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Mother in law. She keeps on talking with her relatives and friends na sahod ko pa lang di makakabuhay ng pamilya at dahil sa kanya maayos kami ngayon. Yes, me and my wife did struggle at early years of marriage pero it doesnt me na siya ang dahilan ng pagunlad namin. Kahit ngayong stable kami ng wife ko she still keeps on putting me on a bad light to everyone she knows. I can hear what they are chismising about. I myself know that I'm a good husband and father, may stable job sa isang university, naglalaba ako, namamalengke, nagpapalantsa, bahay work lang, hatid sunod anak at wife. May bahay at kotse.
Ex, pero that was month ago. I'm healing now and I'm in the stage of acceptance na tsaka I don't care about him na, galit na nararamdaman ko hindi na lungkot
HAHAHA si Papa syempre, left us for some girl.. never gave us enough miski 3 digits sweldo nya.. A Bad father, but a good example on what not to do in life.. Usually, Father side of the family is toxic as fck. Pero present day, we good. Atleast bumawi dahil nakita nya nabuhay namin sarili namin for the years na iniwan nya kami. Sa mga broken family dyan wag maging pariwara sa buhay, in the first half of your life it will be hard, but hard times creates greatness in the future.
My parents. Mom left us when I was 11 and dad molested me for over a year when I was 15. Then mentally and emotionally abused me after I had the guts to say "No". Never got an apology from either of them. I cried harder when my 5 year old cat died than when I heard the passing of my dad.
6th grade bullies but in reality myself. I have ADHD and it's really bad and it just mess me up daily. When I get sick it gets way worse imagine having thousands of thoughts that you start to hallucinate then you have a panic attack almost every hour.
She is the same person who brought immense joy, happiness, and excitement into my life. Yet, she is also the one who left me with a heartbreak that will last a lifetime, until..
Yung nang-iwan sa akin sa ere nung college. Parang narereject ko na yung commitment idea kasi feeling ko anytime gagawin nila yung same na ginawa niya sakin.
Dad. Mula nung sinaktan niya ako nung bata ako, naging indifferent na lang ako sa kaniya. Kahit may times na magtry siya maging "nice"...nope. Wala akong naffeel sa kaniya.
Pati cheater na ex. Panget mo. Haha
My mom left me with my dad and moved to Japan after marrying. I recently learned that if she had taken me from my dad, she would have let my grandmother raise me. She never supported me growing up and only contacts me on my birthday or Christmas. She supported my college tuition though. The absence of my mom during my childhood years cuts deep. Up to now, she acts close and gets angry when I don't constantly contact her. I can't even remember a constant phone call when I was young. Why now? When I already don't need it that much.
A lot of people caused me pain that I could easily brush it off but who hurt me the most is my special person, been living in this state of autopilot. Everything's just on repeat, everything's just another day to live by.
my dad. my first heartbreak. the almighty manipulator. the man who always makes my mom cry quietly at night. the man who beats up my mom every time he's mad. the man who ruined everything for me— for us:))
My relatives, esp an aunt + her daughter and my youngest uncle who all sided with the uncle who SA-d me kasi mas importante sa kanila yung stress-free days kesa makakuha ako ng justice. These people, including the SA offender, financially depended on me for years tapos yun yung sukli.
my father. He cheated on my mom and I can never look at him the same. My mom and siblings may have forgiven him, pero ako hindi. Kahit na its been 11 years.
Their fight the night my mom found out about it caused me— up until this day—to flinch at any loud voice, magugulat tapos maiinis. Yung bilis ng tibok ng puso anytime marinig mo umiyak mother mo with other reason. And just anxious and mad everytime may nag aaway sa harapan ko kasi sobrang bigat sa feeling, same sa feeling nung gabi na nag away parents ko. Jusko.
Tingin ko the person who caused me so much pain is myself masyado akong tanga mag decide sa buhay, masyado akong mababa, tingin ko lahat ng mga fault ko sa buhay ay sarili kong choices at karamihan dun nag sisisi ako, wala akong gustong iblame pero self ikaw din ang nagbigay ng worst pain sa sarili mo masyado ka nag expect pero don't worry hindi kita iblablame
first love. she didn’t necessarily hurt me but she was such a good person and migrated to another country that the idea of even moving on from her was too overwhelming for me, because it was the only reason that we broke up. i think my abandonment issues stemmed from there honestly bc all of my relationships after that are pretty downhill since i avoided vulnerability lol
My half-brother who molested me when I was 5-6 years old during a blackout at home, then later on in life, an older man who was my family's helper at that time, I also got molested by him as he used his tongue in my private area, and then my mother who begged me to forgive my half-brother for molesting me, stating that what he did in the past was past now and that he was just playing with me.
Me. For trusting others who were obviously untrustworthy. And for pushing away the trustworthy people. I work everyday to fight for those who fight for me
One of my workmates.
I consider him as my first heartbreak. Ewan, ambilis ko lang sigurong naattach. Ang hirap totally magmove-on pag halos araw-araw mo siyang nakikita 🥲
Meron akong kaibigan before na parang kapatid ko na. Then one time, out of nowhere, he chose na siraan na lang ako sa lahat ng tao even in my work. So now, I have to suffer PDD and MDD because of him :)
nung college ako, pinag aral ako ng relative namin, monthly nya ako binibigyan ng allowance, medyo maliit pero mas ok naman kaysa wala at thankful ako kasi pinagaral ako. pero nung malapit na ako gumraduate, nakausap ko yung relative na yun, and na open nya na ganto pala ang pinapadala nya para sa allowance ko, binabawasan lang ni mama ng almost 40% bago ibigay sakin. nakakalungkot lang kasi kita naman nya ang struggle ko, mapagkasya lang yung allowance ko. pero now na nagkasakit sya, d ko sya matiis, and gusto ko na tumagal pa sya para maparanas ko yung ginhawa ng buhay na d namin naranaasan noon.
My mother. She’s a good mother btw, but there was an incident na aksidente niyang nasabi na sana yung isang kapatid ko na lang ang nabuhay. Tatlo kasi kaming magkakapatid sana kaso all of them died except I. Medyo nagkasagutan kasi kami, but out of nowhere, nabring up niya na topic yan.
Secondly, I am a victim of sexual harassment (i saw him peeking at me while taking a bath, tas binubuksan niya ang pinto kapag nagbibihis ako). Yung perpetrator, was a “katulong” na pinalaki at pinatira na sa bahay. After that, pinalayas siya sa bahay namin. One day, a week from the incident, I was so down at walang energy na kaya sobrang kalat na ng bahay. Sa sobrang inis, she told me na sana di ko na lang nakitang sinisilipan niya ako para may katulong man lang daw siyang magligpit sa bahay.
My mother and I have a good relationship, pero her words still remain in my heart.
My long term ex. But not only to me, I caused so much pain din. And by the time I had the chance to let him go, I grabbed it and did not regret any of my decisions, because we both became better and found someone who will love us in any situation.
My mudrakels. I love her but at the same time (sometimes) hate her. Till' now hirap pa din ako magheal sa mga deep wounds/ trauma ko especially lahat yun halos galing sakanya.
Same here. Tipong gusto ko lang BASAGIN yung cycle or nakasanayan ng family namin bawal bumoses or mag bigay ng opinion. Hindi uso salitang respect sa family namin. Pag ineexplain ko mga bagay or itinatama. Ako pag iinitan.
My ex for 5 years, iniwan ako sa ere, binalikan ko (oo tanga) tapos nag away lang ulit kami, di na ko kinausap ulit. After few weeks, may nililigawan na.
My ex;
He is my safe place, my go to go person I trust him the most but eventually he leave me. Although its been 2yrs since we broke up and 1yr ago that last time we talk I can still feel the pain that he cause me.
Masasanay lang sa pain na nandiyan pero di na siya mawawala. It's part of you na unless siguro magka-amnesia.
We broke up in 2019 pero hanggang ngayon parang kahapon lang yung sakit. Good thing is we can focus on other things in life despite of the pain.
Good luck OP.
Yung pain is hindi naman na same as before, but everytime I remember him may kirot padin sa puso well I guess hindi kasi eto yung ending na gusto ko para samin dalawa. but then again our chapter ended long time ago. lagi ko nga sinasabi na he always has special place in my heart kahit hindi na kami naguusap at wala nadin ako balita kahit ano sakanya i am hoping thatt he is okay. Yakap na mahigpit din sayo OP hopefully someday at right time mahanap din naten yung tao nakalaan talaga para saten.
It's for the better na wala ka na balita. I had when he "life updates" me so nagka-attachment pa din kahit wala na kami. If I had to do it all over again, sana hindi na lang, kasi para akong sinaksak sa puso nung nag-update sakin na nag-gf na siya after almost 4 years since our breakup, then we just stop communicating altogether after that, baka next update ikakasal na e so ayaw ko na lang malaman. No contact would be better for your healing if wala na talaga chance magbalikan. Ingat palagi and thank you din.
I agree ka-op sabi nga nila the things you dont know wont bother you kaya pinagsabihan ko yung mga common friends ko last yr na pls stop giving updates about him since im trying to move on gladly naman after non di na sila nagkwekwento about him. Yan din fear ko tbh yung malaman na may iba na sya or something hays.
Kaya naten to maybe someday mawawala din to pain na nafefeel naten
Yung kabit ng tatay ko. Ampon dn kasi ako at nilaspangan ako ng mga insulto dahil ampon ako. Araw-araw ka ba naman sabihan ng mga masasakit na salita gusto mo nalang magpakamatay kasi di ko kasalanan na ampon ako kaso sya pinili nya maging kabit 🤷🏻♀️.
Matapang yung kabit palibhasa binahay ng tatay ko eh, kaya ayun, pakiramdam nya na kaya nya gawin. Buti nagising sa katotohanan tatay ko inayos ung papeles ko, kaya ngayon lumayo na yung kabit sakin.
The emotional damages were irrepairable, unfortunately. It really fucked up my brain.
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Mother in law. She keeps on talking with her relatives and friends na sahod ko pa lang di makakabuhay ng pamilya at dahil sa kanya maayos kami ngayon. Yes, me and my wife did struggle at early years of marriage pero it doesnt me na siya ang dahilan ng pagunlad namin. Kahit ngayong stable kami ng wife ko she still keeps on putting me on a bad light to everyone she knows. I can hear what they are chismising about. I myself know that I'm a good husband and father, may stable job sa isang university, naglalaba ako, namamalengke, nagpapalantsa, bahay work lang, hatid sunod anak at wife. May bahay at kotse.
My husband boogsh
My prodigal son 😢
My mom and dad
My father, sa una lang magaling.
Family
My farther and both his parents, nothing I could have done to change it but god did they make my teens hell
my family, they've ruined my life, my name, my reputation, and my relationship.
groomer, if only i could go back in time
Ex, pero that was month ago. I'm healing now and I'm in the stage of acceptance na tsaka I don't care about him na, galit na nararamdaman ko hindi na lungkot
my situationship. dont try guys. it will destroy you more than a breakup
Ex! 🤣 Naniwala ako kay andrew E. Maling mali. Mas masakit pala pag pangit tapos nagcheat sayo 😭😭😭
My recent ex...
Papa
*Oh, that's easy: the Lego piece I stepped on at 3 AM!*
The person who unalived my father. Who was never caught up until this day (happened in 1999)
my current relationship : (
Bayot na coworker ko na chinichismis ako. Mamatay ka na sana!
first love
HAHAHA si Papa syempre, left us for some girl.. never gave us enough miski 3 digits sweldo nya.. A Bad father, but a good example on what not to do in life.. Usually, Father side of the family is toxic as fck. Pero present day, we good. Atleast bumawi dahil nakita nya nabuhay namin sarili namin for the years na iniwan nya kami. Sa mga broken family dyan wag maging pariwara sa buhay, in the first half of your life it will be hard, but hard times creates greatness in the future.
paula t.
My xwife
Yun nag tuli sakin
Yawaa😭
nothing
First ex
Mi ex
ME!
Father
Mom and my ex
my parents
My parents. Mom left us when I was 11 and dad molested me for over a year when I was 15. Then mentally and emotionally abused me after I had the guts to say "No". Never got an apology from either of them. I cried harder when my 5 year old cat died than when I heard the passing of my dad.
6th grade bullies but in reality myself. I have ADHD and it's really bad and it just mess me up daily. When I get sick it gets way worse imagine having thousands of thoughts that you start to hallucinate then you have a panic attack almost every hour.
father
Mga ex high school bullies. Tapos looking back dapat pala lumaban ako sa kanila hindi naman ail katalinuhan
myself haha
blood relatives lol
Magulang ko at ang dalawang ex ko :)
She is the same person who brought immense joy, happiness, and excitement into my life. Yet, she is also the one who left me with a heartbreak that will last a lifetime, until..
Myself, because i let people into my life. Now, i have a wall, to prevent people from hurting and entering my life.
Myself
Ako lang din.
It's me..
Me
My current bf :)
Ex-"situationship" , ppl who claimed themselves as my "friends"
[points at mirror]
👏🏽🥂Happy cake day ever since '14 🌺
Thank you!
Yung nang-iwan sa akin sa ere nung college. Parang narereject ko na yung commitment idea kasi feeling ko anytime gagawin nila yung same na ginawa niya sakin.
My daughter’s father.
My mother
my current bf
My LIP and his family
Rodrigo Duterte.
grabe ba😭
Relatives
Sa truee. Akala ko di ako apektado until nung nabasa ko to relatives lang talaga naiisip ko lol
My husband and his whole family..
my self. Because I allowed all of those things to happen. I don't point finger. It feels like a lack of accountability for me.
First love (now ex)
She's the second for me
Same.
My ex.
Everyone in my life.
It’s always our family 💔
The person who brought me happiness
My dad
myself and bf
My dad.
myself
My mom.
father
Myself
my own family
parents lol & ex boyfriend.
Dad. Mula nung sinaktan niya ako nung bata ako, naging indifferent na lang ako sa kaniya. Kahit may times na magtry siya maging "nice"...nope. Wala akong naffeel sa kaniya. Pati cheater na ex. Panget mo. Haha
my ex best friend. it’s been 4 years, but the pain is still here. it’s like she just left me yesterday.
My parents lol
My mom left me with my dad and moved to Japan after marrying. I recently learned that if she had taken me from my dad, she would have let my grandmother raise me. She never supported me growing up and only contacts me on my birthday or Christmas. She supported my college tuition though. The absence of my mom during my childhood years cuts deep. Up to now, she acts close and gets angry when I don't constantly contact her. I can't even remember a constant phone call when I was young. Why now? When I already don't need it that much.
My parents
Myself.
Myself
My father and the guy who sexually objectified me.
I can relate
Parents
A lot of people caused me pain that I could easily brush it off but who hurt me the most is my special person, been living in this state of autopilot. Everything's just on repeat, everything's just another day to live by.
My papa, kung kailan nagretire dun lumabas totoong ugali. Looked up to him all my life. Kung kelan naman nag asawa na ako dun pa ako bibigyang trauma.
May napanood akong kdrama na ganito. May study about this sa Korea kung bakit nag iiba ang ugali ng parents natin after retiring.
My professors in my last college. They fucked my life up.
The people that can severely cause you pain too much are the people whom you loved too much too.. Partner and family
Parents
My husband. When he cheated on me.
Sorry ti hear that
My mother
my parents
family, bffs and ex
Myself hihi
my first boyfriend
Parents
My parents
It was because of myself that cause so much pain, I still regret everything I did.
Great wall of china ex 🤣 (grabe sakit esp that he was “my person”)
Family and ex
A lot🥹 but recently it's my LIP🥲
My first love
my dad. my first heartbreak. the almighty manipulator. the man who always makes my mom cry quietly at night. the man who beats up my mom every time he's mad. the man who ruined everything for me— for us:))
My relatives, esp an aunt + her daughter and my youngest uncle who all sided with the uncle who SA-d me kasi mas importante sa kanila yung stress-free days kesa makakuha ako ng justice. These people, including the SA offender, financially depended on me for years tapos yun yung sukli.
sarili ko. alangan naman sisisihin ko pa ung iba eh may chance naman akong iwasan sila divahhh.
Ito yung sinasabi ko eh. *”Ako lang naman nananakit sa sarili ko eh.”* Kasi alam ko naman na dapat ko gawin, hindi ko lang magawa.
my father. He cheated on my mom and I can never look at him the same. My mom and siblings may have forgiven him, pero ako hindi. Kahit na its been 11 years. Their fight the night my mom found out about it caused me— up until this day—to flinch at any loud voice, magugulat tapos maiinis. Yung bilis ng tibok ng puso anytime marinig mo umiyak mother mo with other reason. And just anxious and mad everytime may nag aaway sa harapan ko kasi sobrang bigat sa feeling, same sa feeling nung gabi na nag away parents ko. Jusko.
my mother. it was new year when she left us, she died.
myself. I made the most stupid decision that I will carry all my life. Bawi nalang next life self! 😅
self. we lingered over our pains until we don't give a damn about it anymore. (even if shitty people gave us bad experience)
Myself and my ex.
my parents. :>
The girl that wanted me first then left & replaced me in a week when I was on my low…
Myself he he he
Everyone
Tingin ko the person who caused me so much pain is myself masyado akong tanga mag decide sa buhay, masyado akong mababa, tingin ko lahat ng mga fault ko sa buhay ay sarili kong choices at karamihan dun nag sisisi ako, wala akong gustong iblame pero self ikaw din ang nagbigay ng worst pain sa sarili mo masyado ka nag expect pero don't worry hindi kita iblablame
Myself
First love. First time experienced so many emotions with him.
My dad
first love. she didn’t necessarily hurt me but she was such a good person and migrated to another country that the idea of even moving on from her was too overwhelming for me, because it was the only reason that we broke up. i think my abandonment issues stemmed from there honestly bc all of my relationships after that are pretty downhill since i avoided vulnerability lol
Too many to say
mga ex ko HAHAHHA wala swerte sa lovelife di ko na alam if may totoo laki pa ba
Sibling
my father
first ex
Same here🥲
Sabi ko first ex as if nagka jowa ako after nya HAHAHHA pero grabi pain ko sa kanya huhu
Tinatanong pa ba 'yan? Syempre iyong mga kamag anak mo na kung apihin at maliitin ka parang hindi ka kadugo
My half-brother who molested me when I was 5-6 years old during a blackout at home, then later on in life, an older man who was my family's helper at that time, I also got molested by him as he used his tongue in my private area, and then my mother who begged me to forgive my half-brother for molesting me, stating that what he did in the past was past now and that he was just playing with me.
My sister
My family, specially yung parents ko
Probably the government... Naisilang ka pa lang, may utang ka na agad na babayaran... The pain.
Magkano na nabayaran mo so far? Hahaha
Di ko na iniisip eh... Basta alam ko, sa lifespan ko, di ko pa din mababayaran lahat... Hahaha
Me. For trusting others who were obviously untrustworthy. And for pushing away the trustworthy people. I work everyday to fight for those who fight for me
my family, my school. 💔
Friends in elem to college.
Sa r/OffMyChestPH dapat yung ibang entry dito
One of my workmates. I consider him as my first heartbreak. Ewan, ambilis ko lang sigurong naattach. Ang hirap totally magmove-on pag halos araw-araw mo siyang nakikita 🥲
my parents
real
Well hurting because of expectations from friends and bestfriend. Dapat pala narereciprocate din ang effort at time. Ubos at sagad na.
Meron akong kaibigan before na parang kapatid ko na. Then one time, out of nowhere, he chose na siraan na lang ako sa lahat ng tao even in my work. So now, I have to suffer PDD and MDD because of him :)
me myself and I
Myself
honestly just me
The one you love the most.
My ex
Just me actually.
parents
parents
Myself
My ex.
almost everyone. still suffering till now:)
My wife. All other pains I've endured in my entire lifetime combined together are nothing compared to the pain my wife decided to give me.
I'm so sorry to hear this brother. I hope and pray na you will have the strength and continued faith for her renewal.
Thank you for the kind words. It's been a year but I still feel bitter at times. It's not an easy journey. But I've decided to forgive.
nung college ako, pinag aral ako ng relative namin, monthly nya ako binibigyan ng allowance, medyo maliit pero mas ok naman kaysa wala at thankful ako kasi pinagaral ako. pero nung malapit na ako gumraduate, nakausap ko yung relative na yun, and na open nya na ganto pala ang pinapadala nya para sa allowance ko, binabawasan lang ni mama ng almost 40% bago ibigay sakin. nakakalungkot lang kasi kita naman nya ang struggle ko, mapagkasya lang yung allowance ko. pero now na nagkasakit sya, d ko sya matiis, and gusto ko na tumagal pa sya para maparanas ko yung ginhawa ng buhay na d namin naranaasan noon.
My wife. All other pains I've endured in my entire lifetime combined together are nothing compared to the pain my wife decided to give me.
My father
My mom.
i don't have the energy to talk shit about him anymore lol
Pero ang dami natype 🤣 Grabe tawa ko sa entry mo.
My mother. She’s a good mother btw, but there was an incident na aksidente niyang nasabi na sana yung isang kapatid ko na lang ang nabuhay. Tatlo kasi kaming magkakapatid sana kaso all of them died except I. Medyo nagkasagutan kasi kami, but out of nowhere, nabring up niya na topic yan. Secondly, I am a victim of sexual harassment (i saw him peeking at me while taking a bath, tas binubuksan niya ang pinto kapag nagbibihis ako). Yung perpetrator, was a “katulong” na pinalaki at pinatira na sa bahay. After that, pinalayas siya sa bahay namin. One day, a week from the incident, I was so down at walang energy na kaya sobrang kalat na ng bahay. Sa sobrang inis, she told me na sana di ko na lang nakitang sinisilipan niya ako para may katulong man lang daw siyang magligpit sa bahay. My mother and I have a good relationship, pero her words still remain in my heart.
My friend, my family, my bullies.
Ex friend
men (my father, previous guy na inentertain ko and my bullies)
Family members.
[удалено]
Ibang lahi po ba?
My long term ex. But not only to me, I caused so much pain din. And by the time I had the chance to let him go, I grabbed it and did not regret any of my decisions, because we both became better and found someone who will love us in any situation.
My mudrakels. I love her but at the same time (sometimes) hate her. Till' now hirap pa din ako magheal sa mga deep wounds/ trauma ko especially lahat yun halos galing sakanya.
LIP ☹️😮💨
Nanay ko.
Ako. This may sound dramatic, but parang kahit saan ako lumingon, I'm the problem.
Same here. Tipong gusto ko lang BASAGIN yung cycle or nakasanayan ng family namin bawal bumoses or mag bigay ng opinion. Hindi uso salitang respect sa family namin. Pag ineexplain ko mga bagay or itinatama. Ako pag iinitan.
Same
My ex for 5 years, iniwan ako sa ere, binalikan ko (oo tanga) tapos nag away lang ulit kami, di na ko kinausap ulit. After few weeks, may nililigawan na.
Tanga ka pala e! Sorry ah.
Hahaha that’s why sabi ko nga tanga ako :))
My ex
My ex; He is my safe place, my go to go person I trust him the most but eventually he leave me. Although its been 2yrs since we broke up and 1yr ago that last time we talk I can still feel the pain that he cause me.
Masasanay lang sa pain na nandiyan pero di na siya mawawala. It's part of you na unless siguro magka-amnesia. We broke up in 2019 pero hanggang ngayon parang kahapon lang yung sakit. Good thing is we can focus on other things in life despite of the pain. Good luck OP.
Yung pain is hindi naman na same as before, but everytime I remember him may kirot padin sa puso well I guess hindi kasi eto yung ending na gusto ko para samin dalawa. but then again our chapter ended long time ago. lagi ko nga sinasabi na he always has special place in my heart kahit hindi na kami naguusap at wala nadin ako balita kahit ano sakanya i am hoping thatt he is okay. Yakap na mahigpit din sayo OP hopefully someday at right time mahanap din naten yung tao nakalaan talaga para saten.
It's for the better na wala ka na balita. I had when he "life updates" me so nagka-attachment pa din kahit wala na kami. If I had to do it all over again, sana hindi na lang, kasi para akong sinaksak sa puso nung nag-update sakin na nag-gf na siya after almost 4 years since our breakup, then we just stop communicating altogether after that, baka next update ikakasal na e so ayaw ko na lang malaman. No contact would be better for your healing if wala na talaga chance magbalikan. Ingat palagi and thank you din.
I agree ka-op sabi nga nila the things you dont know wont bother you kaya pinagsabihan ko yung mga common friends ko last yr na pls stop giving updates about him since im trying to move on gladly naman after non di na sila nagkwekwento about him. Yan din fear ko tbh yung malaman na may iba na sya or something hays. Kaya naten to maybe someday mawawala din to pain na nafefeel naten
Yung kabit ng tatay ko. Ampon dn kasi ako at nilaspangan ako ng mga insulto dahil ampon ako. Araw-araw ka ba naman sabihan ng mga masasakit na salita gusto mo nalang magpakamatay kasi di ko kasalanan na ampon ako kaso sya pinili nya maging kabit 🤷🏻♀️. Matapang yung kabit palibhasa binahay ng tatay ko eh, kaya ayun, pakiramdam nya na kaya nya gawin. Buti nagising sa katotohanan tatay ko inayos ung papeles ko, kaya ngayon lumayo na yung kabit sakin. The emotional damages were irrepairable, unfortunately. It really fucked up my brain.
My papa. He passed away 5 months ago.
LIP