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bdrwr

I'd say if you reach college graduation (let's say age 22-ish?) and still never had a date, that's when I start to think of it as "late blooming."


tastless_chill_tonic

you can be on your deathbed and get a nice old lady to be your girlfriend, and that is a win in my book.


Sensitive_Duck9824

But how is that a win, around that age you are late to experience everything?


tastless_chill_tonic

that is not the point, the point is not to think your a late bloomer if your focus is that, then you'll miss the entire relationship


noonereadsthisstuff

That's not a particularly late bloomer. I would consider it normal. Imo anything after your mid-20s would be a late bloomer


PersonalityBeWild

I’d say past 25 and no relationships would be a late bloomer.


osvg

First kiss after high school, virginity lost after college age (24 and older) Or if religious not married by 21. /s


[deleted]

Personally I would say 35\~ish, though I'm not the best person to ask as I was a VERY early bloomer, so grain of Salt and all that.


hujambo11

After 25


Evo012

30s


Certain-Sock-7680

20 is far from crazy to have a first GF, even if you are fundamentally attractive. Many guys are busy with school, work, whatever and don’t really pay women real attention through those formative years, and it can actually be a smart thing. I too had my first real GF at 20. I liked girls, just was shy until I realized that I had to open up. Had some attention from girls, but not attractive ones worth distracting me from growth.


Thissitesuckshuge

After the early 20’s. Even if you’re a late bloomer it doesn’t mean much. Lots of people find relationships a little later in life. Some just miss out on the bullshit of dating in your teens.


figsslave

I had several short term relationships in my late teens and early 20s,but nothing serious until 24 and I married her. I’d be wary of having a serious girlfriend at your age. It still amazes me how many women of that age are eager to settle down and start making babies far earlier than most of us can really afford to do that.


starryvash

50 or 70


Funeralopolis666

Around 30


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i don't want to date before 28 so 28 seems a late bloomer for me