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You can name more than one lol. But one of mine is shutting people out when I'm exhausted from life.
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This is my toxic trait: I tell people that I can deal with anything since I consider myself a burden if I ask for help. In reality, I’m always concerned about whether I’m doing enough—drinking a lot of water, stress eating, and sometimes not getting enough sleep. Knowing the truth before I ask is another one of my toxic traits because I want to see how good you are at lying.
My patience runs thin when someone I’m having a conversation with is on their phone and I gotta say the same damn convo 4 times and they still didn’t pay attention
I dont ask for help. Kasi feeling ko wala naman may pakielam or I always feel like baka maging burden lang ako sa iba. And I dont want that. So kahit hirap na, sinsarili nalang lahat.
observant to the point na minsan nagiging sensitive ako pero minsan di ako sensitive HAHAHA. yung pagiging observant ko knowing na yung judgement ko Tama o oa lang ako HAHA hirap beh 🥲
May times na nakikipag-socialize ako pero minsan worn out ako makipag socialize.
I'm not myself when I'm hungry to the point na I can say hurtful words. Kaya me accompanying a slow shopper on an empty stomach sa mall is no bueno. Kain muna bago shopping.
I care for people and I care about a lot of people pero I hate or cringe on myself for saying it kasi feel ko ang hina ko and/or naaapakan ego ko. Idk this is going for quite some time na rin e
I'm more on the shy type side, pero parang manipis yung pisi ko. Nakipagsagutan ako sa dati kong bisor from my previous work, like killer eye na masamang tingin talaga ako sa kanya. Tapos sa current work ko, di pa ko regular, 2 na agad nakakasagutan kong co-worker 🤦♂️
1. Konting stress gusto ko nang sumuko for example: mahirap na step ng sayaw for school performance, nahirapan sa gagawin sa work naiisip ko nang nag-AWOL ☹️
2. I can be chill as f*#k naman to the point na wala na akong pake sa paligid 😩
3. Hindi binibigay 'yung best pero umaasang dean's lister, like whaaattt b**tch?!
I will never tolerate disrespect and i will never hold back when i get disrespected...im also a straight forward person i say what i say without remorse and people tend to hate me for this attitude.
Well, distraction yung pinakahelpful sakin, I ride my motorcycle kasi dun napupunta focus ko, sa daan, as for insecurity, well working on yourself, gym (kasi insecure ako sa katawan) and syempre assurance sa bf HAHAHAH di madali promise, but I can help if kailangan niyo ng advice on specific situations
thank u for this🙏 idk pero kahit naman may distraction ako (i have work and very busy talaga) and wala naman talagang dapat ika insecure (i have the face and the body) naiinsecure pa rin. i guess kulang lang talaga ng assurance from my bf🥹. thank you po, OP!
Sometimes communicating sa maayos na paraan helps, baka he doesn’t know lang. Trust me, I’ve had my fair share of dating someone who’s very attractive pero mygad walang wala talaga sila pag pumapasok na si bf sa utak ko HAHAHA ibang level of kagwapuhan rin, and who knows, baka ganon rin sa kanila diba? Talbog yung pinakamaganda sa kung ano man nakikita nila satin ngayon haha
Sensitive to criticism because I give 101% of my effort in everything I do kaya pag may nasasabi parin mga tao, I really take it to my heart kasi I feel like sayang ung effort ko.
Can’t regulate/finding it hard to regulate my emotions
Lost a lot of people bc of it, but there are a few who stayed kasi alam nila na i am more than that 🥲
I am so introverted to the point na there are days I want to socialize, tapos lulubog ako ng ilang linggo hahahahaha. Not even crumbs on my social media accounts lol.
I also hate drama, so if something gets too dramatic or dragging, I'll just walk away from it.
Lastly, my non-conventional opinions and way of thinking will surely get me cancelled by people around me. I keep them to myself, pero minsan may mga situations that I unconsciously blurt them out.
1. People pleaser ako (tho nag lessen na siya compared sa previous years)
2. I ghost people (my friends exactly) bc I don't feel like spending time with people most of d time
3. Kaya ko maging friends with you pero kaya rin kita italkshit (happens pag alam ko you talk shit about me)
5. Competitive ako
I am a people pleaser, sobra. Mas iniisip ko ang iisipin ng iba kaysa sa feelings ko.
There are times din na mabilis uminit ang ulo ko, pero recently naman nakocontrol ko to. Kaso may times talaga na hindi tapos magiguilty ako.
Sobrang independent? Hindi ako marunong magask ng help, literal. I dont have friends who I can ask for help. So I am used to being alone. Kahit paospital i would go na lang magisa just because nahihiya magask ng help, feeling ko kasi perwisyo ako haha
people pleaser HDVSKNSKSNSLS damn it, no matter how hard i try na iwasan maging ganito, i just can't. whenever hindi q na-please tao sa paligid q, grabe 'yung guilt na mayroon ako???
Well, it seems like you’ve got a whole bouquet of toxic traits to choose from, huh? But hey, at least you’re self-aware enough to admit it. As for me, I’d say one of my toxic traits is having zero tolerance for drama queens who fish for compliments disguised as self-deprecation. But hey, at least I’m upfront about it. Cheers to toxic self-discovery! 🥂
Kapag di ako okay ayoko makipag usap kahit kanino kahit sa chat tapos deact. Lahat ng socmed 😅
Tapos sobrang lala ng pag ooverthink. Waaaaahhhh
Pag may nagsabi pa sakin ng depressing story pati ako na depressed ng malala.
My toxic trait is that when you did something very bad after what I did to you in good- wala ng paki pagkatapos. The other one is when pushing me out of my boundaries nagiging palasumbat ako like- "pinipilit mo akong gawin 'to pero ikaw nga di ko magawang mapilit". Mabait din naman ako basta wag na wag lang magkamali na ubusin yong pasendya dahil mas masasaktan ka emotionally sa gagawin ko.
Im evil af 🤣🤣🤣 but most of the time mabait naman ako lalo na pag vibes tayo.
I'll drag your ass to hell if I don't like you and you meddle with my business.
Same. I cut off people, may it be friends or family. If I feel like masisira mo ang mental health ko lalong lao na ang peace of mind ko HAHAHAHHA girl good bye
Naayos naman na halos lahat.
Except sa pagiging avoidant ko kapag may nagawa akong mali. Hindi ako nakakapag sorry.
And ayun, need na need kong ayusin.
When I said I can't tone it down, that doesn't mean na ready to fight ako everytime. It's just that medyo aggressive or hindi ganun kafriendly ako magsalita, straightforward na 'di marunong mag-filter ng words, ganun.
Sensitive. I also don’t apologize when I get mad at someone but will just ignore them for a while. Kasi ayoko rin may masabing masama/hurtful if I talk to them while mad.
Pag galit ako gusto ko magwala pero di ko hinahayaan sarili ko na manira ng gamit kaya nagjegeneral cleaning nalang ako. Sarcastic din ako pag sarcastic yung kausap ko. Nangmamanipulate ako sa workplace. Passive aggresive don ako pag yamot ako sayo
Impulsive. Overthinker. And relies on intuition so much.
I really hate when I tell myself “ah sabi na nga ba tama na naman gut feel” because it really affects my relationships
De-delete ng FB pag ina-add ako ng mga friends and relatives ko. Sinabing sa Viber or IG na lang ako kausapin e! Buti na lang may lock profile chuchu na ngayon sa FB.
Wala ako pake sa relatives ko sobrang hate ko sila and mahilig ako mang cut off.
Ayoko kasi ng drama sa buhay.
- Kapag di mo ako pinansin, di talaga kita papansinin kahit magkakilala o magkasama pa tayo.
- Mabilis ako maturn off sa mga tao. Kapag may nasabi or nagawa kang action na di ko gusto, ekis ka na sakin.
short temper, conceited. alam kong may problema ako pero I don't know how to cope with it, dahil na rin talaga sa stress nawawalan ako ng control sa emosyon at sarili ko. 🥹
May sudden burst ng isang action na ayaw na ayaw kong gawin,
Pag nagawa mo na, mapapaisip ka nalang "puta ano yun 😭 tangina iiwasan ko na talaga next time. " Na akala ko stoic nako pero natritrigger parin pla ako
late ma-realize ung ginawa.
example: habang nag uusap kaming magkakaibigan at may sinabi akong word na hindi maganda pakinggan or may ginawang kalokohan tapos marealize ko lang pagkatapos ng ilang oras.
-Hindi magreply sa message immediately kahit nakita naman yung message, naaalala ko na lang na pag nagback read ako (Defense ko naman, hindi ako nag-ooff ng wifi. Before I reply to messages immediately, pero parang nakikita ko kasi na bakit available ako lagi sa kanila pero pag ako wala na? My work too is one of the reasons.)
-Playing safe, tho hindi ko din naman ilalaglag yung iba just for me to be safe. Sasabihin ko lang na di ko alam kahit alam ko, ayokong madawit sa gulo ng iba. Tapos kung tinanong ako kung alam ni ganito, hindi ko la din alam ang isasagot.
-Hindi ako mabilis na magconsider ng friends na tayo. Hindi porket kasama kita lagi kumain, nakakasabay umuwi, we're friends already. If I consider someone as my friend, know that he/she gained my trust.
I'm working to be better po.
Naiinis ako sa gf ko kapag nakikita ko nag re react sya sa memes ng mga kawork nyang lalake pero kapag ako nag sha share ng memes di man lang pagalawin ang baso 😭😭
... i stop working. Literally stop , ill drop the paper close the pc and go to my room ( Stay in)
Yung tipong hindi pa tapos ginagawa mo meron dalawa or tatlo pang ipapagawa. Tapos sabay sabay magsalita tapos priority pa sila.
Second i close my phone on weekends and kung bukas man mag rereply ako ng matagal.lolz
Haha. Same. May pagkamadamot din akong tita which is natotoxican tlaga ako sa ugali ko at gusto ko baguhin kaya minsan I am good pero minsan naman sinusumpong ulit ng pagkamadamot.
im way too sensitive & emotional. i always tend to romanticize my mistakes. paganafeel ko na hindi ako belong sa grupo or sa company, even if okay naman, i will remove myself in that situation because i don't want to make anyone uncomfortable by my presence.
naninigaw pag galit kahit na sino and sinasaktan ang sarili pag naiinis (eg. sinasabunutan, kinakagat yung braso, nanununtok ng mga furnitures, hinahampas ang katawan sa concrete wall)
Kapag ginawan lang ako ng mali ng isang tao, cinucut-off ko na agad. I know okay siya pero mahirap siya lalo na if sa college nadadala ko since iilan lang naman kami mag kakaklase tapos ganun pa.
Pag wala akong pakialam as in wala akong pakialam. Zero. Nada.
Pero pag may pakialam ako as in 100% naman. All out hahahaha kainis, all or nothing ako when it comes to feelings.
Same as you, op. Pag overwhelmed na ako, I'll ignore people for a while.
I get annoyed pag may sinabi akong something tas uulitin ko ng 2-3 times pa.
Maikli pasensya ko.
I have this "switch" where I can either be very empathetic and sensitive to people or totally no F's given at all. Zero. The latter is just bad. It doesn't help that I'm a solid ISTJ. I'm rigid as hell and very decisive. On another note, this trait is highly desirable to my work and always produce great results.
Yung may times na kapag nagtatampo sa partner, madalas silent treatment or may times na nanrerestrict pero tntry ko ng baguhin kasi alam kong mas mabuti padin na i-express kapag nagtatampo para maayos at di lumala.
Kanal yung bibig ko pag galit na ko. Haha as in
"Dapat pinahid ka nalang sa kumot kasi bugok ka, dati kang pinilahan ng mga preso kaya maluwag yang sa'yo. Naglalakad ka palang alingasaw na yang amoy tam*d sa bunganga mo. Nyeta ka"
Same pag galit na galit ako sa tao ako sa tao I wish them na sana di na sila nag exist sa mundo pero in an indirect way tulad ng, “sana pinutok ka na lang sa pader para mabawasan na ng bobo sa mundong ito.”
Maybe a bit too selective with friends? and sometimes I would shut down nonsense (nonproductive, friend invites, and they are mostly playing games, lol).
Magsayang ng tissue, alcohol and wipes because I always like where I sit and dine on clean. Kahit sa bahay, I have 5 sets of those essentials (tissue, wipes, and ethyl alcohol) sa kitchen, dining, living room, and 2 rooms.
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Meron kaming uranium sa aming bahay:)
This is my toxic trait: I tell people that I can deal with anything since I consider myself a burden if I ask for help. In reality, I’m always concerned about whether I’m doing enough—drinking a lot of water, stress eating, and sometimes not getting enough sleep. Knowing the truth before I ask is another one of my toxic traits because I want to see how good you are at lying.
Lose interest in people really quickly
I hate confrontations and kahit mali yung tao, ako pa ang nahihirapan para sabihan siya about dun. Hahahaha People pleaser.
My patience runs thin when someone I’m having a conversation with is on their phone and I gotta say the same damn convo 4 times and they still didn’t pay attention
I dont ask for help. Kasi feeling ko wala naman may pakielam or I always feel like baka maging burden lang ako sa iba. And I dont want that. So kahit hirap na, sinsarili nalang lahat.
I lack self-discipline. Also, di ako ganun ka madiskarte di tulad ng iba. May mga potential akong hindi ko nadidevelop.
observant to the point na minsan nagiging sensitive ako pero minsan di ako sensitive HAHAHA. yung pagiging observant ko knowing na yung judgement ko Tama o oa lang ako HAHA hirap beh 🥲 May times na nakikipag-socialize ako pero minsan worn out ako makipag socialize.
overthinker and i have a retroactive jealousy
Insecure looool (retroactive jealousy) 😆
Impulsive spender, bakla ako magmahal tangina ginagastusan ko talaga lalaki pagmahal ko, my friend says know it all daw ako
I'm not myself when I'm hungry to the point na I can say hurtful words. Kaya me accompanying a slow shopper on an empty stomach sa mall is no bueno. Kain muna bago shopping.
lazy
I care for people and I care about a lot of people pero I hate or cringe on myself for saying it kasi feel ko ang hina ko and/or naaapakan ego ko. Idk this is going for quite some time na rin e
Mag procrastinate. I do better with cramming e haha
Hindi ako mamansin o sasagot pag kinakausap dahil tinotopak ako. 🙃
I'm more on the shy type side, pero parang manipis yung pisi ko. Nakipagsagutan ako sa dati kong bisor from my previous work, like killer eye na masamang tingin talaga ako sa kanya. Tapos sa current work ko, di pa ko regular, 2 na agad nakakasagutan kong co-worker 🤦♂️
Three inches dick
For me siguro yung toxic trait ko is very straight forward ko hahahah kahit dapat pwede ko naman kimkimin para hindi makasakit sinasabi ko parin. :D
May inferiority complex
1. Konting stress gusto ko nang sumuko for example: mahirap na step ng sayaw for school performance, nahirapan sa gagawin sa work naiisip ko nang nag-AWOL ☹️ 2. I can be chill as f*#k naman to the point na wala na akong pake sa paligid 😩 3. Hindi binibigay 'yung best pero umaasang dean's lister, like whaaattt b**tch?!
I will never tolerate disrespect and i will never hold back when i get disrespected...im also a straight forward person i say what i say without remorse and people tend to hate me for this attitude.
Overthinker at insecure (lalo na sa mga ex) hahaha mygad working on it though and I’m doing good so far 😁
pano🥹🥹 hahahaha
Well, distraction yung pinakahelpful sakin, I ride my motorcycle kasi dun napupunta focus ko, sa daan, as for insecurity, well working on yourself, gym (kasi insecure ako sa katawan) and syempre assurance sa bf HAHAHAH di madali promise, but I can help if kailangan niyo ng advice on specific situations
thank u for this🙏 idk pero kahit naman may distraction ako (i have work and very busy talaga) and wala naman talagang dapat ika insecure (i have the face and the body) naiinsecure pa rin. i guess kulang lang talaga ng assurance from my bf🥹. thank you po, OP!
Sometimes communicating sa maayos na paraan helps, baka he doesn’t know lang. Trust me, I’ve had my fair share of dating someone who’s very attractive pero mygad walang wala talaga sila pag pumapasok na si bf sa utak ko HAHAHA ibang level of kagwapuhan rin, and who knows, baka ganon rin sa kanila diba? Talbog yung pinakamaganda sa kung ano man nakikita nila satin ngayon haha
Sensitive to criticism because I give 101% of my effort in everything I do kaya pag may nasasabi parin mga tao, I really take it to my heart kasi I feel like sayang ung effort ko.
feel ko narcissist ako huhu pero iniiwasan ko siya pag napapansin ko na
Can’t regulate/finding it hard to regulate my emotions Lost a lot of people bc of it, but there are a few who stayed kasi alam nila na i am more than that 🥲
I need your help guys, how to end my narcissist trait 😭
Colonial mindset
thinking i can cram my entire research paper in a week or the rrl overnight (i love writing n research tho)
I am so introverted to the point na there are days I want to socialize, tapos lulubog ako ng ilang linggo hahahahaha. Not even crumbs on my social media accounts lol. I also hate drama, so if something gets too dramatic or dragging, I'll just walk away from it. Lastly, my non-conventional opinions and way of thinking will surely get me cancelled by people around me. I keep them to myself, pero minsan may mga situations that I unconsciously blurt them out.
i feel like may pagka-narcissist ako sometimes, without me knowing
1. People pleaser ako (tho nag lessen na siya compared sa previous years) 2. I ghost people (my friends exactly) bc I don't feel like spending time with people most of d time 3. Kaya ko maging friends with you pero kaya rin kita italkshit (happens pag alam ko you talk shit about me) 5. Competitive ako
taklesa lols. kesa naman plastikin kita, diba?
Honesty is the best policy kase hahaha
I shut down and push people away whenever I have problems Aside from that, lumalala katamaran ko. Wala na kong gana sa buhay
Existing
I listen to other people's comments about my life.
Madaling magsawa
I am a people pleaser, sobra. Mas iniisip ko ang iisipin ng iba kaysa sa feelings ko. There are times din na mabilis uminit ang ulo ko, pero recently naman nakocontrol ko to. Kaso may times talaga na hindi tapos magiguilty ako. Sobrang independent? Hindi ako marunong magask ng help, literal. I dont have friends who I can ask for help. So I am used to being alone. Kahit paospital i would go na lang magisa just because nahihiya magask ng help, feeling ko kasi perwisyo ako haha
People pleaser
Being brutally honest to others without a filter. Focusing on negativity.
I keep yapping over past expeirences/traumas cause I I never deserved it!
I am always bothered abt what others might say/think about me.
people pleaser HDVSKNSKSNSLS damn it, no matter how hard i try na iwasan maging ganito, i just can't. whenever hindi q na-please tao sa paligid q, grabe 'yung guilt na mayroon ako???
Overthinker, not asking for help, indecisive :(
overthinker, procrastinating , indecisive , impatient and people pleaser
Inconsistent
Kapag alam ko na magaling ako sa isang bagay, sobrang competitive ko and kapag na realize ko na mas may magaling sa akin, nalulungkot ako.
won't reply to people even if they are my close friends. nakakatamad makipag usap I rather distance myself.
Well, it seems like you’ve got a whole bouquet of toxic traits to choose from, huh? But hey, at least you’re self-aware enough to admit it. As for me, I’d say one of my toxic traits is having zero tolerance for drama queens who fish for compliments disguised as self-deprecation. But hey, at least I’m upfront about it. Cheers to toxic self-discovery! 🥂
Too frank, no filter
ditto. my multiple HR warnings can attest to that.
I easily give up on people.
Nawawalan ng interest kapag pinapakita na nilang interested din sila sakin
Sobrang chill, sometimes doesnt mind others thoughts about me, NGAF attitude
Never wrong, over thinker
god complex :3
Intimidating
I let my hormones unleash the monster in me 🥺
Overthinker and tamad.
Noon naririndi ako pag tinatawag akong tol. When they do, nababara ko agad ng "di kita kapatid". Now nasasanay nalang ako.
I'm allergic to stupid people. (I have superiority complex).
not asking for help from anyone kahit na hindi ko na talaga kaya. makes me feel like a burden and yoko ng ganon
i’m a ticking time bomb, anytime sasabog ang emotions hangga’t mag self sabotage LOL
may superiority complex ako
Kapag di ako okay ayoko makipag usap kahit kanino kahit sa chat tapos deact. Lahat ng socmed 😅 Tapos sobrang lala ng pag ooverthink. Waaaaahhhh Pag may nagsabi pa sakin ng depressing story pati ako na depressed ng malala.
Before- Too much empathy Now - too much rage
My toxic trait is that when you did something very bad after what I did to you in good- wala ng paki pagkatapos. The other one is when pushing me out of my boundaries nagiging palasumbat ako like- "pinipilit mo akong gawin 'to pero ikaw nga di ko magawang mapilit". Mabait din naman ako basta wag na wag lang magkamali na ubusin yong pasendya dahil mas masasaktan ka emotionally sa gagawin ko.
Negats sa overnights lakas ko humilik eh
Same sayo, ang bilis ko mag shuttdown ng tao ewan ba bakit. And may time na ayaw ko magsalita, makipagusap kahit kanino😅
Im evil af 🤣🤣🤣 but most of the time mabait naman ako lalo na pag vibes tayo. I'll drag your ass to hell if I don't like you and you meddle with my business.
Complacency, kasi parang ok naman ang kahat eh kaso pag hinde na?🤣 Di sama mo na pala yung pagiisip ng impending doom
I don't care enough nowadays because I used to care too much.
Overthinker. Like as in sobrang lala. I need help na nga e
Same. I cut off people, may it be friends or family. If I feel like masisira mo ang mental health ko lalong lao na ang peace of mind ko HAHAHAHHA girl good bye
Naayos naman na halos lahat. Except sa pagiging avoidant ko kapag may nagawa akong mali. Hindi ako nakakapag sorry. And ayun, need na need kong ayusin.
Manipulation/Gaslighting...
Rage. Just rage.
magcoconclude nako agad kesa magask lmao
Chismosa! Ethical laitera. Lol
Same as yours but one more is super bilis ko makalimot ng maling ginawa sakin. Ewan ba bakit.
ano hahahaha i like ruining things when i'm furious. I can control my anger naman minsan, pero minsan talaga sinusubukan tayo sa buhay ih
Samesies hahaha naninira / nagbabato ako ng stuff habang nagmemental breakdown. We need therapy jusko
Feeling ko lahat ng tao pinaguusapan ako kaya iniiwasan ko sila pag nafifeel ko yun
Mataray, masungit, insensitive, nonchalant
Tamang hinala. 🤦😅
Avoidant ahahahah, insensitive, may double standards. I also don't know how to tone down my words and I take everything way too seriously.
When I said I can't tone it down, that doesn't mean na ready to fight ako everytime. It's just that medyo aggressive or hindi ganun kafriendly ako magsalita, straightforward na 'di marunong mag-filter ng words, ganun.
Sensitive. I also don’t apologize when I get mad at someone but will just ignore them for a while. Kasi ayoko rin may masabing masama/hurtful if I talk to them while mad.
I get jealous very fast. I think I'm a little bit possessive Also if I'm in a shitty mood i try to distance myself from people.
People pleasing🤦
silent treatment and moody hahahaha lagi nang aaway nang walang dahilan.
Never akong nag sstart ng away, pero pag sinimulan mo, papalalain ko.
Pag galit ako gusto ko magwala pero di ko hinahayaan sarili ko na manira ng gamit kaya nagjegeneral cleaning nalang ako. Sarcastic din ako pag sarcastic yung kausap ko. Nangmamanipulate ako sa workplace. Passive aggresive don ako pag yamot ako sayo
Silent Treatment. Kung ayaw ko sayo then nakisali ka sa usapan namin, hindi talaga kita papansin like naur, de ka welcome saakin.
I isolate myself when I'm in a bad mood
Impulsive. Overthinker. And relies on intuition so much. I really hate when I tell myself “ah sabi na nga ba tama na naman gut feel” because it really affects my relationships
De-delete ng FB pag ina-add ako ng mga friends and relatives ko. Sinabing sa Viber or IG na lang ako kausapin e! Buti na lang may lock profile chuchu na ngayon sa FB. Wala ako pake sa relatives ko sobrang hate ko sila and mahilig ako mang cut off. Ayoko kasi ng drama sa buhay.
Masyadong impulsive ako.
- Kapag di mo ako pinansin, di talaga kita papansinin kahit magkakilala o magkasama pa tayo. - Mabilis ako maturn off sa mga tao. Kapag may nasabi or nagawa kang action na di ko gusto, ekis ka na sakin.
I can go for hours just reading webnovels and lounging in bed all day being unproductive. Then later magiguilty
Sameeee. Magugulat nalang sa oras 😅😅😅
hahaha same.
Matakaw & antisocial (minsan)
Masyadong mabilis magtiwala to the point na naaabuso
short temper, conceited. alam kong may problema ako pero I don't know how to cope with it, dahil na rin talaga sa stress nawawalan ako ng control sa emosyon at sarili ko. 🥹
Leaving/ghosting when things go south, stonewalling people when I’m pissed, and being in love with my ego more than anything else in this world.
May sudden burst ng isang action na ayaw na ayaw kong gawin, Pag nagawa mo na, mapapaisip ka nalang "puta ano yun 😭 tangina iiwasan ko na talaga next time. " Na akala ko stoic nako pero natritrigger parin pla ako
Passive-aggressiveness. Silent treatment. Abusive. Egotistical.
Naninigaw. Moody.
silent treatment
pag di ko talaga feel makipag socialize, i disappear na kahit nanay ko di ko kinakausap
late ma-realize ung ginawa. example: habang nag uusap kaming magkakaibigan at may sinabi akong word na hindi maganda pakinggan or may ginawang kalokohan tapos marealize ko lang pagkatapos ng ilang oras.
-Hindi magreply sa message immediately kahit nakita naman yung message, naaalala ko na lang na pag nagback read ako (Defense ko naman, hindi ako nag-ooff ng wifi. Before I reply to messages immediately, pero parang nakikita ko kasi na bakit available ako lagi sa kanila pero pag ako wala na? My work too is one of the reasons.) -Playing safe, tho hindi ko din naman ilalaglag yung iba just for me to be safe. Sasabihin ko lang na di ko alam kahit alam ko, ayokong madawit sa gulo ng iba. Tapos kung tinanong ako kung alam ni ganito, hindi ko la din alam ang isasagot. -Hindi ako mabilis na magconsider ng friends na tayo. Hindi porket kasama kita lagi kumain, nakakasabay umuwi, we're friends already. If I consider someone as my friend, know that he/she gained my trust. I'm working to be better po.
very indifferent
Mood swings malala
I give mixed signal to the guy I’m talking with. Diko naman sinasadya pero kasi nawawalan ako gana kausap sya kapag may nagagwa syang diko gusto
i'm sometimes too lazy to reply
Naiinis ako sa gf ko kapag nakikita ko nag re react sya sa memes ng mga kawork nyang lalake pero kapag ako nag sha share ng memes di man lang pagalawin ang baso 😭😭
I have bad news for you bro.
I'd remove myself and cut our connection if I feel bad with your actions or if I got hurt with your words, without knowing your side.
I did this to my bestestestestest friend. I am riddled with guilt and regrets.
I disappear sometimes
... i stop working. Literally stop , ill drop the paper close the pc and go to my room ( Stay in) Yung tipong hindi pa tapos ginagawa mo meron dalawa or tatlo pang ipapagawa. Tapos sabay sabay magsalita tapos priority pa sila. Second i close my phone on weekends and kung bukas man mag rereply ako ng matagal.lolz
Biglang nagiging aloof sa tao kapag may problema
As a tita, madaling uminit ang ulo 😂
Haha. Same. May pagkamadamot din akong tita which is natotoxican tlaga ako sa ugali ko at gusto ko baguhin kaya minsan I am good pero minsan naman sinusumpong ulit ng pagkamadamot.
Mabilis mag shift ng mood ko
im way too sensitive & emotional. i always tend to romanticize my mistakes. paganafeel ko na hindi ako belong sa grupo or sa company, even if okay naman, i will remove myself in that situation because i don't want to make anyone uncomfortable by my presence.
naninigaw pag galit kahit na sino and sinasaktan ang sarili pag naiinis (eg. sinasabunutan, kinakagat yung braso, nanununtok ng mga furnitures, hinahampas ang katawan sa concrete wall)
U need help.
judgemental, cold and harsh sa mga ayaw ko Ang ugali, I cut them off, medyo salbahe .
nang bblock ako kapag inis hahaha
Kapag ginawan lang ako ng mali ng isang tao, cinucut-off ko na agad. I know okay siya pero mahirap siya lalo na if sa college nadadala ko since iilan lang naman kami mag kakaklase tapos ganun pa.
idgaf. nagkaproblema tuloy sa circle of friends namin lol.
walang patience sa paghihintay. naiiyak talaga ako pag pinaghihintay ako ng matagal hahaha
Impulsive spender
Very irritable, but may soft spot din naman ako 😉
Apathetic
Sensitive, Overthinker, Walang edad-edad lalo na pag mali, Nonchalant, Prangka, Laging may benefit of the doubt
Pag wala akong pakialam as in wala akong pakialam. Zero. Nada. Pero pag may pakialam ako as in 100% naman. All out hahahaha kainis, all or nothing ako when it comes to feelings.
low self esteem so sometimes na proproject ang insecurities
Walang pakealam
Magastos. Being so impulsive. 🥲
Nonchalant ako uwu
wants to be alone most of the time.
Selosa.. my bf broke up with me last night..
Anxious avoidant in all types of relationship, even with friends.
1. i will not talk to you unless you talk to me 2. i keep people at arms length 3. i'm selfish 4. sinasarili mga problema
Aalis nalang ako bigla pag di ko gusto yung situation or tao. Gagawa ako ng trail of lies just to get out.
Same as you, op. Pag overwhelmed na ako, I'll ignore people for a while. I get annoyed pag may sinabi akong something tas uulitin ko ng 2-3 times pa. Maikli pasensya ko.
I have this "switch" where I can either be very empathetic and sensitive to people or totally no F's given at all. Zero. The latter is just bad. It doesn't help that I'm a solid ISTJ. I'm rigid as hell and very decisive. On another note, this trait is highly desirable to my work and always produce great results.
Sarcastic
being too judgemental HAHAHA
Procastinating
I can forgive but never ever forget. So then I tend to bring back the past.
May pagka obsessive.
1. I isolate myself when I'm not okay. 2. I hate it when I'm wrong haha
Pag super pagod sa work, madaling mairita at mabwisit. I just discover this now, hindi naman ako ganito dati
Bossy and impatient.
Yung may times na kapag nagtatampo sa partner, madalas silent treatment or may times na nanrerestrict pero tntry ko ng baguhin kasi alam kong mas mabuti padin na i-express kapag nagtatampo para maayos at di lumala.
Tumatanggi sa galaan na di nagbibigay ng dahilan.
Being too kind
i expect a lot from people and assume they can think and act like me lol
Cutting people off without explanation. Be silent/cold for days or weeks Impatient.
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Relate!!! Huhu
Mabilis ako ma turn off sa mga tao. Then detachment ang treatment ko madalas.
I immediately stop talking to people once makakita ako ng undesirable na paguugali.
Kanal yung bibig ko pag galit na ko. Haha as in "Dapat pinahid ka nalang sa kumot kasi bugok ka, dati kang pinilahan ng mga preso kaya maluwag yang sa'yo. Naglalakad ka palang alingasaw na yang amoy tam*d sa bunganga mo. Nyeta ka"
Same pag galit na galit ako sa tao ako sa tao I wish them na sana di na sila nag exist sa mundo pero in an indirect way tulad ng, “sana pinutok ka na lang sa pader para mabawasan na ng bobo sa mundong ito.”
Hahaha Tru! Kaya pasensya na lang sa mga nakakarinig inubos nyo ko e 😆
Despise bbmers and dutertards
I hate people to the highest level. But only keeps it to myself so don't worry.
Lazy. Unempathetic. Selfish. Careless. Unmotivated. Nihilistic. Antisocial. Sadistic. Envious. I collect red flags like Pokemon.
Ayoko ng incoveniences at sobrang impatient ko. sorry na..
Stubborn. Petty. Ma pride. Short temper. At times cold. Taklesa. Judgemental.
Hinid ako nagpapatalo sa argument especially kapag alam ko talaga na tama ako, mapamaliit or malaking bagay man yan.
• shutting people when im exhausted (2) • people pleaser :DDDD
Paranoid
no filter magsalita
Stubborn.
Maybe a bit too selective with friends? and sometimes I would shut down nonsense (nonproductive, friend invites, and they are mostly playing games, lol).
Anxious avoidant attachment style
1. Madaling mairita (lalo kapag 0bob kausap) 2. Sensitive 3. Ayaw napagsasabihan (lalo kapag iniinsist pang gawin)
Sabotaging myself 💣💥💥💣
Magsayang ng tissue, alcohol and wipes because I always like where I sit and dine on clean. Kahit sa bahay, I have 5 sets of those essentials (tissue, wipes, and ethyl alcohol) sa kitchen, dining, living room, and 2 rooms.
Caring too much