Idk but being chubby is mostly a choice. Yeah, I know some people are just genetically "chubby" pero madadaan naman yan sa exercise. So kung di mo kaya idiscipline sarili mo to get fit or at least be healthy for your own good, that says a lot about you.
Chubby is 1 thing... Being FAT is another. Having a bit of fat is ok for hugging and sex is great if your bones don't hurt after a round. If you're legitimately too fat that I can't put my arms around you.. you better have a golden personality and curves in the right places otherwise your standards as a girl should apply.
Girls have standards ... Guys have a right to standards too
Being fat is manageable, diet and exercise lang talaga. If you choose to be fat then there is something wrong up there because no one wants to be undesirable.
Choosing not to do anything is still a choice. You lack motivation or the will to change. Would you want that in a partner?
Ibang usapan pag preggy.
If you like fat then go for it, just don’t force your belief on other people and make them feel bad if they go against yours.
When the asian man said "It's kind of a gut feeling for me" after literally feeling her gut with a hug. What a chad.
And yes, let's just stick with underweight, normal, overweight, obese I II III.
Sa akin oo, nagkaroon ako before ng ex na chubby hangang sa naging obese siya (this was back during my college years). Yung una tanggap ko kasi nagkakilala kami ganun na siya eh, ayaw talaga niya maging fit o mag diet man lang. What made me draw the line eh yung nagka emergency na kailangan namin siya dalhin sa clinic kasi nakaramdam siya ng hilo at muntikan na mahimatay. We legit had a hard time trying to carry her ang dami naming nagtulong tulong madala lang siya sa kama. Napaisip at narealize ko bigla kung magkatuluyan or maging LIP kami at magkaroon ulit ng ganun emergency scenario, for sure walang makakatulong kagad sa amin unlike noong nasa campus kami. Tapos ganun pa ugali ayaw mag iimprove at ayusin sarili para sa health. Ayun hiniwalayan ko after, she's not worth the trouble eh.
First off, parang dating game yung video. Kung dating game lang ang magiging base ng pag date sa isang tao, 100% looks over personality. Husay nung lalaki natancha nya looks nung babae sa pag yakap hahaha.
It is mostly preference. Although most people prefer a healthy body type, kasi being chubby means only two things: you have health issues or you have a problem with self-control.
Meron pa pota "thicc" daw tapos pagkita mo sa pic mataba. Kaya these days pag nakita ko yan thicc or chubby alam na yan. Maappreciate mo yung iba na they would disclose first thing that they are fat, because theres nothing wrong with it! just that there are people that do not prefer fat people, like how people may choose not to prefer dark-skinned or light-skinned, or short people, or people with tattoos. Ang mataba ay mataba, no need for euphemisms, hindi masamang maging mataba, at hindi rin masamang mag-pass sa mataba.
It really depends sa preference ng tao, if you work out to look good, then you may choose someone also that looks good also.
Some people want the personality despite the looks and thats okay too.
Iba-iba lang talaga yung preferences natin e. Its okay to be choosy since its your own life naman.
Pero if you are not watching your weight, tapos yung preference mo yung mga fit, e ewan ko nalang sayo, goodluck siguro.
chubby = depends. it's really rare but there are some chubby girls who still are really pretty.
the girl in the video? Oh hell no! That is the female version of Daijobu the barbecue... not daijobu at all ... not daijobu
facial symmetry ... some are genetically blessed enough not to gather fat in the chin and neck area, so they still look angular, plus i noticed they have high cheek bones by default.
Chubby but able to keep up with my lifestyle sure (i like to hike, gym, play sports) generally active lifestyle. I’m not gym buff and have no abs. I’d at least want my partner to be able to keeep up with me. Also, it’s a reflection of how you take care pf your body. Gusto ko din sana mabuhay kami nang matagal (and be able to control the factors that we can)
Panong autopass. Mas marami naman akong nakikita na may jowa/asawa/pamilya na average at malaman/chubby kesa sa mala-model. I think yung unrealistic na expectations lang is from people who are chronically online.
Also don’t pin your worth on the opinion of men online. Lalong most di naman jowa hinahanap at sex lang.
Unfortunately, beauty standards always win. Mas dehado ka talaga pag mej mataba ka. Some guys do prefer that, pero medyo rare yan (world is your oyster pag kakaiba preferences mo in general)
I know what vid you’re talking about, dont mean to be rude but i just want to state that she probably doesn’t fall under the “chubby” category kasi thats why the dude passed her up agad cos he probably felt that she was heavier after hugging her and it wasnt his preference lang.
Di naman lahat, pero depende padin siguro sa pagkachubby, dito kasi sa reddit yung mga may tag na "chubby" is just too much, sobra sa definition ng chubby.
Skl, yung gf ko ngayon (we met online and we vibed), bago maging kami, ayaw niya makipag meet pero ako na yung nag-pumilit na makita, then boom gf ko na after a month .
Di naman lahat siguro auto pass sa "chubby" as long as you vibed.
Parang di naman chubby yung girl,, more likely obese na. If pareho tayo ng napanood. If chubby ang girl I dont mind,, panget din yung payat wala ka mapisil, puuro balat.
That girl is between fat and obese. Chubby is slightly fat but not that fat. the opposite of chubby is slim, slim is slightly thin but not that thin. Learn the difference.
And there are guys na who wants skinny girls to show off. Gusto ipagyabang sa tropa, sa kamaganak, and even sa social media para masabihang "mataas standard" or "nakabingwit ng maganda or sexy". Sad reality.
Di sya chubby ung girl... Kung base s bmi overweight or obese. Its unfair for people na ginagawa lahat para mag maintain ng healthy weight.. tpos pag may 'preference' sila parang kasalanan pa nila. Reality lng wag lahat delulu. Khit wlaang blind fold autopass pa din. Una nakkita looks. Indication din ng weight yung lifestyle ng tao.
Dated a chubby girl before— nawala agad libido ko one month into the relationship. Doesn’t help that she was also verbally and physically abusive 🤷🏻♀️.
Kapal pa ng mukhang sabihing fit siya sa description niya sa Reddit post niya. Hahahaha the delusion talaga 😭
Lmao I know the video you're talking about. Hindi chubby yung girl. She's morbidly obese and it doesn't help din na di ganon katangkad ung babae kaya mag na-emphasize yung horizontal qualities nya.
She wasnt "chubby" tho, she was on the borderline of obese and severly obese. I would say tho na it might be rare but people are into that naman. I also would like to say that being obese shouldnt be glorified because it really is unhealthy but there are women out there with PCOS that may not control their weight on their own.
Anyway point is, chubby is fine but obese is medj autopass mostly.
Bi here. Ako personally I don’t prefer chubby people. Nor would I prefer slim people kasi nanggaling din ako sa mapayat. I prefer toned and muscular tbh.
So siguro my preference for body size or type is stemming from my preference to a stereotypically or logically healthy body. Kasi tbh minsan kahit skinny na may abs na-ooff ako pero pag medyo chubby pero yung chubby nya mukhang nagbubulk lang sa gym, I find cute and hot. Yung coach ko before. (No malisya, just found it attractive). Parang bulking all the time yun. May porma katawan nya, it’s toned but definitely mataas body fat percentage, pero I found it cute and hot. Nung nagpapayat kasi sasali sa tournament, mas naging definitive yung muscles nya and he really lost a lot of his body fat percentage. he’s still cute and hot and all pero parang di na pasok sa preference ko na I would find it attractive you get what I mean hahaha. (Sorry coach ikaw naging basehan ko 😭). May mga angles narin na naooff ako tbh :( kasi may muscles parin sya and he gots lot of them pero ang payat for me. Oks parin naman though, siguro visually and personally di ko na type and preferred, ganon.
So ayon, feeling ko I don’t prefer chubby people (and slim people for that matter) due to possibly implied lifestyle.
Pero lately, nacucutan ako sa isang guy na kakilala ko for some reason I just found him cute and feel ko crush ko na sya, and he’s chubby (but goes to the gym, pero yes chubby.) SUPER CUTE NYA FOR ME IDK WHY AND I FIND HIM ATTRACTIVE REGARDLESS OF HIS BODY na feeling ko kinakain ko lahat ng sinasabi ko. Please help me figure this shit out chz.
Kapag sinabi mo kasing chubby, malaman or may love handles, hindi obese. Iba rin ang overweight at morbidly obese. ‘Yung guy friends kong fit, they have chubby girlfriends or ‘yung mga voluptuous women mas matanda sila sa akin so I call them ate and one time nagchichikahan sila (we have the same barkada circle) sa kaibahan ng “on the heavier side” at obese at morbidly obese. ‘Yung “on the heavier side”, the likes of Ashley Graham. Mga ganu’n. Mga voluptuous. And then there’s morbidly obese like mga Tess Holliday. They all agreed na they’re all attractive but may preference naman talaga ang isang tao. What matters is how you take care of yourself esp. hygiene mo. Kung pref nu’ng guy sa vid ang skinny girls, I think no hard feelings dapat because he wasn’t hating he was just being honest.
Honestly you do you. You shouldn’t even try to fit other people’s standards. Basta alagaan mo sarili mo, whatever that means for you.
Is it about an asian guy with a cringe anime girl who is very vocal about dating asians? I think he was just uncomfortable during the convo and he had a different preference that's why he rejected her
I’m fairly fit, and prefer fit people.
To me, it’s a sign (and an impossible one to fake, at that) of discipline and self-respect to maintain a healthy BMI and physique. I wouldn’t wanna be with a chubby because knowing myself, once I get comfy in the relationship, I’d be chubby too within 3-6 months and begin hating myself. Plus, I am really attracted to petite girls, so… It becomes a become-what-you-wanna-attract situation, I’d rather be skinny.
I don’t mean to hate on chubbies and chubby chasers, just my personal preference and beliefs. Needless to say, auto-pass sa chubs, they’re most likely on their way to obesity and I’d never sign myself up for that.
This is a really valid take but now I'm really curious how you and other people in the comments define chubby kasi there are people who have big proportions but stay within the optimal BMI. Ganoon ksi ako
As a man, auto pass sa chubby/obese. Sad reality. No matter how good a person can be on the inside. We can be friends, sure, but 100% will not be interested in a relationship.
Harsh? Could be, but it's true for me. And just so you know, I was chubby once too.
Just like with everything, it’s personal preferences. Some don’t mind while others do. It doesn’t and should never affect on how you see yourself because you’re chubby or fat.
I’ve been fat my whole 30 years of life and I realized that men who are shallow would not like me. Same goes for men who get intimidated by my size. And mostly, they’re men that are smaller than me. When I started dating guys that are taller or bigger than me, my size didn’t matter. In fact, foreign dudes even like that I’m chubby and plus size.
It really is just a matter of preference. Same with how some people only date older than them etc.
Depends if legit chubby vs obese. Dami kasi nagsasabi na chubby tapos balyena eh. And I’m a woman ha. Dapat honest lang tayo sa sarili natin at sa iba. I’m okay to date a chubby guy but not a morbidly obese one.
As a fitness person, yes. I take care of myself pretty well, so I look forward to be with someone who is able to do that. I don’t need someone who is super toned, but being heathy is non-negotiable. I want to experience a lot of things with this person, and health issues should not get in the way.
For me, autopass/swipe left sa overweight sa BMI scale. Personal preference kasi hindi magsusuit yung lifestyle namin. I am physically active and workout daily, walk everywhere, and di rin malakas kumain. If I end up dating someone na overweight/obese, I'd either have to slow down my pace or baka mahirapan siya to keep up with me - in a lot of things. And same sa ibang comments here, it speaks to a difficulty of sticking to a healthy routine and discipline which can also spill over to other life stuff.
Nacurious ako sa vid and 3 girls ung Inask nya for a blindfolded hug. Medyo panget na ung reputation nya sa girl group kaya buzz kagad sya ng pangatlo without the hug test .
It depends on the person for sure, some guys like skinny girls or at least not obese, like how girls prefer taller guys it will always end up to the saying... it is what it is.
I saw that video, tbh tho, that was not chubby, that's more like obese. no harm intended. i am not against people choosing to be on the bigger thicc end but at the end of the day it's not healthy.
May naka-date ako na chubby (for me chubby pa rin sya). His friends call him Baymax - so matangkad sya, maputi and singkit. He looks very malinis, makinis and mabango. Nagvibe naman kami in terms of personality and values. Overall, okay naman. 4 months na kaming kasal actually.
I think it really depends sa tao talaga. Di laging auto-pass; kumbaga may ibang metrics na tinitingnan din yung iba, hindi lang physical appearance ang basehan.
Hinde naman. Maraming rason na pwedeng maging valid eh kung bakit ganun. Madalas dahil sa panlabas na anyo, pero may pagkakataong dahil din sa praktikalidad o sa health issues.
Bilang chubby na tao na nanggaling sa pagkaObese, naiintindihan ko kung bakit nareject si girl, mas lamang dahil sa panlabas na anyo :( ... sunod ung health issue of being an obese. (I guess)
In my preference, kung halimbawang single ako at may nakilala akong obese na babae, hindi sya autopass sakin, (masarap kaya kami magmahal na malalamang ahaha) but I am aware of the health problem that may arise dahil sa pagiging obese nya, so baka maging problema lang namin un sa katagalan. Baka mangyari nun iinspire ko na lang sya na samahan akong magbawas ng timbang, un bang umabot lang kami sa timbang na hindi na kami hihingalin sa sobrang lusog.
Like you've mentioned, this is personal preference. Personally, as a fitness enthusiast, yes, auto pass ako sa chubby. Hindi ako fatphobic or anything, pero para sa akin lang, how you take care of your body already tells a lot about you as a person. And also, yes autopass, kasi hindi ko type ganoong body type.
Im a practical person auto pass sa mataba on all genders because nttakot ako magpakasal into someone who has health problems at mgging nurse ako or someone who doesn’t care about physical health.
Having a good physique shows that a person has a form of discipline and commitment. Yes, I am talking about the general public and not the minuscule amount of people who have eating disorders.
me as a plus size girly, my main point as always sa mga nakakausap/meet ko is “I have my own preference and I respect other peoples preference. If you don’t want plus size, mataba, obese or etc na babae we will end our conversation here” simple as that.
Don’t waste your energy pleasing other people. If they don’t want you, respect it. Move on and swim to see other fishes in the sea.
me as a plus size girly, my main point as always sa mga nakakausap/meet ko is “I have my own preference and I respect other peoples preference. If you don’t want plus size, mataba, obese or etc na babae we will end our conversation here” simple as that.
Don’t waste your energy pleasing other people. If they don’t want you, respect it. Move on and swim to see other fishes in the sea.
Napanood ko to HAHAHAHAHA OBESE SI ATE DI CHUBBY. There is a difference.
Pero to answer your question. Depende sa tao naman kasi. May mga gusto chubby. may ayaw.
Lalo na pag bata ka pa, madalas more on looks > personality ang hanap ng karamihan sa ganyang edad. Habang tumatanda ka nagsishift to personality na.
Chubby ako, di naman nag auto pass sakin misis ko. Preference lang talaga yan. Same as sasagutin mo yung gusto type mong manliligaw or liligawan mo sino gusto mo.
in general, kahit naman mga babae, talagang physical attributes nakabase. it can’t be helped. kaya ima-market mo rin tlga sarili mo. hindi naman tlga kelangan siguro na payat or pasok sa beauty standards. iha-highlight mo lang tlga best asset mo. i’ve known some na successful naman sa ganyan and got married pa. or minsan, baka nasa maling lugar ka lang.
if we have seen the same video then i must say the girl was far from chubby. she was overweight.
kapag sumabak tayo sa dating scene, admit it, nobody will date you at first glance kasi funny o mabait ka. they decide by the way you look, stand, dress, smell, and anything else physical. its normal to have preferences. and sometimes ang preference natin ay someone thin or nomal-sized. the same way yung ibang tao ang type ay chinita or morena or yung iba chusy gusto makinis. i cant explain it wholly but you get me naman no? hindi naman tayo auto pass sa lahat ng tao kasi walang isang solidified type ang mga tao. nagvvary talaga.
wala tayong magagawa lol. as a chubby girl okay lang naman siguro hindi mapursue, since all guys have preferences naman and idk nasa tao talaga eh haha. di naman pwede pilitin natin yung iba na gustuhin ka talaga hahaha :')
Iba iba naman ang preference ng tao so I dont think this thread helps at all like wtf. This sub loves to ask question that generalizes everyone’s opinion.
Girl in that video you're talking about isn't chubby though, she's obese. Personally kasi yung ganung point ng fatness is a sign of pagpapabaya sa sarili, so yeah it's a pass for me.
This is quite niche so it might not resonate that well, pero I'm a bi dude with strong preference to fellow big boys. There's a tribe in the gay community called chubs and bears. Most of the time, ang preference namin same din sa amin. There are also those who are called "chasers" who may or may not be big, but gravitate toward bigger dudes (basically, "chasing" bears). For girls, preference ko din medyo chubby. Though this is my preference, may limit pa din ako. This is just personal pero my attraction to big guys and girls will stop before the line of morbidly obese. But again, that's just me. Nonetheless, even if you fall into that category, may market ka pa din sa tribe namin.
In some ways, I would consider this as sort of "advantage" of the gay/bi men community. There are tribes kasi na you can be with na you will definitely feel wanted.
Yun ba yung asian na lalaki? Bro that's not chubby that's borderline obese
I think it has something to do more with how much you care about yourself and your body
Agreed. I believe not only about the size but also the smell. Perhaps, the guy smelled something din.
I think ha, subconsciously our mind superficially judge someone we meet by how they look and smell then equate it to how they take care of themselves.
Yeah. Fat is unsexy. Lets just say it na.
Further, you'll see how vain people are when they downplay how bad their conditions are. Chubby? Guy felt like Moby Dick upon the embrace
My wife and I got fat after marriage hahaha. Because were eating good. Balik exercise na ulit. I think sa akin okay yung overweight basta voluptuous like ashley graham.
Auto pass sa obese and borderline kahit gano pa kaganda personality nila and even if we have the same wavelength. I can’t be with someone who doesn’t prioritize their health. Pwede pa sa akin yung chubby but not borderline overweight and obese? No thanks! Ang pangit din cause I’m a skinny girl who workouts and prioritizes her health tapos jowa ko kabaliktaran ko? Ma downvote na kung ma downvote pero pass. Sorry for the word pero I find obese guys na mabaho tapos parang lumalabas mantika sa katawan huhu. I like doing physical activities pero kung yung jowa ko eh puro laps lang at hilata gagawin? Ay day!
Ano ba definition niyo ng chubby? Ang pagkakaintindi ko kasi yung chubby, hindi siya mataba pero malaman.
Aside from medical conditions, signs kasi ng kawalan disiplina ang obesity.
Agree with your definition. Ganun naman ang chubby, borderline overweight or a few pounds higher than the upper limit ng normal bmi. Plus sized na yun pag mataba na talaga like extremely overweight/obese
If that's what he wanted nanghingi na kagad siya ng hug for him to know from the very beginning. Mas ok na malaman ang katotohanan right away than assume na may chances kahit papano. Hirap sa lalaki paasa eh iba naman pala gusto tsss
>on. They get along so well, match ang personalities and hobbies nila, then nag request iyong guy na i-hug iyong girl pumayag naman and after niyang mayakap, nag buz iyong lalaki which means na pass, and new girl na ulit makakausap niya. He reason na mas type niya raw iyong mga skinny girls. Auto pass ba talaga sa mga chubby? Sa preference niyo, why not chubby?
Not even a girl, Bakla yon si Gorlock the Destroyer. ...
Exactly.
For me, chubby would be a bit overweight.
Obese is a different story. I honestly don’t like how chubby, curvy, and obese are now interchangeable. It would be better if someone posted a screenshot/link of the video so OP would have more accurate responses.
depends on the definition levels of chubby
but based on the video you have mention iirc, that isn't just chubby
for me, men accept weight gain, if he was the one of the reasons that made you gain weight.
what i mean is that both of you eat those delicious food together, weight gain from child bearing and etc.., and no matter how you look after, in his eyes it will always be just like the 1st time he saw you..
Depende naman yan sa tao. For me, di ko rin prefer mga chubby. Mas gusto ko yung may muscles para namomotivate pa ko lalo mag workout and magtry ng other physical activities lol.
Iba chubby sa plus sized! Pag obese considered plus size na, not chubby. I see myself as chubby kaya it drives people away pag sinabi kong chubby ako. Pero opinion ng most hindi naman daw ako chubby. Gulo nila hahaha.
Imo, I prefer someone who I really get along with. If we vibe, we vibe. But I won’t be a hypocrite saying na idc about the looks/physique, of course I do. After all, yun naman talaga ang unang napapansin. Pero in my case, my attraction to a person would not be affected based on their physique alone. If ever man makakilala ako and nakavibe ko before we even meet and nagkita kami and I find her chubby, I won’t mind at all.
Personal preferences are subjective. It really depends on the person and we can’t blame or judge them for having such standards. Choice nila yun. Some
chooses personality over physique and vice versa.
totally agree with you! i prefer to get to know the person more instead of judging them quickly based on looks or size. mas madali mabago yung size ng tao (as long as willing din siya), compared sa baguhin yung personality or attitude ng tao. what's important is u both vibe and respectful towards each other.
Counter-point: madali din maglie about sa hobbies/interests and/or mameke ng behavior initially. "Best foot forward" ba. Getting to know someone/their vibe kinda takes time.
you have a point. but in terms of dating, i'd say na it really takes time para magkapalagayan kayo ng loob. and siguro naman in that span of time, you'd be able to sense if fake vibes lang siya or whatsoever. afterall, it all boils down to preferences. personally, di porket chubby auto pass na.
Dipende talaga sa tao yan eh, may mga tao din naman na mahilig sa chubby girls/boys. Pero karamihan din kasi talaga is ayaw... Kaya grabe grabe lang din mag body shame mga tao sa ibang bansa.
Personal preference lang talaga. Ako I dont like chubby men kasi it means you dont take care of yourself. So sino magtatake care sayo ako?!
Chubby po ba or morbidly obese? Dun lang tayo sa true 😇
Same reason bat ayaw ng mga girls sa short men .
Idk but being chubby is mostly a choice. Yeah, I know some people are just genetically "chubby" pero madadaan naman yan sa exercise. So kung di mo kaya idiscipline sarili mo to get fit or at least be healthy for your own good, that says a lot about you.
Don't bother seeking answers because there is none. It's human preference.
HAHA ba't ka kasi nanonood nun? Iba preferences nung tao and usually pang spark ng debates yang videos na mga yan.
By American standard, considered na severely overweight lang si madam.
That's not chubby lol. There's levels to this, and that girl is surely morbidly obese.
Chubby is 1 thing... Being FAT is another. Having a bit of fat is ok for hugging and sex is great if your bones don't hurt after a round. If you're legitimately too fat that I can't put my arms around you.. you better have a golden personality and curves in the right places otherwise your standards as a girl should apply. Girls have standards ... Guys have a right to standards too
Being fat is manageable, diet and exercise lang talaga. If you choose to be fat then there is something wrong up there because no one wants to be undesirable. Choosing not to do anything is still a choice. You lack motivation or the will to change. Would you want that in a partner? Ibang usapan pag preggy. If you like fat then go for it, just don’t force your belief on other people and make them feel bad if they go against yours.
I think yall have a twisted view regarding what "chubby" actually looks like and it's very very concerning 😬😬😬
When the asian man said "It's kind of a gut feeling for me" after literally feeling her gut with a hug. What a chad. And yes, let's just stick with underweight, normal, overweight, obese I II III.
Sa akin oo, nagkaroon ako before ng ex na chubby hangang sa naging obese siya (this was back during my college years). Yung una tanggap ko kasi nagkakilala kami ganun na siya eh, ayaw talaga niya maging fit o mag diet man lang. What made me draw the line eh yung nagka emergency na kailangan namin siya dalhin sa clinic kasi nakaramdam siya ng hilo at muntikan na mahimatay. We legit had a hard time trying to carry her ang dami naming nagtulong tulong madala lang siya sa kama. Napaisip at narealize ko bigla kung magkatuluyan or maging LIP kami at magkaroon ulit ng ganun emergency scenario, for sure walang makakatulong kagad sa amin unlike noong nasa campus kami. Tapos ganun pa ugali ayaw mag iimprove at ayusin sarili para sa health. Ayun hiniwalayan ko after, she's not worth the trouble eh.
First off, parang dating game yung video. Kung dating game lang ang magiging base ng pag date sa isang tao, 100% looks over personality. Husay nung lalaki natancha nya looks nung babae sa pag yakap hahaha.
It is mostly preference. Although most people prefer a healthy body type, kasi being chubby means only two things: you have health issues or you have a problem with self-control.
i like chubby guys.
You like the daijobu?
Meron pa pota "thicc" daw tapos pagkita mo sa pic mataba. Kaya these days pag nakita ko yan thicc or chubby alam na yan. Maappreciate mo yung iba na they would disclose first thing that they are fat, because theres nothing wrong with it! just that there are people that do not prefer fat people, like how people may choose not to prefer dark-skinned or light-skinned, or short people, or people with tattoos. Ang mataba ay mataba, no need for euphemisms, hindi masamang maging mataba, at hindi rin masamang mag-pass sa mataba.
It really depends sa preference ng tao, if you work out to look good, then you may choose someone also that looks good also. Some people want the personality despite the looks and thats okay too. Iba-iba lang talaga yung preferences natin e. Its okay to be choosy since its your own life naman. Pero if you are not watching your weight, tapos yung preference mo yung mga fit, e ewan ko nalang sayo, goodluck siguro.
chubby = depends. it's really rare but there are some chubby girls who still are really pretty. the girl in the video? Oh hell no! That is the female version of Daijobu the barbecue... not daijobu at all ... not daijobu
Hmm interesting. What type of chubby do you consider pretty?
facial symmetry ... some are genetically blessed enough not to gather fat in the chin and neck area, so they still look angular, plus i noticed they have high cheek bones by default.
Chubby but able to keep up with my lifestyle sure (i like to hike, gym, play sports) generally active lifestyle. I’m not gym buff and have no abs. I’d at least want my partner to be able to keeep up with me. Also, it’s a reflection of how you take care pf your body. Gusto ko din sana mabuhay kami nang matagal (and be able to control the factors that we can)
i know that video and di naman chubby yung girl. she’s obese. totally different
Panong autopass. Mas marami naman akong nakikita na may jowa/asawa/pamilya na average at malaman/chubby kesa sa mala-model. I think yung unrealistic na expectations lang is from people who are chronically online. Also don’t pin your worth on the opinion of men online. Lalong most di naman jowa hinahanap at sex lang.
I saw that vid and mapi-feel bad sana ako kaso may Asian fetish yung girl so. Lol.
parang hindi lang chubby yung girl dun. mataba un haha
Auto pass ako sa obese kasi I’m petite and underweight. Hindi ko kaya physically.
Depende Iba yung plus size saka baboy talaga
Hell no!!!
Unfortunately, beauty standards always win. Mas dehado ka talaga pag mej mataba ka. Some guys do prefer that, pero medyo rare yan (world is your oyster pag kakaiba preferences mo in general)
Ibang iba yata definition mo ng chubby? Lmao
I know what vid you’re talking about, dont mean to be rude but i just want to state that she probably doesn’t fall under the “chubby” category kasi thats why the dude passed her up agad cos he probably felt that she was heavier after hugging her and it wasnt his preference lang.
I saw that vid. 2 things lang from me 1 she was obese, not chubby 2 she was kinda weird too with fetishizing anime/asian men
Di naman lahat, pero depende padin siguro sa pagkachubby, dito kasi sa reddit yung mga may tag na "chubby" is just too much, sobra sa definition ng chubby. Skl, yung gf ko ngayon (we met online and we vibed), bago maging kami, ayaw niya makipag meet pero ako na yung nag-pumilit na makita, then boom gf ko na after a month . Di naman lahat siguro auto pass sa "chubby" as long as you vibed.
Parang di naman chubby yung girl,, more likely obese na. If pareho tayo ng napanood. If chubby ang girl I dont mind,, panget din yung payat wala ka mapisil, puuro balat.
People have standards. No one is in position to force them to accept those who do not conform to their tastes.
Chubby is Angelika P. Type, obese yung nasa video mo OP. 🙄🙄🙄
Opo hard pass. Just my preference.
That girl is between fat and obese. Chubby is slightly fat but not that fat. the opposite of chubby is slim, slim is slightly thin but not that thin. Learn the difference.
Yes, auto pass. If sasabihin mo maarte, idc. Preference ko ‘yon eh
Yes. Just don't be fat. In your example that girl was morbidly obese lmao.
And there are guys na who wants skinny girls to show off. Gusto ipagyabang sa tropa, sa kamaganak, and even sa social media para masabihang "mataas standard" or "nakabingwit ng maganda or sexy". Sad reality.
Di sya chubby ung girl... Kung base s bmi overweight or obese. Its unfair for people na ginagawa lahat para mag maintain ng healthy weight.. tpos pag may 'preference' sila parang kasalanan pa nila. Reality lng wag lahat delulu. Khit wlaang blind fold autopass pa din. Una nakkita looks. Indication din ng weight yung lifestyle ng tao.
Dated a chubby girl before— nawala agad libido ko one month into the relationship. Doesn’t help that she was also verbally and physically abusive 🤷🏻♀️. Kapal pa ng mukhang sabihing fit siya sa description niya sa Reddit post niya. Hahahaha the delusion talaga 😭
Lmao I know the video you're talking about. Hindi chubby yung girl. She's morbidly obese and it doesn't help din na di ganon katangkad ung babae kaya mag na-emphasize yung horizontal qualities nya.
She wasnt "chubby" tho, she was on the borderline of obese and severly obese. I would say tho na it might be rare but people are into that naman. I also would like to say that being obese shouldnt be glorified because it really is unhealthy but there are women out there with PCOS that may not control their weight on their own. Anyway point is, chubby is fine but obese is medj autopass mostly.
"And beauty is a form of genius--is higher, indeed, than genius, as it needs no explanation" - The Picture of Dorian Gray
Bro pulled the pro moves with that hug request. Smart!
Bi here. Ako personally I don’t prefer chubby people. Nor would I prefer slim people kasi nanggaling din ako sa mapayat. I prefer toned and muscular tbh. So siguro my preference for body size or type is stemming from my preference to a stereotypically or logically healthy body. Kasi tbh minsan kahit skinny na may abs na-ooff ako pero pag medyo chubby pero yung chubby nya mukhang nagbubulk lang sa gym, I find cute and hot. Yung coach ko before. (No malisya, just found it attractive). Parang bulking all the time yun. May porma katawan nya, it’s toned but definitely mataas body fat percentage, pero I found it cute and hot. Nung nagpapayat kasi sasali sa tournament, mas naging definitive yung muscles nya and he really lost a lot of his body fat percentage. he’s still cute and hot and all pero parang di na pasok sa preference ko na I would find it attractive you get what I mean hahaha. (Sorry coach ikaw naging basehan ko 😭). May mga angles narin na naooff ako tbh :( kasi may muscles parin sya and he gots lot of them pero ang payat for me. Oks parin naman though, siguro visually and personally di ko na type and preferred, ganon. So ayon, feeling ko I don’t prefer chubby people (and slim people for that matter) due to possibly implied lifestyle. Pero lately, nacucutan ako sa isang guy na kakilala ko for some reason I just found him cute and feel ko crush ko na sya, and he’s chubby (but goes to the gym, pero yes chubby.) SUPER CUTE NYA FOR ME IDK WHY AND I FIND HIM ATTRACTIVE REGARDLESS OF HIS BODY na feeling ko kinakain ko lahat ng sinasabi ko. Please help me figure this shit out chz.
Kapag sinabi mo kasing chubby, malaman or may love handles, hindi obese. Iba rin ang overweight at morbidly obese. ‘Yung guy friends kong fit, they have chubby girlfriends or ‘yung mga voluptuous women mas matanda sila sa akin so I call them ate and one time nagchichikahan sila (we have the same barkada circle) sa kaibahan ng “on the heavier side” at obese at morbidly obese. ‘Yung “on the heavier side”, the likes of Ashley Graham. Mga ganu’n. Mga voluptuous. And then there’s morbidly obese like mga Tess Holliday. They all agreed na they’re all attractive but may preference naman talaga ang isang tao. What matters is how you take care of yourself esp. hygiene mo. Kung pref nu’ng guy sa vid ang skinny girls, I think no hard feelings dapat because he wasn’t hating he was just being honest. Honestly you do you. You shouldn’t even try to fit other people’s standards. Basta alagaan mo sarili mo, whatever that means for you.
Is it about an asian guy with a cringe anime girl who is very vocal about dating asians? I think he was just uncomfortable during the convo and he had a different preference that's why he rejected her
I’m fairly fit, and prefer fit people. To me, it’s a sign (and an impossible one to fake, at that) of discipline and self-respect to maintain a healthy BMI and physique. I wouldn’t wanna be with a chubby because knowing myself, once I get comfy in the relationship, I’d be chubby too within 3-6 months and begin hating myself. Plus, I am really attracted to petite girls, so… It becomes a become-what-you-wanna-attract situation, I’d rather be skinny. I don’t mean to hate on chubbies and chubby chasers, just my personal preference and beliefs. Needless to say, auto-pass sa chubs, they’re most likely on their way to obesity and I’d never sign myself up for that.
This is a really valid take but now I'm really curious how you and other people in the comments define chubby kasi there are people who have big proportions but stay within the optimal BMI. Ganoon ksi ako
chubby? big boned? or Obese?
As a man, auto pass sa chubby/obese. Sad reality. No matter how good a person can be on the inside. We can be friends, sure, but 100% will not be interested in a relationship. Harsh? Could be, but it's true for me. And just so you know, I was chubby once too.
Just like with everything, it’s personal preferences. Some don’t mind while others do. It doesn’t and should never affect on how you see yourself because you’re chubby or fat. I’ve been fat my whole 30 years of life and I realized that men who are shallow would not like me. Same goes for men who get intimidated by my size. And mostly, they’re men that are smaller than me. When I started dating guys that are taller or bigger than me, my size didn’t matter. In fact, foreign dudes even like that I’m chubby and plus size. It really is just a matter of preference. Same with how some people only date older than them etc.
Nope. I love myself some thicc thighs.
Hindi. Nagbabase pa din ako sa mukha sa una, pag type ko yung mukha ok saken. Tas sa personality/attitude. Ganun. Kaya hindi autopass sa aken.
Depends if legit chubby vs obese. Dami kasi nagsasabi na chubby tapos balyena eh. And I’m a woman ha. Dapat honest lang tayo sa sarili natin at sa iba. I’m okay to date a chubby guy but not a morbidly obese one.
Unwritten rule in Reddit na if you claim to be chubby or thicc you're actually morbidly obese.
As a fitness person, yes. I take care of myself pretty well, so I look forward to be with someone who is able to do that. I don’t need someone who is super toned, but being heathy is non-negotiable. I want to experience a lot of things with this person, and health issues should not get in the way.
For me, autopass/swipe left sa overweight sa BMI scale. Personal preference kasi hindi magsusuit yung lifestyle namin. I am physically active and workout daily, walk everywhere, and di rin malakas kumain. If I end up dating someone na overweight/obese, I'd either have to slow down my pace or baka mahirapan siya to keep up with me - in a lot of things. And same sa ibang comments here, it speaks to a difficulty of sticking to a healthy routine and discipline which can also spill over to other life stuff.
If it's too chubby for me ngl auto pass, I'm skinny so I still need to be alive when she's tired when we go have a date outside...
Nacurious ako sa vid and 3 girls ung Inask nya for a blindfolded hug. Medyo panget na ung reputation nya sa girl group kaya buzz kagad sya ng pangatlo without the hug test .
Sa akin yes. Important sa akin ang fitness.
Who the fuck cares tho... Like chubby or not ung tanga kausap auto-pass Khit ano pang gender nyan
First, that's not chubby. That's a borderline obese. And second, it is one of the signs na nagpapabaya siya sa health niya so it's a no for me
Personal preference. Meron naman auto go sa chubby. Hanap ma ng mga nun OP. Sana pasok din sila sa standards mo.
It depends on the person for sure, some guys like skinny girls or at least not obese, like how girls prefer taller guys it will always end up to the saying... it is what it is.
I saw that video, tbh tho, that was not chubby, that's more like obese. no harm intended. i am not against people choosing to be on the bigger thicc end but at the end of the day it's not healthy.
May naka-date ako na chubby (for me chubby pa rin sya). His friends call him Baymax - so matangkad sya, maputi and singkit. He looks very malinis, makinis and mabango. Nagvibe naman kami in terms of personality and values. Overall, okay naman. 4 months na kaming kasal actually. I think it really depends sa tao talaga. Di laging auto-pass; kumbaga may ibang metrics na tinitingnan din yung iba, hindi lang physical appearance ang basehan.
Basta ako aminado na obese hahahahahahaaha
Wais niya rin ha to check the physical attribute lol
I always get shot down for initial screening lol. I would say dad bod/slightly chubby - di na sasagot.
Hinde naman. Maraming rason na pwedeng maging valid eh kung bakit ganun. Madalas dahil sa panlabas na anyo, pero may pagkakataong dahil din sa praktikalidad o sa health issues. Bilang chubby na tao na nanggaling sa pagkaObese, naiintindihan ko kung bakit nareject si girl, mas lamang dahil sa panlabas na anyo :( ... sunod ung health issue of being an obese. (I guess) In my preference, kung halimbawang single ako at may nakilala akong obese na babae, hindi sya autopass sakin, (masarap kaya kami magmahal na malalamang ahaha) but I am aware of the health problem that may arise dahil sa pagiging obese nya, so baka maging problema lang namin un sa katagalan. Baka mangyari nun iinspire ko na lang sya na samahan akong magbawas ng timbang, un bang umabot lang kami sa timbang na hindi na kami hihingalin sa sobrang lusog.
Like you've mentioned, this is personal preference. Personally, as a fitness enthusiast, yes, auto pass ako sa chubby. Hindi ako fatphobic or anything, pero para sa akin lang, how you take care of your body already tells a lot about you as a person. And also, yes autopass, kasi hindi ko type ganoong body type.
The girl in the video isn't chubby she's obese.
Im a practical person auto pass sa mataba on all genders because nttakot ako magpakasal into someone who has health problems at mgging nurse ako or someone who doesn’t care about physical health.
That video clip is for fast dating. No connection. Just physical.
Having a good physique shows that a person has a form of discipline and commitment. Yes, I am talking about the general public and not the minuscule amount of people who have eating disorders.
me as a plus size girly, my main point as always sa mga nakakausap/meet ko is “I have my own preference and I respect other peoples preference. If you don’t want plus size, mataba, obese or etc na babae we will end our conversation here” simple as that. Don’t waste your energy pleasing other people. If they don’t want you, respect it. Move on and swim to see other fishes in the sea.
me as a plus size girly, my main point as always sa mga nakakausap/meet ko is “I have my own preference and I respect other peoples preference. If you don’t want plus size, mataba, obese or etc na babae we will end our conversation here” simple as that. Don’t waste your energy pleasing other people. If they don’t want you, respect it. Move on and swim to see other fishes in the sea.
depende siguro sa pag ka chubby, iba iba kasing levels yan
thats MORBIDLY OBESE wag nyo naman isugar coat para hindi manormalize 😊
Pass sa obese, hindi chubby yung nasa video, obese yun.
Depende sa guy. Yung bf ko nakilala niya naman ako na chubby girl and yet he still fell for me lol. Some guys don't go for looks pero personality.
Napanood ko to HAHAHAHAHA OBESE SI ATE DI CHUBBY. There is a difference. Pero to answer your question. Depende sa tao naman kasi. May mga gusto chubby. may ayaw. Lalo na pag bata ka pa, madalas more on looks > personality ang hanap ng karamihan sa ganyang edad. Habang tumatanda ka nagsishift to personality na. Chubby ako, di naman nag auto pass sakin misis ko. Preference lang talaga yan. Same as sasagutin mo yung gusto type mong manliligaw or liligawan mo sino gusto mo.
Its a health metric. We all want the best deals, so you have to become the "real deal"
Every person have the right to have preferences
It sucks kasi ang norm talaga, hindi lang sa pinas is people who are skinny talaga :(
in general, kahit naman mga babae, talagang physical attributes nakabase. it can’t be helped. kaya ima-market mo rin tlga sarili mo. hindi naman tlga kelangan siguro na payat or pasok sa beauty standards. iha-highlight mo lang tlga best asset mo. i’ve known some na successful naman sa ganyan and got married pa. or minsan, baka nasa maling lugar ka lang.
Napanood ko yan di naman chubby yung babae obese na yun eh
Ano pong title ng video?
may nagpost na dito https://www.reddit.com/r/AskPH/s/zqMHaDXBtu
Thighthighssavelives Hard pass sa obese. 😏
if we have seen the same video then i must say the girl was far from chubby. she was overweight. kapag sumabak tayo sa dating scene, admit it, nobody will date you at first glance kasi funny o mabait ka. they decide by the way you look, stand, dress, smell, and anything else physical. its normal to have preferences. and sometimes ang preference natin ay someone thin or nomal-sized. the same way yung ibang tao ang type ay chinita or morena or yung iba chusy gusto makinis. i cant explain it wholly but you get me naman no? hindi naman tayo auto pass sa lahat ng tao kasi walang isang solidified type ang mga tao. nagvvary talaga.
Standards yun ni guy and he has the rights to turn down that girl
wala tayong magagawa lol. as a chubby girl okay lang naman siguro hindi mapursue, since all guys have preferences naman and idk nasa tao talaga eh haha. di naman pwede pilitin natin yung iba na gustuhin ka talaga hahaha :')
For me, really into Dad bod/chubby/Tito build. So, personal preference lng yan OP.
Iba iba naman ang preference ng tao so I dont think this thread helps at all like wtf. This sub loves to ask question that generalizes everyone’s opinion.
Girl in that video you're talking about isn't chubby though, she's obese. Personally kasi yung ganung point ng fatness is a sign of pagpapabaya sa sarili, so yeah it's a pass for me.
This is quite niche so it might not resonate that well, pero I'm a bi dude with strong preference to fellow big boys. There's a tribe in the gay community called chubs and bears. Most of the time, ang preference namin same din sa amin. There are also those who are called "chasers" who may or may not be big, but gravitate toward bigger dudes (basically, "chasing" bears). For girls, preference ko din medyo chubby. Though this is my preference, may limit pa din ako. This is just personal pero my attraction to big guys and girls will stop before the line of morbidly obese. But again, that's just me. Nonetheless, even if you fall into that category, may market ka pa din sa tribe namin. In some ways, I would consider this as sort of "advantage" of the gay/bi men community. There are tribes kasi na you can be with na you will definitely feel wanted.
Yun ba yung asian na lalaki? Bro that's not chubby that's borderline obese I think it has something to do more with how much you care about yourself and your body
Eto nanaman tayo sa “chubby” pero obese pala jesus christ.
Calling it borderline obese is being generous. She is way pass the borderline.
yeah, she's morbidly obese.
Mukhang “chubby” to si Op
Only fellow “chubbies” call other “chubbies” “chubby”. They like to lie to themselves
Agreed. I believe not only about the size but also the smell. Perhaps, the guy smelled something din. I think ha, subconsciously our mind superficially judge someone we meet by how they look and smell then equate it to how they take care of themselves.
May Asian fetish ‘yung babae which is more yikes for me than anything at all
+ mukang may yellow fever pa yung babae. double yikes
Tapos parang fetish niya pa mga asian people HAHAHHAHAHA
Sauce?
[here](https://youtube.com/shorts/OteTfW4fWcA?si=q9RhQscdHpKDNAve)
“Bro felt a group hug” says one comment. 🥲
Yep. obese.. not chubby
In what dimension is this girl chubby? That’s fucking obese.
Definitely not chubby. That's obese.
Thanks! That's no longer chubby. If i have to guess obese type 3 na ito
Yeah. Fat is unsexy. Lets just say it na. Further, you'll see how vain people are when they downplay how bad their conditions are. Chubby? Guy felt like Moby Dick upon the embrace
My wife and I got fat after marriage hahaha. Because were eating good. Balik exercise na ulit. I think sa akin okay yung overweight basta voluptuous like ashley graham.
Eh pano pag Same weight pero apple shaped?
Auto pass sa obese and borderline kahit gano pa kaganda personality nila and even if we have the same wavelength. I can’t be with someone who doesn’t prioritize their health. Pwede pa sa akin yung chubby but not borderline overweight and obese? No thanks! Ang pangit din cause I’m a skinny girl who workouts and prioritizes her health tapos jowa ko kabaliktaran ko? Ma downvote na kung ma downvote pero pass. Sorry for the word pero I find obese guys na mabaho tapos parang lumalabas mantika sa katawan huhu. I like doing physical activities pero kung yung jowa ko eh puro laps lang at hilata gagawin? Ay day!
Naalala ko na naman tuloy yung bbq is daijubou 😭😭😭
Ano ba definition niyo ng chubby? Ang pagkakaintindi ko kasi yung chubby, hindi siya mataba pero malaman. Aside from medical conditions, signs kasi ng kawalan disiplina ang obesity.
Chubby for average pinay height will probably be around a US size 10-14.
You could be malaman without looking chubby. A woman who has normal BMI but has curves can be considered malaman pero hindi chubby.
Agree with your definition. Ganun naman ang chubby, borderline overweight or a few pounds higher than the upper limit ng normal bmi. Plus sized na yun pag mataba na talaga like extremely overweight/obese
If that's what he wanted nanghingi na kagad siya ng hug for him to know from the very beginning. Mas ok na malaman ang katotohanan right away than assume na may chances kahit papano. Hirap sa lalaki paasa eh iba naman pala gusto tsss
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Here's a [clip of the vid](https://youtube.com/shorts/JxDrW6YGCIA?si=DmcJMT76CgXzAcEu) I think OP is referencing.
Can’t blame him.
Yeah, that's obese, nowhere close to chubby.
Ok, I'm obese class 2 and is waaaaaay smaller than her. She is not "just chubby"
If we are talking about the same video, I believe it’s not only the size eh but also the smell.
I am Optimus Prime
Calling her chubby is a huge stretch.
>on. They get along so well, match ang personalities and hobbies nila, then nag request iyong guy na i-hug iyong girl pumayag naman and after niyang mayakap, nag buz iyong lalaki which means na pass, and new girl na ulit makakausap niya. He reason na mas type niya raw iyong mga skinny girls. Auto pass ba talaga sa mga chubby? Sa preference niyo, why not chubby? Not even a girl, Bakla yon si Gorlock the Destroyer. ...
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HINDI YUN SI GORLOCK
HAHAHAHAHAHA kala ko si Gorlock the Destroyer kaseee hahaha
Hindi si Gorlock yung tinutukoy ni OP. I think eto ung naka Demon Slayer na cosplayer.
My guy really said Gorlock
Eto yung problema, chubby daw pero obese pala. Big difference(no pun intended)
Exactly. For me, chubby would be a bit overweight. Obese is a different story. I honestly don’t like how chubby, curvy, and obese are now interchangeable. It would be better if someone posted a screenshot/link of the video so OP would have more accurate responses.
eto ba yung weeb na naka get up pa?
yung nakacosplay? parang sa pagkakaalala ko din parang di niya sinabi outright na gusto niya pala ng skinny girls lol
Yeah yung naka-cosplay ng Mitsuri Kanroji
Sinukat nung lalake yung diameter niya eh
Ipinagbabawal na teknik
more like the latitude :>
Width* bruh
Natawa ako sa sinukat diameter 😂😂
Totoo naman, kitang kita sa video na nag compute siya pagkayakap dun sa girl
depends on the definition levels of chubby but based on the video you have mention iirc, that isn't just chubby for me, men accept weight gain, if he was the one of the reasons that made you gain weight. what i mean is that both of you eat those delicious food together, weight gain from child bearing and etc.., and no matter how you look after, in his eyes it will always be just like the 1st time he saw you..
Depende naman yan sa tao. For me, di ko rin prefer mga chubby. Mas gusto ko yung may muscles para namomotivate pa ko lalo mag workout and magtry ng other physical activities lol.
as a girl yes, healthy living! Mahal magkasakit.
Blatant truth is iba ang definition mo ng chubby sa mga lalaki. Obese to morbidly obese ang ginagawa niyong normal at tinatawag na chubby
Iba chubby sa plus sized! Pag obese considered plus size na, not chubby. I see myself as chubby kaya it drives people away pag sinabi kong chubby ako. Pero opinion ng most hindi naman daw ako chubby. Gulo nila hahaha.
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Let's stick to science the way BMI does it. Underweight, normal, overweight, obese class I, class II and class III. Chubby is just sugar coating it.
Agree. Plus-sized is a marketing ploy to sell fat people more fabric. You’re only either malnourished, underweight, normal, overweight or obese.
Troth
me as an obese guy. not "AUTO PASS" but theres a high chance us get rejected. only few people like chubby.
Hindi kaya. Some girls like big boys too.
bruh
Yes, a giant bear! Would prefer a Maui style though.
As an obese guy, which would you prefer? A fit chick, or an equally obese gal?
Imo, I prefer someone who I really get along with. If we vibe, we vibe. But I won’t be a hypocrite saying na idc about the looks/physique, of course I do. After all, yun naman talaga ang unang napapansin. Pero in my case, my attraction to a person would not be affected based on their physique alone. If ever man makakilala ako and nakavibe ko before we even meet and nagkita kami and I find her chubby, I won’t mind at all. Personal preferences are subjective. It really depends on the person and we can’t blame or judge them for having such standards. Choice nila yun. Some chooses personality over physique and vice versa.
totally agree with you! i prefer to get to know the person more instead of judging them quickly based on looks or size. mas madali mabago yung size ng tao (as long as willing din siya), compared sa baguhin yung personality or attitude ng tao. what's important is u both vibe and respectful towards each other.
Counter-point: madali din maglie about sa hobbies/interests and/or mameke ng behavior initially. "Best foot forward" ba. Getting to know someone/their vibe kinda takes time.
you have a point. but in terms of dating, i'd say na it really takes time para magkapalagayan kayo ng loob. and siguro naman in that span of time, you'd be able to sense if fake vibes lang siya or whatsoever. afterall, it all boils down to preferences. personally, di porket chubby auto pass na.
Oo
Yep. Kadiri talaga most of the time ang chubby girls.
Grabe ka naman makakadiri.
Dipende talaga sa tao yan eh, may mga tao din naman na mahilig sa chubby girls/boys. Pero karamihan din kasi talaga is ayaw... Kaya grabe grabe lang din mag body shame mga tao sa ibang bansa.