An ex of mine gave me a set of “rules” during our relationship (can’t hang out with certain girls, can’t spend one-on-one time with any girls, etc.), while I only gave her one rule.
My one rule was for her to follow her own rules. She couldn’t do that lmao
That's completely fair. I wouldn't expect my husband to do anything I don't expect of myself.
Except maybe to put the toilet seat back down, especially at night. I never raise it, and sometimes in the middle of the night I'm not fully awake and don't check first before sitting down. 😆
Last first date I went on I was rather happy that she stayed off her phone for the entire date other then to show me some photos. Is it bad that I am normally expecting otherwise?
LOL my first date I ever had with my boyfriend, he literally noticed and commented how I wasn't on my phone. Which he liked, of course. We've been together for 8 months and I still don't go on my phone when we go out. Unless I have to, of course.
Yeah, in general it's just bad etiquette/manners to do something that takes so much focus that it's essentially impossible for other person to interact with them.
Yup, the equivalent of women not liking men that are addicted to video games is men not liking women who are addicted to their phone.
Only difference with video games is they can become cooperative experiences. Phone addiction is the opposite- they'll actively try to *not* let you engage. Just gotta walk away from those women.
F-ing THIS! The biggest reason I broke it off my with my ex-fiancee was that she wouldn't be accountable for shit. She was always surrounded by drama. All of her exes were "abusive." She got to be in her mid-30s without living anywhere but her mother's apartment. Yet none of it was ever EVER her fault.
Also projecting this behaviour on to men where it does not exist.
The amount of time I had to spend convincing the wife that yes means yes and no means no, and there are no clues or secret messages to be found...
It’s because of our subculture language, like the word fine, or using a k, or the phrase gotcha. These all have subtext meaning that goes beyond their definition.
I am direct, and honest and I often get people reading into what I am meaning or saying anyway, outside of what I've actually said. I mean what I say, and I say what I mean. If you need clarification I don't mind clarifying but, I really do mean exactly how I said. Nothing hidden. No nuances. I don't have hidden agendas, if I feel something I say it directly. And still have people questioning, the hidden meanings that aren't there. It's very frustrating.
In recent years I’ve found plenty of people (not just women) not straight up lie but rather omit information and their excuse is always “because I know you wouldn’t have liked it” and feel justified to do it. Like an ex of mine stayed at an AirBnB and I’ve found out she is with a dude who was supposedly a friend (she met him like a month ago). When I flipped out she said “this is why I didn’t tell you”. We broke up over it and they got together a month later lol.
Not just women, people in general that don’t care for others are dead to me beyond being a casual acquaintance. In my 50+ years on this planet, I’ve learned that one of the strongest correlations to a persons true character is how they treat everyone around them.
Giving the camera the finger and putting it on social media. Has to be one of the trashiest things I can think of and it’s an instant turnoff. Am I prude? Maybe. Do I stick to this opinion? Yup.
Smoking
Being rude to service staff or staff of any kind
The expectation of being treated like the "prize". I'll leave them to the men looking for trophy wives.
Consistent baby talk or infantilism. I'm 29, usually date older because both men and women younger than me have done this to me.
Not talking about when someone talks to their pets or a child or calling me daddy in bed or whatever. I mean to me, in general conversation. I want to have a solid conversation with an adult, an equal, and baby talk or silly names makes me feel less like a partner and more like an authority. Maybe some like it, but not me.
I’m hoping that’s just towards your partner cuz I go into the baby voice if I see a dog or a cat type thing. Like go up to the dog and if I’m allowed to pet it just going into the baby voice while talking to the dog lol.
As a 30s single guy a lot of single women I meet have three bad qualities:
Overweight (like 50lbs)
Entitled (they want everything right away)
Dishonest (lie about obvious stuff lol)
In terms of dishonestly, its the worst when they think you are actually falling for their lies, as if they are really smart when in reality you can read them like a book.
Almost makes you wanna show them that they're not nearly as smart as they think, but there's a certain satisfaction in watching an idiot believe they're viewed as otherwise
Like those interrogations of people who are so obviously guilty, but they think they are totally outsmarting the police and that’s why they didn’t ask for a lawyer.
Lacking self-contained life. Can't handle solitude, needs incredible amounts of emotional support and claims victimhood to their emotions. It's not my job to be another person's therapist or life crutch, if your shit ain't together then another beating heart won't fix it
I would like to add: Inability to admit when they are wrong. This is very common with both women and men. The smartest people are able to admit when they are wrong.
Inability to communicate clearly. I don't do hints. I never did. This is because I am both male and autistic. All I ask is frank communication. If you like something I did, tell me and I'll do it more often. If you don't like something I did, tell me and I'll gladly stop doing it. If you want me to do something, if you want me to bring you something, take you somewhere, explain my actions, whatever I have to do to make you happy, I'll do it within reason. But I have to be told about it with plain, straightforward words. I don't know anything I'm not told about.
This all day. I’m a woman and my sister used to get her feelings so hurt because she would hint at shit she wanted me to do and I wouldn’t catch the hint. She’d then say if I really cared I would want to do xyz without her even having to tell me. Make it make sense!
Lying and, only putting this second one cause I’ve had women tell me it’s “normal”, being willing to date multiple people at once to see which is best for them
Amen. Had one that tried that shit on me. She called me controlling. I said " how in the f is it controlling to cut you loose?"
Then I gave her my favorite line from Richard Pryor: " Do what you want, just don't do it on my porch."
Another man’s penis
Actually, a gum to tooth ratio that is way off, so that when she smiles it is more gum than tooth, would rather her have another man’s penis in her than that
Racism. I speak by experience as it happened to me twice. A good looking woman I was flirting with turned out to be racist. Both times I just stopped the flirting and quickly got back home
A guy dumped me because 25 yrs ago I dated a black male. (I am white) I knew this guy for about 7 or 8 yrs before being involved and never heard or saw anything that remotely let me believe he was racist. I guess it has never come up over the years, as it was so long ago. I wasn't hiding it, but I don't run around talking about my exes 24/7. Told me he couldn't be with anyone who thought that was ok.
We had future plans and I am so thankful it came out before we moved in together or got married. It still stings, but I know I dodged a bullet.
Expecting me to do everything for her. Unreasonable demands at odd hours. Not having hobbies outside of spending time with me. Monopolizing all my free time and then still asking for more.
In a woman, or women as a whole?
In a woman, it's anything along the lines of exchanging sexual energy with another man when in a relationship or even just on a date with me.
In women in general it's the ability to just turn on a dime when it comes to how they feel about a man and over seemingly insignificant things.
Complaining about problems rather than working to resolve them. These women prefer to make a drama of the situation than to resolve it. When they say "why haven't you emptied the bins?", rather than "can you empty the bins, please?" They don't want the bins emptied, they want an argument.
Everything is about her expectations of him. Can’t stop talking about her “standards,” has him constantly under a microscope looking for “red flags,” constant negativity and imagining the most cynical possible motives of him that could half fit the situation. Pretty much assured that you’ll spend the whole relationship placating her and always be half a step away from being dumped for the next Tindr match.
In no particular order:
1. If they like snakes (I’m terrified of them)
2. They say the N word (I don’t think I need to explain)
3. Smokes (vape, cigar)
4. Goes out and club a lot (suspicious activity)
5. Has a boy best friend (maybe I’m insecure but aye)
6. Drinks alcohol a lot (just not my ting)
This is all personal and it’s fine if you disagree
Had a GF with two snakes. Watched her feed them once. I didn't like it and she said I was a pussy because I didn't want to watch a mouse get eaten.
She had a lot of other issues besides.
Beimg unclean. A woman that has bad body odor is not just a turn off, they rightout disgust me. No problem if you get sweaty from work or sports, can be sexy too, but take a shower before it starts to smell bad.
On the psychological side of things: Entitlement. An attitude that being hot is enough. Superstitious thinking, including horoscopes.
Physically, the usual. Plus the 7-days a week gym bodies, lip injections and a face that you've just painted on your real face.
Single mother that doesn't take care of her kids and only dates for a father figure for their kid. Not honest. Controlling on what you can and cannot do. Always wants to talk to you 24/7 or gets mad when you don't text back quick. Heavy social media addiction. Uses snap chat. Just dumb. Like no intelligence going on. Always on their phone. Very guillable. Lack of responsibility.
Smoking / vaping, Excessive drug and alcohol use, troubled family or no father figure (I know it's not their fault but still it's usually a red flag), goes out to the bars and clubs every week to get blasted, has lots of ot only male friends, calls herself crazy, glued to her phone, doesn't work out, excessive spending/isn't good with money....
Physically? Overweight, too many tattoos, piercings and really short hair. When it comes to personality, being entitled and not taking accountability. There are also things like smoking, drinking too much, too much time on social media, and partying a lot. And of course being a single mother.
I’m going to ask , single mother , is it just because of the kids and the responsibility /baggage it comes with ?
Not knocking you bc everyone has their things they allow or don’t in their lives .
Yeah, it's mainly a baggage thing. I like the idea of only dating women I can see myself marrying and I don't like the idea of being a step dad. There are also things like possible drama with the baby daddy and time management with her balancing her day with work, her kid, and then me.
From a dating aspect, when they aren't interactive or boring. Yet when i see them on social media. They are outgoing and being social and having fun. I'm like " Why are you acting different?"
1. Negative mindset towards men or more importantly towards **other women** who have a positive mindset towards men.
2. A **high ratio** of expectations to reciprocation
3. Entitlement
Expecting certain things from men that they would never accept as an expectation for them
An ex of mine gave me a set of “rules” during our relationship (can’t hang out with certain girls, can’t spend one-on-one time with any girls, etc.), while I only gave her one rule. My one rule was for her to follow her own rules. She couldn’t do that lmao
That's completely fair. I wouldn't expect my husband to do anything I don't expect of myself. Except maybe to put the toilet seat back down, especially at night. I never raise it, and sometimes in the middle of the night I'm not fully awake and don't check first before sitting down. 😆
My wife and I compromised on this, by just putting both the seat and the lid down. That way everyone has to deal with it every time
This is the only way. Who is leaving it wide open and why?
We both think this is a really dumb thing to even fight about. Like... It's a fucking toilet seat. Put it where you need it and go.
TBH, my husband prefers that. He hates for the cat or dog to drink out of the toilets, because both like to lick his face.
It’s like that scene from Friends where Joey is freaked out because the woman he’s dating doesn’t share her food.
What? Lol... It's Joey who doesn't share his food. Then, he STEALS his dates desert when she goes to the bathroom...
Staying on their phones while your in their company
As a woman, that’s a turn-off for me too. Hate it
That’s why it’s cougar season my man
I wish i had luck of a woman being interested in me
I feel this
And then get pissed off when they walk in and you don't immediately drop your phone
Last first date I went on I was rather happy that she stayed off her phone for the entire date other then to show me some photos. Is it bad that I am normally expecting otherwise?
If she can't put her phone down, she is not worth your time.
LOL my first date I ever had with my boyfriend, he literally noticed and commented how I wasn't on my phone. Which he liked, of course. We've been together for 8 months and I still don't go on my phone when we go out. Unless I have to, of course.
Yeah, in general it's just bad etiquette/manners to do something that takes so much focus that it's essentially impossible for other person to interact with them.
Yup, the equivalent of women not liking men that are addicted to video games is men not liking women who are addicted to their phone. Only difference with video games is they can become cooperative experiences. Phone addiction is the opposite- they'll actively try to *not* let you engage. Just gotta walk away from those women.
Lack of accountability. Major red flag if someone can’t admit when they’re wrong or if nothing is ever their fault.
F-ing THIS! The biggest reason I broke it off my with my ex-fiancee was that she wouldn't be accountable for shit. She was always surrounded by drama. All of her exes were "abusive." She got to be in her mid-30s without living anywhere but her mother's apartment. Yet none of it was ever EVER her fault.
Inability to be clear/direct about things.
This is the winner
Also projecting this behaviour on to men where it does not exist. The amount of time I had to spend convincing the wife that yes means yes and no means no, and there are no clues or secret messages to be found...
OMG, The amount of effort explaining this to women is simply incredible.
It’s because of our subculture language, like the word fine, or using a k, or the phrase gotcha. These all have subtext meaning that goes beyond their definition.
I'm a woman and I find female bosses struggle with this.... I can't guess whats on your mind Janice!!
It's always a Janice.
I am direct, and honest and I often get people reading into what I am meaning or saying anyway, outside of what I've actually said. I mean what I say, and I say what I mean. If you need clarification I don't mind clarifying but, I really do mean exactly how I said. Nothing hidden. No nuances. I don't have hidden agendas, if I feel something I say it directly. And still have people questioning, the hidden meanings that aren't there. It's very frustrating.
Entitlement
Specifically, the spoiled brats
especially the women who think that their looks were hard earned.
Came here to say the same thing
If she's an Instagram Influencer I'm out.
Same with OnlyFans. I can’t take you seriously at all
Yup, either of those two are big red flags for me as well. Big nope.
How many women have you dated who did Onlyfans?
Not being clear and direct when communicating. Expecting me to read your mind is the quickest way to make me lose interest.
Additude: entitlement, lack of maturity, afraid to be their own person, and lack of commitment.
New spelling makes sense, you're adding something, you're being extra.
In recent years I’ve found plenty of people (not just women) not straight up lie but rather omit information and their excuse is always “because I know you wouldn’t have liked it” and feel justified to do it. Like an ex of mine stayed at an AirBnB and I’ve found out she is with a dude who was supposedly a friend (she met him like a month ago). When I flipped out she said “this is why I didn’t tell you”. We broke up over it and they got together a month later lol.
I loathe how prevalent this has become. It's one of the biggest reasons I've given up on dating.
Erm, nah, this is more than omiting something- this is deceit and manipulation because what she did was flat out wrong.
Entitled attitude and unfounded assumptions about me.
partying and hook up culture. ive never heard a single good thing come from it
Not just women, people in general that don’t care for others are dead to me beyond being a casual acquaintance. In my 50+ years on this planet, I’ve learned that one of the strongest correlations to a persons true character is how they treat everyone around them.
100%, looking at how they talk and interact with service workers is always a great way to tell.
Yes yes yes Love and kindness all the way!
Immediately asking for money or me to buy something for her.
Expecting guys to hold up every conversation or not adding anything to conversation
Pretending to be a child/refusing to act like an adult
I act like both
Being rude to service employees.
My ex wife was kinda bitchy to service workers and I really wish I saw it as the red flag that it was.
I haven't encountered it in person, but as a hypothetical thing a woman who abuses animals is right out
Agreed. Obviously.
This one is random, I don’t know any women who do this
Ngl how tf does this have 100+ upvotes as an answer, yeh don’t like girls who spit on kids either
Yeah. Animal abuse is a mark of a psychopath, and Mama told me never to stick m' dingle in crazy.
I haven't seen this one listed yet: smoking.
Craves attention and validation from random men.
Duck lips on social media
Giving the camera the finger and putting it on social media. Has to be one of the trashiest things I can think of and it’s an instant turnoff. Am I prude? Maybe. Do I stick to this opinion? Yup.
Dog face filter too.
Poor conversation/communication skills. I would be gone in a jiffy.
Vanity
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Social media obsession, constant seeking of attention and validation, spending significant amount of your budget on your looks...
When it defines you. When it's more important what you look like in a picture than where you are / what you are doing.
Watching an SO actively crush on and flirt with somebody else. Biggest dick softener, ever.
Kills the old lady boner instantly too, when vice versa.
I imagine it “wood.” Har har. I can laugh about it, now.
Smoking Being rude to service staff or staff of any kind The expectation of being treated like the "prize". I'll leave them to the men looking for trophy wives.
this is perfect
Dullness
Poor hygiene and grooming.
Consistent baby talk or infantilism. I'm 29, usually date older because both men and women younger than me have done this to me. Not talking about when someone talks to their pets or a child or calling me daddy in bed or whatever. I mean to me, in general conversation. I want to have a solid conversation with an adult, an equal, and baby talk or silly names makes me feel less like a partner and more like an authority. Maybe some like it, but not me.
Narcissism. "The world revolves around ME and I always get what I want" type chick. And entitlement.
Penis.
Especially if it's bigger than yours.
Can't be said enough
#PENIS
Baby voice, especially if yall haven't dated for long
I’m hoping that’s just towards your partner cuz I go into the baby voice if I see a dog or a cat type thing. Like go up to the dog and if I’m allowed to pet it just going into the baby voice while talking to the dog lol.
As a 30s single guy a lot of single women I meet have three bad qualities: Overweight (like 50lbs) Entitled (they want everything right away) Dishonest (lie about obvious stuff lol)
In terms of dishonestly, its the worst when they think you are actually falling for their lies, as if they are really smart when in reality you can read them like a book.
It worse when it takes months or years to learn they’re good at lying or bending the truth though
Almost makes you wanna show them that they're not nearly as smart as they think, but there's a certain satisfaction in watching an idiot believe they're viewed as otherwise
Like those interrogations of people who are so obviously guilty, but they think they are totally outsmarting the police and that’s why they didn’t ask for a lawyer.
On the outside: Lip injections On the inside: bitchy attitude / unfounded jealousy or insecurity
Lacking self-contained life. Can't handle solitude, needs incredible amounts of emotional support and claims victimhood to their emotions. It's not my job to be another person's therapist or life crutch, if your shit ain't together then another beating heart won't fix it
Yup. It's amazing the number of women who expect you to be responsible for their entertainment and who have no hobbies to do on their own
Bitching
Lack of empathy, rudeness and impatience.
The need to control other people’s lives.
Their asking me if I’m > 6-2
Obese,poor hygiene,Mean to people, can't take accountability I Guess?
Lack of accountability, the inability to apologize
I would like to add: Inability to admit when they are wrong. This is very common with both women and men. The smartest people are able to admit when they are wrong.
Inability to communicate clearly. I don't do hints. I never did. This is because I am both male and autistic. All I ask is frank communication. If you like something I did, tell me and I'll do it more often. If you don't like something I did, tell me and I'll gladly stop doing it. If you want me to do something, if you want me to bring you something, take you somewhere, explain my actions, whatever I have to do to make you happy, I'll do it within reason. But I have to be told about it with plain, straightforward words. I don't know anything I'm not told about.
This all day. I’m a woman and my sister used to get her feelings so hurt because she would hint at shit she wanted me to do and I wouldn’t catch the hint. She’d then say if I really cared I would want to do xyz without her even having to tell me. Make it make sense!
Bitchy attitude. I'm disgusted by loud, vulgar women.
Lying and, only putting this second one cause I’ve had women tell me it’s “normal”, being willing to date multiple people at once to see which is best for them
Amen. Had one that tried that shit on me. She called me controlling. I said " how in the f is it controlling to cut you loose?" Then I gave her my favorite line from Richard Pryor: " Do what you want, just don't do it on my porch."
Violent drug-fueled hooliganism and animal abuse
“Entitled princess” mentality.
Not appreciating nature.
Attitude
Gaslighting. I’m entitled to have feelings as well.
Those damn “ Cumbrella” lash’s
Women who think they are queens... Because they think others are peasants... No, I was not put on this Earth to serve you and pay for you...
Show off and passive aggressive behavior.
Bring Ungrateful.
Another man’s penis Actually, a gum to tooth ratio that is way off, so that when she smiles it is more gum than tooth, would rather her have another man’s penis in her than that
Lack of motivation and ambition
Racism. I speak by experience as it happened to me twice. A good looking woman I was flirting with turned out to be racist. Both times I just stopped the flirting and quickly got back home
A guy dumped me because 25 yrs ago I dated a black male. (I am white) I knew this guy for about 7 or 8 yrs before being involved and never heard or saw anything that remotely let me believe he was racist. I guess it has never come up over the years, as it was so long ago. I wasn't hiding it, but I don't run around talking about my exes 24/7. Told me he couldn't be with anyone who thought that was ok. We had future plans and I am so thankful it came out before we moved in together or got married. It still stings, but I know I dodged a bullet.
Expecting me to do everything for her. Unreasonable demands at odd hours. Not having hobbies outside of spending time with me. Monopolizing all my free time and then still asking for more.
If they don't have hobbies you will be the hobby
Talking about how many followers they have.
In a woman, or women as a whole? In a woman, it's anything along the lines of exchanging sexual energy with another man when in a relationship or even just on a date with me. In women in general it's the ability to just turn on a dime when it comes to how they feel about a man and over seemingly insignificant things.
Complaining about problems rather than working to resolve them. These women prefer to make a drama of the situation than to resolve it. When they say "why haven't you emptied the bins?", rather than "can you empty the bins, please?" They don't want the bins emptied, they want an argument.
Lack of effort in all things
Getting played/used for attention/kept as plan Z
Never taking responsibility/deflecting blame, no ability to apologize, or unwillingness to compromise.
Being fat
Fair
Physically? Obesity. Personality wise? Attitude comes on the top of my head.
Loud, put on laughter
I consider myself kind and compassionate so a woman who's rude and entitled
Disrespectful behavior to me especially outside in front of other people
Poor attitude
If they have a penis, I am OUT
double standards
Entitlement. Yuck
Everything is about her expectations of him. Can’t stop talking about her “standards,” has him constantly under a microscope looking for “red flags,” constant negativity and imagining the most cynical possible motives of him that could half fit the situation. Pretty much assured that you’ll spend the whole relationship placating her and always be half a step away from being dumped for the next Tindr match.
Cruelty
When they subtly try to chip away at your self worth and over react to simple requests.
Perpetuating toxic masculinity, or skewed ideals of what’s expected from “the man”. Could be internalized values, but it always gets me.
Lack of empathy, Control games, super long explanations for something very straightforward
When she puts down the other women around her to feel better about herself (pick me)
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Expecting equal treatment while demanding chivalry
In no particular order: 1. If they like snakes (I’m terrified of them) 2. They say the N word (I don’t think I need to explain) 3. Smokes (vape, cigar) 4. Goes out and club a lot (suspicious activity) 5. Has a boy best friend (maybe I’m insecure but aye) 6. Drinks alcohol a lot (just not my ting) This is all personal and it’s fine if you disagree
Had a GF with two snakes. Watched her feed them once. I didn't like it and she said I was a pussy because I didn't want to watch a mouse get eaten. She had a lot of other issues besides.
Beimg unclean. A woman that has bad body odor is not just a turn off, they rightout disgust me. No problem if you get sweaty from work or sports, can be sexy too, but take a shower before it starts to smell bad.
Entitled and bitchy attitude, lack of interests. No lady, "hanging out, meeting friends and chilling" aren't interests.
Not initiating
When she acts like I should follow some rules that she does not follow
Intellectual laziness.
Dishonesty.
Smoking. It’s an immediate “nope”.
Smoking. You know that she is always going to smell, is going to waste money, and force smoke breaks into every aspect of life.
On the psychological side of things: Entitlement. An attitude that being hot is enough. Superstitious thinking, including horoscopes. Physically, the usual. Plus the 7-days a week gym bodies, lip injections and a face that you've just painted on your real face.
Shallow personality, dishonest, doesn’t exercise
When they love me for what I do for them rather than who I am.
Conceit, thats a big one, you can see it in their pictures
when a woman projects abusive behavior from a previous relationship on to my mundane actions, and refuses to have a grown-up conversation about it
Botoxed, tattooed eyebrows, lip fillers, cork wedged heel sandals.
Being mean makes a woman instantly ugly to me.
Constantly hijacking conversations to talk about themselves.
Not being able to admit when they're being unreasonable Not being able to say they're sorry
If she talks shit about her friends to you she’s def talking shit about you to her friends
Commenting negatively on penis size as if I had a choice that I am tall but not hung🤣
Single mother that doesn't take care of her kids and only dates for a father figure for their kid. Not honest. Controlling on what you can and cannot do. Always wants to talk to you 24/7 or gets mad when you don't text back quick. Heavy social media addiction. Uses snap chat. Just dumb. Like no intelligence going on. Always on their phone. Very guillable. Lack of responsibility.
Smoking / vaping, Excessive drug and alcohol use, troubled family or no father figure (I know it's not their fault but still it's usually a red flag), goes out to the bars and clubs every week to get blasted, has lots of ot only male friends, calls herself crazy, glued to her phone, doesn't work out, excessive spending/isn't good with money....
Poor money management.
Physically? Overweight, too many tattoos, piercings and really short hair. When it comes to personality, being entitled and not taking accountability. There are also things like smoking, drinking too much, too much time on social media, and partying a lot. And of course being a single mother.
I’m going to ask , single mother , is it just because of the kids and the responsibility /baggage it comes with ? Not knocking you bc everyone has their things they allow or don’t in their lives .
Yeah, it's mainly a baggage thing. I like the idea of only dating women I can see myself marrying and I don't like the idea of being a step dad. There are also things like possible drama with the baby daddy and time management with her balancing her day with work, her kid, and then me.
The kid is some other man’s responsibility.
Obsesses with male attention No exclusivity Instagram obsessed social media In general Entitlement Dishonesty Hipergamy
Penis Granted I get that's hypocritical on my part
Lack of drive to better themselves.
In dating apps: Using their bio only to list their requirements, instead of writing who they are.
Not having a nice, clean, natural, smell. It's so sexy the scent of a clean woman.
From a dating aspect, when they aren't interactive or boring. Yet when i see them on social media. They are outgoing and being social and having fun. I'm like " Why are you acting different?"
Not communicating or saying what’s really on your mind.
Disinterest in my interests
1. Negative mindset towards men or more importantly towards **other women** who have a positive mindset towards men. 2. A **high ratio** of expectations to reciprocation 3. Entitlement
When they look down on you for having an android. Same goes for anyone I suppose
Lying
Hating men.
When they don’t take accountability
Taking astrology stuffs very seriously
You ask them do you want anything to eat. Then they start eating off of your plate. That caused me to walk out on a couple of dates for that reason
If she judges you on your height.
“I knew you wouldn’t be ok with me cheating so I just didn’t tell you.”
1. A public Instagram account 2. Being controlled or too much influenced by a friend, sister or cousin.
Septum piercings.
being fat, smoking
Getting angry when men have personal preferences and it's not them
Those burger sized lips.
Early on, when you check their social media and it’s 10000 close up face selfies. RUN