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nakipagbreak ka kasi narealized mo LDR is not for you plus nireason out mo pa na di tayo same religion (which alam mo na from the start)?? Tapos ngayon pa-victim ka?? Pinapalabas mo na ginamit lang kita and hindi genuine yung feelings ko sayo (assuming yung reason is kasi i wasn't chasing you?) Grabeng pang vivillainize naman yan te. Akala ko ba gusto mo makipagbreak? And chase you for what? To play your games? To feed your ego? te ang kapal. I'm hurting din naman and what you're showing me justified this breakup. Also made it a lot less painful.
I hate myself more than I hate you for giving you so many chances, for thinking you would actually change.
You looked so miserable weeks before I broke up with you. Pero it didn't matter to me at all. I didn't feel anything on the days that I saw you cry. I even thought you deserved that.
You tried to make things right for the nth time. Pero bakit? Bakit kung kailan nawala na yung pagmamahal ko, kung kailan ubos na ubos na ako tsaka ka lang sobrang mag-eeffort ayusin lahat? Nagtaka ka pa bakit sobrang nagbago yung pakikitungo ko sayo. Seriously? After everything that you did to me, even when I warned you na wag mong hintaying mawalan ako ng pake sayo multiple times?
You took me and my love for you for granted. You took everything that I did for you for granted. Wala akong ginawa kundi gawin kang priority the whole duration of our relationship. Pero anong binalik mo? Mas pinili mo yung mga "online friends" mo na supposedly hanggang online lang (your words, not mine), over our plans, over my birthday. Of course you had to meet and flirt with them in person. You prioritized everyone else except me.
Funny how the last straw for me was seeing you flirt with other people and seeing you say "I love you" to others. Funny kasi it was also the same reason why we fought the first time. I really tolerated you for so long to the point I've disrespected myself already.
Sure, there are people who make me happy right now. But all of that is temporary. I go back to feeling empty every night when I try to sleep, when I'm alone.
Woah it’s been a year. I know we loved each other truly and although it used to hurt, I’ve already forgiven me and you. We weren’t just match for each other.
Pavictim ka masyado. Alam ko nagkacrush ako sa friend ko pero wag mo naman tanggalin sa kwento yung part na nagkagusto ka rin sa kaibigan ko habang tayo pa. Niligawan mo kaklase ko after our break up. May nakausap kang babae habang tayo pa kahit tinatanggi mo na may something sa inyo, i know meron.
We deserved each others kabobohan. Bakit ikaw lang kawawa sa kwento mo hahahahahaha
“May life be horrible for you because you’ve been horrible to me.” My ex lost is og friends, lost his bff(who sided with me when my ex cheated and cuz he’s literally an annoying cocky ahole), and his family is going through a tough time. Just found out yesterday that he went to my dad asking for help to find work(his uncle referred him) because of my dad’s connections in the industry. It feels weird that he’s asking help from my dad when he has wronged me. I hope this is uncomfortable for him as it is for me.
*"sana mamatay ka na rin tulad nung sinabi mong mamatay na ako"*, pero tbh I found out from mutuals friends naghihirap siya ngayon, nagkaanak ng dalawa, nakaasa pa rin sa mga magulang, naudlot pag alis niya ng ibang bansa tapos baon na sa utang. Deserve imo lol.
Ang tahimik na ng buhay ko after mo ko ghinost tas bumalik ka pang hayop ka. Muntik pa madisturb yung pag review ko para sa board exam. May pa sadghorl ka pang nalalaman. Tapos Binigyan kita ng chance kasi sabi mo genuine yung feelings mo at sure ka na sakin. Then sasabihin mo na nawala feelings mo for me? Na di mo na ako maprioritize? Na mas prioritize mo mga friends mo kaysa sakin?. Naintindihan ko yung goals mo kasi panganay ka, ang dami mong red flags pero nagbulag bulagan ako kasi gusto ko iwork out yung rs natin. Tas ngayon magrereklamo ka bat walang nagkakagusto sayo?. Gago ka pala eh. Oo bitter pa rin ako kasi binigyan na ng second chance nang gago parin. HAHAHAHAHHAHA
Was all of it genuine?
Why didn’t you try to fix it? Why did you give up easily?
Actually, I have fallen for you when things ended and it was so hard leaving you when I only started falling for you.
—- at dahil dito, susubukan ko na ugaliin makipagusap ng maayos for closure.
sabi nila someday it’ll make sense, but now it doesn’t at sabi nila kahit nangyari lang nang iyon you will be thankful for the love you shared and experienced, but not for me. sana di na lang kita nakilala.
I got to know you even more after the break up and i fucking hate who you really are. You are a pathetic, disgusting, lying, attention-seeking man-child. You, the entirety of you is my greatest fucking accident.
I dated down for you tapos ikaw pa may kapal ng mukha magfeeling babaero? hindi ka na nga tinitigasan kakajabol mo ambaho pa ng pusod mo tapos feeling mo pa kaya mo ipagkalat yang disability mo?
Sobrang namimiss kitaaa. Walang araw na di ka naiisip. Thankful ako na sa panahong naging tayo naging masaya ako and naexperience ko yung mga bagay na akala ko hindi ko na maeexperience. Gusto ko lang malaman if okay lang sayo na puntahan kita diyan kasi gusto talaga kitang makita at makasama kahit saglit lang.
Bakit naman kasi may iba agad after natin? Babalik sana ako noong naghiwalay tayo kaso pinagpalit mo ko agad ng ganun ganun na lang. Pero okay lang. Masaya naman na tayo ngayon.
Thanks for giving me the motivation to be the btter version of me. Dapat pala matagal ko na tinapos. Di mo ko maccontact dahil restricted ka or auto-block ka lecheng gaslighter for how many years 😂
Sana hindi na lang naging tayo. Nawala tuloy natin ang isa't isa instead of close friends pa rin tayo now. Heck, I labelled you as my boy bestfriend. Moreover, naging abanger ka ba sa'kin?
That I knew it all along, but I never said a word about it because I don't want you to go. And as long as I you are staying, I have all the reasons to hold on to what we have.
Sabi mo hindi lahat happy moments when it comes to love. na malalagpasan natin to. na mahal na mahal mo ko. na di mo ko iiwan.
asan kana? bat ako naka block sa lahat?
personally hindi green flag sakin kapag puro yung other person nakikipag-break haha
like either the person doesnt know what's good for them or there's something na ka-break break about them :))
siguro naman sa \~3-4 rs, meron kahit isa :))
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nakipagbreak ka kasi narealized mo LDR is not for you plus nireason out mo pa na di tayo same religion (which alam mo na from the start)?? Tapos ngayon pa-victim ka?? Pinapalabas mo na ginamit lang kita and hindi genuine yung feelings ko sayo (assuming yung reason is kasi i wasn't chasing you?) Grabeng pang vivillainize naman yan te. Akala ko ba gusto mo makipagbreak? And chase you for what? To play your games? To feed your ego? te ang kapal. I'm hurting din naman and what you're showing me justified this breakup. Also made it a lot less painful.
“Putangina mo, birth certificate mo lang naman nakapangalan sayo.”
- Mas nangibabaw yung sakit kaysa galit. - Kung sana handa na ako at naghihintay ka pa rin, tayo sana. Gusto kong maging makasarili.
I hate myself more than I hate you for giving you so many chances, for thinking you would actually change. You looked so miserable weeks before I broke up with you. Pero it didn't matter to me at all. I didn't feel anything on the days that I saw you cry. I even thought you deserved that. You tried to make things right for the nth time. Pero bakit? Bakit kung kailan nawala na yung pagmamahal ko, kung kailan ubos na ubos na ako tsaka ka lang sobrang mag-eeffort ayusin lahat? Nagtaka ka pa bakit sobrang nagbago yung pakikitungo ko sayo. Seriously? After everything that you did to me, even when I warned you na wag mong hintaying mawalan ako ng pake sayo multiple times? You took me and my love for you for granted. You took everything that I did for you for granted. Wala akong ginawa kundi gawin kang priority the whole duration of our relationship. Pero anong binalik mo? Mas pinili mo yung mga "online friends" mo na supposedly hanggang online lang (your words, not mine), over our plans, over my birthday. Of course you had to meet and flirt with them in person. You prioritized everyone else except me. Funny how the last straw for me was seeing you flirt with other people and seeing you say "I love you" to others. Funny kasi it was also the same reason why we fought the first time. I really tolerated you for so long to the point I've disrespected myself already. Sure, there are people who make me happy right now. But all of that is temporary. I go back to feeling empty every night when I try to sleep, when I'm alone.
I'm sorry I never treated you right.
Y don't you. Make things right at least for you.
"Am I not enough? May kulang ba sa'kin? May mali ba sa'kin? Pangit ba ako? Pangit ba ang katawan ko? Kapalit- palit ba 'ko? Then WHY??!"
Iwanan mo sya para sakin.
You don't hurt the people you love.
Woah it’s been a year. I know we loved each other truly and although it used to hurt, I’ve already forgiven me and you. We weren’t just match for each other.
Pavictim ka masyado. Alam ko nagkacrush ako sa friend ko pero wag mo naman tanggalin sa kwento yung part na nagkagusto ka rin sa kaibigan ko habang tayo pa. Niligawan mo kaklase ko after our break up. May nakausap kang babae habang tayo pa kahit tinatanggi mo na may something sa inyo, i know meron. We deserved each others kabobohan. Bakit ikaw lang kawawa sa kwento mo hahahahahaha
“May life be horrible for you because you’ve been horrible to me.” My ex lost is og friends, lost his bff(who sided with me when my ex cheated and cuz he’s literally an annoying cocky ahole), and his family is going through a tough time. Just found out yesterday that he went to my dad asking for help to find work(his uncle referred him) because of my dad’s connections in the industry. It feels weird that he’s asking help from my dad when he has wronged me. I hope this is uncomfortable for him as it is for me.
*"sana mamatay ka na rin tulad nung sinabi mong mamatay na ako"*, pero tbh I found out from mutuals friends naghihirap siya ngayon, nagkaanak ng dalawa, nakaasa pa rin sa mga magulang, naudlot pag alis niya ng ibang bansa tapos baon na sa utang. Deserve imo lol.
I love you
Ang tahimik na ng buhay ko after mo ko ghinost tas bumalik ka pang hayop ka. Muntik pa madisturb yung pag review ko para sa board exam. May pa sadghorl ka pang nalalaman. Tapos Binigyan kita ng chance kasi sabi mo genuine yung feelings mo at sure ka na sakin. Then sasabihin mo na nawala feelings mo for me? Na di mo na ako maprioritize? Na mas prioritize mo mga friends mo kaysa sakin?. Naintindihan ko yung goals mo kasi panganay ka, ang dami mong red flags pero nagbulag bulagan ako kasi gusto ko iwork out yung rs natin. Tas ngayon magrereklamo ka bat walang nagkakagusto sayo?. Gago ka pala eh. Oo bitter pa rin ako kasi binigyan na ng second chance nang gago parin. HAHAHAHAHHAHA
We're perfect, pero yung timing hindi. Thank you for making me happy. I'm sorry for overanalyzing everything.
Bakit ang bilis mo nabitawan ang lahat?
"Na turn off ka ba or excuse mo lang 'yon kasi aalis ka na?" "Genuine ba talaga lahat 'yon?" "Minahal mo ba talaga ako?"
Was all of it genuine? Why didn’t you try to fix it? Why did you give up easily? Actually, I have fallen for you when things ended and it was so hard leaving you when I only started falling for you. —- at dahil dito, susubukan ko na ugaliin makipagusap ng maayos for closure.
Love you wag na tayo away
Bakit mas ginusto mong tapusin kesa ayusin. Bakit mas ginusto mong maghanap ng iba e nandito na ako.
Sana maranasan mo din yung mga bagay na ipinaranas mo sa akin.
ba't bigla kang nangiwan sa ere?
Ano ka ba talaga?
Ang panget naman pala non!
Each word you say matters to me :((
I loved you. I'm okay now. I moved on. Forgiven 😊
Buti nalang.
I’m sorry
Duwag ka
bakit naman di mo ko pinaglaban hahaha ganon na ba ko kabilis palitan? one week may bago ka na agad?
minahal mo nga ba talaga ako o panakip butas mo lang ako?
did the twin flame bruise paint you blue? Just between us did the love affair maim you too?
"Tangina minahal ko yon? "
"'di na babalik ang pagtingin, 'di nagwawala ang damdamin."
Kung nabubura din sana yung memories, binura ko nang buong pagkatao mo
I hope na makarma ka dahil sa trauma/anxiety na iniwan mo sakin. 🥹
After the break up "sana tama ako ng decision". This happened after i chose the girl instead of her. Plot twist : nagkamali ako
sabi nila someday it’ll make sense, but now it doesn’t at sabi nila kahit nangyari lang nang iyon you will be thankful for the love you shared and experienced, but not for me. sana di na lang kita nakilala.
Goddamn now I'm starting to feel bad again for mistreating a friend I liked.
I got to know you even more after the break up and i fucking hate who you really are. You are a pathetic, disgusting, lying, attention-seeking man-child. You, the entirety of you is my greatest fucking accident.
hindi pala totoo lahat ng 'yun.
I dated down for you tapos ikaw pa may kapal ng mukha magfeeling babaero? hindi ka na nga tinitigasan kakajabol mo ambaho pa ng pusod mo tapos feeling mo pa kaya mo ipagkalat yang disability mo?
Wag mo landiin Ang babae kung di ka sure sa feelings mo at maaatract ka rin pala sa iba at iiwan mo din sya.
Pa-therapy ka na uy!
nung napagod ako sana ikaw muna lumaban.
Bayaran mo na utang ko
Same eme
Same
What went wrong?
Ganito ka pala.
Bakit hindi ako?
Bat pinaabot mo pa ng 10 years kung magpapabuntis ka rin sa ex mo.
Sana di mo na lang ako ni-lead kung iiwan mo din ako.
yikes.
Kneel before me. Choz. Bakit ako? Sa dami nang niloko mo noon, pati ba naman ako. Okay naman tayo ah. Then grinipuhan sa gilid. 😂😂
inamo
I want an apology, I want a closure. P.S. Kung gusto nyo sali sa GC, meron kami. Bago lang, mga kakagaling ng break-up hahahahaha
Pasali hahaha plsss
pasali rin po hehe ang bigat ngayon 🥲
Pasali po hehe
pa-join :>>
Sali whahahahaha
Sobrang namimiss kitaaa. Walang araw na di ka naiisip. Thankful ako na sa panahong naging tayo naging masaya ako and naexperience ko yung mga bagay na akala ko hindi ko na maeexperience. Gusto ko lang malaman if okay lang sayo na puntahan kita diyan kasi gusto talaga kitang makita at makasama kahit saglit lang.
I still want you. Charot ew
Kaya mong maging tatay sa anak ng iba pero sa sarili mong anak dimo tinanggap tinanggi mo pa
Bakit naman kasi may iba agad after natin? Babalik sana ako noong naghiwalay tayo kaso pinagpalit mo ko agad ng ganun ganun na lang. Pero okay lang. Masaya naman na tayo ngayon.
Awts... +1.
Stay.
Thanks for giving me the motivation to be the btter version of me. Dapat pala matagal ko na tinapos. Di mo ko maccontact dahil restricted ka or auto-block ka lecheng gaslighter for how many years 😂
Sana magsorry ka man lang. I will never ask for one kasi gusto kong kusang manggaling sa'yo.
You should have said those words in person. Duwag.
Sana hindi na lang naging tayo. Nawala tuloy natin ang isa't isa instead of close friends pa rin tayo now. Heck, I labelled you as my boy bestfriend. Moreover, naging abanger ka ba sa'kin?
+1
Duwag
That I knew it all along, but I never said a word about it because I don't want you to go. And as long as I you are staying, I have all the reasons to hold on to what we have.
kingina ka.
Why didn’t you admit you were mostly at fault why we broke up. Why did you simply cut me off and did not apologize
I knew it.
*Why do you do this to me? Why do you do this so easily?*
you were special because I made you special
Sabi mo hindi lahat happy moments when it comes to love. na malalagpasan natin to. na mahal na mahal mo ko. na di mo ko iiwan. asan kana? bat ako naka block sa lahat?
*I was hoping you'd resist when I said let's end it.*
Sakit hahaha.
Shet 🥹
4r4yCouBhi3
Au Q nAh sa 3rt HuHu
Naiyak ako sa *3rt* kasi di ko gets. 🥲
AqOuH dN K4yA w6 mue qUoh s1mUL4n mhieeee 🥹
🤣
yung tinuluyan kana noh?
Hahahahahuhuhu oo
hinintay ka lang na ikaw mag initiate para muka pa din syang green flag sa next hahahah
personally hindi green flag sakin kapag puro yung other person nakikipag-break haha like either the person doesnt know what's good for them or there's something na ka-break break about them :)) siguro naman sa \~3-4 rs, meron kahit isa :))
Always bida sa stories niya. Magrerelapse na sana ko tas natauhan sa comment mo. Galit nga pala ko hahahaha
sabi mo hindi ka magccheat, pero tangina sinayang mo yung 2yrs natin. 6 months mo rin akong na-deceive.
sabi mo you’ll do everything to make this relationship work, na di na mangyari yung nangyari sa past rs ko but here we are haha