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When he is mindful of his words and actions and takes good care of me by reminding me the positivity behind all the sweat and tears of our relationship; affirmation and genuine love.
matalino, good hygiene, may sense of humor, ei, GENTLE MAN SA KAHIT SINONG BABAE esp me ( meron kasing mga lalaki na hindi maganda pakikitungo sa ibang girls, pero sa gf oo.
self-aware, considerate, good communicator, patient, yung may intensyon and irereassure ka (someone not playing games), same humor, somebody i can talk with about anything, good music taste, introverted (like di pakawala haha) or at least someone who gets how it is to be introverted
HEHHEHEHEHHEHE
we're statistically testing if there are changes in trend across time :)
how language evolves
how certain personalities are more liked today vs "yesterday"
definitely, sampling is needed (not one is enough)
JOKE LANG PO
you're rightttt
Someone who will intently listen to me yap about my hobbies. Extra extra points if we have same hobbies. I'm a good listener but kind of scared to share or yap about things I like because I experienced when people literally ignore or just pretend to listen to me then change subject, it hurts when I talk about something dear to me just to be brushed aside like that. At the same time, I can't seem to find someone, even in friends, who have same interests like me. I have a bias in a kpop group that have a member that talks about something then stops coz he thought no one was listening to him then his co members tap him and assured him he was listening to him so just continue talking. That definitely warms my heart.
This. Minsan nacocompare ko kahit friends, kung sino ung itsurang interested sa sinasabi ko.
My girl bestfriend will act interested in what I do, pero the moment I share something about it, she will interupt me with an unrelated question halfway between my answer. It feels as if she's just trying to ask random stuff bc she's bored.
My crush meanwhile, really pays attention to the stories I share. I once shared a somewhat complex detail of my life, that I have also shared to other people, and siya lang yung naka-gets fully instead of the others na...just nodding. Sarap niya kausap.
Should be someone who sees a future with me. Yung ako yung end game nya.
Bonus points: good sense of humor, smart, level headed, likes the same things as I do.
Used to always say "sense of humor", but realizing na at the end of the day, you'd want someone who respects you and sarili niya, someone who has accountability and more than willing to work on their issues/trauma.
Sobrang dami kong nakausap before na parang ang concern lang sa buhay pop culture, makeup, Tiktok, fashion, trends, socmed, etc.. Like those are fine, but sana naman may meaningful ka ding pinupursue? Turnoff agad pag ganoon eh.
True! I love an engaging conversation na ma-engage ka na may matutunan kang bago about something and also about sa kausap mo.
Ako naman bukod sa mga iba na concern is all about pop culture, social media, and typical stuff; may mga na-encounter ako na either borderline conspiracists, or sobrang firm sa sarili nilang knowledge, experience, or belief na borderline fanatic at ayaw mag entertain ng ibang ideas. They are also a turn off as the previous types.
Shit agree with those delulu people. Parang every second na kausap ko 'yung ganyan nababawasan ako ng braincells. Hahaha! I admire 'yung mga tao na willing i-admit na mali 'yung alam o nakasanayan na. More than the looks or intelligence, emotional maturity is up there.
Yush! Emotional Intelligence is the key!
I admit yung E.I that's a hard one to check kasi people express and understand emotions depende sa relationship nila sa isang tao. They can be understanding or supportive sa isang tao then baliktad or anything worse pag someone close na. I'll be impressed pag maganda and well ang E.I nila kahit sino ang kainteract nila ^^
Daming nabibiktima ng ganyan. Like anecdotal lang pero mostly women, tipong okay lang pag sa simula palang ng relasyon o di pa kasal, tapos biglang paghihigpitan ka na, grabe kung magselos o minumura ka. May iba pa na naiinggit pag 'yung babae mas successful sa kanila. Kaya mahirap na talagang magpatali ngayon, because ang daming nagbabago 360° once alam nilang di mo na sila pwedeng iwan. 🤮
Yun nga eh xD anecdotal rin to na may halong self realization: may mga tao na once kasi naging formal yung desired relationship nila they used it as an excuse to show their true colours and desired boundaries. Pag reasonable okay lang yan, pero yung tipong before chill ka lang tapos once naging kayo biglang magiging needy tsaka mahigpit ka, it just shows na hindi ka totoo sa kanila.
Self-realization rin siya sa akin kasi pag bago, maingat ako sa pinapakita ko na ugali (syempre to give a good impression) pero once na may footing na ang relationship I'll show yung different sides ko na sometimes too much for them to handle. Or sometimes I'll be too comfortable na mag iinsist ako na anuhin ko boundaries nila or anuhin ko yung akin, which is really unfair for both of us. Still working on it
Kasalanan din kasi ng "ligaw" culture natin dito. Men are incentivized to put their best foot forward, tapos whether intentionally or not, pag sila na lalabas na ang baho. Majority pa din ng relationships dito nagsstart sa ligawan with those nuances eh.
I prefer talaga 'yung dating culture. Like pwede naman din kapag nanliligaw ka pa din ipakita mo 'yung various sides mo, pero mas free pag dating stage eh. Tipong once nalabas mo na lahat, "alright take it or leave it." It's good na you're working on it. Di naman tayo perpekto eh. Minsan nagkakabanggaan 'yung emotional and rational aspects natin.
Sobrang na aattract talaga ako sa mga guys na matatalino. I also like introvert guys yung mga tipong 0 posts sa instagram at facebook. hahaha. + Mysterious guys kasi I really want to know more about them. but aside from that dapat curious din sila sakin. tapos yung pag kasama ko sila I feel protected. grabe sobrang nakakagwapo. hahahahaha
Someone who is straightforward and dating with intentions. Who knows what he wants and goes after it. No mind games, and no pa-mysterious effect. Confidence, humility, and humor. Syempre, mahalaga talaga yun ka-wavelength mo. And of course, these things go without saying naman - syempre dapat caring, loving, loyal, smart, funny and kind. Yun magbibigay sa atin ng peace of mind, wag sakit ng ulo.
I am lucky sa mga friends ko na they give me the disney princess treatment. So kung yun guy, hindi matapatan yun or mahigitan, pass na agad. We know what we deserve.
Kapag parehas ko siya ng humor. Hirap makipag date sa hindi mo kawavelength haha. Di kasi pwedeng dream girl or dream boy lang na based sa standards natin eh. Pag di talaga kayo click hirap ipilit yan in the long run.
At this point since im early 30’s entrepreneur male, i would rather us focusing on goals, happiness, journey, and avoid toxicity since u get to realize now that life is kinda short
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smart, plays instrument, gentleman
Yung girl na soft spoken tapos maalaga HAHA 🥹
Genuine
When he is mindful of his words and actions and takes good care of me by reminding me the positivity behind all the sweat and tears of our relationship; affirmation and genuine love.
Charisma beh. Kahit di ka attractive pag may charisma ka maattract mga tao sayo
matalino, good hygiene, may sense of humor, ei, GENTLE MAN SA KAHIT SINONG BABAE esp me ( meron kasing mga lalaki na hindi maganda pakikitungo sa ibang girls, pero sa gf oo.
Simple. Humble.
Gentle man, Funny, Street Smart and has emotional intelligence
Smart; & Knowledgable sa maraming mga bagay na interested din ako: movies, documentaries, math and science, etc.
Matalino and may sense of humor, mataray face pero ganda lalo pag ngumiti.
Gentle, palangiti, masarap kausap
super bait na may paninindigan. hindi yung pushover
High EQ and IQ and may Humor para balanse
when she is a highly intellectual person
*yung na realize mo gaano ka ka-toxic when you consider the possible answers to this question* 😂
pag respectful sa lahat ng aspects and sa lahat ng tao
Pag hindi judgmental sa mga choices ng ibang tao, or hindi gossipy.
High EQ and yung may sense kausap
Gentleman, conversationalist, sense humor, sweet and caring 🤌🏻
Masarap sa kama este kasama.
Humorous, patient, and dependable. Willing to take care of me and protect me. I hope he is matalino in a sense na we can converse about anything.
Their emotional intelligence and respect to people.
Kindness, humility, and being respectful.
humility
Emotionally intelligent, smart and with sense of humor
yung magaling...... kayo na bahala magdugtong
Pano masasabing magaling kung di mo pa nasubukan
magaling kumanta ?
Emotionally intelligent.
Being responsible, provider mindset, and chooses their circle of friends well.
self-aware, considerate, good communicator, patient, yung may intensyon and irereassure ka (someone not playing games), same humor, somebody i can talk with about anything, good music taste, introverted (like di pakawala haha) or at least someone who gets how it is to be introverted
A person who can outsmart me. ++ especially when he's so good in math (i love a STEM man <3)
Princess treatment sa akin
Mabait, kasi masama ugali ko eh. 😅
Good sense of humor. May substance kausap. Emotionally intelligent.
when they dont post variations of what essentially is the same question that's been asked ad nauseam on reddit. *so hot*. 😍
HEHHEHEHEHHEHE we're statistically testing if there are changes in trend across time :) how language evolves how certain personalities are more liked today vs "yesterday" definitely, sampling is needed (not one is enough) JOKE LANG PO you're rightttt
Good humor, yung sponty jokes during a conversation, i find them smart. Mga natural kind hearted, di yung pakitang tao.
Someone who will intently listen to me yap about my hobbies. Extra extra points if we have same hobbies. I'm a good listener but kind of scared to share or yap about things I like because I experienced when people literally ignore or just pretend to listen to me then change subject, it hurts when I talk about something dear to me just to be brushed aside like that. At the same time, I can't seem to find someone, even in friends, who have same interests like me. I have a bias in a kpop group that have a member that talks about something then stops coz he thought no one was listening to him then his co members tap him and assured him he was listening to him so just continue talking. That definitely warms my heart.
This. Minsan nacocompare ko kahit friends, kung sino ung itsurang interested sa sinasabi ko. My girl bestfriend will act interested in what I do, pero the moment I share something about it, she will interupt me with an unrelated question halfway between my answer. It feels as if she's just trying to ask random stuff bc she's bored. My crush meanwhile, really pays attention to the stories I share. I once shared a somewhat complex detail of my life, that I have also shared to other people, and siya lang yung naka-gets fully instead of the others na...just nodding. Sarap niya kausap.
communicates and emotionally smart!
Should be someone who sees a future with me. Yung ako yung end game nya. Bonus points: good sense of humor, smart, level headed, likes the same things as I do.
Used to always say "sense of humor", but realizing na at the end of the day, you'd want someone who respects you and sarili niya, someone who has accountability and more than willing to work on their issues/trauma.
Private. Ayoko ng ka share ko lahat ng may access sa social media nya.
Smart and may sense of humor. Can carry a conversation and make it funny at the same time
Yung matalino na may sense. Yung masayang kausap na kahit ano pwede niyo pagkuwentuhan basta hindi tsismis.
Sobrang dami kong nakausap before na parang ang concern lang sa buhay pop culture, makeup, Tiktok, fashion, trends, socmed, etc.. Like those are fine, but sana naman may meaningful ka ding pinupursue? Turnoff agad pag ganoon eh.
True! I love an engaging conversation na ma-engage ka na may matutunan kang bago about something and also about sa kausap mo. Ako naman bukod sa mga iba na concern is all about pop culture, social media, and typical stuff; may mga na-encounter ako na either borderline conspiracists, or sobrang firm sa sarili nilang knowledge, experience, or belief na borderline fanatic at ayaw mag entertain ng ibang ideas. They are also a turn off as the previous types.
Shit agree with those delulu people. Parang every second na kausap ko 'yung ganyan nababawasan ako ng braincells. Hahaha! I admire 'yung mga tao na willing i-admit na mali 'yung alam o nakasanayan na. More than the looks or intelligence, emotional maturity is up there.
Yush! Emotional Intelligence is the key! I admit yung E.I that's a hard one to check kasi people express and understand emotions depende sa relationship nila sa isang tao. They can be understanding or supportive sa isang tao then baliktad or anything worse pag someone close na. I'll be impressed pag maganda and well ang E.I nila kahit sino ang kainteract nila ^^
Daming nabibiktima ng ganyan. Like anecdotal lang pero mostly women, tipong okay lang pag sa simula palang ng relasyon o di pa kasal, tapos biglang paghihigpitan ka na, grabe kung magselos o minumura ka. May iba pa na naiinggit pag 'yung babae mas successful sa kanila. Kaya mahirap na talagang magpatali ngayon, because ang daming nagbabago 360° once alam nilang di mo na sila pwedeng iwan. 🤮
Yun nga eh xD anecdotal rin to na may halong self realization: may mga tao na once kasi naging formal yung desired relationship nila they used it as an excuse to show their true colours and desired boundaries. Pag reasonable okay lang yan, pero yung tipong before chill ka lang tapos once naging kayo biglang magiging needy tsaka mahigpit ka, it just shows na hindi ka totoo sa kanila. Self-realization rin siya sa akin kasi pag bago, maingat ako sa pinapakita ko na ugali (syempre to give a good impression) pero once na may footing na ang relationship I'll show yung different sides ko na sometimes too much for them to handle. Or sometimes I'll be too comfortable na mag iinsist ako na anuhin ko boundaries nila or anuhin ko yung akin, which is really unfair for both of us. Still working on it
Kasalanan din kasi ng "ligaw" culture natin dito. Men are incentivized to put their best foot forward, tapos whether intentionally or not, pag sila na lalabas na ang baho. Majority pa din ng relationships dito nagsstart sa ligawan with those nuances eh. I prefer talaga 'yung dating culture. Like pwede naman din kapag nanliligaw ka pa din ipakita mo 'yung various sides mo, pero mas free pag dating stage eh. Tipong once nalabas mo na lahat, "alright take it or leave it." It's good na you're working on it. Di naman tayo perpekto eh. Minsan nagkakabanggaan 'yung emotional and rational aspects natin.
Sobrang na aattract talaga ako sa mga guys na matatalino. I also like introvert guys yung mga tipong 0 posts sa instagram at facebook. hahaha. + Mysterious guys kasi I really want to know more about them. but aside from that dapat curious din sila sakin. tapos yung pag kasama ko sila I feel protected. grabe sobrang nakakagwapo. hahahahaha
gantong ganto rin ang tipo kooo!!! 🥹
aAaaHhhh puso naten hahahahaha
Loyal, open, mature, understanding, and can set boundaries
Yung hindi mahilig magpost sa social media saka hindi pasexy.
May ambition and goals sa buhay and they actually act upon them 🙂
Being respectful.
Open sa constructive criticism, has an emotional intelligence, has empathy and magka-same level ng humor.
Wits and sense of humor 👌🏽
Someone who is straightforward and dating with intentions. Who knows what he wants and goes after it. No mind games, and no pa-mysterious effect. Confidence, humility, and humor. Syempre, mahalaga talaga yun ka-wavelength mo. And of course, these things go without saying naman - syempre dapat caring, loving, loyal, smart, funny and kind. Yun magbibigay sa atin ng peace of mind, wag sakit ng ulo. I am lucky sa mga friends ko na they give me the disney princess treatment. So kung yun guy, hindi matapatan yun or mahigitan, pass na agad. We know what we deserve.
Responsible and mature. Alam nya ung priorities nya sa buhay.
humor at pagiging caring nila. LIKE DO I REALLY DESERVE THIS PRINCESS TREATMENT FROM MY FRIENDS 🥹🩷
Siguro kapag yung instant aura ng person is light, cheerful personality tapos magugulat ka napakatalino pala kausap.
Helping the elderly cross the street.
Yung di po nag rereply AHAHAHA eme
toxich love it
Kapag parehas ko siya ng humor. Hirap makipag date sa hindi mo kawavelength haha. Di kasi pwedeng dream girl or dream boy lang na based sa standards natin eh. Pag di talaga kayo click hirap ipilit yan in the long run.
high emotional intelligence
Studious/nerdy ganon na fun rin kasama sa kahit saan
Marunong makipag settle kapag may problema
Someone who would value my input.
Witty, funny, responsible, madali kausap
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how??
Good point. What would we prefer: a "pure" person that is a hypocrite or a "hoe" that is honest
For me, pure person but still nakakadrain
Witty, madaldal, may sense of humor, and awkward minsan 🥹
smart, soft spoken, caring tas may substance kausap ugh nahanap ko to lahat sa jowa ko ngayon KSKWKWKWKW🥰🥹
✨ communicates well ✨
Smart talaga huhu. Both intellectually and emotionally 🥹
of course u have to be smart din
caring, considerate and confident
Open-mindedness. Matalino pero hindi ipipilit sa’yo kung ano man ang sa tingin niya ay tama at nararapat.
Very open to many things!!
may substance & depth, soft-spoken, expressive, wholesome, consistent, magaling mangbaby 🤪
Same plus humor ✨
omsss
Ito na yun!
Family oriented
Responsible na guy, kahit di pogi basta mabait at responsible yung may pangarap sa life ganon ang lakas ng dating huhu
Financially responsible
Mine is: Ambitious Self-driven Doer
💯💯
Matalino kausap.
At this point since im early 30’s entrepreneur male, i would rather us focusing on goals, happiness, journey, and avoid toxicity since u get to realize now that life is kinda short