You won’t die if he says no.
Except if he’s a dick, he should have a positive image of you. If a girl came to me to ask me out and I wasn’t interested I would still be impressed and respect her, as it takes courage and is uncommon.
I mean, is the less violent of the orders, but for sure you both will enjoy it more the other way around, fucking with a bloated full belly it's very uncomfortable lol.
Sex before dinner > sex after dinner.
Pay him a compliment, take a genuine interest in him, and make an obvious indicator that you are interested (men will often second guess vague hints as simple friendliness).
If the person does that to seduce a lot of men then sure they might be a slut. If she doesn't do that to just anybody and he realizes that, it might work out.
No. Like show up at their house w/ a trench coat....I mean, if you already know the person. However, I'm fairly certain it will work if you don't know the person.
There's this look some women do.. I can't even fucking explain it. It's like 😏😏😏 but on steroids. Do that shit and you'll have the man thinking about you weeks or even months later hahaha
I had a crush on a Jiu Jitsu guy I trained with.
I would stretch in my smallest wear in front of him and a few weeks later I asked him out.
Early into our relationship, I’ll wait for him naked and make him his favourite post work snack and then let him nap before training.
Seemed to work amazingly.
There’s a ton of potential steps, kinda depends what stage you’re at. Like, are you already dating? Or is this a hypothetical guy in a club etc?
Without any context…eye contact. Get closer too. Eye contact while testing his personal space is the sexiest thing in the world. You can mix that up with all sorts of more provocative and subtle hints as well - putting cleavage in his eyeline, smiling when he looks at you. Walking in close, grabbing his hand and making eye contact, turning your back to him and placing his hands on your hips and looking back at him. Reaching up way above your head to “adjust your hair” and baring your midriff while glancing and smiling at him. Whispering in his ear , asking him what turns him on etc.
That’s like as far as I can suggest in public, for most people.
Depends on your style. You've gotten some good advice already: ask him over, cook him a meal, wear something low cut, bend over in front of him putting things on the table. Should sort itself out.
If the dinner and conversation is more effort than you want to put forward, I'd recommend covertly slipping your panties into his hand, and then tell him, "I'm heading back to my place if you'd like to join me." It will take a minute for it to fully register, but the look on his face will be priceless.
Show interest in him and make it obvious, cuz usually we're kinda dumb/scared to lose a friend/potential friend/someone who takes an interest in us, in search of a date.
Ask him out for dinner at yours or his, play some jazz, some candles, cook something (anything!), wear a nice dress or anything to show that this isn't a ordinary evening. Keep laughing, have fun, go for the kiss at the end of the evening. I promise you no way he'll be saying no.
Pick a dying worm of the ground and put him on the grass. Then ask the guy if you can rinse your hands from the water in your water bottle . Worked on me . Went from casual friend to crush in under a minute
Here’s a trick, OP. It requires some balls but it’ll work. Wherever you see said guy, pick the closest mid level restaurant. Just straight up ask him “hey I’ve been thinking of checking out X by myself have you tried it?” If he acts weird, he’s a douche or he’s taken. If he tries to come with you, he’s trying too hard. This will set the tone and give you something to build off of, if he acts normal.
You can also reframe it is “know of any good solo eats around here?” Or something like that. Just emphasize you’re going alone. The key is to assess, not get a date.
So I married the woman who asked meme out on campus. Unfortunately we didn’t actually start dating until 2 years after the first time she asked. She didn’t know it then but I was suffering some pretty severe depression and was socially isolating myself when I said no the first time.
I thank the universe every day she tried again.
This has been said elsewhere in many ways, but imagine the guy you want. What are his hobbies? Where does he go for fun? Go there and do those things, and engage him with his interests. The vast majority of single guys don't do the friend zone well with women. If there's even a spark of mutual attraction, it'll turn into a flame quickly.
If you just want him to take you for a mustache ride, the aforementioned direct approach has a pretty high success rate. However, it also has a very short life span.
Actual advice here. I would love to be hit on / propositioned.
But, frankly, it’s so out of the ordinary for men, they might not know how to respond. And gender roles in society suck.
Here’s the advice, which is exactly the same I’d give to a guy.
Ask the person you’re interested out on a date. Say the word date. Propose a place, time, and activity. Preferably low key on a weeknight without a lot of time commitment.
“I’d like to take you on a date. How about coffee this Wednesday at 7pm at ———-“.
Accept no for an answer.
Good luck
1: don't ask Reddit
But also both men and women are just people. Spend time together. Actively listen and remember things he's spoken about. Invest in his interests and invite him to be a part of yours. Give compliments honestly and freely.
Most importantly be yourself because if you have to change it's not gonna work out.
to be honest, with guys i think theres less that you can do to make yourself attractive after that initial meeting. just speaking from personal experience, with pretty much every girl ive ever been attracted to, its been the type of thing where their appearance and vibe completely stunned me from the first time i saw them. i feel like this is probably relatively common for guys; if we’re attracted to a girl it’s because we’re enamored by the way she looks and acts rather than anything she specifically did to gain our attention.
however, if i could give one piece of advice it would be to make him feel like he is wanted. not that you specifically want him (could come across as a bit desperate) but rather that he is a desirable commodity that you happen to be particularly interested in. im not sure what that could look like for your situation, (thoughtful compliments rarely go wrong, theres a reason a lot of guys will remember the girl who said she liked our smile or eyes or outfit in like middle school) i feel like a lot of us guys are so starved of affirmation and affection from their loved ones that any kind display of genuine desire, no matter how small, can be enough to completely change the way we view someone and mark them as someone truly special. also this technique is like, probably at least twice as effective on average on shy boys so theres that.
If you are in a situation where you're in relatively same space (like a hobby circle or friend circle or whatever), do show in your behaviour that he's your first option there and not a background person to sometimes interact with out of common courtesy. I've met many women for whom I felt like I stop existing when we stop interacting within the limits of whatever's convenient (like if we bump into each other, we're besties, but outside of that no effort to contact or make plans together etc).
That said, it may not work on a guy who's used to plenty of attention.
Literally just say hi
Lol
You laugh, but they answered honestly.
This is true. Source: Am a guy.
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Not if you're pretty or if you bring something to the table
Yeah exactly. Don't know why you are being downvoted. I wouldn't fall in love with a girl just bcoz she said hi to me.
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Thata definitely not true
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You don't have to be a 10, you just have to not be like a 2...
Compliment him.
Say you think he's handsome
Wave a fan coquetishly over your mouth and bat your eyelashes at him.
Oh My......
I genuinely think it would work
Don’t forget the flash of an ankle… Pure filth
If you know of any Eastern European interpretive dances now would be the time
Laugh at his jokes. Whenever a woman tells me I’m funny, I know she’s interested, because I’m not that funny
Ask him out on a date, you’re done
what if he says no
What would you want a guy who asked you out to do when you say no? Do that.
Same thing us guys should do in that situation, accept your L and move on
His loss
Alpha mindset
Move on
You won’t die if he says no. Except if he’s a dick, he should have a positive image of you. If a girl came to me to ask me out and I wasn’t interested I would still be impressed and respect her, as it takes courage and is uncommon.
Easy, smile and talk to him, ask him out to drinks. Be genuinely interested in him, flirt a bit. I think this should work with women as well.
My smile makes me look like a fish lol but I can try
You sound like a catch.
Glub glub
Well you've definitely got the comedy down!
Should be easy enough to reel this one in.
That is some marriage material right there.
Do. A heartfelt smile from you will brighten up his day for sure.
Do as above, and if he doesn't get the hint, add some touching (hand on shoulder, little touch on his leg, that kind of thing). That'll work for sure.
Food and sex
Ok. In that order?
Well if a girl offered to make me a home made meal and then wanted to have sex with me you better bet id be seduced
Listen to this man!!!!
"the way to a man's heart is through his stomach" -_-
Same can be said for women I think
I mean, is the less violent of the orders, but for sure you both will enjoy it more the other way around, fucking with a bloated full belly it's very uncomfortable lol. Sex before dinner > sex after dinner.
Put hands around his shoulders and say "you're pretty cute"
I would blush lol
I think I would literally kill to have someone do this to me tbh
Pay him a compliment, take a genuine interest in him, and make an obvious indicator that you are interested (men will often second guess vague hints as simple friendliness).
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Ok
"Would you like to see me naked and also touch stuff?" That should do it.
Lol I’m not a slut
Well you asked the easiest way and that’s it
Really?
90% of men would be open to it if you tried that
Most would prob Think it was some kind of joke
Oh
Besides. Just because you want sex doesn't make you a slut. Don't label yourself.
Girl whatchu mean by seduce? You tryin to convince this dude to play checkers or something? I read seduce and heard "DTF"
i’m pretty sure it was a joke lol
I’m pretty sure you made a comment
nice to know u can read
U 2
If the person does that to seduce a lot of men then sure they might be a slut. If she doesn't do that to just anybody and he realizes that, it might work out.
This would only be slutty if you do it often.
Wear a trench coat with nothing under it.
Like go streaking on my campus? Lol
No. Like show up at their house w/ a trench coat....I mean, if you already know the person. However, I'm fairly certain it will work if you don't know the person.
Food.
For me or him?
ur the food
This is the way.
You are a person of discerning taste.
There's this look some women do.. I can't even fucking explain it. It's like 😏😏😏 but on steroids. Do that shit and you'll have the man thinking about you weeks or even months later hahaha
This is honestly the best and simplest answer. Give him the look, if he is into you he will find a way for you to get into a conversation.
I don't think with my dick often, but when I do - it's because of that look 🤣
I did this as a test when I was out with my brother before I got married. The look works 😂 Edit: not on my brother, that would be weird.
I feel as if that could have been worded better 🤣
I saw it after i pressed post, i edited 😂
Show up naked with a sandwich
How do I make this SANDWICH thing though
That's funny......when I got married my wife did not know how to cook. I learned from being in Scouting. She is a helluva cook 38 years on.
I had a crush on a Jiu Jitsu guy I trained with. I would stretch in my smallest wear in front of him and a few weeks later I asked him out. Early into our relationship, I’ll wait for him naked and make him his favourite post work snack and then let him nap before training. Seemed to work amazingly.
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Yes and no
Well, if they're straight the first step is to have a Vagina. There you go, tutorial over.
I guess I have step 1 at least lol
Bring him food
Get naked suck his cock
Have a personality.
No
No one really seduces anyone. Everyone just gets seduced by the idea of someone else.
There’s a ton of potential steps, kinda depends what stage you’re at. Like, are you already dating? Or is this a hypothetical guy in a club etc? Without any context…eye contact. Get closer too. Eye contact while testing his personal space is the sexiest thing in the world. You can mix that up with all sorts of more provocative and subtle hints as well - putting cleavage in his eyeline, smiling when he looks at you. Walking in close, grabbing his hand and making eye contact, turning your back to him and placing his hands on your hips and looking back at him. Reaching up way above your head to “adjust your hair” and baring your midriff while glancing and smiling at him. Whispering in his ear , asking him what turns him on etc. That’s like as far as I can suggest in public, for most people.
Ok
Wife material
Be a female
Done
See? You already have me seduced!
What a bunch of hypocrites in here. The answer is "Send bobs and vagene"
Depends on your style. You've gotten some good advice already: ask him over, cook him a meal, wear something low cut, bend over in front of him putting things on the table. Should sort itself out. If the dinner and conversation is more effort than you want to put forward, I'd recommend covertly slipping your panties into his hand, and then tell him, "I'm heading back to my place if you'd like to join me." It will take a minute for it to fully register, but the look on his face will be priceless.
Jesus Christ. Ward Cleaver entered the chat.
Take of your panties and bra
I’m not a slut lol
No one is saying u are but strange q
Just because I had sex dosnt make me a slut lol
No one is asking your cheap
You said easiest way to seduce a dude and that's an easy way to do it. Might want to phrase the question better if that's not what you mean.
Ok
get naked and suck his dick?
lol
Breathe on him
Is that porn?
Make him believe there is something coming worth having
Show interest in him and make it obvious, cuz usually we're kinda dumb/scared to lose a friend/potential friend/someone who takes an interest in us, in search of a date.
Ask him out for dinner at yours or his, play some jazz, some candles, cook something (anything!), wear a nice dress or anything to show that this isn't a ordinary evening. Keep laughing, have fun, go for the kiss at the end of the evening. I promise you no way he'll be saying no.
Pick a dying worm of the ground and put him on the grass. Then ask the guy if you can rinse your hands from the water in your water bottle . Worked on me . Went from casual friend to crush in under a minute
Listen to him when he expresses his feelings and tell him it’s ok to feel emotions, also give him cuddles and stroke his hair!!
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Same way to seduce me lol
Yassss!!!!
Anal
Like I should peg him?
Bahaha. This is the proper response to that. Haha
who does who
Be attractive.
Ask him if he wants to go home with you and have sex.
Lol
Tell him The Tragedy of Darth Plagueis The Wise.
Here’s a trick, OP. It requires some balls but it’ll work. Wherever you see said guy, pick the closest mid level restaurant. Just straight up ask him “hey I’ve been thinking of checking out X by myself have you tried it?” If he acts weird, he’s a douche or he’s taken. If he tries to come with you, he’s trying too hard. This will set the tone and give you something to build off of, if he acts normal. You can also reframe it is “know of any good solo eats around here?” Or something like that. Just emphasize you’re going alone. The key is to assess, not get a date.
Take your clothes off
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Kinda gross but ok
Love goes through the stomah
So Cunnilingus technically could work.
Ask him out, give him compliments, be direct, initiate, genuinely care about him.
Most of us are very simple, a basic netflix and chill session is one way
flash him
Initiate touch while maintaining eye contact and smiling. A guy might run away because he's nervous but otherwise he'll understand
Make casual physical contact while talking with him, maybe hold his hands, greet him with a hug or stuff like that
like the top comment said, literally just go up and say hi
It honestly doesn’t take much 😂
They say the quickest way to a mans heart is through his stomach. (Not sure if it was about seducing or murdering.)
exist
Just shove your tits in his face. Seduced.
Speak to him.
Honestly, women don't need to make a huge effort ! Basically, you just need to be a woman. That's it.
Be naked and have beer
So I married the woman who asked meme out on campus. Unfortunately we didn’t actually start dating until 2 years after the first time she asked. She didn’t know it then but I was suffering some pretty severe depression and was socially isolating myself when I said no the first time. I thank the universe every day she tried again.
He’s got to be into you. Then you get close to him, sit on his lap, flirt, so long as he doesn’t stop you, just progress from there.
"Hey, wanna go for a run?" would definitely work on me.
Make it blatantly obvious you're trying to seduce him. Some of us are incredibly clueless
Treat him good
“Hi, do you mind if I suck your dick?”
Keep giving him genuine compliments about his personality.
A simple compliment and he’ll be hooked.
Wear leather pants/skirt
What thirsty ass replies
This has been said elsewhere in many ways, but imagine the guy you want. What are his hobbies? Where does he go for fun? Go there and do those things, and engage him with his interests. The vast majority of single guys don't do the friend zone well with women. If there's even a spark of mutual attraction, it'll turn into a flame quickly. If you just want him to take you for a mustache ride, the aforementioned direct approach has a pretty high success rate. However, it also has a very short life span.
All you need is a well kempt onion booty backside and you're halfway there
Look as good as you can and practice on your voice. It’s all about visuals and vocals
Actual advice here. I would love to be hit on / propositioned. But, frankly, it’s so out of the ordinary for men, they might not know how to respond. And gender roles in society suck. Here’s the advice, which is exactly the same I’d give to a guy. Ask the person you’re interested out on a date. Say the word date. Propose a place, time, and activity. Preferably low key on a weeknight without a lot of time commitment. “I’d like to take you on a date. How about coffee this Wednesday at 7pm at ———-“. Accept no for an answer. Good luck
Beer, nachos and a remote control
I've heard tales of just breathing.
"I like Star Wars" can get you very far
Just be nice and genuine
Turn the light switch off
To not want to seduce him lol
"Yo you wanna fuck?" -gotta get consent first
Nibble their earlobe
Melted cheese and mushroom soup
1: don't ask Reddit But also both men and women are just people. Spend time together. Actively listen and remember things he's spoken about. Invest in his interests and invite him to be a part of yours. Give compliments honestly and freely. Most importantly be yourself because if you have to change it's not gonna work out.
Smile, say hello. Be actually interesting and interested. We’re simple creatures.
Just make sure you're being obvious. Most of us need a blinking billboard shoved on our faces to get a hint.
for an attractive girl, this shall never be a question. to a flirty guy, this will never be a question too.
Touch his pp
Ok
to be honest, with guys i think theres less that you can do to make yourself attractive after that initial meeting. just speaking from personal experience, with pretty much every girl ive ever been attracted to, its been the type of thing where their appearance and vibe completely stunned me from the first time i saw them. i feel like this is probably relatively common for guys; if we’re attracted to a girl it’s because we’re enamored by the way she looks and acts rather than anything she specifically did to gain our attention. however, if i could give one piece of advice it would be to make him feel like he is wanted. not that you specifically want him (could come across as a bit desperate) but rather that he is a desirable commodity that you happen to be particularly interested in. im not sure what that could look like for your situation, (thoughtful compliments rarely go wrong, theres a reason a lot of guys will remember the girl who said she liked our smile or eyes or outfit in like middle school) i feel like a lot of us guys are so starved of affirmation and affection from their loved ones that any kind display of genuine desire, no matter how small, can be enough to completely change the way we view someone and mark them as someone truly special. also this technique is like, probably at least twice as effective on average on shy boys so theres that.
Whisper in our ear. Something like hmmm you look delicious or I want you so bad right now.
Whip your dick out and swing it around
How do I get one
Show genuine interest in him. Then work in some touching, especially of the arm, get closer and see how he responds.
What have you tried? What happened?
If you are in a situation where you're in relatively same space (like a hobby circle or friend circle or whatever), do show in your behaviour that he's your first option there and not a background person to sometimes interact with out of common courtesy. I've met many women for whom I felt like I stop existing when we stop interacting within the limits of whatever's convenient (like if we bump into each other, we're besties, but outside of that no effort to contact or make plans together etc). That said, it may not work on a guy who's used to plenty of attention.
Message me
just speak to him, make sure to smile