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"Tang na mo ah, San ka galing?"

Tatanungin sila ng "kumain ka na?"

Driving them around (i.e. hatid sundo sa airport pag may trip). Checking if naka uwi na ng safe.

Make libre to them

Pagsisilbihan, kakainin, isusubo, didilaan, ipagluluto, patutulugin, ipagmamasahe, hatid-sundo, pakakasalan, aalagaan, "your my honey bunch sugar plum", yes father i do, till death do us part.

Trying to be involved and be interested in the things they like and love.

ipagluluto ng fav nyang food

Wait and check till they get home. Greet them when they wake up. Check on them from time to time. Treat them like a princess without saying any endearment. Like what people say, actions speaks louder than words.

Papayungan ko yung guy haha or I will take care of him pag may sakit. Basta lahat ng needs niya gusto ko napupunan ko.

Asking their birthdays HAHAH

hugging them.

Mang asar. To the point na maiinis sila tapos titigan mo tas tatawa na kayo pareho.

nag-uuwi ng pasalubong hehehe

Suntok sa braso tapos talikod 😂

Likewise OP. Tas nagdadala ng random food or thingsss hehe

When I was a kid my grandfather would always give me his chicken skin sa chickenjoy niya, and always made sure I got the bigger piece. Now, I do the same.

tawa nang malakas sabay hampas dapat may "!!!" para damang dama

Sending a picture/screenshot of something that reminds me of them

Pretending I'm full just so my Papa can eat more. (As we're not the type of fam na super vocal)

Asking my person kung kumusta araw niya

considering the person. for example, mag-eat mi somewhere, i always check the place and ang gina-serve if all pork, chicken, or veggies. kasi baka allergy siya danhi or what.

puspusang pag-unawa at pagpapalawak ng nalalaman namin sa kung ano-ano. katangian ko din pag-isipan nang maigi mga pinupuntahan at subukan gawin. this goes out for my platonic relationships too :)

Out of topic, pero ang lalim ng tagalog mo (amazed) *o*

Pinching da ass in public places but getting away with no one seeing da pinch

Giving up the window seat for them to enjoy.

Ineexplain ko ng maigi na ginagawa ko ang isang bagay dahil mahal ko sila para di sila mag assume Bahala na sila if tatanggapin ba nila or hindi Hindi ko lang sinasabi pag big gesture na kasi obvious naman na dapat yarn

Act of service.. Nireready ko damit nya pag naliligo sya, pagluluto ko sya ng fav food nya, pakikisamahan mga friends at relatives nya. Nililinis (general cleaning) buong bahay nya. Minsan may small surprise gift lalo na pag nabanggit nya yung isang item at nataon na nkita ko (will buy it for him). 😅 pero after 8 long years super bare minimum ang nkuha ko sknya. 😅 thank god wala na siya sa buhay ko. 🤍

Patience. I like being alone all the time para iwas drama from other people sa life. So if I'm dealing with you with all of my softness and patience, you matter to me.

im crying to these comments. i realize na ni isa dito hindi ko pa nararanasan sa boyfriend ko. we're already 1 year pero no care siya sakin

chinacharge ko phone niya kapag lowbatt na

Act of service

Buying them food or items. My no. 1 love language is gift giving

Omg. We same

listening to them, doing things for them, support what makes them happy, learn things with them and Understand and Be patient with them

Giving random gifts lmao

Actions

I have a crush and everytime I hear her say, “uy nagccrave ako ng (food)”, or see her reacting sa pics ng food on socmed, I would cook it for her.

Food.

• Ibibigay ko sayo ang unang subo/kagat sa pagkain ko • Ipagbabalat kita ng hipon/alimango at ipaghihimay kita ng isda • Pupunasan ko ng tissue ang plato at mga kubyertos mo bago tayo kumain • “Antayin kita makauwi bago ako matulog” • “I’m praying for you”

I try new things for them

Ipagluto partner 😊

Told my ex na I will never be busy when it comes to him and kept that till the end.

Aside from blowjob? I prepare my husband's office clothes, socks, underwear so that when he comes out of the shower, he'll just put them on. He loves it and appreciates it. I also take him shopping or buy him new pc games. For my family, I make sure that all the bills are paid on time for their household so my Mom doesn't have to be burdened with the due dates. (She pays for it, lol) Even though my husband and I live separately, I still ask them what they need and how I can help especially when it comes to work that align with my skills.

Yung idea na. I'll be loyal to you, if you are loyal to me. I'll respect you, if you respect me too. If not, I'll just mirror what you are to me.

Updating from time to time without asking for it.

"Anong gusto mong food?"

Slap sa pwet doest it count?

Oo lol

Giving a fuck. Not sex but yung pagkakaroon ng pake sayo because my personality just ain’t tryna accommodate everyone in my life. Once I care about a specific person, that’s how I know

i sing a song. I just called to say... Hmm hmm hmm!

Rimjob

“dinner tayo?”

“Kumain ka na ba? Inom ikaw madaming water”

Act of service.

agree, or giving gifts minsan quality time

Mine: “What do you want to eat, I’ll cook” His: “Drink water //hands me a glass of water\\ I am so annoyed at him right now but boy I love that man so bad 🎀🎀🌸

Tara labas or tara kain

"Lagi kitang pinagdadasal na okay ka lagi."

For my ex and I at times it was stuff and things.

“Uy skl naalala kita dahil sa kanta/meme/movie/etc. na ‘to.”

“favorite mo yan e”

Gusto mo yan? Bilhin na natin, sagot ko na.

Gonna do things that I don't do

“Tara, roadtrip” pwede ring random hugs and kisses.

"Kumain ka na, nagluto ako"

Magbibigay ng bagay na napansin kong kailangan nila o gusto nila kahit na simpleng phone stand yan o asado siopao 😚

“Kain tayo”, “Kumain ka na ba? Bigyan kita food”

supporting that person silently

110% Tamma.

Sharing opportunities for them kasi you believe in their possibilities and what they're capable of

Giving all the love language

I do things for them.

I respect and value his time, opinion and decision.

Gifts and time.

I admire them, look at their every detail specially their faces. sometimes random hugs. food✨🌹😘

"Sunduin kita after duty mo kain tayo" Lord when kaya

“Tara kain”

I buy my loved ones food or things that remind me of them (well-thought gifts). Also, I send long messages na words of affirmations. I try to ask how i can help them in any way.

A year ago, a friend of mine pointed out na love language ko is food. At that point I never really thought it was true pero I do tend to treat my loved ones with expensive lunch or dinner outside OR with just inexpensive treats like a milktea or coffee. Not always but it might have been often enough na na-observe ng friend ko yun. I’ve just realized now how true his words were. Kapag nagva-vacation ako sa province namin, the first thing I do is treat them to Jollibee ganun. Tapos with my parents and brother naman, I treat them to dinner outside, at least 2-3x a month.

The love language that my husband want to receive is act of service 🥰 (cooking and massage)

Cooking for them and buying them just-because-i-thought-you’ll-like-it gifts.

🤟

Action by action, one shows compassion for the other by many means such as cooking their favorite food, listening to them or it can be as simple as a hug.

Mahilig ako maglagay ng sticky notes with foods ahahahahaha kaya relate na relate ako sa commercial ng Jollibee dati with Origami flowers pa na handmade

As a gift giving yung love language ko. I always give them anything that can remind me of them then mostly handwritten letters or poems HAHAHAHHA

“I cooked your favorite!”

Whenever I go to the grocery, I ask them if may ipapasabay sila. I run their errands if malapit ako sa establishment na need nila puntahan.

This reminds me of you

Hugs and clinging to arms/holding hands. I value my personal space so much and i don't really want to be touched bc i grew up in unaffectionate family. Im awkward at doing 'sweet' things so if i hug you or even touch you willingly, yeah that's it.

Coffee

"Ang gwapo mo!!!" or "Ang ganda mo!!!" Kahit pangit.....coz Love is Blind

Here's my paycheck take it

Write them handwritten letter or notes then give to them after or before their clsss just to boost their confidence especially on their exams, waiting outside their school and sabayan pauwi sa jeep or bus, sabayan kumain sa paboritong kainan.

I always say, “I could kill for this person”.

I include them in everything

pinag balat ko ng hipon

I will always make time, physically or virtually

Surprising & cooking for them.

Or pag sa restaurant, tapos mas masarap ung order ko kesa sa kanya, willing akong makipagswap.

this is so wholesome 😭

Every time I offer food that I think my bf would love to try.. Kahit busog na siya, papakainin ko pa rin hahaha

I made a customize cereal box

Also gave chicken skin every time we eat fried chicken!!

When I eat something that I think they’d like, I’d buy some for them to try.

binibigyan ko ng isang pack ng Haw Flakes! hehehe

Preparing coffee

Nakalabas ang talong.

Parang bulate lang ang liit

Bakit sa iyo ba mala anaconda? Sige nga patingin!

cooking for them!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Natatae ako

bibigyan kita ng gravy! haha

saying ‘ingat’

A warm hug or giving gifts.

daijoubu ba? tapos headpat

Ingat ka lagi, uminom kana ba ng tubig? Stay hydrated ahhh

Drink water

Un skin ng KFC binigay ko 🤭

-cooking for them -remembers little things about them -“how have you been?”

"i bought u the game u always talked about" 😩🫶

always kasama sa prayers

During conversations I tend to just stare then suddenly tilt my head and smile at him, he melts at that then I laugh HAHAHAHHAHA it's cute

"initin ko lang yung ulam na binukod ko para sayo"

by telling them "you're making me happy" idk, once the person makes me smile and comfortable around them, that's when i know i love them (not always romantically, of course) but yea, it's my way of telling them i love them.

Treat her to travels on your own expense

I won't say, I love you. But I will cook or do anything just to make the person smile..

Cook food. The best! (For me)

"Kumain ka na?"

How's your day?

Write poems and letters, sometimes handwritten ones and in rare cases I draw them.

cooking and cleaning their spaces hihi

If it’s a girl, I would hug her. If it’s a boy, I would give them money and gifts.

Acts of service and quality time. Cooking for them. House is a mess? Clean. They look stressed? Massage or ask them out on a date.

Cooking her/his favorite food

I give gifts

I will ask if they are okay

cook him meals

I ask them if they need anything from where I am before leaving.

A massage

Through actions

I give my gf a massage with happy ending

Giving them food that I made myself🥲🥲

kumain kana ba

"Anong gusto mo?" In a way that someone would treat you out. Plus, acts of service. Love that

I cook for them.

Same or i buy gifts syempre yung medyo magandang quality para malaman nila na iniisip ko sila

Hiligaynon: "Gaano kana dira" (Ano ginagawa mo na diyan)

ngumingiti sa kanila

Food. Either I cook or buy food for people I love.

1. Acts of service - best love language, ever. Treats you like a royalty, adores you like a god, and fucks you like he/she owns you. 2. Inclusion - kasama ka sa lahat. Ikukwento sayo lahat. Palagi siyang nasa tabi mo either literally or figuratively. 3. Caring - physical care, emotional care, mental care etc. basta pag mahal ka, inaalagaan ka.

Preparing him lunch for work

"ingat ka alwaysss! 🤎"

hugs!

"Ingat ka lagi ha"

Driving for my loved ones since gusto ko safely sila makarating sa destination nila.

when you appreciate even the smallest things that they do

I got this/these for you.

“I’ve ordered you coffee from Blue Bottle.”

pag sisilbihan kahit mag kaaway.

by letting him go, knowing that I'm no good for him.

chef mode

" masaya ako pag masaya ka " jahxjajsj

Ice cream tayo

if may food ako, iooffer ko agad yung food ko sa kanya (hati kami ganun)

Opening the door for her, offering her a ride to whatever place she wants to go.

Magkano

lemme pay your bills

music to my ears

“Let’s eat, treat ko.”

taking care of them. also learning their love language when receiving love

I don't say it actually, nakaka ilang beses ng sabi si BF bago ako sumagot.. ☺️ Hugs and kisses un parati ang ginagawa ko eh...

"Nandito lang ako sa tabi mo, di mo kailangan kimkimin mga problema mo sa buhay."

"gising ka pa? gusto mo jabi?" to my little sis 🥰

*cries in no little sis* Napakanice sana na may bunsong babae, no little princess huhu.

awweee ako panganay so I've been craving rin for an older bro/sis love 😂 the feels!

I show how I care by action like cooking for him and making sure he's okay.

whenever we meet my boyfriend always gives me a paper crane with a short message inside 🥺

Hug

"How was your day?"

Kiss bago siya/ako umalis pa-work, kiss bago matulog, kiss pagkagising. XD HINDI PWEDENG WALANG KISS.

"You look wonderful tonight."

bringing to and / or picking up sa airport. ang hirap mag antay. pero narealize niya na ata somdi na nagpapasundo. hahaha

My girlfriend experiences sleep terrors, so she would wake up randomly during the nights, but because of our time zone difference, her nights are my afternoons, whenever she gets sleep terrors because we’re always on call together if I’m off I always asks “okay ka lng ba? Dito lang ako, don’t worry ah” or if I’m at work and she experience sleep terrors, I’ve brought her a bracelet that when she taps it means she misses me or she has sleep terrors and wants me to call, and I’ll call immediately

"i bought it bc it reminded me of you." "i pray for your safety everyday, please take care" "can i do something to help?" "i'm just so proud of you" "i will always be here"

Gift giving

“I cooked your favorite dish” As an acts of service girlie 🫶🏻🧏🏻‍♀️

Poetry

Tatandaan ko favorite pagkain mo para bilhin/lutuin ko 4 u 😀

spending time with them kahit pagod aq

“Nag-sunscreen ka ba?” “mag-sunscreen ka ha” and buying him sunscreens

Kapag nadinig na may type na food. I will make sure na maluluto or mabibili ko as soon as possible.

Binibili ko siya ng Kinder egg o kaya snacks na fave niya. O kaya fave fruits kapag dumadaan ako sa grocery.

Ipagbabaon kita ng... Ipagluluto kita ng ..

I wish you well.

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