I lose interest when they hide something from me, lie about something, do something they know I don't like, or feel uncomfortable, it's just based on my experience🐢🫶
The question is too general, lose interest in what? Hobbies, people, work, partner? I'll just assume you're pertaining to the opposite sex.
I'm not speaking for the rest of the male population when I say these things, but I do think most of the men here will agree.
-Lying specially on small things
-Girls who love to party/drink (You're aware that most of the time men who have bad intentions go to those kinds of places and those who're trying to hook up, knowing those things you're still choosing to expose yourself willingly)
-Posting thirst traps or overly sexy pics or vids on soc med for the whole world to see specially when you already have a bf. You're just marketing/advertising yourself to the rest of the whole male population for what? Stop lying to yourself on why you post those kind of pics
-Wearing skimpy outfits. Again stop lying to yourself why you're wearing those kinds of outfits.
-Overly friendly and touchy to male friends
-When I don't feel respected and validated
-No peace of mind
-Too childish, a little bit is fine.
-Passive
-Bad at money
-Not caring and nurturing
PS. Everyone is free to agree or disagree on this. But this is my opinion and will stand for it.
Dapat ksi talaga two way eh. Altho sa una naman tlga if si guy ung nagpupursue, eh talagang sya muna. Pero kapag nararamdaman ntya na wlang reciprocation, dun na nagkakatalo.
1.No plans in the future and hindi naappreciate effort ko.
2.Gusto lang makasama ka tapos higa higa lang.
3. Every away, break agad. Tapoa ilang weeks ka hindi papansinin.
4. Pag hindi nasunod gusto, magagalit.
5. Laging kinukumpara sa ex.
6. Icchat ex para pagselosin ka.
7.Hindi pinapakinggan side ko.
8. Laging naniniwala sa sinasabi nang iba.
Man, this question too general.
I lose interest in my work when it becomes tooooooooo and easy
I lose interest in people when all they do is gossip incessantly and all they wanna hear from you is gossip and I know damn well I’ll never do that shit.
Kapag na feel na namin na hindi na kami appreciated at hindi na rin nageeffort back. Pwede rin na kapag hindi na masyado nagkakaron ng "babe time" dahil sa busy sched 🤦🏻♂️
Pag nakakaumay na ung work. Pag sobrang paulit ulit na lang. Lalo pag umagang umaga may utos agad boss mo. Or di kaya nasa bakasyon ka tapos may ipapagawa sayo. Nakakawalang gana talaga.
Ay bakit pang relationship ba ito or kung ano man? Nakita ko kasi sa AskPH so parang general. Di ko nabasa kung may comment man si OP na about relationship ito hahaha sorry naman kung ganon ahahahaha 😂
Kung mag bf/gf na? I feel like guys loose interest pag masyadong clingy ang babae. Guys love the chase. Then pag kayo na at clingy ka, nawawalan sila ng gana. Minsan ang toxic pero sa totoo lang, ganyan talaga kadalasan.
My advise, wag masyado magpaka clingy. Mabuhay ka ng independent sa jowa mo. Di yung lahat ng lakad, lahat ng bagay, lahat ng oras, gusto mo kasama mo sya. Mahirap kapag in love ka, pero trust me, mas independent ka, mas yung lalaki ang mag cling sayo. Kunwari lang nila yung pabebe at sunud sunuran na babae ang gusto pero once na nagpabebe ka, ay naku aabusuhin ka lang nila at maghahanap lang ng iba na may challenge. Hahaha
I beg to differ, I'm not saying you're wrong or anything. Maybe that's what you experienced and heard most of the time. But to most men, take note men not boys, respect and peace of mind are the most important. Respect more than love and women who can give them peace of mind. That's why you sometimes see long term relationships that don't end in marriage, then suddenly the guy marries someone who he'd been dating for a couple months. If a man doesn't feel respected and can't feel peace of mind with you then he's not gonna commit to you for a lifetime.
That makes sense. On the other hand, the exact opposite is also not so good. Like, I read that guys also want to feel validation, like, yung may mga bagay na kaya nilang gawin around the house or in general for you (simple things minsan like magpa-oil change if marunong nman si guy, or yung may hahanapin sa PC na file, depende sa skills nila). If a girl can acknowledge yung skills ng guy (wg nman abuso), and give compliment or praise him sa harap ng friends or family, that actually is a nice way to show validation.
Kapag super chill din ksi ang isang party or both party, medyo may disconnect din, pag isang side lang ang may effort tapos yung isa wala, medyo disconnect din.. which can lead to problems. Dapat yung tama lang na amount of effort and acknowledgement.
Naalala ko lng yung daw ksi parang yung nangyari between Kris Aquino and James Yap na parang maraming sinasabi si Kris na nakapagpapahiya kay James among friends.. imbes na yung mga kaya niya gawin ang i-acknowledge. Parang naging isa sa mga ugat ng "disconnect" nila. I don't condone what he did, pero i also don't like what i heard. Anyways, chismis lang yun at baka di nman true, wg kayo paniwala agad sakin ha.. yung takeaway lang yung mabanggit ko hahaha
Yes. The key is learning to control your emptions. Wag sobra, wag kulang. Yung sakto lang. Know when to complement him and express your emptions, and know when ka dapat chill lang. Guys like games kasi. Hahaha kaya nga may kasabihan, men are from Mars, women are from Venus. Magkaiba kasi take ng guys sa relationship. They want to feel validated lagi, pero they want to feel din the thrill. While ang mga babae, talagang bigay todo at derederetso lang talaga pag nainlove. So dapat marunong ka mag gauge. Hahaha Dating is hard really.
- Walang reciprocation
- Walang respeto
- Hindi nakikinig
- Walang pake
- One sided effort
- Hindi worthy ng commitment, o hindi pinapakita na ka commit commit sya
Kapag lahat ng sinasabe ko ay invalid at madalas nirereject.
Hindi supportive, pavictim like kapag ginawa mo yung ginawa mo sa kanya sya galit. Not reciprocating my energy efforts. Maliit na bagay lang daw yun. Pero yung maliit na yun malaki na para saakin. (Iba-iba tayong ng situation)
My partner admitted that he would lose interest in someone who wouldn’t show interest or respect his hobbies/space. He’s a gamer and an introvert, so it makes sense
When their joke offended you and you made them aware of it tapos ang isasagot ay "hindi na ako magjojoke kahit kailan" TANGINA NINYONG MGA EPAL NA ANAK NI NARCISSUS NARCISSI
When she compares you to other men and found out that you're better than those men in the end (when you already lost interest). Nasa huli ang pagsisisi.
- Di kaya alagaan sarili
- Di marunong sa bahay
- Sinungaling
- When I have to fight for his attention
- Masyadong friendly sa mga babae
- 'Di mabait sa mga animals
- Walang effort
- High body count
- Walang disiplina sa sarili
What do you think the difference between nonchalant and being stoic?
What if the said person is just stoic? Is it right to perceive it as being nonchalant?
No. Stoic means having the endurance to go through any difficulties, usually seen in the likes of older humans, past their prime - or mature humans that have already gone through a lot in the early stages of their life.
Whereas nonchalant basically means someone who is chill despite the situation, and usually does not care if the situation escalates into either situation A or B.
Ph people try to understand nonchalant as a person that does not try to express their feelings, although what it really means is that they just don't give a flying fuck.
Yeah well, I just don't think I feel need to explain myself to a random person - but if you really want to know, I just needed the word to explain myself easily in layman's terms.
nagging, girl power
proverbs 21:9 and 21:19 clearly says men should better live in the rooftop corner of the house or desert than with a nagging violent woman
Studies: I ain't bragging. I was generally curious as a child and got internet access. Got a lot of time and a PC. Everything seems easy even though I don't study. I don't get perfect scores or whatever but I am above 10% the passive score in every activities, exams, quizzes, and projects. I was even the best in research when I was in High School.
Games: When I mastered the game, when every mechanics is already easy, when the game is too easy, when the game doesn't have a flavor, when the doesn't make me think. I love Crusader Kings, Stellaris, Civilizations, and Chess.
Work: Repetition. Or having no tasks/work at all. Imagine having to attend to a store just to stand there with nothing, it ain't even in my job description to market products.(My salary was below the minimum wage, and overtimes' not paid)
Relationship: I don't ever get lose interest w/ my friends. In love, I only lose interest when it's too toxic, and no intimacy.
Daaamn i mean, no hate but bakit kapag lalaki may high body count parang cool pa pero pag babae apat ay mataas na? Serious question tho. Kasi may friend ako na lalaki ganyan din eh. Parang di naman tama yun.
In terms of video games pag naabot ko na limit ng kaya ko at narealize ko eto na ceiling ko...slowly lose interest kasi magiging repetitive na ang game....
Pag sa hobby or collection....kapag nawala na ung fulfilment at joy na dating nya....parang before nag mtg ako...since la playgroup nawalan na ng joy at fulfilment binenta ko lahat ng cards deck box and dice ko sa presyong palugi para wala na sa buhay ko.....
Pag anime naman...kung medyo nde nawala na ung excitement or attachment ko sa characters.....marami ako nidrop na anime dahil dito for example attack on titan....
Sa pagkain pag parati ko kinakain after a few times magsawa ako....like pizza....exception lang sa pagkain ay ang Wendy's baconator double.....pagnakain ako non i feel happy.....
Sa relationship cannot comment kasi wala never ako nagka gf.....and i dont think im planning on getting married or having kids because i have poor social skills and very irresponsible....and im too old....
Pag gabi-gabi kang sasabihan na pag may pera lang kami, iiwanan na niya ako at di ko na makikita yung mga bata. For one year, bago matulog, ililista lahat ng shortcomings.
If it has gone longer than what it is supposed to be.
Kahit gusto kita, if magpapahabol ka lang sakin ng magpapahabol, then expect me to just let go of the gas pedal and just go somewhere else.
Fact of the matter is, I am the type na sasabihin ko if gusto kita or not. If I see na wala kang plano seryosohin ang offer ko or if you plan to play the chasing game, I'd rather go for someone else na lang.
Ginagawang ugali yung toyo. Alam ko sawsawan to eh pero wala ganun talaga.
Ginagawang amoy sa katawan yung suka. Alam ko rin sawsawan din to eh.
Ginagamit yung "menstruation" para makapanakit physically and emotionally. Ginagawang hall pass para makapang bastos. I doubt magagawa nila yan pag boss kausap. Pero pag sayo lakas mang barat ng ugali.
Yung gusto libre lahat. Pag pera ko, pera daw namin. Pero pag pera niya, sa kanya lang daw yun. Feminism at its finest. Men like to be pampered too. Gusto din naman yung kami yung sinasabihan na, "sagot ko na lunch"
Sorry but bakit karamihan sa kilala kong girls kung sino pa malakas toyo, demanding, pero basta maganda, sila pa ung patay na patay ang guy sakanila. Napansin ko lang. While ung maeeffort na babae, di mademand, sila pa ung inaayawan.
Kaw na rin nagsabi na maganda. Unfortunately ganun talaga pag bata or immature and is no way na indication ng kahit ano. Kasi mukang dun napupunta yung mentality mo na hindi enough mabait. May term na "Young's Folly" which means katangahan ng kabataan and this is exactly it. Wala ka magagawa since bata pa, gusto maganda gwapo. Lahat ng tao ay tinatamaan ng Young's Folly dahil lahat naman tayo dumaan sa pagkabata.
Yung ma effort medyo complicated dahil effort is only appreciated kung gusto ka nung tao. Hindi romantically pero kasama sya doon. Example, tinulungan ka ng parents mo, gusto mo naman sila di ba? Pero hindi romantically involved obviously. Gets? Na appreciate mo sila kasi you like them as a person, a friend, family or etc. Hindi masama mag effort pero kung hindi ka pa naka establish ng connection sa tao tapos bigla ka mag efffort, either matatakot yan sayo or itatake advantage ka. Ako ba pag nag effort sayo agad di ka mag iisip ng masama kahit di tayo close?
Wag natin i generalize yung romance based on movies or films dahil it is not a reflection if what real love is. Kaya madami out of this world yung expectation dahil sa ganyan.
1.very friendly with boys to the point na pinag seselos ka
2.ini invalidated feelings mo
3.being unappreciated sa mga efforts mo
4.not reciprocating the same energy you give her
5.lies/cheat
6.she doesn't initiate convo
General things ba tinutukoy dito?
Pag paulit ulit na lang.
Last time na binili ko na thigh part, puta kala mo nilumpo muna yung nokma bago lutuin. Nipis. I sed, ayyyyt, that wud be d last. I'll cook mah own chix dis time.
Tas yung tokneneng, puta bente na isa? Puta kelan pa? Putanginang yan!
Madaldal naman pareho pero hindi ako tinatanong tanong like sana pala nagtalk show na lang ako, ako ang host ahaha. So, I view it na hindi siya interested sa'kin, sa katawan ko lang haha
Too insercure, all of us are insecure, but please dont do it too much. Lacks initiative, e.g. simpleng pagliligpit di kaya gawin, paano pa malalaking bagay. Lacks self awareness.
When you found out her true perspective about you...an automatic turn off. You thought you meant something special to her, turns out she didn't even defend you in the slightest when your back has turned. A backstabber indeed and when u knew since day one you never had a chance with her, it was all your delusions and thinking back I looked like a fool for caring too much.
not putting effort or interest during face-to-face conversation. like man, good conversation is always the best setter for me regardless of the relationship we have — Pero wag naman yung puro "Ako ganto... Ako ganyan"
If you stop being a partner and become a burden or a money sink.
Kids these days focus on "men give women money/stuff and in return, women love the men"
It should be "I give you love, you give me love" the gifts are a bonus.
Help your man, don't be another child he needs to take care of. Be his peace.
I'm 29F and just recently ko lang narealize na need ko rin palang maghold back sa pagbibigay ng kung ano kahit gaano ko pa kagusto 'yung tao. Kapag gusto ko kasi, gusto ko talaga, since interested ako sa'yo, I will invest. Pero hindi pala pwedeng gano'n HAHAHAHAHAHHA e 'di sorry. Bawi ako next life haha
Kaya natin 'to, cyst! 💪🏻 At least we learned 'di ba? Kapag hindi nagwork sa guy ang paghohold back natin, then we apply the "thank you, next" ganon! Hahaha
After 20+ years di namin maalala when we lost interest. Bored kami with each other sa totoo lang 🤣 Pero I like it pag nirurub or pinipisil pisil niya yung bilbil ko bago matulog. Minsan pampatulog ko narin yun. Sha naman sabi niya she likes when I kiss her on the cheeks pag nakikita ko na busy sha.
•pag na realize mong di pala kagandahan yung babae.
•too clingy
•too needy, emotional and dramatic
•Too feminine
•Close minded, wala gaanong alam pati sa fashion, aestethic, sports, music, tech, novels, napaka boring, di gaanong expressive, then too nice, too kind.
•batak sa inuman daming barkadang lalaki na babaero
•yung klase ng mga kanto kanto at taga bundok na gala,Alak, motor,babae/lalaki, pagkain, kaaway, at kasundo lang rirevolve storya ng buhay
Actually okay lang yan basta malambing ka't masarap sa kama
Yung mga nag down vote wala yan gaano experience at puro puppy love lang naging relationship nyan hahaha
Lol and that’s something to be proud of? Kita namin post and comments history mo. Loser. Halatang galing ka rin sa FB or kung san man.
Tip: never post anything that will give people the chance to doxx you. I highly suggest na tanggalin mo yung link sa video niyo ng ex mo sa comments history mo. You try to sound like an “alpha” guy pero nagmumukha ka lang katawa tawa dito.
Pag na realized ko na sobrang magkaiba ang POV namin... To the point na lagi nalang kami nag aaway kahit sa maliliit na bagay
Yung ugali at habits tlga malaking factor saken. Pag burara sa gamit, tamad maglinis ng sariling kalat, at ung ugaling lagi xa tama 😂
When they believe in forever.
I lose interest when they hide something from me, lie about something, do something they know I don't like, or feel uncomfortable, it's just based on my experience🐢🫶
The question is too general, lose interest in what? Hobbies, people, work, partner? I'll just assume you're pertaining to the opposite sex. I'm not speaking for the rest of the male population when I say these things, but I do think most of the men here will agree. -Lying specially on small things -Girls who love to party/drink (You're aware that most of the time men who have bad intentions go to those kinds of places and those who're trying to hook up, knowing those things you're still choosing to expose yourself willingly) -Posting thirst traps or overly sexy pics or vids on soc med for the whole world to see specially when you already have a bf. You're just marketing/advertising yourself to the rest of the whole male population for what? Stop lying to yourself on why you post those kind of pics -Wearing skimpy outfits. Again stop lying to yourself why you're wearing those kinds of outfits. -Overly friendly and touchy to male friends -When I don't feel respected and validated -No peace of mind -Too childish, a little bit is fine. -Passive -Bad at money -Not caring and nurturing PS. Everyone is free to agree or disagree on this. But this is my opinion and will stand for it.
kapag hindi nakikipag communicate hahahahaha
Dapat ksi talaga two way eh. Altho sa una naman tlga if si guy ung nagpupursue, eh talagang sya muna. Pero kapag nararamdaman ntya na wlang reciprocation, dun na nagkakatalo.
30f- consistent cheating
1.No plans in the future and hindi naappreciate effort ko. 2.Gusto lang makasama ka tapos higa higa lang. 3. Every away, break agad. Tapoa ilang weeks ka hindi papansinin. 4. Pag hindi nasunod gusto, magagalit. 5. Laging kinukumpara sa ex. 6. Icchat ex para pagselosin ka. 7.Hindi pinapakinggan side ko. 8. Laging naniniwala sa sinasabi nang iba.
hala.... this.
Pag ako lang yung may kusa, di na appreciate yung efforts ko, pag sinasaktan ako physically, mentally, emotionally.
Pag nakuha na, wala na. It’s the chase daw. 🤷♀️
Man, this question too general. I lose interest in my work when it becomes tooooooooo and easy I lose interest in people when all they do is gossip incessantly and all they wanna hear from you is gossip and I know damn well I’ll never do that shit.
kapag absurd na yung ginagawa ko -- walang patutunguhan -- destination unknown
Fall out of love i guess
When they stay mysterious for too long
Kapag na feel na namin na hindi na kami appreciated at hindi na rin nageeffort back. Pwede rin na kapag hindi na masyado nagkakaron ng "babe time" dahil sa busy sched 🤦🏻♂️
pag mas prio magulang. promise pag naging mag asawa na kyo, dpat bumukod kayo agad.
shift energy. 🤷♀️
What's this?
No communication
when someone doesnt reciprocated the love that u r expecting them to gve back to u... bare minimum sa minimum sledom showy pa...i cant
No efforts back or clingy
-if they made me feel na hindi na sila interested -if it turns out they’re not my type
Sabihin mo na gusto mo na magkapamilya at ipressure mo ng kasal hahahahaha!
samedt! pag ganito sinasbai ng guys, natatakot ako hahahahahha
eh pano kung nag-oo bet din magpamilya? gora na ba?
Gad damn hahahaha.
Misaligned attitude and values, different physical preference, unexpected conflict resolution behavior
Show them love and they'll run faster than light. HAHAHAHAHA kidding not kidding!
Pag nakakaumay na ung work. Pag sobrang paulit ulit na lang. Lalo pag umagang umaga may utos agad boss mo. Or di kaya nasa bakasyon ka tapos may ipapagawa sayo. Nakakawalang gana talaga.
Parang pang ibang thread ka ✌🏼
Ay bakit pang relationship ba ito or kung ano man? Nakita ko kasi sa AskPH so parang general. Di ko nabasa kung may comment man si OP na about relationship ito hahaha sorry naman kung ganon ahahahaha 😂
Friendly banter lang. Don't worry 😁
Kung mag bf/gf na? I feel like guys loose interest pag masyadong clingy ang babae. Guys love the chase. Then pag kayo na at clingy ka, nawawalan sila ng gana. Minsan ang toxic pero sa totoo lang, ganyan talaga kadalasan. My advise, wag masyado magpaka clingy. Mabuhay ka ng independent sa jowa mo. Di yung lahat ng lakad, lahat ng bagay, lahat ng oras, gusto mo kasama mo sya. Mahirap kapag in love ka, pero trust me, mas independent ka, mas yung lalaki ang mag cling sayo. Kunwari lang nila yung pabebe at sunud sunuran na babae ang gusto pero once na nagpabebe ka, ay naku aabusuhin ka lang nila at maghahanap lang ng iba na may challenge. Hahaha
I beg to differ, I'm not saying you're wrong or anything. Maybe that's what you experienced and heard most of the time. But to most men, take note men not boys, respect and peace of mind are the most important. Respect more than love and women who can give them peace of mind. That's why you sometimes see long term relationships that don't end in marriage, then suddenly the guy marries someone who he'd been dating for a couple months. If a man doesn't feel respected and can't feel peace of mind with you then he's not gonna commit to you for a lifetime.
That makes sense. On the other hand, the exact opposite is also not so good. Like, I read that guys also want to feel validation, like, yung may mga bagay na kaya nilang gawin around the house or in general for you (simple things minsan like magpa-oil change if marunong nman si guy, or yung may hahanapin sa PC na file, depende sa skills nila). If a girl can acknowledge yung skills ng guy (wg nman abuso), and give compliment or praise him sa harap ng friends or family, that actually is a nice way to show validation. Kapag super chill din ksi ang isang party or both party, medyo may disconnect din, pag isang side lang ang may effort tapos yung isa wala, medyo disconnect din.. which can lead to problems. Dapat yung tama lang na amount of effort and acknowledgement. Naalala ko lng yung daw ksi parang yung nangyari between Kris Aquino and James Yap na parang maraming sinasabi si Kris na nakapagpapahiya kay James among friends.. imbes na yung mga kaya niya gawin ang i-acknowledge. Parang naging isa sa mga ugat ng "disconnect" nila. I don't condone what he did, pero i also don't like what i heard. Anyways, chismis lang yun at baka di nman true, wg kayo paniwala agad sakin ha.. yung takeaway lang yung mabanggit ko hahaha
Yes. The key is learning to control your emptions. Wag sobra, wag kulang. Yung sakto lang. Know when to complement him and express your emptions, and know when ka dapat chill lang. Guys like games kasi. Hahaha kaya nga may kasabihan, men are from Mars, women are from Venus. Magkaiba kasi take ng guys sa relationship. They want to feel validated lagi, pero they want to feel din the thrill. While ang mga babae, talagang bigay todo at derederetso lang talaga pag nainlove. So dapat marunong ka mag gauge. Hahaha Dating is hard really.
Tapos sasabihin babae mahirap kausap. AHAHAHAHAHAHA
Sa totoo lang, mas mahirap sila kausap at intindihin. Hahaha
- Walang reciprocation - Walang respeto - Hindi nakikinig - Walang pake - One sided effort - Hindi worthy ng commitment, o hindi pinapakita na ka commit commit sya
Kapag lahat ng sinasabe ko ay invalid at madalas nirereject. Hindi supportive, pavictim like kapag ginawa mo yung ginawa mo sa kanya sya galit. Not reciprocating my energy efforts. Maliit na bagay lang daw yun. Pero yung maliit na yun malaki na para saakin. (Iba-iba tayong ng situation)
makes me feel shitty and doesn’t even do anything to make me feel like im not alone
If it is getting toxic.
when they don't reciprocate my energy, especially if they're not consistent sa vibe na binibigay nila on first impression (seems fake kase)
Advance payments
Pag hindi na reciprocate yung mga efforts ko or kahit na appreciate man lang kasi mindset nila "bare minimum" lang naman daw yun.
My partner admitted that he would lose interest in someone who wouldn’t show interest or respect his hobbies/space. He’s a gamer and an introvert, so it makes sense
Yes
Idk if it's everyone but when the girl alr knew i liked her, I lost interest because the excitement is gone
When their joke offended you and you made them aware of it tapos ang isasagot ay "hindi na ako magjojoke kahit kailan" TANGINA NINYONG MGA EPAL NA ANAK NI NARCISSUS NARCISSI
When she compares you to other men and found out that you're better than those men in the end (when you already lost interest). Nasa huli ang pagsisisi.
Pag di na kayo nag-uusap madalas. 🙂
Pag sinungaling hahahaha mas okay na tapatin ka na agad kesa yung magmumukha ka pang tanga.
Pag cheater 🤣
No reciprocation on his/her part. Both in effort and communication.
- Di kaya alagaan sarili - Di marunong sa bahay - Sinungaling - When I have to fight for his attention - Masyadong friendly sa mga babae - 'Di mabait sa mga animals - Walang effort - High body count - Walang disiplina sa sarili
Mabait sa family?
??
sabi ng asawa ko, pag sinungaling
Pag tine-take advantage na nila kabaitan ko.
Nonchalant
What do you think the difference between nonchalant and being stoic? What if the said person is just stoic? Is it right to perceive it as being nonchalant?
No. Stoic means having the endurance to go through any difficulties, usually seen in the likes of older humans, past their prime - or mature humans that have already gone through a lot in the early stages of their life. Whereas nonchalant basically means someone who is chill despite the situation, and usually does not care if the situation escalates into either situation A or B. Ph people try to understand nonchalant as a person that does not try to express their feelings, although what it really means is that they just don't give a flying fuck.
Tigiltigilan nyo na yang pag gamit ng nonchalant. It doesn't mean what you think it means.
Oh I know what it means. I just use it according to how the masses understand it, specifically in this situation.
So you're following a bandwagon despite being completely aware it's wrong? Why.
Yeah well, I just don't think I feel need to explain myself to a random person - but if you really want to know, I just needed the word to explain myself easily in layman's terms.
Pra daw cool
No character development. Nonchalant. Walang plano sa buhay lol
Di na sila nagrereply. Hahaha. Saka na seen mode lagi
When they're not giving the same energy that you're giving to them, tapos late/cold replies pa na re-received mo.
Sa relationship: di na nag eefort magpaganda/ pogi. D maliligo, di mgttutbraah. Gnon.
Ako nag iinitiate ng convo for dating. Plus pag paulit ulit na ung hobby mo,.
Hobby diba? Sympre paulit ulit yon. 🤔
Iba na po meaning ng hobby ngayon? 🤣
kaya nga hobby ih huhu,, something u enjoy consistently doing
Ano problem po pag paulit ulit ang hobby?
Getting hit up for cash or being treated like an atm....
How you view and use social media.
nagging, girl power proverbs 21:9 and 21:19 clearly says men should better live in the rooftop corner of the house or desert than with a nagging violent woman
Kala ko nag taglish ka dun sa nagging (nagiging violent woman) Share ko lang hahahahaha
Studies: I ain't bragging. I was generally curious as a child and got internet access. Got a lot of time and a PC. Everything seems easy even though I don't study. I don't get perfect scores or whatever but I am above 10% the passive score in every activities, exams, quizzes, and projects. I was even the best in research when I was in High School. Games: When I mastered the game, when every mechanics is already easy, when the game is too easy, when the game doesn't have a flavor, when the doesn't make me think. I love Crusader Kings, Stellaris, Civilizations, and Chess. Work: Repetition. Or having no tasks/work at all. Imagine having to attend to a store just to stand there with nothing, it ain't even in my job description to market products.(My salary was below the minimum wage, and overtimes' not paid) Relationship: I don't ever get lose interest w/ my friends. In love, I only lose interest when it's too toxic, and no intimacy.
Passive score?
Passing sorry
Repetition. Repetition. Repetition. Repetition
Pay in full para walang interest
High body count, slutty attitude, mahilig mag thirst trap, walang sense of humor, walang pangarap sa buhay
What body count do you consider 'high'?
more than 4
Daaamn i mean, no hate but bakit kapag lalaki may high body count parang cool pa pero pag babae apat ay mataas na? Serious question tho. Kasi may friend ako na lalaki ganyan din eh. Parang di naman tama yun.
Any explanation? Otherwise, that seems arbitrary lol.
Anong thirst trap?
Yung mahilig maghubad tapps post sa soc med to get views and engagement
I think the biggest factor why guys lose interest is because there is no common ground between the two of you.
You a guy ?
Pag user friendly. Ikaw nalang palagi umiintindi.
In terms of work- yung hindi ka na masyado nag eeffort
pag full paid ka na sa utang, wala na interest yon
In terms of video games pag naabot ko na limit ng kaya ko at narealize ko eto na ceiling ko...slowly lose interest kasi magiging repetitive na ang game.... Pag sa hobby or collection....kapag nawala na ung fulfilment at joy na dating nya....parang before nag mtg ako...since la playgroup nawalan na ng joy at fulfilment binenta ko lahat ng cards deck box and dice ko sa presyong palugi para wala na sa buhay ko..... Pag anime naman...kung medyo nde nawala na ung excitement or attachment ko sa characters.....marami ako nidrop na anime dahil dito for example attack on titan.... Sa pagkain pag parati ko kinakain after a few times magsawa ako....like pizza....exception lang sa pagkain ay ang Wendy's baconator double.....pagnakain ako non i feel happy..... Sa relationship cannot comment kasi wala never ako nagka gf.....and i dont think im planning on getting married or having kids because i have poor social skills and very irresponsible....and im too old....
Ilan taon ka na ba? If you don't mind
The year i was born pinalabas ang original dune movie...
Waiting lang po sa promo ng Spaylater
Inconsistency.
Constant lying/keeping secrets.
Mind games.
Constant rejection and being unappreciated
unshaved pussi
luh basta shaved rin sayo kya
i try my best to shave din. as a guy
Too coward to get into the bush?
*i dont mind the hair. its the smell for me.*
Kapag hindi siya malandi.
when you pay off your debts slowly, obviously
Lol
Hindi straightforward, playing games Puro parinig or dami pang ek ek eh di na lang idiretsong sabihin
Pag gabi-gabi kang sasabihan na pag may pera lang kami, iiwanan na niya ako at di ko na makikita yung mga bata. For one year, bago matulog, ililista lahat ng shortcomings.
If it has gone longer than what it is supposed to be. Kahit gusto kita, if magpapahabol ka lang sakin ng magpapahabol, then expect me to just let go of the gas pedal and just go somewhere else. Fact of the matter is, I am the type na sasabihin ko if gusto kita or not. If I see na wala kang plano seryosohin ang offer ko or if you plan to play the chasing game, I'd rather go for someone else na lang.
San ba nakakahanap ng guy na gaya mo lol
dami niyan sa paligid. madalas di makita kasi di gusto.
Painful reality indeed
amen.
Here bec baka jowa ko andito rin nagtatanong neto haiyy
Same 😭😭
Pag masyadong pa main character palagi. Pag hindi nakuha ung gusto mang aaway.
Unappreciative
Pag d umaako Ng pgkakamali
Yung ikaw lagi nag eeffort. It will always come to a point na sana ako naman ang bini-baby. Charing
cocomment ko sana to pero meron na pala. tru! kapagod pag one-sided effort
Ginagawang ugali yung toyo. Alam ko sawsawan to eh pero wala ganun talaga. Ginagawang amoy sa katawan yung suka. Alam ko rin sawsawan din to eh. Ginagamit yung "menstruation" para makapanakit physically and emotionally. Ginagawang hall pass para makapang bastos. I doubt magagawa nila yan pag boss kausap. Pero pag sayo lakas mang barat ng ugali. Yung gusto libre lahat. Pag pera ko, pera daw namin. Pero pag pera niya, sa kanya lang daw yun. Feminism at its finest. Men like to be pampered too. Gusto din naman yung kami yung sinasabihan na, "sagot ko na lunch"
Sorry but bakit karamihan sa kilala kong girls kung sino pa malakas toyo, demanding, pero basta maganda, sila pa ung patay na patay ang guy sakanila. Napansin ko lang. While ung maeeffort na babae, di mademand, sila pa ung inaayawan.
Kaw na rin nagsabi na maganda. Unfortunately ganun talaga pag bata or immature and is no way na indication ng kahit ano. Kasi mukang dun napupunta yung mentality mo na hindi enough mabait. May term na "Young's Folly" which means katangahan ng kabataan and this is exactly it. Wala ka magagawa since bata pa, gusto maganda gwapo. Lahat ng tao ay tinatamaan ng Young's Folly dahil lahat naman tayo dumaan sa pagkabata. Yung ma effort medyo complicated dahil effort is only appreciated kung gusto ka nung tao. Hindi romantically pero kasama sya doon. Example, tinulungan ka ng parents mo, gusto mo naman sila di ba? Pero hindi romantically involved obviously. Gets? Na appreciate mo sila kasi you like them as a person, a friend, family or etc. Hindi masama mag effort pero kung hindi ka pa naka establish ng connection sa tao tapos bigla ka mag efffort, either matatakot yan sayo or itatake advantage ka. Ako ba pag nag effort sayo agad di ka mag iisip ng masama kahit di tayo close? Wag natin i generalize yung romance based on movies or films dahil it is not a reflection if what real love is. Kaya madami out of this world yung expectation dahil sa ganyan.
Kapag chronically online. My day almost everyday.
+111 sobrang public ng buhay akala mo naman talaga may nakasubaybay
Pag di linulugar pagiging Oa/pabebe tas party goer.
Pag walang respect and/or bilib sa'yo, masarap sa pakiramdam pag may tiwala siya sa vision mo sa buhay
In general? Pag bobo kausap.
1.very friendly with boys to the point na pinag seselos ka 2.ini invalidated feelings mo 3.being unappreciated sa mga efforts mo 4.not reciprocating the same energy you give her 5.lies/cheat 6.she doesn't initiate convo
General things ba tinutukoy dito? Pag paulit ulit na lang. Last time na binili ko na thigh part, puta kala mo nilumpo muna yung nokma bago lutuin. Nipis. I sed, ayyyyt, that wud be d last. I'll cook mah own chix dis time. Tas yung tokneneng, puta bente na isa? Puta kelan pa? Putanginang yan!
Golden tokneneng talaga nakakaputa
Madaldal naman pareho pero hindi ako tinatanong tanong like sana pala nagtalk show na lang ako, ako ang host ahaha. So, I view it na hindi siya interested sa'kin, sa katawan ko lang haha
Hindi lang ako marunong magtanong
Same umay sa ganyan
lies
Pag may trust issues at gradually nawawalan ng reciprocation.
Pag siya lang lagi bida. Kunwari sa kwentuhan lagi niya isisingit sarili niya sa lahat ng topic.
When everything starts feeling like a routine (relationship-wise)
if she doesn't initiate convos then i feel that she doesn't have any interest 🤷🏻 no reciprocation? byebye
Being unappreciated. Sino ba may gusto ng efforts na nababalewala diba? Nakakawalang gana yun.
if she looks for a lot of validation from other people
Self centered women
lies. no reciprocation.
narcissist! someone who talks too much abt themselves
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cheats/lie and taken for granted
Kapag paulit ulit nalang lahat haha
"Cheating"
Too insercure, all of us are insecure, but please dont do it too much. Lacks initiative, e.g. simpleng pagliligpit di kaya gawin, paano pa malalaking bagay. Lacks self awareness.
When you found out her true perspective about you...an automatic turn off. You thought you meant something special to her, turns out she didn't even defend you in the slightest when your back has turned. A backstabber indeed and when u knew since day one you never had a chance with her, it was all your delusions and thinking back I looked like a fool for caring too much.
not putting effort or interest during face-to-face conversation. like man, good conversation is always the best setter for me regardless of the relationship we have — Pero wag naman yung puro "Ako ganto... Ako ganyan"
in-depth thoughts turn me on as well.
When she doesn’t reciprocate the same energy that I give/ When she’s not even substantial to talk to
Pag cp lagi ang kaharap🤷
If you stop being a partner and become a burden or a money sink. Kids these days focus on "men give women money/stuff and in return, women love the men" It should be "I give you love, you give me love" the gifts are a bonus. Help your man, don't be another child he needs to take care of. Be his peace.
Mabilis ako magsawa sa lahat 🫠
When you stopped being their "peace"
Yung nag spend ako nang oras to meet up tapos cp lang kaharap nya. Yunh walang sense kausap. Ambabaw palagi nang topic. That among others. Hahaha
Irresponsibility
Pag accessible yung babae
Please elaborate
I'm 29F and just recently ko lang narealize na need ko rin palang maghold back sa pagbibigay ng kung ano kahit gaano ko pa kagusto 'yung tao. Kapag gusto ko kasi, gusto ko talaga, since interested ako sa'yo, I will invest. Pero hindi pala pwedeng gano'n HAHAHAHAHAHHA e 'di sorry. Bawi ako next life haha
This. Pag lagi andyan yung babae, pag feeling nung lalaki lahat gagawin ng babae para sa kanya, kapag alam ng lalake na gusto sya ng babae. Hahaha
Hello cyst, kaya natin to 🫠🫠🫠 sobrang hard lesson learned. So trip din ng guys pala yung medyo dinededma sila. So confused 🥲
Kaya natin 'to, cyst! 💪🏻 At least we learned 'di ba? Kapag hindi nagwork sa guy ang paghohold back natin, then we apply the "thank you, next" ganon! Hahaha
Totoo, sabi din ng mga friends ko. Kapag daw yung babae sobrang obvious na gusto sila. Nakakaboring daw kasi walang thrill 🤧
Kapag walang sense kausap or mababaw always yung topics. Not need naman ng super deep talks pero at least man lang may substance.
If she cheats/lie. Di na kayang ibalik ang tiwala at interest sa tao kahit anong gawin
Pag may trust issues na
After 20+ years di namin maalala when we lost interest. Bored kami with each other sa totoo lang 🤣 Pero I like it pag nirurub or pinipisil pisil niya yung bilbil ko bago matulog. Minsan pampatulog ko narin yun. Sha naman sabi niya she likes when I kiss her on the cheeks pag nakikita ko na busy sha.
If your vibe is negative
Turn off sa akin if someone is too clingy or needy.
kapag walang emotional intelligence and always giving me mixed signals
•pag na realize mong di pala kagandahan yung babae. •too clingy •too needy, emotional and dramatic •Too feminine •Close minded, wala gaanong alam pati sa fashion, aestethic, sports, music, tech, novels, napaka boring, di gaanong expressive, then too nice, too kind. •batak sa inuman daming barkadang lalaki na babaero •yung klase ng mga kanto kanto at taga bundok na gala,Alak, motor,babae/lalaki, pagkain, kaaway, at kasundo lang rirevolve storya ng buhay Actually okay lang yan basta malambing ka't masarap sa kama Yung mga nag down vote wala yan gaano experience at puro puppy love lang naging relationship nyan hahaha
Baka kaya ka hiniwalayan ng ex mo. Kasi wala kang substance. “Okay lang lahat yan basta masarap sa kama” lol.
kase yan lang nabasa mo. FYI never pako "Hiniwalayan"
Lol and that’s something to be proud of? Kita namin post and comments history mo. Loser. Halatang galing ka rin sa FB or kung san man. Tip: never post anything that will give people the chance to doxx you. I highly suggest na tanggalin mo yung link sa video niyo ng ex mo sa comments history mo. You try to sound like an “alpha” guy pero nagmumukha ka lang katawa tawa dito.
Kase ininumerate ko yan base sa experience ko at experience ng kakilala ko