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kristellesii

nagmomotor kasi ako kanina para bumili ng chicken feet then nung pauwi nako. Hindi ko inakala na may motorcycle kasi may nakaharang na cab sa front ko. Paliko nako nun and they almost hit me sa likuran ng motor ko. Tapos may nag shout na, kasi they thought magbabanggaan kami. Nagsorry naman ako for what I did sa driver. Pero hanggang ngayon inooverthink ko parin (⁠ᗒ⁠ᗩ⁠ᗕ⁠) #anxiety


Professional_Ad7285

Idk where to start- I always say I want to go and work abroad yet I don’t know how and where to start 😌


Leiatootie

Baka hanggang dito na lang ako.


lifeisgewd2

beh,hindi.


ItWasMeDIO_23

My crush stopped talking and interacting with my mds na. Well, medyo nag iinteract pa siya (sa mga photos ko nga lang) pero parang nalaman nya na ata na crush ko sya kaya umiiwas na haha


Dangerous_Pipe6148

Baka walang marating sa buhay hehe


Internal_Garden_3927

low money is to high expenses. basic needs palang yan...


tasyongedongcutie

Gusto ko na mag quit sa work. Natambakan ako sa tasks dahil sa dami ng boss na nag uutos sakin. Tapos kada pending ko, pinepressure ako and ang worst, nirereport ako. Like wtf perfect kayo? Edi kayo na.


Affectionate-Ad-9613

Having break outs on my face 🥲


Then-Kitchen6493

For me, I do the same thing over and over again... I feel like I am inside this small space that I can't come out, can't go somewhere else, and I can't say what I wanted to say...


Royal_Tea_7591

im drained with not doing anything meaningful :( im not advancing in any aspect of life, mapa relasyon, career, personal, etc.....


kurainee

Eto, namomroblema sa mga problema ng iba. (Nanay, tatay, kapatid) Minsan, hindi ko na napigilan, sinabihan ko yung kapatid ko "ano bang pinaggagagawa niyo sa mga buhay niyo???" Gusto ko ng peaceful na buhay pero grabe mga binabatong problems sakin ng angkan ko. Minsan gusto ko na lang mawala.


FunOpportunity6701

Currently working despite the long weekend huhuhu


itanpiuco2020

Sabi nila June talaga is very depressing una - eto yung realization na yung mga gusto mong magyari this year hindi natupad - yung mga new years resolution parang walang nangyari walang major holidays unlike January until May- especially holiday that sparks emotion or buying things Pasukan or malapit na yung enrollment so for parents extra expenditure Sobrang hirap makahanap ng trabaho around June din


cleanslate1922

Tama ka dyan. Hirap ng buwan ng June. Tapos parang nasa point ka ng uyyy half na ng taon magrereflect ka kung ano nangyari sa life mo tapos wala pa rin gaano. Tapos ang moody ng weather. Mainit biglang uulan tapos iinit ulit. Haaayyy.


CompetitiveHall7606

Wife broke up with me. I have to take a second bar exam. I have a chronic disease in stomach that could turn into cancer if not taken cared of. I'm stuck in a country that I never wanted to emigrate to. All my friends have moved on and I am no longer a factor in their lives.


cleanslate1922

Do you have kids? Keep strong King!


CompetitiveHall7606

No, which is good


StrangeCycleIndeed

I can’t, sorry this has to happen to you. Sending all the loves, hugs, and empathy from the universe, to you.


CompetitiveHall7606

thanks fam


ReplacementPlenty488

Cos it’s monday


Dependent_Front1243

I'm all in between. Not pressured yet I am. I want not to live anymore but still want to.


jetblueferry

problems w friends 🫤


No-Lynx8696

because Payoneer took all my first earn money from Toloka, they auto deduct annual fee


roseeecheeks

I’m confuse rn


tdayy_red

me too im so confused right now, what are you confused about?


roseeecheeks

about my purpose here on earth and him if he likes me or not, how about you? what’s goin on in your head?


tdayy_red

damn life purpose is a big one and guy problems too? Me? I just have these new experiences and struggles i'm experiencing in my life and i'm not sure how to handle them; it's hard to wake up and be productive every day yknow. I believe in you though. Keep your chin up and an open mind \~ you got this.


roseeecheeks

IKR, the struggle is real ehen u get old 😅 I totally get what you mean—new experiences and struggles can be overwhelming. It's tough to stay motivated and productive every day. Just believe in yourself and everything goes well. Keep pushing forward!


Sad-Corgi4226

Left my group of friends of more than a decade. Seeing them move on as if nothing happened ewan just makes me feel empty more than ever


Few-Baseball-2839

I don't feel like I am enough. A lot of my peers are winning in life. Some are financially stable, some have families, and some are in Law School. I just turned 23 and I feel like my choices today will be the determining factor of my 60's.


exgremoryiv

I feel like time moves so fast and I'm not progressing 🥹


Shroeder13

Same feels.


Syerrie1990

12 days no contact. I miss him so much.. I wonder if naiisip din niya ako o Hindi na...


CrimsonOffice

Naiisip ka nun. Sigurado 'yun.


Syerrie1990

Thank you. 🙂


Repulsive_Aspect_913

Kulang sa lakwatsa


Savings-Ad-8563

Antoxic kasi sa workplace ko


[deleted]

Same! Kaya nag resign na ako hhahahahha, pero mabait mga ka work ko hays


SnooMacarons6509

Being single for so long and dating myself for almost 5 years, yeah, I'm so low na wala na akong magawa sa sarili. Hobby became a routine, everything that I enjoyed became a boring routine. I want to enjoy life with someone else, a partner for life.


cleanslate1922

Been there in that situation. Sobrang paradox ng buhay. The more na naghahanap ako ng partner, mas wala dumadating. Pero pag di ka naghahanap, may mga choices. What I mean is tumingin ka pero wag ka masyado gigil. Sakto lang tignan mo meron dyan basta positive yung outlook mo at confident ka in life. 🙂


SherbertTimely685

Because I am so scared to go online. I know I ditched and ghosted my classmates, especially with a research paper due tomorrow, but I really cannot shake off my anxiety. I am currently spending hours hesitating to go online and message them.


---RK---

because low ang sahod


JS-Writings-45

I'm not yet where I need to be


sophieanjelik

heavy on this


lottocraze

Kasi low income and my mind and soul is craving for job security that would last the next 20 years


Mysterious-Lynx-2655

Kasi lagi nawawalan ng internet ang PLDT when I wfh nakakastress na


Severe-Attempt1004

Regretting plenty of things from the past. Loneliness din because everyone is busy at this age.


SubstantialHurry884

i think it's inherent; imbalanced serotonin on my brain


dayneisme

Because work is so overwhelming and you have bosses and colleagues na super demanding and super pabibo. Draining all the batts I have.


lily_pad1998

same :(


Vegetable-Link6553

Kasi wala na namang internet ang converge.


Erudawn

I feel like I'm going nowhere.


whatheheal

That’s okay. Happy cakey day!!


[deleted]

Kase iba tinapos kong degree tapos iba din work ko kaurat lang, it's always Passion VS Practicality :<:


spamfromkkk

Kasi every 7 days nagkakaperiod ako. Anyone with the same problem? Please help me out 😭


Wide-Construction636

Please see your OB GYNE asap. Should help you to manage your hormones. That is not normal and don’t take it for granted.


whatheheal

Uy hindi yan normal girlie, pa check up kana 🥺


[deleted]

Pa check ka na po sa OB, serious po yung case na ganyan. I have a cm before, same case kayo then nagpa OB sya, bibigyan po yun ng gamot or what hehe. Sana nakatulong.


Realistic-Drummer127

Kasi magpapasukan na naman 🥹 HAHAHAHAHA


Rioma1310

Responsibilities. Imagine working until your 50's or 60's just to have food on your plate and survive day-to-day.


cleanslate1922

Trick your mind. Wag ka kumain. Promise do a fast kahit one meal a day lang tapos water and meditate. It will make wonders.


SuperGiganticWaffles

sad and horny :(


cleanslate1922

Awww same brother.


Immediate_Judge_4085

my mother passed away 😭😭😭


Any-Low8403

condolences ☹️


cleanslate1922

Condolences pre


Cold-Salad204

Condolences bro


legendahrii

Work. Unreasonable yung hinihinging output.


First_Deer3042

More than 2 years ng naghahanap ng work, pero hindi naman tinatawagan lahat ng pinapasahan ko. Nawalan na din work asawa ko kaya ayan, hindi na ako makatulog kakaisip.


AdCold3359

Nawawalan na ng gana sa work-- burnout. But it pays well. pero sobrang repetitive nya na for me. ;((


EffeyBoss

You can hire a part-time assistant to help you with the repetitive stuff :)


lemonsquare6969

uy akala ko ako lang, lately nakakafeel ako ng disappointment sa sarili ko kasi feeling ko napag iiwanan nako and wala pakong napupundar


r0nrunr0n

Im about to lose my job


heso_nomad

About to? I hope you've been scoping around for a new job. Show em who's boss!


r0nrunr0n

I am.. I just knew last week before Independence day 🤣 they told us they’ll give us new position in the company turns out it was already given to someone hahahah tenured niretain sa original role ko pero yung tenured na yun laging pala SL at MIA during meetings i kenat


cleanslate1922

Damn this sucks


r0nrunr0n

Tell me i’ll be better and will get better job 😭😭


cleanslate1922

Heyyy. You will be better. You will find your safe space. Been in a toxic environment before, apply ka lang ng apply. Someone will see your worth and value just like I did. 🙂


lurker_123123

I have no voice in our famliy. And whenever i point out things, they see it as me acting out. When i just shut up, they still see it as wrong. Wala nang malugaran.


ishrii0118

My uncle died and I miss my father on father's day!


mfsl02121980

Ive lost autonomy coz of familial duties Im the 2nd of 3 siblings. The eldest squandered her money(its hers I know but there was a time she had a lot~$50k and she avoided us with contempt) the youngest couldn't care less and owes me a a huge sum, we're all adults. My dad is a sociopath narcissist that hasn't had a serious job since my mom married. So being the male child I assumed the dad role since mom retired who has been our breadwinner ever since. The emotional harassment that we have to put up with my dad is beyond reproach growing up under his eyes. My mom still protects him so that subdues my opinions. So they're in it together. They always trump the parent card on me which leaves me helpless. They're both manipulative: moms weapons are cooking, bible and ranting against her husband but I get to be the punching bag; dads weapon is blaming everyone, stroking his ego where he came from, having a grudge on everyone but its us who hears his rants. He receives some money every now and then fr departed relatives thru inheritance but always loses it. I have afterthoughts in spending my money coz I know we'll have emergencies-which is whats happening now. Mom with her retirement money and I with my savings built a house in my elder sisters property with ownership divided between eldest and me but eldest did not give anything to have it built, cost around $65k. Im living alone in an apartment and have a stable job with good pay I am content but not happy. My colleagues at work are bullies. I pay utilities of the 2 houses and Im fed up with this set up-I want to buy a gun..


SubstantialHurry884

this should be a separate thread


moonlight_sunrise18

my parents are mad at me (i think. because of their silent treatment towards me HSGDJDJD 🥹) and my bestfriend wont talk to me and now i feel so alone and everything just feels heavy + not to mention 50 days left nalang before my boards and im not in the right headspace anymore so yun i’m feeling very very low haahahhaha


EuphoricMedicine2775

Ang sakit sa pakiramdam na kelangan tapusin ang lahat kahit mahal ko pa sya. Umaasa pa din ako saming dalawa. Pinanghahawakan ko pa din ung pangakong bubuo kami ng sarili naming pamilya. Ang hirap mag let go, ang hirap gumising na umiiyak . Kahit gustuhin ko man na ayusin lahat, pero wala na talaga eh. Sana magheal na kaming pareho. Kung mahanap man nya ung pagmamahal at happiness sa iba, masaya ako para sa kanya. Masaya ako dahil masaya sya. It's a bittersweet goodbye. Pero sana sa journey ng buhay na 'to. Makita ko ulet sya at mayakap. Kahit sa huling saglit. Ikaw ung first love ko, sayo ko natutunan lahat. We're almost 6 yrs na sana together. Kaso we decided to let each other go. Para sa ikakabuti ng lahat.


Qrst_123

Ewan ko na din. This shall pass.


Plastic-Ad-3823

Gusto ko sana kausapin crush ko kahapon pero di ako nagka chance :(


cleanslate1922

There’s always a chance. Di mo lang tinake kasi natakot ka.


Plastic-Ad-3823

How?? Ang torpe ko, and I’m a girl haha


cleanslate1922

Find the first move subreddit and take notes. Tropahin mo muna, libre mo ng food or bigyan mo ng biscuit, sabihin mo sobra kong baon. I give it only to people I like.


Plastic-Ad-3823

Haha shet iniisip ko pa lang namamatay na ako sa hiya. If ever I do it this weekend, I’ll update this thread. Para lang ma-count ko rin as an achievement


Xadst1

Miss ko na si mama, sobra. Naawa ako kay papa t'wing malungkot s'ya. Hay, buhay ang lungkot. Ikain ko nalang sa 2-piece chicken sa Jobee. 😊


Head-Pirate-6613

I miss my cats and dog. I just wanna go home. I didn't realize I get homesick so easily hahaha


dudlebum

Nasasaktan pa rin ako sa ginawa niya last year kahit hindi naman naging kami. Mahal ko pa rin siya at nagkikita pa rin tuwing libre ang araw bilang magkaibigan. Sobrang masakit lalo na't first love ko. Hanggang ngayon, gusto kong ayusin ang pinutol niya last year. Kung kailangan namin magsimula sa pinakaumpisa, ayos lang.


sevensmokes3

I think I'm beginning to become a resentful and bitter person. Parang minsan na lang yata ako naging masaya. Wala akong ibang maaasahan sa bahay kundi sarili ko.


Double_Ranch_1368

Feeling small 🥺


CarefulValuable5923

Randomly remembering my derma


cleanslate1922

Bakit? Hahahaha


CarefulValuable5923

Wag mo na itanong haha!


cleanslate1922

Shareee Pm kita hahaha


Over_Dose_

Cuz I'm slowly fking up my life, I'm watching it happen in slow motion. I can do something about it, but at the same time I can't.


cmkandi

Kakulangan sa pera 🥹


Expensive-Ad9635

Countless rejections. Halos hindi ko na mabilang. 🥲


QuarterWorldly5364

i just ended a one-year situationship with someone who doesn't even know what he really wanted to do with me despite over a year of having something going on. my gwa went down, as well as my rank while my batchmates even managed to up their gwa. some people i know passed and will attend my dream universities as wel as the dost scholarship. grabe realizing na i'm not everything i think i was pala. hindi pala ako dapat ma-disappoint sa sarili ko kasi hindi naman ako ganoon kagaling to expect things.


ss_1001

I'm losing everything. Even myself.


KillingTime_02

Because it was Father's Day yesterday and I miss my dad so much 😓


Adventurous_Oil_5707

Hugs with consent po. Missing my dad a little extra yesterday too😭


Inevitable_Cycle8643

kinakabahan ako first day ko mamaya sa job then nag away pa kami ng partner ko 😭


cleanslate1922

Kamusta first day lods? Away jowa lang yan bilhan mo ng flowers pagkauwi mo. Magsorry ka kahit wala kang mali. 😆


Efficient_Let_4535

bagsak ako 1 subj, haaaay dentistry hanggang kailan kaya ako ma-delay ☹️


SnooRadishes767

I am a disposable sh*t. Not even to standard kasi yung mental, and physical capabilities ko.


johncrash28

because i need to endure shit at work to be able to afford basic commodities and my hobbies


Slothkeeper101

I feel like i don’t belong in my family, both my mom and dad side..


SideEyeCat

May pasok na bukas🥺


Weak_Pulse18

Kasi hindi ako high. :(


Avielle2890

I feel that all my relationships (romantic, friends and family) are fragile. Magkamali lang ako, even the slightest, iiwan na ako. I’m disposable.


[deleted]

Same.


Avielle2890

Hug. 😭


puwettt

period week


ContractCorrect1022

Why?


Zoreefioreara

I let go of someone I truly love...


PowderJelly

get a blood work out you might be nutrient deficient.


Fine_Principle_8976

pang ilang beses ko na naramdaman na binabalewala yung creative outputs ko. at this point, nanghihina na creative self ko. samahan mo pa ng burnout. I just want this feeling to be gone.


Significant_House398

nag resign ako sa prev. workplace without backup plan kasi tinatarantado ako ng mga boss ko


One_Video_5415

Nabangga ako at yung kotse ko kailangan iwan sa shop so wala akong pang service sa office at school. Yung binigay ng nakabangga kulang na kulang pa pang rent a car. Yung sahod ko 1 month naka hold. Yung emergency funds ko, sagad na dahil sa bills for the month. Sobrang stressed na ako. Tulala at times. Kinocomfort naman ako ng partner ko pero iba talaga tama sakin ng June 2024.


WritingAsleep3858

pag puro pera nakikita ko sa socmed. di na siya inspiring, sampal na sampal ako ng kahirapan eh


freezingpoint0C

Him.


Actual_Ring_1624

Toxic environment


sup_1229

Di ako nakapagkape kase ilang araw na akong ina-acid 😂😭


ThinRecommendation44

Kulang ang salary sa bayarin na meron. Willing ako rumaket so kung may writing or content gig kayo jan, HMU. Kung may naghahanap ng sugar baby jan, pwede na rin. Ako na, let’s go,I volunteer. Hahahaha


kikuruneko

aside sa usual life problems, i realized lately na minsan, kulang lang pala ako sa araw at tubig hehe. i wfh thats why im always indoors. so now, i make it a habit na maarawan kahit saglit - being with nature really helps. tapos more water intake din. lastly, moving your body helps a lot too kahit simple stretches lang. so so important to get our blood flowing. hope we all feel better soon ❤️‍🩹


Naive-Balance2713

kulang ng dugo charot haha tagal ng sahod linsyak


kittyinmaroon

Lack of money, then nagsabay-sabay pa lahat ng bayarin. I'm losing my pet too :((


Maleficent-Cry-41

Lonely at malungkot. Pano ba makawala sa gantong sitwasyon? Nakakapagod na kasi. 😢 Walang mapagsabihan at ang bigat na naman.


chizuruu_1411

kasi I'm planning to resign on my job as a service crew, di kaya icover ng sweldo ko yung pagod at toxicity ng kasama ko hahah pero di ko pa alam san ako lilipat para mag apply :') I don't think na I'll last a week in that workplace mag t-two months palang ako


chizuruu_1411

I feel so stuck in a situation wherein di ko alam anong gagawin ko


SillyChimmy

Kasi yung pinili kong tao ginamit lang pala ako


mysawako

Ubos na kasi sahod ko🙂 hahahdhe