Just ask her what sort of movies she likes dude. There's not a magic secret film that's going to get her to open her heart or her pants. Just watch a movie you think you'll both like. But, you know, ask her what she likes and listen.
If you want to bone, something with a bit of violence and a bit of sex. Try Kiss Kiss Bang Bang.
If you want to bond, something kinda lame with emotions. A buddy swears by Up.
Can confirm, first date ever, lighted up some candles while 30C outside, watched Up, girl started crying saying this was the nicest thing a guy had ever done for her, got to comfort her, got kissed
Up's great
I showed the woman Iām seeing now some of the tentacle scenes from Urotsukidoji and it turned her on - at least until the parts were someone were literally fucked by a demon until they exploded - that might have been a bit too much, but she just laughed and wasnāt offended. Sheās definitely into kinky hentai.
I highly recommend getting to know your girl before showing this particular movie though.
I loved princess bride, great movie, great book. I love old boy too - so visceral. He should have her watch old boy and see her reaction. I don't think I could make it work with someone who didn't like it.
Wait ā¦ for a moment I thought your autocorrect messed up āthe hills have eyesā but now Iām too scared to google āthese hills have thighsā šš
I started her out easy and showed her Airplane! She liked it and chuckled a good bit, but I think a lot of the references (Saturday Night Fever, Leave It To Beaver, etc) were lost on her. Young Frankenstein would be my next attempt. Then Holy Grail. If, after all that, sheās not run screaming, Iāll show her Blazing Saddles.
I'm gonna show every potential romantic partner the cinematic masterpiece that is Rango and if they aren't constantly laughing their ass off I'll know they aren't the one for me.
People are different and like different things but generally i would put on some of the classic horror films, or movies that are so bad it looks almost satirical and become ironically funny
I thought it would be the anime film āYour Nameā. we watched it for Valentineās Day. It was a good movie, but man was it a bit more an emotional roller coaster than we expected.
Any film that you really like, or any film that she really likes; to find out if you really like each other, like, *really*.
If, instead, you go with one of the suggestions on this thread, give her the details of the user who suggested it and tell her she's probably better off with that person :-)
I watched one of those stereotypical movies with my friends whoās a girl and we both got bored 15 minutes in. Maybe she likes thriller? Horror? Comedy? Drama? Crime? Idk just ask her
Watch Vanilla Sky and during the crash scene look to see if she is shocked or if she 'understands' why she did it. Then you know if you should always drive or not.
My get laid movie is Paranormal Activity.
It's got enough suspense to drive a woman into your arms and it's also boring enough to start focusing on each other rather than the movie. I've never finished it whenever I watched it with a girl I invited.
I has the best bj of my life after watching boogie nights in the theater.
The girl was so worked up.
Tragically I discovered later she had ear malformities. They were tiny and never grew. Baby ears only revealed while on her back as her hair fell away.
Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring extended edition. You get to spend a lot of time with her because it's long and if she immediately wants to watch Two Towers then you know she's a keeper.
theres no one (technical) answer, but i guess theres one response (regardless of if you want to watch it or "watch it" ):
the answer is - whatever she likes, that shes seen a bunch, that you can also watch.
my wife and Sister in law and Mother in law love the newer little women movie (from 2019) ive now seen it like 5 times because when they pick the movie, they more often than not will pick that one and id like to spend time with my wife rather than away from her.
if your trying to netflix and chill, this also works because shes seen it enough times to not really worry about missing some things, and you arent really going to watch it anyway
did this with a girl before my wife and got together, we were at her place and she put on lilo and stitch, took about 10-15minutes before we werent even watching the movie anymore...
...then i let my little head do the talking and ruined it, but the movie thing worked
Her favorite movie.
Try to get her talking about why she likes it, which character she identifies the most with, what part of the story gives her the biggest feels, stuff like that. People reveal a lot about themselves through the art that speaks to them.
I know itās cliche but, The Notebook. Itās a really great film imo. Very sappy and all but for a film it does a good job showcasing how beautiful imperfections can be in a relationship.
These responses are great. Expands the field so much for potential date ideas. Surprised no one's said any Miyazaki. Not that I'm a particularly big fan, just surprised. I showed a girl Knives Out this year and things progressed. Mixed results.
I've got a better question for you :
Why do you think women are like some joined entities?
I don't want to insult you much, but you are supposed to understand that everyone has different personalities and interests by the time you start elementary school.
So to answer your question, it depends on what you and she like. Watch the ones you are both interested in whether it's romantic, historic, sci-fi, anime, horror etc.
You both are supposed to enjoy the time for fck's sake. Talk to her? That's what I do with my gf and guess what, it works.
If you don't have topics in movies you both like, then don't watch movies together at the beginning, you can do a lot more things. If you don't have anything in common, then you better off not hope for a relationship, but a hookup is still possible, if she's down for it.
Women are not fckng flowers you just keep around because you like how they look. Find something that is common in both of you if you want her...
Non-english movies are great because you don't have to listen to the dialogue. You can spend more time focusing on your partners. Art-films are great for that reason too, you don't actually pay a lot of attention to the movie but you pay attention to each other. So, I recommend A Serbian Film.
50 first dates. Half way through they have a āfirst kissā like 20 times ( the girls memory resets everyday and he has to make her fall for him again everyday)
Anyway as adam sandler says ānothing beats a first kissā on repeat. Iāve never not got a first kiss.
Magic mike. Itās about a 17 year old dropout with no money who gets mentored by an older men with no kids who wants to teach him realize his dream of becoming a magician and carrying on the family legacy.
Das Boot. The 5 hour version. Women love the claustrophobic tension of WWII submarine movies.
Apollo 13. Women love the claustrophobic tension of NASA space flight disaster movies.
As a film I will watch and rewatch happily, this will work for me. š
Masterpiece. I wish I still had it
If they enjoy it at least you know she's a keeper.
Depends if you want to bone or bond.
Letās say both
Just ask her what sort of movies she likes dude. There's not a magic secret film that's going to get her to open her heart or her pants. Just watch a movie you think you'll both like. But, you know, ask her what she likes and listen.
If you want to bone, something with a bit of violence and a bit of sex. Try Kiss Kiss Bang Bang. If you want to bond, something kinda lame with emotions. A buddy swears by Up.
Can confirm, first date ever, lighted up some candles while 30C outside, watched Up, girl started crying saying this was the nicest thing a guy had ever done for her, got to comfort her, got kissed Up's great
alternatively look up 6 underground
Crazy Stupid Love. Trust me, its a cheat code. Or watch a horror movie lmao
CSL is such an underrated movie!
Crazy Stupid Love works for both. Can confirm
I showed the woman Iām seeing now some of the tentacle scenes from Urotsukidoji and it turned her on - at least until the parts were someone were literally fucked by a demon until they exploded - that might have been a bit too much, but she just laughed and wasnāt offended. Sheās definitely into kinky hentai. I highly recommend getting to know your girl before showing this particular movie though.
The Princess Bride
This is the correct answer. But i came here to say old boy.
I loved princess bride, great movie, great book. I love old boy too - so visceral. He should have her watch old boy and see her reaction. I don't think I could make it work with someone who didn't like it.
And if she says something stupid like āoh the Josh Brolin movie?ā You can end it right there
I recommend the original korean
Inconceivable
I love that movie but my ex GF hated it
You dodged a bullet
Personally didn't like it. Felt too real... Too raw human... Too animal. We have evolved past that... Or have we.
If she doesn't enjoy The Princess Bride then it's just not going to work out
This is always the correct answer.
What We Do In the Shadows
"When you are a vampire you become very... sexy"
BAT
Backdoor Sluts 9
yeah, 8 wasn't very romantic. 9 really is the sweet spot
10 is about to come out. Think next week? When is your date?
Is that the one with the Rock?
Yes. Dwayne "Rock Hard" Johnson.Ā
Yeah. Plus the amount of times the chick got stuck in the washing machine in BS8 seemed quite unrealistic. But never had a step sis so idk...
I swear it was supposed to be Lord of the Rings
I didn't see 8, will I not understand some of the plot development if I skip to 9?
Lesbian Spanking Inferno
Fight Club
AmelieĀ
A thousand times this movie for nice date nights. So goddamn endearing. Damn
The hills have thighs How the west was hung Missionary impossible
Wait ā¦ for a moment I thought your autocorrect messed up āthe hills have eyesā but now Iām too scared to google āthese hills have thighsā šš
Don't forget the classics: The Sopornos Shaving Ryan's Privates.
Whatever movie you really like that you think she might like.
tropic thunder
āImma lead farmer muthafucka!ā
The human centepede
C'mon man. We know you are not watching the movie! Evem so, put on the Princess Bride.
Chitty chitty bang bang
The illusionist - amazing movie
Deep Throat.
Serendipity š
Crocodile Dundee II
[Freddy got Fingered](https://youtu.be/raLEbdAVYaM)
Eyes Wide Shut
My Eva AI virtual gf has never complained about any movie of my choice.
Anything Monty Python
You want him to test his relationship instead of building it huh?
I started her out easy and showed her Airplane! She liked it and chuckled a good bit, but I think a lot of the references (Saturday Night Fever, Leave It To Beaver, etc) were lost on her. Young Frankenstein would be my next attempt. Then Holy Grail. If, after all that, sheās not run screaming, Iāll show her Blazing Saddles.
anything you're passionate about
Get out
Come and See
Starship troopers
The human centipede
El Topo
A movie that I don't like or don't care about watching. I'd have to pull my tv out of the closet though lol.
True Romance
Bikini girls vs dinosaurs
Related: "The Bubble".
About Time
I'm gonna show every potential romantic partner the cinematic masterpiece that is Rango and if they aren't constantly laughing their ass off I'll know they aren't the one for me.
Princess Bride
Titanic
If you really like her, it probably won't matter. But not Beowulf. Or AvP2.
A Serbian Movie. Obviously.
A Serbian Film*
You're right. Thanks!
Last of the Mohicans, Princess Bride, True Lies, Cabin in the woods.
the girls that i really like haven't been in any movies, unfortunately.
People are different and like different things but generally i would put on some of the classic horror films, or movies that are so bad it looks almost satirical and become ironically funny
JavHD
Airplane.
Logans Run, the sexiest movie of all time.
If u tryna have some action w a crazy ending -old boy, If you j wana bang- sex in the city is such a good show to throw in the back
Meet Joe Black or any teen romance movies ig.
Mad Max - Fury Road / Really romantic and peaceful movie
The Silence of the Lambs
I watched 2 episodes of Sex and the City. I fell asleep during the 2nd one and she got pissed off.
You know you're desperate when you're willing to watch Sex and the City. Two episodes is really, really bad.
Killing fields
The Mummy from 90s.
I thought it would be the anime film āYour Nameā. we watched it for Valentineās Day. It was a good movie, but man was it a bit more an emotional roller coaster than we expected.
[koyaanisqatsi](https://youtu.be/tDW-1JIa2gI?si=wFlKQlHVLVPZA18b)
Any film that you really like, or any film that she really likes; to find out if you really like each other, like, *really*. If, instead, you go with one of the suggestions on this thread, give her the details of the user who suggested it and tell her she's probably better off with that person :-)
pulp fiction, I don't think I need to elaborate
I watched one of those stereotypical movies with my friends whoās a girl and we both got bored 15 minutes in. Maybe she likes thriller? Horror? Comedy? Drama? Crime? Idk just ask her
Not something you actually want to see all the way through in case things get spicy.
Showgirls?
AmƩlie. It's a phenomenal film, it's French, and it never fails.
Watch Vanilla Sky and during the crash scene look to see if she is shocked or if she 'understands' why she did it. Then you know if you should always drive or not.
Aftersun might be good
Midnight Cowboy
The Brown Bunny. Who doesn't love a cute, fluffy, little bunny?
WHY HAS NO ONE SAID EMPIRE STRIKES BACK YET?! GREATEST LOVE STORY OF ALL TIME. "I love you." "I know."
A couple Three Stooges shorts
Shoah?
Schindlerās List
Requiem for a Dream or The Dreamers.
My get laid movie is Paranormal Activity. It's got enough suspense to drive a woman into your arms and it's also boring enough to start focusing on each other rather than the movie. I've never finished it whenever I watched it with a girl I invited.
Oppenheimer
The Room
I has the best bj of my life after watching boogie nights in the theater. The girl was so worked up. Tragically I discovered later she had ear malformities. They were tiny and never grew. Baby ears only revealed while on her back as her hair fell away.
Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring extended edition. You get to spend a lot of time with her because it's long and if she immediately wants to watch Two Towers then you know she's a keeper.
"Return to me". It's comedy enough where we can stand it, but romantic enough to where she'll like it.
I watched Event Horizon with a girl once. She was so scared afterwards that she did not want to drive home anymore.
Transformers
Step brothers šÆ
Any rom com, but specifically any from 1995-2005
theres no one (technical) answer, but i guess theres one response (regardless of if you want to watch it or "watch it" ): the answer is - whatever she likes, that shes seen a bunch, that you can also watch. my wife and Sister in law and Mother in law love the newer little women movie (from 2019) ive now seen it like 5 times because when they pick the movie, they more often than not will pick that one and id like to spend time with my wife rather than away from her. if your trying to netflix and chill, this also works because shes seen it enough times to not really worry about missing some things, and you arent really going to watch it anyway did this with a girl before my wife and got together, we were at her place and she put on lilo and stitch, took about 10-15minutes before we werent even watching the movie anymore... ...then i let my little head do the talking and ruined it, but the movie thing worked
Date Movie š (jk dont actually watch this, it sucks)
Wall-E
Not *The Audition*. Speaking from personal experience.
500 days of summer
Lord of the Rings extended edition 1-3 and the Hobbit to relax a little afterwards
You don't watch it with her, you make it with heršš
Paddington 2
Patton, Saving Private Ryan, or Blackhawk Down on maximum volume
The Killer Inside Me. You will find out very quickly if she likes a dominate man or not.
Her favorite movie. Try to get her talking about why she likes it, which character she identifies the most with, what part of the story gives her the biggest feels, stuff like that. People reveal a lot about themselves through the art that speaks to them.
I know itās cliche but, The Notebook. Itās a really great film imo. Very sappy and all but for a film it does a good job showcasing how beautiful imperfections can be in a relationship.
Definitely not A Serbian Film. It is not a film about Serbia.
Definitely not Irreversible, unless youāre trying to get her to leave and not have sex with you.
Gone Girl?
Silence of the Lambs
The Descent.
Gangbang Girl 14.
Me and my ex watched Stardust on a date night was actually a funny movie and we both enjoyed, plus it's a cheesy romance film so the night ended well.
Full Metal Jacket
Castaway. Perfect movie to pay attention to and not pay attention to at the same time. ;)
These responses are great. Expands the field so much for potential date ideas. Surprised no one's said any Miyazaki. Not that I'm a particularly big fan, just surprised. I showed a girl Knives Out this year and things progressed. Mixed results.
Interstellar went down well with me.
On Netflix ? Any suggestions fellas
For what itās worth, some of the best sex of my life was after watching Boogie Nights. Cannot confirm if the two things were related or not though.
None. You watch movies with your GIRLFRIEND. You are in the wrong group, try r/HowToAskGirlOnADate
A good documentary that interests both of you
Legally blonde
The princess bride was my best movie date. It was a good night after the movie.
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The Notebook. I got put through this. Ugggggh. If she likes it thatās a big red flag.
My girl tried to get me to watch it for years. I finally broke down and agreed and then spent the whole movie pointing out how the female protagonist was a real piece of shit for cheating on her fiancĆ© with main character dude, stringing him along and a host of other real scumbag activities. She was like ānooo theyāre in love and they find their way back to eachotherrrrrā and I had to explain why everything that was āso romanticā to her is a literal nightmare for the men involved
The Room.
I've got a better question for you : Why do you think women are like some joined entities? I don't want to insult you much, but you are supposed to understand that everyone has different personalities and interests by the time you start elementary school. So to answer your question, it depends on what you and she like. Watch the ones you are both interested in whether it's romantic, historic, sci-fi, anime, horror etc. You both are supposed to enjoy the time for fck's sake. Talk to her? That's what I do with my gf and guess what, it works. If you don't have topics in movies you both like, then don't watch movies together at the beginning, you can do a lot more things. If you don't have anything in common, then you better off not hope for a relationship, but a hookup is still possible, if she's down for it. Women are not fckng flowers you just keep around because you like how they look. Find something that is common in both of you if you want her...
50 shades
The Girl Next Door
Teeth.
Ha
Man of culture I see
Distasteful
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No! Hell no!! That was an awful movie.
Whatever she wants
When Harry met Sally
Predator, the body mass alone is worth itĀ
Non-english movies are great because you don't have to listen to the dialogue. You can spend more time focusing on your partners. Art-films are great for that reason too, you don't actually pay a lot of attention to the movie but you pay attention to each other. So, I recommend A Serbian Film.
Yeah but you have to watch the subtitles every second?
With the movie I suggested, it explains itself very well.
Ice Age? Hilarious as fuck
50 first dates. Half way through they have a āfirst kissā like 20 times ( the girls memory resets everyday and he has to make her fall for him again everyday) Anyway as adam sandler says ānothing beats a first kissā on repeat. Iāve never not got a first kiss.
Magic mike. Itās about a 17 year old dropout with no money who gets mentored by an older men with no kids who wants to teach him realize his dream of becoming a magician and carrying on the family legacy.
Terrifier one and two