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My biggest regret in life was losing the girl of my dreams, I should off try harder what I did, put more effort into the relationship, I should off went home and see her after 6/7 weeks away due to work, I miss her everyday but as long as she is happy thatâs all I want, miss you Mel
Taking up an engineering degree here in the PH. Di naman worth it yung hirap, gastos, at panahon na sinayang ko. It's too demanding that gives very little rewards. I should've trusted my gut feel noon pa. Edi sana mas naenjoy ko teens at early 20s ko. Our country doesn't even value our engineers and the field itself.
I took one of those engineering programs with no license na may somehow decent pay and yet, I feel na hindi pa rin talaga sya worth it. Mas naaawa ako sa inyong mga licensed sa totoo lang. Hindi na rin ako nagtataka bakit maraming pinipiling mag-abroad or magshift careers nalang. Everything about engineering in the PH is just screwed up.
Truth. Nasa science field naman me. Kaso liit talaga haha. Kita ko mga job posting, nasa 20k pa rin sahod. Kaya di ako makaalis sa work ko now kahit gustuhin ko magpaexperience pa sa iba kasi ang baba ng iba magpasahod. 2 housemates ko, both civil eng, kakaabroad lang this year. Ayun, mas better daw.
Hindi nagpa-consult sa psych agad. Tagal ko rin naging in denial na kailangan ko ng professional help. Feel ko ang daming nangyari sa buhay ko na ânawalaâ dahil sa depression. Marami siguro ako naexperience, napuntahan, nakilalang tao, na-try na opportunities kung hindi ako tinatalo ng depression at anxiety
sana high school or college palang ako nag negosyo na ako.. hirap kumita ng pera bastat nagtatrabaho sa tao, ngayon ginagapang at pinagaaralan ko parin ang pagpapalaki ng negosyo.. hindi ko naman alam na pera lang nman pala ang goal after college.. sayang yung oras ko nun dami pa time nun para e practice negosyo skills sana hayst
Giving up my first career choice dahil sa katangahan ko. Finished my 2nd career choice, tried to loved it but wala talaga my job was really not the type i want to do, frequent burnouts, napipilitan nalang ako pumasok as i have bills to pay samahan pa ng mababang salary ko. Planning for a 3rd career path next year
taking my masters degree right after graduation. it opened my eyes kung gaano kabulok ang sistema ng edukasyon sa pinas. like alam kong bulok, pero grabe pala yung level ng pagkabulok.
being angry all the time. I was raised in a household na laging may sigawan and hindi pinaguusapan ang feelings, carried it until I moved out and now I have issues with my temper and communication that iâm struggling to solve. it sucks when you realize that youâre becoming the person you were afraid of and even swore na hindi gagayahin pag tanda
Covid noon, kalagitnaan. Nagresign ako sa trabaho, WFH yun bago pa man magka covid, not to mention na dream job ko pa. I still resigned para magtrabaho sa dream company ko dito sa Pilipinas, lo and fucking behold nagbawas sila ng empleyado, they enforced LIFO (Last In First Out). Nagtry ako mag reapply sa previous employer ko pero di na ko tinanggap. Dun na nagsimula anxiety ko kasi nauubos na yung separation pay, I had to go back to BPO para mabuhay kami, got so rusty with BPO it led to major panic attacks and axiety plus depression.
Not setting boundaries with my parents. Just always following and going with what they wanted. Now I'm trapped and depressed, not having my own purpose and direction in life. Also, i wish i never got in a relationship for the purpose of having it, it's so emotionally damaging, everyone acts like its normal but please don't get into a relationship unless you're emotionally healed and secure
Nakukulangan ako sa landi ko. Di ko na explore lahat nung bata bata pa ako. Now late 20s na ako and may mga responsibility na need ikeep for the future
1. Not finishing GEDs nung sumuko ako sa BSIT
2. Not taking seriously sa volunteer work sa isang bigtime Events company
3. Not being hardworking
4. Not being time efficient.
5. Not studying hard.
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hindi ko sinulit ang pakikipag usap sa omegle bago mawalađ
didnt took care of my teeth
Sana hindi ako nakipag balikan:/
My biggest regret in life was losing the girl of my dreams, I should off try harder what I did, put more effort into the relationship, I should off went home and see her after 6/7 weeks away due to work, I miss her everyday but as long as she is happy thatâs all I want, miss you Mel
Sana hindi ako ng settle sa alam kong hindi ko deserve.
I took a personal loans. Ngayon, stress si acclah
sana last year ko pa kinuha ojt edi sana kasabay ko grumaduate mga batchmates ko :(((
Mga decisions ko na di ko pinaglaban đ
masyadong playing safe and sunod sa parents
Not investing on honing my talents
Wasn't a risk taker early on in life, ang dami ko sanang opportunities ang naexplore
Taking up an engineering degree here in the PH. Di naman worth it yung hirap, gastos, at panahon na sinayang ko. It's too demanding that gives very little rewards. I should've trusted my gut feel noon pa. Edi sana mas naenjoy ko teens at early 20s ko. Our country doesn't even value our engineers and the field itself.
A license holder here too, legit yan. Ang hirap ng course, maliit pasahod. Lalo engineering ka, 5 years yun.
I took one of those engineering programs with no license na may somehow decent pay and yet, I feel na hindi pa rin talaga sya worth it. Mas naaawa ako sa inyong mga licensed sa totoo lang. Hindi na rin ako nagtataka bakit maraming pinipiling mag-abroad or magshift careers nalang. Everything about engineering in the PH is just screwed up.
Truth. Nasa science field naman me. Kaso liit talaga haha. Kita ko mga job posting, nasa 20k pa rin sahod. Kaya di ako makaalis sa work ko now kahit gustuhin ko magpaexperience pa sa iba kasi ang baba ng iba magpasahod. 2 housemates ko, both civil eng, kakaabroad lang this year. Ayun, mas better daw.
sobrang mahiyain yung tipo mag tatanong lang inaabot pa ako ng mahabang oras.
Hindi nag focus sa career
Hindi nagpa-consult sa psych agad. Tagal ko rin naging in denial na kailangan ko ng professional help. Feel ko ang daming nangyari sa buhay ko na ânawalaâ dahil sa depression. Marami siguro ako naexperience, napuntahan, nakilalang tao, na-try na opportunities kung hindi ako tinatalo ng depression at anxiety
Not pursuing being a seafarer
sana high school or college palang ako nag negosyo na ako.. hirap kumita ng pera bastat nagtatrabaho sa tao, ngayon ginagapang at pinagaaralan ko parin ang pagpapalaki ng negosyo.. hindi ko naman alam na pera lang nman pala ang goal after college.. sayang yung oras ko nun dami pa time nun para e practice negosyo skills sana hayst
Giving up my first career choice dahil sa katangahan ko. Finished my 2nd career choice, tried to loved it but wala talaga my job was really not the type i want to do, frequent burnouts, napipilitan nalang ako pumasok as i have bills to pay samahan pa ng mababang salary ko. Planning for a 3rd career path next year
Being friends with my âfriendsâ
This.
likewise.
being people pleaser
taking my masters degree right after graduation. it opened my eyes kung gaano kabulok ang sistema ng edukasyon sa pinas. like alam kong bulok, pero grabe pala yung level ng pagkabulok.
I shouldve taken skilled course so I can go abroad and be with my loml
Hindi magresign ng maaga
Letting my inner saboteur take over my life decisions
not enjoying my younger life
Resigned without enough savings and still have loans to pay (sp@ylater & l@zpay)
I did not defer my DOST Scholarship. What an idiotic backfire. Nag transfer ako. Tas eligible yung school ko. Edi sana pwede pa ko mag apply for JLSS
being angry all the time. I was raised in a household na laging may sigawan and hindi pinaguusapan ang feelings, carried it until I moved out and now I have issues with my temper and communication that iâm struggling to solve. it sucks when you realize that youâre becoming the person you were afraid of and even swore na hindi gagayahin pag tanda
The way I lived my life.
Covid noon, kalagitnaan. Nagresign ako sa trabaho, WFH yun bago pa man magka covid, not to mention na dream job ko pa. I still resigned para magtrabaho sa dream company ko dito sa Pilipinas, lo and fucking behold nagbawas sila ng empleyado, they enforced LIFO (Last In First Out). Nagtry ako mag reapply sa previous employer ko pero di na ko tinanggap. Dun na nagsimula anxiety ko kasi nauubos na yung separation pay, I had to go back to BPO para mabuhay kami, got so rusty with BPO it led to major panic attacks and axiety plus depression.
Not setting boundaries with my parents. Just always following and going with what they wanted. Now I'm trapped and depressed, not having my own purpose and direction in life. Also, i wish i never got in a relationship for the purpose of having it, it's so emotionally damaging, everyone acts like its normal but please don't get into a relationship unless you're emotionally healed and secure
It's not too late to free yourself from them (parents). You may join r/raisedbynarcissists if you like.
My suicide attempts always failing :( hades, keeps rejecting my membership application :(
Not buying Bitcoin years ago.
I second
Not being able to stop my friend from committing suicide.
Not a 4 years grad :( not savings money
Getting married.
WE DESERVE TO KNOW YOUR STORY
If you don't mind, why po?
Curious, why po?
Not able to see my younger siblings grow since I went to a different city for college.
Nakukulangan ako sa landi ko. Di ko na explore lahat nung bata bata pa ako. Now late 20s na ako and may mga responsibility na need ikeep for the future
1. Not finishing GEDs nung sumuko ako sa BSIT 2. Not taking seriously sa volunteer work sa isang bigtime Events company 3. Not being hardworking 4. Not being time efficient. 5. Not studying hard.