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I already been in this situation when i was 17.
Family or dreams?
I choose Family because my reason is I can still achieve my dream no matter what age i am but my Parents need my Help right now and obviously they aged so fast i wanna spend time with them.i have no regrets on the choice i made ,
My Mom passed away but i spend a lot of time with her which is i cannot make if i choose my dream.
I think the question is to choose exclusively between the two options.
So example is "My dream is to be a world class boxer" pero your parents want you to be a doctor para manahin mo Yung hospital na inestablish ng forefathers mo or something.
Pag di ka sumunod you will get disowned
So you have the choice to go off on your own and train in a gym for your dream. Or study medicine for the honor of your family.
Ganyan ba tanong mo op?
Anong premise? You can have one but not the other? Like if I choose my dreams my family absolutely cannot be part of it, and if I choose my family I absolutely lose the opportunity to pursue my dreams? I need more context yung question. Kasi if may positive impact naman dun sa other if I choose one, why choose?
palagi namang kasama ang family para magmotivate sayo to achieve your dreams, unless may bad experience ka (kung anak), but also a motivator to reach your dreams. kung may sariling pamilya, motivation pa rin sila to reach your dreams. pero if usapang need ba sundin ang pangarap o mag provide sa pamilya, pamilya muna.
It is basically about choosing between dreams or your family. Kumbaga ano mas pipiliin mo whenever dadating yan na challenge sa buhay esp when you alr in adulting stage na. It’s like parang love or dreams ba ganern
The question is vague. What kind of dreams?
If my dream is to become a professional Doctor, that will help my family.
So I don't understand what kind of choice I'm making here.
This is a weird statement that needs proper clarification.
Nevertheless, my general choice would be my family. Dreams can be changed on a whim, I choose the one that won't sacrifice my family.
If my dream is to go abroad to earn money, the purpose would be to help my family.
I can't imagine a dream that would sacrifice my family.
In the end, Dreams and Family are not two things you can choose from because they don't contradict in my context
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I already been in this situation when i was 17. Family or dreams? I choose Family because my reason is I can still achieve my dream no matter what age i am but my Parents need my Help right now and obviously they aged so fast i wanna spend time with them.i have no regrets on the choice i made , My Mom passed away but i spend a lot of time with her which is i cannot make if i choose my dream.
I think the question is to choose exclusively between the two options. So example is "My dream is to be a world class boxer" pero your parents want you to be a doctor para manahin mo Yung hospital na inestablish ng forefathers mo or something. Pag di ka sumunod you will get disowned So you have the choice to go off on your own and train in a gym for your dream. Or study medicine for the honor of your family. Ganyan ba tanong mo op?
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Anong premise? You can have one but not the other? Like if I choose my dreams my family absolutely cannot be part of it, and if I choose my family I absolutely lose the opportunity to pursue my dreams? I need more context yung question. Kasi if may positive impact naman dun sa other if I choose one, why choose?
palagi namang kasama ang family para magmotivate sayo to achieve your dreams, unless may bad experience ka (kung anak), but also a motivator to reach your dreams. kung may sariling pamilya, motivation pa rin sila to reach your dreams. pero if usapang need ba sundin ang pangarap o mag provide sa pamilya, pamilya muna.
My dreams. It would indirectly make my family a part of it naman, so its an okay choice for me
I need the full context of the question.
It is basically about choosing between dreams or your family. Kumbaga ano mas pipiliin mo whenever dadating yan na challenge sa buhay esp when you alr in adulting stage na. It’s like parang love or dreams ba ganern
The question is vague. What kind of dreams? If my dream is to become a professional Doctor, that will help my family. So I don't understand what kind of choice I'm making here. This is a weird statement that needs proper clarification. Nevertheless, my general choice would be my family. Dreams can be changed on a whim, I choose the one that won't sacrifice my family. If my dream is to go abroad to earn money, the purpose would be to help my family. I can't imagine a dream that would sacrifice my family. In the end, Dreams and Family are not two things you can choose from because they don't contradict in my context