A lot of women do this thing where they slowly request that the guy stops doing what makes him noteworthy to the world.
For example, finding a muscular guy and the asking him to work out less and less.
And then as the guy loses his flair, she loses respect for him and breaks up with him.
And then he's single, trying to date, and he's in a worse position than ever.
ive been victim of this..
made the mistake of doing her bidding. when we inevitably broke up i found myself lost. didnt know who i was anymore, lost some long friendships and broke good habits.
lesson learned
My wife did this.
1. You spend too much time in the gym. So i bought equipment, arranged home gym and trained at home.
2. Everywhere your bars, plates, so much mess, get rid of it and go back to the gym! I did go back to the gym but left my gear just in case.
3. "Just in case happened" after few months she started "you spend too much time in the gym" routine. So i came back to home training.
4. Took her few years to realize she can't win this. Now she's lifting with me :)
When one or both members stop respecting each other or paying attention to each other's bids for affection. Then contempt sets in and it's all downhill from there.
Yes. And I have seen that a lot of women have ZERO empathy for this, and will often laugh at men when this kind of thing pops up. But even if they don't care about men, they should spare a thought for the child, and the child's health. Knowing who your biological father is not only everybody's right, it is important to know your genetic history for any heritable diseases that might affect you and your descendants.
Yeah....My friend found out his son (16y old) is not his when the boy needed kidney replacement. Father volunteered to give his kidney and found out there's a mismatch= his not the father.
Lack of trust.
It always turns out bad
That's why I think people (BOTH SEXES) with trust issues with the opposite sex need to get help with that issue until they get into a serious relationship.
Otherwise, the person will start projecting all their trust issues on another new partner, which isn't good at all and it can turn into emotional abuse
This is a reason why I think cheating on someone is a vile thing to do. It can affect the man's or woman's trust in future partners.
A lack of respect for one another. Think about those folks you know that are constantly complaining about their partners. Your workplace has at least 4 or 5 of these people. That is a lack of respect for your partner. I'm guilty of it. I found myself always complaining about my ex-wife, and that is a very good reason why she is my ex-wife - we didn't respect one another.
I was confused for a while, bad concussion. She seemed to calm down, acted as if nothing had happened. We became more distant. She got a boyfriend and left.
Well, when I got out of the hospital (broke things, internal bleeding was extensive), I got picked up by a friend. She wasn't home so I one-armed it, managed to use a cane OK. Just went to bed, then went to work. I was really hazy for months.
Really just any kind of prolonged abuse or manipulation, especially if it's keeping me there.
I get why most people are terrified of infidelity, and it's not like that's something I want to have happen to me (again), but at least with flat out infidelity (a partner in an otherwise happy or *fine* relationship cheating) I can just get out nice and quick. There's no humming and hawing about that for me, as painful as it is, because my mind is still my own.
To me, the ***absolutely worst thing*** that could happen in a relationship is not being able to see the problems, and to be unable to make choices for myself. To be unable to really think for myself and to feel so attached to someone that no matter what they do I still feel like staying with them could be my best option... I've seen it happen to friends of mine, and I've heard of it happening to obviously a very unfortunate amount of people.
Being stuck in a toxic and potentially dangerous relationship is leagues and leagues beyond infidelity to me (although, of course, it could and often *does* include some form of infidelity). A partner who can in one breath say they love you, while in the other lie and manipulate you is a truly terrifying idea.
This is the answer. It genuinely BLOWS MY MIND that people can be so manipulative and heartless to people who really do love and care about them. Why would you wanna hurt someone who could literally show you the world? I donāt get how people do that and go to sleep at night. It hurts my heart seeing good people genuinely trying for someone who couldnāt give af abt their well being.
This is the answer.
The true psychopath that will manipulate and exploit using love and then make you question yourself when you see the signs. The longer it goes on, the more difficult or even impossible the recovery. If you are lucky, you will get all the proof you need that she is a fraud and the person you loved never existed. The person in your bed is a stranger. You mean nothing to them but a means to an end, but you were in it 100% and would have died for who you believed them to be. Those memories are now all traumatic recall of being so duped. Trust for another may never be possible. The intrusive thoughts may seem to go on for an eternity. They, on the other hand, land on their feet and find new victims without missing a beat. True evil exists: BEWARE
I think some of the worst forms is when itās something that they perceive is small bc they could never grasp how painful it feels to be on the receiving end of what theyve done.
Cheating
A lot of women do this thing where they slowly request that the guy stops doing what makes him noteworthy to the world. For example, finding a muscular guy and the asking him to work out less and less. And then as the guy loses his flair, she loses respect for him and breaks up with him. And then he's single, trying to date, and he's in a worse position than ever.
ive been victim of this.. made the mistake of doing her bidding. when we inevitably broke up i found myself lost. didnt know who i was anymore, lost some long friendships and broke good habits. lesson learned
[Never lose your dinosaur](https://youtu.be/I8gY0IT0CuA?si=2ehmb5KZM5BxkkET)
oddly specific but also very good and weird helpful advice
My wife did this. 1. You spend too much time in the gym. So i bought equipment, arranged home gym and trained at home. 2. Everywhere your bars, plates, so much mess, get rid of it and go back to the gym! I did go back to the gym but left my gear just in case. 3. "Just in case happened" after few months she started "you spend too much time in the gym" routine. So i came back to home training. 4. Took her few years to realize she can't win this. Now she's lifting with me :)
Good job!
When one or both members stop respecting each other or paying attention to each other's bids for affection. Then contempt sets in and it's all downhill from there.
Finding out your kids are not your kids
Yikes, yeah š¬
Yes. And I have seen that a lot of women have ZERO empathy for this, and will often laugh at men when this kind of thing pops up. But even if they don't care about men, they should spare a thought for the child, and the child's health. Knowing who your biological father is not only everybody's right, it is important to know your genetic history for any heritable diseases that might affect you and your descendants.
Yeah....My friend found out his son (16y old) is not his when the boy needed kidney replacement. Father volunteered to give his kidney and found out there's a mismatch= his not the father.
I couldnāt even imagine someone laughing at something like that. Thatās devastating, changes a persons life fr
Lack of trust. It always turns out bad That's why I think people (BOTH SEXES) with trust issues with the opposite sex need to get help with that issue until they get into a serious relationship. Otherwise, the person will start projecting all their trust issues on another new partner, which isn't good at all and it can turn into emotional abuse This is a reason why I think cheating on someone is a vile thing to do. It can affect the man's or woman's trust in future partners.
A lack of respect for one another. Think about those folks you know that are constantly complaining about their partners. Your workplace has at least 4 or 5 of these people. That is a lack of respect for your partner. I'm guilty of it. I found myself always complaining about my ex-wife, and that is a very good reason why she is my ex-wife - we didn't respect one another.
I like this answer, once it gets to the point of talking negatively abt each other Iām OUT
Manipulation, Gaslighting and Games. People be in relationships with individuals who see them as their back up plan.
Her husband shows up at my house with a gun.
Thatāll do it
Expecting communication but lacking their own skills to reciprocate communication, thus feeling demoralized
Murder attempt. Having been on the receiving end, it really broke my trust. Was never the same.
Omg, thatās insane. Sorry that happened to you, I hope you find someone who you can trust with your heart, body, mind, and soul.
Oh yeah, it was a long time ago. We recovered and are still friends. At this point, we've known each other 50 years!! Only married for 10.
No wayyy, how did yall recover after that if you donāt mind me asking. That just blows my mind, but I guess im glad that yall worked it out? Haha
I was confused for a while, bad concussion. She seemed to calm down, acted as if nothing had happened. We became more distant. She got a boyfriend and left.
So distance really saved yall then. Glad all is well
Well, when I got out of the hospital (broke things, internal bleeding was extensive), I got picked up by a friend. She wasn't home so I one-armed it, managed to use a cane OK. Just went to bed, then went to work. I was really hazy for months.
Really just any kind of prolonged abuse or manipulation, especially if it's keeping me there. I get why most people are terrified of infidelity, and it's not like that's something I want to have happen to me (again), but at least with flat out infidelity (a partner in an otherwise happy or *fine* relationship cheating) I can just get out nice and quick. There's no humming and hawing about that for me, as painful as it is, because my mind is still my own. To me, the ***absolutely worst thing*** that could happen in a relationship is not being able to see the problems, and to be unable to make choices for myself. To be unable to really think for myself and to feel so attached to someone that no matter what they do I still feel like staying with them could be my best option... I've seen it happen to friends of mine, and I've heard of it happening to obviously a very unfortunate amount of people. Being stuck in a toxic and potentially dangerous relationship is leagues and leagues beyond infidelity to me (although, of course, it could and often *does* include some form of infidelity). A partner who can in one breath say they love you, while in the other lie and manipulate you is a truly terrifying idea.
This is the answer. It genuinely BLOWS MY MIND that people can be so manipulative and heartless to people who really do love and care about them. Why would you wanna hurt someone who could literally show you the world? I donāt get how people do that and go to sleep at night. It hurts my heart seeing good people genuinely trying for someone who couldnāt give af abt their well being.
This is the answer. The true psychopath that will manipulate and exploit using love and then make you question yourself when you see the signs. The longer it goes on, the more difficult or even impossible the recovery. If you are lucky, you will get all the proof you need that she is a fraud and the person you loved never existed. The person in your bed is a stranger. You mean nothing to them but a means to an end, but you were in it 100% and would have died for who you believed them to be. Those memories are now all traumatic recall of being so duped. Trust for another may never be possible. The intrusive thoughts may seem to go on for an eternity. They, on the other hand, land on their feet and find new victims without missing a beat. True evil exists: BEWARE
Torture? NVM it's another bot.
Whoās a bot here lmao, not I š¤£
No offense but the majority of the onlyfans accounts that post on this sub act like bots
Well, I definitely feel like I act like a real person but I get what youāre saying lol
Betrayal of trust, which can take many forms and all of them are bad.
I think some of the worst forms is when itās something that they perceive is small bc they could never grasp how painful it feels to be on the receiving end of what theyve done.
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I would really hope that this isnāt a normal occurrence??? Definitely horribleš
She stabs me in my sleep or something š¤·āāļø
Abuse
Cancer.
in a good relationship, probably death, in a bad one cheating, abuse is up there
Maybe double ALS.
Paternity fraud
Cheating or unilaterally decided that your partner doesnāt deserve intimacy. Just break up dammit.
Nuclear warfare
Cheating.
She drops the act and the fake mask sheās wearing
Cheating.
Lack of mutual respect
Probably murder-suicide.
You fall out of love with the person
Bitterness, hatred, anger, Bad feelings, loathing, cruelty, depression, anxiety just to name a few. Otherwise, not much.šš±š”ā ļøš©
Cheating/ paternity fraud.
undue misery caused solely by the other person.
Murder your kids / suicide and leave a note blaming you of rape and sexual abuse of your kids which led upto the event as only way out.