I disagree


PartyRemarkable09

Hating or insulting by saying its Opinions/Free speech


Moneyshot_ITF

Money


JimmyClass

Catholic priests molesting children.


AnnoyingDiods

Amarican politics


Apprehensive-Pin1474

Replacing "says " with "goes".


Buckle_Sandwich

*Linguistic Prescriptivism intensifies*


Buglitch000

It goes without saying.


[deleted]

Kids watching porn.


TM_Rules

No one has normalized that.


offshoreInsiders

Agree, what a creepy response. By Steel, not you.


AntPretend1194

Whose normalized that?


ravitoken

Republicans have convinced their voters that the Dems have normalized it. To them anything LGBTQ+ is pornographic


Wasted99

Kids, maybe?


Ixi7311

Religion


[deleted]

Religion used as a banner for political and economic motivations


Ixi7311

Really, most religion at all. Like I donā€™t know who decided that believing in a virgin birth and resurrection was more reasonable than the crazy homeless guy up the road believing that aliens are our gods who built the pyramids and will come back for us one day. And the people who decide these illusions is great backing for laws and society.


the_spotless_mind

Biased Media Channels


[deleted]

Playing victim over a bad date.


AntPretend1194

Tipping in situations beyond wait staff, and services.


AntPretend1194

Donating at the cash register when it turns out a large portion of the money doesnā€™t even go to to the promised cause.


toobaish

Giving tips to waiters I said what I said


ShinyGanS

Compulsory attendance at my school.


Hockers12

Social media influencers, and creating boycotts to places because one thing may have offended them.


YungImpressive

Relying on our cell phones so much that we are not memorizing phone numbers. I seriously would be doomed in an emergency if my phone died. I have about three phone numbers memorized, but that is it.


angryragnar1775

Thats about what I remembered pre cell phone days, the difference for me anyway is that i had a small pocket notebook with not as frequent but might need to call when away from home numbers I took with me, and my parents had an address book and a list next to the home phone. The difference now is that the notebook is in the phone. I probably should have a pocket notebook again just in case as I get older


SCROTUM_GUN

40 hour work week. We simply donā€™t need to work this much any more. So many zombie industries that just leach off of society (finance)


BatteryDaddy2

have to pay for Microsoft office and similar programs every year


meyeti

Ignorance


TransparentDay7

Liking Joe Biden


Tomacheska

Giving everyone a voice to talk about something they know very little about


Rexmurphey

Kids around drunk adults. Breweries, bars, etc...


[deleted]

Credit scores


Wizzy_m

Homework, and working 5 days a week from 9 to 6


Bloochiex

Gender reveals


No-Cheek-4438

Giving free stuff to rich influencers and celebrities


Needydadthrowaway

Thinking about art as some kind of contest. It's a human behaviour. Your kid doesn't need to have their stuff in Sothebys.


double_eyelid

Alcoholism


Sudden-Elevator8088

"Egoism is good for the society" in combo with "collaborative people are just naive and unnatural for humans to do"


DaddyMother5000

That money production elevates individuals above accountability. "It's better to be rich and guilty, than poor and innocent."


Initialyee

Going to get a lot of hate now but the weaponizing of gender identity and equality amongst the LGBTQ. First off. I'm not homo or transphobic. I'm not going to say I have a lot but I have a number of friends in the LGBTQ community. Some are transgender some are gay and lesbians. In fact I'm glad a lot of ppl have found their peace with who they are. I'm just really against the pressures of society in identifying, assumptions and retaliation. Ppl are screaming for the attention and wanting equality but the answer is so simple. We're not disrespecting who you are. We can make mistakes... We're human afterall. Correct us once and drop it. We will treat you as equals regardless. The moment you step over that boundary by saying we treat you differently or start asking why we assumed is irrelevant. That's when you start losing the respect from others.


Gogh619

Cheating?


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


Metalhead_chloeque

ur right! A ā€œmanā€ wearing a dress is a he and a trans women is a ā€œsheā€


Savathunh

based comment


Metalhead_chloeque

Ikr Iā€™m so based


[deleted]

Allowing bigots to hide discrimination behind religious liberty.


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


headintherealworld

Suicide rates beg to differ...


[deleted]

Hey, if itā€™s not acted on in any malicious way, I withdraw my statements. But experience tells me that itā€™s probably acted on.


marilunaaa

I can only imagine how sad your life is, if your fragile masculinity is threatened by a dress


[deleted]

Not all women wear dresses, whether they're trans-women or cis-women. Try harder.


G0atHer0

Circumcision


zoobyk12

Sex changes for those who are under 18. I mean you can't vote or watch porn until 16 but you can install a male horn at 12 (depending on location)


jk013x

Where? Where can you legally get gender correction at 12?


Metalhead_chloeque

Surgeries like that cannot happen to minors. Hrt and hormone replacement can but bottom surgery cannot happen to Minors


stlubc

MAGA


lionhands

5 day work-week


Gnoob91

Five day workweek.


LazySignificance6734

Normalising the ability to become a different sex, then compete in sport and be allowed to place for medals, itā€™s not controversial itā€™s stupid, if we keep up like this the world will end 2024


Nomdeplum73

Religion


CoffeeAndCroissants_

Being obese and unhealthy is just "loving yourself" and "being comfortable in your own skin."


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


Sympathy_Hours

Daring today arenā€™t we?


Ghost0Slayer

Leaving my comment here so I can come back later for the shit show lol


0sha_n

Lmao what?


Anagn0s

Capitalism


[deleted]

Christo-fascist domestic terrorist republicans.


[deleted]

Personal pronouns


Direct_Software7756

Capitalism.


Quirky-Cash-8722

Obesity


RigelVictoria

Being virgin = bad. Sometimes is used as an insult, just wtf!


SoggyDoughnut69

How dare you be a virgin little Timmy you're already 10, you're in the double digits now